Episode 12 | Meldah Leshalabe On 11 Year Sentence | Identity Theft | White Collar Crime
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- čas přidán 16. 09. 2023
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MEET THE TEAM
🙎🏽♂️ Host : @skeemgp
🙎🏿♂️Guest : Meldah Leshalabe
🎥 Captured By: @maligant_group.za
🔊 Sound: @maligant_group.za - Zábava
One thing i take from these interviews is that every dog has its day
This one should go back to prison, she doesn’t seem to be accountable for her heinous crimes
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😂😅😂😂😅
Even skeem is like her ,
She should. Victim mentality
Doing well guys! 👏🏾🤝🏾
In future, please start the interview with the guest's history so that we get a proper sense of who she is and what her life was like before prison. Then move onto the story of how they committed the crime. Tell the story & don't leave anything out.
Friendly tip: Have a look at how the likes of David Mashabela, Mapaseka Mokwele & even McG conduct interviews for some inspiration. ✌🏾❤️
But he is not David, Mapaseka nor MacG. If he would do that, then why is he doing it because those people are there? Remember again, this podcast is the same as others. Plus, we can't expect people to tell us everything as though thina we tell people everything.
The fact that we haven't been arrested, it doesn't mean we are innocent. If someone would do a podcast and call it ,"LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I DID." I doubt some will go and tell us how they got jobs, how they got married for so long, how they got their businesses.
So please 🙏 let's cut them some sleg 🙏
@@jnr4166 I don't think you understood what I said at all...
I am encouraging the interviewer to allow the guest to tell their story in full so that the audience doesn't keep asking for more details as you have seen in the comments. That is the very reason why these people have come onto this platform. To TELL THEIR STORY To share. Nothing is private at this point and it doesn't serve a purpose to "tell a story" & leave out the details which make the story.
I also didn't suggest that he should copy the interviewing style of those people. I said he should look at them and draw inspiration from HOW they conduct interviews. They are good at their jobs which is why they're popular and respected. It makes sense to draw inspiration from people who have experience doing what you're still learning how to do. This interviewer is not a broadcaster. He is still learning and we must allow him the space. But part of that learning for him should include research and watching how other people do it is part of that research.
This is good advice.
Good point sisi. I think I commented the same thing in the previous episode. Skeem talks too much and leaves out important details at times 🤧
@@jnr4166...loool thank you.. literally took those words out of my head word by word, this is a different wave don't disturb it with MacG'z podcast chill chill chiller 😂
She lost me when she said the victims celebrate the downfall of the perpetrator going to prison, are we supposed to glorify them?
wena!!!1
I personally feel like she does not realise her wrongs. According to her she was supposed to get away with it. She is so entitled
@@MotherAndSon113 I think she expected pretty privilege
You can ask again. That statement surprised me as well, I think she is going to offend again.
She is not regretting her deeds ,why would victims not celebrate? She's dillusional mxm
I’m appalled 😳…. After ruining people’s lives she comes here and has the audacity to say people get joy when someone goes to jail” sies “ the sense of entitlement… tuned off… immediately
I think she meant to say that we should consider all the options when an offender is found guilty of an offense. When young people are convicted there's still the possibility that they may be rehabilitated but prison doesn't really provide that opportunity for rehabilitation. I think she was trying to say that if there is some other way to punish such an offender while rehabilitating them so that they'll become better people and come back to contribute to society, that should be explored.
Then how else do we dissuade a potential criminal if they'll readily know the punishment will be a walk in the park?
@@MsRoriT
My thoughts exactly
Mel is not remorseful, she just sad that she didn't have proper representation in court. I find her to be deflecting a lot and I think she might repeat the same mistakes again.
She’s so proud of herself bathong
This one undermines the severity of her crime, she thinks “it’s just fraud and identity theft” so ignorant
I’m 21 and the only things I’m suffering from is heartbreak and academic stress, I’m not judging anyone but hayii khona😂
😂😂😂Academics and Mjolo not this but I’m also not judging
🫠 yazin ewu ngeke oe,.Hai khona
This lady did not just say that people you have wronged are happy. She does not know that being a victim is prison itself, emotions are kept in prison, anxiety. She is not showing remorse
Sisi said nothing and i was looking forward to this episode...😢bored ke....
