“sooo, about heartbreak” | self love & relationships w Seithati Letsipa | sippin’ with cee |

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  • ⁠‪@SeithatiLetsipa‬ thank you for gracing the coffee beans with your presence!! thank you for watching besties!! keep loving & taking care of yourselves x
    giveaway instructions :)
    cute lil’ steps to stand a chance to win roses, a trip to the spa and the #yttsp selfcare box worth R3500
    1. subscribe to my channel (it’s free)
    2. follow me on instagram @coffeenomilk_
    3. comment your favourite part about this episode using the hashtag #yttsp on instagram under the giveaway post: www.instagram.... and tag two people you feel should watch YTTSP
    the giveaway is open to the following countries (Botswana, Lesotho, Mozambique, Namibia, South Africa, Swaziland, Zambia, Zimbabwe) and it closes on the 30th of July and you may enter as many times as you wish. good luck besties!!
    credits :)
    film, editing & sound: AlphaModeZA
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Komentáře • 217

  • @SeithatiLetsipa
    @SeithatiLetsipa Před rokem +57

    oh my I’ve been to anxious to watch but now that I’m watching I’m kicking myself for not watching sooner 😂 This was so beautiful. Thank you for having me over bestie, This was beautiful to watch. ❤

  • @Keziah_Mumba.1
    @Keziah_Mumba.1 Před rokem +81

    "healthy black marriages exist!"❤ Loved it!

  • @charlotte_randy
    @charlotte_randy Před rokem +63

    Mabonza 📍check-in … And our selfcare queen 🥰

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +8

      marking myself present bc I’m a lebonza too🤭❤️

  • @phaladimpho2541
    @phaladimpho2541 Před rokem +74

    Coffee no milk....I don't know if anyone had already told u this but this new version of ur vlogs its amazing...just know ur seen ...heard n appreciated ...I love u ..❤❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +6

      thank you!! I appreciate this 🥺❤️

  • @teeseroalo1370
    @teeseroalo1370 Před rokem +20

    I love when black girls collaborate, help and build each other. It’s giving black queens era

  • @OttiliaMurima
    @OttiliaMurima Před rokem +14

    This topic really hits home coz l grew up with low self esteem and found myself in situationships that l knew were wrong but l didn't really end the situationship coz I liked the attention and validation l got from them and l was kinda scared to end it or call them off cz l was like, if l do, then l won't have someone "cares" for me. It took me a lot of courage to actually end the situationship and then started my journey of self love ❤ thank you for this topic Coffee 💖

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +4

      I’m so glad you’re here now and you have learned the lessons you needed to learn. “Mistakes of a girl, Makings of a woman”. I’m proud of us bestie 🥺❤️

  • @nondumisokhanyile600
    @nondumisokhanyile600 Před rokem +21

    Coffeenomilk be out here teaching me that princess treatment is exactly what I deserve ❤❤❤ , you are definitely that older sister 😊😊

  • @LindiweK
    @LindiweK Před rokem +30

    Im honestly loving this selfcare princess series😊😊
    Personally i don't want it to end please❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      I’m glad you’re enjoying it 🥹❤️

  • @kamo..
    @kamo.. Před rokem +15

    Been waiting for this one, Thati is one of my faves ❤️

  • @gorataparafene9739
    @gorataparafene9739 Před rokem +4

    Clarissa always bringing my faves. I love this series so much. Princess treatment and self care are important ❤️

  • @karabomokoena7876
    @karabomokoena7876 Před rokem +4

    The importance of loving yourself so that it makes this mjolo situation easier, knowing what you deserve and taking care of you❤️I relate so much…. Sis I love this…self love is an intentional exercise❤️

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +2

      “self love is an intentional exercise” preach 🫶🏾❤️✨

  • @thabithazikhali2804
    @thabithazikhali2804 Před rokem +5

    This video was amazing and very informative ❤, however I feel like the 80/20 rule should only apply in healthy relationships

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      that’s all we want though, healthy relationships 🫶🏾❤️ I’m glad you enjoyed bestie

  • @themzie
    @themzie Před rokem +17

    This is so beautiful ❤❤❤ you are really looking for us bestie😢 ... you are appreciated ❤ and thank you to you both for this❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      thank youuu bestie 🥹❤️❤️

