1. Watch the summary of the original Rational Male book: czcams.com/video/vblot9RiULI/video.html 2. Check out Rollo Tomassi's CZcams channel: czcams.com/users/RolloTomassi 3. Listen to a woman's perspective on The Rational Male: czcams.com/video/V1b9BWxuB-o/video.html
As a MAN we don't have time to play games...Just and always improve ur Looks ,Money and Status...Work on urself.... Don't be needy.... whether women come to or not..Just be urself.
Married at 21 for ten years to my high school sweetheart , divorced two years ago due to her infidelity , Now @ 33 years of age ; *CAN* *CONFIRM* Everything said here played out *EXACTLY* this way in my life !
Not married but I have watched this play out man times, legit everything you said....especially the infidelity in the early 30’s, they’re worst than a 17 yr old boy and can’t control their hormones around that age.
@@futurehalloffamer they say "in life , people do you favors..." - It's like I've got my 20s back , and with no kids , future looking bright as hell 😎 Thankful I learned this lesson early in life as some people wait till they are 45/50 w/ house , kids, assets to separate . 😂 Truth about the hormones going crazy , she was going Town Bicycle status , I was the only one who wasn't getting a ride
Sorry man. Must be rough. I got close but my gut didn’t let me marry her. She walked out many years later. Hates me now for whatever reason. Like I’m the biggest villain on the planet.
@@m.ahmed.y1723 In the manosphere, Giga Chad is the moniker attached to the sterotypical bad boy that imprints the beta's future wife on the college campus and then he gets cheated on because the beta she settles for will never measure up to her alpha experiences. 7 years with a beta is always trumped by 10 min with an alpha. What Gregory is saying is that despite this moniker, there are guys named Chad who are not bad boys going out here imprinting girls and screwing up their pair bonding ability and he feels bad for them because those Chads are getting lumped in with the stereotype. Hope that clears it up for you
@@m.ahmed.y1723 😂 Now I know you’re just here to ad hominem. Always happens on the internet. You give someone the benefit of the doubt, try to explain, and what do you get? A “thanks for clarifying”? Nope. A damn ad hominem 😂
Just like he said....one day my girl friend said " I don't want to do this any more"....me, "then don't, disappear". Deleted all of her pictures, blocked her number, and threw out ever card she ever gave me. Yes, it hurt, but I am not going to be with someone who betrayed my love, my trust and my generosity. Hit the road!
@@sabrinamaric4207 Not exactly, I got used, abused, put down and drained for 5 years, when I started treating her the same way THAT is when she said "I don't want to do this any more" and I said me either get lost.
Women are constantly evaluating men, so you just have to be always ascending. The thing is, nobody is always ascending. Another key to relaxing with women and not being afraid is knowing that they're never yours, it's just your turn... So what's there to be nervous about? No matter how hot she is, or how much she professes to love you it's all temporary with them... So you can't lose what you never had. The 1% better is cool in theory as far as keeping women, but should keeping them be the reason for that or the goal for men? I say no, we should get better because we want to be the best versions of ourselves, not to keep a woman, that's flawed thinking and could lead to oneitis if you base what you do around that. Now you're working out for them, climbing the corporate ladder for them. Being successful is for us, they are a benefit of that success. Nothing more than that.
@1Scuter You can be an introvert and still be an Alpha. Those two terms are mutually exclusive. You just gotta have some mental strength to have control and mastery over your own environment so that people can't push you around. I am still working on it with moderate success here and there.
Introversion is just a label, the more you live up to it’s expectations the more you embody it. Anyway there’s nothing wrong with preferring alone time, that’s when the greatest ideas are born my brother
@@angeldsf3575 Rollo's works are 100x more interesting than Greene's stuff. Not that his stuff is bad, but Rollo's works have more practical information for most people
@@MrHav1k Kinda Feel The Same Way Tbh. But Even So Robert is More Than Just Women and Stuff so I Find His Work Extremely Interesting. He Covers Different Subjects & Often Alotta Lessons Overlap. I Do Have All 3 of Rollo's Books on My Reading List Tho & I'm Eager to Open Them Up & See what Else I Can Learn!
This is the cold hard truth bomb guys. High value men don’t compete for women! we gain status, value and money and they compete for us! stay on track!!
@@sabrinamaric4207 in the real world that’s not how it works. As a man You’re only useful to women until you’re not useful anymore. The book Evolution of desire will give you lots of insight.
@@JoeSimmer uhhhh okay so I'm gonna guess the only women you talk to are the ones either 1) out of your league or 2) your mother Let me give you advice from like...a woman?? Hey dude, women want someone who is kind, loyal, and above all just treats them like a fucking person. Not a puzzle to solve, not a prize to claim, not an algorithm to find x. A fucking person. Try it once or twice. See how it goes
@@arnoldb4526 a kind and loyal man is all me, and the majority of women ask for. Looks deteriorate. All that will be left is the soul of a person. As for myself personally, I plan on being the one with the 6 figure salary ;) me and other women don't need someone to take care of us. We're not children. We need someone to love and respect us, that's it. Don't listen to these other dudes who tell you you're not "high value" if you don't meet the criteria you just listed. Just be a good person, respect others, and be kind. That's all women are looking for, I promise. You are high value :)
Whenever my ex wants to get back into my life, I just watch this video and realize how much she hurted me and why I don't trust women and that I'll never be a Beta again
Phase 2 is EXACTLY what happened to me and exactly where I fucked up...I made the classic mistake of following my girl to college. I wish Rollo's books existed in 2007/8. For the first year, my decision seemed like the right choice, but in the final 8 months....it was a PURE nightmare. Our almost 4 year relationship was not enough to hold off the BARRAGE of options for a girl that looked like her---sweet, petite, feminine tinkerbelle with auburn hair and a great body. I didn't stand a chance against the options that were starting to pop up because I was no longer the rockstar boyfriend she once had when I was coming back and forth from Los Angeles. I became a normal guy working, struggling to make ends meet at the point we moved in together. She wasn't leaning on me anymore, it became the reverse, and that's where it all went under. Any guys that wanna keep their girl after high school...you need to be BALLIN'. I'm not saying you need to make a lot of money, but whatever your career ambition is, you need to be a fucking rockstar with it and really be out there doing it. You need to be something other guys around her aren't able to compete with. It's the only way, otherwise, your number is up. I 100% agree, women in their 30s are the WORST to date. Expectations are way too fucking high, baggage is way too fucking high, and they have nothing to offer other than to beat you over the head with their accomplishments, which mean nothing to a man. I kinda see myself in a good spot tbh--though I'm almost 39, I look young enough to attract girls in their first hoe phase, but my intellect and POV is that of someone my age, so I can attract the 40-somethings too. I do need to get my physique game up though, so I'm dedicating these holidays and next year to just that so I can Chad it up a little.
I want to say that becoming one of the one percent should be a decision you take because you want to. Grinding through tough situations just so that you can keep the girl is just you selling yourself short
Pay attention that guys that are in the 1 % don't keep the girl. They can have a constant rotation. So if you make it to the 1 %, you would be stupid to commit to 1 girl. By the way, if you are a 1 % and you keep a girl, that girl will eventually cheat on you as well. You can ask Johny Depp or Will Smith about it. Hypergamy always wants more.
@@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy jesus this is scary as fuck but true 😳 i knew about will Smith .and i was shooked BC this guy has everything .and still his girl cheated thats insane ...but i didnt know about Johnny depp ...