She seems like she has victim mentality , she doesn’t understand that when u do wrong ur accountable for that Wether there is a mastermind or not .
True.n I hv worked for a bank n as she was speaking she has absolutely no idea wat she put through the banking consultants tht gave her the loan. Thy had to under go investigation, dnt work while the investigation is going on . .. plus there's always a high chance u will be blacklisted to work at any bank after this. After one is proof not guilty after 6mnths of suspension thy literally resign due to stigma attached n truma
Ur ryt.
Imagine she doesn't think criminals should go to jail.
Identity theft is so serious, baby girl doesn't comprehend the seriousness of what she did
We need the full story of when it started. She doesn’t want to reveal much maybe because she will try again 😢
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"I was 21, I was young" nah, babes knew exactly what she was doing and for her to expect the victims to feel sorry for her when she gets sentenced? Haih bandla.
21 is an adult...at 21 ur done with varsity
Imagine being the victim though someone taking out a 250k loan using your name 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Yoh my heart goes out to those people
it happened to me there is a lady out there with a fake ID book that has my id number. opening clothing accounts, cellphone contracts and withdrawing money from Game stores, I've been up and down, going to police station making affidavits, registering with transunion and SAFPS. Its not young people who are doing fraud. They don't care how many lives they damage, they are selfish. They only stop when they are caught.
And yet she is taking it so light that the bank has insurance mximm
@@khungekahangana8878 I really have a problem with her non chalant lack of accountability several times she tried to shift blame or talk about being the “mule” not the brain . She fucked up a lot of lives it’s not right
Nandipha magudumane lite😅mara baby girl at 21st, you're not a kid...but anyway may you find peace dadwethu and don't expect people to feel sorry for you ❤
The lady didn’t reveal details of her crimes. There’s a lot missing about her story!
And she failed to answer the questions she was asked. I didn't even finish the episode 😐
Stopped watching after 15mins. She’s not really revealing anything and talks down on people who make an honest living. Uzenza ungqesta. Too entitled.
Identify theft will leave the victim traumatized for life, with trust issues and so much anger. It can change your innocent heart uze ufune nokubulala ama perpetrators. I have been a victim of this multiple times, more than 5 times.
I am glad ukuthi uSisi has changed her, she doesn't deserve to be judged since she served her time for this. Thanks for sharing.
No accountability at all. 21 years old is not a "kid"
😂😂😂and she's emphasizing that but yet she was already a mother at that 21😂😂 talk about contradiction
can Meldah give us more details from start to finish so she can save young girls lives .can we have more details
Ja... it's like finding a train in motion....
I met this woman in 2017 when I was in primary school. We went on an excursion to kgosi mampuru prison and we had a one one conversation with her. Such a beautiful soul and I'm glad to see her on the podcast ❤
Iyashoda maan le interview. I wish she told us how she met the partner, how did he exactly introduce him to crime. What happened when she was now in prison
She was very cagey and vague.
She is still doing crime lo. No remorse or whatsoever. Such people need to be dealt with traditionally coz clearly prison didn't do jerk
Perhaps im overthinking but this woman is not remorseful also when she spoke about down on being receptionist like she was owed something bigger that time there's graduates struggling to get jobs yena she has a criminal record.
Remember she's white 😂
She is not remorseful she's entitled
Does she even have an idea how difficult it is for the victims to buy a jean KO Mr price on credit once your name is flagged for Identity theft. Your life is over as the victim.
Meldah please do not think that it is okay to do someone wrong and still get remorse from the very same person.
You must be seen to be remorseful and understand the wrath of the lives you ruined.
this one is crazy i hope she goes back for longer period what an idiot
This one will do it again... No ways 😢
Meldar, u r very fortunate to be employed as an ex offender 🎉
I was once a victim of identity fraud still today it takes long for me to get credit approval because of scammers.I sense no remorse from the guest which is really sad cause iam sho her victims are still suffering.
