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Can A Man Successfully Pretend To Be A Woman?
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- čas přidán 8. 03. 2024
- Jubilee conducted a social experiment to see if a panel of women can pick out the man among them as they all answer questions about the female experience. Will he be able to fool them, or does he know less about the female psyche than he thinks? Let’s watch!
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The reason he's so good is because he trained for it and does content on the internet pranking or voice switching while talking with ppl
Oh, it's Natt! He can only do a (perfectly) woman's voice and wear a wig but other than that, he's quite uncomfortable outside of it. His bit where he changes his voice until he reaches James Charles' fake tone is hilarious...
Men have better voice abilities, most ones. OPERA...
Exactly. He's an actor.
@@redacted2275what do you mean by "uncomfortable "
So he cheated
my only question is, why is HE wearing a blindfold, he already knows who the guy is!!!!!!!
They should do this without blindfolds altogether, but they won't.
They don’t make it obvious, but it’s so that he doesn’t take advantage of how the voting system works
For example, if he wasn’t blindfolded, he could see 2 people vote for him and 2 people vote for someone else, and add his vote to that person so they have 3 votes, and they get out
Instead, he has to ‘guess’ who else might get votes, in order to add his on
@@VJP8464 ohhhh, ok, that makes sense... I completely forgot that there is money involved
Does he..?
I don't feel nervous when I go out and I just find it very hard to believe that women have to be this worried about it all the time. It comes off as self centered main character syndrome when you think someone is always going to bother you when you are out in public alone. Also being alone means no one can vouch for or dispute you...
As a man, the hyper vigilance is always there. Driving in traffic, going into the store, a restaurant, etc. keeping an eye out for everything be it weirdos, or an escape route.
💯 In this world, EVERYONE needs to be hyper vigilant. Nobody is 100% safe everywhere they go. 😢
I learned the hyper vigilance in the military as " situational awareness " that all service members are required to have.
Literally me as long as I remember myself...
@@edwardhood6252 that's actually skills that actully "must have" for everyone but looks like girls with evolution gets d*mmer and d*mmer with every generation and boys get that smart that they actually doesn't need girls anymore (only for reproduction purpose but it's actually the question of "time" when it's not gonna be problem anymore, and yes u already can have "childrends" from lab but for now "human cloning" or "lab reproduction" of humans is iligal in most countries (or there is no such a law and tech ))
@@Sneaky_Basket It's unfortunate that you are entirely correct!
Men (this one at least) don't worry about sexual violence like women do, but we do scan the room to see who looks like trouble. Check to see what the "vibe" is. Don't walk in if you think that you might have to fight your way out.
My husband and I were discussing this. Both sexes are (and should be) aware of their surrounding, but we're typically aware for different reasons.
It’s more about regular violence, thieves etc. You have to be vigilant.
Dang, I am quite uncomfortable sitting with my back toward a door. I must be a cave dweller
Or suck
@@cristianocapasso5870I never sit with my back to the door in an unfamiliar place, I'm always hyper vigilant. I often sit in a corner where I can see the entire room.
No man would complain about skinny calves unless he was a cattle farmer.
As a man myself, I wouldn’t never even thought of that.
Guys are ridiculed for their legs. People say things like, "did you skip leg day?" Men just don't care as much about it.
Its actually common. Not for sane normal men. But like bodybuilders and guys who care about building specific muscles. Calves are the number one most difficult to change. Literally yesterday I was watching a random CZcams video about it (bodybuilders), and they said exactly this....
Average guys though, couldn't care less and would never think about it.
😂😂😂😂😂
Calves are a very common part of the body men discuss. I’m surprised you don’t think so.
As a woman and victim of SA, I am not only hyper vigilant but also very scared of most men- not consciously, and I don’t blame all men for what happened to me, but I instinctually fear them and feel very uncomfortable when talking to them alone. I know that there are good men (my father, for example, is a wonderful and amazing man) but I feel that I am never truly safe around males because I never know when they could harm me (and they are absolutely capable of harming me).
