THIS is why you are STRESSED + BURNED OUT as a Homemaker! (and what to do about it!)

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Komentáře • 219

  • @jenniferyoung8977
    @jenniferyoung8977 Před rokem +148

    I just had my seventh baby in December and then at the end of January received two emergency family fosters 😅. Honestly I needed this, I am drowning in home tasks right now, we also homeschool and all these kiddos are ages 3 months to 11years old 😬. Honestly people pray for me! 😂 now to try to tackle my one thing at a time today…. Starting with sweeping up Easter wrappers and a thousand toys…

    • @Courterfly
      @Courterfly Před rokem +3

      Prayers and hugs! 🙏🏻👐🏻 I feel like I’m just keeping my head above water with three! 😅

    • @saskiab.-m.2211
      @saskiab.-m.2211 Před rokem +12

      Wow! You must be wonder woman to even keep that up (happy children, education...and if there is a dust bunny somewhere..who dares to care)! You should be very proud of yourself!

    • @MamaHumph
      @MamaHumph Před rokem +5

      I have 5 of my own (ages 3-11) and have also had 2 family fosters (age 1 & 4) 2 weeks ago! I couldn't imagine doing this with a new baby too!! We don't homeschool either and I'm still drowning in chores! Hats off to you! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @cmconcon
      @cmconcon Před rokem +3

      💛💛💛

    • @julieetheridge9066
      @julieetheridge9066 Před rokem +3

      Praying for you!

  • @geexo96
    @geexo96 Před rokem +18

    Honestly stay at home mommas do not get enough appreciation! I have never felt more emotionally drained, or burnt out in my life lol! Even when I worked 50/60 hours a week with special needs children. Being a stay at home mom 24/7 is hard work! (I do have a very tough baby with complications so that’s made the experience harder, but still!) Thankyou for this video!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

    • @tenntea2910
      @tenntea2910 Před rokem +2

      I feel you! I worked 50+ hours a week at a residential mental health facility for adolescents, and sometimes I long for those "easy days" of only looking after myself and being able to focus on one thing at a time! It's funny how people who haven't lived it, including my younger self, assume getting to stay at home is a break, ha ha!

  • @evam4182
    @evam4182 Před rokem +38

    I find i can “multitask” and check off things on my list SO easily like 3-4 days a month and it feels like nothing, but the rest of the time I can’t and I freak out and it makes me feel like I’m broken 90% of the time or I’m lazy. It’s so wild. Ovulation does weird things, man 😂

  • @YolandaMLopez
    @YolandaMLopez Před rokem +35

    This is Gold, just gold. I’m only 24 with two babies, and one on the way and this just made me feel like I could breathe. Been way too hard on myself. Thanks Ang

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @AubreyL-35
    @AubreyL-35 Před rokem +36

    Realistically, as a mother, homeschooling, along with other responsibilities, it’s nearly impossible to not be in one of these multitasking categories. Many of us no longer have “the village”, and so all of the responsibilities land on us, solely. Especially in these times where financial needs are spread thin and many can’t simply hire something out. Or those of us whose spouse works 14+ hour days and can’t be available to step in and help on said tasks.
    Anticipating your input on the next video for how to manage! Thanks for sharing. 💕

    • @nicholetteburris3925
      @nicholetteburris3925 Před rokem +2

      This is no shade to her, but I had to really lower my standard when I found out how much her husband does around the house(which is awesome) and that some of her children have a co-op for some subjects (which is awesome) and for some reason I'm determined she has a full time babysitter. None of that's bad, but I'd does remind me not to compare. I really hope she talks about how NOT to multitask when it's almost impossible not to.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

    • @rebekahguilder602
      @rebekahguilder602 Před rokem

      Honestly, you have to have grace for yourself. We’re all in different seasons and have different challenges and abilities and priorities. That’s ok! I wish my house was cleaner and that I was more on top of my laundry and that my dogs were better trained, etc.

    • @mamamanaged2015
      @mamamanaged2015 Před rokem +1

      Very good points that I relate to, too much that gets left for one person to do.

