@@Giopowered Because they get thousands of messages from people and you have to stand out. You have to show that from all the choices she has that she'll never have the time to meet, you're one of the best choices
@@ShiniGorky187 yeah. They're on there for a reason. Seems like people have forgotten this. Years ago, that was the first, most obvious thing about that crap.
@@Clarrissaharrisonit's been proven that all women seek the top 15% of good looking men.... That 15% of men tend to realize that they can have there pick of women...so basically if women weren't so picky than it wouldn't be possible for it to happen Sadly the other 85% of men just want a relationship but are considered not good enough by most women.....Plus an ugly girl will always get more action than an average man...so men are screwed because most women are simply sharing the same men...this means you cannot blame men even if you type your little heart out..
@@Clarrissaharrisonaka the type of guys you want to sleep with? Since they’re sleeping with other women? Don’t judge us when that’s what y’all want LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@hs-pj8hothat is bs. Almost no guy goes online just to get attention and validation. All of those are the characteristics of female. You might have gotten rejected a few times and just made that claim just to save a little face.
Not all of us. The guy's lack social skills. One today asked me what company I worked for. He got offended when i wouldn't share it. Guys do some creepy shit.
@@prodigyparker3513 first dude was right, she said stop using them, then tells you "how to beat the other simp" she either sending mixed signals, or trying to get more losers off of hinge so she can land a "high value" man and re-home 5 or 6 of her cats.
@@fatboy1603 dude…..did you watch the whole video? What is there not to comprehend? Yes she said get off dating apps then literally 5 seconds later she explained it’s fine to meet girls on dating apps but to continue to have superficial conversations on the dating app and not get the number is the problem…what are you not getting??
Yeup pretty much. It didnt use to be like that. Giving numbers used to be second nature. I'm in college now and it makes school harder because getting contact info is like pulling teeth. I learn better with study groups but everyone is so put of touch that giving someone ur phone number is looked at like ur social security.
Just don’t do online dating, period. If you want a real date just ask your friends if you they know anybody that might wanna go out on a date with you or just go to a social place full of people. I made a lot of friends that way.
Focus on yourself so you can be exactly what they want don’t forget to get a six pack and a six figure income, wear a suit and platform shoes if your under six foot And she likes uniforms so you need to do a low paying job with a uniform which will eliminate the six figure income. Hahaha
Getting off the dating apps period is better for humanity. They are garbage for both men and women while the companies make that money off dumb people like the users. I’m tired of being played by the businesses.
I don't know why no girl loves me. I just want an honest girl. I don't care if she's beautiful or sick, even if she's blind or paralyzed. Do I put impossible qualities? Do I ask for an impossible?
@TatjanaGnjidic sounds great but the truth is it is never that simple. Comes down to how much the woman is attracted to the guy will depend on her answer.
@@NifBac I know but asking just for number it's the worst thing, ask her for Telegram, Instagram or something because no one wants to give numbers to strangers, and when you ask for number you didn't show that you are serious at all but asking up front for the date instead of number it's better to be honest
Lets see, ive gotten like 7 numbers in the past few months. Set a time and place and still got ghosted by most. Been on 2 dates with the last month and still got ghosted.
HOWEVER! In my experience with dating apps, a lot of people are very introverted. We will get along super well for weeks, I'll try to push it to something in person and then I'll never hear from them again. Wish I had advice for yall, but I just gave up dating all together after years of this
I get it. I suck at “small talk” and have more trouble in person. Plus its way easier to get in your head in person. Especially when you see her reactions. Hang in there
Game is so primitive. It really just kind of shows how undeveloped the female mind is to not let go of animal instincts. Not saying women are dumb, but men do have more developed brains its a fact.
You just have to be upfront from the beginning about WHAT YOU WANT. communication is key. and don't waste time talking too much before meeting in person. if she wants to talk for weeks and weeks before meeting, then either put her on the backburner or forget her. The truth is, in person chemistry is what determines if you 2 will work out. so why waste time before figuring that out?
The problem also for girls on dating apps is the more options you have, the more the chances of you regreting your option. Also having too many options can make you freeze and not choosing nothing at all.
It can be like that for guys too. It was like that for me when I was single. Like thousands of beautiful women. It sounds great until you don't want that and are trying to settle down but you have too many options. It's like a blessing and a curse.
I tried moving the deal along after a few days (2 to 3) of real/not superficial chat, and EVERY time I asked to meet, I got ghosted. I did not even get a "no" answer, just crickets.
I ghosted all my hinge matches after a few messages before I deleted the app. Not because anyone beat them to me, I just didn’t want to talk to anyone 😂
Don’t date people on dating apps. It’s a superficial screening process. Have you ever vibed with someone and found them much more attractive in person than in picture? YOU GET NONE OF THAT while using dating apps.
I know 3 couple who have met from online dating apps....they are all married with children. Sooooo...dating apps are not all that bad it's no different than meeting someone in real life it's how people are when it comes to relationships. They either want to fool around or they really want to settle. You get that anywhere, not just dating apps.
@@TailsA-sk4siyeah I mean the matches happen, but overall it’s a just hit of dopamine for women. Many times women just hop on dating apps for instant validation. Men get on them too because they are lonely. It’s a lose-lose most of the time.
