WHY YOU SHOULD ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE ♡ (how to get out of a rut & feel alive again)

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  • čas přidán 31. 07. 2024
  • I know we can get stuck in a seemingly never ending loop. but besties, it's time to feel alive again.
    00:00 introduction
    02:11 chapter 1: what is it & how to get started
    04:41 chapter 2: dealing with obstacles & comparing
    08:07 outro
    ☆ socials ☆
    / _rebeccajayy / wheresmychinchilla
    business email: rebecca@sparkmedia.la
    camera I use!: go.magik.ly/ml/1fzdl/
    Leah French's information! (video idea & help with script writing)
    health ig: / healthandleah
    personal ig: / frencherrrr
    linkedin: / leahfrench
    sources/inspired by:
    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti... www.heartsempowerment.com/sin... globalnews.ca/news/8485087/on... www.juliabrunsphotography.com...
    music
    ❥ Music by Laura Zocca - Never In Love - thmatc.co/?l=0E0380D1
    ❥ Music by Reed Gaines - Tryhard - thmatc.co/?l=2B09B3B5
    ❥ Music by Mia Nguyen - Moments with you (as written) - thmatc.co/?l=199E6516
    ❥ Music by Laura Zocca - Boys - thmatc.co/?l=F0C5E250
    #romanticizeyourlife #romanticizingyourlife #motivation

Komentáře • 425

  • @zubariaashraf5734
    @zubariaashraf5734 Před 2 lety +431

    "We daydream about the fake scenarios that will never actually take place in our life."
    This really hit me hard because that's all I do all day long 🙂

  • @nekkinekki4721
    @nekkinekki4721 Před 2 lety +884

    I be feeling a certain way about life negatively. And the next thing I know Rebecca made a video to turn that into something positive. Thank you so much Rebecca. I hope you are doing wonderful. :))

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +28

      I hope you feel better ❤️❤️

  • @madinaain
    @madinaain Před 2 lety +591

    After scrolling my feed on social media and seeing this funny and cool moments of people I have started to compare myself with them. I felt so bad thinking that my life isn’t as cool as theirs, but your video brought me back to life! thank you so much Rebecca

  • @meepstar
    @meepstar Před 2 lety +86

    this video was beautifully done. i love it and you!!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +4

      omgggg I love your videos!! I love u ❤️❤️

  • @jankar.5712
    @jankar.5712 Před 2 lety +13

    I actually try to romanticize my life, but sometimes it just doesn‘t work out. I notice it really depends on my social media consumption, because even the most boring things always look better on instagram. Especially when exams are coming up, it’s extra hard to not hate everything 😅. Your video really reminded me to overthink who I want to follow and it showed those little basic things in such a realistic way that still made me want to realize my life more now. Thank you!

  • @samjebaraj24
    @samjebaraj24 Před 2 lety +141

    There's nothing worse than looking back at the present moment and feeling empty because you wasted months or years yearning and hoping for something better
    This part killed me 😢
    Thanks rebecca 💘
    I would like to be your friend if I was from you country 😂

  • @kritibhardwaj7482
    @kritibhardwaj7482 Před 2 lety +130

    I love to see Rebecca comming back into CZcams after a long time and i can't wait for it to start

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +10

      I honestly love posting so much and I can’t wait to be consistent with it :))

  • @rmsfavoritelilcrab4006
    @rmsfavoritelilcrab4006 Před 2 lety +24

    This video is so aesthetic and inspirational. I was just diagnosed with an autoimmune disease but I'm still gonna romanticize my life. Everything happens for a reason.

    • @jeiahjohnson3406
      @jeiahjohnson3406 Před 2 lety +1

      As you should !!! Keep going, I'm proud of you 🧡

  • @jayasharma4604
    @jayasharma4604 Před 2 lety +5

    genuinely love the vibes of your videos so much !!! they’re so simple, yet the message comes across so clearly !!

  • @DivineBudgets19
    @DivineBudgets19 Před 2 lety +71

    This was so simple yet so effective and beautiful!!

