Jamez, you're such a great storyteller. You had me smiling from ear to ear the whole video! If only we could hear her perspective about the foreigner not understanding her signals lol.
ya it's a cultural thing. She expected you to keep going. That's the reason she didn't seem fully satisfied with the outcomes and kept coming back at you. A general thing from personal experience: _GUYS PLEASE_ (The women here may not like to hear that, but this is my _SERIOUS ADVICE TO EVERY GUY_ out there) STOP LISTENING TO WOMEN. (_ESPECIALLY_ your Dates, GFs, wifes, mothers, shrinks, teachers.) Really. You need to have your OWN PLAN upfront. And then you take charge and DO YOUR THING. In my younger dating- and relationship-years I have always asked women what they want and how they want it. The outcomes were usually terrible - depressing to devastating. The reason for the problem: Simply talking to the woman asking her, getting the information from her and completing the task to her satisfaction sounds good _in theory_ but it's _HOW MEN THINK_ and WORK. With a woman _DOESN'T work like that_ . (Even if she claims otherwise- Bro, don't listen to her!) You will set yourself up to fail, if you let her make the decisions. I'm not kidding. Always remember: Women usually they don't know what they want/need and if they know they won't tell you - because you're the guy and they expect the guy to be a smart enough leader to figure it out. It's like an evolutionary test for reproduction. So the only thing that happens when you try to make it right for the ladies: You won't make it right and you give up being the leader. When you're not in charge of the situation, you are not in the role of 'the man' anymore. It makes the man appear less attractive in her eyes. She might still play around with him but things will develop "somehow" with an unclear outcome. That's my personal opinion. Not to encourage boundary violations or offend sensitive souls. best regards from Berlin, Your Host Rekko ⚜ urban scavengers
That’s stupid especially when it comes to sex That can literally set a guy up. I get it, it’s cultural but cmon man. The mental gymnastics are ridiculous
I lost it when you said you didn't want to get MeToo'd. 🤣🤣🤣 Bruh She blueballed the f**k out of you bro. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 She used you for her "Gaijin" experience especially her documenting it with the pics, also showing you off to her friends with the revealing shirt. 🤣🤣🤣 Bro next time I'm in Japan, let me buy you a beer or some Yakitori for that story.
Hey man, I like you, lol. You seem down to Earth. I'm gonna listen to more of your vlogs. I live in Japan, so I can relate and believe your words. The struggle of dating is real out. I live and visit other countries in Asia and other women are no where near convoluted as Japanese. She was throwing clear signs, just throw your reciprocation out the window. 😂
Ive seen a similar comment somewhere in your channel here and there, but you are the perfect person to listen while working out, except for your description of being mass blue balled, chuckled so hard it made me fail my set at least like twice. Im also moving to japan in like 15 days for around 2 years, so watching your videos and advice and stuff is pretty damn insightful too.
I fully agree brother (I might word it a bit diffenrent, at least when posting with this account). Here in Germany men have also been pressured/conditioned (by women) to be overly careful with women. Now the women complain about weak men - well, that's why I say: we figure it out ourselfs. For guidance I use accomplished and competent older men as role models✌cheers Rekko
@@KhariShootYourShot92 You spoke your mind from a man's perspective with authenticity and some edginess. That's the men we really need 👍 I still haven't fully rooted out feminism from my brain.(Germany.. i tell you man). This endeavour got even tougher since Mr. Kevin Samuels is not with us any longer. Edginess and an authentic male perspective were his signature (and *_thousands of women kept pursuing him, to ask especially this man for advice_* just saying folks). Best regards, viele Grüße aus Berlin, Rekko
Looks like she just wanted to make out and show her "gaijin boyfriend" to her friends. To me it seems she does not consider what youve done so far the "real deed" and would only go further if you kept going on dates and stuff, like a real boyfriend. Probably not that savvy on the hook up culture.. Kudos to you for not insisting tho, I do find the whole "stop please" and crying during it so freaking weird... Its a really big cultural difference
bro sorry to break it to you but this wont happen to you unless you have colored eyes. You are not considered white in japan even though you are white to the world. Japanese girls are not attracted to dark hair and dark eyes. Only blonde blue eyed guys get this messages and propositions. Your best bet would be china. If this guy had dark eyes, trust me it would be over for him because his face isn't that attractive. If you however have dark eyes or dark hair but look sort like V from BTS you will get these messages.