@@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy even Mike tyson lost his wife, and she fucked Brad Pitt during their divorce. Alpha doesn't make you cheat-proof. At this point, you should simply not give a fuck and go on with your life
since there are more female voters, and women always vote to gain advantage, that will not happen. However, as a man, you should always do a paternity test, ideally without her knowing. order it online, as early in childs life as you can
@@Ascension_3030 In my country you can refuse the fatherhood if you have the negative test and the kid is not 6yo yet. I feel quite lucky, since in France (as I heart) you cant do paternity test yourself, only if the court orders to do so?!
@@dolanuscaesar1326 I think Germany as well. US feminist scum has tried passing this law as well, I think in many instances you need to get mommies consent and signature, before you can DNA test your kids. Thankfully, and man can order a paternity testing online, send in the samples and get results. Doesnt have to tell anyone. I encourage all men to do this, as principle, not based on whether or not the guy believes that "she is not like that"
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
It's like behaving like this out of fear. Rather just go out live the life be one percenter because you want to... And not because you want to prevent your girlfriend from cheating on you...if she is characterless...she will cheat on you regardless you being 1percenter or not
Indeed a brilliant point, I can tell you've done your spiritual homework. None of us have 100% control of whether she will cheat or not. I see this as a guide to help prevent unnecessary suffering, just like how one would study nutrition to avoid unnecessary suffering caused be eating foods that don't nourish the body. Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. -Brandon
Women: *Treats good men who treat her as a princess like a trash, end relationship out of boredom, monkey branch in the second she can, emotionally abuse man, relationship with her and herself unstable AF* Men: *starts focusing on themselves, career, well being, give women low priority, keep them just for fun, stop chasing them* Also women: Where are all the good men gone, todays men are useless, they are no longer chasing us, they dont give a shit about us, where can I find a man who will treat me like a princess?!
We as men are responsibie for tolerating the toxic type of dating culture that exists nowadays. In the 1920's, our (great) grandfathers didn't tolerate this kind of bullshit. If you as a man do not tolerate a woman's games or bullshit you at least show yourself and the other person that you respect yourself enough which might actually make her respect you as well. I feel bad that I only figured this out not long ago. Just take control of things and ignore -even though it is indeed really sad - double standards because they will probably always be there anyway.... My best tip is to just put as much efdort in someone else as they are putting in you. If she acts like you're not important, then walk away. Don't overcomplicate it
oh no "Where are all the good men gone" is not about MGTOW it is about the fact that men do not achieve as much as women woud like and it is not that easy to get good rich provider as like 20 years before. The issue is mostly with modern economy which is going to the drain.
Play or be played.It's war,the strong will prey on the weak.Love is a war.You let her hold the power once she won't let it go.She'll keep on testing your weaknesses,your insecurities etc.
Not saying your girl will definitely cheat you, but you should not turn your your eyes away from the truth. So that when it happens you are not shocked.
Not saying that loaded gun hovering over your foot will definitely go off but I wouldn't point a loaded gun at myself. Don't shoot yourself in the foot. Dont play yourself
Step one. Change the label. Remove commited and replace it with casual. It will help you understand your position better. So to say loosen the grip. Step two. Conteplate one of Buddhas saying. Nothing is worth clinging to. Step three. Go in that direction and don't look back.
THANK YOU! PLEASE continue to summarize Rollo's work. It's very important because his writing (and this is the one knock I have on him) is often VERY difficult to digest for simple idiots like me. He has a tendency to WAY overcomplicate the message with overly wordy sentences instead of just putting everything in plain English. If I have to read "operative social conventions" one more time I'm gonna put my frickin head in a blender lol.
Youre not an idiot youre just lazy. And hes not wordy. Stephen King is wordy. I bet y'all are the same people who complain about his 3 hour long videos too. But here's the thing: what you guys want isnt something that can be answered in one sentence. Its a dedication and discipline. Just like a relationship and being a parent is. Or do you just want somebody to touch your peepee?
I am a greek guy and english is the second language i know .i m trying really hard sometimes to grasp what he is writing due to the enriched vocabulary
Attractive people have options so they are less likely to be committed/ have self restrain because of the constant temptation (whether male or female). In response, they must understand the importance of restraint and the cost of promiscuity. Everything has a cost so it is good to know before making a decision.
Not exactly so, the problem with women is that they prefer men who treat them like shit. As that's how women usually get aroused. it is very uncommon that woman will get wet from guy giving her compliments or doing nice stuff to her and that is the only thing what really matters.
the moment that "..men who aren't necessarily attractive" pic of a burnt-out guy with a coffee mug appeared, I almost thought I was staring at myself, if only a bit less overweight, lol. Even the mug's shape that I'm holding is exactly the same. Time to have a walk and hit the gym.
Just finished this book finally after a few weeks in between of break. By far this book is one of the best that provided great insights that will help me as I guide through everything in my early 20's. The mature men was the best part after understanding previous chapters everything clicks right in that as long I continue to do the things that brings a great ROI on me, everything will work all out which made me feel a lot better despite what's going on in the world. Two books to go I may check out next of The Rational Male. Have to say thank you Rollo for so much on these books that helped out a lot of learning everything.
Im 53 and never gave a damn about what women want. im single and move from one relationship to another. not sure how many relationships i had. i keep in good shape, live healthy and make no kids. women always cross my path cuz they know they cant have me for too long
Its been said many times before, but it couldnt be any more true today. Focus on yourself, put in the work to become a better man. Have a purpose, passion, focus. Women will come and go.
I never once thought that I could even begin to understand women and their nature. I’m grateful for Rollo and all other creators who have contributed to the propagation of this knowledge. 💪🏾
@@mreverybody1150 🤣🤣🤣🤣. And that shyt couldn’t be truer bro. That’s crazy. On the other hand, we genuinely get happy for getting something that we’ve been working on. Her joy is in the pursuit, struggle, sadness, depression, anout NOT. HAVING. That’s where she wants to live. Damn!!
@@intjsavagery219 Indeed! For most of us guys, we are easily pleased. The simplest things in life bring me great joy. It's true, women chase joy, but only find pleasure in never finding it...like an athlete running a marathon that never ends. Perhaps this is also in relation to dopamine and emotion Vs dopamine and logic.
@@mreverybody1150 Yes, totally agree. The dangling carrot keeps the horse going. I’m sure Our brain reward circuitry is the culprit here. I’ve once told an ex “you don’t love me; you’re in love with the idea of your loving me, but you don’t in fact love me.” And she said, I guess you’re right. I was still unaware of the red pill. I just said that I thickly. My friend, I’ve personally observed women create and maintain a unhappy situations for themselves. I’ve had a woman leave me to go back to her bad ex, only to leave him again after 6 months and try to comeback to me. I woke up one day and realized “holy smokes, I think a woman loves to suffer and that she feeds off of that.” And then I found the red pill.
