Dear Future Wifey S3, E307: Built to Last (Kenny Lattimore)
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- You've overcome some of the most devastating heartbreak. Maybe you're mentally battling the mistakes of your past. Maybe you're fighting through the diagnosis of a terminal illness. Newsflash! You were "Built to Last!" Today's guest, R&B sensation Kenny Lattimore shares his story of fatherhood, divorce, and his "Faith" to find forever love.
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I love the way Kenny is choosing his words wisely
And calmly.
Kenny Lattimore's energy is so pure. His music is phenomenal. I am a huge fan of his and I'm so happy for him and Faith.
There has NEVER been a bad episode in this podcast!! All the guests are amazing and I learn so much. Thank you Mr. Whitfield!! ❤❤
Agreed
i agree... i just had to subscribe such a wonderful space
This is so true! In a world where there is so many awful relationship podcasts causing divides, it's great to see one where you can actually learn from and improve your marriage or dating.
Agreed
So true about learning so much with the authenticity and truth. Praise the Lord for this podcast
He’s so gentlemanly. And Faith is so womanly in a beautiful way. They’re so right for each other!
Kenny was preaching, teaching, testifying and singing. I love it!
My favorite part is Kenny talking about being her assistant. Reminds me that marriage is about service. Congratulations Kenny and Faith. 💐
Exactly!
❤❤❤
I am so tired of dragging our men it is a pure pleasure to tell it like it is. You go Kenny, do your thing it is always a pleasure to listen to a man of FAITH.
My heart just melted hearing Kenny talk about being 10 years old riding bikes with friends imagining taking their wives somewhere. That is the sweetest thing I've ever heard in my life! I am so happy that he's happy. He deserves good things. My first love used to sing 'Never too busy' to me when we were 14 years old lol. That was our song. Been a fan ever since.
I absolutely enjoyed watching this interview. Judge Faith and Kenny are so blessed to have each other. I pray their love lasts forever.
Thank you for this level of transparency. When Kenny said, “She helped me heal; but I wasn’t free.” It brought tears to my eyes! This gave me full insight into what happened with a previous relationship that shattered my heart at the time. Thank God for healing, restoration and the lessons I learned. 💖
Facts! Amen.
I felt that too that was real real
Amen so true sis ❤️🙏
Same for me Ms. Monica same for me( Very healing to hear).
Glad you had healing, this is EXACTLY what i'm going through now, it has been a year since he broke my heart & used me to heal whilst he wasn't ready, i loved him with everything in me. My recovery is slow but i believe i will be fully healed in the end.
The entire interview was very good. Kenny L was a gracious guest, and I enjoyed hearing about his wife, son and prior relationship experiences. One thing that struck me is sometimes we are placed in position to prepare others for their future spouse. That used to irk me to no end. However, I see it as a pruning for both parties. No matter who decided to end the relationship, both should walk away with notes to work on self. God is something else, and life is something else. Both are intentional and should lead to better days of purpose if we allow. 🦋✨
You hit the nail on the head.
I've grown to be a person that was looked at crazy because no matter what the fathers of my children did to ME I get along with their new partners and children. I feel like let my pain have purpose... if you learned something from me through your experience with me and used it to be a better man for the next woman all is well in my soul... cause she too deserves the great you are... I suffered for the both of us😂😳🤭... it really does make my soul smile and people think I'm crazy...God is amazing if he did it for them...I HAVE TO believe he'll do it for ME!!! One day....lol...it hasn't been easy being that person but I've grown as well and learned A LOT about MYSELF... I still fight with God but I'm learning to be obedient in Love with God not because I fear God... Dont be angry about it sis...just trust God that who he is crafting for you will be EXACTLY what you NEED...AND MORE...👭🏽🥰
@@donnagranderson514 amen!!! No anger anymore, and thankful for the lessons learned and learning. Celebrating your victory with you! ✨🙌🏿🦋
Wel said! Love it this me ! Time to move on to what belongs to you!
Brandy Warrior; you nailed it!!!!!!!!