There was some funny stuff in that. Good story. It’s a shame about what happened but I mean she is probably sweet enough, just big cultural differences.
Is the cheating thing about Japan really true? I hear one side saying its very prevlant (stats Japan is just under Europe when it comes to cheating) while another side is saying that it aint that bad? Idfk whats going on der lad
From my experience and my circle of friends, it’s way more accepted than it is in America. I have a small sample size but I was really astounded to see how easily people sleep around while in relationships and it’s not really frowned upon
So the crazy part of this is that if you translate dame in Spanish it’s give me so I was dying that whole time cause I would have been mad confused as well
@@benhethaasje5715 because I live here and know how people cheat, talk about cheating, and view cheating. It’s pretty widely accepted as just a part of life
@@yungjamez312 That’s crazy man… I’m dating a Japanese girl that I met in Europe some years ago. We’re doing long distance for about a year now, but we’ve spend several holidays together and are planing to live together in Japan or Europe soon. We’ve talked about cheating and we seem to agree on boundaries etc. (But hé, a cheater would say the same probably right, so you can never know for sure) I however trust her. I have never been to Japan nor do I know anything about the cheating culture, but I always wonder when people say things like this, whether they might be biased. Could it for example not be that you think this way, because you pretty much only get to date the cheating “gainjin hunters”? In the same way that a lot of OF girls seem to think that all man cheat, because all they see is desperate married man trying to hook up with them.
@@benhethaasje5715 no, because I’m not talking from personal experience. I’m talking about my Japanese friends and hearing how they talk about cheating and how they cheat. Can give real examples of multiple Japanese friends cheating and their peers acting like it’s just normal when I question it. As opposed to America, people don’t admit that they cheat, are usually embarrassed if they have, or their peers will scold them for it
I'm just curious, what if you said to that girl "Hey look, in my country and in my culture we are more direct, if you wanna do something sexual with me just tell me, I know when you say yamete maybe you just want action, but that's illegal in my country" Or something like that. I think that's an advance japanese language level to explain it. Maybe the girl would change her opinion, or just don't give a shit haha
Direct is nice and good but that's how men operate. It works in the military and between bros, but women don't think like men.. that's where it get's complicated
I'm agree with you, but I think japanese girls have extra steps, I only watched some videos about that japanese topic. Anyway I think I need to try the real experience at japan 🤔
@@DarkReality-dr1ci of course man. In terms of height, it’s not as big of a deal here considering the average Japanese male height is pretty low. Other things make it very hard, but height isn’t one of them
Jamez, you're such a great storyteller. You had me smiling from ear to ear the whole video! If only we could hear her perspective about the foreigner not understanding her signals lol.
peak storytelling
true bro, i thought _excactly_ the same👌
I’m glad your organs are still intact
glad you got all of em still
haha
I love the bench setup I feel like I’m right there with you as you’re telling the story glad you made it out alive haha
Thank you dawg
Best raw storytelling ever😂😂😂 haven’t laughed this much from a CZcamsr, ever. Definitely got the gift of gab 👊🏻
🤣 thanks brotha
bro, but you know that it's also a cultural thing. Japanese women are saying "no" even if they mean "yes".
ya it's a cultural thing. She expected you to keep going. That's the reason she didn't seem fully satisfied with the outcomes and kept coming back at you.
A general thing from personal experience:
_GUYS PLEASE_ (The women here may not like to hear that, but this is my _SERIOUS ADVICE TO EVERY GUY_ out there)
STOP LISTENING TO WOMEN. (_ESPECIALLY_ your Dates, GFs, wifes, mothers, shrinks, teachers.)
Really. You need to have your OWN PLAN upfront. And then you take charge and DO YOUR THING.
In my younger dating- and relationship-years I have always asked women what they want and how they want it. The outcomes were usually terrible - depressing to devastating.
The reason for the problem:
Simply talking to the woman asking her, getting the information from her and completing the task to her satisfaction sounds good _in theory_ but it's _HOW MEN THINK_ and WORK.
