Are Total Tops Real? A Conversation Amongst Friends

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 53

  • @georgeclark2554
    @georgeclark2554 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I'm a 100 percent TOP and would not even let the thought cross my mind no matter who I'm in love with

  • @Derfunkmeister
    @Derfunkmeister Před rokem +10

    I fucking hope so as I am 100% Bottom and have no feeling for topping what so ever.

  • @michaelmirrorcle9779
    @michaelmirrorcle9779 Před 4 lety +9

    Uggggghhhh big relate. I don't even say Total top because there's so many stigmas and expectations of hyper masculinity. I just top. I feel you Mac. Had a similar journey.

    • @maccastmedia
      @maccastmedia  Před 4 lety +1

      I may take that same approach going forward lol

    • @henryhammond3847
      @henryhammond3847 Před rokem +1

      Y'all are so hard to find

    • @BRAZEN_Muse
      @BRAZEN_Muse Před 3 měsíci

      @@henryhammond3847they aren’t your just a neurotic gay. Most man are tops because most man are st8, most men are attracted to femininity, most man want to put their dick into someone

  • @popcorn1069
    @popcorn1069 Před rokem +11

    I do believe total tops exist since total bottoms exist. I mean, I tried topping once or twice in my life, but I just didn't feel as excited as I did bottoming. I just don't have interest in topping. Therefore, I believe there's tops who feel the same way when bottoming.

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr Před 3 měsíci

      Huh? Yes total tops exist I'm one sorry I just saw this video

    • @Vann20F
      @Vann20F Před 19 hodinami

      😮

    • @DisleyDavid
      @DisleyDavid Před 4 hodinami

      I live with one. I'm not complaining.

  • @ayoq9956
    @ayoq9956 Před 2 lety +5

    I feel like too most of the time it's verse guys that are always trying to break a top guy. it's like the gay guy that's always trying to find a straight man to break in lol

  • @grimgoroth13
    @grimgoroth13 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you for the content. I would agree with you that there are total tops.

  • @packrat3367
    @packrat3367 Před 2 lety +4

    total tops are out there. total bottom here but iam 6 foot 4 every one thinks iam top lol

  • @GotToBeMeTV
    @GotToBeMeTV Před 9 měsíci +4

    No lie Mac, you look fine as hell. 😩 lol but I do believe there are 100 percent total tops. I''ve been with them before and THEY WILL NEEEEEVRRR ALLOW U play in the back door, but their invitation is strictly for the front door ONLY 🤣 total tops are absolutely REAL!

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski Před 7 měsíci +2

      yeah I'm real 😂!

    • @georgeclark2554
      @georgeclark2554 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Thankyou yes us total Tops are real

    • @GotToBeMeTV
      @GotToBeMeTV Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@Biserbalkanski lolll I hear that lol .. 🤣

    • @Biserbalkanski
      @Biserbalkanski Před 6 měsíci

      @GotToBeMeTV I'm a little guy but big in the right places lol! I'm really strong for 155 pounds soaking wet . well actually strong for any size tbh. one upload on this account has all of myself in it and all the Playlist vids are of me. two vids are from an old channel and one is from my older brothers channel. and I uploaded close ups of my hands. my nickname is " Vice" lol. I just upload for fun and most are random or my friends doing s$ . strength feats . ✌️ pleasure to introduce myself 😊

    • @jaybatemen4497
      @jaybatemen4497 Před 2 měsíci

      All depends on the dude. Even straight dude like tongue in the. And, it all depends on the level of drink.

  • @deanbarnette1602
    @deanbarnette1602 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I personally don't believe there's no such thing as a total top, & that's because it changes with the circumstances & the person. I'm versatile & it depends on the person I'm with & what I'm wanting sexually at the time.

  • @jaybatemen4497
    @jaybatemen4497 Před 2 měsíci

    My husband of 30yrs is a total top, He's also 16yrs older than me, Who happens to be a masculine young father who dealt with both and he knew of this. So when I told him I like our situation, But, your not gonna take that experience from me if wanting to be the top as well. Now, you have a choice to make. And, No you will not be there when it happens.

  • @tambuc
    @tambuc Před 4 lety

    That was fun and super entertaining to listen. And have had the same conversations with friends as well. Many similar opinions...

  • @heyheyhey40
    @heyheyhey40 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I just don’t understand why people feel the need to inform you what they think you are. At the end of the day, people will always try to enforce their opinions and life experiences on you. You have to know yourself. And that may take some time. Once you do, you’ll realize that people were wrong about a lot of restrictions put on you.

