I have zero self-confidence! (how to come back!)

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  • čas přidán 28. 07. 2021
  • Confidence is not something you're born with.
    But, how do you build it?
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Komentáře • 767

  • @tmsp8406
    @tmsp8406 Před 3 lety +524

    Best part about Chetan Sir is that he is 47, and he connects so closely to all age groups.

    • @farazfarooqui829
      @farazfarooqui829 Před 3 lety +4

      It's 47 not 147. What's surprising in being 47?

    • @Deepaksingh-cp3yq
      @Deepaksingh-cp3yq Před 3 lety +17

      @@farazfarooqui829 just see 100 people that age 47 around you and compare Chetan sir with them. You will get your answer

    • @aryanmishra4600
      @aryanmishra4600 Před 3 lety +2

      True

    • @ajclassicone818
      @ajclassicone818 Před 3 lety +2

      Right ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @gulshanvishwakarma3512
      @gulshanvishwakarma3512 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Deepaksingh-cp3yq this is the thing even you can compare lakhs of people of his age with him

  • @iamprincysingh
    @iamprincysingh Před 3 lety +438

    I am undergoing the same phase in my life since last 5 years... Nothing good happened... 😥😥😥
    I failed in every exam I appeared .... The girl who always topped in school college exams and aced always in academics is now unable to crack any competitive exam...my family has lost all hopes in me.... now, the only person who still has faith in me is just Me.....

    • @adityajha3611
      @adityajha3611 Před 3 lety +42

      That's so sad. I also used to be the creamy layer student but now I'm struggling. Good days will come. Have patience ☺️

    • @SakshiYadav-lj3ib
      @SakshiYadav-lj3ib Před 3 lety +15

      Please don't loose that glimmer of hope in yourself... I am sure ... U will succeed... Just, have faith in yourself..
      God bless u😊

    • @vasudev1168
      @vasudev1168 Před 3 lety +16

      Reading your comment I can really relate to my life happenings and can understand well the difficult and desperate times you have been going through since I have been through the same situation since a few years falling to the level zero from a glorious academic background..but fortunately by God's blessings, now I am on the path of recovery🙏 I hope and wish Chetan Sir's this video may throw a blessful light into the sorrow you are facing now..Don't lose the faith in yourselves and believe in God.. Remember there's always an open light at the end of a tunnel..All the best wishes..🙂🙏👍

    • @iamprincysingh
      @iamprincysingh Před 3 lety +1

      @@adityajha3611 thank you 😊

    • @iamprincysingh
      @iamprincysingh Před 3 lety +1

      @@LaxmanTeachings yeah, I read

  • @christymd1
    @christymd1 Před 3 lety +44

    I wish someone had told me this when I lost my father 4 years ago. But thank you Chetan Bhagat sir better late than sorry.

  • @anshikajain8365
    @anshikajain8365 Před rokem +11

    It's so pragmatic , when i fell down , i started with small things , went back to things i liked - dance , books, CZcams , yoga , long walks and it eventually healed me . Initial days when i wasn't able to focus on my studies and do difficult things , i was on pain but with small steps i have come this far.

    • @ChetanBhagat1
      @ChetanBhagat1  Před rokem

      Keep it up!

    • @naiguennarrainen1126
      @naiguennarrainen1126 Před měsícem

      Hello from Mauritius, can you please be my friend , I am going through same phase , may be you can support me

  • @prodiptaghosh6809
    @prodiptaghosh6809 Před 3 lety +61

    I will tell about myself.
    I lost my father last year due to Covid.
    He was earning a decent amount and was the only member earning in our family of 3, I was doing Btech in CSE but had to take up a job to sustain my family. I can relate this very well.

  • @ridhampatel6164
    @ridhampatel6164 Před 3 lety +36

    It took me a whole year to get my confidence back from rock bottom.
    I can see why motivational videos aren't so helpful.
    I think if we focus on what we did instead of what happened to us, Life would be uncomplicated.

  • @PradeepPol
    @PradeepPol Před 3 lety +64

    I had gone through TB first second third stage.. Done more than 50 blood test.. Took 160 injections everyday except one off day in week for 6 months.. But never gone into negative state.. Unable to switch my job for 8 years due to illness.. So behind by some lacs in annual package.. But never thought why me?.. I know lot more bad things happens with people.. I used to think that I am still alive.. Breathing.. I can fight.. This phase will pass.. Should not take tension of Things which we cant control.. Tension panics doesn't solve the problem.. So be patient.. Have believe.. Take rest.. Take backstep to roar again.. Now I am completely fine.. Doing very good in career.. Enjoying life 😊👍

    • @smritipanda725
      @smritipanda725 Před 3 lety

      Hope you are doing well now, may god bless you
      Really you are a fighter. U know they say to know one's value we must first have it at stake like our lives, jobs, family and opportunities.

