How to breakup without hurting too much? | Ravinder Singh

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

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  • @tusharmeshram6998
    @tusharmeshram6998 Před 2 lety +251

    My honest suggestion to everyone..... If you get into the relationship please don't promise marriage and don't get physical especially with a person who's emotionally sensitive.
    -Don't get into the relationship if you don't want to marry that person.

    • @Priyanka-uu5jw
      @Priyanka-uu5jw Před rokem +15

      You can't presume everything that is this going to work or not and do things accordingly.. even after so much of time spending.. bcz it could be possible ki phle chize alg rhi ho fir bd m alg

    • @zaphkiel5126
      @zaphkiel5126 Před rokem +1

      @@Priyanka-uu5jw yea it's too late

    • @nitish7707
      @nitish7707 Před rokem +4

      Is it nesscary for every romantic relationship with the endgoal of marriage?

    • @RohitKumar-jd3zv
      @RohitKumar-jd3zv Před rokem

      Shi kha

  • @roshninagdev9555
    @roshninagdev9555 Před 4 lety +47

    I don't know whether you will read my comment or not but I wanted to say this for a very long time. THANK YOU so much for making these videos about relationships, loving yourself, tips to new writers and for the magic you create through your books or posts on instagram. I always thought that the world is filled with people who are selfish and hurtful but seeing your videos and you trying to help people with the tiniest bit of their problems gives me hope that there are still good people in this world who want to help others. Just don't ever stop creating these good things because it maybe of great help to some people who have lost hope. You're not just a writer you're a magician

    • @RavinderSinghYouTube
      @RavinderSinghYouTube  Před 4 lety +21

      Messages like these motivate me to do all this. Hope you will help me take these thoughts further by sharing them. Thank you Roshni.

  • @HARSHITSHARMA-mj3qv
    @HARSHITSHARMA-mj3qv Před 3 lety +62

    Continuous ignorance , ego leads to breakup 💔😥

    • @blacklotus-dm5nj
      @blacklotus-dm5nj Před 3 lety

      Thanks for the tip 👍

    • @abinashpathak4814
      @abinashpathak4814 Před 2 lety +4

      Don't do this bro... It's gonna give pain to the other person.. Please don't.. If you loved him/her then never do that ♥

    • @proudjain8732
      @proudjain8732 Před 2 lety

      @@abinashpathak4814 but Mera bf to ase hi Kar rha h yrr😕😓

    • @abinashpathak4814
      @abinashpathak4814 Před 2 lety

      @@proudjain8732 ask him why he's doing it.... If you think it's a valid reason try to understand.. But if he's bluffing thn it's simple BREAKUP DUDE

    • @abinashpathak4814
      @abinashpathak4814 Před 2 lety +1

      @@proudjain8732 Sach mein bolu toh he's not interested in you anymore..... It's the hard truth... Woh tumhe direct nhi bol pa raha hai ki usse breakup chahiye.... I think usse baat Kar lo.... Aur milke decide karo Kiya karna hai.... Usse bolo milna ek last baar... Aur bol do... Apne aap ko takleef mat do

  • @swarnimasawant9854
    @swarnimasawant9854 Před 3 lety +123

    Love: at 1st sight 👀
    Brkup: at 1st fight 👊

  • @rauffail3209
    @rauffail3209 Před rokem +15

    This man came like an angel in my life

  • @monikabarman4283
    @monikabarman4283 Před 2 lety +6

    One more I'd like to say that be very careful when you meet the person 'in person' bcz sometimes they may become violent. Even use force.
    Be always careful! bcz you might've to see the face of him you've never seen before!!

    • @monikabarman4283
      @monikabarman4283 Před 2 lety +3

      @@orategile6891 don't worry I reported all your comments

  • @gulamhasnain5463
    @gulamhasnain5463 Před 3 lety +47

    But the saddest thing is we are in long distance relationship now. I have to wait untill I meet her again, but dont know when because we are far away from each other. We have both tried so much to have a break up but we failed. It's so difficult to live now a days. Our relationship is like breakups- patchups at the same moment followed by some romantic stuffs. I'm now becoming Ill day by day. I've lost some bodyweight and can't able to sleep.

    • @saliha_08
      @saliha_08 Před 3 lety +2

      Same

    • @whyuwatchingme7851
      @whyuwatchingme7851 Před 3 lety +2

      @@soummyatilloo1761 same here but i love her sm she gave me sm stress but she is so cute I wish she always love me like this

    • @tusharmeshram6998
      @tusharmeshram6998 Před 2 lety +3

      Did you move on?

    • @anupmakeshri5115
      @anupmakeshri5115 Před 2 lety +1

      Same

    • @yoganshbhatt
      @yoganshbhatt Před 2 lety +4

      @@soummyatilloo1761 sameeee...but it's not like breakups and patchups... I have many reasons to breakup from this toxic relationship and I am meeting her tomorrow....she knows it...like she wanted mr to think over this again once and now I'll finally tell her all the stuff...she tried to suicide and all..she's literally loosing her mind and...... emotions are taking her on a crazy ride every now and then...and I don't know what will happen...will she be able to hold herself in place or what..in the middle of a tough life I don't really want to give this pain to her but the same is for me...this is for meeee and I don't know how to explain to her..but I am doing it....
      I hope your are at peace now and let me know how are you after all the stuff and did he handled it well or what..if you read this....

