RIP Bandit Boy 😭💔😭

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  • čas přidán 11. 08. 2019
  • We've lost a very special member of our BirdTricks Flock, and it took us a long time to be able to share it with all of you. I wrote more details in the following blog post for those of you that have unanswered questions about what happened: birdtricksstore.com/blogs/par...
    Bandit died 12 hours after I noticed something was wrong.
    We did not want to share anything pre-maturely without definitive answers, even though clear answers are something we have not been given. We are still searching and sharing our findings but the necropsy results came back inconclusive and the only thing the vets we consulted with do agree on are that it was not contagious, that it was a toxin of some sort, and that the other birds are not showing any symptoms. I wanted to make sure the necropsy results were back before we said anything, and that we could tell you all what the cause was but after waiting this long, it doesn't appear we will ever know that. And so all I can do is to do BETTER in areas that pose any sort of question in my mind. That's all we can ever do.
    PLEASE COMMENT:
    💝 What was the FIRST Bandit video you ever watched?
    💝 What has been your favorite Bandit moment?
    Although the sand didn't kill him, it was something we questioned being GOOD ENOUGH. How we kept our birds from going onto the sand/spending time down there (not that this is 100% effective but it's what we tried to do to limit it as much as possible, or discourage it):
    - Constantly cleaned toy parts off the ground so they didn't go down to play with pieces
    - Portion control with food so leftovers were less likely to get thrown below and then eaten (video here on this: • The Perfect Portion Fo... )
    - Kept as many engaging toys and activities (fav perches) high up from the ground
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    💔 To test something like sand for heavy metals or pesticides, fill out the following form and submit it with payment (I got results in 3 days): www.lsu.edu/vetmed/laddl/form...
    ❤️ Thanks to Daniel Kuykendall for the special footage of Bandit from our flight trip in 2016. Follow Daniel on Instagram: / kplus9
    I record most of my videos ahead of time and schedule them out - so I will still be posting videos on schedule as I already had them done before this occurred but I am unsure how long I will be able to keep that up as I did not produce anything while I've been mourning Bandit's loss. Spending time with my flock has been the most healing thing I can do for my soul right now... but it's really hard to do when I'm THIS emotional as I'm not as in tune with them as usual and it's a prime time for me to get bit because of that. My toucan Rocko has been the most helpful during this process for me... it's like he knows my soul aches right now and is helping me through.
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  • @ty_darling
    @ty_darling Před 4 lety +1907

    He might've not been their for your whole life but at least you were there for his, I'm sure he's having an amazing time in heaven watching down on all of you wishing the best of luck for the future to come

    • @karenbrown4524
      @karenbrown4524 Před 4 lety +31

      What a kind sweet comment.

    • @groucrow9709
      @groucrow9709 Před 4 lety +19

      Looking down with pure infinite Love, and with kind appreciation for the life you gave him, filled with fun, adventures, healthy food and living, Nature, friends and flock - and always, Love. You gave Bandit all Thank you for sharing this wonderful little guy with us, he touches many lives. Love to you 💚🐦💚johanna

    • @thharrimw
      @thharrimw Před 4 lety +4

      But heaven does not exist

    • @warriorxtman2
      @warriorxtman2 Před 4 lety +4

      There

    • @darkss5dd
      @darkss5dd Před 4 lety +6

      I don’t know how long he was with you, but he was quite a character, One of life‘s hardest lessons to teach is when death comes how hard it is to keep moving forward, all the unanswered questions why now what was the cause sometimes it’s best you don’t know sometimes it’s best that you do but eventually you will find answers to your questions.

  • @TheVelvetraven
    @TheVelvetraven Před 4 lety +514

    Please don't worry about producing videos for us ..... take the time you need to heal .... we'll all still be here when you are ready ... xxx

  • @wrvnxo
    @wrvnxo Před 4 lety +388

    It's no coincidence that birds and Angel's both have wings. Fly high bandit 🖤 ~ Lots Of Love, Wren

  • @Whispersofenchantment_Offical

    I saw this and I knew I shouldn't watch it.. I knew I'd cry through the whole thing but I wanted to know what happened. So I'm sitting here crying like a baby about a bird that wasn't mine to be honest I think bandit was in the first video I ever saw of yours .. People just don't understand how it feels to gain the trust and love of a bird - it's not easy and it takes a lot of work to build that trust which you have done with all of your flock.. I absolutely get it... Praying for healing.....

    • @aubrey_hash255
      @aubrey_hash255 Před 3 lety +3

      Me too

    • @Crummieboi56
      @Crummieboi56 Před 3 lety +2

      Jesus is returning are you Judgement is coming I respectfully disagree with your profile picture

    • @momofcitrusthecaique
      @momofcitrusthecaique Před 3 lety +3

      me four

    • @Honu117
      @Honu117 Před 2 lety +2

      I'm SO sorry, I have 1 named Cupiid born on Valentines Day...peace to your hearts

  • @chloelawrence3394
    @chloelawrence3394 Před 4 lety +253

    "it's almost like thier lifespan is a promise" that got me. You get a bird and in your mind your planning for what happens when YOU die, not them. And when they die it's so confusing.

  • @MikeyBustosVLOGS
    @MikeyBustosVLOGS Před 4 lety +700

    OMG this is such sad news to wake up to. I am so sorry, guys. My sincere condolences from my entire flock to yours. Bandit has flown over the rainbow bridge and is now part of the light! Love you both. Hugs! Xoxo

  • @trishacavin305
    @trishacavin305 Před 3 lety +83

    My grey passed away yesterday. She was 29. I’m just sick and somehow your video helped. I can’t stop crying. I’ve knew her longer than I’ve known my husband. Thank you for sharing this. It’s nice to know I’m not the only person who bawls like a baby about her bird. ❤️

    • @MrJdubz100
      @MrJdubz100 Před 2 lety +6

      I’m so sorry about your Gray. Mine is 13 years old and I really hope that she is with me for my whole life.

