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  • Have you met a woman or girl who piques your interest but, you simply don't have the cojones to approach her and start a meaningful conversation? This video is for you
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  • @TENBALZ
    @TENBALZ Před 2 lety +320

    back in my day I would imagine that the girl I'm about to approach is just another guy lol , this helped initiate a friendly conversation and made me look less creepy and nervous.

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety +8

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

    • @claudiakendra4938
      @claudiakendra4938 Před 2 lety +2

      Lol

    • @geuakaumayam9951
      @geuakaumayam9951 Před 2 lety +2

      LoL that works for me too

    • @isaacwest1108
      @isaacwest1108 Před 2 lety +1

      Ikr.... Same here

    • @promiseeniola
      @promiseeniola Před 2 lety +3

      Waoo this is really a good trick too😩😂

  • @teammaster2178
    @teammaster2178 Před 2 lety +33

    (I speak Spanish) This video is the best recommendation CZcams has given me in a long time. Fabulous.
    I also suffer from that problem; Shyness. At 26 years old, I've only had one relationship (which ended very badly) and my social circle is almost non-existent. I would love to turn that around and socialize more to make meaningful friendships. Thank you for the excellent content.

  • @vincentonyango9801
    @vincentonyango9801 Před 2 lety +19

    I've fallen in love with you Jessica.
    Every time I watch your videos I feel so happy,thanks a lot.

  • @ekoueks3995
    @ekoueks3995 Před 2 lety +63

    Practice makes perfect.Thanks Jess Jess.Whenever I have fear i just jump right in what frightens me.I'm now getting more and more confident.

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety +1

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @fonjidilan7544
    @fonjidilan7544 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much Jessica. I was really having a hard time trying to start a conversation with someone I just meet and video lesson you dropped here really helped me out

  • @stevemakayi1036
    @stevemakayi1036 Před 2 lety +2

    You are AMAZING Jessica! Thank you!

  • @zeesa7639
    @zeesa7639 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm so addicted to this channel ! Much love from SA we love you

  • @kojoagyekumboateng1997
    @kojoagyekumboateng1997 Před 2 lety +42

    Your support for us(men) is great..thanks Jess😘

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @kemekenneth
    @kemekenneth Před 2 lety +1

    I love your hair, your command of language, your composure, you're simply amazing.

  • @jonathanabbrey5395
    @jonathanabbrey5395 Před 2 lety +3

    I came back just to have a recap of everything she said . You are the best ❤️

  • @jonkamau5473
    @jonkamau5473 Před rokem

    thank you Jessica. You had me binge watching on your personal development videos

  • @kojokoranteng4293
    @kojokoranteng4293 Před 2 lety +2

    Very grateful for this message 🔥❤️

  • @butchharris7832
    @butchharris7832 Před 2 lety +3

    Hey thanks Jessica for your incites in s much needed conversation for me. Your first point helped immensly, thank you.

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 Před 2 lety +91

    Jessica, I love your mode of operation!
    You are an individual that certainly impact lives and make a difference 🌎💯

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety +2

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

    • @mpendulohlatywayo6969
      @mpendulohlatywayo6969 Před 2 lety +2

      @@naijafinanceacademy on 9th hh

  • @bird7830
    @bird7830 Před 2 lety +17

    Thanks for always having our back 🙌🏽🙏🏾

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @kingiibluelyrics
    @kingiibluelyrics Před 2 lety

    I always like your videos, learning everything about relationships, not missing anything

  • @tomstephen6526
    @tomstephen6526 Před 2 lety +10

    Our Mentor 🥺💯🤗 I wonder how can someone watch without subscribing 😩

  • @derrickmunyoki390
    @derrickmunyoki390 Před 2 lety +28

    Africa is proud of you Jess❤️ good job keep up ... following from Kenya

  • @TedVeroTV
    @TedVeroTV Před 2 lety +15

    Such solid advice, truth! 🙏🏿🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @ebenreggie1966
    @ebenreggie1966 Před 2 lety +1

    Can’t get enough of you Jess ..

  • @kizitoramadhan5706
    @kizitoramadhan5706 Před 2 lety

    Thanks big sis. Love to see the channel growing.content🔥🔥🔥

  • @southydave9904
    @southydave9904 Před 2 lety +4

    All your topics are on point!!!!!!

  • @martinadeyemi1457
    @martinadeyemi1457 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Jessica, you're Heaven Sent.