  • @teacheranalice
    @teacheranalice Před 2 lety

    OMG, YESSS!! That's what has helped me deal with anxiety over the last few years!! Enjoying and being grateful for the small things, makes you much happier when the BIG things appear in your life ✨💛

  • @Bunny-lv3dm
    @Bunny-lv3dm Před 2 lety +21

    This is really helping me deal with an uncertain period of my life.
    I love the editing and all the advice ♡

  • @Verull
    @Verull Před 2 lety

    girl im so obsessed with your videos! love you, thank u for being so positive and sweet!! your personality is literally everything 🤍

  • @somyasharma11
    @somyasharma11 Před 2 lety +13

    I was procrastinating from so many days that I will wake up and workout and all but I never had the motivation to actually do it because of the cold weather but today when I saw this video my whole perspective changed and I really appreciated the small things in my life thankyou rebecca❤❤

  • @cherry28000
    @cherry28000 Před 2 lety +60

    Thank you so much Rebecca for making this video, I am gonna ramble so sorry for it in advance...
    I completely wasted the past two years of my life and I find it quite amusing how I spent the two years of life just planning and planning, trying journalling, accountability, making vision boards, changing my interest feed to just motivational quotes and dream destinations but I did not execute a single thing I had planned.
    I was terribly inconsistent. I could never work out for more than 3 days in a row and always felt defeated and upset. I really want to lose weight and get healthy and before someone comes at me, I have a health disorder that requires me to lose weight, I am under 18 and I am having terrible health issues. My hair keeps falling, my joints pain and I am always lethargic.
    And all of this affects my studies and my mental health. I am not able to concentrate and thus get annoyed and then go to youtube to find comfort and end up watching videos for hours. All of this really upsets me and breaks my motivation. I have been getting low grades and I have underperformed every single time.
    Heck, once I tried to go cycling for barely 10 minutes and had the worst knee pain of my life that night. Doctors kept telling me to lose weight but I just couldn't start.
    Well, it's 2022 right now and I feel like it has been a high time since I have wasted so much precious time of my life. I am so tired of going through this same cycle again and ruining my own life. I am posting this comment over here so that there are other people who are going through this same situation to get some motivation and start again. I am very determined to better myself and to change my life.
    To all my dear friends over here, I wish that all of you can achieve your goals, change your habits and instead of trying to be the best-looking person or the smartest person out there, go and try to be someone who you are proud to be and just keep bettering yourself
    We all are capable to bring about a good change in our lives, let's go guys. All of us can do it !!!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +4

      you can do this ❤️❤️ thank you for telling your story

    • @kristaellington2779
      @kristaellington2779 Před 2 lety +4

      I have literally been stuck in the same situation..... Reading this made me cry because it's like looking in a mirror. Thank you and I wish you the absolute best

    • @cherry28000
      @cherry28000 Před 2 lety

      @@kristaellington2779 u can do this girl ✨

    • @janetwangui4136
      @janetwangui4136 Před 2 lety

      I wish you the best too♥️you got this♥️♥️♥️

    • @Sha-1
      @Sha-1 Před 2 lety

      How are you doing now?

  • @jellyellie242
    @jellyellie242 Před 2 lety +2

    wow honestly thank you for laying it out like a guide. especially with the chart where you break down tasks and how to make them more exciting. this is such a practical and simple video and i really needed the reminder right now ❤️

  • @dariagorina
    @dariagorina Před 2 lety +7

    i haven't watched it yet but i'm absolutely sure that's the best thing ever (as everything you post) love u so much Rebecca!💗

  • @shrishtitomar3482
    @shrishtitomar3482 Před 2 lety +1

    hands down one of my fav videos made, so glad i came across u. Thank u this was so necessary :)

  • @nznfthma
    @nznfthma Před 2 lety +1

    I've been very low this past year, I kinda gave up on my life and have a lot of work to do but I've no motivation, but after seeing your video I'm feeling much better, I was crying after during the intro because of how hit hard. Thank you so much Rebecca, I'm so glad I found your channel, I love you so much 🤍