    • @sophiajardine3894
      @sophiajardine3894 Před rokem

      What happened?

    • @annewallace8744
      @annewallace8744 Před rokem +3

      I feel very sorry for you my beloved sky blue budgie indie passed away this month im heartbroken and just devastated i feel your greif and pain i miss the contact with indie she used to sit on my shoulder all day i had to put her to sleep at the vets the hardest thing ive had to do in my life indie maybe gone but she wont be forgotten till we meet again

    • @lauratobler9124
      @lauratobler9124 Před rokem +1

      I'm so very sorry for your pain. My Conure is 28, so I can't imagine what you are dealing with!

    • @tankster5826
      @tankster5826 Před rokem +2

      I know this is old but hope you get this. Just lost my beloved Co to African Grey March 8, 2023. He was still fairly energetic and talking but had lost some weight so had an avian special es at a university vet hospital He came through all the invasive tests but got weak from not eating and the stress and he damaged his beak in the process. On the way home his beak injury caused him to die. He didn’t seem to be in any pain but just quickly faded. I am totally devastated. I had him 24 years and he was my constant talking companion every single day.I can’t seem to move forward and he and I were constantly engaged. I can’t do anything at all without his voice and sounds constantly playing in my head. I didn’t realize how much space he took up in my mind and soul in a moment by moment basis. I don’t think I can live without my little guy. Not only did I enjoy his company but I told everyone I knew about my awesome wonderful bird. I really don’t know how to cope right now. I can’t imagine daily life without him.

  • @daviebaggins
    @daviebaggins Před 4 lety +137

    I just lost my conure after 28 years. She was my best buddy from when I was 12. I found your videos trying to figure out what to do next. Thanks for all of the great content and sorry for the loss of your birdy.

    • @thewheekly8
      @thewheekly8 Před 4 lety +10

      This comment made me cry, I’m so sorry for your loss. Sounds like your conure was very sweet, and loved. I’m sure she’s looking down on you from up there thanking you for being such a great buddy to her. Rip to your bird and bandit, the bird in this video. ❤️

    • @muffinplays1923
      @muffinplays1923 Před 4 lety +3

      I am so so so sorry for your loss

    • @alexandragizmo7351
      @alexandragizmo7351 Před 4 lety +1

      🙏❤️

    • @wickedlylovely2710
      @wickedlylovely2710 Před 4 lety +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss. You have given your bird the best life and so much love. My cockatiel Panchito passed away as well. I had him for 7 years. He would always sing to me when I would come home from work. He would go nuts when he would hear my car go “mee-meep”. RIP to all of these feathered lovelies 💜🦜

    • @whoyatoya
      @whoyatoya Před 3 lety +1

      Sorry for your loss. I too am heart broken . I accidentally stepped on my green cheek conour, Floki, killing him. He couldn't stay away from my toes and I had serious premonitions about this happening. I shovelled my feet constantly around my apartment trying not to step on him. Sadly it happened. Seriously heartbroken 😥

  • @stevendavis1135
    @stevendavis1135 Před 4 lety +273

    Man I cant deal 😢😢😢 , rip bandit boy. This video just hits you in so many ways. These guys didnt just lose a pet. They just lost a family member.

    • @Nitegirl54
      @Nitegirl54 Před 4 lety +8

      True!! Pets are Family too! Will Miss Him!

  • @lisalynn1
    @lisalynn1 Před 4 lety +59

    Just so people know, especially Jamie and Dave. Bandit has helped me in some bad times. I watched old videos of him which made me laugh and helped me. Thank you Bandit. I will miss you even though we never met. You live on in my heart. You will live on through memories.

  • @belle369
    @belle369 Před 4 lety +122

    R.I.P Bandit. He was my favorite bird. Thank you guys for giving him an amazing life.

    • @craigm.thompson6686
      @craigm.thompson6686 Před 4 lety +1

      Did you ever think that the smoke from the fire works may have effected Brandt

    • @belle369
      @belle369 Před 4 lety

      Craig M. Thompson No

    • @deannwilson3553
      @deannwilson3553 Před 4 lety +2

      @@craigm.thompson6686 that's a good thought. It could've been the sulfer from the gun powder.

  • @sheilasanjay3409
    @sheilasanjay3409 Před 4 lety +68

    I just saw this . I was crying the whole time with you.. I really love your birds... Don't feel bad.. he is just flying in heaven and watching over you... Love you.. be strong

  • @zakarymcleod1850
    @zakarymcleod1850 Před 4 lety +292

    I’m brand new to this channel. I’ve just joined, and I barely have even seen this bird. Yet I am still crying, and I never, ever cry from movies or videos or TV! Rest In Peace, you beautiful little Bandit

    • @Whispersofenchantment_Offical
      @Whispersofenchantment_Offical Před 4 lety +4

      I'm the same way about crying.. I've seen Bandit grow up on this channel.. I'm a mess.. I better get it together my Oscar (mini parrot) will be wondering what's wrong.. The dogs already suspicious...

    • @kaliward8850
      @kaliward8850 Před 4 lety +4

      I think it hits a spot where it reminds you of the losses you've experiances when u see other people loose their pets. Atleast that's how it is to me

    • @thewolfbird5507
      @thewolfbird5507 Před 4 lety

      I am very emojnel with every thing and this is to much for me my perants even asct me if I was okay. :-(
      ☆★☆★ #birds are fun.