I’ve been told several times by men that I look better in person than in my pictures online. I do that on purpose though, kind of like how some men hide their job title, so they don’t attract shallow people.
@@TailsA-sk4sithose are just the exceptions. Mostly people will never find their right match on dating apps and they are more likely to find quality people date in person and this is all proven by statistics.
@@kylewonglee7724oh bro, u need to lie on there. When she says wuu2. Say something like just finished Muay Thai training and going buy a car. Wbu? Find something on her page, like how she has her own side hustle, ask her about that. Then just say when u free for drink, I’ve arranged like 5-6 dates for same day. And I choose the one who is most keen, I’ve even gone on 3 dates in one day before. Lot of guys worry about telling the truth about their job, age, what they are doing. Just lie, secure the bag. And keep it moving.
It doesn't work. I send my number and asked for theirs soon after we Match to take it offline, I even offer to go on real dinner date. They ghost soons I send my number or ask for theirs. I thought they wanted to go to dinner and take it offline. Don't believe this bullshit, they are literally on the dating apps for men's free attention and societal approval they call validation.
My hypothesis is that a good hearted person isnt something to be found. Its just something that happen. I know thats not reasuring but thats about all i got. My dating life is not existent.
Also, there are 8.1 billion people on the planet. By laws of probability there are over a billion people on this planet that would be compatible with you .
The way that you can find them is this: -If you both got the same b.S -If she can cook then he can bake -If she's the one taking the heavy hits push her in the side and tell her I got this! .
Ghosting is a term used for if you’ve been seeing each other in person for more than three dates and you never hear from them again. Any contact less than that and it’s just a person not being interested in you anymore.
Don’t bother with dating apps. The latest stats are 95% of women are only interested in 5% of men. If you all leave the apps it will end their false sense of value
If you are sub5, you can't even get a date. For a normie, the dates are ussually a waste of time where you pay for dinners only to be ghosted. For a Chad, dating is a waste of time also, because he invites the girls straight to his place for "Netflix and chill" without having to wine and dine her first.
Billie; Excellent presentation! More valuable tips! I no longer use dating apps. I find approaching a woman in person, is more effective, and results in more actual, in person dates. Thank you.
For all the women that do not like small talk, up your talking game. Dont wait for the man, talk to him the way you want to be spoken to. It goes a long way to letting the man know what zone you are in. You want him to ask you out instead of small talk, ask him out! Dont be shy or lack the confidence to just say what you feel. Men wont reject you. Women reject men. And once he knows your energy, he will adapt to it.
@happywhispersasmr yes but it is not balanced either. Often women go after guys 1 or 2 levels above them so the fact it is even hot or miss in itself is different. Men often only have decent odds with women 2 levels below them in attraction.
Nah men reject beautiful women. Also, this leads to a man who doesn't want you taking you for a ride and making you chase him while he panders after the same woman for 10 15 years hoping she finally agrees to be with him. Women do not take this advice. It will lead to a relationship such as Simone Biles where her husband publicly insults her. 😂😂😂
It's weird for women too.. One guys straight up told me he had a fake account with a fake name then in the same breath asked for my number. Then apparently he had an accident and his car was totaled. All in the span of a single day. Before I could block more of his lies, he removed me 😂
Why not just ask the guy then? For a man, the line between annoying (being too aggressive) or moving to slow all comes down to how you feel as the woman. Don't wait for him, if you match with him, say to him straight, "Hey, let's meet up sometime, want to exchange numbers?" That is thr opening he needs to know he can be aggressive.
I don't know why no girl loves me. I just want an honest girl. I don't care if she's beautiful or sick, even if she's blind or paralyzed. Do I put impossible qualities? Do I ask for an impossible?
The smart wife kind of woman left these dating apps months ago because the guys were wasting their time. The only kind you’re going to find on dating apps are hookups and crazies. Good luck guys you’re better off asking out a woman you see in your area.
That doesn’t always work. I made the first move on people online and either got blocked or insulted lol. Well not everyone is the same but that online stuff is ridiculous
I get the matches, I just don't get the reciprocation and energy I give out. So they just end up in "Hidden" or "Their Turn". They seem highly enveloped in indecisiveness and options.
I actually get a lots of match but it just that I don't really wanna take them out of a date 😂 well around 100-150 like in a month, not high but not too shabby.
Because some people work +60 hrs a week and don't have time / their social-professional circle is not what they are looking for in a partner ??? You sound like a boomer
I’m on a dating app because everyone else in real life seems to think I have a boyfriend but I do not and I don’t get approached by anyone in public 🫠. So tell me, what other options do I have?
@JimenezSoraya98 it's pretty self explanatory. If you have your life together you don't need to go on a dating app to find someone. You would find someone in real life like people have for thousands of years. No one can socialize anymore, the only connections people have are through technology these days
The number of times the last message I receive has been "I'd prefer to get to know you a little better before giving out my number" determined this was a lie
That's true, you wanna meet on the app and get off the app asap. Don't be these guys who just keeps messaging her again and again with no solid meet up planned.