  • @isshx2785
    @isshx2785 Před 2 lety +5

    wow this girl is so pretty inside-out, im so so so proud of you for being so strong and an inspiration to people who look up to you like me
    you're definately helping me become a better person rebecca

  • @hesmarivandermerwe8130

    I've been living of of your video's lately, really loving how calming they are
    And I absolutely adore how you edit them, all the work that you put in and research you do, you're a true star and definitely one of my main motivations.
    Keep going girlll ❤️🔥😊

  • @tiana3454
    @tiana3454 Před 2 lety +11

    This made me feel so much better about myself. Thank you for this beautiful, motivational video. Why can't all people on social media be like you

  • @jessicapacifico6928
    @jessicapacifico6928 Před 2 lety

    i'm crying rn. thank you so much!! It's the first time I've seen your video and now I can't stop. love from Brasil

  • @Mymakermovie77
    @Mymakermovie77 Před 2 lety +3

    I love the lessons that you share and how you make it achievable too. And the editing is so nice! No wonder you spend a lot of time on it. I'm super impressed :))

  • @meme22548
    @meme22548 Před 2 lety +1

    you have no idea how impactful this video is to me, thank you so much, i'm a new subs, ily! 🥺❤️

  • @hahalol5408
    @hahalol5408 Před 2 lety +1

    this introduction was literally exactly what i needed to hear. its so intresting how this video popped up on my explore page. as if someone knew that i needed to see this!! thank you so much. imma start now.

  • @angel-qx5mr
    @angel-qx5mr Před 2 lety +166

    Bestie you are the highlights of my day. You have no idea how much you've helped me and motivate me to actually go for the thing I love and be the one who I want to be. From the bottom of my heart I love you so much and thank you❤🥺

    • @kritibhardwaj7482
      @kritibhardwaj7482 Před 2 lety +3

      So ture ❤️❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +10

      I appreciate and love you so much for supporting my channel and watching my videos, and creating a safe space for this community ❤️

  • @violetbunn6455
    @violetbunn6455 Před 2 lety +7

    I love how your videos aren’t toxically positive but actually give good advice. Keep doing what you do!

  • @laristeiger3699
    @laristeiger3699 Před 2 lety

    you somehow show how easily you can be loved and that you are perfect the way you are but in a way that makes one feel good about oneself too and accepted by watching you feel comfortable with sharing all this

  • @suelalouh7918
    @suelalouh7918 Před 2 lety +1

    you always upload your videos right when i need them!! i loved the video

  • @naletapephirom
    @naletapephirom Před 2 lety +1

    wow this was so inspiring rebecca! thank you. you have no idea how much i needed this

  • @aparecidaisadora1314
    @aparecidaisadora1314 Před 2 lety

    I'm so grateful by make part of your channel and by the dedication that you give in every video to help us. Thank u so much Rebecca 💖

  • @blue_satin_sashes
    @blue_satin_sashes Před 2 lety +1

    hey rebecca! i love your videos! they're so encouraging and helpful. i've been insanely productive the past few weeks, but i'm starting to get very burnt out. it'd be interesting for you to do a video about how to recover from and prevent getting burnt out! much love xxx ❤

  • @opheliaforest5158
    @opheliaforest5158 Před 2 lety +1

    I have been struggling so hard on getting my routine sorted and have just kindo of been rushing through my days, this had totally inspired me to get back to my slow morning routines and setting my day up in a positive way 😍

  • @terynaliya
    @terynaliya Před 2 lety +2

    I have been working on romanticizing my life lately. It is SO SO SO important if you want to be the main character in your life. Love the video and keep making great content girl! :))

  • @selin6346
    @selin6346 Před 2 lety +1

    Your content helped me a lot w anxiety and getting out of an unhealthy lifestyle. It covers a special place in me, keep going girlie. x

  • @rosieposie4052
    @rosieposie4052 Před 2 lety

    This is your first videoi am watching currently......i want to say its the best place and i will stay here♥ i found your video completely explaining what happening in my life right now⭐⭐