    • @amydupuis7631
      @amydupuis7631 Před 4 měsíci

      Yah I disagree as well, I think I would be more stressed not multi tasking I’ll be busy thinking about all the other things I need to accomplish. When the task is done and moved on I’m not still thinking about it as she said. I feel more accomplished and it’s easier to “relax” after

  • @Dreblueskies
    @Dreblueskies Před 9 měsíci

    I have become horrible with multitasking to the point of trying to watch and listen to two things at a time which is just stupid!
    I find that I hardly retain anything and have to rewatch or read because it’s just here and then gone. I appreciate this video so much. ❣️

  • @breannasaffron1186
    @breannasaffron1186 Před rokem +4

    I feel like this video had some extra sass in it and I love it!!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @mandywilliams6049
    @mandywilliams6049 Před rokem

    OMG, im the 42,000 watcher. New watcher, what incredible info. Ty homeschooling, cleaning, organizing, taking care of everyone, and the garden, farm animals.... I needed this Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤❤❤

  • @LifeofDayy
    @LifeofDayy Před rokem +10

    The best thing I did for myself was to shave down my monster to do list. Every day I only allow myself to make 3 or 4 things a priority. This is really hard for so-called “type A” personalities because we can get addicted to the feeling of extreme productivity and constantly putting out fires. But that’s not sustainable, at least not without a cost. Burnout is very real. Focusing on single tasks is really helping me find that sweet spot between productivity and overall mental peace.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

    • @teagranola
      @teagranola Před rokem

      I am curious how you separate this from the stuff that has to get done? Like I make dinner, wash dishes, do lessons with my kids, and water the garden every day. Those things have to get done bare minimum. Most days I also have to make lunch and/or breakfast, laundry, sweep, pick up, bathe kids and myself, wash counters tables, have an errand like grocery shopping or paying a bill. Is that sstufv supposed to be seperate from your one thing to get done? I have even seen some women say they put one thing on their to-do list. I am unsure of what they mean by "thing to do" because if I did only one of those things we would definitely be falling apart here.

  • @leahkilsby4854
    @leahkilsby4854 Před rokem +17

    Thanks for doing the research and sharing. Please don't wait too long to post the next video because I need it! 😅 How do you overcome being distracted by kids needs every two seconds?

    • @Courterfly
      @Courterfly Před rokem +4

      I was thinking that, I feel like I’m “context switching” every two minutes 😂😅

    • @bonniet6275
      @bonniet6275 Před rokem +1

      ​@@Courterfly yessss 😂

    • @heatherlynn2845
      @heatherlynn2845 Před rokem +1

      I have a toddler and I’m wondering the same thing!! Whenever I’m trying to focus on one thing- even just brushing my teeth- my toddler often needs something.
      Looking forward to the second video and I hope there’s some tips for moms with little ones 😅😊

  • @humblejoy3564
    @humblejoy3564 Před rokem

    this is so good. baby steps. it doesn't have to be fancy, just get it done!

  • @amandab.6815
    @amandab.6815 Před rokem +7

    Lol the pulling into the grocery store scenario and having no recollection of driving there is something I 100% identify with. That's me everyday.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @gerihenry2261
    @gerihenry2261 Před rokem +7

    "The Gift of a Happy Mother" by Rebecca Eanes is a great reminder of how we should stay present with our children and be happy as opposed to busy. Angela, you're great at reminding all of us to take it easy as well, and the statistics you shared about multitasking are truly a wake-up call. I'm slowly getting to a better more organized state of mind while I one by one organize my surroundings, and it's really helped to write and cross off things to get done because it holds me accountable and I don't feel like I haven't accomplished much. Now I can visually see all my little accomplishments that keep my home running smoothly. Thank you for always being there for us, and your sense of humor is awesome. You Rock!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @Dragonfly20233
    @Dragonfly20233 Před rokem +3

    I am a counselor and studies show that multitasking causes you to work all tasks at a 60 percent deficiency and is equivalent to working while smoking weed or driving drunk. It also increases your risks of the brain state, neurochemically, that leads to dementia. Try this-move noticeably slower and do one thing at a time with some calming background music and you will be much more efficient and calmer. We really must stop glamorizing multitasking and see it as a hindrance rather than a badge of honor.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @ambers181
    @ambers181 Před rokem +2

    Haha. I’ve always said I was not good at multitasking and felt bad about that…now I see that as a strength and not a weakness thanks to you!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @KidGymFun
    @KidGymFun Před rokem +8

    Seriously there is no other mom on the internet like you. Thank you so much for this! Looking forward to part 2 of this!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @jamillas28
    @jamillas28 Před rokem

    Take it ease and enjoy your life ! It’s like tomorrow is over! You never know

  • @tanyareckow7205
    @tanyareckow7205 Před rokem +1

    We need to have coffee together... you speak like we are the same brain. I so enjoy your honesty. Thank you for taking the time to do the research and bring it to your channel!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @akilahballard1283
    @akilahballard1283 Před 11 měsíci

    Needed this! Thank you!