My wife has left me for a slavic man in an adidas track suit who uses the same cologne she used to have as an air freshener whenever she took a dump when my wife was little. And upon rescenting the same cologne my wife gets put into a state of nostalgia, getting to experience the same sense of relief whenever she moved her bowels as a child & thats exactly the reason she is so attracted to this man. Whenever she nibbles on his neck, she literally tries to taste the scent of said air freshener. But I advised against it, since its not meant for consumption. So I told her I was paying a renowned group of scientists to extract the scent & put it in food items. So she can eat the scent that made her feel happy back then. And then poop it out afterwards & have a hearty sniff at her chocolate nuggets, holding it in her arm like a warm loaf of bread. And who knows, she may even have a taste. I mean if the scientists did an outstanding job, I bet the strong scent of woodland roses would overpower the chocolatey bitter "After" tones XD But nevertheless, Im very proud for my wife that she is getting married in June. The only way to get her back would be to cover myself in little air freshener trees & present one to her as a sign that I still love her. And which serves as a wedding ring replacement. But what kind of simp would I be if I would diddle my wife myself? No, Im sure my wife will be very happy moving in with Milos & his adjoined donkey stable right next to the house. Living in a 2 bedroom mansion with both his sister & his mother. While they eat deep fried donkey schlongs on a hock swinging in their faces to increase appetite during the candle light dinner. Forgive me Carol for I have simped. I shall head to the cathedral tower & to punish myself with tactical strokes of my whip onto myself.
The deconstruction of old-fashioned traditions in Western society has allowed more freedom for adults. Women, alpha males, and wealthy betas have more sexual freedom. But freedom isn't free, and our children pay the price. 36% of children grow up in single-parent homes. 1 in 4 children grow up without a father. Where is this leading our society?
There are two types of people who say “date your age”. Aging Women who are upset the men they want are choosing younger women and men who can’t attract younger women.
Easiest remedy: there are more out there. AND if you are worth anything at all, you can always take pleasure in your own company. No woman, indeed no person and no thing, is worth shedding your dignity. The moment someone no longer desires you, it frees you to be yourself…. which cannot but attract the next persons who do desire your presence.
I'm not going to theorise, this is all from my personal experience the biggest mistake that men do is being attracted to a girl that doesn't want you and pushing away a woman that does truly want to be with you, if a woman doesn't want you, you can pump iron till your biceps have biceps of their own, and you can make enough money to just give it away to her to prove that you are financially successful, I promise though doing all this will not make her want you more, she will still find every excuse under the sun to push you away, if you don't push away a woman that comes along in your life that truly wants to be with you and I think every man at some point had someone like that come along that they pushed away because they weren't cool enough, or hot enough or looked like a model, if you don't push away that woman then she will find every excuse under the sun to be with you even though you have every flaw under the sun and you might not see it, and something else that I noticed is there is a type of man that decides he needs no part of being in a serious relationship, or family life, just because of bad past experiences and decided that working towards his goals and making money is all he needs, and just playing around with random women is enough, trust me when I say this that category is called the broken 'loser' category not a 'winner' as he believes himself to be, every night he sets new goals, makes money, lays his lonely head on his lonely pillow grips his money which he realizes is only paper, gets in his car which he realizes is only metal, calls his Freinds to spend time with them and everybody is busy with their families, sees a happy family and wishes that could be him, you could theorise all you want but their are flaws to these theories, I speak not from theory but from hands on practical experience, good luck to everyone out there, we all have our struggles.
Western society is doomed. Just gna travel to my ancestors location and find a wife. Places where family unit is celebrated and the male presense in a family unit is like religiously important.
The deconstruction of old-fashioned traditions in Western society has allowed more freedom for some people, as outlined in this video, but at what cost? Our children pay the cost. 36% of children grow up in single-parent homes. 1 in 4 children grow up without a father. This will have massive ramifications that we're only beginning to see.
I think the age brackets are a bit off. These days its so common to find many 30 year olds partying it up and still unaware of the impending wall they're about to crash into.
when you completed all books of Rollo as well as some books like the game, 3% man and No more nice guy. This video hits differently.. very amazing content.
@@luvair6765 if you have a better idea than him than we'd love to see videos and wisdom form you so plz go ahead we'll subscribe you and we'll learn so many things from you.
So this got me thinking, is there such thing as true love. Do women ever unconditionally love their male partner? Or do women only stick around with you as long as they feel excited with you, and as soon as those feelings change, they want to change to another partner? This just seems like women don't truly love any male partner, they just love the emotions and hormones they feel while being with you. Otherwise, if there is true love, they would love you for who you are as a Human being, and not constantly seek for attention from other chads and alphas. I guess the old saying is true, she's not yours, it's only your turn.
@@JAY-vy6vr this is the reason I hate red pill content so much it seems their alternative is to become high value tricks 😂and I just don't believe in that. If we as men got to do so much then these chick's are worth so little I hate how nobody is honest about this in America
As a young woman, I'd like to tell you that there are interesting things in this summary. The timeline is probably off though. I would like to tell you that cheaters are cheaters by nature. You can get cheated on by an older woman and be seen as a wonderful partner by a young woman. Finally the idea of "decaying looks" is not really spot on. I know many women who look even more beautiful and younger in their 50's than in their 20's because there are many ways of maintaining or even improving looks nowadays. Just try avoiding dating a woman who always wants you to "tick" superficial boxes. Like wanting a man "with black eyes and a beard, a six-figure job etc" . Because she is with you conditionally. If you lose that job, that physical trait? She is out the door. To avoid getting "played" by women, you have to own up to what you really want and tell her that, even if she is a wonderful woman, you won't settle for less and will leave if she cheats. Attractiveness to high-value women is more than looks: it can be proper grooming , charm, wisdom, intellectually stimulating conversations etc. At 21, I can't imagine being invested for half a minute in a man who is just good-looking. I want men and women to stop fearing getting "abandoned" by their lovers and start actually looking forward to beautiful relationships that nourish and fulfil them! 💘
I agree with Vybz. Theoretically, it all sounds good. But majority of men nowadays are moving from one disappointment to another, and some are just tired. They dont even want to try anymore.
@@turkishsilver100 Nope. I don't know the man. A partner is someone you want to see on a daily basis. Not just for a random evening. So I'll pass on G.C. Physical attraction can only go for a week or two max.
@Thanos What was the point of this comment ? You have no basis for calling what I said "bullshit", no arguments, no reasoning. I think you might be the one nobody should listen to 😉
Part 1. Women want to get the most attractive men they can get to maximize their benefit. The paradox is once they pass their peak, their choices dwindle which means they settle for less than what they “think” they are worth. This translate to what Chris Rock said in one of his shows years ago. You are not their first choice. So this means men will always be in there toes.
Glad that these ressources are easy to find. 15 Years before you really had to find a well informed forum with literarure, documents and guys sharing their experiences. WHY am I back?? I CONFESS GUYS, I failed! 10 - 12 years I did good, I internalized the stuff it became a part of me... but recently (2020 - 2021) I dropped it :)) at least 50 % of the principles although I knew it better. EVERYTHING what Was predictable happened. So I had to swallow the Pill again here AND remind my fellows to never drop the principles!! Stay rational, hold the Frame!! Don't get fooled by the Theater ( I am 35 yo) of married friends, don't look at them, Stick to the path!! To the younger ones: Get rid of the illusions as quick as possible!
I am 19 and I already think the same thing as ROLLO observations. THE CATCH IS PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY THAT I AM MATURE AND ACT LIKE AN OLD MAN WHEN I AM LITERALLY LOOKS LIKE A 14 YEARS OLD BOY
I hope you guys are smart enough and try to understand "The Rational Male" and not just to memorize the rules. You should always remember that there are similarities between females, but there is no one the same as the other. Just try to think!