  • @shalinidas8627
    @shalinidas8627 Před 3 lety +51

    If I would have watched it previous day then things might have been in better place. But the guilt part was still there. And I am very thankful of this video. It made me clear my thoughts whether that I have done right on breaking up with the person or not. Till today morning I was so confused becoz the guy was very very emotional when I said about the break up. But I had to do it with or without guilt. But now I am feeling really good. And yes it was needed for the betterment of him and me. Thank you so much.

  • @HARSHITSHARMA-mj3qv
    @HARSHITSHARMA-mj3qv Před 3 lety +18

    Atleast we are thinking now also before making them feel hurt

  • @watermellon7262
    @watermellon7262 Před rokem +4

    1st thing get rid of this guilt of breaking up and not to show that you are doing a favor
    2nd do it as soon as possible when it's not going your way there is no agge jakar tkh hojayega
    3rd do not start with negative point of life start with positive aspects of the relationship that there was something in the relationship i won't be able to make you happy as you really need You have got to do what you have to do
    Meet up and not to get back by text show some effort be honest and do a clean break up and do not be frnds after the break up and do not contact him after that

  • @shadowmvp9467
    @shadowmvp9467 Před rokem +6

    FOR THE PAST 1 2 MONTHS I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT I CANT I AM COMPLETELY EXHAUSTED I DONT WANNA HURT HER SHE CHANGED ME ALOT SHE MADE ME A GOOD GUY ONLY BY HER LOVE SHE IS A CARING AND SENSITIVE GIRL I DONT KNOWN HOW BUT IN THE FUTURE WE CANT MARRY CUZ OF SOME PROBLEMS SO ITS GOOD TO FINISH IT HERE .

    • @ashiii7733
      @ashiii7733 Před rokem +1

      Is she is this good boy then you don't know what the future has for you ,
      You must hold her very tightly and ni matter what nothing can stop you for Marrying her if you family is not agreeing..srsky nothing will happen a family is a family they will surely come back but don't leave her if you really love her you know it will hurt both of you

  • @bhavyaa4322
    @bhavyaa4322 Před 3 lety +32

    i watched this video because when ever I talk to him or anything I just don’t feel safe i don’t know why, but actually i’m being honest i just don’t feel safe.

  • @siavosia7828
    @siavosia7828 Před 3 lety +182

    I don't want to hurt him.. ,☹️☹️☹️☹️but I want to break-up .... without hurting him .....bcx meri bhut majbooriya hae .....aur usko Mae nii bool sakta ...bhool too sakte lakin use takleef b nii dene chahatae ..hooo ...

  • @Sheikh_ashifa
    @Sheikh_ashifa Před 3 lety +25

    I really want to breakup with my boyfriend because he is not goal oriented no future with him... N m a ambitious n hardworking it's not working ... But will do this 🙂❤

    • @keepitup5649
      @keepitup5649 Před 2 lety +4

      Inspire him to do...and keep it clear that you want your partner successful

    • @sairajkulkarni1347
      @sairajkulkarni1347 Před 2 lety +2

      This shouldn't be the reason

    • @ajnabee01
      @ajnabee01 Před 2 lety

      @@sairajkulkarni1347 why not

    • @taehyunggtae
      @taehyunggtae Před rokem +2

      It's a valid reason . My bf is not goal oriented too ..I'm watching him for 2yrs now and i told him about what i want from him. He better change now or else I'll have to end everything between us for good .

    • @YaminiYadav-hw3ge
      @YaminiYadav-hw3ge Před měsícem

      ​@@keepitup5649 it will be the reason because they feel like as if we are demanding them

  • @abhayjain820
    @abhayjain820 Před rokem +4

    If you want to break the relation please just break it asap because the more u get time the more other partner will be hurt

  • @santu852
    @santu852 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I also want a break up with her.. But without hurting her... It's not because I love someone... I just want to break up because I am feeling insecure in my relationship...

  • @shresthadhar3073
    @shresthadhar3073 Před 4 lety +12

    First of all this video is great. In my relationship I was the one who initiated the breakup. I was the one who went through the guilt. I just want to ask why people think about that Breakup makeout, I simply just don't get this, why they want this. You are not together and doing this doesn't make any sense now. You know what, during a break in someone cases anyone of the two wants this but my question is why!? Why they want so?? WHY?

    • @tusharmeshram6998
      @tusharmeshram6998 Před 2 lety +1

      I truly agree with your point. My gf initiated the brekup and asked for breakup-s*x but I denied.

  • @aqibjavedkhan712
    @aqibjavedkhan712 Před 4 lety +8

    Hi Sir,
    Sir us insaan se alag hona bahut mushkil ho jata hai jisko apne bahut mushkil aur intezaar ke baad paya ho Breakup hamesha insan ko andar se tood deta hai kuch samhal jate hai to kuch beh jate hai But in the End Wo yaade hi hai jo kabhi picha nahi choodti....
    Que - Logo ko kaise bhoola jata hai zindagi me?????
    And lines on 8:15 is ❤

  • @ankitasharma5803
    @ankitasharma5803 Před 4 lety +14

    Those who looking for breakup with their partner, why at first place you give commitment wen you know u can't fullfill it, and if you given it how can u think of breaking up with the person whom u were in so much love,it's always matter of time, breakup isn't the only solution you can ask ur partner for some space and if he/she might be understanding enough she will definitely give you ,not at once but yeah gradually,one who goes through breakup knows the pain,he/she forgets how to survive, don't play with someone's heart by either cheating or leaving them, if you ever promised to marry someone ,stand by it or else don't give such promises,cz the person who is breaking up can easily move on,but the one facing it can go beyond something which can't be imagined,so plz be kind enough to your partner and sort out the problem(excepy it being toxic or violence relationship)

