Mariel’s story hit me so hard. I went through the same thing at a job for almost 5 years. I finally got out and the weight that fell off my shoulders was insane. So glad she got out if that and got to a better space ❤️❤️❤️ I hope this inspires other people to do the same if they’re feeling like that
I relate so much with what Mariel talked about. Many Asia-born Asian employers need cultural competency training badly. It's absurd to expect everyone here to go 100% their way when in reality they should at least meet halfway to go by what is normal in the states while being in the states with US laws and culture.
David, I need you to know that while studying for my final projects and exams for my final semester, I have listened to a solid 24 hrs of your podcasts, keep doing you das my only request. Finna graduate with that Geniusbrain. I wish you da best homie ✊🏾
Yeah, Japanese work long hours but they also get less done. It's all acting too appear hard working. Inefficient waste of time. Trust me, I used to for a Japanese comany. It's a stupid work culture
I definitely believe sitting at a desk for long hours, doesn't equate to productivity. For me, I do things in 30 minute spurts. If I'm allowed to walk around and do other stuff, I think I do better work. Personally, I'm sick of desk jobs. I almost rather do some manual labor work, as long as I'm not treated like a slave.
That’s called a General manager of a restaurant. Where multiple hats. You do the day to day tasks, Human Resources, and administrative work, at the same time you have to translate business demands in a way that your team is inspired, and also learn to lead up to improve your companies culture.
When you guys were talking about phrases, idioms and “white people humor” I related 100% I work in corporate America and I am one of the few people of color that works for my company and like Mariel I did not know a lot of the phrases/idioms my white manager would say sometimes.
Had a similar experience, toxic, clique-y, and my wife saw me just defeated and depressed every day as I came home. Gained weight, slept poorly. When I left even without a pay increase I felt happier, my wife saw I felt better, I lost the weight I gained. Toxic work drains and *it is* from top down, the head of the organization plays favourites and will gladly F you over to save their own ass.
Dave Chappelle made a joke about the same e experience of Racism. He wasn't mad just taken by surprised and you just try to process it in amazement it was so brazen.
Is it okay for me to have an opinion on the new camera angle? I know this is probably David experimenting. But I thought this angle made the podcast look a bit jarring and more official like an interview.
When I was in Tokyo I was outside at most times at some point (4am to 2am) and no matter what odd time I was outside there were salary men on their way to or from work. Totally crazy for me to see and sad how much they work.
Also we met a friend and he couldn't get a day off so he came to our house in the evening and left at 5am the next morning to go to work again. Totally normal to him apparently..
Really thank speaking about toxic workplace I’ve just had my first ever job and was toxic like mariel said where felt sucidel didn’t care if I killed myself or didn’t arrive home just did not want step foot work place again. Taken few months tell quite had have family member come with hand in my work equipment because having panic attack just felt so fear haven’t got job at moment people saying why did quite during covid I knew wouldn’t be here if carried on.. people need put health before workplace sometime special workplace Dosnt care at all about you. At moment not be able search new job because that keep trigger me keep thinking get new job get into another toxic job or be bullies in my job that constant fear don’t know how heal from it move on. So this podcast help so much thank you speaking on this subject not talked about at all. Sorry dyselixc hope can understand.
I really enjoyed this :) i remember complaining about David interrupting Mariel too often, well i thought here was very well balanced :) good on you David!!
We need a podcast discussing Young Kim and Michelle Steel. Two Korean-American women elected to Congress from California...unfortunately they’re both Trump Republicans...but it would make for interesting conversation 😅
Thankfully I think this is changing. Not sure about other East Asian countries, but in Korea nowadays the office/work culture is very American now. A lot more lenient. Hard-working and overworking exists, but thankfully the misogynistic aspect is disappearing fast.
I will say these are my personal favorite. I can relate with Mariel in some way even though I've just been luckier with my experience. I just had my last day of work today since I had planned to move to another city, even though surviving the last couple of months were dreadful.
that bit about finding yourself was so relatable; right now im trying to find the balance between being myself and adjusting my personality based on who im talking to, but not to the point that im betraying who i really am.... its hard! loved the episode.
