I agree I hate that for her. Now Ralph is also feeding into that. This is some obvious jealousy going on with the husband and among the cast. Just because she is a talented actress, doesn’t mean she is always acting. She is beautiful and her spirit she shines bright!
It's so true. Kandi has Convert narcissistic ways. People that've been on the show, like nene and Portia who made her take accountability, she doesn't, like
Courtney sounds like a side chick, that has had pillow talk with Ralph, and who used this opportunity to really talk about how she feels Drew teaches Ralph
She is but TOAD, KANDI's husband tried to holla at Courtney, but COURTNEY did not want TOAD, color struct, I say preference, this is why KANDI did not like COURTNEY at first, COURTNEY and RALPH are really not related!!! Drew's sister did not have any business getting into it with bobble head Courtney!!!
In the words of Nene Leakes…”Ya can’t win by being dirty”. Never liked Kandi she is a nasty messy POS. The way ppl keep placing the blame on Courtney is absurd, Kandi has this show to do exactly what we saw 😒.
Kandi used Courtney to drag Drew. Kandi laughed along to Courtney’s comments and only disagreed when she spoke on Kenya. Kandi showed her dark side and damaged her brand with this interview. I suspect that the reunion is going to be worse. Drew kissing a girl isn’t that serious and just because Kandi is comfortable saying she kissed a girl. Drew obviously isn’t.
I totally agree, I'm feeling so different towards her now & I was a hug fan of Kandi lke I ws for Porsha. Porsha lost me as a fan & Kandi disappointing me as well
@@Sexy2dfullest Drew’s sister was collateral damage in Kandi’s get back. She’s human and as such is prone to make mistakes. However, her behavior showed her lack of humanity.
Yeah Kandi earned this dragging. What she also said about Drew's sister, mental illness and it's appearance was AWFUL. She chose to bring ol girl on her show knowing she only wants a moment (which Kandi knows because she came on the show trying to get a moment off of Kandi too) and is now being tainted by it. She earned that.
Kandi was talking about how Drew described Allison. Courtney said the ridiculous stuff. Kandi didn’t say anything wrong. Y’all just love to hate Kandi.
@@corky_mcfuck I'm actually a Kandi fan but she literally said it doesn't look like there's nothing wrong with her almost to only that they are lying about mental illness or that it needs to look a certain way. It was ignorant AF and I'm disappointed as a fan that she went that low and for what to kick someone already struggling. Kandi is way above Drew's weight class it was excessive and unnecessary.
I don't think anyone is really surprised that this went on in that interview. The person that always acts as if they aren't in the mess, more times than not, are right in the center of it!
@@alwyzbeenshayla I’m a fan and I’m admitting that this was not a good look AT ALL. She’s using others to say what she really wants to say and there is NOTHING cool about that.
It wasn’t that deep. She was right she didn’t want to trigger someone with a mental illness. What’s the problem? Now the stuff she said on the hot mic was terrible.
I was here for it ...I had to watch two more times to see what's the big issue....I saw none, guess I have a mean streak as well. Drew's sister is a marketing manager, believe she's working this opportunity to being on TV, not only for herself but to make Drew more relevant than she is on the show. Because if Drew stays paid her sister will also benefit financially....trust and believe that. EVERYONE is looking to come up when they have nothing burning in the fire. 😉☺️
She really didn't,.lke was it jst 2 bash Drew. D grl was just n yr movie & u wnt 2 do all dis bcuz she said u lying abt a kiss. 2 FCKN PETTY KANDI!!!! I thought u ws better dan dat
That hot mic was sickening. He used the possible adoption to write a book on being a step parent (to make money) And never adopted her son. So who lied to who.
I’m so sick of people weaponizing mental health challenges… NO ONE is in a place to pass judgement, especially Courtney, who doesn’t care about Drew’s sister at all! She was brave enough to share. It is completely inappropriate for anyone other than her doctor to feel any type of way about how she is managing that. In my experience, I pass enough judgement on myself. I want to feel normal and accepted. If Drew’s sister goes through any of those feelings, making her defend herself to some random is cruel.
All of them giving Courtney too much power. I call people I'm not related to cousin. Who the hell is Courtney, where's her man, her house, her life. Is she messing with Ralph?
As an OG viewer of Atlanta, I genuinely want a complete reboot. I’ve always loved the glamor and class that patomac brought with the historical backgrounds of these beautiful black queens. I’ve also always wanted to know more about the high class society of Atlanta. Atlanta has a lot of very successful black families that truly changed the cultural in Georgia. Maybe the founder of the historical college and their families? Or the music industry! Where are those woman at? I think we should truly promote the success of black women on this RHOA platform. That’s would be excellent! No more fake fights and breaking up of families.
I like Kandi but I never thought having Courtney on her speak on it was a good idea, and I refused to watch it. So I’m not surprised that Courtney said something ignorant. I’m gonna need her to start acting like a true Taurus and leave these snakes alone.
Just wondering, what was such a big deal about Courtney that you refused to watch her interview b4 any controversy? I'm not a fan of hers but in terms of the concept of speak on it, it made sense to have her on no?
Thank you Kempire for reminding us to give people empathy. Glad I didn't hear it I suffer from mental illness these shows have become toxic. Reboot time
For the most part, I like Kandi. I do notice how she can be cold, dismissive and lack accountability for the way she makes others feel sometimes. I think some of the other ladies are afraid to call her out because they know she is sort of "the teacher's pet" for Andy Cohen.
I don’t necessarily dislike Kandi but, I have been known to FF through her scenes. Her being a *teachers pet* reminds me of Theresa. Soft edits, spin-offs, lacking accountability and no one can say anything in opposition to them or it’s risking their housewives standing.
@@Natalia-hf3etwtf r u talking about? Both women, especially teresa is constantly trashed by the other women. Gorga is more of a teachers pet. No story for years yet still on the show
Kandi acts like a middle schooler. ALL THE TIME! You said she kissed the girl…..she said she didn’t. End of story. Who goes out for revenge for someone denying something. Who cares if Drew is lying. Kandi don’t want to be the only one who likes girls. 🙄
Kandi is a sick puppy!! She’s a passive aggressive person, she’s never a friend to no one but that husband that she gives a pass the get with other woman, while she kandi gets with plenty women, that’s why she keeps entertaining the dungeon, the dungeon is place where all the weird ones get a pass to screw everyone
My thing is, Kandi wants people to crucify Phaedra for repeating a rumor, but allows that Courtney chick to crack jokes about a person’s mental health diagnosis. Not cool!
Kandi is always cracking inappropriate jokes. About people failed marriages, She thought it was funny when the cookie lady showed up, She thought it was funny that her mother called Todd's dad, a pimp and his mother a prostitute. The only time it's not funny is when the rumor is about her. Which is why stiff I stand by what I said... She deserved it karma.
@@foulany7774 Well, if she thought some rumor that we never even heard said by Phaedra technically would ruin her image. Wait till she sees what this does. People are very serious about mental health.
Drew, Kandi is NOT your friend How Kandi is handling Drew, her supposed friend, is disgusting Alison and Drew should drag Kandi for filth next season(if no reboot happens)
Just for the record, Ralph is actually not even her cousin in-law. She said that she is Ralph’s best friend’s cousin. That is not a cousin in law. They literally have no relation. 😒
WTH??! I thought they were related, even if 3rd or 4th cousins. Related to his best friend? Now, I understand why some people are saying she is moving like a side chick.
People put Kandi on a high pedestal for some reason. She’s always been really weird and petty. Don’t forget what she did Phaedra when she lied to her about Apollo. She just PRETENDS to be impartial and like Sheree said brings people to her CZcams to talk bad about others. She could’ve stopped Courtney at any moment and said that’s too far, but did not. Instead she laughed and made faces.
That's what she always does. Instead of saying no you should stop she just smiles and make faces like that guy who kissed the girl whilst kandi was sat next to her
First off Drew’s sister is grown and who says she still on medication. She had the mental issue because of her divorce. She’s probably good now. Secondly Kandi was wrong. She can’t be the person who helps women and then try to pull a woman down. My problem is even if she is mad at Drew, Sharee and Marla said way more cruel things about Kandi and she didn’t do shit. Everyone picks on Drew because she is perceived as an easy target. Kandi was wrong as hell. This could definitely affect her movie.
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth I know they're a team, but even Kandi refers to it as Todd's movie. She contributed and they do a lot together but the movie is Todd's baby.
Folk talks about Kandi bad all the time!!!! Kandi making moves Chile she don’t have time for pettiness!! That’s why God keep blessing her!! Kandi is always wanting to take care of people not hurt them !!! Drew was disrespectful towards both Kandi/Todd after given a great opportunity!! Kandi is very forgiving but we all have to do better!!
Kandi should just take a break or be DEMOTE since she didn't show up these past couple of seasons. Kandi always casts a stone but hides her hand. Drew is dealing with a bad divorce/ losing her dad, and it's sickening hearing Kandi say Drew is the one that's gaslight Ralph. Like Drew deserves to be treated like that. Kandi shouldn't have had Courtney on Speak on it due to Kandi and Kenya so-called relationship 😏 with what Courtney said about Kenya when she fell. Courtney is thirsty 🚰💦 and would do anything to get on RHOA like Marlo did.
I was surprised when she had Courtney on there as well. Especially since Kenya had issues with her. But maybe she thought it was ok considering Kenya went on to do that recent interview.