She looks so much like Zarithebosslady
A younger version of her
Her voice sounds like hers too
I'm shocked bathong... it's like she's not ashamed 😦
I don't know if pretty privilege has gone to her head but she sounds very oblivious.
I remember Meldah from high school, very beautiful lady.
The interview is not properly structured, we still dont understand who she is, how she got into crime, what she did exactly, who she worked with and where are they now, and how was prison life??? Like its so difficult to watch when the story is all over the place.
Those who think criminal women are ugly will always be shocked.
Lol 😂😂😂😂
Her story is boring😢 we want to hear full details abt her crime. Not herself.
True
Your podcast is unique and pushes for self correct....it's good if someone shows empathy
It is so useless to have guests like this lady who are not open enough with type of crime they committed. If she can't tell the story then no need to be a guest, we need to educate, inform and discouraging the young ones by giving full information.
She doesn't take full responsibility for what she did, 51% chances are that she's likely to be a repeat offender. Extremely bitter that mastermind did not do time and according to her, because he had/has money. To date, she doesn't take a look at herself but thinks about mastermind who dumped her, her pregnancy and had no care in the world about their child.
True that what I noticed, she has victim tendency
My thoughts exactly,she came and said nothing 😮
Her plan was to be the best gynaecologist but she was studying business management 🤔 inkulumo ayhlangani😒
Nami ngimangele😮
yazin...
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She is lying
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I'm ambivalent about feeling sorry for her or not. Last year my elderly mother 82 years old was a victim of bank scammers. They tricked her and cleaned out her account about R70k. She has a heart condition and was operated. I've prayed deep prayers that the worst calamity befalls these criminals. There's no insurance or ABSA bank that paid her back because they say she consented. These criminals are sleek and probably use muthi. So dear Meldah, your incarceration is nothing compared to what the victims of crime go through😢
No. Bank’s reimburses such fraud. Revisit the investigation
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Next time please start the interview with the guests history then move onto the interview questions and why they got arrested. We're confused in the beginning as viewers.
Exactly right now we lost like everything is all over the place
Excellent interview Skeem 👏, eye opening. Thank you Meldah
I truly feel like Sis she’s not really telling us her Story.. what were you arrested for how many crimes you committed etc..,
she really needs to open up no one will judge her.. looking forward for part 2 ✌🏻
We blame the interviewer, m not a journalist but he can do better
Ma'am going to prison for a crime you committed is not a downfall its called be held to account for your actions. I feel you not rehabilitated and not remorseful but karma is knows your address. Thanks to the host for educating her coz honestly she sounds like she looks. But you not reformed.
Good point
One of my prison mate,Melda ,lady with integrity lovely bubbly in all levels.
This makes it difficult for us to follow....the story is all over man.....
This was a great interview and i guess as people we have different perspectives so I understand how other people are feeling about this and it's fine. 😊
I would like to know if she ever apologised to the people whose identity she stole? The people whose credit history was messed up because of her crime. What is she doing to help those people?
The intro is sooooo sick. Love it so much. Officially a subie
This lady doesn't show remorse. She's not yet rehabilitated. What does she mean she was young at 21 years? That age in society is dangerous. Those are killers, robbers, get rich or die trying age. There's no collateral damage in decisions you take, crime is crime Theres no justification to that. She needs to change her attitude otherwise she's not inspiring.
Spending time with ex-offenders, offering support, knowledge & skills while also amplifying their hearts cries for 2nd chance, really got me to walk in their shoes because I've had to connect with them & I must say there is so much left unsaid with how strong you have to be to find yourself (post your sentence) knocking at society for a 2nd chance to live a new & honest life...Which is why I feel organizations & podcasts such as these should be an anchor to reach out, inform & touch the hearts of the ordinary people in society because "society" alone plays a vital role & without their support one starts to feel like everything they've done to get to where they are was all in vain. I'm not imposing my values or beliefs on others but feel that members in society with a heart deep enough should help play a role & do a more human thing to do...Let us as society play our part & stop being the leading cause of seeing increasing numbers of re-offenders & seeing ex-offenders committing suicide post serving their sentences simply because we makes it hard for them to successfully re-intergrate even after they have acknowledged, were held accountable & paid for their wrong doings to society.
wow such a touching story i have a brother who was sentenced 15 his my worst enemy he put me in mental health hospital very manupulative and feel like the world owes him i am so proud of you dear
She is so beautiful that its unbelievable. Look at Magudumana. Indeed dont judge a person by looks.