  • @pomodorino1766
    @pomodorino1766 Před 4 lety +108

    Thanks for having the courage to share this painful moment guys.

  • @abbylee3834
    @abbylee3834 Před 3 lety +12

    I know it's a year later but still, I am really sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is really hard, especially if you have a bond with them. Fly high little Bandit. We miss you

  • @bxchyy
    @bxchyy Před 4 lety +75

    when I lost my budgie i dropped to the floor in pain. losing a bird is one of the worst feelings ever.

    • @AG-cj5gd
      @AG-cj5gd Před 3 lety

      Absolutely true.

    • @luceroascencion
      @luceroascencion Před 3 lety +1

      We lost our budgie as well we had him for one week and loved him so much!!! Ever since we brought him home he was so loving and he would let my daughter cover his little body with a small little tiny blanket to keep him warm. He would go back to his little cage whenever he wanted. Soooo cute. We loved him so much even though it was just for a week but it was a week of such beautifulness with him. We miss you snowflake!!! Thank you so much for bringing us such happiness!!! That was his name. I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @bxchyy
      @bxchyy Před 3 lety

      @@luceroascencion Thank you, snowflake sounded like a wonderful little bird... reading this made me sad. Wishing you the best and sorry for your lost friend...

    • @rowanalexander6690
      @rowanalexander6690 Před 3 lety +1

      Same. It happened to me a few weeks ago and I did the same. You don’t understand the term heart wrenching until you’ve really felt it. We had him for a year and one of the worst parts of it was his bonded brother was devastated and it was awful to see him that way.

    • @millicentkukla9132
      @millicentkukla9132 Před 3 lety

      @@rowanalexander6690 I know what it feels like but we're all here for you and know one day you will see him or her again

  • @angelabailey1286
    @angelabailey1286 Před 4 lety +130

    I am so very sorry. I am at a loss for words. So unexpected. We love you and will keep you in our prayers.

  • @RebeccaStout
    @RebeccaStout Před 4 lety +198

    I'm in shock and just sick over this. I am so sorry.

    • @outbackzak1500
      @outbackzak1500 Před 4 lety +4

      Rebecca Stout hi I’m a big fan and I’ve always wanted a cockatoo or a galah and it shows me I don’t need one because I can always watch them but this video made me feel like a real owner and I don’t want a cockatoo anymore because I can’t suffer the loss also tell onni I said hi 🙂I just thought I’d say hi

    • @RebeccaStout
      @RebeccaStout Před 4 lety +7

      @@outbackzak1500 Yah this killed me. It's terrifying to realize how fragile they really are and how fragile life can be. I lost a bird before. Tika. Hardest loss outside of our parents in our entire lives. I don't think we will ever get over it. It was just horrible.

  • @RedHeadForester
    @RedHeadForester Před 4 lety +25

    You guys care so deeply for your birds.
    The fact you've put so much effort into trying to find out what happened is proof of that.
    I hope the pain is easier for you now, though I know it will never go away.

  • @seanorth
    @seanorth Před 3 lety +9

    Hi guys, I am a former vet nurse and I have allways had a special interest in animal nutrition. Also grew up with birds in our household and I currently have seven birds. I just recently joined you, so I have not yet seen all of your videos. But something came to mind upon seeing this now, finding out that you lost him.
    First let me just say that I am so very sorry for your loss. It is the absolute worst part of being a pet owner.
    This might be just a coincidence of course. But still, I would like to mention it to you, so that you can look into it, if needed.
    In one of your videos when you film in your kitchen, by your countertop... I noticed plenty of packages of brown rice right next to you. And I did not want to question it, since it might not even be something you use to feed the birds. But, if it is for the birds... Then you need to know this.
    Brown rice (fullgrain) contains high levels of arsenic, picked up from the soil where it is grown. All rice do, since it is naturally in the soil. But brown rice has been found to contain the highest amounts. So much so, that it is not even recommended as an every day food source for humans (larger body mass) in my country (Sweden). For this reason also, we who work in this field, can not recommend rice to be used for dog and cat food. Arsenic poisoning is not easy to pinpoint and may cause other secondary diseases as well, so it is tricky. Maybe you know this allready, but if not, now at least you do. So I hope you skip the rice, both for you and possible your birds. Lots of love from Sweden. ❤️🙏

    • @Adennative
      @Adennative Před 2 lety +1

      I did notice that too. I felt in my gut something was not right with packed, microwaveable brown rice. I even thought it was for Jamie and her family and not for the birds. I really had a bad feeling seeing that brown rice so much that I told myself that I would never give that to my bird. Jamie and Dave put in a lot of effort in research for their birds. I hope they read your comment. Thank you for taking the time. I am actually going to screenshot your comment. God bless you.

    • @Adennative
      @Adennative Před 2 lety

      Is basmati rice ok?

  • @JohnnyWin
    @JohnnyWin Před 4 lety +67

    Thank you so much for this video. Tofu, my severe macaw, passed away 8/9 from respiratory problems. I don't feel so alone about how I'm feeling. To non-bird people - "It's just a bird." I couldn't find anyone to relate to. Thank you.

    • @shiningcrowstudio8968
      @shiningcrowstudio8968 Před 4 lety +5

      I'm sorry for your loss Johnny ❤ RIP Tofu❤

    • @DasSpaceAce
      @DasSpaceAce Před 4 lety +11

      I *hate* people who tell pet parents "it's just a bird/cat/dog/etc." Its great for them they can be that detached from the emotions of losing another living being that they shared everything with, but some of us can't. Some of us realize that even though they can't speak & express themselves like a human does, they are still a living, breathing, thinking, feeling being that has wants, needs & loves. Some of us see them like children & we love them *deeply*. I'm so sorry you lost your feathered baby & I'm sorry people weren't understanding and fed you that B.S line.