Im with you Kempire. I started watching that interview. Just about 10mins in and I was done. As someone who's personally dealt with my own mental issues, I was definitely disappointed in Kandi. On the flip side, I expected nothing less from Courtney. She really needs to go.
Kandi was slammed for more than just having Courtney on her show. She was basically giggling at her comments towards Drew, her marriage and then the disparaging remarks about mental health and Allison. She made sure she took up for Kenya though. Drew calling her a liar - which at this point, she has no control over - didn't warrant her passiveness about Courtney's desperate need to grab a peach. I honestly was looking at her sideways afterwards.
Kandi is vengeful and spiteful at the slightest perceived wrong done to her. She is the friend she wants to be to you, but not always the friend you need, when you need it. Because of what Phaedra did to Kandi and how bad it was, people tend to forget why they were on bad terms prior to Phaedra lies. As Phaedra was going through her divorce and problems with it Apollo, Kandi was allowing Apollo to hang out at her house and store items at her house. She blamed it on Todd, saying that Todd and Apollo were friends, so it had nothing to do with her. If that were my friend, I would tell my husband you can be friends with Apollo but outside this house because my friend is going through it and I’m going support her. She wasn’t checking on Phaedra during that time. Kandi didn’t blink an eye when she witnessed Kenya and Apollo all over each other flirting. Kandi was not supportive of Phaedra at all. I was on Phaedra’s side until she told that lie about Kandi but that doesn’t mean I forgot how Kandi treated her “friend” Phaedra in the first place. Kandi has been and always be will be about Kandi.
“Kandi invites everyone on Speak on It”, and that’s the problem. Who asked for this interview? Who wanted this? It comes off badly on Kandi. Payback over a damn kiss?. How sad. Because somebody said Kandi lied? I’d rather be called a liar than to NOW BE LOOKED AT AS spiteful and nasty …because it was definitely spiteful, nasty, and distasteful on Kandi’s part to even do this and let it air. It was at this moment that we have seen her true colors for a second time. Do we not remember how she and Todd hid Apollo’s stuff in the garage, and she didn’t tell Fakedra? First time her true colors were shown. Now this? Yeah, she looks bad for this, especially with Drew going through a divorce and with the passing of her dad. This video was taped on August 9, which means Kandi, Kourtney, and Jamie had time to really review the video before posting it to the public. It just looks really bad on Kandi’s part since it’s her show and she allows it. I don’t understand why this fanbase refuse to hold Kandi accountable when she’s wrong or boring or whatever in any instance. In this instance, she was wrong.
Don’t forget when she went to Phaedra’s doctor’s appointment and ran back to tell women she didn’t know what the doctor said about Phaedra’s due date? Phaedra lied but it wasn’t their business and Phaedra was supposed to be her good friend.
She also outted Phaedra and told the ladies that she was already talking to somebody while going through the divorce, this was wayyy before the rape scandal....If we are friends you don't spill secrets and everything I told you on mad day, she's never accountable for what she does to others, it's not cool. She did so much to Phaedra that was overshadowed by that dungeon/rape scandal, which was wrong on Phaedra and Porsha's part.
She never said Kandi was trying to “coerce’ her to do the role. She said get her ready for the role. If Drew said she didn’t kiss Latoya why does she have to be a liar. Even Latoya said they didn’t kiss. Why is Kandi is telling the truth. I’m over it.
And why does Kandi care so much about that she should have left it like that,the fact that she told everyone about Toys when Drew said she has never kissed a girl,Kandi is nasty just like Mama joyce
She's a liar because Kandi, Marlo, Kenya, Porsha and Shamea saw them kiss. Plus at the reunion she admitted she kissed a girl before..it wasn't a big deal until she called Kandi a liar..Marlo and Sanya brought it up in Portugal but she isn't calling the other ladies liars who admitted they saw it as well.
Agreed. Latoya did say that on bravo after the show. Kandi will show receipt from the speak on it. But not the Bravo interview. Cynthia stated that she did not see anything, but turn around on speak on it that she saw Drew kiss Latoya... I like Kandi and things that she put out. However, her speak on it for this season was sub par. It was based on bashing people...
Iono why Kandi did that. It made absolutely NO sense and there was no benefit in it. Just dumb. And then she was JUST telling ppl what Phaedra did 10 years ago is SO bad and she should be hated forever. Kandi can be entitled and full of shit sometimes. She rides high, but she'll learn ppl will disregard you for way less than a r*pe rumor.
Thank you for bringing up the fact that Ralph is a cheater. Everybody always wants to jump down a woman's throat. I'm really sick of all the back lash that Drew gets. She's not a bad person and i've seen people do way worse on RHOA over the years
As much as I like Kandi, I think bringing Courtney on SOI was absolutely the wrong move. Nevermind how vile Courtney has been to Drew and whatnot. What about how she's treated Kenya, Kandi's bff? Not cool.
Kandi knew what she was going. 1.) Courtney has a big mouth and Kandi hears everything on the streets of ATL, so all the nasty hate Courtney had for Drew was probably not a surprise to her. 2.) Knowing that, having Courtney on to talk trash about Drew during THE OPENING WEEKEND FOR THE PASS was smart and good PR for the movie. 3.) Kandi is not perfect and getting some payback with a paycheck is on brand for her, 100%. Brought to you by Don Juan and Kandi Koated Productions.
How she a crisis manager and she is always causing a crisis for herself with the inappropriate comments??? The adoption statements along with the mental health and capping for Ralph crazy ass were all in poor taste. I was trying to give her a chance because I thought she was a smart cookie instead she turned out to be a ding bag. Bravo disappoints again.
@SSSS-wq4vn she really didn't though. Fans are just selective and want a problem with Courtney. She never said anything bad about Drew's sister mental illness. She only said she felt she was being exploited for a storyline for Drew and that they be having her drinking, which isn't healthy if she has mental issues. Kandi is who said she didn't believe it and asked Drew about it.
With a friend like Kandi who needs enemies 🤦♀️Kandi is so shady, I realized she didn’t want to go to hospital with Kenya when they were in Portugal 😮.
I saw the original and the edited version. Kandi was on clap back but didn’t expect the clap back from the fans. Jami is normally on point. Courtney should have never been on her platform. But hey Kandi can do what she want on her platform. Hopefully it was a lesson learned. Also we all got to see that Courtney is a mean girl and allegedly Ralph’s side chick.
I don't think most are upset with Kandi having Courtney on her show but it's how she responds to Courtney dogging out Drew! Kandi seem to shade Drew by laughing while Courtney's bashing Drew! This woman acts like Ralph's side piece ! Why Kandi give her so much leverage without stopping her? Does she dislike Drew that much that she didn't care?? She defended Kenya but threw Drew under the bus! If Kandi had let what happened at the dungeon stay in the dungeon things would have been so different! Who really care who Drew kissed but Kandi!
Courtney is a grown woman and has shown her true colors. Kandi isn't responsible for Courtney but she does need to own her lack of empathy for people. She seems clueless at times regarding people's feelings when they react in a way she wouldn't.
That person who said we are now seeing the vindictive side of Kandi is 💯correct, but for me, kandi has always shown this side of herself, editing has hidden a lot but andy cohen is giving her so much preferential treatment like he did Nene,that she is forgetting herself and being the ratchet street hoodlum she really is, a lot now. She's a nasty piece of work!!
@@shesosweet2781 I hear you, because this was recorded on 9th August and she could have taken that out before airing it. So on reflection I agree with you.
Honestly, Kandi is an evil genius. She gave Courtney a world wide platform to show her behind in the most negative way. Courtney is trash and since she believes in karma so much, what will her karma be for all her nasty antics???🤔
Nah, it’s not that. She really is doing to much because she’s pissed at Drew for calling her a liar. If I were Kandi I would not be going this hard. Kandi was sitting kiki-ing along with Courtney about some nasty stuff.
Actually it’s proven what Kandi been all along manipulative and throw brick and hide bitch! She only using Courtney cause she has issues with Drew cause when Courtney first came Kandi had nothing for her now they Kiki-ing! Lmaooo y’all Kandi fans delusional like a beyonce fans
An evil genius is correct referring to Kandi. She doesn't see it for Courtney and now Drew cause she called her a liar and constantly talked shit about Kandi to other people. Kill 2 birds with 1 stone. Kandi has gotten tired of people dogging her and lying on her so she fighting back.
If the tables were reversed, Kandi would be livid and I don’t understand what we’re thinking to allow Courtney say what she said and don’t back up Drew or Kenya. 🤦🏽♀️ the original interview was very telling on Kandi’s character 😒
This is why disclaimers are so important. The whole point of Speak On It is for the guest to give their raw, unfiltered, unedited opinion. The only wrong Kandi did was not having a disclaimer.
Love Kandi but this was a bad move on her part. Kandi herself seemed ignorant about mental health by saying something to the effect of mental health has a look and assuming Drew lied. Failing to shut down Courtney just made her look like she was endorsing these disparaging comments. Also had it been her marriage being attacked she'd have had strooongg feelings about it. Nahh Kandi. I wonder how she'll deal with this because Kandi doesn't like to be wrong.
Unfortunately you really have to watch out for Kandi these days cause she is a friend to no one!! Everything can’t be for a damn check! Like drew is supposed to be her friend! Knowing very well what she is going through yet she thought this was such a good idea!? I truly believe Drew never wanted to speak on not discuss the kissing incident! Yet Kandi continue to double down on it without even discussing it as a sidebar! Whole thing just show how nasty and vindictive Kandi is and Courtney is just a cesspool of a person!!