Imagine giving your consent to have a relationship where if the other person leaves, you lose lots of money, and if you leave, you still lose lots of money. That's marriage. Does it make logical sense to give your consent? :D Now, just a boyfriend/girlfriend thing is nothing to worry about. You lose nothing so ^_^ She can go bang anyone she wants and so can you but well do you really see the point in doing that? Protect your sanity by avoiding attachment to any kind of emotion/person. Emotions like lust, revenge, obsession, hatred, jealousy, etc can be the reason for your downfall. As a man, you cannot own a woman coz slavery is illegal. As a woman, you can own a man through a marriage contract coz even after divorce, the man still has to give giving money. Besides, if you really love someone then the best thing to do is to never get into a relationship with them but rather just watch them be happy and support them from the sidelines ^_^ That is love.
I haven't had any red pill rage, only depression and utter disappointment. A cold resentment. It feels like a rat race. Dog eat dog. The panacea of life is death. Once I speak of Schopenhauer or Cioran, there goes the jeers and the posturing and "INCEL", "BETA", or some shit. "You're a nihilist because you suck LOL" I expect someone to start a flame, a shaming, or a berating. Expect no kindness, unless you're in a transaction with the ladies or something.
@@the_allucinator hey, I have never replied to a youtube comment before, I felt that I had to say this. let me tell you, The world is one menovelent place, but it's okay. Because every single human do have complex lives and it seems that the world is devoid of kindness and generosity, but there are people who act virtuously in this world too, I would say, it is better to live a Kantian way of life, i.e to do good without any expectation, a bit Stoic, but I do believe it is the right mode of being. Wish you more happiness and prosperity, It did seem that you were unhappy, and just wanted to say this.
@@RootinrPootine I do not know now. Perhaps a cuddle from a woman I love, yet I find it repulsive. If the pangs of loneliness shall ever arise, I must suppress it. I'm sick of both the alt-right and Twitter SJW terminologies. I find any cravings repulsive. Hope is a torment, so do having a want. My only solution for now is to distract myself with this so called "self-improvement".
i am always trying to be 1% better. But after this video, i feel that i am now under Pressure and i hate to see somebody push me to do something. So i may be stop trying to be 1% better from now on until this new pressure offloads.
This video is true until the 30+ ladies part. They are still looking for an alpha male who can be a provider (resources, or emotional etc). Online dating has extended their urgency as there are still plenty of simps lusting over any 5/10 woman. Some really want a beta floormat but they also get turned off by beta behaviours too.
At 30+ it doesn't last long for them time has taken their beauty, most of their friends has childs so no more party nights to fuck around, then end up as you say with a floormat in a hurry for having kids, it's truly a pathetic show
Not just that, but during the peak of their sexual market value, men are off to serve and women will also explore options behind their backs. So it's not just college.
1. Watch the summary of the original Rational Male book: czcams.com/video/vblot9RiULI/video.html
2. Check out Rollo Tomassi's CZcams channel: czcams.com/users/RolloTomassi
3. Listen to a woman's perspective on The Rational Male: czcams.com/video/V1b9BWxuB-o/video.html
I takes insults to hearts that hurta
you cleared all my clutter from past 3years ...this is the video i have been looking for ...Thanks mate 🔥🔥
This is so true tho. What you have to realize as a guy is that you are the desired sex, you have the power. They have the game twisted.
As a MAN we don't have time to play games...Just and always improve ur Looks ,Money and Status...Work on urself.... Don't be needy.... whether women come to or not..Just be urself.
Well said sir, thnx for the wise consise words
@@castellum40 your welcome.
lol, this "just focus on yourself bruh" is the new "just be yerrself bruh" xD
@@TheRumpelstinskin No, the 'just be yourself' is delusional. The just focus on yourself is about becoming a better version of your self...
Just "being" myself leaves me as a fat alcoholic smoker without a job. "Just improve yourself."
Married at 21 for ten years to my high school sweetheart , divorced two years ago due to her infidelity ,
Now @ 33 years of age ; *CAN* *CONFIRM*
Everything said here played out *EXACTLY* this way in my life !
Not married but I have watched this play out man times, legit everything you said....especially the infidelity in the early 30’s, they’re worst than a 17 yr old boy and can’t control their hormones around that age.
@@futurehalloffamer they say "in life , people do you favors..."
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It's like I've got my 20s back , and with no kids , future looking bright as hell 😎
Thankful I learned this lesson early in life as some people wait till they are 45/50 w/ house , kids, assets to separate .
😂 Truth about the hormones going crazy , she was going Town Bicycle status , I was the only one who wasn't getting a ride
@@user-zk2iz9by7u💀
Sorry man. Must be rough. I got close but my gut didn’t let me marry her. She walked out many years later. Hates me now for whatever reason. Like I’m the biggest villain on the planet.
You were a simp. Sorry you got redpilled this late. But at least you have peace of mind. That feeling is unmatched
I feel sorry for any guys out there named Chad that are genuinely faithful to their wives.
I don't
wtff bieng faithfull is wrong???
@@m.ahmed.y1723 In the manosphere, Giga Chad is the moniker attached to the sterotypical bad boy that imprints the beta's future wife on the college campus and then he gets cheated on because the beta she settles for will never measure up to her alpha experiences. 7 years with a beta is always trumped by 10 min with an alpha.
What Gregory is saying is that despite this moniker, there are guys named Chad who are not bad boys going out here imprinting girls and screwing up their pair bonding ability and he feels bad for them because those Chads are getting lumped in with the stereotype.
Hope that clears it up for you
@@lordofgingers y'all need therapy
@@m.ahmed.y1723 😂
Now I know you’re just here to ad hominem.
Always happens on the internet. You give someone the benefit of the doubt, try to explain, and what do you get?
A “thanks for clarifying”?
Nope.
A damn ad hominem 😂
Just like he said....one day my girl friend said " I don't want to do this any more"....me, "then don't, disappear". Deleted all of her pictures, blocked her number, and threw out ever card she ever gave me. Yes, it hurt, but I am not going to be with someone who betrayed my love, my trust and my generosity. Hit the road!
Beast mode!
Savage!
Okay...this literally just sounds like you got dumped?? and did what you were supposed to do? I am so confused
@@sabrinamaric4207 Not exactly, I got used, abused, put down and drained for 5 years, when I started treating her the same way THAT is when she said "I don't want to do this any more" and I said me either get lost.
@@nickf9392 same
Women are constantly evaluating men, so you just have to be always ascending. The thing is, nobody is always ascending. Another key to relaxing with women and not being afraid is knowing that they're never yours, it's just your turn... So what's there to be nervous about? No matter how hot she is, or how much she professes to love you it's all temporary with them... So you can't lose what you never had. The 1% better is cool in theory as far as keeping women, but should keeping them be the reason for that or the goal for men? I say no, we should get better because we want to be the best versions of ourselves, not to keep a woman, that's flawed thinking and could lead to oneitis if you base what you do around that. Now you're working out for them, climbing the corporate ladder for them. Being successful is for us, they are a benefit of that success. Nothing more than that.
Great comment
@@boyoterry154 Thanks, I hope somebody that really needs to see that reads it, guys out here going crazy trying to impress women.
Underrated comment
Damn... Best comment man 👍🏾
“You’re not her’s, it’s just her turn” way of thinking puts you back in the dominant frame and positions you as the prize
As a life-long beta intovert, this man cured my depression and fear of women.
Same I’m what you would be considered a femcel. Rollo has encouraged me to be more confident and to have an abundance mindset.