    • @riverbliss262
      @riverbliss262 Před 4 lety +3

      My heart goes out to you as well Johnny. No, Tofu wasn't "just a bird", he was part of your life. Warm hugs to you as well. I know the pain very well.

    • @robertbarger6244
      @robertbarger6244 Před 4 lety +3

      It's not Just a Bird and I'm sorry if anyone said; that to you. Tofu was your baby that you loved and took care of and I'm sorry for your loss Johnny Nguyen. The best and only good part of losing a pet is "Thank God he gives us Memories to live on in our Hearts". I hope you find comfort in that.

    • @marenhaugen5283
      @marenhaugen5283 Před 4 lety

      I am sorry about your bird brother Tofu. I hope for the best for you in the future.

  • @soowhatt5877
    @soowhatt5877 Před 4 lety +64

    No one is lost as long we remember.
    Bit cliche but true

  • @BeforeiSleepFilms
    @BeforeiSleepFilms Před 4 lety +19

    Your home, your care and love and your entire setup you maintain for your birds is obviously top notch. If something was amiss and your place had something wrong with it then your entire system would completely break down. But it is thriving with healthy happy birds and animals. The unknown is just so hard and upsetting. Were Bandit living with the top avian vet in the world it seems to me that the same scenario of his death would have played out. You are clearly amazing owners. Take care.

  • @KeshiaFowler
    @KeshiaFowler Před 3 lety +57

    I’m crying over a Bird I didn’t know

    • @caroline0515
      @caroline0515 Před 3 lety

      Same.

    • @Fynn
      @Fynn Před 3 lety

      Same. 1:30 into the video and I they just keep coming...

    • @user-wg9hb3rb4r
      @user-wg9hb3rb4r Před 3 lety

      Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭💔

  • @moiraaoibheane
    @moiraaoibheane Před 4 lety +42

    I don't remember the first video I saw with Bandit, but my favourite moments were when he was chatting non-stop. That little robot voice! A little while ago there was a video where he was 'helping' edit videos and it made me laugh so much because he just had to give his opinion on everything 😄 it was Bandit's talking and whispering that made me encourage my own birdie boy to start whispering and asking for his opinion on videos. I'm so sorry for your loss of Bandit. He was truly a character and a very special boy. ❤❤❤

  • @greyecologyst4694
    @greyecologyst4694 Před 4 lety +54

    Yall take quality care of your birds. Sometimes things happen. No one was to blame. Even human children are occasionally lost due to unforeseen and unavoidable incidents. Grieve. Thank you for the help you provide bird owners all over.

  • @florencethompson4161
    @florencethompson4161 Před rokem +7

    Three years later and this still hits so hard 😭😭😭

  • @davidwidick1218
    @davidwidick1218 Před 4 lety

    My deepest condolences for your loss. I’m new to your channel and your bond with him was very apparent and he was a special spirit. This video was beautiful. I love the clips of him just being him. May God give you stretch and answers. Keep up the wonderful videos in due time.

  • @aressutton5767
    @aressutton5767 Před 4 lety +45

    He's flying higher than he's ever flown before, I'm sorry for your loss

  • @BillyNoMates1974
    @BillyNoMates1974 Před 4 lety +136

    The first video of Bandit I came across was Bandit throwing himself off the bed. I was laughing my head off. this then led to me evaluating if I could take on an African grey. I then looked into the implications (good and bad) / adjustments it means to my life (no holidays abroad). After seeing the video of Bandit throwing himself off the bed, I subscribed to BirdTricks.
    I haven't looked back since.
    After at least 8 years, I got the chance to re-home a 10 year old African Grey.
    That was five years ago that 'baby' came into our lives. loving every minute of it.
    My wife now has an Indian Ring Neck and is a subscriber to BirdTricks also.
    Your advice has really helped us both. We will miss Bandit boy but we are so thankful for all of your video's
    So were very sorry to hear the bad news. please, please continue posting. you and Dave's advice is so helpful and I am sure you have helped other owners too. keep up the great work

  • @danielleclukey6827
    @danielleclukey6827 Před 4 lety

    I just started watching your channel, but I love all your videos and what your doing for birds, there families and trying to teach people how to love these beautiful creatures. I’m so sorry for your loss. This video has me crying like a baby.

  • @MissMaishka
    @MissMaishka Před 4 lety +21

    So sorry for your loss, he had an amazing life with you, He was loved, happy and cared for, which is all we could ask for in life. He will be missed terribly, cherish all those beautiful memories of him.

  • @stevendavis1135
    @stevendavis1135 Před 4 lety +91

    Omg , I clicked this as soon as I was notified. I'm at work tearing up right now omg. I'm so sorry you guys jesus 😥😢😢😢

  • @angelgreen3532
    @angelgreen3532 Před 4 lety +26

    Quite literally no one could have given him a better life than you did. He lived as long and as wonderfully as he did because of you, and I'm sure no one could argue that he couldn't have chosen a better family to spend his days with. I'm so sorry for your loss, and while I know the grieving never stops, I hope you quickly get to the point where most of the time you can think back on him and smile with fewer tears and not-so-sharp an ache in your heart.