Kandi bears a grudge - she didn’t MAKE A MISTAKE. I don’t know Kandi other what I see in TV and nearly everyone she “try’s to help and work with” she has a problem with them. I know for many she’s a hero. But she’s to me “hi, is me, I’m the problem is me”. Next is her public fall out with Kenya cuz I see their friendship falling apart. But Kenya is equally problematic. So won’t be surprising. RHOA needs to wrap. Back to the drawing board. RHOP is next if they serve us the same nonsense as previous seasons.
Exactly, I have no empathy for either ...and this Speak on it was an eye opener for me.... Drew is definitely a Work of art, I can see her dragging things on to twist a narrative to fit to make her appear a victim in all situations, also placing her sister in a position to do the same....they all are trying to benefit from this opportunity of being on television, yet some want to feel for their personal issues and if that's what some want to do that's fine but give grace to the one's who choose not to go along with the okey-doke....and that would be Cortney and Kandi. No one has to agree, only agree to disagree.... Drew, Ralph and Drew's marketing Managing Sister are most entertaining. I'm sure she's guiding Drew to developing her Story line for next Season....😂
And, they compete with each other it’s a game of love/hate, with much more hate. Drew was beaming when the expose article came out when she was doing the interview. I think Drew actually leaked that.
Kandi has always and do puts herself on a pedestal to make herself look good. Look how she talk about Escape like has if she's the one that made that group. Look how she behaved in the past with anyone that have questioned her or tries to make her stand accountable or calls her out, how angry she get and always wants to head butt somebody😂 she said the same thing to Nene and Porsha. But, when Kenya said she was the head housewife, Kandi nor Sherree didnt say a word.
I totally agree about this not being live…I’m fine with Kandi including Courtney on show because shes typically unbiased and can separate the show drama from “this is work”. But there’s no way Kandi should’ve allowed Courtney to spew such callous and defaming info about Drew’s sister…edit it out. Is she gonna give Drew’s sister a chance to sit on the show and tell “her truth” as well?! Totally unfair and unkind.
Kandi is not responsible for what Courtney says out of her mouth. As usual Courtney was doing too much. However Kandi should apologize if people were offended by what was said on her platform. Drew deserves a get back from Kandi. Kandi and Todd hired her and supported her acting and singing the entire season only for her to call Kandi a liar and be ungrateful
This! She should’ve edited out Courtney’s mental health comments first and/or shut it down during filming. I think Kandi lacks empathy at times. However, I refuse to paint her as a villain when Drew is not a complete victim. Drew’s marital issues didn’t stop her from lying on Kandi.
As much crap as Courtney keeps talking about someone else’s drinking habits, she LITERALLY keeps blaming her effed up behavior on ALCOHOL!!!! She is a side piece, Ralph has been cheating and Courtney is just the new fool. She didn’t help Ralph’s case at all regarding the divorce. Honestly she gave drew a sure fire win runnin that twisted mouth of hers.
Kandi isn’t slammed for Courtney’s comments…Kandi is slammed for KANDI’S IGNORANT COMMENTS in regards to mental health (just as Courtney is being slammed for her own). Bias really had you in a chokehold. You NEVER hold Kandi accountable, just because she bought you with an interview. I hate to see it 🙄🤡
Every time Kandi does something…you always make sure to mention the part the other person played in the situation, but never Kandi. You think she cares for Courtney THAT deep, to re-edit a whole interview, to paint her in a better light? 🤔 No. She did it for herself, because she also made ignorant comments on her platform in that very conversation 🤦🏽♀️
Because Kandi has beef with Drew, she knew to bring on Courtney to trash Drew. Kandi was giving payback to Drew for calling her a LIAR about her the kissing girl situation. 🤷🏾♀️
Payback over a damn kiss? Because somebody said she lied? I’d rather be called a liar than to NOW BE LOOKED AT AS spiteful and nasty …because it was definitely spiteful, nasty, and distasteful on Kandi’s part to even do this or let it air. It was at this moment that we have seen her true colors for a second time. Do we not remember how she and Todd hid Apollo’s stuff in the garage, and she didn’t tell Fakedra? First time her true colors were shown. Now this? Yeah, she looks bad for this, especially with Drew going through a divorce and with the passing of her dad. This video was taped on August 9, which means Kandi, Kourtney, and Jamie had time to really review the video before posting it to the public. It just looks really bad on Kandi’s part since it’s her show and she allows it. I don’t understand why this fanbase refuse to hold Kandi accountable when she’s wrong or boring or whatever in any instance. In this instance, she was wrong.
I agree with the comments. Its clear whatever happened at that reunion pissed Kandi off as well that these insinuations that Kandi turns people out. I just personally think it’s not worth the extra energy for Drew. Look how Kenya laid off of her this season… she could’ve read her every episode and said “whatever is going on with her has to do with Ralph”. If Latoya and Drew want to lie. Let that be. We all see the truth Kandi you don’t always have to prove yourself right especially with the likes of Cloutney
It isn't so much that Kandi told on herself based on beef between herself and Drew...She literally invites the entire cast to record if they get along or not.
Whatever someone saids is not Kandi fault period! It’s not like she is coaching anyone to talk bad about others !! Kandi has a lot of people on speak on it so what’s the problem…..???
As someone that has anxiety and depression. I use mediation to regulate them. Although it’s advised for you not to drink alcohol, but all bodies are different and react differently to medication as well. It’s advised not to drive while taking certain medications, but people still do as well. She also doesn’t know if Allison is taking medication.
Kandi really wants to take down Drew. And people are still convinced Kandi doesn’t lie? Oh please. She bends the truth all the time to get her own way.
Kandi says that she offers Speak On It to everyone, whether she's cool with them or not. It's an opportunity for the person to clear things up and state how they really feel. I think it's funny how you all are trying to hold her responsible for what this other grown woman said. If anything is shed a light on Courtney's character. If she only had people she got along with on there, then people will be saying she was biased. She can't win.
@jhatchett7101 I agree, and normally she doesn't, but we have to remember you have to follow CZcams guidelines. Also, in the politically correct culture that's been created, it doesn't leave a lot of room for people to say things that are too offensive. If you don't want your video to get taken down or demonetized, it's best just to make the edit and then address it.
Another sad thing this showed is that Drew is not perceived to be a truthful person to the extent that folks would think she would stoop to this level for relevancy. Drew really needs to rebrand this part of her image.
Let’s be clear Kandi isn’t stupid, crazy or slow. She let Courtney talk her ish because she doesn’t like drew. It is what it is. This isn’t anything new.
Kempire Courtney knew her assignment. There is no way she would have been on Kandi's show if she hadn’t. Truth be told, most of the people on that show are suffering from mental health issues but haven’t been diagnosed yet. What has become sad about RHOA is that it has become one big mudslinging fest because certain people have been given too much power to do damage control, and some of the cast members are too vain or too self-absorbed to see themselves objectively. None of the cast members should be allowed to spin their own narrative or be vindictive about anything by having their own platform and inviting other cast from the show to only support their perspective. They are destroying the mystery and the fun of it all. Why go on another cast member's platform when she has control of the narrative, because she is only going to spin it to make herself look good. This is giving dictatorship vibes to me, which is going to cause more damage than good in the end. What sense has that ever made? May God, the creator, who knows everything and everyone have the final word.