  • @Othersidewithtoy
    @Othersidewithtoy Před 2 lety +1

    Watching the video at the right time I needed it ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @guy6828
    @guy6828 Před rokem

    Hey I just want to say thanks you don't know how much this has helped

  • @josephgatambia5679
    @josephgatambia5679 Před 2 lety +14

    Thank you Jessica for sharing your wisdom with us,It's a problem with the majority of men,fear comes especially when you feel a woman is way above your league and if she's not paying attention to you..this makes you nervous and insecure and you end up getting rejected

    • @smugisha
      @smugisha Před 2 lety +1

      I think I also got rejected ...

    • @troytruong8246
      @troytruong8246 Před rokem

      I never had problems with attracting cute and beautiful women growing up. Im 38yoa now. I only asked for the girls numbers(cold approach) 3 times in my life, and they all gave it to me. I just got rejected recently by this girl at my gym with "i have a bf". I knew she does not a bf! I did my detective work! My pride and ego is hurting! Lol

  • @naijafinanceacademy
    @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety +24

    Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @dr.lameckondabu9210
    @dr.lameckondabu9210 Před rokem

    Thanks for wonderful messages

  • @iamBabeKE
    @iamBabeKE Před 2 lety +35

    Thank you Jess. I think at times what makes one feel intimidated by a lady is low self esteem. The moment you believe in yourself and you feel self adequate you'll always go for that Jewel. Otherwise the show teaches me new things everytime I watch

  • @keinesaffa8182
    @keinesaffa8182 Před rokem +2

    So educative,greetings from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱!

  • @africa-america9991
    @africa-america9991 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh my God... This video is for me!!! Everything said is true... never approached a lady b4 n am 27...

  • @kingedward5425
    @kingedward5425 Před 2 lety +1

    This topic is for me...thanks a lot Jessica

  • @ibrahimisah9678
    @ibrahimisah9678 Před rokem

    Wow!! For some weird reason, I’m watching this video for the first time at a point in my life when i might actually need it.

  • @humbleprince9771
    @humbleprince9771 Před 2 lety +5

    Watching your channel everyday for months now have really changed my game ✅

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @jonathantapiwamapadza4129

    you are really good at what you do, its been helpful..😙

  • @chilled_Xtian
    @chilled_Xtian Před 2 lety +2

    Love love love this💯❤️❤️

  • @gradymorrrowjr37
    @gradymorrrowjr37 Před 2 lety +26

    I gathered enough courage to speak to this beautiful lady at my job we're cool and we always have a decent conversation when you can make a woman laugh then you're in there cause you got her partial attention 💯

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @adedirandanielkorede3652
    @adedirandanielkorede3652 Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you for the ideas. Very relatable

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @tiripa_bright
    @tiripa_bright Před 2 lety +3

    I’m new here, but I feel the quality of your videos 💯✌️🥰 your videos content is on point 💯😇

  • @thecreativetrix976
    @thecreativetrix976 Před 2 lety +2

    Jessica dishing out hints back to back. 🙂

  • @christianudorie9121
    @christianudorie9121 Před 2 lety +42

    Great tips.. you organise your lectures so well, it's not difficult to understand... I think most men just over rate the consequences of rejection and they overthink the approach which makes it weird eventually...

    • @e.r.videography6209
      @e.r.videography6209 Před 2 lety

      Yeah right! I disagree with the overthink part

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

    • @claudiakendra4938
      @claudiakendra4938 Před 2 lety

      Yeah a guy said this to me that some men fear rejection

  • @alexkakooza3116
    @alexkakooza3116 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for sharing these tips seriously..I too, am a bit shy

  • @frankhoenyefia3601
    @frankhoenyefia3601 Před 2 lety +8

    Hi Jessica, I love it. Your content is great so keep it up

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @banana9jatv123
    @banana9jatv123 Před 2 lety

    You have just talk to me, thank so much for this presentation aunty Jessica. Am greatful

  • @jimmywanjiru6327
    @jimmywanjiru6327 Před 2 lety +1

    Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @Atom_of_Africa
    @Atom_of_Africa Před 2 lety

    Great topic 👍. Love from Nigeria

  • @vinnykenya2
    @vinnykenya2 Před 2 lety +2

    You are so 💕 and i enjoy listening to you thank you for that

  • @rafanyu9240
    @rafanyu9240 Před 2 lety +3

    This question of what's the worst that can happen seems so easy but the effects or consequences of what come after a negative interaction can be so deep
    Like mad deep
    If I'm suffering from depression or low self-esteem a no to some one I like and bear in mind I may get see the all the time is just mad deep to me

  • @TTashi22
    @TTashi22 Před 2 lety

    I have watched all ypur videos . Again again.. thank you so much..