  • @pearlytiger564
    @pearlytiger564 Před 2 lety +5

    Been watching your channel for a few weeks now. I have never cried so much for the loss of a bird that wasn’t even mine. Losing a feathered friend is the WORST. I hope and pray that you and Dave have found healing through such a painful experience. Even though it’s been 2 years, I imagine it’s still very hard.
    I have a 25 year old cockatiel that has been a part of my family for his whole life. I’m scared to think of what life will be like when he leaves me so I want to make sure I give him the best chance to live as long as possible and he gets the best of the best. Going to your site to find the best diet right now! I love him so much.

  • @scratchnmix9511
    @scratchnmix9511 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing such an intimate moment. I am sorry you had to feel this way. I thank you for your videos and teachings. I was just always fascinated by how amazing birds are and went on a CZcams spree. These little pets are amazing.

  • @tame112blood
    @tame112blood Před 4 lety +100

    I'm so sorry for your loss of Bandit. Seeing that last clip of him, I wonder if Bandit knew. He kept saying night night and I love you.
    That poem was beautiful.

  • @kristenyoung5947
    @kristenyoung5947 Před 4 lety +21

    Oh my goodness, I started sobbing the second I read the title. I'm so, so very sorry for your loss. I'm sending all my love and healing thoughts and I hope you all know we can wait for you to grieve properly and we're here to support you through this hard time. ❤ His antics have made me laugh a million times over the years and I watch video after video whenever I need a spirit boost. We'll miss you, Bandit Boy ❤

  • @dorkydancer8421
    @dorkydancer8421 Před 4 lety

    You guys are awesome. I’ve never had a bird but your videos are very entertaining. My heart breaks with yours right now. Thank You for sharing your passion with us.

  • @benlyon
    @benlyon Před 4 lety

    Thank you for sharing this. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you so so much for sharing all of your expertise and experience. As a new Jenday Conure owner, it means so much to me.

  • @newchanceanimalantics8096
    @newchanceanimalantics8096 Před 4 lety +60

    No words other RIP Bandit, you are loved, fly free, fly high!💞🦋🙏🏻🕊

  • @GrimSketxh
    @GrimSketxh Před 4 lety +11

    My favorite moments of Bandit were when he gave kisses. His little, “I love you!” That was the cutest thing.

  • @nainiko9310
    @nainiko9310 Před 4 lety

    I am so so so sorry for your loss, it seems like he had an amazing life with you and the fact that you are genuinely this sad shows how much you love him. It is beautiful that you have known such love for your bird and it won’t just go away, the love paired with sadness will be a constant reminder of how deep a connection with a pet can go. Stay strong♥️

  • @a.arnold1687
    @a.arnold1687 Před 4 lety

    I am so sorry for your loss. I could not keep a dry eye watching your video. You have helped my family immensely with training our birds and I hope you continue with what you're doing because you are making a difference.

  • @DavidJames0305
    @DavidJames0305 Před 4 lety +72

    Omg Jamie, I'm crying for your family watching this! I'm so sorry for your loss! May he R.I.P

  • @alyomally9260
    @alyomally9260 Před 4 lety +49

    🌷 *Him rolling off things or being thrown like football was my favs from back in the day. I first found you guys around 10 years ago* 🌷

  • @julierutherford8270
    @julierutherford8270 Před 4 lety +2

    That poem was sooo beautiful . I'm sorry for your loss . You do amazing work for all of your bird and help many other bird by teaching there owners the right way to feed , love, and keep their birds safe . Bandit was such a joy to watch . Keep doing what you do 🤗 xxx

  • @GingerNinja1
    @GingerNinja1 Před 4 lety

    I just love your channel. The fact that you allow us into your lives to get to know each member of your family, (even the trainees,) is amazing. I'm so sorry for your loss as difficult as it is that you have no answers, y'all provided a wonderful & exciting life for him. RIP Bandit Boy. ❤

  • @pamaladarsow2763
    @pamaladarsow2763 Před 4 lety +107

    🙏🏻 I lost my son to cancer seven years ago, to a rare cancer . Even though I know what caused his death , I think why him, what cause him to have cancer , why did it happen when he was so young, and on and on . I cried with you . It never stops hurting , sad to say . But we go on . Hugs , and prayers to all of you

    • @alexandragizmo7351
      @alexandragizmo7351 Před 4 lety +3

      ❤️🙏❤️

    • @sorinb2048
      @sorinb2048 Před 3 lety +1

      🙏🤍💋🤍💋🤍God's blessings, peace, and comfort upon you, each moment
      of everyday!

    • @syd417
      @syd417 Před 3 lety +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that he is at peace now in heaven 🕊❤

    • @kimmyscooking7956
      @kimmyscooking7956 Před 3 lety +2

      I’m so very sorry. I know several parents who have to live with what you are living with. My pain for them is so immense but NOTHING like what you parents are living. My heartache may be immense but not the same as yours. I lost the love of my life suddenly, 2 1/2 years ago. Ten days before our wedding. We had found such love and happiness and then he passed away. My grief drowns me at times because he’s no longer alive. I’ve lost both my parents and that was hard, BUT in my opinion, there are different levels of grief. A parents grief being the absolute hellish. Losing your mate being the next level of hellish grief, below the grief of a parent when their child passes. Then below losing your mate, is the loss of your parents. Everyone handles grief their own way and I’m sure I’m not completely right. All I know is that my heart breaks for parents whose child-children pass away. I know a dear family who lost 3 precious girls due to a wreck-less driver. How that family has endured is definitely a testament to strength. I wish you peace and comfort always. I believe our loved ones are in a better place and we will see them again. Take care and much love to you.