IF YOU ARE ON A DATING APP, ASK THE GIRL WHAT SHE IS LOOKING FOR , THEN ASK HER WHERE SHE WANTS TO GO FOR THE DATE, ASK HER IF SHE HAS EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS TO FEEL COMFORTABLE ON THE DATE. “Note SOME WOMEN WILL DECLINE A DATE SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY DONT HAVE A CUTE OUTFIT HAIR OR NAILS ARE NOT DONE.
There are a ton of scammer chicks that will just send you spam if you give out your number. It's ridiculous. I don't want to give out my number unless I can prove they are real and not fake.
Agreed. I'd say at least 50% of female profiles on tinder are scammers trying to collect contact data or actual women using the app to promote their pay site (ONLYFANS, etc)
Lol yes, just take advice from guys who've been through 3 divorces & are mad about it OR the PUAs that don't know the first thing about keeping a woman's interest. Yep, you should totally listen to those 😂
@@brycedanner9453Any good fisherman knows you have to know what you're fishing for & go where the fish are if you want to catch anything, let alone a quality fish. Yall starving, can't even put hooks on, pouting in mudpuddles like confused little children. It's embarrassing to watch men flail about & then say nonsense like that 🤣
@justacoginthefkery when did I say any of that? I meant take advice from your father or a close male relative/friend... Can you point out where exactly I said to take advice from PUA's and men divorced numerous times?
@@brycedanner9453I'd be more concerned with the way you view dating, if you think trying to meet a partner is the same thing as catching an animal you intend to kill and eat.
@@kylewonglee7724We all have been ghosted in real life, ghosting someone on an app is even easier to handle, but since you are not ugly I bet you get ghosted because you are creepy 😂
Yeah don’t mess around. Strike the iron when it’s hot boys! I took a beautiful lady out a few days ago after only a week of online dating app messages. Hopefully neither of us have to use dating apps ever again!
It just happened to me. Had a great flirty convo and told her I would be back on after work. She was gone. Completely gone. Everything blocked or erased. Even the convo. That was the closest I've gotten to getting a date on an app in 2 years. SMH I'm done with the apps. I've wasted 100's of dollars.
We don't want to give our private # out to random app dudes. Ask a few questions, meet up & move forward. You get ghosted because we found 100 more interesting men. I hate small talk.
I’m not an option so if another guy can get her, he can have her. I’m not in competition over no women. Who do y’all think y’all are? Y’all no trophies
You sound hurt and resentful. Address and heal your issues before you go out into the dating market. If you go anyway, it just wont work out (short lived)
@@Sound7heWarCry How do I sound hurt for stating that I am not an option in a women’s life? You women want guys to be down with everything and I ain’t for it, I’m already healed, so nice try young lady. Nothing in that comment sounds like I’m hurt, it means that I will not be an option while that chooses to have other options. And I’m saying I will eliminate myself. Simple
That is a very bizarre thing to say when the main subject is dating apps. Sure enough, women are not trophies, no human being should be. But they happen to have more options than you on dating apps and so yes sometimes they will get to choose between those options. There is no sense in being offended that you are not THE ONLY option for every women on dating apps.
And she goes through All 30 matches and realizes they're jerks and comes back to you but by that time you lost interest. I'm not going to be on the back burner or your contingency. Ladies get over yourself.
You do realize dating is inherent about being selective right ? If every man on dating apps expected to be every women's priority from the gate go there wouldn't be enough women on dating apps.
Ladies. Do not give guys your number. Keep it on the app (many of them have call functions). Keep it on there until you guys have met up and are compatible. You don’t want a bunch of guys that you will end up having to delete due to incompatibility etc. keep it on the app and tell them you will feel comfortable giving them your number once you’ve established to date further.
Funny thing is that I get a lot of matches but then I send them a message then they just don’t respond maybe it’s fake bots to boost their popularity.. dunno
I for sure got off the dating apps especially in Florida where every other girl is just promoting their OF , Tennessee and Texas woman I’ve met were way cooler, some still friends till today. Florida women is something else 😂😂
Guys go and sit beside an unnattractive woman and watch her swipe through a dating app. You will be shocked/disturbed how many matches she gets and how shes like “no no no definitely not hes got weird earlobes” lol.
I've done this and most the time I get, can we get to know each other on here first; nah no thanks I don't have time to chat through a buggy app that doesn't send or doesn't send me a notification .
Do you know the quality is it going to be great on dating apps but sometimes if you recently moved or are visiting somewhere, it’s not a bad play. After one or two back-and-forth, I always just say, “rather than invest a lot of time, when we may not even like each other, why don’t we go have coffee or something this Thursday and go from there” It works well because it respect everybody’s time is upfront. It’s non-committal you’re not asking for a weekend day and on our end it’s not gonna cost you.
The line between "He's not assertive enough" and "He's too pushy and arrogant" is a line too thin to be measured by science.
It's worse than that, The line for each woman is different and you won't know her line until you've crossed it.
@@peterkottke2570 200 IQ observation
That lines size is usually 666. 6 Inches, 6 Figues, 6 Feet
It's a pubic hair
Schröderingers Line
get her number?... I can't even get her to say anything.
Craft a good first message that you can copy and play the numbers game
@@dragan176 such as? I've tried everything
@@DanTuber One you can try is "you're cute, fingers crossed you're not crazy", but it's probably best to try and come up with your own
you can get a match ?