Kenny is such a kind and humble man. Met him a few times on the red carpet and he has ALWAYS been kind. Not all celebs are kind like that.
Latarius you are definitely a game-changer. I was about to throw in the towel on black men and intentional relationships leading to marriage. I am a divorcee and I have waited for God to send me my boaz.. after years of wanting black men swirling out or selling out or just not living up to my and God's expectations on what a true king and head of the household looks like I began to be disgruntled. I started praying about the way I was feeling and asking God what did black women do to black men to make them turn their backs on us and the black community. Because I know so many women black women who have never been married or ever had a serious relationship with the black men who we are from the same Nation I personally had an almost Loveless marriage that produced two beautiful children but that's all that was beautiful about the marriage. Being a blood washed believer I began to doubt God. But one day I came across your Channel and knowing God to be intentional about everything and answering all prayers I have a new lease on love and understanding that there is hope for the black community and black love thank you for your transparency thank you for your podcast thank you for being a man of God because that's the one thing that the black community is very much in need is the presence of God in ourselves and in our relationships
I apologize on behalf of black men. There are a lot of good brothers out there. I pray the Lord connects you with His king.
Thanks for sharing your truths and being transparent. It's platforms such as this that births the hidden issues that infect and affect our beautiful Brown family fabric!
AMEN MY SISTER, this sounds like Me! Much blessings and success in your future marriage, may you all experience Life and Life More Abundantly! Peace and Love ALLWAYS 🥰🙏🏽👸🏽🤴🏽#KingdomLivity
Dear Latarious & Kenneth Lattimore I Was A Victim Of Domestic Violence With
Before In Got Pregnant
With My Precious Daughter Angelique
& While I Was Pregnant
With Sixteen Years Ago
But Now I Have Someone New In My Life For (7) Months Now So Thank You Kenneth For You Words
Of Encouragement & Wisdom From Helena L Camp
I had the opportunity to attend Rachelle Ferrell's concert featuring Kenny Lattimore and George Duke and when I tell you, I was left Speechless!! Kenny Lattimore's voice is a true gift from God. May God continue to bless his life and his marriage to Faith! 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️💕
Conversation is so deep that it feels like a free fall into greatness. 😎
Wow!
This man is so insanely talented and so highly skilled. He's in a class above 90% of the artists out here.
Oh my word my city Durban South Africa 🇿🇦 so cool to hear the shout out and we loved his show here
'I wish everyone could discover that it is ok to be yourself; what stood out to me was when he said that after his divorce, he could say to himself, 'I was who I said I was...'
I feel bad ,,,WHY because im just watching this interview after 1 YEAR. because of how his wife talk such wonderful things about him. i had to hear his side....even though he is popular ...i just did nt care untill his wife ...it really nice / lovely to see LOVE
Don't feel bad. Lol. Same here 🙈
This is powerful and I love Kenny. But he said something very important. He said he dated a young lady that helped him heal but he probably broke her heart. I recently left a guy alone and I told him to work on himself meaning to heal. When you get with a man who’s not healed over a past relationship you take a big risk ladies and I wasn’t willing to take it….wait on the Lord
AMEN... I have been in this situation... People and Pastors encouraging me to date this person who i was close to and we both liked each other ... But because of proximity, it was clear that there were issues that needed healing that would be an impediment to the flourishing of relationship. I would rather be a friend and continue to point you to Christ and His healing love, than simply date someone to feed a need or desire. His soul,healing and emotional/spiritual well being were more important to me than having a boyfriend and spouse.. Before they become your husband, they are your brother in Christ...
I want my brothers and sisters r in Christ to thrive... Inside and outside of relationships, friendships and marriage.
I loooooove your statement. This is me right now. Had to walk away from a 8 1/2 yr relationship. He has so much healing to do ( broken). I was not willing to take the disrespect any longer. I also had to heal the parts of me that attracted such a person.