    • @elegantpersians
      @elegantpersians Před 3 lety +3

      In sanskrit there is a shloka
      " Pithrashoke Shadmaasey, Mathrashoke Vathsare , Barya Shokey Punar Bharya Putra Shokam Nirantharam"
      Grief of Father's demise will be there for a 6 months, Grief of Mothers demise will be there for an year, Grief of Wife's demise will be there till the new wife comes but Grief of Children's demise is forever 💔 this is so true 😥.

  • @angelsareeverywheresm5752
    @angelsareeverywheresm5752 Před 4 lety +21

    I was already crying before i even reached the 2 min mark. 😢
    I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of love to you and your family.

  • @kayelem6925
    @kayelem6925 Před 2 lety +5

    This broke my heart this morning, I’m so sorry for your loss, I’ve been there, it’s extremely rough! Keep strong and keep up the great work!

  • @drivingacrossamerica8228

    Thank you for sharing your story. Thanks for opening up SO much and letting the story be told. I will not tell you how to grieve, everyone is different. I do appreciate what you do SO much.

  • @abbeyjade3304
    @abbeyjade3304 Před 4 lety +31

    I am so incredibly sorry Jamie and Dave, you gave Bandit the best life possible may he rest in peace 💔

  • @NameNotNeeded
    @NameNotNeeded Před 4 lety +11

    Sorry to hear of your loss…
    Appreciate the openness in how much you're investing to finding out why Bandit died, but I don't think it's worth investing in -- as much as you may be filled with guilt, anxiety, and grief. You said it yourself that parrots are exceptional at hiding illness/weakness, post-mortem isn't your area of focus (and apparently _they_ may not be able to give you answers yet), and all your birds are in amazing, top-form. You're all giving your birds an amazing, healthy life, and continue to do so in future.
    I don't mean to derail the point of this video that Bandit's parting has been very difficult and upsetting, it's heartbreaking to see you both in tears over this, and his glowing personality was one of my favourites!

  • @katiiain
    @katiiain Před 4 lety +1

    So sorry for your loss ! I cried the whole time of the video

  • @billyb8306
    @billyb8306 Před 4 lety

    I just started watching your channel and was not prepared for this. I am so sorry! I am balling my eyes out. What an amazing little guy he was .

  • @zaynahlliambitanga2879
    @zaynahlliambitanga2879 Před 4 lety +6

    This is very unexpected, I can’t believe it. We’ll miss you forever, Bandit. You will always be a great birb to us. Condolences to you and your family, because you treated him like one. I’ll always miss him.

  • @daisysmisson487
    @daisysmisson487 Před 4 lety +13

    Bandit may not of lived for as long as you where hoping but he died knowing that he was loved by many and he was happy, many birds don't know how to be happy but bandit was the happiest bird I have ever seen and he may of taken a large chunk out of all of our hearts but he stole them to remember the people who loved him 💞 RIP Bandit 💔 we all love and miss you 💞

  • @mariaarzola1432
    @mariaarzola1432 Před 3 lety

    My deepest condolences. I just started watching your videos and really enjoy them. May you get thru this hard time.

  • @ronnivachon4002
    @ronnivachon4002 Před 3 lety +2

    What an amazing tribute to such a beautiful, majestic creature! I’ve just recently found your videos, and saw my first Bandit video right before finding this one. For only knowing him a minute, the tears did not stop flowing, for the love you both had for him shone through greatly. Thank you for sharing his wonderful moments, and yours of grief. Your love for your babies could never be questioned, as it is as evident as the air you breathe. Xo

  • @bobettearmour5994
    @bobettearmour5994 Před 4 lety +8

    😭😭😭😭😭 I am so sad for you, your family and your flock. There are no words. Bandit flies free over the Rainbow Bridge. The poem is BEAUTIFUL and powerful.
    💔 love you so much and feel your pain.

  • @birdman7135
    @birdman7135 Před 4 lety +20

    I'm sorry for your loss of Bandit. On the good side, Bandit would never have had a better living environment than what you two provided. ...I only have two parrots and to lose either would be devastating.

  • @leisalee815
    @leisalee815 Před 4 lety

    It is such a joy to watch you with these birds as i can see the joy and happiness in both your faces,, may the future bring you more happiness as you are having now xx sending big hugs to a genuine couple xx.

  • @tallbluestarry8962
    @tallbluestarry8962 Před 4 lety

    I am so sorry for your loss. What a heartbreak. Your love and care for every bird you encounter is so clear. He was such a lively, silly darling and it's obvious that every moment of his life with you was filled with affection, enrichment, joy, and happiness.

  • @skylarkohai
    @skylarkohai Před 4 lety +13

    I'm so sorry for your loss 😔 I fully understand how it feels to lose a feather friend, I hope you and your family will get through this hard time
    Bandit was extremely lucky to have an amazing family like you

  • @tommypettersson5433
    @tommypettersson5433 Před 4 lety +60

    I am sorry to hear that you lost Bandit. I know how hard it feels. I just lost my Blue-fronted Amazon some hours ago and are crying over her. I was giving them the regular evening treats and water, they drank and eat as usual on top of their cage. I waited for them to finish eating before putting them back in the cage for sleeping. After less than 10 minutes I heard something sounding like a cat and I went to the cage and there she was lying inside the cage on her back. I went for a towel to put her on when taking her out of the cage but she was already gone. It just took like 1 to 2 minutes from fully healthy and screaming to she died. It is very little phlegm around the nostrils. I haven’t noticed any signs or red flags, rather the opposite. I am very surprised how fast it did go and there was no time to do anything. I just wonder if she choked on something.
    She was a kind and fun bird, sometimes throwing things from the cage and screaming just to get my attention. She was too heavy to fly but used to climb down on the floor and then I should lift her up on the cage. When I gave them some treats she was always very thankful and showed me how happy she was for it. I have had her and the male almost 3 years and hoped for a long life together.
    They are both rescue birds that I did take care of. During this time we have grown together and functioned together and with the other birds much like a family. I am disabled and alone so she filled my day with a lot of joy.
    The male is sitting and looking at her where I have put her on a towel in a box. Think he is grieving in his own way. Kajsa became 12 years old and are really missed.