    • @yash7972
      @yash7972 Před 2 lety +1

      I want to talk with you I'm suffering with Spine TB doing Engg from NIT very depressing with all the exams and this illness.

    • @kashifaziz5272
      @kashifaziz5272 Před 2 lety

      @@yash7972 chill buddy fuck the exam you can write exam one more time. Life is once enjoy don't over time I know the pressure in NIT but you can do it.

    • @inderbrar550
      @inderbrar550 Před 2 lety

      Well done ✌️✌️

  • @asthagupta8148
    @asthagupta8148 Před 3 lety +67

    Sir, you talk on the weakest point of the people, whatever advice you give them that's very amazing Everyone needs it somewhere in life.
    Thank you SIR 🙌

  • @sep11guy
    @sep11guy Před 3 lety +19

    Real advice starts at 5:11. Cheers ❤️💖💖

  • @abhaverma787
    @abhaverma787 Před 3 lety +16

    Sir you are absolutely right,Whatever advice you give us I can relate it with my life. 1 month ago my confidence level was zero as I have given multiple exams & interviews to switch my current job but I was not getting selected in any of them. Then I started taking baby steps ,I started to wakeup at 5:30 am & making my bed after getting up,I also started keeping my house clean & one most important habit of making to do list for every day. I developed habit of seeing sunrise everyday. So these small changes literally changed my life in a positive way & finally I got offer letter of another job & also I got UK travel opportunity in current company. So it just happened becoj of these small small changes I made to achieve the bigger goal. Thankyou sir for motivating us, you are really doing miracle in my life.👍

  • @shivamtyagi9263
    @shivamtyagi9263 Před 3 lety +36

    I am used to getting a dose of energy everyday from here. Respect Chetan Sir❣️

  • @sandeepdehal711
    @sandeepdehal711 Před 3 lety +15

    This Man is a Genius .....Only speaks Reality 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @supreetnayak7101
    @supreetnayak7101 Před 3 lety +4

    Really sir you are so open and honest about your life. That's something no other person. Loving your wisdom.

  • @AK-zq8dt
    @AK-zq8dt Před 3 lety +2

    Love you,Chetan! Your words help me to resolve ambiguities. Thanks!🌸

  • @bhavyagoswami2537
    @bhavyagoswami2537 Před 3 lety +36

    I don't know why people make fun of him, he is so magnanimous and talks out his heart which we can literally relate with.
    Kudos🌈

    • @abhisheksoni203
      @abhisheksoni203 Před 3 lety +5

      Projection psychology- They project their insecurity by making fun.

  • @subhankardas8477
    @subhankardas8477 Před 3 lety +3

    You are more than just a motivational talker. This video gently touches my heart and says all is well you can handle it 🙏

  • @Eren_Jaeger_
    @Eren_Jaeger_ Před 3 lety +9

    This is what I needed. Thank You Sir!

  • @bhuwanaswal9808
    @bhuwanaswal9808 Před 3 lety +3

    This is the real motivation. All the things which you said in this video are very practical and everybody can easily relate. Thanks for providing such type of content.

  • @madhur089
    @madhur089 Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing ...I have never read any of your book....but I can feel you are saying all this straight from your heart! Genuine and practical advice

  • @secretsinger007
    @secretsinger007 Před 2 lety +6

    I lost my father 5 months prior and also didn't able to concentrate on study for the same time and my 1 and half year preparation for NEET got wasted and I am seeing myself defeating everyday but I think that the if I follow the way given by Bhagat sir I can cope up with it
    So thank u so much sir for igniting a candle of hope inside me

  • @nehalinga
    @nehalinga Před 2 lety

    This was so succinct, yet relatable, and realistic! Thank you Sir, your channel is therapeutic during these Covid times!🤗

  • @muskaanyadav3625
    @muskaanyadav3625 Před 3 lety +53

    Wow!!! This was the best advice so far .
    "Do what you can Do".
    Take baby steps.
    I will try .
    Make your bed.
    You will win one day .

  • @manasivarma11
    @manasivarma11 Před 2 lety +3

    Very well said and very practical advice and I am glad you even shared something like this that when you went to 10 publishers 9 of them didnt entertain you..that is actually what happens in real life you did not just camouflage it and yet you did find that one person who gave you that feedback and you re wrote your book..this is what an actual motivation video is for todays day and age 👍🏻

  • @Jigyanshoo
    @Jigyanshoo Před 3 lety

    Your words will surely be helpful to all those are in need. Very true and very authentic. God bless you Chetan.