I hope you are feeling better now ❤️
I'm a man who's been SA and raped by two women on seperate occasions and mentally/verbally abused by several women. You need to work on your hatred and insecurities with men. I've gotten over mine for women, mostly because men being afraid/scared/not liking women gets you arrested these days no matter what. Its hard to do but it greatly improves your quality of life and mental health when you break the victim mentality
As someone who has survived SA, I agree I also do not find certain types of men attractive because of it and it has nothing to do with whether they are good or bad men just that their body type gives me flashbacks and makes me literally nausous.
I have the same issue after my SA experience and being held at gun point I have a lot of anxiety at night around black men. And I’m told I’m a racist. My coworkers are black and my best friend is from Kenya. It’s specifically at night when I’m walking alone to my car.
@@PeachyPatriot Nah I totally understand you don't have to be racist just because of your involuntary reaction to what had happened to you let me tell you you ain't racist and f...k anyone you says different next time someone accuses you of that tell them these words verbatim, "YOU DON'T KNOW MY STRUGGLE". And keep on stepping you don't owe anyone an explanation.
Next time they post this Amala should definitely react to the video while being blindfolded😂😂 I’d wanna see it
Yes!!
i was thinking the same thing!
Excellent suggestion!
I feel a sense of hyper vigilance, yes, but I do not convey it. I always try to look confident to prevent appearing like an easy target.
Pretty much this.
One of the key things I've heard to do in self defense, is to look like you have a purpose, and somewhere to go.
Same. I never walk to much near people in streets and I'm always aware if someone is walking behind me and how fast. I had already been followed by a man before.
I'm surprised this can be made today with all the "trans women are women" BS.
That’s why a trans “woman” wasn’t invited
You're surprised people can just post a CZcams video? That's how your brain works?
@@JohnnySplendid posting of course not, but with all the trans groups and gender lines being blured I'm surprised they thought it was a good idea and that it wouldn't become heated. Or maybe they did and that's why it's here.
no it's just the fact this is a definitely leftist organization and team making these videos. Not just a small indie content group@@JohnnySplendid
Yeah, they could have thrown in a few trans women in there as "wrong" answers. Just imagine trying to decide who believed they were pretending to be women and who actually believed they were women but we're actually also just pretending.
My husband was out of a town working and a friend and her husband had invited me to a party in town. My husband’s friends lived in the same apartment building as us and didn’t want to go out that night but didn’t want me to go walking outside alone. Not only did they go with me, but they stayed beside me and made sure no guys were hitting on me. True gems of men 💗
As a man, I think I’ve been under-vigilant, and sometimes this got me into dangerous situations. On the other hand, I’ve been aware, or empathic toward women’s fear. Out walking alone at night, I’ve crossed the street when a woman is walking towards me alone, to try to ease her stress.
Ease her stress by increasing your own :p
Hey, as a gal who walks her dog late at night, I know I appreciate it. Thank you for doing that for women.
Once I was walking towards the same path as a girl in front of me, So I faked talking to my mother on the phone and walked slowly so she can feel safe.
dude, you have a lot more stress than women every day, don't be "cocoldo" and stop doing this!!!
Being aware of things around is everyone's responsibility and women too!
If they wanna feel safe then they can buy pepper spray or a gun or go on self-defence classes!!!
Do not make easy life for womens. they have it even without you and no one gonna give ya any amount of respect for that. don't be delusional!!!
Also actually if u r a "good guy" than this move when you live a whole street for one girl is actually not making her safer, coz actual criminals don't give a f about her safety but they probably won't risk to attack here if they saw some men around...
Ist that true? That's so Kind of you @@KoongYe
As a man who probably looks like they can take care of themselves, I'm still not comfortable walking around at night. If I see a guy approaching me I will still be ready to defend myself or run. So it's not just a woman thing to be concerned.