@1Scuter You can be an introvert and still be an Alpha. Those two terms are mutually exclusive. You just gotta have some mental strength to have control and mastery over your own environment so that people can't push you around. I am still working on it with moderate success here and there.
@@superniftysuzy1 you disgust me.
Introversion is just a label, the more you live up to it’s expectations the more you embody it. Anyway there’s nothing wrong with preferring alone time, that’s when the greatest ideas are born my brother
@@RSidd Could it be it's being a sigma?
Thank goodness all this information is out there now. Rollo's books are saving lives. Literally.
:)
Currently Reading The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene AGAIN. Real Good Stuff. Kinda Interested in Getting This Book by Rollo To Tho Ngl
@@angeldsf3575 Rollo's works are 100x more interesting than Greene's stuff. Not that his stuff is bad, but Rollo's works have more practical information for most people
@@MrHav1k Kinda Feel The Same Way Tbh. But Even So Robert is More Than Just Women and Stuff so I Find His Work Extremely Interesting. He Covers Different Subjects & Often Alotta Lessons Overlap. I Do Have All 3 of Rollo's Books on My Reading List Tho & I'm Eager to Open Them Up & See what Else I Can Learn!
6:15 stewie on Brian's Novel he was working on.
If I can't have you at your best , you don't deserve me at my highest point
Word and word!
This is beautiful
Yes king
Problem with that is when you are at your best the women at their best will be younger than you and will have no interest in you. Sorry
@@haselbasil2488 I suggest you do more research.
This is the cold hard truth bomb guys. High value men don’t compete for women! we gain status, value and money and they compete for us! stay on track!!
'we' lol
Why do you treat women as a prize to be won rather than a partner to share your life with
@@sabrinamaric4207 in the real world that’s not how it works. As a man You’re only useful to women until you’re not useful anymore. The book Evolution of desire will give you lots of insight.
@@JoeSimmer uhhhh okay so I'm gonna guess the only women you talk to are the ones either 1) out of your league or 2) your mother
Let me give you advice from like...a woman?? Hey dude, women want someone who is kind, loyal, and above all just treats them like a fucking person. Not a puzzle to solve, not a prize to claim, not an algorithm to find x. A fucking person. Try it once or twice. See how it goes
@@arnoldb4526 a kind and loyal man is all me, and the majority of women ask for. Looks deteriorate. All that will be left is the soul of a person. As for myself personally, I plan on being the one with the 6 figure salary ;) me and other women don't need someone to take care of us. We're not children. We need someone to love and respect us, that's it.
Don't listen to these other dudes who tell you you're not "high value" if you don't meet the criteria you just listed. Just be a good person, respect others, and be kind. That's all women are looking for, I promise. You are high value :)
Whenever my ex wants to get back into my life, I just watch this video and realize how much she hurted me and why I don't trust women and that I'll never be a Beta again
Phase 2 is EXACTLY what happened to me and exactly where I fucked up...I made the classic mistake of following my girl to college. I wish Rollo's books existed in 2007/8. For the first year, my decision seemed like the right choice, but in the final 8 months....it was a PURE nightmare. Our almost 4 year relationship was not enough to hold off the BARRAGE of options for a girl that looked like her---sweet, petite, feminine tinkerbelle with auburn hair and a great body. I didn't stand a chance against the options that were starting to pop up because I was no longer the rockstar boyfriend she once had when I was coming back and forth from Los Angeles. I became a normal guy working, struggling to make ends meet at the point we moved in together. She wasn't leaning on me anymore, it became the reverse, and that's where it all went under.
Any guys that wanna keep their girl after high school...you need to be BALLIN'. I'm not saying you need to make a lot of money, but whatever your career ambition is, you need to be a fucking rockstar with it and really be out there doing it. You need to be something other guys around her aren't able to compete with. It's the only way, otherwise, your number is up.
I 100% agree, women in their 30s are the WORST to date. Expectations are way too fucking high, baggage is way too fucking high, and they have nothing to offer other than to beat you over the head with their accomplishments, which mean nothing to a man. I kinda see myself in a good spot tbh--though I'm almost 39, I look young enough to attract girls in their first hoe phase, but my intellect and POV is that of someone my age, so I can attract the 40-somethings too. I do need to get my physique game up though, so I'm dedicating these holidays and next year to just that so I can Chad it up a little.
Hello, there are a few things I want to know. Do you know in which year Rollo Tomassi did his first consultancy?
I love the female impressions 😂
They always make me laugh xD
Hello, there are a few things I want to know. Do you know in which year Rollo Tomassi did his first consultancy?
I want to say that becoming one of the one percent should be a decision you take because you want to. Grinding through tough situations just so that you can keep the girl is just you selling yourself short
Wise
It's really good to know that you read comments 😁
Pay attention that guys that are in the 1 % don't keep the girl. They can have a constant rotation. So if you make it to the 1 %, you would be stupid to commit to 1 girl. By the way, if you are a 1 % and you keep a girl, that girl will eventually cheat on you as well. You can ask Johny Depp or Will Smith about it. Hypergamy always wants more.
@@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy jesus this is scary as fuck but true 😳 i knew about will Smith .and i was shooked BC this guy has everything .and still his girl cheated thats insane ...but i didnt know about Johnny depp ...
@@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy even Mike tyson lost his wife, and she fucked Brad Pitt during their divorce. Alpha doesn't make you cheat-proof. At this point, you should simply not give a fuck and go on with your life
Marriage or true long term relationships only stand a chance in Muslim countries where hypergamy is controlled by societal and religious norms
Hmm. How is it controlled?
@@aserr5660 By their women being forced to wear bedsheets in public. No alternatives = loyalty.
@@charzanboo9940 ahh I see
In India too
Ruled by the husband and her family and society as well as religion
This video is basically and explanation why paternity tests should be mandatory.
Period.
since there are more female voters, and women always vote to gain advantage, that will not happen. However, as a man, you should always do a paternity test, ideally without her knowing. order it online, as early in childs life as you can
@@Ascension_3030 In my country you can refuse the fatherhood if you have the negative test and the kid is not 6yo yet.
I feel quite lucky, since in France (as I heart) you cant do paternity test yourself, only if the court orders to do so?!
@@dolanuscaesar1326 I think Germany as well. US feminist scum has tried passing this law as well, I think in many instances you need to get mommies consent and signature, before you can DNA test your kids. Thankfully, and man can order a paternity testing online, send in the samples and get results. Doesnt have to tell anyone. I encourage all men to do this, as principle, not based on whether or not the guy believes that "she is not like that"
@@dolanuscaesar1326 there are online kits available, every man should order one and get the results. "she is not like that" is typically an illusion
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell
*The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Men on Strike* by Helen Smith
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
Isaiah 3:12
*Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road.
Proverbs 31:3
Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
Ezekiel 23:20
There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses.
Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
It's like behaving like this out of fear. Rather just go out live the life be one percenter because you want to...
And not because you want to prevent your girlfriend from cheating on you...if she is characterless...she will cheat on you regardless you being 1percenter or not
Indeed a brilliant point, I can tell you've done your spiritual homework. None of us have 100% control of whether she will cheat or not. I see this as a guide to help prevent unnecessary suffering, just like how one would study nutrition to avoid unnecessary suffering caused be eating foods that don't nourish the body. Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. -Brandon
Here’s a Twitter thread that goes into it with more nuance. twitter.com/UnmodernM/status/1282294887463809024
@@OnePercentBetter Here’s a Twitter thread that goes into it with more nuance. twitter.com/UnmodernM/status/1282294887463809024
Amen to Characterless! Also, bad company corrupts good character. Beware!