With a woman _DOESN'T work like that_ . (Even if she claims otherwise- Bro, don't listen to her!) You will set yourself up to fail, if you let her make the decisions.
I'm not kidding.
Always remember: Women usually they don't know what they want/need and if they know they won't tell you - because you're the guy and they expect the guy to be a smart enough leader to figure it out. It's like an evolutionary test for reproduction.
So the only thing that happens when you try to make it right for the ladies: You won't make it right and you give up being the leader. When you're not in charge of the situation, you are not in the role of 'the man' anymore. It makes the man appear less attractive in her eyes. She might still play around with him but things will develop "somehow" with an unclear outcome.
That's my personal opinion. Not to encourage boundary violations or offend sensitive souls.
best regards from Berlin, Your Host Rekko
⚜ urban scavengers
yes I heard that too
@@urbanscavengers ya rekko soon to be getting me tooed :...D
@@alice.snowwhite :D torches and pitchforks
but i see it the same 👍
That’s stupid especially when it comes to sex
That can literally set a guy up.
I get it, it’s cultural but cmon man.
The mental gymnastics are ridiculous
I’m not even a man and this story gave me blue balls.
😂
Hey knuckledragger! Release the demons! 😂
This sounds like great material for a a song called ..Blue balls at Mount Fuji 🗻 lmao
Bro I love your account, shit had me dying in this story
bro u do an outstanding job on your free style keep it up!!
Thanks man wish I had a long list of stories like this to tell but that just needs I need to get into more stuff
@@yungjamez312 no worries you have a lot more then u think u do ..
This story is hysterical lmao. Keep it up brotha
Lol! Glad you enjoy my pain bro
Dude you owe me, I woke up my wife laughing at your story.
Sorry bro I got you IHOP on me
good title, you attracted our attention
aye
your german audience is growing
so sieht's aus
😊
I'm not sayin' people who are knocked out want tea. I'm just sayin' you should be able to drink tea next to someone who doesn't want tea...
your female impression is very convincing
This story was insane 😂😂. Dude, what a pain ass experience
Im ngl bro I think the headache was your body physically rejecting this girl
My favorite video of yours haha. Is the discord still pretty active?
Thanks! More active than ever
Lets gooo storytime with Jimmy
Story time with daddy
Bro the sounds LMFAO nah im dead XD
Great story! I was totally prepared to not like you, but instead I feel bad for you. She really put you through hell.
I treat ur stuff as background while I do chores or workouts, always fun to listen to. Like the longer videos much love keep it up bro
Thanks for the support!
she thought she had herself a boy toy 😆
Bro had two sonics in his pants, talk about torture :/
LMAO... bruh I couldn't stop laughing when u were imitating her speech pattern... God damn I was literally laughing 6min straight
Would be funnier if you saw how accurate it really was 🤣
I lost it when you said you didn't want to get MeToo'd.
🤣🤣🤣 Bruh
She blueballed the f**k out of you bro. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 She used you for her "Gaijin" experience especially her documenting it with the pics, also showing you off to her friends with the revealing shirt. 🤣🤣🤣
Bro next time I'm in Japan, let me buy you a beer or some Yakitori for that story.
Hey man, I like you, lol. You seem down to Earth. I'm gonna listen to more of your vlogs. I live in Japan, so I can relate and believe your words. The struggle of dating is real out. I live and visit other countries in Asia and other women are no where near convoluted as Japanese. She was throwing clear signs, just throw your reciprocation out the window. 😂
I like the random intrusive thoughts in your stories lmao 🤣
Ive seen a similar comment somewhere in your channel here and there, but you are the perfect person to listen while working out, except for your description of being mass blue balled, chuckled so hard it made me fail my set at least like twice. Im also moving to japan in like 15 days for around 2 years, so watching your videos and advice and stuff is pretty damn insightful too.