I've wondered if it's worse for men because the expectation of getting into a fight is higher.
But the consequences would likely be quite different if a confrontation did come about.
What if it was a burly man and he walks up to you and throws out the girl voice
@@FilthyBitchGunClub Also as someone in healthcare who has to deal with individuals who do become violent, often I find myself not calling for help because I'm embarrassed. As a man you're expected to be able to handle yourself. You feel like people would laugh at you if you ran screaming from a violent threat. Also my backup are usually women and because I've been taught to protect women, I either won't call for backup or I find myself placing myself between my female coworker and the danger so she won't get hurt. I guess nowadays that would be called beneficial misogyny but that's what I was taught to do when growing up.
My brother was beaten up by a gang of men. He wasn't doing anything to warrant the attack. Men are in as much danger sometimes.
I legit teared up when they all agreed to thinking about their mom's as a role model. I pray every day that God helps me be the best example for my daughter and I'm so grateful for the unconditionally loving mother I have.
I would ask "can you make a man's voice"?
😅 I wonder what would happen...
Checkmate
I can ,frequently mistaken for a man on the phone but I'm a petite woman .lol.😂
It's because men hear women talking about everything but men keep things more to themselves. So women wouldn't know as much about men without close male friends.
im a nurse and i often see men suddenly become quite low in mood and anxious when they become old/frail/ill as they have a level of vulnerability that is quite new to them when out and aboutin society. obviously this is very generalised but its something ive noticed and helped men through over the last 20 years.
WRONG angle !!
The real question is *WHY* is American society so violent ?
Maybe if women stopped voting for Democrats, and started embracing law & order, your cities would be quite a different experience.
How did u help them through it
I’m a woman. I wouldn’t describe myself as hyper vigilant, but there are feelings of anxiety that come and go. I get very nervous being in unlocked cars, and walking alone in parking lots, even if just for 30 seconds. But I can usually walk by myself most places and feel fine. I think that this is because of the neighborhood I grew up in (super safe) and the fact that I’ve spent most of my life surrounded by powerful good men. Because of that, the few times I’ve met men who have made me feel unsafe I’ve had someone stronger who could and would protect me if things went south. I’m really grateful for that. I know that things would be different if I was alone.
His insecurity answer was top notch! I didn’t catch issues with the voice except his laugh. The horse answer was great and interjecting about it when the other girl brought it up was brilliant. I thought it was so funny how as the conversation went on the women started angling towards each other and subconsciously moving closer together while he stayed right were he was 😂
As a woman, always. When I'm walking anywhere outside of busy public shopping streets or when it's dark, I don't wear headphones and I'm always scanning my surroundings. I tense up and fight the urge to speed up whenever I hear someone walking behind me. I'm spotting dark corners where danger could be hiding and walk in bright areas. Generally speaking, I avoid walking alone after sunset to begin with. I don't even take the trash out behind the apartment after 6pm. Ever since I got sexually assaulted on a train, whenever I have to take crowded public transport, I put my back to a surface and place a bag in front of me. If I'm in an uncomfortable situation that feels like it could escalate (i.e. catcalling), it means placating and looking for an exit
As a dude, I once imagined being a “midwife” because I genuinely think childbirth is awesome. Ended up a preschool teacher instead because I’m never gonna be a doctor (although the amount of injury preparedness you have to have as a preschool teacher could probably get me pretty damn close to passing an EMT exam….)
Okay this guy is a total pro, not fair 😂
He literally is a pro. He does it as a job. Look his youtube channel up.
Those girls should have noticed when he said he was 6' with a size 9 shoe. 6' means 9 1/2 minimum with wide toes.
Just ask a man what size of panty hose they wear. Most men don't know it's just general sizes like Small, Medium, Large, ect.
Oh, same with pants. I sometimes forget that our measurements for bottoms are different, as well.
really easy if they're second or later to answer though. I'd have more trouble inventing a bra size.