    • @sw4035
      @sw4035 Před 4 lety

      Tommy I ' m sorry to hear about your loss.

    • @unicornzNbeez
      @unicornzNbeez Před 4 lety

      So sorry for your loss :(

    • @anaviana2641
      @anaviana2641 Před 4 lety

      I am SO SORRY for your loss of your bird Tommy. That is just not fair to loose what you love. Its heart breaking😭

  • @mone4910
    @mone4910 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for the beautiful poem. 💜

  • @Wickedlove263
    @Wickedlove263 Před 4 lety

    Aw this is so sad. I just discovered your channel the other day. The Cockatoo video being one of the first I watched. And even though my introduction to him. Was him dive bombing you. And glaring at you lol. I already was fond of the little dude. So sorry for your loss.

  • @petradamaske1235
    @petradamaske1235 Před 4 lety +11

    I will miss his whispers and your laughter, when he does. I fell in love with him.
    I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @katerh3198
    @katerh3198 Před 4 lety +18

    He was so loved -- a very lucky birdie in so many ways. xxx May he fly free with his Aussie mates,

  • @maggiemcc
    @maggiemcc Před 2 lety +1

    So sorry to hear about Bandit, God bless you lots of love, hugs and kisses sent your way

  • @msmillertime24
    @msmillertime24 Před 4 lety

    So incredibly sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. Thank you for sharing that amazingly beautiful poem!!!

  • @susieqz813
    @susieqz813 Před 4 lety +87

    I’m just so very sorry, Bandit was a beautiful boy and you really gave him such a beautiful life. He (and you) was beyond lucky.
    I lost my cocktail who I had from when I was age 8 to age 30 and that little man was my world for 22 years. That poem was heart-wrenchingly perfect.
    We will see our boys again. Until then, we hold onto the beautiful memories.
    Sending much love to you. ❤️

  • @sunnyquaker5055
    @sunnyquaker5055 Před 4 lety +70

    May there be comfort in knowing that we understand the pain of your loss and know just how much you cared. May your happy memories comfort you at this time of grief. With sympathy.
    RIP Bandit, with love. 💟

    • @BluebirdAndFriends
      @BluebirdAndFriends Před 4 lety +1

      Just XxxXxxX

    • @judithdiiorio8798
      @judithdiiorio8798 Před 4 lety +1

      I only recently discoverrd your channel and have fallen in love with you and your flock. My hearr goes out to you all. Bandit was so endearing and will be missed by all his fanfriends. I did wonder how the loss of one of its members affects the rest of the flock. My heart goes out to them as well.

  • @alexisstubbs3509
    @alexisstubbs3509 Před 4 lety

    I discovered your channel a few weeks ago, and have been steadily watching the videos. I don’t have birds, and probably never will, but I love watching your interactions with them! I fell in love with Bandit through your videos and cried along with you in this one. I have no idea how you taught him to ‘rock out’ but that was definitely one of my favourite tricks!! I am so so sorry for your loss, and I hope you know that all of your followers are by your side as the one year anniversary approaches. Lots of love xx

  • @dawnkirksey7865
    @dawnkirksey7865 Před 2 lety

    I just found your channel and have to thank you for sharing you have help me with a lost that I had .it wasn't a bird loss but a fur family member I cared deeply about. I don't have any birds but I'm watching and leaning from you before getting one .I know it's hard to share your feelings with the Public , But I wanna say thank you so very much For sharing and teaching us .

  • @ScarletAflalo
    @ScarletAflalo Před 4 lety +121

    Bandit’s videos with you inspired me and drove my passion as a vet to understand birds and give them the care they deserve. You are incredible owners and I use your channel as an example on what birds needs for current or prospective owners to try and give them the wonderful life they deserve.
    You guys are amazing, and sometimes we just don’t know why they pass, and that hurts the most. Using his death as a chance to improve what is already an amazing set up is wonderful.
    I know so well the pain of losing a pet, My thoughts are with you all. Xxx

    • @sw4035
      @sw4035 Před 4 lety +1

      Well said! It is so valuable to learn from experts with the kind of passion they have. I can imagine it is like losing a child in an accident. Nothing can prepare you for the loss. God bless you all and your flocks. ♥️🙏

  • @susiewispe4136
    @susiewispe4136 Před 4 lety +14

    I'm so crushed to see this. Tears are rolling non stop. Of all the birds Bandit has always been my favorite!!! Such antics and a sweet angelic voice and so understandable. Not only beautiful outside but such a sweet soul. Everytime I'd get a notification I'd always hope Bandit would be in it. Life won't be the same💔😭😫 R.I.P. love you Bandit Boy, you were the coolest bird ever!!!

  • @leighmcpherson461
    @leighmcpherson461 Před 4 lety

    Only recently found your channel and living bird owning life through you guys. I fell in love with Bandit on the first video I saw (he was being testy which I loved) and to see this video today breaks my heart. You guys are amazing and Bandit was so lucky to have lived his time with you. What an awesome life he lived and he lived that happy life because of you guys!