@@rudolphmcneill515 Below are 10 signs of a vindictive narcissist: 1. They’re Easily Offended Research suggests that narcissistic rage and vindictiveness are commonly exhibited when a narcissist takes offense to something that someone did or said. Because narcissists often think only of themselves, they tend to take things personally and get offended in situations most people wouldn’t be bothered by. The more sensitive a narcissist is to criticism, the more likely it is they’ll become mean, vengeful, and vindictive. 2. They Hold Grudges & Harbor Resentment Vindictive narcissists are known to have a hard time letting go of anger and resentment, and may hold grudges against people for things that happened long ago. It’s almost as if they’re mentally ‘keeping score’ of every slight, critical remark, or joke made at their expense. They may blow up in the moment and still harbor resentment. Other times, they appear aloof or unbothered while inwardly plotting their revenge. 3. They Are Usually Angry or Upset With Someone It’s not unusual for a vindictive narcissist to be angry or upset with someone. They may even share their frustrations with others and rehash the reasons why they are irate. If you’re dealing with a vindictive narcissist, there’s a good chance that they are always mad at someone, as vindictive behavior is mainly driven by anger.1 Partners of vindictive narcissists often feel like they can’t do anything right, are constantly being criticized, and that their partner is continually upset with them. 4. They Blame Everything on Someone Else A refusal to accept accountability is a telltale sign of narcissism, but may be more prevalent in narcissists with a vindictive streak.Projecting blame onto someone else (even if they’re innocent) serves many purposes for a vindictive narcissist. One is that it allows them to dodge personal responsibility for anything they may have done wrong, further protecting their egos. Painting someone else as the ‘bad guy’ provides an excuse to target and retaliate against the person. 5. They Don’t Know How to Work Through Conflict Poor emotion regulation and impulse control are at the core of NPD, making it difficult for them to remain calm enough to ‘fight fair.’ Immature defenses, fits of rage, and vindictive acts are most obvious during conflicts and disagreements.Because vindictive narcissists are easily upset and unable to express themselves peacefully, they tend to either explode, storm off, or shut down during conflict. This also means that most of their disputes are unresolved, which may partly explain why they hold grudges and plot ways to get revenge. 6. They Have a ‘Get Even’ Mentality Vindictive narcissists have a ‘get even’ mentality and keep score of when someone has upset or offended them, often with a long list of names attached. Being unable to regulate emotions, take responsibility, resolve conflicts, or find empathy and forgiveness for others means getting even is the only way to let go and move on. 7. They Weaponize Information When people make the mistake of sharing their secrets, insecurities, and sensitive ‘intel’ with a vindictive narcissist, they usually end up regretting it. After collecting this information through charm, manipulation tactics, or other dishonest means, a vindictive narcissist commonly weaponizes this information. They may use it to blackmail, control, or threaten someone; or they may use it in a narcissistic smear campaign designed to ruin someone’s career, life, or reputation. 8. They Belittle Others to Feel Bigger Vindictiveness is sometimes believed to be an indication of severe narcissism, especially because it’s closely tied to antisocial and abusive behavior. One way this may be exhibited in daily interactions is belittlement. A vindictive narcissist will often put people down, give back-handed compliments, make cruel remarks, or say and do things to make others feel small (especially when they’re feeling small themselves). 9. They Have a Mean & Sadistic Side The more severe a person’s NPD is, the more likely it is that they’ll behave in ways that are cruel, dishonest, and even abusive. These antisocial tendencies can show up as a lack of empathy, callousness, or cruelty.The most psychopathic narcissists may even enjoy causing pain and suffering. These sadistic tendencies can be a sign that someone has both antisocial and narcissistic personality disorder (called malignant narcissism). This is also known as ‘Schadenfreude,’ a German term referring to the pleasure of hurting others. 10. They Use, Abuse & Then Discard People Extreme narcissists are unable to form close, healthy, and lasting relationships with other people.They usually view relationships in a transactional way, strategically trying to charm and con their way into the inner circles of people who have things they want. This could be fortune, fame, power, status, or valuable skills or personality traits that can be exploited. Once they’ve acquired their target or found a new and ‘better’ alternative, vindictive narcissists quickly end the relationship and move on to their next victim.
Kandi was one of my favs but deciding to have Corny on her platform was not a good decision. Kandi laughed with Corny while she was making those disgusting comments on mental health and her “cousin’s” divorce. Ralph has been feeding Corny info. and Corny should have been neutral and stayed out of it.
If I know a person likes to open their mouth for the sake of opening it,then I'm gonna use that person and say things that I know for sure that person is gonna say more and say nasty things
No Kandi is wrong as well because she said she asked Drew if the sister really have mental illness? Like wtf, Kandi mental health doesnt have a particular look
Kandi be blowing me with this type of behavior. Makes me think she was never really mad with courtney in the first place. Terrible judge of character and thats why she stay getting burned by people constantly.. remove yourself permanently from people and things that dont serve you. She is the drama she complains about.
I saw the interview and trying to figure out why everyone is mad at Kandi? I didn’t see anything bad that Kandi said! If anything she let us all see Courtney’s true colors. Drew is not so innocent and she’s the one that came for Kandi calling her a liar and insinuating that Kandi wanted her in the dungeon and was grooming her for the movie. Kandi literally invites EVERYONE on the show!! She can’t control what people say on her show! Whether people like it or not Courtney was speaking her truth. 🤷🏾♀️ We really don’t know these people to be so vested lol. We only watch them for less than hour on Sundays and its edited to what they want us to see! I can’t say who I like and don’t like because I really don’t know these people! Lol 😂
Kandi's wrong for sitting there and letting "cousin" go on. But I put most of the blame on that shady 🍑 Jamie. Isn't she the one that's supposed to moderate and does the editing as well?
Courtney was doing the absolute most. I'm mad she shares a zodiac sign as me sis you can't possibly be a Capricorn acting weird like this. I guess getting a peach make these chick's go extra low.
I hate how the cast negates Drew’s feelings. They call her an actress at any given moment where she is trying to express herself.
I agree I hate that for her. Now Ralph is also feeding into that. This is some obvious jealousy going on with the husband and among the cast. Just because she is a talented actress, doesn’t mean she is always acting. She is beautiful and her spirit she shines bright!
It's so true. Kandi has Convert narcissistic ways. People that've been on the show, like nene and Portia who made her take accountability, she doesn't, like
If someone said that about Kandis husband/ marriage!!, she would have been exploding and crying!!
Exactly, I like Kandi but she knows she would go off of the tables were turned
Exactly 💯. Kandi is that kind of snake!!!
Yeap she is a big hypocrite and low down dirty
Exactly
Girlllll !
Courtney sounds like a side chick, that has had pillow talk with Ralph, and who used this opportunity to really talk about how she feels Drew teaches Ralph
Don’t she? Def don’t sound like a cousin to me at all
Totally agree
I got that vibe all season
Yes yes
What cousin compared herself to a cousin's wife 😅😂😂😂
Courtney is a clout chaser!!! She is empty
Sad but true
Yes I totally agree 🤡
As is Ralph the Head of Lettuce 😅
She is but TOAD, KANDI's husband tried to holla at Courtney, but COURTNEY did not want TOAD, color struct, I say preference, this is why KANDI did not like COURTNEY at first, COURTNEY and RALPH are really not related!!! Drew's sister did not have any business getting into it with bobble head Courtney!!!
Kandi, at her core, is truly her mother's child.
Snake
Facts
That part!!!!!!!!!!
🦊 in 🐏 clothing.
In the words of Nene Leakes…”Ya can’t win by being dirty”. Never liked Kandi she is a nasty messy POS. The way ppl keep placing the blame on Courtney is absurd, Kandi has this show to do exactly what we saw 😒.
Kandi brings people on that show to do her dirty work. She didn't even like Courtney at first
IAGREE 100% KANDI DOES THAY ALL TIME EVEN ON HOUSEVWIVES....KANDI SHADY AND 2. FACES SHE NOT GOOD ONE
That fight with her and Kandi was highly produced and fake. They have hella mutual friends. Yall take this show way too deep including kempire
Point taken. It seems like it’s a way to have her hands clean so that the mess doesn’t affect her $
@@phillysfinest215 THAT PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Exactly
Kandi used Courtney to drag Drew. Kandi laughed along to Courtney’s comments and only disagreed when she spoke on Kenya. Kandi showed her dark side and damaged her brand with this interview. I suspect that the reunion is going to be worse. Drew kissing a girl isn’t that serious and just because Kandi is comfortable saying she kissed a girl. Drew obviously isn’t.
I totally agree, I'm feeling so different towards her now & I was a hug fan of Kandi lke I ws for Porsha. Porsha lost me as a fan & Kandi disappointing me as well
@@Sexy2dfullest Drew’s sister was collateral damage in Kandi’s get back. She’s human and as such is prone to make mistakes. However, her behavior showed her lack of humanity.
Yes... not everyone is as open as Kandi and I think that Kandi needs to realize and respect that.....
The reality is Drew does not always tell the truth. She should have not called Kandi a liar. Kandi is clearly allowed to clear her name.
@@ebonygrant4289 That’s true she isn’t always truthful. However the punishment doesn’t fit the crime.
Kandi knew EXACTLY what she was doing… she uses others to do her dirty work
💯 she is a snake 🐍
I believe it
Everything everybody was saying about candy they were right
Kandi is mad at Drew so she been extra messy…Who need a friend like this after a fallout I couldn’t or want to be friends with Kandi
Yeah Kandi earned this dragging. What she also said about Drew's sister, mental illness and it's appearance was AWFUL. She chose to bring ol girl on her show knowing she only wants a moment (which Kandi knows because she came on the show trying to get a moment off of Kandi too) and is now being tainted by it. She earned that.
Thank you! She absolutely deserves every bit of it. Even the reunion looks hateful.
Kandi was talking about how Drew described Allison. Courtney said the ridiculous stuff. Kandi didn’t say anything wrong. Y’all just love to hate Kandi.
@@corky_mcfuck I'm actually a Kandi fan but she literally said it doesn't look like there's nothing wrong with her almost to only that they are lying about mental illness or that it needs to look a certain way. It was ignorant AF and I'm disappointed as a fan that she went that low and for what to kick someone already struggling. Kandi is way above Drew's weight class it was excessive and unnecessary.
Kandi is a snake and messy.
Y’all acting like she said something rude towards drew sister y’all are so dramatic
I don't think anyone is really surprised that this went on in that interview. The person that always acts as if they aren't in the mess, more times than not, are right in the center of it!
Her fans never want to admit that
@@alwyzbeenshayla I’m a fan and I’m admitting that this was not a good look AT ALL. She’s using others to say what she really wants to say and there is NOTHING cool about that.
@@tishawnmitchell8098 I appreciate you for being real about it! I started to like her this season until this. It’s just too much.
Teaaaaaaaaaaaa!
@@alwyzbeenshaylaEVAAAAA😂
Kandi loves to discuss other people’s business and be messy but ask her about her business she don’t want to talk about it.
And she will literally explode about it.
Why can't kandi ever be held accountable for what she does. They saw this episode, and didn't do the edit until the backlash.
….a baby Mama Joyce, “I just don’t understand with a little bit of oh what did I do.”😂
True,i also want to know 👀
It wasn’t that deep. She was right she didn’t want to trigger someone with a mental illness. What’s the problem? Now the stuff she said on the hot mic was terrible.