@@ribbonsofnight There's an easy way out of this one though: "I don't wear bras"
@@trekadouble757 As a girl, almost all of us wear bras, and saying you don’t would just add more suspicion. For example, next, someone could randomly ask if you have back pain. If yes, you’d probably get voted out, because the point is that those with big boobs often have back pain. I know there are other conditions, and they probably would ask, but then, your still drawing attention to yourself
Im a chick and I thought it was only small, medium, and large and that stuff, there's sizes?
Ask about periods. That's a tough one. Eg story of your first period. I wrote that comment too early - and the guy asked it!! :D
As a man, I avoid unsafe situations. I've been unsafe enough to just not go out alone. There have been times I left a building just because something felt off, like I shouldn't be there. So no, this is not a woman-only thing.
He did a great job with the voice...
I bet it took a lot of practice. As a male, I couldn’t do it even if I tried.
He still sounds like a dude trying to sound like a woman though, at least to me. It just sounds like his voice is super strained and shaky, but that doesn't mean he isn't doing a great job at it since he still does fool a lot of people, specially other dudes.
He does this for a living, he’s a streamer I think? But basically he tricks people I to thinking he’s a woman
I'm glad to be rejected by my entire generation during my school years, i wouldn't wish my worst enemy to be trapped into this nonsense
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On vulnerability in public and attentiveness. As a man, I am alert at all times looking for other men who are displaying radical body language and for women who look defensive or on high guard, I try to do my best to not be too standoffish or aggressive. I was robbed on the metro once so the myth that men feel unequally safe in opposition to women is a myth. This is from a 6,3 man who looks like the comic book guy from the Simpsons.
I tried to explain the male version of the vigilance thing to a couple of women in my life and they just didn't seem to understand that men also keep an eye out when in parking lots, walking alone at night, etc., ask any man and they will tell you we threat assess every man we meet all the time, to the point we're rarely even conscious of it. The truth of it is that the subset of men who are violent or otherwise dangerous are as much a problem for men as they are to women. While we men don't generally worry about sexual violence we do have a lot of concern of getting the shit beat out of us.
The disconnect where women don't think we understand their fear comes from our instinctual behavior to present ourselves as a potential threat to avoid real threats by other men. You don't need to be hyper-masculine to accomplish this, even nice guys who a woman would never worry about can be quietly and unconsciously, through their posture, or gaze be letting other men know they are a potential threat so don't mess with them. This might not make sense to all women but that's pretty much how it works.
So yes we get it ladies and that's why men have always taken to the role of "protector" because we know that as bad as it is for us at least we are more physically built for violent confrontation then women are.
PS. to all the women out there who wear headphones while walking alone: just stop it. Situational awareness is your greatest tool to avoid danger, whether it's hearing an ambulance before you step off a curb or a bad man creeping up on you, if you can't hear you might as well paint a target on your back. You can call this "blaming the victim" but that subset of men who are dangerous don't care about what is or isn't socially acceptable behavior.
PPS. I realized that I forgot to say that I also can understand that when men present as potentially dangerous to avoid confrontations with other men it's unfortunately probably being seen by women as, well... potentially dangerous to them as well. I really do wish it was different but we humans really are only partially rational animals and while we as a civilization have made enormous gains in reducing the overall levels of interpersonal violence in our societies we still have a ways to go. Keep in mind it's only been 400 or so years since the Enlightenment which really marked the beginning of an understanding of individual rights including the right to personal safety and dignity, which is just a small fraction of our time on Earth. With each generation get a little better so unless we screw it up the future looks bright.
They are probably a bigger problem for a women to handle it if it did go down than if a man were to handle the escalating situation, tho right? Because men have a little bit of estrogen for bone density and fat for their bodies. But women need testosterone to build any type of muscle, strength, or losing like any weight. So women have very little testosterone.