    • @ankitasharma5803
      @ankitasharma5803 Před 4 lety +1

      @ABHISHEK YADAV idk the complete story but yet wat I can figure out is that you developed trust issue due to her past,if that's the case remember every human do mistakes and one who learn from the mistakes and is willing to work on it,is a true gem. So if you get from your partner vibes that shez putting all her efforts to save it and maybe you can't accept her just because of trust issues ,Rethink your decision again, all wat you can do now is you could take a little break from it to heal you and your partner by letting her know, don't disappear from her life.. but give some space and time to heal naturally,Ask her to do same, Remember breaking up is not the only option for wounded relationship okay, it can be sorted out if you are really willing to, Talk to her properly , ask some space and then return back to her wen you feel it's alright,till that time you work on yourself and relationship through meditation, according to me that would be best.Take care

    • @ankitasharma5803
      @ankitasharma5803 Před 4 lety

      @ABHISHEK YADAV agar aapko pata hai ki aapki GF aapko bahut pyar karti hai present Mei to aapko phir kisi doosre ladki k bare Mei sochna hi chahiye,kyuki aapne usko commitment di hogi aur rahi baat past ki to sab koi apna past share nai karta atleast uss ladki ko aappe poora trust hoga tabhi usne share Kia aur rahi baat agar aapke life Mei aur bhi ladkiya hai jinka koi aisa past nai to aapko ye nai pata ki wo aapse Sach Mei pyar karti hai ya nai kyuki maybe aapne unke sath utna time nai spend Kia ho, khair past past hota hai aur baar baar past ko laake aap apna present kharab Kar rahe ho,jabki aapko yakeen hai ki wo ladki aapse bahut pyar karti hai, to aapko Ek chance Dena hoga Jahan naa aap past ka jikar Karo aur naa koi aur, learn to see good things in her like how much she loves you tabhi relation chal paayega aur agar phir bhi dikkat aati hai to aap baat Karo achee se aur thode samay ke liye khud pr aur relation pr work Karo.

    • @tusharmeshram6998
      @tusharmeshram6998 Před 2 lety

      I agree.

    • @shahnazkhan3388
      @shahnazkhan3388 Před 2 lety +3

      It happens sometimes decisions take place in emotional circumstances, we're only human, now what if it's hard to stick through yes you can keep the person happy by sticking there but the other has to survive somewhere unhappy so either way one of them will end up hurting.

    • @parahuprajapati3138
      @parahuprajapati3138 Před rokem +1

      Disney land se bahar aaiye madam

  • @jobsanbiju3762
    @jobsanbiju3762 Před 3 lety +14

    This one made me cry🥺😭

  • @somyadudeja2990
    @somyadudeja2990 Před 3 lety +79

    Even The thought of breaking up hurts a lot... How do we initiate for this😔

    • @Trivikrama007
      @Trivikrama007 Před 3 lety +1

      👍😘

    • @riyapatel-jv9kh
      @riyapatel-jv9kh Před 2 lety +4

      It's a continuous process ... like u couldn't leave alcohol in a day you couldn't leave anyone in a day ... you have to divert your mind gradually from the addiction

    • @syedasad1530
      @syedasad1530 Před 2 lety

      Why do you want to break up?

    • @ranjandey3388
      @ranjandey3388 Před rokem

      ​@@syedasad1530 I love a girl means one sided love i loved that girl for 3 yrs bt one sided bt after then i met met one girl and i gone into relationship then my crush tried to come in my life bt i didn't respond that time bt after 1yr of relationship again i started loving my crush slowly slowly

  • @suraj2skbatking
    @suraj2skbatking Před rokem +3

    I broke up recently. and want to move on. I want a new relationship in which i can give my 100%. I want to make someone so happy that they feel blessed ❤️❤️❤️

    • @IamAChampion496
      @IamAChampion496 Před rokem

      First practice self love ❤️ then go into another relationship

  • @niharikaagarwal1509
    @niharikaagarwal1509 Před 3 lety +10

    It's day 2. Thank you for making this video.

  • @roshnirai7657
    @roshnirai7657 Před 2 lety +10

    Lots of respect for providing such a great knowledge and process

  • @tri20..
    @tri20.. Před 9 měsíci +3

    Your voice is like hrithik roshan a lot❤

  • @21-najnintabassum60
    @21-najnintabassum60 Před 3 lety +7

    Pls samjh le yar.
    Ya Allah meri bff ko himmat dein ki wo sahi decision lepaye😔.

  • @pallabihajong1443
    @pallabihajong1443 Před rokem +10

    I break up with him bcuzz i don't feel the same as before i used to feel but he tried to hurt himself so we patch up again but I'm just forcing myself to do that which i don't want to do, i felt like i was just trapped somewhere

  • @harshsehrawat2278
    @harshsehrawat2278 Před 2 lety +4

    Really good advice man ..... 🖤💓 I mean like best way to separate without hurting .....

  • @dheerajpatil3471
    @dheerajpatil3471 Před 2 lety +3

    Ravindra sir's Hindi with English mixing hitting hard 🙌

  • @amaanal-najjar2109
    @amaanal-najjar2109 Před 3 lety +7

    break up is easy
    keep a promise is hard

    • @rockstar-ou7dp
      @rockstar-ou7dp Před rokem +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you changed my mind ....now i do whatever it takes...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @chillzone5149
    @chillzone5149 Před 3 lety +6

    I was feeling so Low about doing break up 😭😭 I love her but she is not happy 😞😩

  • @nilakshi_das
    @nilakshi_das Před 3 lety +30

    What if the other person is not willing to let go and threatening to hurt themselves or you?