@@Giopowered Because they get thousands of messages from people and you have to stand out. You have to show that from all the choices she has that she'll never have the time to meet, you're one of the best choices
Dating apps are a great waste of time.
They are indeed
True, but not all true. My cousin meets her husband through Tinder. It's crucial to not rely entirely on dating app, tho
I get plenty of dates but nobody of quality, or they just reject me
@@ShiniGorky187 yeah. They're on there for a reason. Seems like people have forgotten this. Years ago, that was the first, most obvious thing about that crap.
Correction: *Dating is a great waste of time*
Dating apps are most all these narcissist's playground.
@@Clarrissaharrison We're talking about narcissism here regardless they are men or women. They still do the same cycle of abuse to other people.
@@Clarrissaharrisonit's been proven that all women seek the top 15% of good looking men.... That 15% of men tend to realize that they can have there pick of women...so basically if women weren't so picky than it wouldn't be possible for it to happen
Sadly the other 85% of men just want a relationship but are considered not good enough by most women.....Plus an ugly girl will always get more action than an average man...so men are screwed because most women are simply sharing the same men...this means you cannot blame men even if you type your little heart out..
@@masoy111read my last comment I ruined her theory..
@@Clarrissaharrisonaka the type of guys you want to sleep with? Since they’re sleeping with other women? Don’t judge us when that’s what y’all want LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What about twitch
Delete the app. Majority of these women use them for validation only.
@@hs-pj8ho I’m sure they do. Lots of variables going on. One of my best friends met his wife on Tinder.
@@hs-pj8hothat is bs. Almost no guy goes online just to get attention and validation. All of those are the characteristics of female. You might have gotten rejected a few times and just made that claim just to save a little face.
Not all of us. The guy's lack social skills. One today asked me what company I worked for. He got offended when i wouldn't share it. Guys do some creepy shit.
@@nutech1810 majority, not all. And ya, there are plenty of weirdos out there. Especially online.
True they just look and see oh I got 500 guys that like me. No you got 495 guys that swipe right on everyone and 5 really interested in you maybe
Dating apps: the place where nobody says anything and nothing happens
Bro ive been using them for a year now ive still haven’t got a normal conversation with a girl it’s really weird completely wast of time
😂😂😂😂
Nah, I've gotten action a lot from dating apps. When I put in the effort.
@@LeinaVanceyou are a girl tho..
The top 10% of guys get a lot of action.
WHERE THE FUCK DO WE FIND PEOPLE IN THE WILD
So get off the dating apps... But be direct on dating apps? You're giving me mixed messages here.
What she is saying is to not spend weeks talking to a girl on a dating app but to get her number and text her number rather than text her on the app.
In my experience both asking her # too quick and taking too long is equally bad, both will get you ghosted. Need to strike the right balance
@@alextanguay5886 Sherlock Holmes
@@prodigyparker3513 first dude was right, she said stop using them, then tells you "how to beat the other simp" she either sending mixed signals, or trying to get more losers off of hinge so she can land a "high value" man and re-home 5 or 6 of her cats.
@@fatboy1603 dude…..did you watch the whole video? What is there not to comprehend? Yes she said get off dating apps then literally 5 seconds later she explained it’s fine to meet girls on dating apps but to continue to have superficial conversations on the dating app and not get the number is the problem…what are you not getting??
Guy:” What’s your number”
Most girls: “Psycho!”
How is she so consistent on giving such tone deaf advice
Yeah, i'm tired of that
Yeup pretty much. It didnt use to be like that. Giving numbers used to be second nature. I'm in college now and it makes school harder because getting contact info is like pulling teeth. I learn better with study groups but everyone is so put of touch that giving someone ur phone number is looked at like ur social security.
Yeah my sister was uncomfortable because all of them ask for her number, she says why they want my number so fast? 😂
Exactly not if there's attraction
Dating apps like the bar/club , it’s always a cockfest , the only difference is its that you get rejected from the comfort of your home lol.
Lol - rejected in the comfort of your home.
Just don’t do online dating, period. If you want a real date just ask your friends if you they know anybody that might wanna go out on a date with you or just go to a social place full of people. I made a lot of friends that way.
Going out in the real world and finding someone there is indeed much better.
Good for you
Most women don't have much going for them to begin with and now you narrowed your options to a few friends of friends
Did you say “made alot of friends.”?
Don't do dating altogether, women aren't worth of our attention, time or effort. We have careers to build
focus on yourself homies and they’ll come running straight to you, don’t chase girls chase your dreams 💪💯
Cope
@@renegade2853 Simp
@@renegade2853 Simp
Focus on yourself so you can be exactly what they want don’t forget to get a six pack and a six figure income, wear a suit and platform shoes if your under six foot
And she likes uniforms so you need to do a low paying job with a uniform which will eliminate the six figure income.
Hahaha
@@renegade2853 girl chaser
"Girls don't wanna waste their time having superficial..." *Men don't wanna waste their time with women* 🗿
Getting off the dating apps period is better for humanity. They are garbage for both men and women while the companies make that money off dumb people like the users. I’m tired of being played by the businesses.
Getting off women is better for humanity
I don't know why no girl loves me. I just want an honest girl. I don't care if she's beautiful or sick, even if she's blind or paralyzed. Do I put impossible qualities? Do I ask for an impossible?