Oh great! Glad you’re coming here. I’m sure you’ll love it. Thanks for the support man
You gotta forget that metoo shit trust me I felt the same way as an American that dame means keep going haha
I fully agree brother (I might word it a bit diffenrent, at least when posting with this account). Here in Germany men have also been pressured/conditioned (by women) to be overly careful with women. Now the women complain about weak men - well, that's why I say: we figure it out ourselfs. For guidance I use accomplished and competent older men as role models✌cheers Rekko
@@urbanscavengers Facts I was thinking i should have worded it differently also but so be it
@@KhariShootYourShot92 You spoke your mind from a man's perspective with authenticity and some edginess. That's the men we really need 👍 I still haven't fully rooted out feminism from my brain.(Germany.. i tell you man). This endeavour got even tougher since Mr. Kevin Samuels is not with us any longer. Edginess and an authentic male perspective were his signature (and *_thousands of women kept pursuing him, to ask especially this man for advice_* just saying folks). Best regards, viele Grüße aus Berlin, Rekko
Dude, You did the right thing. No means no.
@@besscollins3163 Japanese Sex: When No Can Mean Yes!! (Interview)
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This story is crazy I’m sorry I’m laughing at your pain 😂 need more of these types of story’s
This had me creasing. More of these bro
Ahaha thanks for watching bro
I thoroughly enjoyed your story. Hahahaha. She psycho 😅 I felt every fiber of your frustration lol
sounds like this experience taught you not to censor yourself.
So glad i found your channel a couple weeks ago you're hilarious bro
Welcome brotha
Damn. . . I'm glad I found this hell of a treasure videos
🤣 thanks for watching!
Absolute cinema
I wish this experience was fake brother 😂 massive respect 🫡
You probably had a small concussion, I got something similar after an amusement park one time. You neck strength may not have been good at that time.
You may be right fr
This is soo funny!!😂
bro this shit was hilarious!!
Ahaha yeah this is the one I was telling you about bro
21:32 🤘🏻 very funny 😂 nice story
Please make more stories like that
Haha I’ve got a few more but none as crazy as this! I’ll do my best tho!
bro has no filter
Literally
you talking about the headache made me get a headache
It was seriously so bad, man…
weak mental
Looks like she just wanted to make out and show her "gaijin boyfriend" to her friends. To me it seems she does not consider what youve done so far the "real deed" and would only go further if you kept going on dates and stuff, like a real boyfriend. Probably not that savvy on the hook up culture.. Kudos to you for not insisting tho, I do find the whole "stop please" and crying during it so freaking weird... Its a really big cultural difference
i didn't fully believe you until you showed those pictures. i can't breathe you look so dead in those pictures 😂
😂😂😂 you're really don't mind people laughed at your pity experience
Japan girls...
Japan girls never changes...
Your best video
Glad you enjoy my suffering!
Do you do like private coaching on Japanese dating advice ? Or on discord simply ?
step one dont be french
@@user-gp3qv8jn3g Wtf ? 🤣 Why ?
nah they like the french ngl@@user-gp3qv8jn3g
@@user-gp3qv8jn3g :D good one bro.
but step two is: the girls don't like racists
bro sorry to break it to you but this wont happen to you unless you have colored eyes. You are not considered white in japan even though you are white to the world.
Japanese girls are not attracted to dark hair and dark eyes.
Only blonde blue eyed guys get this messages and propositions.
Your best bet would be china.
If this guy had dark eyes, trust me it would be over for him because his face isn't that attractive. If you however have dark eyes or dark hair but look sort like V from BTS you will get these messages.
Crazy story
Any chance it was an elaborate scam?
Bro Burnham
Poor girl just wanted to take it slow and have a nice date.
How long have you been in Japan doing your study abroad for?
Almost 2 years
There was some funny stuff in that. Good story. It’s a shame about what happened but I mean she is probably sweet enough, just big cultural differences.
talk yo shit king
You remind me of my uncle
lmaooo bro, what a rollercoaster of a day. You played it right. I can't say I'd do any different ahahahah. One of those days, one of those days
21:10 see you knew it yourself
21:40 lmao wtf 😂
Is the cheating thing about Japan really true? I hear one side saying its very prevlant (stats Japan is just under Europe when it comes to cheating) while another side is saying that it aint that bad? Idfk whats going on der lad
From my experience and my circle of friends, it’s way more accepted than it is in America. I have a small sample size but I was really astounded to see how easily people sleep around while in relationships and it’s not really frowned upon
It depends on the people. It's very frowned upon if you cheat with someone that is married.
lol this video reminds me of the videos "Hiding In My Room" used to make about his ex gfs in Japan. obv tho you are more likable
The bottom right picture of you too. I could literally feel through the screen what you were feeling that day.