  • @michaelg7456
    @michaelg7456 Před 2 lety +4

    Hi Jessica! Another great topic! 👏👏👏

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo Před 2 lety +87

    Love this! Also! For all great warriors out there who is reading this, if you want that dream lady, JUST LISTEN TO HER and HAVE HER TALK ABOUT NOTHING! We can’t explain it why but we’re so infatuated when a warrior just listen to us. That also applies with everyone of course but, warriors, here me out: Listen to the lady.. Ladies, am I telling the truth? ✨🌷❤️

  • @sarahboakye7691
    @sarahboakye7691 Před 2 lety +7

    Great video as always Jessica 👏❤️

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @annexesouffrance3838
    @annexesouffrance3838 Před rokem

    Jessie, I like your videos, congratulations!

  • @kobbylarbi676
    @kobbylarbi676 Před rokem

    Mama Jessy..Heavy love for ur works.♥️

  • @entrepreneur3605
    @entrepreneur3605 Před 2 lety +1

    Jessica you are a magician! Jxt this afternoon I was wondering about this.

  • @Caesar96_
    @Caesar96_ Před 2 lety +2

    Absolutely relieving 😊

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @Jigsaw_442
    @Jigsaw_442 Před 10 měsíci

    Just had a breakup today and it really hit hard but I’m a fast healer physically and emotionally so I’m going to move on with my life and continue my journey till the end.
    Thanks for this informational video I really enjoyed it :)

  • @_debbison
    @_debbison Před rokem +2

    Approaching girls isn't all about self confidence but rather goes with what words you gonna use.. It's makes mind blowing when you have the confidence but the words are not coming..

  • @egertonkamara4453
    @egertonkamara4453 Před 2 lety

    Salute straight from Sierra Leone in Africa 🇸🇱

  • @patricknjenga8735
    @patricknjenga8735 Před 2 lety +1

    Following your channel from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @HussainNasif
    @HussainNasif Před měsícem

    wow! like seriously. such an amazing lession this is

  • @fegursonokwori8193
    @fegursonokwori8193 Před rokem

    Hi Jessica, nice video once again. I am always shy approaching a lady because of rejection. I'm quite a funny guy and I am going to use this skill to endear my crush toward me. Every time I watch your video, I'm full of confidence. Thanks once again. Love from 9ja

  • @michaelkariuki5350
    @michaelkariuki5350 Před 2 lety +2

    Jessica,ooooh🤩the timing🤲🙌🙌...cmon, give me a high 5

  • @marvinskunda5756
    @marvinskunda5756 Před 2 lety +12

    Your lessons are always useful.. thank you 🙏💁

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @georgelutterodt2777
    @georgelutterodt2777 Před 2 lety

    I like this woman’s tips ,you good at this

  • @jeckreacher8210
    @jeckreacher8210 Před 2 lety

    One of you fans from🇰🇪

  • @classicsofmcmchi6430
    @classicsofmcmchi6430 Před rokem

    Exactly... That's what I do to get to know people and it's actually

  • @jessearthur4012
    @jessearthur4012 Před rokem

    Thank you sister.

  • @estherclifford4785
    @estherclifford4785 Před 2 lety +1

    Looking pretty Jess. Much love 💜❤💚 insightful. 👍

  • @asumansentamu6475
    @asumansentamu6475 Před rokem

    Thank Jessica ❤️

  • @Dakorah_ucif
    @Dakorah_ucif Před 2 lety

    Great job.... This is what they call #show_working

  • @mikemasango8243
    @mikemasango8243 Před 2 lety

    Totally awesome

  • @othellocampbell6839
    @othellocampbell6839 Před 2 lety +4

    Your experiences in life shape your character.

  • @lushozi_93
    @lushozi_93 Před rokem

    I love this topic 😍😍

  • @musalahassan4003
    @musalahassan4003 Před 2 lety +1

    Jessica i love listening to u,u r so sweeeeet

  • @kingkayd7897
    @kingkayd7897 Před 2 lety +7

    This is most definitely me. I walk around campus just wanting to make female friends and end up with zero, sometimes even with guys

  • @Askmenza2
    @Askmenza2 Před 2 lety +2

    this is nice,,,keep up with the good job,,@@@🇰🇪

  • @henryodison9672
    @henryodison9672 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Jessica

  • @chishimbabc4004
    @chishimbabc4004 Před 2 lety

    My genius mentor 🙌😍

  • @user-mg3kc4zy5p
    @user-mg3kc4zy5p Před 7 měsíci

    Tnx sis,Jessi

  • @alexjacome4912
    @alexjacome4912 Před 2 lety +3

    Not my problem I always have great conversations with my girl I'm not shy in anyway, she was my best friend for over 2 years so we understand each other perfectly.