  • @nancywilliamson6527
    @nancywilliamson6527 Před 3 lety

    I have been watching your channel every day and every night because I find what you do to be so fascinating. I never realized how complicated it is to train the birds because I never realized how many different kinds were out there. I think you should do a segment on what birds talk the clearest and on down the line to the ones that talk but are a little harder to understand and, well, stuff about different kinds of birds speaking different kinds of ways and how you go about teaching them. I live in south Texas and twice a day I have parrots (up to maybe 100) fly by and hang out in the trees and on the high lines. I swear I heard one say, “hi” one day. Anyway, keep up the good work and thanks for teaching your daughter to love the birds too!

  • @6000pizzas
    @6000pizzas Před 4 lety +17

    I know how you feel, my cat Tommy that we had for like 7 years was knocked down by a car a few weeks ago, were all with you and your in my prayers.
    RIP Bandit

  • @Ahmad-mq6mb
    @Ahmad-mq6mb Před 4 lety +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @ItsJustSherirea
    @ItsJustSherirea Před 4 lety +1

    This made me cry your tears made me cry the real emotion in this is so powerful I know what it feels like to lose a best friend not an animal. I just need to breathe this is so raw and natural I love these videos and I thank you for sharing

  • @7mcandes
    @7mcandes Před 4 lety +1

    Deepest condolences from Waynesboro, Virginia. Your sweet boy was well loved. I’ve cried with you.

  • @bshedn2202
    @bshedn2202 Před 4 lety +22

    Words cannot begin to describe the loss. We are all so sorry for your loss. I loved the poem. We are all praying for you. Extremely hard video for you but a blessing to all of us.

  • @doudoucz8987
    @doudoucz8987 Před 4 lety +51

    What an a amazing bird. I wish you condolences.

  • @daystar4909
    @daystar4909 Před 3 lety

    Great dedication video for a wonderful bird. I must admit, I cried several times in certain parts. thanks for sharing your deep love of *BANDIT*

  • @alphaloup68
    @alphaloup68 Před 4 lety

    Hello guys,I have just started watching your bird videos a few days ago. I have discovered a profound and deep connection to birds I feel which I didn't know was there and I'm now 51 years old,I must say I feel for you guys. You have my deepest sympathies. He will be forever in your hearts and souls. Keep up the wonderful work you do.

  • @Ranjid008
    @Ranjid008 Před 4 lety +30

    Damn... I cry almost never but this frickin hit me bad. R.I.P lil boi

  • @Allen-by6ci
    @Allen-by6ci Před 4 lety +6

    I have always been impressed at how well your animals are cared for and loved. You guys go above and beyond to make sure they are happy and healthy and it shows. You set an excellent example for the rest of us. Bandit was lucky to be part of your flock and you were lucky to have him. Miss that burrito.

  • @datinyone
    @datinyone Před 4 lety +1

    So sorry to hear this news. Hes my favourite of your flock. Such a beautiful bird. Condolences to you all.

  • @ginanugent
    @ginanugent Před 2 lety +1

    GRIEF IS THE PRIZE WE PAY FOR LOVE.......I know this was a long time ago, but I relate to the guilt one feels when losing a beloved pet. Your channel and your family is amazing and brings me a lot of joy.....just got my first Quaker parrot and use your methods. Sending you a very belated comforting hug from you old hood, Florida.....

  • @janiehall6095
    @janiehall6095 Před 4 lety +33

    OMG I'm so so sorry as I sit here crying with u. I will definitely hug my boy when he wakes up. I hope u find piece and happiness soon. Bandit will be missed and he had such great love from u guys

  • @carmengisela
    @carmengisela Před 4 lety +21

    I'm crying with you guys, I'm so sorry. I can't believe he's gone, he was so cute! 😭Sending you love and hugs, he had a great life thanks to you guys, you did everything you could for him, God bless your hearts! ❤️😥

  • @firstaid4film
    @firstaid4film Před 4 lety +1

    So sorry for your loss. My Cookie is a 33 year old Senegal that is showing signs of aging and having perching issues. I know the day will come that he will have to leave me and I can’t imagine what life is going to be like without him.

  • @nicoya_beauty
    @nicoya_beauty Před 4 lety

    I know this video was incredibly hard to film, but you honored him so well. I am new to your channel but as you were sharing memories and footage I was smiling and enjoying him. I can see he had a wonderful life. take peace in knowing that. god bless.

  • @wetsockk9199
    @wetsockk9199 Před 4 lety +21

    Bandit.. He was like. My favorite. And I dreamed of meeting him one day. This made me cry.

  • @rohitkulkarni
    @rohitkulkarni Před 4 lety +13

    Rest in Peace Baby Boy 😭

  • @beccybaddeley2753
    @beccybaddeley2753 Před 4 lety +8

    For Jamieleigh, I am a relative new comer to your amazing channel, since having my own cockatiel. I haven’t lost a bird but I have experienced sudden death of a pet and of my Dad. After spending years pulling everything apart about what went wrong ,what could have been done differently, but I now feel , (and am sobbing as I type) that death is a part of life, that hurts, that we never get over, but we learn to live with and our heart becomes bigger, and we love deeper each time the pain turns to remembering.Im a huge Doctor Who fan, and to quote The Doctor “ We are all stories in the end, just make sure it’s a good one” and Bandit’s story certainly is, and will be for generations of bird owners forever. Heal at your own pace my friend, prayers and love from Beccy xx
    P.S Don’t be afraid to take personal time away from the camera if you need to , we’ll understand!

  • @fredd4438
    @fredd4438 Před 4 lety +1

    This really breaks my heart ❤️! I can’t even imagine what you’re going through ..