  • @CrazyGolfers3
    @CrazyGolfers3 Před 3 lety

    Very true sir, everyone sees life's ups & downs. When you are down even your best effort will not work or when you are on ups even a small effort will give rewards. So keep on giving your best, don't give up. Get up & fight back, reward will automatically come.

  • @divyarai88
    @divyarai88 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this real talk motivation. Much needed at this time.❤🙏

  • @nareshbhanot8818
    @nareshbhanot8818 Před 3 lety +7

    The advice shared by Chetan Sir is his own life experiences that's why these touches the heart of everyone irrespective of age.

  • @vikramnath9423
    @vikramnath9423 Před 3 lety

    Sir you are a blessing, I've already started feeling better after such videos !

  • @fitspot34
    @fitspot34 Před 2 lety +1

    I have seen many CZcamsrs talking about these topics but I don't know why I connect with you the most! Please don't stop uploading this stuff.

  • @prashantonIT
    @prashantonIT Před 3 lety +5

    Hi Chetan ,needed that badly. Thanks :)

  • @NoSoftiesAllowed
    @NoSoftiesAllowed Před 3 lety +15

    Thanks for making these vdos .. it helps alot....... 🙏🏼❤️

  • @indyreactt
    @indyreactt Před 3 lety +1

    I think he is the best motivational speaker on CZcams, cause his solution is always so practical and can connect to life.. not always inner connected or soul related

  • @shaktisahani2181
    @shaktisahani2181 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks sir ,giving us such a wonderful path

  • @28cosmos
    @28cosmos Před 3 lety +6

    I did not like CB's book when I tried to read it , just when he became famous. But I have been listening to his interviews and these talks and I really like him as a person. I like what he has to say, makes a lot of sense to me. Also, I just love the way he speaks, the accent, the one liners and the animated talk works really well. What you said here works- I have been practicing whenever I went through a low. But this time the low is a long trough. It has its own little micro-lows. But will try again if you say so CB.

  • @ManikandanTamilan
    @ManikandanTamilan Před 2 lety

    Excellent speech.thank you. I get lot of positive thoughts hearing your speech

  • @anshitajharia3608
    @anshitajharia3608 Před 3 lety +16

    This is so relatable sir ...... Same is happening with me also .. hearing you is helping me a lot sir to overcome things . 🙏❤️❤️ Thankyou sir for your appreciable efforts and guiding.. 🙏❤️

  • @KonarkB
    @KonarkB Před 3 lety

    Thank you, Chetan. Very good practical advice.

  • @utkrsh99
    @utkrsh99 Před 3 lety +3

    I will start with sweeping my room and then proceed gradually with small tasks.
    thanks, Chetan sir for showing a path

  • @RT-xk4su
    @RT-xk4su Před 2 lety +1

    You are like a elder brother/ sister I always wished for and the one who always guides to do better.

  • @nks075
    @nks075 Před 3 lety

    Well said, very pragmatic….. this is truly the way forward during difficult times

  • @praveenp5281
    @praveenp5281 Před 3 lety +2

    Wonderful Sir. Eagerly waiting for your next long video!

  • @omnamahshivay2440
    @omnamahshivay2440 Před 3 lety +2

    THANKUUUUU Elder Brother for making such a magnificent n fabulous video, this one is really really need at this time for me, each n every word of your thoughts touches so deep in my heart, which really motivate me, because that's person can only the best advice which one is also undergose such situations

  • @Arhams17
    @Arhams17 Před 3 lety +2

    Chetan sir you showed a little ray of hope. This video relates to my current situation. Covid pandemic hit my life so hard that i am living on antidepressants.

  • @pankajchoudhary-bittu3467

    Thank you so much sir 🙏
    Please continue...
    You videos help me & many youngster

  • @cherishdreams1
    @cherishdreams1 Před 3 lety +4

    I may sound cliche, but I have done exactly as u have said 5 years back. Life turned out to be right, when I never gave up and stayed positive for my divorce due to the Monster -Dowry. It was best test I have ever written and came out with flying colours.
    Stay blessed always

  • @braveimposter
    @braveimposter Před 2 lety +1

    Sir you don't know how much you're helping me and all of us. Your words sir it is full of wisdom and positivity! Take love sir! You're the greatest mentor for us❤️♾️

  • @itsnit227
    @itsnit227 Před rokem +1

    sir you are truly a gem to us!!!