  • @Xafokantanka
    @Xafokantanka Před 2 lety +17

    Dealing with shame is actually everything! Thanks Jessica✊

  • @kennedytonyeviadzi9467

    Good tips there dear👌✌️❤️😊

  • @jonesnyirenda
    @jonesnyirenda Před 2 lety

    i always like her videos before i even watch them

  • @asharvinbonke
    @asharvinbonke Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you Jessica you're my mentor I really appreciate for your wonderful work your doing

  • @pennthelast
    @pennthelast Před rokem

    Thanks

  • @N_Ebenezer
    @N_Ebenezer Před 2 lety +2

    I like the cadence of your speech J

  • @patrickafriyie1512
    @patrickafriyie1512 Před 2 lety +1

    my problem has been solved finally 🥰🥰❤️

  • @derrickbondzie7871
    @derrickbondzie7871 Před 2 lety +22

    I always wait for my phone to ding with Jessica’s post ♥️ I so addicted to hearing her talk☺️ it puts my demons to rest🥺

    • @theo72784
      @theo72784 Před 2 lety +3

      You too?! Lol
      I thought her voice only had that affect on me. 😍

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před 2 lety +2

      Awwwww. ❤❤❤❤

    • @vickymawutor5213
      @vickymawutor5213 Před 2 lety +5

      As for Jessica....even the ladies like her too...in a good way. You're a great mentor.

    • @SnatchedbyThel
      @SnatchedbyThel Před 2 lety +2

      @@vickymawutor5213 true hun

    • @iamaftergodsownheart...6314
      @iamaftergodsownheart...6314 Před 2 lety

      @@vickymawutor5213 She is hot 🔥 🥵 🥰

  • @user-gt2ch5cb3f
    @user-gt2ch5cb3f Před 3 měsíci

    thanks cic us teach alot

  • @sebitmajakmalual6969
    @sebitmajakmalual6969 Před 2 lety

    luv you all the way from South Sudan 🇸🇸

  • @adesugbatomi4730
    @adesugbatomi4730 Před 2 lety

    Wish I saw this last night…came across a girl today and wanted to start a conversation but I couldn’t and she left, now I’m regretting but hopefully I see her again and this would help me

  • @testimonyamu5330
    @testimonyamu5330 Před 2 lety +11

    Africa is so proud to have you ❤️💕♥️ Jessi thanks all the way from South Africa...God Bless you.

    • @tksongsTV
      @tksongsTV Před 2 lety

      Ghana are proud to have her, when its good thing u claim it to be africa but when is bad thing you point ur fingers to the specific country.

    • @testimonyamu5330
      @testimonyamu5330 Před 2 lety

      @@tksongsTV Good morning...I wish I knew what you were talking about...

    • @tksongsTV
      @tksongsTV Před 2 lety

      @@testimonyamu5330good morning, I knew you understood very well exactly what am trying to say. How many south africa appreciate like and accept other Africans countries citizen?

    • @testimonyamu5330
      @testimonyamu5330 Před 2 lety

      @@tksongsTV Good morning ..m not sure about numbers or should I say how many south Africans....but my friend m an African n proud to be... Africa is Ghana... Egypt.. Nigeria..Malawi... Ethiopia...etc..pls what are you talking about be more specific...

    • @tksongsTV
      @tksongsTV Před 2 lety

      @@testimonyamu5330 lool😅.. The ones who smart like u from SA always play hard to get, God bless anyway, I am South African my self.

  • @guy6828
    @guy6828 Před rokem

    You just got a new sub

  • @njugunahilary
    @njugunahilary Před 2 lety +1

    This is really insightful, thankyou Jessica ❤

  • @degraftmiah875
    @degraftmiah875 Před rokem

    I like the gunshot thing [pow!] haha. Great vid tho

  • @rosedonna7278
    @rosedonna7278 Před rokem

    I need more of your videos 😊

  • @obinnaokonkwo248
    @obinnaokonkwo248 Před 2 lety +1

    Very interesting and really educating content.

    • @naijafinanceacademy
      @naijafinanceacademy Před 2 lety

      Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.

  • @blackmusicentertainment_gh

    This is a major problem for some of the guys like me

  • @danielkibet8419
    @danielkibet8419 Před 2 lety +4

    This is morefire 🔥🔥🔥 you make me strong everyday sweetie ❤️🥰🥳🥳