I 100% feel that convo y'all had about not wanting to quit a bad work situation because it feels like giving up. I was raised the same way, actually in that situation right now where I work for a "not so pleasant big corporation" who shall not be named, but yeah unpleasant work scenario, feeling constantly like did I really go through university getting a degree and masters and what not just to come be treated like nothing at the bottom of the corporate ladder. But there's something in me, I guess from that old school mentality from our parents that keeps telling me to not quit, stay n fight and overcome but gotta admit each month I constantly find myself at that crossroads. But yeah keep up the great content man! 👊🏿💯, Your podcast is one of the few that I refuse to listen to whilst multitasking and passively doing other stuff like at work etc I make sure to tune in, properly sit down and digest these conversations always whether it's the deeper conversations or just the funny light hearted episodes there's always gems 🙏🏿
A lot of countries come out here to California and do their business like back at home not realizing the states worker laws that they have broken a lot of them do and eventually will get fined and the State will not give any leeway this state gives employees more rights than any other.
Got dat scent bird. Thanks my dude. I felt it was a great thing to have when dating and I now have a great gf that loves it when I wear cologne. My dudes, trust me when I tell you girls love guys that smell nice.
I find the set kind of dark and I kind of like it better when the speakers are more angled towards the camera, so I can see their faces more. But that’s kind of hard given how wide the room is...🧐
so that's why Japanese and Korean suicide rate are so high. so stressful! office culture is not healthy at all but there are good times as well. oh and david, this camera angle is very intimate. i dnt think it will work for others the same way as your fiancee. i guess its ok since its a podcast and its all about listening, but sometimes its interesting to watch you guys talk about stuff and we (or I) want to see the reaction better. its my opinion, sure, but i dnt think i'm alone in this. pls dont hate me, love you as a fan! 🤗
Can you talk in a normal voice during the ad instead of yelling? I have hearing sensitivity. Also, I was disappointed when this episode got over. There is no question so many people find your content to engaging and relatable.
thank you mariel for sharing your experiences! also david i don't know if you know this but the dave chapelle show is now on netflix and it's funny as hell!
I’m sorry but completely off topic to this video, btw this had me dying the other day. This Korean guy with fondue asmr looked like David a bout five years ago My apologies but He may have been Japanese
I haven’t watched this podcast in a while but the minute I saw Mariel I clicked
Dude same !!! I love their interaction sooo much beside him being on tigerbelly !!!
Let's be real same
You've been missing out
Mariel’s story hit me so hard. I went through the same thing at a job for almost 5 years. I finally got out and the weight that fell off my shoulders was insane. So glad she got out if that and got to a better space ❤️❤️❤️ I hope this inspires other people to do the same if they’re feeling like that
Fart in a blanket is dutch oven btw lol
I relate so much with what Mariel talked about. Many Asia-born Asian employers need cultural competency training badly. It's absurd to expect everyone here to go 100% their way when in reality they should at least meet halfway to go by what is normal in the states while being in the states with US laws and culture.
David, I need you to know that while studying for my final projects and exams for my final semester, I have listened to a solid 24 hrs of your podcasts, keep doing you das my only request. Finna graduate with that Geniusbrain. I wish you da best homie ✊🏾
Yeah, Japanese work long hours but they also get less done. It's all acting too appear hard working. Inefficient waste of time. Trust me, I used to for a Japanese comany. It's a stupid work culture
I definitely believe sitting at a desk for long hours, doesn't equate to productivity. For me, I do things in 30 minute spurts. If I'm allowed to walk around and do other stuff, I think I do better work. Personally, I'm sick of desk jobs. I almost rather do some manual labor work, as long as I'm not treated like a slave.
@@_Wai_Wai_ Im the same
I love when Mariel comes on. Please have her in more episodes!
That’s called a General manager of a restaurant. Where multiple hats. You do the day to day tasks, Human Resources, and administrative work, at the same time you have to translate business demands in a way that your team is inspired, and also learn to lead up to improve your companies culture.
When you guys were talking about phrases, idioms and “white people humor” I related 100% I work in corporate America and I am one of the few people of color that works for my company and like Mariel I did not know a lot of the phrases/idioms my white manager would say sometimes.
Mariel needs her own podcast. I love her episodes😀😀
Mariel's so eloquent, always appreciate her input
I like the symmetry of the set!
Real easy on the eyes
I literally said to myself the other day, I want another Mariel episode, blesss. This was so good!
Had a similar experience, toxic, clique-y, and my wife saw me just defeated and depressed every day as I came home. Gained weight, slept poorly. When I left even without a pay increase I felt happier, my wife saw I felt better, I lost the weight I gained. Toxic work drains and *it is* from top down, the head of the organization plays favourites and will gladly F you over to save their own ass.