    • @suchitrasantra1707
      @suchitrasantra1707 Před rokem

      Suffering the same thing

    • @IqraReshi
      @IqraReshi Před 9 měsíci +1

      😭😭😭😭😭 whenever i told him that I don’t want to be with him..he threatens me .that he will come to my home…and will send my pictures to my relatives 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @anuragchouhan2274
    @anuragchouhan2274 Před 2 lety +2

    First love is first
    Baad me jitne break up ho gnta frk ni pdta koi ker ni koi fikr ni

  • @user-vo5cq5ze7g
    @user-vo5cq5ze7g Před 7 měsíci

    Love is about trust 😌 and trust comes form honest humble 😌 and this two things comes form god 😌 😊 😌😌😊

  • @udaanian
    @udaanian Před 3 měsíci +1

    I want to leave her but at the other hand I will feel guilty after breakup 😢

    • @Medico_Tanda
      @Medico_Tanda Před 3 měsíci

      Bhai breakup sirf ek din ka ni hota samne wale ko heal hone mei or moveon katne mei 1,2 saal lag jate hain to zyada lamba mat kheench agar tu dar kr badhata jayega to uski bhi age nikal jayegi air usko agla partner dhoondhne mei problem hogi, to chahe uske liye bura banja but karle aur jaldee krle

  • @himanshuhsr5102
    @himanshuhsr5102 Před 4 lety +21

    Hii Ravinder sir..
    Actually my gf is very sensitive. So I am afraid to say her that I want to break.
    Sir please suggest me what I do now.....
    Now I am in a very critical , tense,depress and an awkward situation...
    Some time negetive thoughts like quitting up also came in my mind but when I seen my parents I get rid of it.
    But now it in the peak. Please suggest me sir...

  • @jiolifewithme4291
    @jiolifewithme4291 Před 2 lety +1

    Right sir ur all point is very good but u said that break up in gentle way on phone is not good yes sir mere dil ki baat mere bf ne bi fon pr break up kiya meri glti sirf ye ki main honest hi aur loving caring thi aur available rehti thi jb wo sad hota tha akela tha dukhi tha yes break kro but face to face aur tehzeeb se aur abuses na krein.

  • @rkmsonic
    @rkmsonic Před rokem +3

    finally, that day come , when i have to take this initiate ohhh god

  • @Pd171187
    @Pd171187 Před 26 dny

    This video was kind of meditation for me.
    Background music. 👌🏻
    Thanks for this.

  • @sharanyapaul9970
    @sharanyapaul9970 Před 4 lety +7

    Thanks a loooooooot for helping me and my friend...after all this she's very nervous....hope this goes well...and thank you very much for accepting my suggestion...

    • @RavinderSinghYouTube
      @RavinderSinghYouTube  Před 4 lety

      You are welcome

    • @Chinmaya_Pattanaik
      @Chinmaya_Pattanaik Před 3 lety +1

      @@RavinderSinghCZcams Sir please reply me....
      I'm in relationship with a guy... Everything is fine... Both of us love each other... He tried his best to alive the flame of our relationship... Btw In my point of view... I missed something... I can't make him happy... I feel like that... I feel like it's a burden to me... I can't handle this anymore... What should I do?... Please sir, suggest me something...

    • @Sj_07writes
      @Sj_07writes Před 8 měsíci

      Same 😢​@@Chinmaya_Pattanaik

  • @faizan5463
    @faizan5463 Před 3 lety +11

    M trying every day yaar...its not happening...idk I m afraid that I will be all alone or abt her...what she will do

  • @riyapatel-jv9kh
    @riyapatel-jv9kh Před 3 lety +1

    Being fell in love May be by chance but it take a long period to remove completely the other one from heart ...it's a continuous process ..on e day break up not possible at all it will always hurt the other one. Happy breakup is best . It's should be mutual understanding.
    The best thing is if you know you can't continue don't involve much in any relationship . So a happy breakup could be possible..

    • @tusharmeshram6998
      @tusharmeshram6998 Před 2 lety +1

      There is NO HAPPY breakup riya. It hurts, it hurts a lot.

    • @riyapatel-jv9kh
      @riyapatel-jv9kh Před 2 lety +1

      I have told all these according to my own experience ,we have ended a happy breakup to give pleasure to our parents and we both r now happy with family in our different world 🎉🎉it's difficult initially but not impossible 😀 life must goes on ...wht u would do if yr bf or gf will be no more in this world still you have to live for others ...
      Life NVR stops for someone it's our state of mind 👍🏻 respect your parents and trust in your destiny ..god has already written everyone s fate..so cheers life

  • @ImranKhan-lm7pc
    @ImranKhan-lm7pc Před 3 lety +11

    You really touch my heart sir... 😊

  • @pluto2645
    @pluto2645 Před 3 lety +9

    I broke up with him saying my family is not allowing me so i said
    That i love him but i can't ..but he is still messaging me..what should i do sir...he is too good ....he likes me a lot...but I'm not good for him..please help me sir

    • @nikithamanoj7206
      @nikithamanoj7206 Před 3 lety +4

      It's the same for me.... I am not good too ...he is way too good ...and I don't see any future with him :(

    • @pluto2645
      @pluto2645 Před 3 lety +2

      @@nikithamanoj7206 i finally told my best friend about eberything..she helped me to breakup .....u can ask your best friend too

    • @nikithamanoj7206
      @nikithamanoj7206 Před 3 lety +3

      @@pluto2645 hey thank you for your advice :) .I finally broke up with him today.. it's very painful cuz tbh he was a good person and he loved me the way I was ...it's just because of some circumstances I don't see future with him and also ... Bcuz as I said I am damaged emotionally so because of that I feel that I won't be able to give my love or time to him cuz I myself need to fix me.