  • @tanmaigirishanasane779

    Each and every day u inspire me to achieve my two biggest goals... Thanks a million for this brilliant efforts of yours

  • @abhaypratapsingh5279
    @abhaypratapsingh5279 Před 2 lety

    These videos are really valuable because we all face such situations but are never talked about or we fail to express our state of being due to the fear being judged.

  • @pallabidutta1038
    @pallabidutta1038 Před rokem

    This video makes my day as you're truly inspirational to many people so thank you once again

  • @afterall_sonal
    @afterall_sonal Před 3 lety +4

    Only I know how badly I needed this advice ❤️🍁

  • @ujjwal748
    @ujjwal748 Před 3 lety +10

    This channel has a lot to offer:) Simply gold!

  • @Germanlifesolver
    @Germanlifesolver Před 3 lety +2

    "you will win one day" dil jeethliya sir aapnee ❤️❤️❤️lots of love from kerala

  • @loyalrcbians6951
    @loyalrcbians6951 Před 3 lety +10

    You are my hero💜sir i can 100% relate with you sir i also overcame depression my self i am student 14 years old i cant do bodybuilding my hardwork body was going down studies want not good i just got in depression but i am very happy now i am very happy....

  • @inderbrar550
    @inderbrar550 Před 2 lety

    Agree with you Sir.
    Start from little things to do and keep continue one day you make successful person . ✌️✌️✌️

  • @ashimdeka158
    @ashimdeka158 Před 3 lety +2

    your talk touch to my heart thank you sir..!

  • @abhishek.gautam2
    @abhishek.gautam2 Před 3 lety +4

    Sir aapke baate direct hit krte hai....dil mein ❤️, It feels so connected with you sir..#thankyousir🙏🏼❤️

  • @lileshsinghthakur4441
    @lileshsinghthakur4441 Před 3 lety

    You touch subtle part which definitely noone talk about ..a tonnes of thanks ❤️❤️..

  • @shivanideshpande5870
    @shivanideshpande5870 Před 2 lety

    Thank you soo much sir!! This is all i needed to hear today.. soo Helpful .. may god bless you :)

  • @SantoshMishra-fq1cf
    @SantoshMishra-fq1cf Před 3 lety +4

    Thank u sir this was much needed ❤️

  • @sunerachisti1824
    @sunerachisti1824 Před 2 lety

    Bilkul sahi kaha Sir, chote chote kam SE shuruat badi kamiyabi ka rasta he.

  • @amithbhagat
    @amithbhagat Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you sirji 🙏, it resonated straight into heart, really helpful.

  • @10suryakiran
    @10suryakiran Před 2 lety

    Exactly, the same way I'm doing now, things which I can control, I'm handling them with utmost dedication and interest. Thanks for the good advice and you may be 47, but your thoughts are positive because you have seen the crests and troughs of life.

  • @nishitadubey6407
    @nishitadubey6407 Před 3 lety

    Sir you are really a real life problem solver for many of us. Taking baby steps towards your goal is really a point that I need to focus on.

  • @gauri753
    @gauri753 Před 3 lety +1

    Your all videos are really inspiring ✨

  • @muditadhingra4352
    @muditadhingra4352 Před 3 lety +3

    I am glad I am able and blessed to do it many times....
    Thanks for reinforcement sir.
    Dr Mudita

  • @anudixit3693
    @anudixit3693 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank u so much sir . God bless u sir . u ppl r actually redesigning the universe of all future aspirants .Hats off U sir. I pray to god fr yr prosperous life ever in ur life.

  • @NoSoftiesAllowed
    @NoSoftiesAllowed Před 3 lety +2

    Sir aaapki realistic advices kaafi implementable hai.....thx for this 🙏🏼

  • @srikanthkotakonda4583
    @srikanthkotakonda4583 Před 3 lety

    Excellent sir....very practical and It all comes down to the thought process...Thank you

  • @user-br9fs9xv9n
    @user-br9fs9xv9n Před rokem

    Yes this is my current situation much needed video thank you Chetan sir

  • @SCR17
    @SCR17 Před 3 lety

    I think this platform helped us to know you better. And these types of videos are quite relatable and practical to everyone.