  • @itsstami9635
    @itsstami9635 Před 2 lety +31

    I like how she makes us all feel like special and puts so much effort in making us feel important.Also love how much effort she puts in her editing

  • @amyrafael7993
    @amyrafael7993 Před 2 lety +19

    your videos really are the highlight of my day. They’re so aesthetically pleasing and what u say always motivate me so so much. Ilysm Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +1

      thank you for watching ❤️❤️

  • @ellatsai2660
    @ellatsai2660 Před 2 lety +1

    thank you so much Rebecca, you have no idea how much i didnt realize i needed this

  • @lillianmarilley3884
    @lillianmarilley3884 Před 2 lety +91

    Rebecca is literally being a queen by posting again regularly 🥰🥰🥰
    PS Rebecca: You’re the only CZcamsr that never fails to inspire me, it’s like you’re my bestie 💛💛💛

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +2

      I love posting ❤️❤️ thank you for supporting my channel!!

  • @hannahwhyte
    @hannahwhyte Před 2 lety +1

    This video is literally magical !! You have such a healthy attitude to life

  • @juliet8501
    @juliet8501 Před 2 lety

    I can't explain my feeling rn in words, i need some motivation form last week's, wasn't able to study alot but this video helped me alot, you have a pure soul Rebecca thanku soo much 🥺💗

  • @withloveicebear
    @withloveicebear Před 2 lety +19

    thank you so much, really needed this especially how ive been dealing with anxiety. thank you honestly ❤️

  • @kateau
    @kateau Před 2 lety

    SHE SAVED MY LIFE I LOVE FOREVER 😭😭💗💞

  • @h.d3496
    @h.d3496 Před 2 lety +1

    This video came exactly when I needed it. Thanks Rebecca

  • @tobiokageyama7589
    @tobiokageyama7589 Před 2 lety +5

    Always there for us at a perfect timing ! Exactly what I needed today. Thank you so much for being authentic and soooo kind. Love u

  • @spookysunflcwer
    @spookysunflcwer Před 2 lety

    This is the best video on youtube I swear! Please keep making these, I found this to be super helpful and will be doing these! :)

  • @savuya3137
    @savuya3137 Před 2 lety +6

    She made me cry in the intro because I knew it was true and I was experiencing the same thing

    • @Ash-yx1st
      @Ash-yx1st Před rokem

      Same I just seriously didn't want to realize it but the intro kinda opened my eyes

  • @Lolzers_670
    @Lolzers_670 Před 2 měsíci

    This will probably get lost somewhere but I remember when I first watched this video in 2022, and I always seem to come back to this. I miss watching these kind of videos and this fills me with sooo much nostalgia. This is honestly one of my favourite video formats and love love love watching your older videos. There’s something so comforting about this ❤️❤️

  • @emilywoods3897
    @emilywoods3897 Před 2 lety

    Rebecca, this video is a perfect example of how just a short 10 minutes can do so much. In some cases its spending 10 minutes in the morning to romanticize the little things, but in this case it was watching your video. You gave me so much motivation to make a change this year, thank you!❤

  • @prerza
    @prerza Před 2 lety

    ugh i love u sm

  • @sarah1160
    @sarah1160 Před 2 lety +2

    i’ve realized that i don’t compare my looks or body to others…i compare my life to theirs. all i’ve ever wanted is an exciting and rich life, but i just feel stuck and like i’ll never have the community around me like i want

  • @EmilyOsmund
    @EmilyOsmund Před 2 lety +6

    Amazing editing!! I know you must have worked so hard great job sis we love you!!!

  • @JustJulie
    @JustJulie Před 2 lety +18

    The positivity on this channel is contagious ✨🤗❤️

  • @khushiiarora9533
    @khushiiarora9533 Před 2 lety +2

    the first minute and a half hit hard. you spoke my thoughts out loud

  • @jennanuntavijan
    @jennanuntavijan Před 2 lety

    Absolutely amazing!! Make me appreciate my life more and I feel like I’m not alone 😭😭

  • @clarie6109
    @clarie6109 Před 2 lety

    You actually motivate me so much! Thanks to you I am starting to think about life as something fun and interesting other than something I have to go through. Thank you so much and love you!