Dave Chappelle made a joke about the same e experience of Racism.
He wasn't mad just taken by surprised and you just try to process it in amazement it was so brazen.
when mariel was talking about the dishwasher guy, that really got my blood pumping. anxiety, frustration, and helplessness
Is it okay for me to have an opinion on the new camera angle?
I know this is probably David experimenting. But I thought this angle made the podcast look a bit jarring and more official like an interview.
"Be yourself, but be smart about it." 👍
Dang that’s why so many people commit suicide in Japan... :(
When I was in Tokyo I was outside at most times at some point (4am to 2am) and no matter what odd time I was outside there were salary men on their way to or from work. Totally crazy for me to see and sad how much they work.
Also we met a friend and he couldn't get a day off so he came to our house in the evening and left at 5am the next morning to go to work again. Totally normal to him apparently..
Thank you Mariel for blessing us with your presence
Really thank speaking about toxic workplace I’ve just had my first ever job and was toxic like mariel said where felt sucidel didn’t care if I killed myself or didn’t arrive home just did not want step foot work place again. Taken few months tell quite had have family member come with hand in my work equipment because having panic attack just felt so fear haven’t got job at moment people saying why did quite during covid I knew wouldn’t be here if carried on.. people need put health before workplace sometime special workplace Dosnt care at all about you. At moment not be able search new job because that keep trigger me keep thinking get new job get into another toxic job or be bullies in my job that constant fear don’t know how heal from it move on. So this podcast help so much thank you speaking on this subject not talked about at all. Sorry dyselixc hope can understand.
I really enjoyed this :) i remember complaining about David interrupting Mariel too often, well i thought here was very well balanced :) good on you David!!
We need a podcast discussing Young Kim and Michelle Steel. Two Korean-American women elected to Congress from California...unfortunately they’re both Trump Republicans...but it would make for interesting conversation 😅
Why is being Republican unfortunate. It's little small demonization of the other side that splits the country even further
Thankfully I think this is changing. Not sure about other East Asian countries, but in Korea nowadays the office/work culture is very American now. A lot more lenient. Hard-working and overworking exists, but thankfully the misogynistic aspect is disappearing fast.
I will say these are my personal favorite. I can relate with Mariel in some way even though I've just been luckier with my experience. I just had my last day of work today since I had planned to move to another city, even though surviving the last couple of months were dreadful.
Oh my god i missed seeing her on genius brain ,i like so much
Holy s**t - never knew why I have such a divers and weird circle of friends until now. Great episode! Keep them deep topics coming 🤘
Love the people around you, and cherish the moments you get to spend with them
¡Peace, love and more life to everyone out there, stay safe! 👊🏿🙏🏿❤️
I feel this podcast in my soul i hate my job right now and it’s really speaking to
Me
I appreciate the time stamps^^
that bit about finding yourself was so relatable; right now im trying to find the balance between being myself and adjusting my personality based on who im talking to, but not to the point that im betraying who i really am.... its hard!
loved the episode.
Ayyyy I was bored at work and now this happened thank god
Wish I could watch videos at work lol
This podcast helps me pass the time when I have to drive long distance for work.
I can see David's anger and wanted to protect Mariel when she talked about her past work experience.
I 100% feel that convo y'all had about not wanting to quit a bad work situation because it feels like giving up. I was raised the same way, actually in that situation right now where I work for a "not so pleasant big corporation" who shall not be named, but yeah unpleasant work scenario, feeling constantly like did I really go through university getting a degree and masters and what not just to come be treated like nothing at the bottom of the corporate ladder. But there's something in me, I guess from that old school mentality from our parents that keeps telling me to not quit, stay n fight and overcome but gotta admit each month I constantly find myself at that crossroads.
But yeah keep up the great content man! 👊🏿💯, Your podcast is one of the few that I refuse to listen to whilst multitasking and passively doing other stuff like at work etc I make sure to tune in, properly sit down and digest these conversations always whether it's the deeper conversations or just the funny light hearted episodes there's always gems 🙏🏿
Mariel has to be lying. Joe Rogan told me misogyny doesn't exist.
He's a man that only hires men. Of course there's no misogyny in his workplace
Marial got some crazy stories! Awesome episode!
“Twist it like So”
Finally someone that legitimately talks bout finding your true self!!! thanks David & Mariel.