  • @GharGharKiBaatein
    @GharGharKiBaatein Před rokem +1

    I want to break up with my boyfriend, but I seriously don't want to hurt him i know he had stop loving me he sees my faults in me ...can someone please help me to break up ... I love him a lot but I don't want to be with him😢

  • @christinamariyan7830
    @christinamariyan7830 Před 22 dny

    I want to beakup with my partner and have had a conversation with him couple of times gently n harshly both, but the only thing we love eachother unconditionally, we could not do so... But this time I dont wanna step back of the decision. He understands my situation n problems n what i am going through, but he is not willing to do it also i not getting rid of his thoughts even not able to stop myself talking to him, think abt him, love him.
    Its hurting me equally as There is not a single day since last 2 months that i have not cried just thinking of him...

  • @pallabihajong1443
    @pallabihajong1443 Před rokem +2

    Mujhe yeh nhi pata ki kaise main usse kahu ki mein pyr nhi krti hu qki he loves me truly 🥺

  • @Shaikh789Addy
    @Shaikh789Addy Před 8 dny

    I don't want to break up with her but i want her to get move on in her life ....we have tried everything in last 4 years her parents are not accepting love marriage she is so stubborn that she is not even listening to her parents now but her parents are not accepting love marriage the situation which keeps me in trauma from last 4 years ....my last 4 years are very depressing and anxious don't know how things go in future 😭....due to this am suffering alot everyone is going against me because am a boy her parents are totally manners less and they don't even know how to behave they talk very badly with my dad on his face her parents are the most toxic parents i have ever seen

  • @Engrboota
    @Engrboota Před 3 lety +7

    Amazing subject.
    Keep it up.
    From 🇵🇰

  • @happyarora7466
    @happyarora7466 Před 2 lety +3

    Very good perspective bro am agree with ur openion 👌👌

  • @Rose-on3rb
    @Rose-on3rb Před rokem +2

    I want to break up with him cause he started to ignore me but I love him what should I do😑

  • @soniharsh8899
    @soniharsh8899 Před 4 lety +18

    Sir i did but he is not accepting the fact that i breakup with him. He is really depressed and i worried about that he tries to hurt himself

  • @kritikapoojary8040
    @kritikapoojary8040 Před měsícem

    I've been in a relationship since 3 years. My bf cheated on me. Been stuck in a loop where I can't leave him bcz i love him so much but i don't feel like continuing our relationship but still want him to be in my life. He apologised so much to me but i can't accept the fact that he cheated. We were planning to get married soon and all these things happened. Don't know what should I do. I think we should move apart from each other but it will probably hurt badly to both him as well as me

  • @loveleenkaur6198
    @loveleenkaur6198 Před 4 lety +5

    This is not the way.. Dona ch koi ik chauga ta break up ho jave.. Dusare insaan da ki.. Oh q suffer kre.. Je pyaar dona ne kite ta breakup da decision dono mil ke q ni lende

  • @zarrienkhanam7073
    @zarrienkhanam7073 Před 2 lety +2

    Agr itna polite hone k baad bhi break up initiate krne k baad b wo person dra dhmka k hi shi pr sath rkhna chahe to kya kre aise situation me

  • @tulika178
    @tulika178 Před 2 lety +4

    Things are not that easy

  • @Sushma2661
    @Sushma2661 Před 19 dny

    I don't want breakup with him but i am suffering from MDR third stage 😭😭
    So i cant tell him
    Mere pass jyada din bhi nahi hai pata nahi kyaa hoga
    Please god is janam mein toh nahi par next janam mein mujhe meri yehi maa sur usse mila dena😭😭

  • @putkikumar5886
    @putkikumar5886 Před 4 lety +4

    It was a nice idea but Why we should break up when we are in love

  • @pritysao120
    @pritysao120 Před 3 lety +7

    Mera ex was my everything that time and now also ,and now i can't give anyone my heart😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @drishtipandey8482
    @drishtipandey8482 Před 4 lety +5

    Thanks a lot ...for this video #ravs#spclly ye line... Samne s aakr confess krne wali baat...bht important hai ......apki or apke novels se v jyada apke videos ki diwani ho gyi Hun .....

    • @RavinderSinghYouTube
      @RavinderSinghYouTube  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for your kind words Drishti. I hope aap is video ko apne circle mein share karogi. It may help someone.

  • @bindusharma831
    @bindusharma831 Před 3 lety +6

    Sir what if we r in long distance relationship?
    It's not possible to meet now?
    But things aren't same anymore.... I want to quit.. Be he and I too loves him... But deep down I know we don't have future... Since we are in intercaste relationship 😞!
    We are just blank.... Help 😭🙏us!

    • @sapekshasingh957
      @sapekshasingh957 Před 3 lety

      Simply break up with him. girl... make him explain your side of the story too

    • @browngirlchannel5581
      @browngirlchannel5581 Před 3 lety

      Same here

    • @elielenekka3687
      @elielenekka3687 Před 2 lety +1

      Jinko sach me sadi karna aur nnibhana hota h wo inter religion me v kar lete h...yaha to intercaste se problem h....bahana khojoge to hazar milega..