Exactly! You are doing it for yourself!
Women: *Treats good men who treat her as a princess like a trash, end relationship out of boredom, monkey branch in the second she can, emotionally abuse man, relationship with her and herself unstable AF*
Men: *starts focusing on themselves, career, well being, give women low priority, keep them just for fun, stop chasing them*
Also women: Where are all the good men gone, todays men are useless, they are no longer chasing us, they dont give a shit about us, where can I find a man who will treat me like a princess?!
And no self-accountability whatsoever
in heaven
We as men are responsibie for tolerating the toxic type of dating culture that exists nowadays. In the 1920's, our (great) grandfathers didn't tolerate this kind of bullshit. If you as a man do not tolerate a woman's games or bullshit you at least show yourself and the other person that you respect yourself enough which might actually make her respect you as well.
I feel bad that I only figured this out not long ago. Just take control of things and ignore -even though it is indeed really sad - double standards because they will probably always be there anyway....
My best tip is to just put as much efdort in someone else as they are putting in you. If she acts like you're not important, then walk away. Don't overcomplicate it
oh no "Where are all the good men gone" is not about MGTOW it is about the fact that men do not achieve as much as women woud like and it is not that easy to get good rich provider as like 20 years before.
The issue is mostly with modern economy which is going to the drain.
Play or be played.It's war,the strong will prey on the weak.Love is a war.You let her hold the power once she won't let it go.She'll keep on testing your weaknesses,your insecurities etc.
As someone in a committed long-distance relationship, this video is anxiety.
Good.
Let it scare you, because the truth needs to be shocking in order for you to wake up.
Also, you'll be fine 👍🏽
Not saying your girl will definitely cheat you, but you should not turn your your eyes away from the truth. So that when it happens you are not shocked.
Not saying that loaded gun hovering over your foot will definitely go off but I wouldn't point a loaded gun at myself. Don't shoot yourself in the foot. Dont play yourself
Step one. Change the label. Remove commited and replace it with casual. It will help you understand your position better. So to say loosen the grip.
Step two. Conteplate one of Buddhas saying. Nothing is worth clinging to.
Step three. Go in that direction and don't look back.
LDR are a waste of time. Never again.
Good stuff man. Rollo is a legend. These vids are excellent.
Cheers brother
@@OnePercentBetter which book should I buy out of the 3 books bro, I could only get 1 for now
THANK YOU! PLEASE continue to summarize Rollo's work. It's very important because his writing (and this is the one knock I have on him) is often VERY difficult to digest for simple idiots like me. He has a tendency to WAY overcomplicate the message with overly wordy sentences instead of just putting everything in plain English. If I have to read "operative social conventions" one more time I'm gonna put my frickin head in a blender lol.
Thought I was the only one with the problem😂
🤣😂
I find his writing and talking way too wordy too, he could use a third of the words and still get his point across.
Youre not an idiot youre just lazy. And hes not wordy. Stephen King is wordy. I bet y'all are the same people who complain about his 3 hour long videos too. But here's the thing: what you guys want isnt something that can be answered in one sentence. Its a dedication and discipline. Just like a relationship and being a parent is. Or do you just want somebody to touch your peepee?
I am a greek guy and english is the second language i know .i m trying really hard sometimes to grasp what he is writing due to the enriched vocabulary
This is the perfect video to introduce someone new to the manosphere and female nature.
Attractive people have options so they are less likely to be committed/ have self restrain because of the constant temptation (whether male or female). In response, they must understand the importance of restraint and the cost of promiscuity. Everything has a cost so it is good to know before making a decision.
Not exactly so, the problem with women is that they prefer men who treat them like shit. As that's how women usually get aroused.
it is very uncommon that woman will get wet from guy giving her compliments or doing nice stuff to her and that is the only thing what really matters.
Just never stop working on yourself, and when you trust also verify it. Cement this into your brain and you'll be fine.
the moment that "..men who aren't necessarily attractive" pic of a burnt-out guy with a coffee mug appeared, I almost thought I was staring at myself, if only a bit less overweight, lol. Even the mug's shape that I'm holding is exactly the same.
Time to have a walk and hit the gym.
Hit the gym bro. It will change your life and attitude. Trust me
Key concept: Hypergamy. Understand this quite well and you wont ever get disappointed.
@BDom pump n dump, an old school classic😎
Yes! You see relationships as transactional
Trust women.... to be women.
Can you eloborate more?
@Thanos I did and now I know 😊
You are divinely guided and protected, and cosmically acknowledged and appreciated
Ha.
Just finished this book finally after a few weeks in between of break. By far this book is one of the best that provided great insights that will help me as I guide through everything in my early 20's. The mature men was the best part after understanding previous chapters everything clicks right in that as long I continue to do the things that brings a great ROI on me, everything will work all out which made me feel a lot better despite what's going on in the world. Two books to go I may check out next of The Rational Male. Have to say thank you Rollo for so much on these books that helped out a lot of learning everything.
Hello, there are a few things I want to know. Do you know in which year Rollo Tomassi did his first consultancy?
Im 53 and never gave a damn about what women want. im single and move from one relationship to another. not sure how many relationships i had. i keep in good shape, live healthy and make no kids. women always cross my path cuz they know they cant have me for too long
no one wants you for long cause they see that you cant provide stability to them.
This is extremely accurate to the book and accurate to life. Well done brother
When he said, ‘how to stop your woman banging chad’ my instant thought was, I think I’d rather be chad instead
one can become a chad?
Hello, there are a few things I want to know. Do you know in which year Rollo Tomassi did his first consultancy?
Seek your own truth - that's how to be both!
The truth will set you free
Truth isnt subjective
Its been said many times before, but it couldnt be any more true today. Focus on yourself, put in the work to become a better man. Have a purpose, passion, focus. Women will come and go.
I never once thought that I could even begin to understand women and their nature. I’m grateful for Rollo and all other creators who have contributed to the propagation of this knowledge. 💪🏾
It's very simple. There are 2 things that make a woman unhappy.
1) Getting what she wants.
2) Not getting what she wants.
@@mreverybody1150
🤣🤣🤣🤣. And that shyt couldn’t be truer bro. That’s crazy. On the other hand, we genuinely get happy for getting something that we’ve been working on. Her joy is in the pursuit, struggle, sadness, depression, anout NOT. HAVING. That’s where she wants to live. Damn!!
@@intjsavagery219 Indeed! For most of us guys, we are easily pleased. The simplest things in life bring me great joy.
It's true, women chase joy, but only find pleasure in never finding it...like an athlete running a marathon that never ends. Perhaps this is also in relation to dopamine and emotion Vs dopamine and logic.
@@mreverybody1150
Yes, totally agree. The dangling carrot keeps the horse going. I’m sure Our brain reward circuitry is the culprit here. I’ve once told an ex “you don’t love me; you’re in love with the idea of your loving me, but you don’t in fact love me.” And she said, I guess you’re right. I was still unaware of the red pill. I just said that I thickly.
My friend, I’ve personally observed women create and maintain a unhappy situations for themselves. I’ve had a woman leave me to go back to her bad ex, only to leave him again after 6 months and try to comeback to me. I woke up one day and realized “holy smokes, I think a woman loves to suffer and that she feeds off of that.” And then I found the red pill.
Rollo decoded women...he s a legend....saving lives
Alpha imprint cannot be defeated.