@@FreePalestine-ho8ylsame question here from a woman
You're so beautiful like a flower are you single
True we need to go back 50 years and stay there this new age stuff is garbage.
“Be direct and make the first move .”
This woman just gave a great lesson on how to get the police steer door in less than 10 minutes.
Maybe she left the part out where you have to be really attractive. The rest of us will get reported.
And who has the time or legal finances for that.
Nope. Women are not going to call the cops because you directly (not overtly sexually) expressed interest in taking her on a date thru a dating app.
Jesus christ you're on dating apps. At worst you'll get ghosted
What's your number?
Her: I wanna get to know you better
It means she does not want you to be honest.
Your response on that: Let's grab a coffee on Friday afternoon so I can deliver on your wish
@TatjanaGnjidic sounds great but the truth is it is never that simple. Comes down to how much the woman is attracted to the guy will depend on her answer.
@@TatjanaGnjidic That's why I asked for her number 🤦♂️
@@NifBac I know but asking just for number it's the worst thing, ask her for Telegram, Instagram or something because no one wants to give numbers to strangers, and when you ask for number you didn't show that you are serious at all but asking up front for the date instead of number it's better to be honest
What a load of crap, I did exactly this and still got ghosted countless of times. It don't matter what you say of what you do, they ghost anyway.
Not hot enough
Then need to look at and work on your value
Lets see, ive gotten like 7 numbers in the past few months. Set a time and place and still got ghosted by most. Been on 2 dates with the last month and still got ghosted.
Your not attractive than or they see you as a simp
Lol i feel you
You got to go after the big ones just tell them you're going to take them to the buffet
HOWEVER! In my experience with dating apps, a lot of people are very introverted. We will get along super well for weeks, I'll try to push it to something in person and then I'll never hear from them again. Wish I had advice for yall, but I just gave up dating all together after years of this
I get it. I suck at “small talk” and have more trouble in person. Plus its way easier to get in your head in person. Especially when you see her reactions. Hang in there
Game is so primitive. It really just kind of shows how undeveloped the female mind is to not let go of animal instincts. Not saying women are dumb, but men do have more developed brains its a fact.
@jakeplumber1373 Bruh I'm gay 🤣😭😭
I keep my dating related comments gender neutral so people take them seriously
You just have to be upfront from the beginning about WHAT YOU WANT. communication is key. and don't waste time talking too much before meeting in person. if she wants to talk for weeks and weeks before meeting, then either put her on the backburner or forget her.
The truth is, in person chemistry is what determines if you 2 will work out. so why waste time before figuring that out?
@@flaminghead1vayour 100 percent right dude.
The problem also for girls on dating apps is the more options you have, the more the chances of you regreting your option. Also having too many options can make you freeze and not choosing nothing at all.
Very true!
It can be like that for guys too. It was like that for me when I was single. Like thousands of beautiful women. It sounds great until you don't want that and are trying to settle down but you have too many options. It's like a blessing and a curse.
FOMO
Oh my. Absolutely. This is my problem. I just want my one man but it's so confusing 😢
In psychology this is called the paradox of choice. Very astute observation.
I tried moving the deal along after a few days (2 to 3) of real/not superficial chat, and EVERY time I asked to meet, I got ghosted. I did not even get a "no" answer, just crickets.
forget her then. she sounds like a b**** anyway. if she isn't attracted to you enough to meet you, then she wasn't being honest with you to begin with
I’m so glad I found my wife before the internet dating thing happened. Really though I’d still never use it even if I didn’t meet her.
So glad I'm old enough to know what dating was like before the gamification of dating via apps. it brings out the worst in everyone.
I ghosted all my hinge matches after a few messages before I deleted the app. Not because anyone beat them to me, I just didn’t want to talk to anyone 😂
Same with my 73 likes. 😂feel yuh mate
That’s not ghosting, that just general non interest.
So what exactly were you on there for?
@@JayTheAdviceGuy validation
A lot are just looking for quick validation as well
Don’t date people on dating apps.
It’s a superficial screening process. Have you ever vibed with someone and found them much more attractive in person than in picture?
YOU GET NONE OF THAT while using dating apps.
I know 3 couple who have met from online dating apps....they are all married with children. Sooooo...dating apps are not all that bad it's no different than meeting someone in real life it's how people are when it comes to relationships. They either want to fool around or they really want to settle. You get that anywhere, not just dating apps.
@@TailsA-sk4siyeah I mean the matches happen, but overall it’s a just hit of dopamine for women. Many times women just hop on dating apps for instant validation.
Men get on them too because they are lonely. It’s a lose-lose most of the time.
I’ve been told several times by men that I look better in person than in my pictures online. I do that on purpose though, kind of like how some men hide their job title, so they don’t attract shallow people.
@user-mf9yl2pf3v true but I would be careful with that. You might miss out on some really good guys.
@@TailsA-sk4sithose are just the exceptions. Mostly people will never find their right match on dating apps and they are more likely to find quality people date in person and this is all proven by statistics.
Get the match. Get the number. Makes sense to me.