What does beauty have to do with it Mara.😂
@tiisetsokekana5170 you missed a point of my comment. Just re-read, the last sentence, you will then see context.
So proud of you Bhuti.upward & forward🙌🏾
I like this podcast, but constructively so I feel like that sometimes it doesn't have chronology. Like how someone grew up, the space in life they were in when the crime happened, how they got caught then finally their experiences in prison and after prison. I don't mean this in a bad way but sometimes it jumps from one unrelated event to the other such that you get lost.
This women ruined people's life and she thinks it's cool . Wow 😢
Yazini mxm
@lebomohasoane8633 waste nje so now we must celebrate her, she's Loco.
Unempakamo too much. Uyadelela loSisi
I'm very sorry, but this lady sounds very shallow mentally and seems to enjoy the spotlight. I don't see that ger rehabilitated. She feels entitled, and the government was unfair
This is what kills our society..The mindset of "I am a first offender therefore I deserve not to be punishable" or Justice Favour those who have Money..Mel doesn't show any remorse at all, Honesty Skeem this was a Bad episode.. it's giving Nonsensical Privilege🙄🚮
Fully agree
I agree she points prison as a nice place to be at. I wonder why did skeem post this 🤔
Skeem this episode man, yes she was young but this is crime and i feel sorry for the victims that has and still suffering because of this act.I don't think this lady realized that her focus is more on herself.( Me, me, me ) and it's spirit on top of the wounds. Thanx to you Themba but today your questions did not gave the lady a chance to tell us the details of her crime remember we are learning here .May God help the victims and u Melda
😂 The objective Journalism example killed me... One of the most exquisite podcasts, bless.
Pretty privilege really is a thing. I'm just thinking of the number of admin graduates who are struggling to find jobs, who even commit suicide because there's no breakthrough but yeah... Such is life I guess.
😭😭😭 This is true.
It's sad 😢
True hey ...hayi kabi 😢
The pretty privilege will get get far, she hasn’t tapped into it yet. An insta page with some thirst traps and she is on her way.
Please say that again
Skeem, I wish you had asked her about her experience in both prisons as an inmate. she did not give mu details and the kind of treatment she got inside as a first time offender, but otherwise she is a beautiful intelligent lady.❤
Why are we talking about wrongfully arrest and not fraud ?
I don't understand why she wants to act like she was a victim. Take full responsibility for the crimes you committed. Don't blame it on anything. Heck own up to it
Interesting skeem. After the interview, some of us feel we still dont know her. We would have liked to know how she met the BF, how she did the crime, hiw she was caught. All that is a blur...
Anyways good platform
I went to the same high school with Meldah in Limpopo..shes always been this confident. I dont know her too well but the confidence is still there
It's not confidence, it's false ego . Had she had confidence, she would have not been easy to manipulate. If you listen carefully, she was groomed during pillow talk which is followed by sex. Confident people are not easy to appoach and have many questions and as such, can't be controlled.
She's arrogant and don't want to be accountable. She blames the mastermind. Yhoo
Confidence or entitlement?
Self proud explaiins her character
She does not seem very remorseful, she gives off an energy of entitlement and has no sympathy for her victims 😢
I don't think so, she just doesn't wanna talk about the crime
Remorseful for what? She did her time, what more do y’all want😕
She isn’t remorseful at all
too much
@@suezennyoni4368 she ruined those people s lives, her doing prison time did not fix the problems she created for them. She owes them a bit of sympathy not to brag like it was no big deal
She annoyed so much. ... were her victims supposed to feel sorry for her that she's going to prison ? 😳
Imagine victimizing and ruining people's lives and having the audacity to tell them how they should or shouldn't feel when a criminal is being sentenced! I lost all respect for this lady, she obviously still doesn't understand the extent of her crime despite having served time for it.
I think she thought people would consider that she was a novice at 21. I have no idea she realizes the trauma fraud causes.