Damn! I think she is being held accountable!!! Have you seen all social media platforms🤔
Y’all want to blame everything on Kandi!
Kandi didn't even need to do this interview. For what purpose? So, she deserves all of this backlash!
I was here for it ...I had to watch two more times to see what's the big issue....I saw none, guess I have a mean streak as well. Drew's sister is a marketing manager, believe she's working this opportunity to being on TV, not only for herself but to make Drew more relevant than she is on the show. Because if Drew stays paid her sister will also benefit financially....trust and believe that.
EVERYONE is looking to come up when they have nothing burning in the fire. 😉☺️
She really didn't,.lke was it jst 2 bash Drew. D grl was just n yr movie & u wnt 2 do all dis bcuz she said u lying abt a kiss. 2 FCKN PETTY KANDI!!!! I thought u ws better dan dat
@@jfinner86 that’s disgusting
I agree!! WHY
Nobody deserves anything y’all be dramatic she ain’t say shit rude towards that girl
That hot mic was sickening. He used the possible adoption to write a book on being a step parent (to make money)
And never adopted her son. So who lied to who.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 a whole book! Shame
LIKE Drew lies and lies
That whole part 👏
Facts 😮
Yess Huntea I LIVE for the Hot Mic 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 😂😂
What job does Ralph have to "pay the bills"?
We are all wondering that same thing.
I’m wondering …
Speak on it!😂
Dude is a DOGG🗑️
😂😂😂
I’m so sick of people weaponizing mental health challenges… NO ONE is in a place to pass judgement, especially Courtney, who doesn’t care about Drew’s sister at all! She was brave enough to share. It is completely inappropriate for anyone other than her doctor to feel any type of way about how she is managing that. In my experience, I pass enough judgement on myself. I want to feel normal and accepted. If Drew’s sister goes through any of those feelings, making her defend herself to some random is cruel.
Mental health is real it's not a joke...
All of them giving Courtney too much power. I call people I'm not related to cousin. Who the hell is Courtney, where's her man, her house, her life. Is she messing with Ralph?
Kandi knew exactly what she was doing bring Courtney on
Yep and its her prerogative 🤷🏽♀️
I don't get why people drink the Kandi Coated 🐂💩. Kandi is as fake as $2 bill. 🤦🏾♀️😡🙄🤷🏾♀️
Exactly!! Like how u gonna have the same girl on ur show that was coming for you in the first episode 🤦🏾♀️
@@neeciiw7840 This is one!
@@neeciiw7840 # Ratings , ratings , ratings!! They don't care how or why 😅.
Courtney is so thirsty. She was claiming cousin but was so quick to flip on her supposed “family” girl bye
As an OG viewer of Atlanta, I genuinely want a complete reboot. I’ve always loved the glamor and class that patomac brought with the historical backgrounds of these beautiful black queens. I’ve also always wanted to know more about the high class society of Atlanta. Atlanta has a lot of very successful black families that truly changed the cultural in Georgia. Maybe the founder of the historical college and their families? Or the music industry! Where are those woman at? I think we should truly promote the success of black women on this RHOA platform. That’s would be excellent! No more fake fights and breaking up of families.
If you remember Kandi said when someone goes low with her she will go lower
I like Kandi but I never thought having Courtney on her speak on it was a good idea, and I refused to watch it. So I’m not surprised that Courtney said something ignorant. I’m gonna need her to start acting like a true Taurus and leave these snakes alone.
Kandi is the biggest snake their is.
Im with you on that i refuse to watch courtneys episode
@@ingridsk1359facts
Well she said she extended the invitation to all the cast members
Just wondering, what was such a big deal about Courtney that you refused to watch her interview b4 any controversy? I'm not a fan of hers but in terms of the concept of speak on it, it made sense to have her on no?
Thank you Kempire for reminding us to give people empathy. Glad I didn't hear it I suffer from mental illness these shows have become toxic. Reboot time
For the most part, I like Kandi. I do notice how she can be cold, dismissive and lack accountability for the way she makes others feel sometimes. I think some of the other ladies are afraid to call her out because they know she is sort of "the teacher's pet" for Andy Cohen.
I don’t necessarily dislike Kandi but, I have been known to FF through her scenes. Her being a *teachers pet* reminds me of Theresa. Soft edits, spin-offs, lacking accountability and no one can say anything in opposition to them or it’s risking their housewives standing.
I like what you said except the I like Kandi. I’ve never liked Kandi. She always been a snake
@@Natalia-hf3etwtf r u talking about? Both women, especially teresa is constantly trashed by the other women. Gorga is more of a teachers pet. No story for years yet still on the show
@@kirstenrox234 I am FUCKING talking about them both feeling like a teachers pet. If you don’t agree, fine. 👍🏾
Kandi acts like a middle schooler. ALL THE TIME! You said she kissed the girl…..she said she didn’t. End of story. Who goes out for revenge for someone denying something. Who cares if Drew is lying. Kandi don’t want to be the only one who likes girls. 🙄
Thank you! That's exactly how I feel.
True!
Kandi is a sick puppy!! She’s a passive aggressive person, she’s never a friend to no one but that husband that she gives a pass the get with other woman, while she kandi gets with plenty women, that’s why she keeps entertaining the dungeon, the dungeon is place where all the weird ones get a pass to screw everyone
Nothing good ever comes from outing someone.
My thing is, Kandi wants people to crucify Phaedra for repeating a rumor, but allows that Courtney chick to crack jokes about a person’s mental health diagnosis. Not cool!
Kandi is always cracking inappropriate jokes. About people failed marriages, She thought it was funny when the cookie lady showed up, She thought it was funny that her mother called Todd's dad, a pimp and his mother a prostitute. The only time it's not funny is when the rumor is about her. Which is why stiff I stand by what I said... She deserved it karma.
So now Kandi is responsible for a grown ass woman actions? Please!!!
@@foulany7774exactly
@@foulany7774 Well, if she thought some rumor that we never even heard said by Phaedra technically would ruin her image. Wait till she sees what this does. People are very serious about mental health.
It was teeny tiny bit more than just a rumor. It was career ending defamatory statements. A little more than light shade and gossip.
Drew, Kandi is NOT your friend
How Kandi is handling Drew, her supposed friend, is disgusting
Alison and Drew should drag Kandi for filth next season(if no reboot happens)
Facts
And Drew is hers? 😂😂😂
Kandi not a friend to anyone
YES. Drew has defended Kandi against Marlo all season@@zeligwilson
@@valeriewright5582nobody,and her and Todd wit on a show and said it,lol Todd always bringing up her money,the shade..thts y Todd,we knw..
Just for the record, Ralph is actually not even her cousin in-law. She said that she is Ralph’s best friend’s cousin. That is not a cousin in law. They literally have no relation. 😒
He said that in beginning..just for the record
WTH??! I thought they were related, even if 3rd or 4th cousins. Related to his best friend? Now, I understand why some people are saying she is moving like a side chick.
Figured 😂 she is a joke
@@Natalia-hf3et she is definitely moving like a side chick
@@Sexy2dfullest 👏🏽👏🏽
People put Kandi on a high pedestal for some reason. She’s always been really weird and petty. Don’t forget what she did Phaedra when she lied to her about Apollo. She just PRETENDS to be impartial and like Sheree said brings people to her CZcams to talk bad about others. She could’ve stopped Courtney at any moment and said that’s too far, but did not. Instead she laughed and made faces.
That's what she always does. Instead of saying no you should stop she just smiles and make faces like that guy who kissed the girl whilst kandi was sat next to her
First off Drew’s sister is grown and who says she still on medication. She had the mental issue because of her divorce. She’s probably good now. Secondly Kandi was wrong. She can’t be the person who helps women and then try to pull a woman down. My problem is even if she is mad at Drew, Sharee and Marla said way more cruel things about Kandi and she didn’t do shit. Everyone picks on Drew because she is perceived as an easy target. Kandi was wrong as hell. This could definitely affect her movie.
Amen
It's Todd's movie so let's still support, no shade to Kandi.
@@hikmahking5351Nope. They're a team.
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth I know they're a team, but even Kandi refers to it as Todd's movie. She contributed and they do a lot together but the movie is Todd's baby.
I enjoy Kandi but this was a low move, we all know how she would react if it were her husband and someone did that to her…
Did what to her?
Folk talks about Kandi bad all the time!!!! Kandi making moves Chile she don’t have time for pettiness!! That’s why God keep blessing her!! Kandi is always wanting to take care of people not hurt them !!! Drew was disrespectful towards both Kandi/Todd after given a great opportunity!! Kandi is very forgiving but we all have to do better!!
Kandi should just take a break or be DEMOTE since she didn't show up these past couple of seasons. Kandi always casts a stone but hides her hand. Drew is dealing with a bad divorce/ losing her dad, and it's sickening hearing Kandi say Drew is the one that's gaslight Ralph. Like Drew deserves to be treated like that. Kandi shouldn't have had Courtney on Speak on it due to Kandi and Kenya so-called relationship 😏 with what Courtney said about Kenya when she fell. Courtney is thirsty 🚰💦 and would do anything to get on RHOA like Marlo did.
She been a snake..she didn’t play wit nene like tht..she knws who too do it to
I was surprised when she had Courtney on there as well. Especially since Kenya had issues with her. But maybe she thought it was ok considering Kenya went on to do that recent interview.
kandi is being a nasty vindictive person to keep a peach on the show. I really hope the show gets rebooted and we never see this cast again
They have all been nasty and vindictive.