  • @msfaye5182
    @msfaye5182 Před 2 lety

    idk why when watching this i started crying.. im trying my best to become a better, healthier and happier person but its so hard rn im trying to move and figure everything out im just all over the place i started with cleaning my room and writing what i want to achieve this week and how im going to do it starting small, i get motivation and then it goes away so im trying to keep pushing forward even after. thank you for this video it was much needed

  • @parnikasunda5909
    @parnikasunda5909 Před 2 lety

    okay but curly hair suits you sm omgg

  • @_nobody-
    @_nobody- Před rokem

    your so kinddd, your my inspiration. 🤧🥺

  • @islaariella6572
    @islaariella6572 Před 2 lety +2

    this was so inspiring thankyou!!! 💕💕💕 also your editing is amazing!

  • @j43l_60
    @j43l_60 Před 2 lety

    i absolutely love this warm hearted content so much , keep it up

  • @Karina-remuna
    @Karina-remuna Před 2 lety

    Hey thank you, i just don't feeling myself for the past 3 weeks, and after i saw your vids my mood got a lilbit better now😊

  • @bhumika.1014
    @bhumika.1014 Před 2 lety

    i just watched your last vedio and omg I'm literally so thankful to you for sharing the important thing with us ilysm 💗🧚

  • @Sofia-ss4pn
    @Sofia-ss4pn Před 2 lety +2

    I found your channel a couple of days ago and this the second video I watch of yours and I just need to say thank you and I love you. ♡ Thank you because you're reminding me that it's possible to change my present by changing my mindset/the lens I see the world through and I love you because I absolutely love what you're doing. 💘 will keep watching your videos!! Xoxo

  • @lucerorojasprado7438
    @lucerorojasprado7438 Před 2 lety +2

    You hace no idea how much you helped me! Big hug for you gorgeous!!

  • @soobinu24653
    @soobinu24653 Před 2 lety +2

    i could listen to your voice all day. U r so motivational. Love ya

  • @danni7303
    @danni7303 Před 2 lety

    I just found your channel and now I can’t stop watching :) omg your videos are so simple yet powerful your a great addition to the earth thank you 😊

  • @havenluka
    @havenluka Před 2 lety

    The editing in this video was fantastic and so pleasing to watch!

  • @khyatitidke3929
    @khyatitidke3929 Před 2 lety +5

    omg i needed this! I've been feeling really down lately 🥺💘

  • @tenayamorton5850
    @tenayamorton5850 Před 2 lety

    these videos help me so much thank youuu rebecca

  • @amelie3268
    @amelie3268 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for your effort to make these incredible videos for us they really bring me comfort.Love you!

  • @sofie3266
    @sofie3266 Před 2 lety +3

    the editing in this omg literally a masterpiece this deserves sm more views

  • @teume9491
    @teume9491 Před 2 lety +5

    I feel lonely and negative and this video really helped me
    Thank you Rebecca you made my day💗💗💕

  • @MeganBungato
    @MeganBungato Před 2 lety +2

    first video of yours that i've seen and i loved every second. immediately subscribed :)

  • @amberfirexx9
    @amberfirexx9 Před 2 lety

    this video is so beautiful and well made, i teared up a little at times...thank you

  • @TristaBrianne
    @TristaBrianne Před 2 lety

    wowowowww, this video is beautiful!! the editing is so good and we can tell you put so much care and time into your work✨
    I aspire to have my videos looking this good x

  • @filippaskov3644
    @filippaskov3644 Před 2 lety +6

    I agree so much! ive dealed with axiety and stress for a while, when i started living my life how i wanted to live it i stopped worrying all the time. Im so much more happy now that I know that i want to live in the present moment and make the most of it even tho it can be SOOOO hard. I hope all of you will get better and really use this video for it's purpose (:
    Bye

  • @teume9491
    @teume9491 Před 2 lety +1

    I love the way you make your video simple and in really positive way...