I too am waiting on the good Lord to send my husband my way ❤️
@@lmarie724 continue on the journey sis. It (and also you!) are worth it.. God gets the MOST pleasure and glory out of us when we walk in our freedom and are able to exhibit genuine love, joy and peace... Ending that journey after 8+ years took a lot im sure.. *Hugs*
@@natashaj4078 Thank you so much. ...its been rough 😪. I'm walking with God though
Amen!!! Listen and he will show you what’s inside that person indeed.
Watching you two just made me forgive every men who's ever crossed my path. (Fathers included)They clearly didn't know any better.
Watching you being dads, being Christ centered, being transparent, just being you and having learnt from your walks. It's so refreshing ❤💯
You guys are grown! I appreciate this so much.
I can't wait for the day I'm not touched and healed by these conversations ❤🙏🏾
Thank you so much.
Thanks Laterrace, for being obedient and doing these awesome podcasts!
They are life changing!Its good how you listen so well to others! I am learning from this!
We cannot always talk, but be good listeners as well!
You two amazing Godly, Black men, are blessed of God! You have given hope to those that have been disappointed by toxic relationships, marriages. Thanks for sharing your healing journeys! Listening to you two testimonies, of Gods grace, mercies, goodness! It is helping so many people! God has and is restoring and healing His people that are broken!
Thanks for allowing God to help you two become good Godly men, husbands, fathers! So proud of you two! 😊
This is one of those interviews you watch more than once and get something new out of it each time.
I appreciate this conversation more than typed words can express
Thanks
Kenny is so eloquent. So well spoken.
Never a boring episode. I enjoyed Kenny and I’m very happy he found his help mate and yes he can sang! 👏 👏 He touched when he said (paraphrasing) there will be no weddings in Heaven so why not make the absolute best of it here, that really made me think, hmm 🤨.
Kenny is just a beautiful human being!!!
Kenny is one of the most genuine wonderful humans I have ever had the opportunity to meet
I love what he said about shutting it down and asking if this is going to edify us, is this going to build us up or is it positive. For me, my peace will not be disturbed by anyone.
I thoroughly enjoyed this. I love Kenny Lattimore. He is so grounded and real. I love his calm countenance. I’m very happy that he and his wife have each other. They are very blessed. Also, he has the most amazing voice!!!!!!
Kenny is such a beautiful soul! This was probably one of the best podcasts I've seen. It was so inspiring and encouraging to know that there are good men out there who truly respect, honor, and value women not just for what they think she can give them sexually, but for who she is as a person. Very beautiful to watch this and I am getting healed emotionally by listening to men of such caliber. Thank you for sharing it was worth watching.
This was a great interview! Kenny is a very emotionally intelligent man who understands how to be relational. God bless him and his new bride, I pray they spend many wonderful years together!
Omg. Kenny is just a GOOD HEARTED person. Amazing. 🇿🇦
Kenny is so real and authentic! I love his music..."For You" was/is my absolute favorite 😍 when I found it he was the singer that Faith was referring to as her husband...I was so happy for both of them❤...looking forward for all the things that they will share with us.
Kenny, your wife is a PURE and BEAUTIFUL breath of fresh air!!!☺️
He is so calm.. and his energy is felt through out.. wishing him and faith all the happiness in their journey
He's so humble, what a lovely interview. It gave a really interesting insight on father - son relationship. I really appreciated how he called his exes women of quality.
Thanks Laterras, these podcasts have been inspiring :)
Glad you enjoyed it!
Why would he call them anything else? It would say something about himself. People need to b honest about how they really jus use people knowing that person isn't what they desire except 4 sex and loneliness
A LOVE built to last, filled with honesty, communication, consistency and compatibility - what a powerful movement of God! I never thought that men talked about love and marriage like women do. It was refreshing to listen to both of you share that information in this episode.