Yes!
This is who Kandi is.
I agree!!!!!
Im with you Kempire. I started watching that interview. Just about 10mins in and I was done. As someone who's personally dealt with my own mental issues, I was definitely disappointed in Kandi. On the flip side, I expected nothing less from Courtney. She really needs to go.
I was 2 mins in & gt annoyed
That’s why Nene keep saying, “ Starless” lol.. That was starless of Kandi to do that 😂
Kandi was slammed for more than just having Courtney on her show. She was basically giggling at her comments towards Drew, her marriage and then the disparaging remarks about mental health and Allison. She made sure she took up for Kenya though. Drew calling her a liar - which at this point, she has no control over - didn't warrant her passiveness about Courtney's desperate need to grab a peach. I honestly was looking at her sideways afterwards.
Kandi is a sniper from the side. Always has been.
EXACTLY
Snake to the fullest
So on point 👉 but karma has its own mind Kandi should be ashamed for that
Kandi is vengeful and spiteful at the slightest perceived wrong done to her. She is the friend she wants to be to you, but not always the friend you need, when you need it. Because of what Phaedra did to Kandi and how bad it was, people tend to forget why they were on bad terms prior to Phaedra lies. As Phaedra was going through her divorce and problems with it Apollo, Kandi was allowing Apollo to hang out at her house and store items at her house. She blamed it on Todd, saying that Todd and Apollo were friends, so it had nothing to do with her. If that were my friend, I would tell my husband you can be friends with Apollo but outside this house because my friend is going through it and I’m going support her. She wasn’t checking on Phaedra during that time. Kandi didn’t blink an eye when she witnessed Kenya and Apollo all over each other flirting. Kandi was not supportive of Phaedra at all. I was on Phaedra’s side until she told that lie about Kandi but that doesn’t mean I forgot how Kandi treated her “friend” Phaedra in the first place. Kandi has been and always be will be about Kandi.
Kandi actually did co-sign some of what Courtney said unfortunately.
“Kandi invites everyone on Speak on It”, and that’s the problem. Who asked for this interview? Who wanted this? It comes off badly on Kandi. Payback over a damn kiss?. How sad. Because somebody said Kandi lied? I’d rather be called a liar than to NOW BE LOOKED AT AS spiteful and nasty …because it was definitely spiteful, nasty, and distasteful on Kandi’s part to even do this and let it air.
It was at this moment that we have seen her true colors for a second time. Do we not remember how she and Todd hid Apollo’s stuff in the garage, and she didn’t tell Fakedra? First time her true colors were shown. Now this? Yeah, she looks bad for this, especially with Drew going through a divorce and with the passing of her dad. This video was taped on August 9, which means Kandi, Kourtney, and Jamie had time to really review the video before posting it to the public.
It just looks really bad on Kandi’s part since it’s her show and she allows it. I don’t understand why this fanbase refuse to hold Kandi accountable when she’s wrong or boring or whatever in any instance. In this instance, she was wrong.
Don’t forget when she went to Phaedra’s doctor’s appointment and ran back to tell women she didn’t know what the doctor said about Phaedra’s due date? Phaedra lied but it wasn’t their business and Phaedra was supposed to be her good friend.
I'm actually a fan of Kandi but I been having to give her the side eye lately
It's her platform. Don't watch if you're not interested in the guest.
It really is that simple.
Stop trying yo police others.
You fans take this shit too damn seriously 🙄
She also outted Phaedra and told the ladies that she was already talking to somebody while going through the divorce, this was wayyy before the rape scandal....If we are friends you don't spill secrets and everything I told you on mad day, she's never accountable for what she does to others, it's not cool. She did so much to Phaedra that was overshadowed by that dungeon/rape scandal, which was wrong on Phaedra and Porsha's part.
All you who are now seeing kandi for who she is, don't forget when she smiles. She is vindictive nd gets others to do her work
She never said Kandi was trying to “coerce’ her to do the role. She said get her ready for the role. If Drew said she didn’t kiss Latoya why does she have to be a liar. Even Latoya said they didn’t kiss. Why is Kandi is telling the truth. I’m over it.
Exactly, Latoya said in the beginning that they never kissed until she and drew were going at each other then suddenly they did kiss.
And why does Kandi care so much about that she should have left it like that,the fact that she told everyone about Toys when Drew said she has never kissed a girl,Kandi is nasty just like Mama joyce
She's a liar because Kandi, Marlo, Kenya, Porsha and Shamea saw them kiss. Plus at the reunion she admitted she kissed a girl before..it wasn't a big deal until she called Kandi a liar..Marlo and Sanya brought it up in Portugal but she isn't calling the other ladies liars who admitted they saw it as well.
Agreed. Latoya did say that on bravo after the show. Kandi will show receipt from the speak on it. But not the Bravo interview. Cynthia stated that she did not see anything, but turn around on speak on it that she saw Drew kiss Latoya... I like Kandi and things that she put out. However, her speak on it for this season was sub par. It was based on bashing people...
Iono why Kandi did that. It made absolutely NO sense and there was no benefit in it. Just dumb. And then she was JUST telling ppl what Phaedra did 10 years ago is SO bad and she should be hated forever. Kandi can be entitled and full of shit sometimes. She rides high, but she'll learn ppl will disregard you for way less than a r*pe rumor.
😂😂😂 Kandi did cause she is good for a bag lmao wtff I'm sure it made sense to her and was very beneficial to her and the show ...obviously 😂😂
Thank you for bringing up the fact that Ralph is a cheater. Everybody always wants to jump down a woman's throat. I'm really sick of all the back lash that Drew gets. She's not a bad person and i've seen people do way worse on RHOA over the years
As much as I like Kandi, I think bringing Courtney on SOI was absolutely the wrong move. Nevermind how vile Courtney has been to Drew and whatnot. What about how she's treated Kenya, Kandi's bff? Not cool.
What about how she treated kandi in the beginning? What are you even talking about
Nobody cares about Kenya... Hell she's just getting her karma
Kandi knew what she was going. 1.) Courtney has a big mouth and Kandi hears everything on the streets of ATL, so all the nasty hate Courtney had for Drew was probably not a surprise to her. 2.) Knowing that, having Courtney on to talk trash about Drew during THE OPENING WEEKEND FOR THE PASS was smart and good PR for the movie. 3.) Kandi is not perfect and getting some payback with a paycheck is on brand for her, 100%. Brought to you by Don Juan and Kandi Koated Productions.
booooooooooooooooooo
@@lirrajae12 these are just facts. Lol
This the kinda thing that leads to karma
@@LiveAndLetLivia They are facts i cannot deny ...
@@LiveAndLetLivia correction- its a perspective.
*Clout chasing crisis manager cousin Courtney needs to go*
Immediatedly and take Marlo, Sheree, Sanya with her! 😂
How she a crisis manager and she is always causing a crisis for herself with the inappropriate comments???
The adoption statements along with the mental health and capping for Ralph crazy ass were all in poor taste.
I was trying to give her a chance because I thought she was a smart cookie instead she turned out to be a ding bag.
Bravo disappoints again.
This is one of the best examples of Alliteration I've seen in a while😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾
U got dat right!!!
@SSSS-wq4vn she really didn't though. Fans are just selective and want a problem with Courtney. She never said anything bad about Drew's sister mental illness. She only said she felt she was being exploited for a storyline for Drew and that they be having her drinking, which isn't healthy if she has mental issues. Kandi is who said she didn't believe it and asked Drew about it.
With a friend like Kandi who needs enemies 🤦♀️Kandi is so shady, I realized she didn’t want to go to hospital with Kenya when they were in Portugal 😮.
yes... I noticed that also...
I don’t like Kandi but I wouldn’t wanna go either lol who wanna sit at the hospital all day
I saw the original and the edited version. Kandi was on clap back but didn’t expect the clap back from the fans. Jami is normally on point. Courtney should have never been on her platform. But hey Kandi can do what she want on her platform. Hopefully it was a lesson learned. Also we all got to see that Courtney is a mean girl and allegedly Ralph’s side chick.
I don't think most are upset with Kandi having Courtney on her show but it's how she responds to Courtney dogging out Drew! Kandi seem to shade Drew by laughing while Courtney's bashing Drew! This woman acts like Ralph's side piece ! Why Kandi give her so much leverage without stopping her? Does she dislike Drew that much that she didn't care?? She defended Kenya but threw Drew under the bus! If Kandi had let what happened at the dungeon stay in the dungeon things would have been so different! Who really care who Drew kissed but Kandi!
Kandi always does things or tells the story in a way that makes herself look better. She never takes accountability
Yep...and nobody EVER calls her out on her bullsh*t!
I think its time for Kandi to go she's been having to the same storyline for years now
Season 15 showed her lack of interest.
@@K-ku6hf yep and the feeling is mutual
She needed to go like 5 seasons ago... but she ain't going nowhere....
Truuuuuueeeeeeeee
Courtney is a grown woman and has shown her true colors. Kandi isn't responsible for Courtney but she does need to own her lack of empathy for people. She seems clueless at times regarding people's feelings when they react in a way she wouldn't.
Thank you. I agree with you. Courtney is a grown azz woman with no self-respect for others.
That person who said we are now seeing the vindictive side of Kandi is 💯correct, but for me, kandi has always shown this side of herself, editing has hidden a lot but andy cohen is giving her so much preferential treatment like he did Nene,that she is forgetting herself and being the ratchet street hoodlum she really is, a lot now.