  • @pugmama8303
    @pugmama8303 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing this video. I love the idea of taking boring daily tasks and giving them a positive spin. It's true that social media isn't always inspiring but defeating. You are awesome 😁

  • @violasimeone8398
    @violasimeone8398 Před 2 lety +3

    okay this is so beautiful! tomorrow i'm starting the last few months of highschool and i was already stressed about the final exam lol. now i think i will go studying but with a different mindset, tysm

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety

      goodluck with your finals ❤️❤️

  • @ritajabal
    @ritajabal Před 2 lety +6

    you should honestly write your own book, cause this video is just amazingly pure and wonderful to watch!!

  • @jiajia7355
    @jiajia7355 Před 2 lety

    I needed this. I've been so stressed about school lately and when I'm not my life seems pretty boring, but I'm gonna try changing that❤

  • @infinityyyyyyy
    @infinityyyyyyy Před 2 lety +1

    You bring colors to my life every single day . Thanks Rebecca

  • @Nina-dk4xp
    @Nina-dk4xp Před 2 lety

    The time editing was really worth it! So agreeable and calming to watch :))

  • @basicallydisha945
    @basicallydisha945 Před 2 lety +8

    Okk gonna be ready with popcorns to watch this !!! Yaaayyy ♥️

  • @anamariastoian2670
    @anamariastoian2670 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank u so much for uploading videos like this,it helpsme so much.
    You are scuh a baddie!! ily

  • @lg9224
    @lg9224 Před 2 lety +1

    i love the way you edit its just so aesthetic and looks like it took a long time to make ♡

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +1

      haha thank you ❤️ it does take really long 😅

  • @gaury1220
    @gaury1220 Před 2 lety +1

    needed this.. happy ur are back and cannot wait to see more from u love u

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  Před 2 lety +1

      trying so hard to post consistently ❤️❤️

  • @lovekatelynn
    @lovekatelynn Před 2 lety +1

    omg! i was just thinking about this topic yesterday, and u posted about this ! ❤️❤️

  • @rxleewho2124
    @rxleewho2124 Před 2 lety

    I don't know why but I feel good watching your videos💕💕💕 I love this channel so much!!!☺️💕

  • @gerda1167
    @gerda1167 Před 2 lety

    hey I just wanted to say that this video motivated me so much. I am in quarantine right know and I feel not good with my mental health and stuff like that but this video made me think about all that stuff in my head and control all that things. I feel happier since I watched this video and I want to say thank you

  • @aestheticluv3r697
    @aestheticluv3r697 Před 2 lety +1

    U don't know how many people u have helps. U r a god sentttt

  • @haileycanales6404
    @haileycanales6404 Před 2 lety

    This video was so inspiring and motivating. I've been so down lately and I'm trying different things. This video made me smile :) and I sort of felt like I was in there running with you and it felt free. I will look at life like this from now on.

  • @fabienne4681
    @fabienne4681 Před 2 lety

    i just deleted all social media to find back to reality. it was so hard for me to see beautiful women everyday on social media that i compared myself to. your video just gave me so much motivation to work on myself and be the best version. i caught myself laying in bed all day the past months just scrolling through social media. i’m so unbelievable sad to became lazy and tired of creating a good life. i have so many issues in my relationship rn because i compare myself to his girl friends and being possessive. it needs to stop now and you made the first step to give me the motivation i’ve been waiting for. i appreciate this so much, thank you 🙏🏼

  • @Lulu-fc6wg
    @Lulu-fc6wg Před 2 lety +1

    Rebecca, thank you so much for your videos. You always keep me motivated when i really need it

  • @hahalol5408
    @hahalol5408 Před 2 lety

    btw all the best to you! ur amazing and inspiring. i hope you have a wonderful day :)

  • @el3na451
    @el3na451 Před 2 lety +1

    Loved this!! Great editing and super positive vibes🤩 thank you!!!

  • @aubrymaepacris9709
    @aubrymaepacris9709 Před 2 lety

    my must-needed content to digest at the moment thank you