  • @paulaclivatiprado5271
    @paulaclivatiprado5271 Před 11 měsíci

    Angela love your videos! great content!

  • @MarianneMedlin-dz4dz
    @MarianneMedlin-dz4dz Před rokem

    Love the extra Angela sas in this video. I appreciate your personality! ❤
    Thank you so much! This video was super informative.

  • @HollyGrafx
    @HollyGrafx Před rokem +1

    LOVE! I really enjoy this practical content with bits of research thrown in, thank you! ❤ Very helpful and interesting, please make more!

  • @NorthToSouthChannel
    @NorthToSouthChannel Před rokem

    I just found your channel and I'm so glad! I work a full time job at home while also trying to keep up on household chores, jumping in to help with my toddler son, working on side projects and my own CZcams channel... Burnout is my middle name. But this totally makes sense and explains why I've been struggling so much lately. I'm very rarely able to focus in on one task at a time.

  • @catharinab8860
    @catharinab8860 Před rokem

    Love this video and these kind of videos, Angela.

  • @allaboutitvlogs2782
    @allaboutitvlogs2782 Před rokem

    Everything you are saying is so on point! No wonder I’m so exhausted at the end of the day and feel like nothing was accomplished. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and research🫶

  • @raisingpillars4427
    @raisingpillars4427 Před rokem

    This is so true! I've realized this exact thing about myself a year ago.....what a life changer!

  • @amymclin1759
    @amymclin1759 Před rokem

    Yes! More short videos like this please👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!

  • @brimalvin
    @brimalvin Před 7 měsíci

    Everything you’ve said made so much sense. Great, now I need to go recondition my brain to stop wanting to multi-task. 🤣😩

  • @shainacallaway4445
    @shainacallaway4445 Před rokem +1

    Excellent!!! As a homeschool mom, blogger, new CZcamsr and homesteader I needed this! Looking forward to the next video

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @ninamikus1691
    @ninamikus1691 Před 3 měsíci

    Bless you a thousand times! This is exactly the knowledge I was looking for! You're a life saver, really. :)

  • @minaaRenee
    @minaaRenee Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for doing these videos! ❤️
    As a mom it is very much appreciated.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @keeshabolick1600
    @keeshabolick1600 Před rokem +2

    Thanks so much Angela. This was very eye opening and exactly what I needed. This week has been so stressful!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd Před rokem +2

    Angela💖 I was just watching your older video about ways to be a happier mom and then you posted this so perfect timing! I love your channel. Thank you for inspiring me.💖💖🙏🙏💖💖

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @Waffelito
    @Waffelito Před rokem +2

    This was insanely informative and also just really helpful. I'm so used to walking away from these types of videos feeling ashamed and inadequate in my homemaking abilities but you provided some totally life altering advice here. I feel a lot better after watching a video about homemaking for once, Thank you so much 😭❤️

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @haley1532
    @haley1532 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so very much!! This was so appreciated especially today!!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @allykennedy9211
    @allykennedy9211 Před rokem +1

    This resonated so hard! I’ve been feeling like I’ve been drowning in tasks since my baby was born last October. I work a lot from home on a flexible schedule, but I feel like I get no work done! Can’t wait until the next video.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @TheJugendstil
    @TheJugendstil Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤❤ your content. You are so relatable and such a great speaker. Love listen to you 🌼

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @mymalayaper3766
    @mymalayaper3766 Před rokem

    I needed this. Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @evilbunnyzombie
    @evilbunnyzombie Před rokem +2

    I feel like when I was younger I was able to multitask. But as I got older, I can no longer do it.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @emmareads734
    @emmareads734 Před rokem +1

    I really needed to hear this, thank you!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @Mama.bear.
    @Mama.bear. Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much! Can’t wait for the next video. Need this so much! 😂😩

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @miriamcombe3033
    @miriamcombe3033 Před rokem +7

    I am 25 with my sixth baby on the way. I’m so SO happy I found your channel! The science/self improvement COMBINED with motherhood/homemaking is a rare breed on CZcams. Thank god for you.