Once a chad marks her, the monogamous man with low body count is out of the race
My wife has left me for a slavic man in an adidas track suit who uses the same cologne she used to have as an air freshener whenever she took a dump when my wife was little.
And upon rescenting the same cologne my wife gets put into a state of nostalgia, getting to experience the same sense of relief whenever she moved her bowels as a child & thats exactly the reason she is so attracted to this man.
Whenever she nibbles on his neck, she literally tries to taste the scent of said air freshener.
But I advised against it, since its not meant for consumption. So I told her I was paying a renowned group of scientists to extract the scent & put it in food items. So she can eat the scent that made her feel happy back then.
And then poop it out afterwards & have a hearty sniff at her chocolate nuggets, holding it in her arm like a warm loaf of bread. And who knows, she may even have a taste. I mean if the scientists did an outstanding job, I bet the strong scent of woodland roses would overpower the chocolatey bitter "After" tones XD
But nevertheless, Im very proud for my wife that she is getting married in June. The only way to get her back would be to cover myself in little air freshener trees & present one to her as a sign that I still love her.
And which serves as a wedding ring replacement. But what kind of simp would I be if I would diddle my wife myself?
No, Im sure my wife will be very happy moving in with Milos & his adjoined donkey stable right next to the house.
Living in a 2 bedroom mansion with both his sister & his mother. While they eat deep fried donkey schlongs on a hock swinging in their faces to increase appetite during the candle light dinner.
Forgive me Carol for I have simped. I shall head to the cathedral tower & to punish myself with tactical strokes of my whip onto myself.
U made my day
@@Dragonhunter1400 Glad I could have been of service XD lol Cheers
Holy shit this is hilarious. Lmfao😭😭🤣🤣
ROFLMAO U sir are a legend 🤣
This is comedy gold thank you for your efforts.
I’ve been reading his book and it’s really changed the way I think for the better.
Just about to read - can’t wait
The deconstruction of old-fashioned traditions in Western society has allowed more freedom for adults. Women, alpha males, and wealthy betas have more sexual freedom. But freedom isn't free, and our children pay the price. 36% of children grow up in single-parent homes. 1 in 4 children grow up without a father. Where is this leading our society?
There are two types of people who say “date your age”. Aging Women who are upset the men they want are choosing younger women and men who can’t attract younger women.
That last bit is really great advice.
You will not be Brad Pitt, but you can and should always try to make yourself better .
1% per day is awesome.
Easiest remedy: there are more out there. AND if you are worth anything at all, you can always take pleasure in your own company. No woman, indeed no person and no thing, is worth shedding your dignity. The moment someone no longer desires you, it frees you to be yourself…. which cannot but attract the next persons who do desire your presence.
I'm not going to theorise, this is all from my personal experience the biggest mistake that men do is being attracted to a girl that doesn't want you and pushing away a woman that does truly want to be with you, if a woman doesn't want you, you can pump iron till your biceps have biceps of their own, and you can make enough money to just give it away to her to prove that you are financially successful, I promise though doing all this will not make her want you more, she will still find every excuse under the sun to push you away, if you don't push away a woman that comes along in your life that truly wants to be with you and I think every man at some point had someone like that come along that they pushed away because they weren't cool enough, or hot enough or looked like a model, if you don't push away that woman then she will find every excuse under the sun to be with you even though you have every flaw under the sun and you might not see it, and something else that I noticed is there is a type of man that decides he needs no part of being in a serious relationship, or family life, just because of bad past experiences and decided that working towards his goals and making money is all he needs, and just playing around with random women is enough, trust me when I say this that category is called the broken 'loser' category not a 'winner' as he believes himself to be, every night he sets new goals, makes money, lays his lonely head on his lonely pillow grips his money which he realizes is only paper, gets in his car which he realizes is only metal, calls his Freinds to spend time with them and everybody is busy with their families, sees a happy family and wishes that could be him, you could theorise all you want but their are flaws to these theories, I speak not from theory but from hands on practical experience, good luck to everyone out there, we all have our struggles.
The woman's dialogue is hilarious here 🤣 great content as always!
I found this channel and now I have 3000 books I need to read/listen to
Bangs chad got me crying 🤣🤣
In one word : prioritizing SUPERFICIALITY on both sides. Good luck!
Western society is doomed. Just gna travel to my ancestors location and find a wife. Places where family unit is celebrated and the male presense in a family unit is like religiously important.
The deconstruction of old-fashioned traditions in Western society has allowed more freedom for some people, as outlined in this video, but at what cost? Our children pay the cost. 36% of children grow up in single-parent homes. 1 in 4 children grow up without a father. This will have massive ramifications that we're only beginning to see.
I think the age brackets are a bit off.
These days its so common to find many 30 year olds partying it up and still unaware of the impending wall they're about to crash into.
I sure wish this stuff was around when i was in my teens.
Rollo Tomassi?! Somebody has been watching LA Confidential 😎. Great information none the less.
Here from the Caribbean 🦾🦾 the moment I start watching your videos i get better
Awesome!
Same lol
No marriage, no cohabitation. Like women, always have your plan B ready. Be able to walk in 30 seconds
And that is why the institution of marriage was made. And the western nations are dying now because it's broken.
Love is giving not only what you can get!
when you completed all books of Rollo as well as some books like the game, 3% man and No more nice guy. This video hits differently.. very amazing content.
For sure. We've already written the summary scripts of both those books!
One Percent Better Yes! I have read it all and found videos after that it's amazing.
Corey Wayne is a closet beta.
@@luvair6765 if you have a better idea than him than we'd love to see videos and wisdom form you so plz go ahead we'll subscribe you and we'll learn so many things from you.
Pls what are the other Books written by Rollo?
I've only read the rational male
It is not "sharing resources" if she has no resources to "share"
So this got me thinking, is there such thing as true love.
Do women ever unconditionally love their male partner?
Or do women only stick around with you as long as they feel excited with you, and as soon as those feelings change, they want to change to another partner?
This just seems like women don't truly love any male partner, they just love the emotions and hormones they feel while being with you.
Otherwise, if there is true love, they would love you for who you are as a Human being, and not constantly seek for attention from other chads and alphas.
I guess the old saying is true, she's not yours, it's only your turn.
There's no love only interests.
Only your mom can love you unconditionally
This guy is saving a lot lives he should run for president
when the narrator says "where is this going?" i lost it 😂😂😂😂
8:02 When the bags under the eyes get added when he says “youthful beauty is declining quickly” … that hurts 😂😂😂
you summarized a pick up channel in 10 mins
keep it up. you're great at what you do
Thank you broski, really needed to watch this haha
Sounds to difficult I'll adopt a child instead and always commit to 1% better sounds more like my style
The world is your oyster
I have th same thought G
@@JAY-vy6vr this is the reason I hate red pill content so much it seems their alternative is to become high value tricks 😂and I just don't believe in that. If we as men got to do so much then these chick's are worth so little I hate how nobody is honest about this in America
Excellent video. I've shared it with many male friends.
That's why I love being The Chad.
But your name is Mathius ?!?
@@TheLace Yes, quite common in my country you know.
@@Olv_Matheus brazil? And if so, are the women there the same as american women? Or are they better?
@@california6197 Yes. Pretty much the same, only point is that women here take more care of their health and look.
@@Olv_Matheus damn. Is redpill becoming popular there like it is here in the U.S?