She's a nasty piece of work!!
rite,always..snake ..as soon as those weak speak on it came out,it showed,everybody she had beef wit she would invite they beef on the show
Cloutney is to blame as she was being out of pocket
And Kandi is to be blamed for putting out. She clearly didn’t think it was that out of pocket 😖
@@shesosweet2781 I hear you, because this was recorded on 9th August and she could have taken that out before airing it. So on reflection I agree with you.
Honestly, Kandi is an evil genius.
She gave Courtney a world wide platform to show her behind in the most negative way.
Courtney is trash and since she believes in karma so much, what will her karma be for all her nasty antics???🤔
Evil genius is a perfect way to describe her
THIS!!!
Nah, it’s not that. She really is doing to much because she’s pissed at Drew for calling her a liar. If I were Kandi I would not be going this hard. Kandi was sitting kiki-ing along with Courtney about some nasty stuff.
Actually it’s proven what Kandi been all along manipulative and throw brick and hide bitch! She only using Courtney cause she has issues with Drew cause when Courtney first came Kandi had nothing for her now they Kiki-ing! Lmaooo y’all Kandi fans delusional like a beyonce fans
An evil genius is correct referring to Kandi. She doesn't see it for Courtney and now Drew cause she called her a liar and constantly talked shit about Kandi to other people. Kill 2 birds with 1 stone. Kandi has gotten tired of people dogging her and lying on her so she fighting back.
If the tables were reversed, Kandi would be livid and I don’t understand what we’re thinking to allow Courtney say what she said and don’t back up Drew or Kenya. 🤦🏽♀️ the original interview was very telling on Kandi’s character 😒
This is why disclaimers are so important. The whole point of Speak On It is for the guest to give their raw, unfiltered, unedited opinion. The only wrong Kandi did was not having a disclaimer.
Love Kandi but this was a bad move on her part. Kandi herself seemed ignorant about mental health by saying something to the effect of mental health has a look and assuming Drew lied. Failing to shut down Courtney just made her look like she was endorsing these disparaging comments. Also had it been her marriage being attacked she'd have had strooongg feelings about it. Nahh Kandi. I wonder how she'll deal with this because Kandi doesn't like to be wrong.
Unfortunately you really have to watch out for Kandi these days cause she is a friend to no one!! Everything can’t be for a damn check! Like drew is supposed to be her friend! Knowing very well what she is going through yet she thought this was such a good idea!? I truly believe Drew never wanted to speak on not discuss the kissing incident! Yet Kandi continue to double down on it without even discussing it as a sidebar! Whole thing just show how nasty and vindictive Kandi is and Courtney is just a cesspool of a person!!
Kandi bears a grudge - she didn’t MAKE A MISTAKE. I don’t know Kandi other what I see in TV and nearly everyone she “try’s to help and work with” she has a problem with them. I know for many she’s a hero. But she’s to me “hi, is me, I’m the problem is me”. Next is her public fall out with Kenya cuz I see their friendship falling apart. But Kenya is equally problematic. So won’t be surprising. RHOA needs to wrap. Back to the drawing board. RHOP is next if they serve us the same nonsense as previous seasons.
Drew lies to save face... ralph is a straight manipulator...
Exactly, I have no empathy for either ...and this Speak on it was an eye opener for me.... Drew is definitely a Work of art, I can see her dragging things on to twist a narrative to fit to make her appear a victim in all situations, also placing her sister in a position to do the same....they all are trying to benefit from this opportunity of being on television, yet some want to feel for their personal issues and if that's what some want to do that's fine but give grace to the one's who choose not to go along with the okey-doke....and that would be Cortney and Kandi. No one has to agree, only agree to disagree.... Drew, Ralph and Drew's marketing Managing Sister are most entertaining. I'm sure she's guiding Drew to developing her Story line for next Season....😂
What reciepts do we have thus far that drew is a liar
Her sister tried to tell her but she chose him over her family thats drew problem 😮
And, they compete with each other it’s a game of love/hate, with much more hate. Drew was beaming when the expose article came out when she was doing the interview. I think Drew actually leaked that.
@@ayothomas7279 The episodes on the show..
Kandi has always and do puts herself on a pedestal to make herself look good. Look how she talk about Escape like has if she's the one that made that group. Look how she behaved in the past with anyone that have questioned her or tries to make her stand accountable or calls her out, how angry she get and always wants to head butt somebody😂 she said the same thing to Nene and Porsha. But, when Kenya said she was the head housewife, Kandi nor Sherree didnt say a word.
I totally agree about this not being live…I’m fine with Kandi including Courtney on show because shes typically unbiased and can separate the show drama from “this is work”. But there’s no way Kandi should’ve allowed Courtney to spew such callous and defaming info about Drew’s sister…edit it out. Is she gonna give Drew’s sister a chance to sit on the show and tell “her truth” as well?! Totally unfair and unkind.
Kandi is not responsible for what Courtney says out of her mouth. As usual Courtney was doing too much. However Kandi should apologize if people were offended by what was said on her platform. Drew deserves a get back from Kandi. Kandi and Todd hired her and supported her acting and singing the entire season only for her to call Kandi a liar and be ungrateful
This! She should’ve edited out Courtney’s mental health comments first and/or shut it down during filming. I think Kandi lacks empathy at times. However, I refuse to paint her as a villain when Drew is not a complete victim. Drew’s marital issues didn’t stop her from lying on Kandi.
As much crap as Courtney keeps talking about someone else’s drinking habits, she LITERALLY keeps blaming her effed up behavior on ALCOHOL!!!! She is a side piece, Ralph has been cheating and Courtney is just the new fool. She didn’t help Ralph’s case at all regarding the divorce. Honestly she gave drew a sure fire win runnin that twisted mouth of hers.
Twisted mouth…😂🤣😂 It looks like she’s had some Botox or something to even that bih out! 🤷🏽♀️😂
Not twisted mouth🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂I couldn’t put my finger on it😂😂
Kandi isn’t slammed for Courtney’s comments…Kandi is slammed for KANDI’S IGNORANT COMMENTS in regards to mental health (just as Courtney is being slammed for her own). Bias really had you in a chokehold. You NEVER hold Kandi accountable, just because she bought you with an interview. I hate to see it 🙄🤡
Every time Kandi does something…you always make sure to mention the part the other person played in the situation, but never Kandi. You think she cares for Courtney THAT deep, to re-edit a whole interview, to paint her in a better light? 🤔 No. She did it for herself, because she also made ignorant comments on her platform in that very conversation 🤦🏽♀️
I no longer feel bad for kandi for what Phaedra did
Kandi is messy this Season!
Isn't that what y'all wanted? 😂
She’s desperate to save her peach.
Always messy and the season was horrible
She’s always messy production just wants her off the show so they’re showing it now
Because Kandi has beef with Drew, she knew to bring on Courtney to trash Drew. Kandi was giving payback to Drew for calling her a LIAR about her the kissing girl situation. 🤷🏾♀️
Payback over a damn kiss? Because somebody said she lied? I’d rather be called a liar than to NOW BE LOOKED AT AS spiteful and nasty …because it was definitely spiteful, nasty, and distasteful on Kandi’s part to even do this or let it air.
It was at this moment that we have seen her true colors for a second time. Do we not remember how she and Todd hid Apollo’s stuff in the garage, and she didn’t tell Fakedra? First time her true colors were shown. Now this? Yeah, she looks bad for this, especially with Drew going through a divorce and with the passing of her dad. This video was taped on August 9, which means Kandi, Kourtney, and Jamie had time to really review the video before posting it to the public.
It just looks really bad on Kandi’s part since it’s her show and she allows it. I don’t understand why this fanbase refuse to hold Kandi accountable when she’s wrong or boring or whatever in any instance. In this instance, she was wrong.
I agree with the comments. Its clear whatever happened at that reunion pissed Kandi off as well that these insinuations that Kandi turns people out. I just personally think it’s not worth the extra energy for Drew. Look how Kenya laid off of her this season… she could’ve read her every episode and said “whatever is going on with her has to do with Ralph”. If Latoya and Drew want to lie. Let that be. We all see the truth Kandi you don’t always have to prove yourself right especially with the likes of Cloutney
I agree
Exactly smh
Courtney MAKES MY WHOLE ENTIRE A Z Z HURT! 🙄 Don’t bring her back next season! 🥴
It isn't so much that Kandi told on herself based on beef between herself and Drew...She literally invites the entire cast to record if they get along or not.
Thank you
It’s about promotion for Kandi not beef. Exactly.
Whatever someone saids is not Kandi fault period! It’s not like she is coaching anyone to talk bad about others !! Kandi has a lot of people on speak on it so what’s the problem…..???
Kandi throws rocks and hides her hand I am over her shenanigans let’s move on …….
As someone that has anxiety and depression. I use mediation to regulate them. Although it’s advised for you not to drink alcohol, but all bodies are different and react differently to medication as well. It’s advised not to drive while taking certain medications, but people still do as well. She also doesn’t know if Allison is taking medication.
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She sounded more like a side chick PERIODT!
This !!!!
❤❤❤ real shit she secretly likes Ralph
Kandi is looking to keep coins rolling at any costs. In my Nene voice “You don’t win when you play dirty.”
Kandi really wants to take down Drew. And people are still convinced Kandi doesn’t lie? Oh please. She bends the truth all the time to get her own way.