I love this. I hope one day I can find a type of love like this but I feel like it's 10x easier for a man to find love than a woman. alot of good women out there but am noticing not a whole lot of good men out here. God willing maybe one day it'll happen for me so I'll continue to wait. 😇🙏
A beautiful man will see your beautiful heart. ♥️
I think alot of women let go good guys. They will fight for a mess up relationship
You have a true gift! I am so glad that u and Judge Faith found each other! Black love is the best love❤
Such a great conversation!! Thanks for having Kenny Lattimore as a guest. I have always admired his humility and how calm he is. Always been a huge fan. Love his Music! May God bless you and your wife Faith as you embark on your life together! Many blessings!
“This is definitely the one…I can make this decision.” I love how Kenny made the decision not just a choice when he married Faith. This conversation has provided so much reference as to how I need to analyze my single life prior to meeting my partner. It is my desire to be an asset to him, not a liability. If I move intentionally about seeing the value within my own self, I will know the value I will add to him and to those who love him. I now know how to pray for my future husband and the men who surround him. I love the words of affirmation ceremony. I respect men who have others who speak well of his character. So what an honor it will be to submit to a man who is affirmed as a man of God. I know that he can lead, protect, and provide for me. 💜
This episode right here!! To hear a black father talk about his son like that warms my heart. The parent tips that he gave was fire. “You don’t have to like me, but you will understand later”. Knowing that their brain is not fully developed until their 20’s should help parents understand that their children are only doing what they can with the knowledge and understanding that they have. The moment where he talked about the strong women in his life was important because he was looking for a strong woman and wasn’t intimidated when he found someone with strength. I loved how he talked about the choice to be married and helping people understand it’s not a magical thing. People get caught up in the fantasy and forget about the choice. Everyday you are choosing each other (or not).Then when he talked about being his wife’s assistant for a week. Drop the freaking mic!!! When you are in service to your spouse….. the marriage is going to be incredible….(both ways). Checklist are good for those who need them! I keep a checklist. Those that can free style like the host are blessed, but I have a daily list! I can’t! Lol! So many nuggets I could type but I will stop there! Fantastic interview! Enjoyed every moment. God bless him and Faith!
Goooood GOD! I've heard GOD will pick your mate all my Christian life. However learning more about GOD, I came to understand that GOD does NOT tell you who to marry. GOD gives you the tools to make a CHOICE. That's why becoming self aware is so very important.
Yesss🔥🔥🔥
I couldn't have said this any better!
Beautiful episode, another great example of a King serving his Queen🙏👑
One word comes to mind as I watch this episode, 'authenticity' ♥
Amen!
I enjoyed this episode! I was just smiling, I’m at work at the hospital, it’s 1:30 am, my patients are asleep, I’m on my lunch break and it’s all quiet here, and I’m listening and enjoying. Thanks 🙏🏽.
Compatibility vs Suitability. Compatibility is based on our likes and suitability is based on purpose.
This right here is it
Good word!
Laterras you’re on to something with the “Words of Affirmation” ceremony.
It was so powerful.
Yes! Imagine how healing, and building that would be! For our men to come together, and do this for each other!
It is very insightful to hear men talk about wanting marriage and purpose. It made me blush!
Definitely sharing this episode with my sons. This was so illuminating for me as as divorced mom. I'm so proud of the men they have become, mistakes and all. God has kept us.
Amen.
So many of us are helping men heal and may not be it in the end. We’re just doing what we hope to do, to be seen… like a lot of women. Some get the reward, others don’t. I can appreciate him bringing that up. Men in church are not vocal about the women they heal off of. Brave man. Emphasis on Quality Women. Whew that’s a whole sermon.
Love this podcast so impressive ❤
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Such an amazing Podcast- Kenny Can Sang!!! 🙏🏽👏🏽💯💜💜🖤🖤💜
This was divine! Kenny is soooo solid! I'm Learning that knowing self is everything! Thank you 🙏🏽
Powerful! I've always loved Kenny Lattimore's heart and integrity. I've always admired that he never slandered Chante' Moore's character although she attempted to disaster his - smh
Laterras? I'm not shacking up anymore, I've made a commitment and I've finally subscribed!
About time! Lol.