@@normanzwane1985 she's a narcissist
Big ups guys stories like these are needed
Crime does pay...until you are caught and you have no powerful connections.
So this lady must go back to jail.
Please! Please! Make your podcasts into 2hrs. They're way too short. Enjoyed today's episode as always. Bless❤
Umuhle wena man 🙈
@@evansmojapelo6239 Ngiyabonga
Thank you for sharing my sister 💐🎉🎊🌹☺️💖😍😘you are amazing 🙏
She's beautiful!
I wasted my data😢😢😢 this girl is not saying anything making sense 😭. She's acting like a victim 😢. You destroyed ppl's lives
I beg to differ...I think she is just a confident and eloquent speaker and she stands on her truth and not ashamed to speak her truth with utter confidence.
Why ?
Naah go back 'n rewatchhh
See @MsRonT's comment above/below. S/he has offered great feedback and taken the time to constructively contribute to the podcast. Positively
So, i do not agree with the reason you have stated.
U deserve it vele bcz u were wrong what do you want more hybo slay queen😮😮
This one was here for vibes
We need Nandipha when she gets out bagithi yeeey that is one story that I want to hear😋
She is very ignorant she feels like it was not her fault 😢
I got that sense too, there's no accountability. She says if she had money, she wouldn't have been sentenced. What about the victims whose lives she stole?
Listening is a skill!!!!!! She said “I felt like it was not my fault coz there was a mastermind” “but I had to be convicted coz I committed the crime” Yooh Nina fundani ukumamela
@@b_mandisa8560 Uyanya perhaps in most crimes people work as a group so there's no such thing. She knew what she was doing mastermind or not she committed a crime the blame game won't make her not to be a criminal. She was not forced. No remorse whatsoever.
Lovely show 👌eye opener melds very intelligent and mature, keep it up skeem👊✌
I feel absolutely no pity for this fraudster!!! She ruined so many people's lives & honestly she is more concern about herself than the damage she did. Not a fan of this podcast ...Skeem can you please stop giving offenders a platform to put salt onto the wounds of the aggrieved. Can she focus on advising us honest folks on how to protect ourselves from scammers like her!!!
God did best for you mina I did many bad things and I went in many prison with different crimes and I was only serving minimum sentences and wazi ukuthi it's more dangerous than maximum prison and since I've changed I'm suffering worse than I was a criminal I stop doing crime and going to prison in 2013 and I quit drugs last but still no job life is very tough outside world😢
Good interview brother, please bring her back for where she is and whats her plans
Reception is not starting from the bottom. unless I miss something.
All in all great show. I wish you would do yours at schools and do viewings and debates at schools.
I still ddnt get her story
she really lost me. aiy... kanti ufunani ugirl? after crime she says ppl shld not be sentenced there are many ways to correct a person. wtf she talking abt? hai nor
The lady could possibly have been working with ma 419 scammers to commit fraud at the bank . 😮she is not revealing too much information, and treads carefully about identifying those who have been telling her that she can do the fraudulent activity because banks have insurance. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain her victims went through and are still going through. Not remorseful 😢
I think she is just an extrovert
shame... I so wish she went more into details on how she got into jail the bf story... and what happened to they relationship... I think this might give more insight to young ladies who do things because they want to be loved....
Take somebody's I D and take a loan and that person must be forced to pay back the money she never asked for. Ay maybe others are dead because of stress. Wish you could find those people and go and apologize. I am crying as you speak.
Story does not have chronology, wish she started from scratch, every piece of info was just from surface!
Skeem give the guest a chance to speak…
He's better on today's episode
What a heartbreaking story
Abo Thabo Bester yhuu!? Skeem your show is quite educative and interesting at the same time. Female prisoners and ex-prisoner seem to do well in prison. Where's the remorse angiyboni. IAs part of one's journey to recovery it's good to publicly apologise to your victims.
On her behalf,I am sorry to her victims...Meldah is still foolish yohhhh😢
After ruining people’s life’s she comes here and say people celebrate others downfall? This girl!
Thanks bro brilliant show..your show is informative
Don't take people by face value....
I'm proud of you my baby for speaking up.