Are you delusional. It's all about looks
Good luck getting the match
That doesn’t work , I get 2-3 matches a day they still ghost after 2 days out of nowhere even with a date planned later the week
@@kylewonglee7724oh bro, u need to lie on there. When she says wuu2. Say something like just finished Muay Thai training and going buy a car. Wbu? Find something on her page, like how she has her own side hustle, ask her about that. Then just say when u free for drink, I’ve arranged like 5-6 dates for same day. And I choose the one who is most keen, I’ve even gone on 3 dates in one day before. Lot of guys worry about telling the truth about their job, age, what they are doing. Just lie, secure the bag. And keep it moving.
It doesn't work. I send my number and asked for theirs soon after we
Match to take it offline, I even offer to go on real dinner date. They ghost soons I send my number or ask for theirs. I thought they wanted to go to dinner and take it offline. Don't believe this bullshit, they are literally on the dating apps for men's free attention and societal approval they call validation.
Dating apps suck the soul, going outside rules.
I just had a great 4.5hr date with a woman I met in real life yesterday, dating is easy when you have a little confidence
Life is lot more fun when you have lot of it
Uh what?
❤🙏❤️
@@Kartracer95 we're still together
@@alexs_toy_barn absolutely love to hear!!! God bless 🙌
Right on, offline is where its at for real connections.
Thank you!!! I literally just want you to ask me on a date 🙄😂
Why not ask him on a date ? Is that beneath you ?
@@redhood2835 Maybe she’s a traditional woman? Maybe she wants a leading man? Not everyone likes gender role reversal
I do this and they ghost after 2 days
Matched Sunday
Date planned for the coming Saturday
Monday she replies within minutes
Tuesday ghosted
Agree
@@user-mf9yl2pf3v Then don't complain if you can't get a man.
How can anyone find good hearted person??? Pls tell😢
My hypothesis is that a good hearted person isnt something to be found. Its just something that happen. I know thats not reasuring but thats about all i got. My dating life is not existent.
Also, there are 8.1 billion people on the planet. By laws of probability there are over a billion people on this planet that would be compatible with you .
The way that you can find them is this:
-If you both got the same b.S
-If she can cook then he can bake
-If she's the one taking the heavy hits push her in the side and tell her I got this!
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So… get off the app, get back on the app and ask for her number… great advice
Guys you're not there for their entertainment, especially if they don't reciprocate the same energy
Ghosting is a term used for if you’ve been seeing each other in person for more than three dates and you never hear from them again. Any contact less than that and it’s just a person not being interested in you anymore.
Yeah I guess I agree with this. Both happen pretty frequently though.
When it pertains to this conversation... you're wrong.
@@simonwilson1810 I’m not wrong. What she’s describing is someone losing interest. Big difference.
Great advice, meeting people out there is way better.
She almost had it. Get off the dating apps. Full stop.
They're really for scrubs, losers and users.
Actually I am really bored about the “how’s your day going” questions to me
Don’t bother with dating apps.
The latest stats are 95% of women are only interested in 5% of men.
If you all leave the apps it will end their false sense of value
Or be the 5 percent lol
@@user-mf9wg6jq5fdo both
That 95% will only settle for men 6' and taller
I'd like your source please, because I keep seeing random percentages with no study to back it up.
If she feels you, it's much easier...
Time to unplug and reconnect IRL.
30 matches is on the *Very* low end...
150+ a day 🥲 sometimes you get burnout you just quit the app all together.
Him: can i have your number
Her: i dont give my number to strangers
99.999999999999% of dating apps for men
Lol 😂 🤣 🤣 🤣 don't take any woman's advice it backfires
i found my fiancé on tinder. glad i never took your advice 😂
prove it
Hmmm guys don't want even date these days!!
Why would they? These women r trash.
And why should we
If you are sub5, you can't even get a date.
For a normie, the dates are ussually a waste of time where you pay for dinners only to be ghosted.
For a Chad, dating is a waste of time also, because he invites the girls straight to his place for "Netflix and chill" without having to wine and dine her first.
@@raytracer5726as a Tyrone, you’re correct.
i can get dates they just wound up at my house @@raytracer5726
Just don't do it! Save your sanity!
Billie; Excellent presentation! More valuable tips! I no longer use dating apps. I find approaching a woman in person, is more effective, and results in more actual, in person dates. Thank you.
Feminist DESTROY REAL APPROUCH
Women rarely message back in my experience😂
Even when I try to be creative.. no communication. They didn't even unmatch, just no response.
😂😂😂😂
It's won in your profile. Improve your looks and get better photos
For all the women that do not like small talk, up your talking game. Dont wait for the man, talk to him the way you want to be spoken to. It goes a long way to letting the man know what zone you are in. You want him to ask you out instead of small talk, ask him out! Dont be shy or lack the confidence to just say what you feel. Men wont reject you. Women reject men. And once he knows your energy, he will adapt to it.
Duly noted 🫡
Men most definitely reject women. I’m a pretty girl and I’ve been rejected many a time. Rejection isn’t a gender specific attribute.
@happywhispersasmr yes but it is not balanced either. Often women go after guys 1 or 2 levels above them so the fact it is even hot or miss in itself is different. Men often only have decent odds with women 2 levels below them in attraction.
@@happywhispersasmr Men reject women when they're either too crazy or too unattractive. We try and follow the "Hot and Crazy Matrix".