    • @banoh_m
      @banoh_m Před rokem

      Girl you can say that again

  • @zoemokoena3425
    @zoemokoena3425 Před rokem +5

    Mabonza where you at?! 🔥

  • @palesankondlo1395
    @palesankondlo1395 Před rokem +8

    Enjoyed this video bestie with Lebonza❤️ it’s crazy yet beautiful how God can use a situation/person to help you reflect on self and strive for better because we honestly deserve the best😌

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      literally!! so insane!! I’m glad you enjoyed bestie 🥰❤️

  • @MillenialKay
    @MillenialKay Před rokem +2

    Loved this interview❤❤
    Hope everyone who desires romantic love, finds a lifetime of true, healthy love that keeps choosing you

  • @tshepyau
    @tshepyau Před rokem +2

    Bestie, u gotta put in ice after the pink thingie, then make sure you're pouring the Sprite directly on the ice , that's what is gonna make the separation. Btw, u look good, both of you actually. I'm just happy to see you consistent and glowing❤🥰

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +2

      okay okay noted 😭😭 I’m a terrible mixologist yei 🤣🤣 but I’m learning!! thank youu bestie ❤️

  • @lutendomukwevho3351
    @lutendomukwevho3351 Před rokem +2

    A bible is such a great addition to the give away hamper ❤😊

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone Před rokem +3

    Our Fav Thati yesss Lebonzaaaa ❤❤we love you both ❤❤I enjoyed this so much

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      she’s amazing!! I’m happy you enjoyed bestie 🥺❤️

  • @kagisotlatsana
    @kagisotlatsana Před rokem +4

    Guys It’s the fact that I relate so much Clarrisa😭😭💔💔💔 why are men being so selfish dude. No way guys no way bestie.

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +2

      yohh we all live the same lives 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed Před rokem +1

    Thati's drink is giving😍👌🏾

  • @ClockThisTea1
    @ClockThisTea1 Před rokem +4

    Dumela Dumela ,aiii that intro is for the Books ,🎉

  • @natashamopalami
    @natashamopalami Před rokem +3

    Our lebonza! 🥰
    What a beautiful conversation bestie.

  • @rosendalmtshali1926
    @rosendalmtshali1926 Před rokem +4

    What a beautiful segment 🥺❤️

  • @tiisetsothato9082
    @tiisetsothato9082 Před rokem +2

    I loved both your Kenya vlogs, one thing I took from there was just how grateful you both were, made me smile ear to ear. So I'm here at 02.30 commenting before I watch 😅

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +1

      awww appreciate you sm bestie 🥺❤️❤️

  • @thabisaaddea8320
    @thabisaaddea8320 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for chapter 4 just given me validation of knowing my worth nd now I can keep my head high cause I definitely know my worth nd how I want to be treated. # not people pleaser anymore

  • @libraaima2576
    @libraaima2576 Před rokem +2

    You're continuously evolving and I'm loving this for you! Keep up with the good content 👌

  • @LungaConstable
    @LungaConstable Před rokem +3

    Welcome bck from Kenya ladies ❤ and thank u for a wonderful vid bestie 💕

  • @oldjohnkabelo9869
    @oldjohnkabelo9869 Před rokem +2

    Wow. This video is exactly what I'm currently going through and what I NEEDED to hear.❤❤

  • @natashamompati
    @natashamompati Před rokem +2

    My favorite CZcamsrs in one video
    Love it so much ❤️👌

  • @hope603
    @hope603 Před rokem +2

    The quality 👌

  • @thokozilenhlapo6503
    @thokozilenhlapo6503 Před rokem +2

    Seithati sent us here ✨🥰📍 New subbie alert!😊

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      hey bestie, welcome to the club 🤭❤️

  • @Muse--ology
    @Muse--ology Před rokem +1

    I love that you're responding to all the comments.
    Wonderful episode hun!!

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +1

      standard procedure on this channel 🙏🏾

  • @mpumelelomagoso1315
    @mpumelelomagoso1315 Před rokem +1

    Aaaaaawwwwwww this is beautiful ❤ my two favs!!!!Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of yourselves with us❤

  • @palesakayise2921
    @palesakayise2921 Před rokem +1

    Loved this❤️
    26 minutes went by so fast🥺

  • @justinawilhelm3576
    @justinawilhelm3576 Před rokem +2

    Where my camping chair at, cos I love it here ❤❤❤, thank you bestie for this, I can relate to this topic, and believe me when I took that step of putting myself first, I felt that heavy weight off my shoulders... Self care princess, all the way 🥂🥂

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +1

      I’m glad you’re in the soave you’re in now ❤️🫶🏾 ikdr bestie

  • @didihighly-favoured7163

    "Executive decision" I love that!