    • @choudharyrk2404
      @choudharyrk2404 Před 2 lety

      @@elielenekka3687 👍👍👍

  • @vishwatrivedi4669
    @vishwatrivedi4669 Před 2 lety +3

    If he'll be in front of me i wont be able to do this Cuz I too love him so much! But ik it's not working and he wont be able to handle this breakup I've seen him going through one ( his ex broke his heart nd I only know how much hurt he was I've brought smile on his face once again after that breakup ) nd I dont wanna do it again to him !!! But deep down ik this is toxic , is affecting my mental health and is not working!
    Idk what shd I do! I wanna stay too but there are few reasons !

    • @sneha2554
      @sneha2554 Před 2 lety

      I'm in same situation.. when he's ex broke him.. I'm the one who.. bring smile on his face..n now ik how to deal with this..and breakup with him🥺

    • @srishtisharma6652
      @srishtisharma6652 Před 2 lety

      @@sneha2554 same situation with me dear...
      It was me who gave him smile..when his ex left her and now its me who wants to do breakup..i dont know how to initiate...its been 1.5years

    • @DiabloNemes
      @DiabloNemes Před 6 měsíci

      @@srishtisharma6652phir Kia hua?

  • @kittugupta4342
    @kittugupta4342 Před 3 lety +6

    Inspired nd literally related to me... But i really want to knw that ki agr wo ladka ye kahe ki uske saath esa phle b hua h nd firse esa hora h... Nd wo roye to mai emotional ho jaati hu nd nhi kr paati breakup then kse kru😔😔
    Mere mnn mai feeling km ho rhi h but uski baatein sunkr mai ruk jaati hu ki nhi krti breakup.. Kse kru breakup pls guide

    • @sapekshasingh957
      @sapekshasingh957 Před 3 lety +1

      Girl you have to be strong... remind yourself again and again that you are doing this for yourself...and trust me there's nothing greater than achieving mental peace and getting rid of the people you don't want in your life

    • @kittugupta4342
      @kittugupta4342 Před 3 lety +2

      thnkuu so much.... I realized nd finally I did that nd we r frnds now nd he is fine

    • @sapekshasingh957
      @sapekshasingh957 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kittugupta4342 that's great gurl....wish me luck..m gonna meet him tomorrow for break up😅

    • @kittugupta4342
      @kittugupta4342 Před 3 lety +2

      @@sapekshasingh957 best of luck dear nd apply the things which has been told in d video... It's really work

    • @sapekshasingh957
      @sapekshasingh957 Před 3 lety

      @@kittugupta4342 thanks... sis 😘

  • @nishikantkumar2469
    @nishikantkumar2469 Před 2 lety +2

    hey i want to break up with my girlfriend.We r in a long distance relationship but its not working.We have met only twice and she loves me crazily and i dont know why and I am scared that she will hurt herself if I break her heart.Please help

    • @humaira9063
      @humaira9063 Před 5 měsíci

      Why did you wanted to breakup

  • @KirtiPandeyofficial8349-hc5jb
    @KirtiPandeyofficial8349-hc5jb Před 4 měsíci +1

    I want to do break up due to my family issues but he is not agree with it he is crying for me I never want to hurt him but I want to go out from his life how can I do this please help me

  • @sakshighadge6720
    @sakshighadge6720 Před 3 lety +6

    Sir If he is not willling to leave u

  • @nehalohar2288
    @nehalohar2288 Před 4 lety +14

    Hi! Ravinder sir, thank you for your help i also wanted to do break up but i am afraid of his reaction on this
    He loves me so much he dreamed about our future he is perfect Men but deep inside i am not happy with this relation ship ...... so i don't know what to do or not
    And Thank you ......

  • @pareshsahoo4463
    @pareshsahoo4463 Před 2 lety +3

    I am In a long distance relationship for 2.5 years.we meet once or twice in a year.we created many memories too...i want to break up with her because my parents and my relatives...will never accept or respect our relationship...she is from different caste and different state...also many problems including job life and some future problems... that's why I want to break up with her....i told her many times about this problem she will cry a lot for that I am feeling very much sad inside and i again comes to the relationship with her but i know this relationship won't workout between us..no one is happy in this relationship in our family...it doesn't have a future also.. Please tell me what to do..I want to leave her but without making hurt to her.. please help!!

    • @Shavan838
      @Shavan838 Před 2 lety

      Whoopty remix

    • @sayantikaghosh4240
      @sayantikaghosh4240 Před rokem

      Same case mera hain bro exact case bas same state and same caste ka hain

    • @king_kushwaha1408
      @king_kushwaha1408 Před rokem

      I have exact the same problem.........please help........how to get break up without hurting her......... please help

    • @raghavendrant.s1841
      @raghavendrant.s1841 Před rokem

      @paresgsahoo4463 I think one year finished, wanted to know what was the outcome of ur relationship, did u successfully break.

  • @shivamrajput8705
    @shivamrajput8705 Před 3 lety +4

    Being gay is even difficult where we have many options for sex but vry less option for relationship..

  • @sherni_76
    @sherni_76 Před rokem +1

    Unhone hume bht rulaya bht hurt kia humne bht wait Kiya humne unka but hum ese h ki breakup bhi unko hurt krke ni Krna chahte ..hurt b Hume hi hoga kher

  • @riyazahmad774
    @riyazahmad774 Před 3 lety +2

    Jisne break up karna soch liya wo kbhi sachchi mohabbat kiya hi nhi tha. Break up karne wala chor ki tarah partner k sath rahta hai aur mauka pate hi break up ko unjaam deta hai but isme sachha partner fas jata hai usko bahot hurt hota hai.