Nah men reject beautiful women. Also, this leads to a man who doesn't want you taking you for a ride and making you chase him while he panders after the same woman for 10 15 years hoping she finally agrees to be with him. Women do not take this advice. It will lead to a relationship such as Simone Biles where her husband publicly insults her. 😂😂😂
It's weird for women too.. One guys straight up told me he had a fake account with a fake name then in the same breath asked for my number. Then apparently he had an accident and his car was totaled. All in the span of a single day. Before I could block more of his lies, he removed me 😂
Uninstalled those apps. It got so bad I had to screen record so my friends would believe what was coming across my screen.
OMG!! Yes!!! I wish more of them new this.
It’s so annoying to be asked how I’m doing every day of the week, with no end in sight. 😤
😂😱 For the love of God yes! I begins to make you want to smack someone, even if you're the nicest person.
Why not just ask the guy then? For a man, the line between annoying (being too aggressive) or moving to slow all comes down to how you feel as the woman. Don't wait for him, if you match with him, say to him straight, "Hey, let's meet up sometime, want to exchange numbers?" That is thr opening he needs to know he can be aggressive.
I don't know why no girl loves me. I just want an honest girl. I don't care if she's beautiful or sick, even if she's blind or paralyzed. Do I put impossible qualities? Do I ask for an impossible?
The smart wife kind of woman left these dating apps months ago because the guys were wasting their time. The only kind you’re going to find on dating apps are hookups and crazies. Good luck guys you’re better off asking out a woman you see in your area.
True
By far
This makes no sense….. if another guy beat you to her number why give someone a number when another guy beat someone else to the number?
PLEASE DON'T USE DATING APPS YOU END UP LURED, STUDIED, STALKED AND JOKED AROUND.
Move that shit along! My guy got me by asking me for a date in the first 5 mins. Save the blah, blah, blah for in-person! Textationships suck!!!!
That doesn’t always work. I made the first move on people online and either got blocked or insulted lol. Well not everyone is the same but that online stuff is ridiculous
I get the matches, I just don't get the reciprocation and energy I give out. So they just end up in "Hidden" or "Their Turn". They seem highly enveloped in indecisiveness and options.
I actually get a lots of match but it just that I don't really wanna take them out of a date 😂 well around 100-150 like in a month, not high but not too shabby.
That's why I hit them with the direct stuff, interest! Plus I'm ghosting them because they bore me.
I really wonder why didnt this channel pop yet
cause its the most basic shit advice that'd be useful for pre-schoolers
@@ottomanpapyrus9365 the other videos are kinda good to be honest, for someone new to dating life theg fit quite well
If she had her shit together, why would she be on a dating app?
If you had your shit together, why are you on a dating app?
Because some people work +60 hrs a week and don't have time / their social-professional circle is not what they are looking for in a partner ??? You sound like a boomer
I’m on a dating app because everyone else in real life seems to think I have a boyfriend but I do not and I don’t get approached by anyone in public 🫠. So tell me, what other options do I have?
What do you mean?
@JimenezSoraya98 it's pretty self explanatory.
If you have your life together you don't need to go on a dating app to find someone. You would find someone in real life like people have for thousands of years.
No one can socialize anymore, the only connections people have are through technology these days
Facts
The number of times the last message I receive has been "I'd prefer to get to know you a little better before giving out my number" determined this was a lie
what girl in the world would give her number directly on a dating app😂😂😂😂😂😂😂??? this is hilarious
Tinder must hate her 🤣🤣🤣
That's true, you wanna meet on the app and get off the app asap. Don't be these guys who just keeps messaging her again and again with no solid meet up planned.
Starting the speedrun timer now.
I ain’t giving my number out. It’s safer to keep it on hinge 😅
Guys if she’s not ATTRACTED to you. You won’t be getting shit. So work on your looks and style get in the gym and THEN hop on these apps
IF YOU ARE ON A DATING APP, ASK THE GIRL WHAT SHE IS LOOKING FOR , THEN ASK HER WHERE SHE WANTS TO GO FOR THE DATE, ASK HER IF SHE HAS EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS TO FEEL COMFORTABLE ON THE DATE. “Note SOME WOMEN WILL DECLINE A DATE SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY DONT HAVE A CUTE OUTFIT HAIR OR NAILS ARE NOT DONE.
On line dating is for lazy ,shy no confident ,weirdo dudes women for sure best be careful with these things.
There are a ton of scammer chicks that will just send you spam if you give out your number. It's ridiculous. I don't want to give out my number unless I can prove they are real and not fake.
Agreed. I'd say at least 50% of female profiles on tinder are scammers trying to collect contact data or actual women using the app to promote their pay site (ONLYFANS, etc)
As a man, you have to really be stupid if you take dating advice from a woman.
Lol yes, just take advice from guys who've been through 3 divorces & are mad about it OR the PUAs that don't know the first thing about keeping a woman's interest. Yep, you should totally listen to those 😂
Exactly never ask a fish how to catch fish!
@@brycedanner9453Any good fisherman knows you have to know what you're fishing for & go where the fish are if you want to catch anything, let alone a quality fish. Yall starving, can't even put hooks on, pouting in mudpuddles like confused little children. It's embarrassing to watch men flail about & then say nonsense like that 🤣
@justacoginthefkery when did I say any of that? I meant take advice from your father or a close male relative/friend... Can you point out where exactly I said to take advice from PUA's and men divorced numerous times?