    • @sabrinanicoara4797
      @sabrinanicoara4797 Před rokem +1

      Did you have your children close together in age? I would like to have children back to back but I’m worried of the affects on the body. Did you ever struggle physically with having them close together?

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

    • @miriamcombe3033
      @miriamcombe3033 Před rokem

      @@sabrinanicoara4797 Yes very close. Right now we have five, five and under, and when # six gets here it’ll be six, five and under for a few months 😂
      Our second pregnancy was twins, pregnant 4 months after our first. Then again in six months and our next two I had a year between pregnancies. Which for me was a nice break haha. It was and is hard physically. I lift weights religiously, try to eat clean, get good sleep and generally not cut myself too much slack. It’s the hardest thing I’ve even done no contest. But the kids couldn’t be happier having all of their friends (siblings) so close to them.

  • @jennifer6833
    @jennifer6833 Před rokem +1

    This is phenomenal Angela! I have always hated multitasking and much prefer single tasking.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @starzyk6897
    @starzyk6897 Před rokem +1

    I love it Angela!
    Thank you so much!
    Love from Ania from Poland

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @sheilavanduynfote5539
    @sheilavanduynfote5539 Před rokem +1

    This is so true especially when I was working and being a single Mom. I’m retired now and my brain is so happy❤️❤️❤️ thank you Angie

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @JeTente
    @JeTente Před rokem +1

    I've been following you for a while now and I just wanted to stop by and tell you that I've enjoyed this video and I'm looking forward to the next one. ❤

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @AlwaysAnna77
    @AlwaysAnna77 Před rokem +1

    🤯 this is so true. I've always felt that I'm terrible at doing several things at once and this explains why 😅

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @allheartandsong
    @allheartandsong Před rokem

    This is great!

  • @mamamanaged2015
    @mamamanaged2015 Před rokem

    I chuckled when she mentioned, "how did I get here... Did I run red lights?" Totally guilty of going on auto pilot when running regular errands on certain days.

  • @annb1265
    @annb1265 Před rokem +8

    I'm a homeschooling mother of three (10, 5 and 14 months) and I make all our food from scratch. I keep our home's things minimalist to make it easier to clean (Joshua Becker, the Minimalists, Dawn the Minimal Mom, Miss Minimalist). Everything has a place. I can do 1000 things poorly or five things really well. I eat the same thing for bkft (scrambled cheesy egg tacos) to reduce decision fatigue. I lay out my clothes the night before (thanks to FlyLady). I'm learning about Lazy Genius and Decide Once items or tasks (book: Lazy Genius). "Better is better" from Dana K White of A Slob Comes Clean. I know that everything we tackle in homeschool or every homemaker task I accomplish was already set out by the Lord and there's tremendous relief in that. ❤ Part of that is from the famous homeschool book "Teaching From Rest" by Sarah MacKenzie

  • @Pajali
    @Pajali Před 7 měsíci

    I have to keep reminding myself that some tasks just can’t be multi-tasked. Every time I try talking my kid through her math homework while cooking dinner, something gets burnt. 😭

  • @lauriewolomor7435
    @lauriewolomor7435 Před rokem +3

    As a German I love your way of speaking English and how you explain the things in your mind😅

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @breallred19
    @breallred19 Před rokem

    This. Is. Sooo. Good. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sozod2000
    @sozod2000 Před rokem

    Phenomenal! 🙌🏼 I’ll watch part 2!! Susan Powter 🤣

  • @annemcdonald3770
    @annemcdonald3770 Před rokem +1

    This is fascinating. I've been thinking for awhile that my phone was the culprit in why my memory is suffering and my anxiety is worse. It makes perfect sense. I usually try to find a podcast or video (Sorry, Angie!) to listen to while I'm doing things around the house. I find myself having to switch back and forth between that and everything my kids are trying to talk to me about. I really think i need to shut this all down for awhile and just out on some light music in the background!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @AmyJost1976
    @AmyJost1976 Před rokem +1

    I learned this a long time ago when we would go to clean the kids room. they would look at it and be overwhelmed but I would break it up and say "lets get all the trash 1st just focus on trash, when your done come get me and we will go swing a few minutes" then it would be the dirty clothes into the laundry room, then the video games and the stuff that goes with them, so on so forth 1 at a time till it was sparkling!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @yasminag4249
    @yasminag4249 Před rokem +1

    This was so helpfull!! Thank you a lot!! Best wishes from germany

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @CharissaSchneider
    @CharissaSchneider Před rokem

    Learned a lot from this!! I'm always thinking ahead to what I could be doing and stressing that I'm "wasting" and try to be as "productive" as possible. But obviously that doesn't work!