That voiceover for a Girl tho 😂😂💯
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As a young woman, I'd like to tell you that there are interesting things in this summary.
The timeline is probably off though.
I would like to tell you that cheaters are cheaters by nature. You can get cheated on by an older woman and be seen as a wonderful partner by a young woman.
Finally the idea of "decaying looks" is not really spot on. I know many women who look even more beautiful and younger in their 50's than in their 20's because there are many ways of maintaining or even improving looks nowadays.
Just try avoiding dating a woman who always wants you to "tick" superficial boxes. Like wanting a man "with black eyes and a beard, a six-figure job etc" .
Because she is with you conditionally. If you lose that job, that physical trait? She is out the door.
To avoid getting "played" by women, you have to own up to what you really want and tell her that, even if she is a wonderful woman, you won't settle for less and will leave if she cheats.
Attractiveness to high-value women is more than looks: it can be proper grooming , charm, wisdom, intellectually stimulating conversations etc.
At 21, I can't imagine being invested for half a minute in a man who is just good-looking.
I want men and women to stop fearing getting "abandoned" by their lovers and start actually looking forward to beautiful relationships that nourish and fulfil them! 💘
Well said but I'm left to wonder if this can only be in theory,especially in this age where social media as allowed women/men to have more options
I agree with Vybz. Theoretically, it all sounds good. But majority of men nowadays are moving from one disappointment to another, and some are just tired. They dont even want to try anymore.
I smell bullshit. If George Clooney came on to you, you'd be with him in a heartbeat.
@@turkishsilver100 Nope. I don't know the man. A partner is someone you want to see on a daily basis. Not just for a random evening.
So I'll pass on G.C.
Physical attraction can only go for a week or two max.
@Thanos What was the point of this comment ?
You have no basis for calling what I said "bullshit", no arguments, no reasoning.
I think you might be the one nobody should listen to 😉
I love the art style. Instantly subscribed
Big RIP to Winston
Part 1. Women want to get the most attractive men they can get to maximize their benefit. The paradox is once they pass their peak, their choices dwindle which means they settle for less than what they “think” they are worth. This translate to what Chris Rock said in one of his shows years ago. You are not their first choice. So this means men will always be in there toes.
Glad that these ressources are easy to find. 15 Years before you really had to find a well informed forum with literarure, documents and guys sharing their experiences. WHY am I back?? I CONFESS GUYS, I failed! 10 - 12 years I did good, I internalized the stuff it became a part of me... but recently (2020 - 2021) I dropped it :)) at least 50 % of the principles although I knew it better. EVERYTHING what Was predictable happened. So I had to swallow the Pill again here AND remind my fellows to never drop the principles!! Stay rational, hold the Frame!! Don't get fooled by the Theater ( I am 35 yo) of married friends, don't look at them, Stick to the path!! To the younger ones: Get rid of the illusions as quick as possible!
I am 19 and I already think the same thing as ROLLO observations. THE CATCH IS PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY THAT I AM MATURE AND ACT LIKE AN OLD MAN WHEN I AM LITERALLY LOOKS LIKE A 14 YEARS OLD BOY
Hilarious voice over. Love the content!
Dudes improve 1% everyday for yourself. Not for some girl.
333 mind body spirit 🧘🏿♂️ congrats on your success ! we all need to be one percent better.
You have to read this book, It will honestly change your life.
And my girlfriend is 28
I love this channel😎
I love learning using infographics
The current relationship will be the result of where & how you met your partner
Option 3: Do your own thing and keep your money for yourself.
Fantastic book. Highly recommended
6:18 I swear to god i told a girl that i was going to date younger girls she said i should date woman my age.
I hope you guys are smart enough and try to understand "The Rational Male" and not just to memorize the rules. You should always remember that there are similarities between females, but there is no one the same as the other. Just try to think!
Imagine giving your consent to have a relationship where if the other person leaves, you lose lots of money, and if you leave, you still lose lots of money. That's marriage. Does it make logical sense to give your consent? :D
Now, just a boyfriend/girlfriend thing is nothing to worry about. You lose nothing so ^_^ She can go bang anyone she wants and so can you but well do you really see the point in doing that? Protect your sanity by avoiding attachment to any kind of emotion/person. Emotions like lust, revenge, obsession, hatred, jealousy, etc can be the reason for your downfall. As a man, you cannot own a woman coz slavery is illegal. As a woman, you can own a man through a marriage contract coz even after divorce, the man still has to give giving money. Besides, if you really love someone then the best thing to do is to never get into a relationship with them but rather just watch them be happy and support them from the sidelines ^_^ That is love.
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This is quite depressing.
You'll get over that red pill rage when you start accepting reality and facts and getting over your life long societal conditioning
I haven't had any red pill rage, only depression and utter disappointment. A cold resentment.
It feels like a rat race. Dog eat dog. The panacea of life is death. Once I speak of Schopenhauer or Cioran, there goes the jeers and the posturing and "INCEL", "BETA", or some shit. "You're a nihilist because you suck LOL"
I expect someone to start a flame, a shaming, or a berating. Expect no kindness, unless you're in a transaction with the ladies or something.
@@the_allucinator hey, I have never replied to a youtube comment before, I felt that I had to say this. let me tell you, The world is one menovelent place, but it's okay. Because every single human do have complex lives and it seems that the world is devoid of kindness and generosity, but there are people who act virtuously in this world too, I would say, it is better to live a Kantian way of life, i.e to do good without any expectation, a bit Stoic, but I do believe it is the right mode of being. Wish you more happiness and prosperity, It did seem that you were unhappy, and just wanted to say this.
@@the_allucinator what is it that you want?
@@RootinrPootine I do not know now. Perhaps a cuddle from a woman I love, yet I find it repulsive. If the pangs of loneliness shall ever arise, I must suppress it.
I'm sick of both the alt-right and Twitter SJW terminologies.
I find any cravings repulsive. Hope is a torment, so do having a want. My only solution for now is to distract myself with this so called "self-improvement".
Will you make a summary on his other books? I would like to hear your perspective on each one.
Popping red pills all day everyday
Salute from Brazil! 🇧🇷
Wish I read that book or watched this video 10 years ago.
i am always trying to be 1% better. But after this video, i feel that i am now under Pressure and i hate to see somebody push me to do something. So i may be stop trying to be 1% better from now on until this new pressure offloads.
Sweet a new upload!
Enjoy!
Duuuuuuuude!!! good one
Let's go!
My dumbass thought that Rollo Tomassi wrote this book with Medicine in mind, like for doctors etc.
Thanks for the summary bro
LOL You were not the only one!
Literally just summed up all the red pill videos into one so much game...thanks for this video very much, very very much
This video is true until the 30+ ladies part. They are still looking for an alpha male who can be a provider (resources, or emotional etc). Online dating has extended their urgency as there are still plenty of simps lusting over any 5/10 woman. Some really want a beta floormat but they also get turned off by beta behaviours too.
At 30+ it doesn't last long for them time has taken their beauty, most of their friends has childs so no more party nights to fuck around, then end up as you say with a floormat in a hurry for having kids, it's truly a pathetic show
Not just that, but during the peak of their sexual market value, men are off to serve and women will also explore options behind their backs. So it's not just college.
Just think for a second, these are very wide generalizations of women, arriving at a conclusion based on them is not logical
Lmao the exception does not make the rule.
Okay, Spock 🖖
Man I loved that high pitch voice 😂 'mAn sHoUlD dAtE wOmEn tHeIr aGe'