  • @petrusrossouw6018
    @petrusrossouw6018 Před 6 měsíci

    I do believe there are 100% bottoms and same for 100% tops, reason for them being what they identify does not really matter. Some you already discussed. Of course part of the journey is to try different things. You might have tasted clam, you might have tried bottoming, or topping. But in the end of the day, you will have a strong preference, and that is what is it about.
    I concider myself a total bottom. Yes I tried topping, but find it hard to keep it hard, and yes one can take a pill for that, but that does not fix the emotional and psycological aspects one have to be in for say topping. So I don't enjoy it, even if I would have used a pill to fix the medical issue. Compared that with say bottoming, I absolutely enjoy it and will do it any day, especially if there is a great top who knows what he is doing. Add a nice sausage, personality and other things, and I am in heaven.
    I know some people to abstain from sex purely because they are bottoms, and don't have the size to top, but they find is painful to bottom, so they don't enjoy it. I know of tops, who for example will never bottom for also the pain aspect.
    As I said, I believe your question is about who you really are by fact of your preference more than 90% of the times, not the once in a blue moon exception.
    Would I do clam? hell not, maybe only if I got paid, and even then that would be a complete turnoff for me.

  • @ayoq9956
    @ayoq9956 Před 2 lety

    I believe full tops exist too but they don't come out and say it because they KNOW people are going to not believe them and doubt them. Also I do believe also that there are alot of verse tops that like to top majority of the time and every now and then get hammered

  • @wingman78207
    @wingman78207 Před rokem +4

    Yes total tops exist! I'm not a goddamn unicorn! Preferences shouldn't be labeled as hangups either. We like what we like. Whether those preferences evolve or stay the same doesn't matter. I bottomed in college a handful of times.and once or twice after. Im 51 now and do not feel dishonest for calling myself a total top.

  • @gordonpi8674
    @gordonpi8674 Před 7 měsíci +1

    There are, in Turkey.

  • @jaybatemen4497
    @jaybatemen4497 Před 2 měsíci

    Dudes go after what attracts them. You masculine he's masculine, You a top He's a top. Can you just walk away. NOPE...Let the lies began.

  • @BRAZEN_Muse
    @BRAZEN_Muse Před 3 měsíci

    Total tops do exist however I think that type of man especially if he is very masculine has a hard time identifying with gay culture. So he might identify as anything but gay. And is really mostly interested in femboys, sissies, and twinks.
    He might identify as pansexual, hetero/homo flexible.
    I think a tops who is mostly into guys has an easy time having sex with women, because women’s are “natural bottoms” but that isn’t his preferred gender.

  • @dominiquemoody8668
    @dominiquemoody8668 Před 3 lety +6

    I disagree there’s a few of us full total tops just a few tho

    • @henryhammond3847
      @henryhammond3847 Před rokem

      I believe one must venture away from media to find a total top.

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@henryhammond3847 huh 🤔 maybe for gay men it's a question but I'm bi and I only 🎩 top.

  • @carlorizzo827
    @carlorizzo827 Před 4 měsíci

    Super interesting ThankU Due to severe ptsd, i am so painfully tight, i started out tt. Then I saw my bottom having such a great time, I got inspired, I learned, improved. I am limited, though, need a guy with a small organ, at least a slim one. Let the queens have the big ones lol. Sadly, the emotional part of the ptsd proved intractable. Cannot pairbond. Resigned from dating. I do miss it, still fall in love like a teenager. Best keep it platonic. Looking back, hmm. I'm not as visual as most guys. Sometimes the less visually attractive had the sweetest touch. But what am I if I simply adapt to the partners' choice? "He's the top, he gets to choose" vs "He's the bottom, he gets to choose"?? I love the female body. Including the blood, it's totally aphrodisiac. What i can't do with women is "Lead", the way a woman needs. What am i.... Once as a joke i said i was schizo-sexual

  • @martinkopf
    @martinkopf Před 4 lety

    I'm in line as volunteer for topping you directly after Marc 🤣👍... haha, couldn't help that comment, sorry. But seriously, great topic 👍👍👍

  • @michaelle8384
    @michaelle8384 Před 10 měsíci

    Great topic I always want to know how can you tell who’s who

  • @shakawalker9921
    @shakawalker9921 Před 2 měsíci

    so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?🎉

  • @puptracker5939
    @puptracker5939 Před 4 lety

    Great topic

  • @FullFiguredMermaid
    @FullFiguredMermaid Před 6 měsíci

    Why everyone is so obsessed of someone’s position in sex. These topict stigmatize people who are selfconfident not enough for accepting themself. For example me. Having sub preferences I am so sick of everyone around told me that bottoms are not needed because they are too many. So I just stoped looking for sex and relationships at all. Because averyone said I didn't fit. The shame became unbearable. Ye maybe I am just weak, but not everyone is strong.

  • @TheHeatInColorPodcast
    @TheHeatInColorPodcast Před 6 měsíci

    Not everyone is a total bottom or fully vers...that's okay.

  • @thelastdaybreathinginetern1385

    I'm a fem total ebony goth bottom..

  • @TheATeam1212
    @TheATeam1212 Před 3 lety

    Hey

  • @deannagreen2006
    @deannagreen2006 Před 7 měsíci

    I don't agree tops bottom to some just do speak about it to others 2/1/24 .

  • @Greenterror
    @Greenterror Před 8 měsíci

    Tops r us