😜
This podcast has truly blessed me
Rewatch: his conviction is so refreshing. Kenny exudes positivity and confidence. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I just arrived to work on my hour commute and I have to get myself together before I go in the building...this is so powerful hearing Kenny talk about his son affirming him!! That’s what I desire from my two young adult daughters, even if not spoken out loud. I hope I’ve impressed good in their hearts🙏🏾🙌🏾
Kenny Lattimore!! Oh, how I enjoyed this interview! I saw the viral dance video and you can just see the love they have for each other is real! That voice is a classic and will always be one of my favorites. I was surprised when his first marriage ended but this time it seems like he did the work and his marriage to Faith will last. Laterras, it's so refreshing to see men like you, Kenny and other men on your podcast, not be afraid to express your feelings. This is what I am believing God for! I am built to last in the marriage that God will bless me with. It truly excites me to see what God will do! Beautiful letter. ❤
Another awesome healing journey, podcast! 🙌 👏Enjoyed listening to the both of your good wisdom, knowledge, from the Most High God! Jesus!
Its nice to know God has good men and women! And God is bringing together the two as one in Him!
The devil is a liar!
God is getting His glory! In marriages, and family relationships!
Hallelujah!
Mr. Lattimore, can saanngg! Happy for him and Faith blessed of God, marriage!
God is good!
Good blessings of God, come to those that serve and wait on the Lord! Amen. 😊
He has me in waiting,not passively,or fretfully, but working and shaping ,breaking down those part of me that doesnt look like him.The amazing thing is ,he allowed me to find the person with the gracing that is walking through the process of becoming the kind of mate he is preparing for me . He has given me a front row seat and my faith a boost, to say there exist men who are authentic.When i am watching it kinda like when im in my secret place with him. It move my spirit. Thank you
Awesome episode. Laterras these episodes truly have been a blessing. Thank you.
I LOOVVEE what you were saying about the discovery phase!! I love that Mrs. Faith looks out for others business-wise, and
I LOVE that Mr. Lattimore's parental focus was introducing and coaching his son to cultivate a relationship with Jesus early on!! Man! SO MANY terrible decisions would be avoided if parents made that their focus! Shout out to y'all for this sit down👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I loved this episode. I really enjoyed the part about his relationship with his son. Made me think of my oldest son he will be 30 next month and although there was always respect, we didn't become like friends till he was around 25, as he was beginning to experience things in life and realize how well of a foundation I helped him build and in his words, "How right you were about everything!" I'm enjoying our friendship now, but am glad that I was more concentrated on being my kids father while raising them not there friend. Keep doing what you're doing bro. Love you man!
This show is amazing hearing the two of you talk. Thank you both for being so transparent. This show is the best.
Wow.... Really cool to hear more about his upbringing. Explains why he never seemed like other singers.
I have no words. This conversation connects deeply with me on so many points. Thank you!
When I get married one day, I am going to borrow that “word of affirmation “ ceremony. I love that. Thank you for another great episode @dear future wifey! Keep them coming. I look forward to these podcasts!
People will benefit from these podcasts for years to come. Thank you again. God bless.
This was one of my favorite episodes. Thank you
Oh Lord! Every time I watch an insightful episode like this I add a new preference to my 'dear husband' list. At this rate Laterras, the only man who could be for me is Jesus himself! I like the "Words of Affirmation" ceremony idea. I think I'll do it for my mum
Laterras,, thanks for bringing Kenny Lattimore on this podcast. This was a great interview. Thank you guys for being transparent.
So much wisdom and grace! ❤ This video came into my life at such a perfect timing! 🥰 Thank you!
This podcast is so refreshing and so inspiring. A Very deep and rich conversation going on.
Kenny has always been one of my favorites ❤🔥🔥
Blessings to him and faith🙏🏾
I saw this notification and I knew it was gonna be good. Love from South Africa ❤❤🥀🥀🥀
Hey!
This interview came up after another video ended and though I’ve watched this before, I decided to let it play and listen again. 😊
Knowing the importance of COMPATIBILITY in relationships beyond surface connections is so important. So glad this was talked about in this interview and it’s refreshing to hear other perspectives.