Kandi says that she offers Speak On It to everyone, whether she's cool with them or not. It's an opportunity for the person to clear things up and state how they really feel. I think it's funny how you all are trying to hold her responsible for what this other grown woman said. If anything is shed a light on Courtney's character. If she only had people she got along with on there, then people will be saying she was biased. She can't win.
Exactly!
If that is the case, then don’t edit the video AFTER backlash!! Stand by your original post
True......disappointed wth Kandi...100 percent. Lost respect for such action.
@jhatchett7101 I agree, and normally she doesn't, but we have to remember you have to follow CZcams guidelines. Also, in the politically correct culture that's been created, it doesn't leave a lot of room for people to say things that are too offensive. If you don't want your video to get taken down or demonetized, it's best just to make the edit and then address it.
That part. Courtney is a grown woman and has not hid her opinion on Drew even prior to Speak on It.
The way Kandi looks at Drew in the clips I see of the RHOA aftershow shows that she really does not like that girl. I don’t think she ever did.
I noticed after Todd chose Drew for the role., Kandi has been coming for Drew every since. Todd really knowns how to control Kandi
Courtney clearly had an agenda. You can tell these new cast members study up before they even get on the show. It’s almost an acting gig for them.
Kandi has always been like this but let somebody Get on her man and her mama😅
Another sad thing this showed is that Drew is not perceived to be a truthful person to the extent that folks would think she would stoop to this level for relevancy. Drew really needs to rebrand this part of her image.
Let’s be clear Kandi isn’t stupid, crazy or slow. She let Courtney talk her ish because she doesn’t like drew. It is what it is. This isn’t anything new.
Kempire Courtney knew her assignment. There is no way she would have been on Kandi's show if she hadn’t. Truth be told, most of the people on that show are suffering from mental health issues but haven’t been diagnosed yet. What has become sad about RHOA is that it has become one big mudslinging fest because certain people have been given too much power to do damage control, and some of the cast members are too vain or too self-absorbed to see themselves objectively. None of the cast members should be allowed to spin their own narrative or be vindictive about anything by having their own platform and inviting other cast from the show to only support their perspective. They are destroying the mystery and the fun of it all. Why go on another cast member's platform when she has control of the narrative, because she is only going to spin it to make herself look good. This is giving dictatorship vibes to me, which is going to cause more damage than good in the end. What sense has that ever made? May God, the creator, who knows everything and everyone have the final word.
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You're a psychiatrist?
so very true....
Amen! Well said and we'll received! Bullseye 🎯
@@rudolphmcneill515 Below are 10 signs of a vindictive narcissist:
1. They’re Easily Offended
Research suggests that narcissistic rage and vindictiveness are commonly exhibited when a narcissist takes offense to something that someone did or said. Because narcissists often think only of themselves, they tend to take things personally and get offended in situations most people wouldn’t be bothered by. The more sensitive a narcissist is to criticism, the more likely it is they’ll become mean, vengeful, and vindictive.
2. They Hold Grudges & Harbor Resentment
Vindictive narcissists are known to have a hard time letting go of anger and resentment, and may hold grudges against people for things that happened long ago. It’s almost as if they’re mentally ‘keeping score’ of every slight, critical remark, or joke made at their expense. They may blow up in the moment and still harbor resentment. Other times, they appear aloof or unbothered while inwardly plotting their revenge.
3. They Are Usually Angry or Upset With Someone
It’s not unusual for a vindictive narcissist to be angry or upset with someone. They may even share their frustrations with others and rehash the reasons why they are irate. If you’re dealing with a vindictive narcissist, there’s a good chance that they are always mad at someone, as vindictive behavior is mainly driven by anger.1 Partners of vindictive narcissists often feel like they can’t do anything right, are constantly being criticized, and that their partner is continually upset with them.
4. They Blame Everything on Someone Else
A refusal to accept accountability is a telltale sign of narcissism, but may be more prevalent in narcissists with a vindictive streak.Projecting blame onto someone else (even if they’re innocent) serves many purposes for a vindictive narcissist. One is that it allows them to dodge personal responsibility for anything they may have done wrong, further protecting their egos. Painting someone else as the ‘bad guy’ provides an excuse to target and retaliate against the person.
5. They Don’t Know How to Work Through Conflict
Poor emotion regulation and impulse control are at the core of NPD, making it difficult for them to remain calm enough to ‘fight fair.’ Immature defenses, fits of rage, and vindictive acts are most obvious during conflicts and disagreements.Because vindictive narcissists are easily upset and unable to express themselves peacefully, they tend to either explode, storm off, or shut down during conflict. This also means that most of their disputes are unresolved, which may partly explain why they hold grudges and plot ways to get revenge.
6. They Have a ‘Get Even’ Mentality
Vindictive narcissists have a ‘get even’ mentality and keep score of when someone has upset or offended them, often with a long list of names attached. Being unable to regulate emotions, take responsibility, resolve conflicts, or find empathy and forgiveness for others means getting even is the only way to let go and move on.
7. They Weaponize Information
When people make the mistake of sharing their secrets, insecurities, and sensitive ‘intel’ with a vindictive narcissist, they usually end up regretting it. After collecting this information through charm, manipulation tactics, or other dishonest means, a vindictive narcissist commonly weaponizes this information. They may use it to blackmail, control, or threaten someone; or they may use it in a narcissistic smear campaign designed to ruin someone’s career, life, or reputation.
8. They Belittle Others to Feel Bigger
Vindictiveness is sometimes believed to be an indication of severe narcissism, especially because it’s closely tied to antisocial and abusive behavior. One way this may be exhibited in daily interactions is belittlement. A vindictive narcissist will often put people down, give back-handed compliments, make cruel remarks, or say and do things to make others feel small (especially when they’re feeling small themselves).
9. They Have a Mean & Sadistic Side
The more severe a person’s NPD is, the more likely it is that they’ll behave in ways that are cruel, dishonest, and even abusive. These antisocial tendencies can show up as a lack of empathy, callousness, or cruelty.The most psychopathic narcissists may even enjoy causing pain and suffering. These sadistic tendencies can be a sign that someone has both antisocial and narcissistic personality disorder (called malignant narcissism). This is also known as ‘Schadenfreude,’ a German term referring to the pleasure of hurting others.
10. They Use, Abuse & Then Discard People
Extreme narcissists are unable to form close, healthy, and lasting relationships with other people.They usually view relationships in a transactional way, strategically trying to charm and con their way into the inner circles of people who have things they want. This could be fortune, fame, power, status, or valuable skills or personality traits that can be exploited. Once they’ve acquired their target or found a new and ‘better’ alternative, vindictive narcissists quickly end the relationship and move on to their next victim.
Nobody can control what comes out of someone's mouth. You can blame Kandi for the edit but not the fact Courtney said it.
Doesn't matter. She knew the mess, and it's her platform, so she accountable
Kandi was one of my favs but deciding to have Corny on her platform was not a good decision. Kandi laughed with Corny while she was making those disgusting comments on mental health and her “cousin’s” divorce. Ralph has been feeding Corny info. and Corny should have been neutral and stayed out of it.
I think they’re mad she didn’t check her.
If I know a person likes to open their mouth for the sake of opening it,then I'm gonna use that person and say things that I know for sure that person is gonna say more and say nasty things
No Kandi is wrong as well because she said she asked Drew if the sister really have mental illness? Like wtf, Kandi mental health doesnt have a particular look
Kandi used the my enemy’s enemy is my friend vibe. I can agree sometimes it’s necessary but this time it’s a no!
Courtney sounds like a squirrel
Kandi really played devil's advocate for this one. She really chases the bag, even with people she shouldn't be.
Marlo said production told her she could post it!!!!
I’m really convinced Marlo is paying someone in production atp! They are too Lenient with her smh
Post what?
Kandi be blowing me with this type of behavior. Makes me think she was never really mad with courtney in the first place. Terrible judge of character and thats why she stay getting burned by people constantly.. remove yourself permanently from people and things that dont serve you. She is the drama she complains about.
I saw the interview and trying to figure out why everyone is mad at Kandi? I didn’t see anything bad that Kandi said! If anything she let us all see Courtney’s true colors. Drew is not so innocent and she’s the one that came for Kandi calling her a liar and insinuating that Kandi wanted her in the dungeon and was grooming her for the movie. Kandi literally invites EVERYONE on the show!! She can’t control what people say on her show! Whether people like it or not Courtney was speaking her truth. 🤷🏾♀️ We really don’t know these people to be so vested lol. We only watch them for less than hour on Sundays and its edited to what they want us to see! I can’t say who I like and don’t like because I really don’t know these people! Lol 😂
Kandi yams ain’t innocent either
I agree with you
@@FalconsGirl1so could you explain because I’m really confused as to why ppl are mad at Kandi
Kandi's wrong for sitting there and letting "cousin" go on. But I put most of the blame on that shady 🍑 Jamie. Isn't she the one that's supposed to moderate and does the editing as well?
Thank you Kempire! Kandi KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING! She knew Courtney was going to be unhinged
Courtney was doing the absolute most. I'm mad she shares a zodiac sign as me sis you can't possibly be a Capricorn acting weird like this. I guess getting a peach make these chick's go extra low.
No she can't be a capricorn. We ain't like that
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Capricorns don't act like that.
Courtney is too involved in Drew’s marriage. I can’t believe she said she was good to Ralph in 6 months then Drew has ever been in years 😭😭😭
Kandi and Courtney spoke about what happened at the reunion before they edited the video.