  • @PamelaBapela
    @PamelaBapela Před rokem

    favorite thing about this topic today is that it taught me that women must value themselves more and be lenient with themselves, its important🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰#yttsp

  • @I.am.PRECIOUS
    @I.am.PRECIOUS Před rokem +2

    I love this series so much. I am learning a lot. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable.

  • @marthasefuthi3181
    @marthasefuthi3181 Před rokem +1

    You don’t know how much I needed to hear all of this. Beautiful ❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      I’m happy this was in season for you 🥺❤️

  • @Cadio_Moekoa
    @Cadio_Moekoa Před rokem +1

    OMGGGG!!! Your intro is giving lavish vibes💅❤. Loves it lots❤. You are beautiful. ❤❤‍🔥💫

  • @taympempe
    @taympempe Před rokem +7

    I enjoyed this so much besties 🥺❤️

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed bestie 🥺❤️

  • @Siphesihle_Sh
    @Siphesihle_Sh Před rokem

    The quality and editing is soooo insane 😍😍🔥🔥💯💯🥺🥺🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @barniiebongelo1829
    @barniiebongelo1829 Před rokem

    i just love this for other people .. cause there are people who are suffering and they dont even know what to do .. COFFEE NO MILK keep it up babe .❤❤❤❤😊

  • @juliarabotapi527
    @juliarabotapi527 Před rokem +1

    #yttsp loved watching this video so much ladies . Thank you ladies . Favorite part was everything 👌🏻❤️

  • @tokelonche6727
    @tokelonche6727 Před rokem

    Amazing quality! Thank you so much Bestie! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lebogangtlhagwane7023

    Been postponing to watch this... I love love loved this...❤️❤️💯

  • @ThabiieM
    @ThabiieM Před rokem +3

    Lebonza checking in ✅

  • @thefeminineeye
    @thefeminineeye Před rokem

    you look very pretty clarissa

  • @CrystalZinzile
    @CrystalZinzile Před rokem +2

    Loved this episode so much 🥺

  • @otshepengmogomotsi8455

    I love love everything about the topic😍this is so educational ❤.Because you are my favvs I'm super 🎉excited to watch this❤

  • @jessicafianko
    @jessicafianko Před rokem +1

    By far my favorite video in this series Clarissa, Loved today's video 😊😊
    🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed it as much as I did bestie 🥰❤️

  • @namiesnature
    @namiesnature Před rokem +1

    The consistency!!!

  • @galaletsangphuthego1568
    @galaletsangphuthego1568 Před rokem +2

    Chiiiilllllleeee when you started talking about your situation with that person, you literally said everything I am going through, in tears rn but best believe this talk was needed❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +1

      aww bestie 🥺❤️ I’m glad you know you’re not alone

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed Před rokem

    I need some of those affirmation cards 😍🤗

  • @mweshikutondokwa
    @mweshikutondokwa Před rokem

    One of you has to be strong for both of you ❤

  • @nola91
    @nola91 Před rokem

    I swear this could be an amazing podcast 🤍😊 .

  • @thabisaaddea8320
    @thabisaaddea8320 Před rokem

    Thanks bestie for this plug keep them coming❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @thabilerethabile2688
    @thabilerethabile2688 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤thanks big sis l really needed this convo 🎉

  • @T_raychel
    @T_raychel Před rokem +1

    Hey bestie❤ .I wanna ask for your opinion on the iphone 14pro max. I am planning to get it in july but i saw a few tik toks saying hehe camera blurry, camera correction what what. What do you think of it? And what has been your experience? Don't wanna make a mistake with this big purchase 😭 coz one of my biggest reason for buying it is the camera quality😫 please advice me😭🙏

  • @mphomanamela
    @mphomanamela Před rokem +3

    I love love Thati. Honestly my take from this was that healthy and beautiful marriages or relationships do exist. I feel like a lot of us have been so hard on ourselves and stays in not so great relationships. Maybe it was a desirability issue 🤷🏽‍♀️. #YTTSP

  • @MotheoOtsile
    @MotheoOtsile Před rokem

    Yhuuu I’m here for the premium content sana❤❤❤

  • @palesatshabalala2193
    @palesatshabalala2193 Před rokem

    Is was very insightful and short, love you ladies ❤

  • @lifewithsbo
    @lifewithsbo Před rokem

    love love the selfcare series

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed Před rokem

    Coffeenomilk's drink is cute💗😜

  • @Motshidisimadito
    @Motshidisimadito Před rokem

    So inlove with you too ❤❤❤

  • @SeithatiLetsipa
    @SeithatiLetsipa Před rokem

    Thanks!