  • @danielleegolf4290
    @danielleegolf4290 Před rokem

    Thanks Angie, I needed this too. We homeschool our three kiddos, and I also teach at Classical Conversations. And I'm the children's director at church, and we are in the middle of our international adoption homestudy. I'm drowning in tasks...🤦‍♀️🤪

  • @f8thfulmom
    @f8thfulmom Před rokem +1

    Excellent video! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @hopehealinghomestead462
    @hopehealinghomestead462 Před rokem +1

    Looking forward to the next video.😊

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @FreeBeLove
    @FreeBeLove Před rokem

    Amen sis!❤😂

  • @heathert8895
    @heathert8895 Před rokem +2

    Please recommend some books on this because ALL OF IT hit home for me.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @amybostic1439
    @amybostic1439 Před rokem +4

    My brain is already a mess so I try to make to do lists and it helps keep me on track. Plus it’s rewarding to cross off tasks when they’re done!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @lynnkitchen8252
    @lynnkitchen8252 Před rokem

    Yes, you are correct, not great at multitasking. My children are grown. However, I figured that out many years ago. I focused on what was important and both if my children grew up great. Great video.

  • @myperspective4U2C
    @myperspective4U2C Před rokem

    So guilty of this ..I'm listening to this as I'm deep cleaning, my kids are asking for multiple things which distracts me from my current task and I end cleaning something else.. while other kids are very actively playing in my living room that I just made spotless. I am laughing at myself because I AM that mom right now! Thank you for this advice I really appreciate it and need to hear this!

  • @angelasimpson802
    @angelasimpson802 Před rokem +1

    This shirt is the bomb❤🎉that color pops on you

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @brandeegoodnight532
    @brandeegoodnight532 Před rokem +2

    What about not accomplishing all the things you feel you should be able accomplish. That gives me enormous anxiety. Makes me so hard on myself.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @SusieQZee
    @SusieQZee Před rokem +1

    This topic needs a podcast.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @peggyk.738
    @peggyk.738 Před rokem +3

    The older I get the less I can multi-task. It's frustrating. I feel like I depend more on technology and my family to remind me, and balls get dropped on a regular basis. I'm going to try slowing down and keeping ONE ball in the air at a time. It sounds doable! Thanks!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @YasuTaniina
    @YasuTaniina Před rokem

    "It's not...we all have brains" 🤣 it's true, but the wording really made me laugh

  • @rebekahguilder602
    @rebekahguilder602 Před rokem

    It’s hard to multitask when you’re homeschooling multiple children at multiple levels. This was my first year homeschooling so I will keep this in mind for next year. 🤔🤔

  • @rosenigor
    @rosenigor Před rokem +1

    Great video

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @blessed4737
    @blessed4737 Před rokem +2

    Haha,I thrive on multitasking 😅😂 I'm cooking chili for supper,clearing breakfast table, rolling out cinnamon rolls that I am selling, while taking care of 3 littles,and currently listening to this😂 if I'm in a space,I like to do everything together rather than dragging it out for ages by doing each task separately 😅

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @charminlindholm7779
    @charminlindholm7779 Před rokem +5

    RESOURCE: Jordan Page - time blocking video. Every task has to wait its turn.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @whitneykhan8082
    @whitneykhan8082 Před rokem

    I'm a tech product manager, aka context switching is part of the job. And homeschooling on top of it. Today I was running a meeting on camera while also keeping my finger on the page for my son to track while typing up his book report. Impacts on short term memory? Check. Autopilot on increasingly worrying quantities of things I probably should do not on auto pilot? Check. More nights of insomnia over thinking about all my to-dos? Check. Ah, I needed this, but now my anxiety over my self induced brain damage is flaring...