@@brycedanner9453I'd be more concerned with the way you view dating, if you think trying to meet a partner is the same thing as catching an animal you intend to kill and eat.
This is so true! I just want a guy to move things along. No one has time to talk to so many guys smh. It’s overwhelming and redundant.
Nah y’all ghost still anyway
@@kylewonglee7724We all have been ghosted in real life, ghosting someone on an app is even easier to handle, but since you are not ugly I bet you get ghosted because you are creepy 😂
@@kylewonglee7724 i dont ghost. I always tell guys if im not interested to avoid ghosting. Its rude to do that to someone
Literally doesn’t matter, still ignore the guys who do come in with a good intro
@@DeletedDeleter im sorry this has happened to you but i dont do this to guys. Anyone who contacts me with an actual sentence, gets a response.
This is so brutally honest, it shows women don’t really care for the quality of man they are dealing with.
W are responsible for making the dating market horrible
This girl has some serious masculine energy. I can easily see her making a man's life a living hell in divorce court.
Yeah don’t mess around. Strike the iron when it’s hot boys! I took a beautiful lady out a few days ago after only a week of online dating app messages. Hopefully neither of us have to use dating apps ever again!
good luck
Well?
A week? I usually get number after 1-2 messages and then we talk for a day and they’re gone
@@kylewonglee7724 lmao this is true to me. Once I get the girls number, the conversation instantly dies off
How’d that go? 😂
It just happened to me. Had a great flirty convo and told her I would be back on after work. She was gone. Completely gone. Everything blocked or erased. Even the convo. That was the closest I've gotten to getting a date on an app in 2 years. SMH I'm done with the apps. I've wasted 100's of dollars.
Aint this the girl who got called out my joey swoles?
We don't want to give our private # out to random app dudes. Ask a few questions, meet up & move forward. You get ghosted because we found 100 more interesting men. I hate small talk.
Men, read "Why Women Deserve Less". Dating apps are a great way to WASTE your precious time and energy.
Being direct was actually what worked for me lol
Ghosting can also happen because the dating app is doing it.
I’m not an option so if another guy can get her, he can have her. I’m not in competition over no women. Who do y’all think y’all are? Y’all no trophies
You sound hurt and resentful. Address and heal your issues before you go out into the dating market. If you go anyway, it just wont work out (short lived)
@@Sound7heWarCry How do I sound hurt for stating that I am not an option in a women’s life? You women want guys to be down with everything and I ain’t for it, I’m already healed, so nice try young lady. Nothing in that comment sounds like I’m hurt, it means that I will not be an option while that chooses to have other options. And I’m saying I will eliminate myself. Simple
That is a very bizarre thing to say when the main subject is dating apps.
Sure enough, women are not trophies, no human being should be. But they happen to have more options than you on dating apps and so yes sometimes they will get to choose between those options. There is no sense in being offended that you are not THE ONLY option for every women on dating apps.
Me, a single guy who doesn't use dating apps: (laughs in a mission failed successfully)
And she goes through All 30 matches and realizes they're jerks and comes back to you but by that time you lost interest. I'm not going to be on the back burner or your contingency. Ladies get over yourself.
You do realize dating is inherent about being selective right ?
If every man on dating apps expected to be every women's priority from the gate go there wouldn't be enough women on dating apps.
Ladies. Do not give guys your number. Keep it on the app (many of them have call functions). Keep it on there until you guys have met up and are compatible. You don’t want a bunch of guys that you will end up having to delete due to incompatibility etc. keep it on the app and tell them you will feel comfortable giving them your number once you’ve established to date further.
True but they are also looking for the next best looking man.
Funny thing is that I get a lot of matches but then I send them a message then they just don’t respond maybe it’s fake bots to boost their popularity.. dunno
Watching these videos tell me dating apps are terrible places to be yourself
Don’t take advice from woman about what woman want… you don’t learn to be a fisherman by talking to fish… you learn from other fishermen
No girl giving out their number so easily
I for sure got off the dating apps especially in Florida where every other girl is just promoting their OF , Tennessee and Texas woman I’ve met were way cooler, some still friends till today. Florida women is something else 😂😂
Guys go and sit beside an unnattractive woman and watch her swipe through a dating app. You will be shocked/disturbed how many matches she gets and how shes like “no no no definitely not hes got weird earlobes” lol.
Nah, I saw this for myself a long time ago
i never got on them them
I've done this and most the time I get, can we get to know each other on here first; nah no thanks I don't have time to chat through a buggy app that doesn't send or doesn't send me a notification .
Do you know the quality is it going to be great on dating apps but sometimes if you recently moved or are visiting somewhere, it’s not a bad play.
After one or two back-and-forth, I always just say, “rather than invest a lot of time, when we may not even like each other, why don’t we go have coffee or something this Thursday and go from there”
It works well because it respect everybody’s time is upfront. It’s non-committal you’re not asking for a weekend day and on our end it’s not gonna cost you.
"get off the dating app now!"
Me: feel the Force around u 😂
Cold approach beats online everyday of the week