  • @Thando_Rataza
    @Thando_Rataza Před rokem

    ohhh my lebonzaaaa❤️

  • @ClockThisTea1
    @ClockThisTea1 Před rokem +1

    Damn It's always the intro for me🔥🔥🔥

  • @Nataliamk
    @Nataliamk Před rokem

    This spoke to meeeee😭😭😭😭

  • @felistusmoalosi1906
    @felistusmoalosi1906 Před rokem +4

    I loved this conversation
    I feel like if we reviewed our relationships and friendships like this
    It would be so nice❤❤thank you bestie🤗

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      100% bestie!! I’m glad you loved it 🥹

  • @rosarosalina668
    @rosarosalina668 Před rokem

    Thanks bestie for always being juicy with content ❤❤❤❤🎉

  • @kwanelenkateko4451
    @kwanelenkateko4451 Před rokem

    Thank you so much beasties I feel like I needed this 😔🥰

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      I’m glad it was in season for you🥺❤️

  • @Abusii.m
    @Abusii.m Před rokem +1

    Oh my goodness I love loved this episode what a thoughful gift thank you so much for this love

  • @user-ut4qm4bc8y
    @user-ut4qm4bc8y Před rokem

    I loved this sooo muchh❤

  • @siyamthandandamase8582
    @siyamthandandamase8582 Před rokem +1

    I’m such a proud coffee bean. Lemme catchup ❤

  • @tinashemashao
    @tinashemashao Před rokem

    Yess bestie it has to give 😝🤌🏾

  • @lifewithJamela
    @lifewithJamela Před rokem +1

    Don’t skip ads people

  • @_mbane.04__
    @_mbane.04__ Před rokem

    I loved watching this ❤

  • @ubuhlebakwasibiya6087

    My faves 😍

  • @MissK_Tjimune
    @MissK_Tjimune Před rokem

    I love your work👌🏾👏🏾❤️

  • @KamogeloMaponya
    @KamogeloMaponya Před rokem +1

    Clarisa is me , I am Clarisa!!!!

  • @AshleysDiary
    @AshleysDiary Před rokem

    Loving this series ❤😍

  • @MissK_Tjimune
    @MissK_Tjimune Před rokem

    I really enjoyed this episode 😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @tshepyau
    @tshepyau Před rokem

    Bathong Bestie, the qaulityyyyyyyy 🥰 The lighting. U still use the same camera n editing software?

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem +2

      Alpha Mode recorded & edited this 💕💕

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed Před rokem

    The paragraph part only to get a short ass sentence is the pits😭😩

  • @Ladyjobsson5
    @Ladyjobsson5 Před rokem +1

    I really enjoyed this collab❤️

  • @thandonkonyane
    @thandonkonyane Před rokem

    I love it❤

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed Před rokem

    I dont like tequila but I wanna try the Olmeca😅😋

  • @enhlesammy.m402
    @enhlesammy.m402 Před rokem +2

    Love this collabbbbb OMG
    😊

  • @AvuzwaKeei
    @AvuzwaKeei Před rokem

    Love it for us❤🎉🎉

  • @Motlhatlhego
    @Motlhatlhego Před rokem +2

    Lebonza❤😊

  • @Astridah_M
    @Astridah_M Před rokem

    Loved the chat Besties

  • @mpho_Phiri_M
    @mpho_Phiri_M Před rokem

    💐

  • @chungunsakashalo4895
    @chungunsakashalo4895 Před rokem

    Cute video

  • @Sinenjabulodladla
    @Sinenjabulodladla Před rokem

  • @GRA_CED
    @GRA_CED Před rokem +1

    In this video l found myself relating to most of the stuff and l'm glad to see that l'm growing and giving myself the princess treatment l deserve😊 glad to be a coffee bean let's grow together these kind of stories we usually too shy to let them out but l'm glad this is a safe space you have made for us @coffeenomilk ❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Před rokem

      I appreciate this comment bestie, made me smile .. I’m glad you feel this way🥺❤️

  • @sybilmthimkulu
    @sybilmthimkulu Před rokem

    ❤❤❤

  • @keengmokomane7881
    @keengmokomane7881 Před rokem

    😍😍

  • @carolpeace124
    @carolpeace124 Před rokem

    Love you lots😍❤️🔥🫶