  • @thisfruitfullife4453
    @thisfruitfullife4453 Před rokem +1

    👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻❤️ Well said!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @Maricela.Gricel
    @Maricela.Gricel Před rokem

    Girl! I was LITERALLY trying to listen to your video and do a course I’m working on and as you say “we can’t actually do?multitask.” I was doing a TERRIBLE job multitasking!🤣 so I turned off the video and did that I had to do but I was like you know what!? Ima share this later!🤣🤣

  • @shelbicallahan2419
    @shelbicallahan2419 Před rokem +1

    “…why are you here watching this video… I said what I said…”
    Love
    it
    🤣🤣🤣❤

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @miroslavasobanova8368
    @miroslavasobanova8368 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you. I have always said I cannot multitask and felt like an inferior woman. My mother occasionally tells me that I should have been a man which never helped me to feel like a better woman. So I thank you to "allow me" to not be able to multitask and be still a normal woman ❤

  • @hollanbishop9500
    @hollanbishop9500 Před rokem +1

    I’m cracking up🤣. Everything you’re saying is true but yet I’m still watching this video while grading school work, doing laundry, and helping a kid with language (all while thinking about what I still need to do for dinner)🤣😭

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @JuliaCantley
    @JuliaCantley Před rokem +3

    I suppose making sure your partner or husband is also participating to relieve some mental and physical load could help too. Statistically, women do carry so much more of the "homemaking" and metal load and it's a 24/7 job.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @Rachel-mp6kf
    @Rachel-mp6kf Před rokem +1

    I love Angie! I wish I could meet her in person 😩

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @louisekite1600
    @louisekite1600 Před rokem +1

    Context switching - is such a thing

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @kamronrhodes5151
    @kamronrhodes5151 Před rokem

    you be fine

  • @valentinaarama2987
    @valentinaarama2987 Před rokem +1

    Can I be your friend? Oh my, this is the best content out there for women… ❤❤❤ love this so much! Just gave me a boost of energy only watching this ❤😊

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @megnlu
    @megnlu Před 3 měsíci

    How do you apply this to kids homeschooling? Made me think about ALL the subjects!! How can they really retain it all or be creative when there's just so much thrown at them

  • @ambrasones6545
    @ambrasones6545 Před rokem +1

    I’m watching this as I’m getting ready, getting after my daughter for not showering, washing my face, going up and down my stairs…I get it. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @hayleebaird-lira5558
    @hayleebaird-lira5558 Před rokem +1

    Weird I thought it was because my military has been gone more than he’s been home for three years straight 😅😅😭

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @kellysites6164
    @kellysites6164 Před rokem +1

    We think multi tasking saves time- I screw stuff up all the time when I try to multi task. For example: Just yesterday, I was running into the grocery store for stuff, and my mind was elsewhere. I self-checked out, and left half of my groceries in the bag turner thingy. Got all the way home, and wondered where half of my crap was. Sigh. I need to be PRESENT and thinking about here and now.

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @Fawn62312
    @Fawn62312 Před rokem +3

    This is great! I feel it's extra hard when you have an neurodivergent brain and you can't remember what the heck you were doing because we're interrupted every two seconds 😅. I'm looking forward to your next video!

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?❤

  • @annekirby5857
    @annekirby5857 Před rokem +4

    ... most people.

  • @caitlinbasile2723
    @caitlinbasile2723 Před rokem

    I'm looking into homeschooling 3of5 of my kids next year

  • @InDirectDiana
    @InDirectDiana Před rokem

    Oh yeah haha. I very early on accepted the fact that I was not a multitasker. Like before children came along lol. No wonder I struggled so much with baby no. 2. I pray daily and just prioritize... I'm still tired though, but not as much as I would be if I multitasked.

  • @i.coralthomas7414
    @i.coralthomas7414 Před rokem +1

    Can you be in denial about multi tasking… cause I’m still thinking I can do it ALL lol (I’m a mom of 4 girls under the age 6, work full time in an office, Reno work - building a garage - plus I’m studying to get my real estate license exam 2 May 29th 😂).

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @rachellebrooke4614
    @rachellebrooke4614 Před rokem +2

    The best thing I’ve learned from Charlotte Mason is “full attention and best effort “ for short spurts like 10 min

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @GingerKral
    @GingerKral Před rokem +2

    Wait, what did she say? 😅 I truly was multi-tasking, and now have to rewatch. 😂

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

  • @mrs.n.7314
    @mrs.n.7314 Před rokem

  • @mycraft4284
    @mycraft4284 Před rokem

    " I said what I said" 😂

  • @rebeccaoprea9917
    @rebeccaoprea9917 Před rokem +1

    There is such a thing as a silent to do list . These lists are active , not passive . They follow us wherever we go .

    • @dr.christopherjohnson5046
      @dr.christopherjohnson5046 Před rokem

      Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?