This is now my favourite episode. I'd love to see more of Mariel, thanks for a great episode you two! Such a great team. :)
Love the setup. I've watched several different podcasts and this one's my new favorite.
David! I wish we had CZcams and your podcasts back in early 2000's!
Thank you both, These conversations you two have are always enlightening
A lot of countries come out here to California and do their business like back at home not realizing the states worker laws that they have broken a lot of them do and eventually will get fined and the State will not give any leeway this state gives employees more rights than any other.
listening to David always makes me feel like everything is going to be okay 😌
love mariel in every podcast. she always has something interesting to share
I love Mariel on the podcast, can I dub her bubbles from powerpuffgirls? She's amazing
My favorite episodes are with Mariel. Love the career topic!
That opening negotiation had me dying 🤣
This new camera angle is refreshing
Got dat scent bird. Thanks my dude. I felt it was a great thing to have when dating and I now have a great gf that loves it when I wear cologne.
My dudes, trust me when I tell you girls love guys that smell nice.
yay new podcast
I really needed to hear this. Thank you for this.
I love this conversation so much, so fuckin' deep. I love you two as a couple. You guys are a jewel on youtube. Keep that Asian Pride going!
LOVED this episode with Mariel
Thank you for the time stamps.Very much appreciated. 🤟🕸🕸
gread podcast david; i feel like i click with your perspective of the world bc of the LA roots (from chinatown)
The criss cross apple sauce is so surprising in every video
Introduced to David on Send Foodz and decided to watch his podcast. I dig it. Ill be back 💯
I love Mariel’s voice ! 😍
Loved every minute 😭🙌
adding another angle would be so dope!
love when Mariel's on!!
I find the set kind of dark and I kind of like it better when the speakers are more angled towards the camera, so I can see their faces more. But that’s kind of hard given how wide the room is...🧐
I’m down for those improv classes! 👋🏾
😱 I thought I was not going to see Mariel on the podcast again 😭
Mariel is back😀😀
scentbird sounds so freaking awesome
so that's why Japanese and Korean suicide rate are so high. so stressful! office culture is not healthy at all but there are good times as well. oh and david, this camera angle is very intimate. i dnt think it will work for others the same way as your fiancee. i guess its ok since its a podcast and its all about listening, but sometimes its interesting to watch you guys talk about stuff and we (or I) want to see the reaction better. its my opinion, sure, but i dnt think i'm alone in this. pls dont hate me, love you as a fan! 🤗
I feel blessed to be in the USA.
I would visit that social class by David immediately 👍
I really liked this episode :)
My husband and I are in the same boat as you two. 2020 we were supposed to do a lot of traveling before we start having kids. 😔
Yaaaaaay, I love Mariel 🥺
Yay, Muriel ! 👊🏼
More mariel !!
David, what's your Myers Briggs Personality Trait? 🤔 I feel like you're a INFJ-A like me. One of the rare personalities in the world.
Is there a podcast episode where Mariel talks about how she learned so many languages ?
Bring Bobby Lee on
48:22 amen
Damn I would love a professionally social class cause I know I can't do that for my life
The start of this video looked like the start of every 90"s skate video........I was like when did david get sponsored by toy machine......
I hated working for others!
I've missed Mariel on here
@ 26:53 david claps da cheeks, no hands🙌
(Pause tho)
yall are so cool wtf!!!
How come you haven't brought on Nikki or Steve?
Get your brother on next👍
Mariel😍🎉
Did the Japanese boss that was mean to her was mean to Mariel because she is a girl or because she is Korean?
Can you talk in a normal voice during the ad instead of yelling? I have hearing sensitivity. Also, I was disappointed when this episode got over. There is no question so many people find your content to engaging and relatable.
A korean being mistreated at a japanese company yea i could defo see that happening smh
fartiquette LOL
thank you mariel for sharing your experiences! also david i don't know if you know this but the dave chapelle show is now on netflix and it's funny as hell!
34:15 I need to go to Taiwan.... Then I need to visit Jon Jandai, in Chiang Mai Thailand.
Número 1 ✊
I’m sorry but completely off topic to this video, btw this had me dying the other day. This Korean guy with fondue asmr looked like David a bout five years ago
My apologies but He may have been Japanese
Who is random beautiful woman ,your fiancee will get jealous of this guest
Hope they go to Vietnam with Joe
I didn’t no Mariel had a accent she sounded different on other episodes-✨ very cool David very cool lol✨
Lol mariel so cute