Hahahaha I’ve never been more miserable
I have no idea who you are but this is hilarious. How the hell do you get cock-blocked and blue-balled twice? 😭
this is funny
Funny guy
No means yes in Japan its true I've been there dude had shit like this happen many times metoo doesnt exist here
Yup. Had this lots. Although as I’ve got older the “wait” has got considerably shorter.
bruh she used you to play a role of a shoujo manga female protaganist lol you can tell from the fact she let you sleep in the bed and stopped ur moves
" it is so fun to tease you " as she turns her back to you...bruh this bish using you as manga material 😂
this story was fire I was laughin my ass off listening during my workout, wouldn't mind more longer videos (you got trolled hard)
I got baited 🤣 thanks man I’ll try to think of some more crazy japan stories to tell
Dawg 😂
Ayoo
So the crazy part of this is that if you translate dame in Spanish it’s give me so I was dying that whole time cause I would have been mad confused as well
This makes hentai plots seem reasonable. Jokes aside, funny ass story.
21:38 BAHAHAHAHA
Funny as hell bro. Great storytelling. Smart move to not risk it.
Appreciate you man. Yeah no way
21:36
🤣🤣🤣
hhhh
you gave up to fast... she played the hard one.. but she had also some mental issues...
Is cheating really that common in Japan? As in more so than western countries?
By far
@@yungjamez312What makes you think that?
@@benhethaasje5715 because I live here and know how people cheat, talk about cheating, and view cheating. It’s pretty widely accepted as just a part of life
@@yungjamez312 That’s crazy man… I’m dating a Japanese girl that I met in Europe some years ago. We’re doing long distance for about a year now, but we’ve spend several holidays together and are planing to live together in Japan or Europe soon. We’ve talked about cheating and we seem to agree on boundaries etc. (But hé, a cheater would say the same probably right, so you can never know for sure) I however trust her.
I have never been to Japan nor do I know anything about the cheating culture, but I always wonder when people say things like this, whether they might be biased. Could it for example not be that you think this way, because you pretty much only get to date the cheating “gainjin hunters”? In the same way that a lot of OF girls seem to think that all man cheat, because all they see is desperate married man trying to hook up with them.
@@benhethaasje5715 no, because I’m not talking from personal experience. I’m talking about my Japanese friends and hearing how they talk about cheating and how they cheat. Can give real examples of multiple Japanese friends cheating and their peers acting like it’s just normal when I question it. As opposed to America, people don’t admit that they cheat, are usually embarrassed if they have, or their peers will scold them for it
storytelling is not dead what a talent
yellow fever gone wild
whats on the side of your face? like two dark marks
Birthmark
You look so fkn tired in the photos 💀
Yo Man that girl was crazy xD
she aint worth the headache lol
She obviously gets off by playing games, but at least you got her to bust twice 🎉
ew lol
Cool story bro....Actually no, it sucked.
I'm just curious, what if you said to that girl
"Hey look, in my country and in my culture we are more direct, if you wanna do something sexual with me just tell me, I know when you say yamete maybe you just want action, but that's illegal in my country"
Or something like that. I think that's an advance japanese language level to explain it.
Maybe the girl would change her opinion, or just don't give a shit haha
Direct is nice and good but that's how men operate. It works in the military and between bros, but women don't think like men.. that's where it get's complicated
I'm agree with you, but I think japanese girls have extra steps, I only watched some videos about that japanese topic.
Anyway I think I need to try the real experience at japan 🤔
25:02 bottom right you is saying "kill me"
Fr was
How tall are you ma boy??
6’
@@yungjamez312 dude I'm 5'7 is there any chances for me too to pull Japanese girls??
@@DarkReality-dr1ci of course man. In terms of height, it’s not as big of a deal here considering the average Japanese male height is pretty low. Other things make it very hard, but height isn’t one of them
@@yungjamez312 what ya means by other things ma boy?
@@DarkReality-dr1ci basically mostly depends on your ability to be as Japanese as possible, which is more or less impossible for most guys
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Japanese Comedian Meshida
Japanese Sex: When No Can Mean Yes!! (Interview)
yup that summs it up