    • @siavosia7828
      @siavosia7828 Před 3 lety +2

      Kabhi kabhi aese b majbooriya hoti hae ki krna padta hae aur vo majobboria aage vale insaan ko nii bol sakte

    • @riyazahmad774
      @riyazahmad774 Před 3 lety +1

      @@siavosia7828 sachha pyar hai to koi majburi nhi ki partner se bat na kiya jaye

    • @siavosia7828
      @siavosia7828 Před 3 lety

      @@riyazahmad774 hoti hae ap ni smjho gae

    • @Rohit-rx5rz
      @Rohit-rx5rz Před 3 lety

      I see so many retarded idiotic girls saying they want to breakup with their bf who at the same time is very nice cares and respects them and says it's too boring to be with him as there is no drama. And when they get ditched by a bad guy they say where are all the good guys at. I had a similar friend who was a bad boy who ditched her and she went crazy and came back to her ex whom she brokeup due to a similar reason but that guy didnt accept her again when she came back😁😂 and he achieved greater heights In life even tho he was depressed for a few weeks. What I meant here is both guys got advantage and the only loss is for the girl
      GIRL'S remember 1 thing if a boy truly loves you never leave him. Once you leave and if he overcomes the breakup its unstoppable😂. I have seen many guys and have friends too who experienced that. And the bad guy was unhappy most of the time too.
      Just think from your logical side whether it was your right decision or not and not from your emotional side like dramas and stuff. You will realise this once you mature in life💯💯💯.

    • @sapekshasingh957
      @sapekshasingh957 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Rohit-rx5rz bt what if you are in a abusive relationship?

  • @doobiedooba2001
    @doobiedooba2001 Před 4 lety +3

    Hi Ravinder Sir! I am in an long distance realtionship for about 5 years now . Yet in these 5 years i have failed to know him . I share each and everything happening in my life with him but he never opens up to me even though i try a lot to make him open upto me. The only person in my life i trust wholly and mean as a best friend is him and only him . But i am not sure he means the same to me too... I havent pestered him for time or attention , nor has he , par kabhi kabhi lagta hai relationship mai hone ke bawajud bhi relationship mai nahi hai ....

    • @RavinderSinghYouTube
      @RavinderSinghYouTube  Před 4 lety +4

      You need to hold this conversation with him and if this relationship isn't fulfilling then there is no point in being it. I know it is difficult.

    • @doobiedooba2001
      @doobiedooba2001 Před 4 lety

      @@RavinderSinghCZcams sir firstly thankyou soo muchh for replying!! And secondly yes i guess i need to talk to him about this! Thanks a lot for your advice sir!!

    • @ayushmaurya1912
      @ayushmaurya1912 Před 3 lety

      @@doobiedooba2001 are you still in relationship with him.

    • @doobiedooba2001
      @doobiedooba2001 Před 3 lety

      @@ayushmaurya1912 yes

    • @ayushmaurya1912
      @ayushmaurya1912 Před 3 lety

      @@doobiedooba2001 Nice,to hear that ,I hope Aapki problems abhi fix ho gayi ho uske saath.

  • @ka.270
    @ka.270 Před 3 lety +2

    itne pyaar se karenge pata chla bnda humse pyaar me aur pagal ho gya

    • @keepitup5649
      @keepitup5649 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂yes 🤣My ex did that...but when he came again...I became full awake....and started watching his words...
      Then I came to conclusion that he was actually not serious for our relationship and he was just keeping me for timepass....🙂

  • @aishachowdhuryroll-4880
    @aishachowdhuryroll-4880 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for your advice i think its working ❣️

  • @snehamishra8758
    @snehamishra8758 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much sir.
    I intiated break up, it hurting me to because I love him so much but there are things which am trying to adjust since 1 year i couldn't , i communicated many times but it always turn the table and he says am overthinking, oversensitive but i know what i am.
    I am really tide of fighting for basic minimum care and affection.
    He is alcoholic, how much can I tolerate his rage acts? In one lifetime, the life is already messed up.
    On top of that i feel alone in relationship.
    I lost all my hopes that he will change or take charge of his actions but no I can't hoping falsely.
    It's very hard for me to break up because I have gave my time,energy, emotions and everything i could.
    Its not easy for me , but I have to, I can't keep crying and hoping him to understand.
    Atleast my children should proud of his dad. I need to choose a better husband. I can adjust his violent behaviour but i don't want my future kids to suffer like me.
    And let me Tell everyone its all start in mind first, i have tried many times to give chances.

  • @Infinitedeepika
    @Infinitedeepika Před rokem +1

    Should I call him and ask how he is?

  • @nitikasharma8403
    @nitikasharma8403 Před 2 lety

    Thank god you exist.

  • @286_shreyarai4
    @286_shreyarai4 Před 2 lety

    Very thankful for this video!

  • @napsapunsum2566
    @napsapunsum2566 Před 3 lety +3

    Mai iss relationship mein faas gayi hu...mai aab aur torture nhi seh skti😭😭😭 woh muje bahut marta h, mera feelings ka mjk banata h n evn woh apna frndz tak ko apna sara secrets share krta h😔😔😔 i want breakup bt woh nhi maan raha h😭😭😭 mai ky karung? Muje suicide k alawa kch upai nhi dik raha😭😭😭😭😭

  • @renne2467
    @renne2467 Před 8 měsíci

    We are from different religion which is already a major problem
    We are ready to tackle this but he is jobless I supported him through out his Job hunt journey but still he is not able to get a job and not willing to find any alternative way
    As he is jobless he can’t say at his home for our marriage
    And I am at early 30 my parents are worried why I am not agree to get married
    I want to do breakup
    I want a stable life like others
    I have suffered with him gave my 100% but it felt like one sided cause he does not show any intrst to find other way to be with me

  • @Akash-oi7jm
    @Akash-oi7jm Před rokem

    Same problem i need breakup , but don't want to hurt her. I know she will take it very emotionally, im scared of that.
    So now im doing slow steps of making her dislike me.