Another great interview sir! I'm glad Mr. Lattimore found his purpose partner. He seems like a genuine soul and Faith does as well.
Beautiful interview with these brothers. Thank you.
Our pleasure!
When I tell you this helped me look at relationships through a different lens...I have wept a little and had to forgive myself for my relational failures and for accepting less than what I know that God has for me in a husband. God has given me clarity and revealed how important intentionality is. Thank you so much for this anointed session. Much appreciated and valued. God bless you both!
I admire Mr. Kenny always been a fan of his work but hearing him do this interview was great and to hear him speak of his wife and how they both prepared themselves to meet each other and do the work was so inspiring. I'm such a fan
This was a great interview. Kenny is an awesome talent and man of God
what an episode my goodness. i'm somewhat in that 5-7 year process of developing and recognising the value in my father. there some things in here i have to slowly digest but thank you, its encouraging to know you can be a talented celeb as well as a faithful father and son of God
Baaaaaaby 🔥
This was sooooo good.
I'm enjoying seeing men open up,being vulnerable,and express healing
Laterras, another great and profound conversation. What a humble man Kenny is!! The way he talks about his wife, he is healed and not afraid of her success. Let God continue to use you . Wednesdays have became literally my therapy day. I have learn so much through your guests. May God bless you with the desires of your heart!!!
To God be the glory
After watching this episode, I go back to when Laterras said "women be in his DMs, saying that they are his wife".....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Please listen to Kenny....he said " when I started dating for marriage". The man will find you so be ready .
I so enjoyed getting the confirmation about what I observed from a distance the personality I thought Kenny has,
I now know it was real, he really is a gem of a Brother. This show is beautiful: Peace and Blessings!!!
That song brought tears to my eyes. 😢🙌🏽
This was beautiful to hear/watch! Great podcast!!
Powerful, powerful, episode. Kenny was great and spoke to my heart about parenthood and relationships. We should all be fortunate enough for our children to speak life into us based on who we are. Thank you again for another great episode!!
Amazing amazing episode... spoke to me in so many ways
This was awesome I got self love advice, parenting advice & relationship advice. Thank you both. Topics discussed here has added to my growth!
So glad!
Latteras I so appreciate the deep and honest conversations between you and your guests.
Being blessed. ❤
Our pleasure!
This was awesome! Thanks for sharing! May your marriage last forever Kenny Lattimore & Laterras may you find your forever love purpose partner!
This episode was awesome. Brotherly love, seeing the vulnerability & accountability Kenny openly shared was so genuine. I can now look at my experiences through a different lense especially when he said the he may have hurt the woman that helped him heal. That was one the few "Wow" moments for me. His respect for former relationships and saying they were quality. His relationship with his son and how he son views him had me in tears. This was just great! Thank you Laterras for being a visionary and hosting some of the best people on your show. Continued blessings!!!
Thank you so much
Excellent interview. My best friends in my head Kenny Lattimore and Faith Jenkins-Lattimore🥰
Came across this on Instagram listening to Essence Atkins and Kenny Lattimore. This is some good Godly stuff, which is why I subscribed. Here to learn, grow, and evolve.
This so Amazing to how Kenny Lattimore had respect for the woman he dated and respect for his self to know what he wanted as wife. man when song that song he had me crying his voice is truly Anointed by God and the conversation you two had as Men just made me Think there are Real men out having conversation about there future wife. Cant wait when God bless me with My husband cant wait to hear what he have to say about his love for me and me talk about my Love for him.
My goodness. This is my first time on the Podcast and man...What an incredible Podcast. How enriching it was for me as a woman, listening to these men of God. What wholesome content. I love love love the part where Mr Whitfield reads the letter to his future wife 😭😭😭. Blessed is the woman who will be your wife Sir. Blessed is Mr Kenny's wife.
WOW, Glory be to Jesus.
I am excited to watch more episodes...
From Tumi in South Africa.