  • @yugmehta9575
    @yugmehta9575 Před 3 lety +8

    Sir I am now in class 12th preparing for the NEET exam and since 2 months am feeling zero confidence, I try my best but after some days I am again back to bottom but this video is surely helped me and I hope my life soon will be normal

  • @pkum102000
    @pkum102000 Před 2 lety

    This was one of the most enlightening speech I have heard Doing small thi g well gives you so much confidence

  • @vishwajeetgadhavi6799
    @vishwajeetgadhavi6799 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video. Eagerly waiting for next long video. ❤

  • @sheelarao9803
    @sheelarao9803 Před 2 lety

    Sir really you connect so well. Thank you so much for creating valuable video 💐

  • @adarshkssuresh10
    @adarshkssuresh10 Před 2 lety

    Thank you very much sir for your motivational talks, one of the best videos

  • @mritunjaykunwar793
    @mritunjaykunwar793 Před 2 lety +1

    Aesa lagta ye sara video mere liye hi bnaa he . Thanku really a big support.

  • @ruchita2251
    @ruchita2251 Před 3 lety +3

    I think in India, very few youngsters have a mentor to guide them because our society is very rigid. But finally it feels like Chetan Sir is that mentor we all can have...not preachy, not sentimental but practical..!

  • @JITENDRASINGH-ig3ln
    @JITENDRASINGH-ig3ln Před 3 lety +7

    sir i am going through the same , only your videos kept me going..thank you so much sir.. today if 'am alive just because of you.🙏

  • @preetiesingh3193
    @preetiesingh3193 Před rokem

    Too good. Chetan you teach just like the life itself!

  • @arijitmondal6215
    @arijitmondal6215 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank You Sir...This topic is very important for me ❤️

  • @PrinceKumar-cs5en
    @PrinceKumar-cs5en Před 2 lety +1

    one thing is that we are away from negative thought (negative work,wrong way etc)when we do something and mind get busy so we prevent it whatever most people did we take breath and break ,do something small work what we have control yes. sir you are right simple way to give us

  • @Riya_Dhiman
    @Riya_Dhiman Před 3 lety

    It was much needed ... Thank you sir 🌹🌹🌹

  • @rishitesting
    @rishitesting Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks so much Sirji.
    You are helping a lot of us.
    I feel stressed at work in IT job and your sessions help me a lot.

  • @vpsjilogs
    @vpsjilogs Před 3 lety +7

    Sir I am at rock bottom of my life. After failing to get into iit,then not getting a job after college. Now at 28 getting a job of least Grade Pay,
    I am totally devastated. I want to fight. But I can't pick a place to start. Everything looks so hard,so much of competition, I can't dream of preparing for exam like IAS. Hoping that this video will change the way I see things.

  • @hennakaushal25
    @hennakaushal25 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you sir ..hope to see this longer video

  • @ataraxiafinder7297
    @ataraxiafinder7297 Před 2 lety

    Thanks For sharing this solutions with us 🙏

  • @bhavikjain1483
    @bhavikjain1483 Před 2 lety

    Sir pehli kisine sahi waala process bataya hai thank you 👍

  • @amritadey2409
    @amritadey2409 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish my Father inspired me just like you inspire all of us , you are a father figure for me 🙏🙏

  • @renupingolia7284
    @renupingolia7284 Před 2 lety

    Exactly what I am searching for . thanks sir.

  • @ipconfigearth102
    @ipconfigearth102 Před 2 lety

    Very very nice message - Time is a luxury for me... I also keep writing thinking I will publish soon and that I am almost there.

  • @amitsingh-oo3ks
    @amitsingh-oo3ks Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much sir!

  • @chetankothari6751
    @chetankothari6751 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sir I needed at this Moments 🙏

  • @aditiyadav0794
    @aditiyadav0794 Před 2 lety

    Apk vedio se hmesha hope milti hai age bhdne ki sir....thnkyou sir your thought

  • @itsmishrashruti
    @itsmishrashruti Před 3 lety

    I can't even thank you enough for all ur motivation sir.... I feel so motivated after watching ur video's. I do follow every video of urs. Thank you sir ❤️

  • @birinaL
    @birinaL Před 2 lety

    😇👍clean room ,clean mind n clean thoughts . Sir always inspired me.

  • @SsK-ed8zd
    @SsK-ed8zd Před 3 lety +1

    Your youtube videos are changing lot of lives

  • @abhinavshravge9466
    @abhinavshravge9466 Před 2 lety

    You are awesome sir.. way you said you have different style of motivation.. that is true....🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @akshaygurav3038
    @akshaygurav3038 Před 3 lety

    Sir Ur simplicity is awesome 🔰☮️

  • @deepanshu7295
    @deepanshu7295 Před 3 lety +8

    In Short collect small victories as many as u can and build confidence from there and move towards bigger victories