  • @nakshathranaina_official

    I took the suggestion from you 😅I started by how I met him n how it went he 😊he fallen love again n topic has changed n 😅breakup not happens successfully

  • @whyuwatchingme7851
    @whyuwatchingme7851 Před 3 lety +2

    I have a rude boyfriend which he is addicted to doing masturbate I helped him so much to leave it but he couldn't he was keep on getting mad and hurting me and his mom and then feeling guilty and hurting himself, I ignored all this things cuz I loved him so much and I thought I can change him but I couldn't... I really want to breakup with him but Everytime he comes and say he's weak and he need help so I keep on being in toxic relationship

  • @Kaaleenbhaiya00
    @Kaaleenbhaiya00 Před 2 lety +3

    Hello sir, Please reply
    What views do you have on mutual break up, is it a good thing

  • @archana4332
    @archana4332 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much it's really helpful

  • @ranjandey3388
    @ranjandey3388 Před rokem

    I love a girl means one sided love i loved that girl for 3 yrs bt one sided bt after then i met met one girl and i gone into relationship then my crush tried to come in my life bt i didn't respond that time bt after 1yr of relationship again i started loving my crush slowly slowly

  • @vishwanibhaisare1408
    @vishwanibhaisare1408 Před 2 lety +1

    I had done all this ....but it is hurting his ego that how a girl can say him for breakup & so he is threatening me that he will spoil my life

  • @user-ti2xr4ms7n
    @user-ti2xr4ms7n Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sir so much bad time this break up 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @My-Dear_Life23
    @My-Dear_Life23 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much brother ❤️

  • @vajahatha
    @vajahatha Před 2 lety

    Breakup 💔 is so hard thing it's not easy 😒😒

  • @vishakha1369
    @vishakha1369 Před 3 lety +4

    I am having my exam and same time this 🥺🥺

    • @fathimashery1566
      @fathimashery1566 Před 3 lety +1

      That's okay! Study well...give it more priority ❤️

  • @rajdoli3
    @rajdoli3 Před 2 lety +5

    10 years of realationship ...I want to break up now.....I love her but...I'm poor and she is rich......I want to see her happy....
    I can't do anything becoz we r very poor.....
    Don't judge me by my English typing...
    That I'm middle class or something.....
    I just want to see her happy....

    • @choudharyrk2404
      @choudharyrk2404 Před 2 lety

      want to end 10 years of relationship ??
      is this a joke?

  • @Fabts.
    @Fabts. Před rokem +1

    What if the other person is suicidal?

  • @animezone351
    @animezone351 Před rokem

    I am boy but aaj main yesey ladki ko breakup diya hai ki soch nahi sakta first time nonstop roona AA Raha hai par kar hi kya sakta tha woh toh mere har situation main saath detithi☺️😊🥺💔😥 par mai usko ekpal ki bhi khusi nai dey paya sorry 😔 aashika🥺🥺🥺

  • @dandunarasimha8627
    @dandunarasimha8627 Před 2 lety

    Nice video sir useful so much 🙏🏿

  • @techdanger72
    @techdanger72 Před 2 lety +3

    Sir if the relationship starts with technology and continues for 1 year in long distance relationship even we didn't meet at single time so is that necessecary to go to her. Or can be breakup by call

    • @mirwahedali7784
      @mirwahedali7784 Před 3 měsíci

      You can do it bro butt, try to do it on call but as sir said first talk about the positive side of ur relationship then tell her with love don't shout on call or don't be agressive try to tell her with softtllyyy I am suree she will understand 🙂🤍

  • @vishwanibhaisare1408
    @vishwanibhaisare1408 Před 2 lety +1

    Agar itna samjhane ke bad bhi partner breakup k liye haa nahi bole or marne ki tamashe karne ki dhamki de to kya kare??

  • @shrutiambashtha6196
    @shrutiambashtha6196 Před 3 lety +1

    I have to breakup with his family as well. His cousins , brother sisters as well.. plz help me.. I am breaking my 9 years of relationship coz he cheated on me Nd I gave him 2nd chance. But once he came to me I firstly didn't accepted him,but later some situation arises and unknowingly again I came to that relationship except I m changed now! I feel complete with him, but t don't have respect for him. He is not at all my priority now. I told him lot of times that I don't feel anything still he don't take it seriously.Also now our age has come for marriage ,I m working from 3 years and he isn't though he is senior from me.I want to breakup but I don't want to hurt him. Am I being selfish? Should I feel ok with it?

    • @shrutiambashtha6196
      @shrutiambashtha6196 Před 2 lety

      @@ahumanshakira3696 going with the flow.

    • @shrutiambashtha6196
      @shrutiambashtha6196 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ahumanshakira3696 Now. I think we both are changed person and our love is not childish any more. We are planning to get together with bond of marriage.But now issue is that he is not working anywhere ,I am settled employee. don't know what will happen in future

  • @sasankhaghosh3169
    @sasankhaghosh3169 Před 3 lety +1

    Sir mera gf ka saadhi tai ho chuki hei but still she loves me and she can't go against her family as her family force her for her marriage with someone, now what to do as I want a clean breakup without hurting her mind? Sir please help me 🙏!!!

  • @nandinisonawane2326
    @nandinisonawane2326 Před 3 lety +9

    Sir , i want to do it online breakup so please give one idea 😭😭