So you guys are basically made with stronger bones somehow but made of pure muscle materials. We would have more depth in the physical pain we experience. We can tolerate pain better despite this. But we are tiny and easily destroyed with no power to fight back except emotionally or shriek, or tolerate the intense pain we get when we get absolutely demolished. It just seems you would have better odds if caught in a bad problem with a threat.
I wear headphones.. but I don't listen to anything when I'm outside. That way it would look like I'm busy, and have an idea of who is looking too interested in the fact that I look Busy. 😂
I get your reply and I wasn't trying to say your feeling of fear was unfounded. You should have some level of fear and I as a guy can't judge how much you should feel. My point was that us good men (I least I try to be good) do understand and I wanted to let reader's know that we do experience a level fear from those kind of people as well and why.
Be safe out there.@@sarahvanbuskirk7432
Suffer from extreme paranoia after bad situations and try to save others to experiance it but many naive girlies say i victim blame when i only give good advice so they never end up badly.
We scan a situation for any and all threats to ourselves and everyone else present, prioritize them, and size them up to decide what our instinctual reaction will be.
I am hyper vigilant whenever I’m with my wife and/or children, but if I’m alone I’m pretty much aloof to what’s going on around me. So, my awareness of what’s going on around me is from a need to protect rather than a place of fear.
I always feel that when im around strangers so it's a human thing but the one difference is men get ready to fight while women get ready to run
One thing I noticed about women out by themselves is the lack of eye contact. Women actively do not make eye contact; typically looking down and away.
I think it's bc if we make eye contact with the wrong person, they'll we're flirting
@@sadie_cat definitely.. also a lot of mentally unstable people out here. You don't know what's going on there
I'm hypervigilant but that's from Iraq, "Complacency kills", once you learn that you can't unlearn it
You are from Iraq, or fought in Iraq?
@@cookiegirl1097 2 tours to Iraq in the Marines
One thing I wish I didn't experience as a woman (and don't anymore, due to age) was the horribly painful and heavy periods. Midol was a joke. I was soooo glad when that monthly cycle started backing off.
Funny that the women rejected the one for not getting it about the underwire. She probably doesn't wear underwire bras, but as soon as they named it, she still knew what it was.
Same here don’t miss that at all. I paid my dues for 40 years age 11 to 51 geez despite gaining 10 pounds after menopause I heard could of been worst. I heard some women gain 50+ pounds😮
I do still want the ability to get pregnant but would love to just get rid of the bleeding part of a period entirely. it's so annoying to deal with.
Yes, I know about underwire but I was thinking maybe there's a specific other word for the wire itself.
Whitetiger, SAME HERE with that damn cycle!! So much pain! Had to get a script for ibuprofen in the early days. That was the only thing that worked. After so many years, I can’t take it anymore. Messes with my stomach. I will say, however, you could set your watch to me. 😛 Never a day late without being pregnant. SO GLAD all that is over, now. 😂
My husband (older white hair) just told me his experience this evening (8:30pm) Manhattan. We was cold, walking briskly behind a woman and he was upset she got a bit anxious when he passed her. He thought it was because of society right now. I told him. I always pay attention when a guy is near me. He then understood. It opened his mind that it’s normal for us to be concerned about our surroundings.
As a girl I think I would probably get voted out immediately 😂
Let me get this straight, one of them is so hyper vigilant that they wear their headphones without the sound on a better way to go about. It is just not wearing headphones and presenting yourself as somebody who’s Actually paying attention. Something that would truly be a benefit to the vast majority of people honestly
Just my take and assumption, but I think she was saying to avoid unwanted attention from a random dude, she wears headphones or looks at her phone, to pretend she can’t hear them or that she’s busy on a call, as an excuse to not engage.
@@trishdadish21 as someone who dealt with this usually after the fact, I never really got too many calls for assaults from people that were not wearing headphones. More than once did I get them from somebody wearing headphones so that people wouldn’t bother them. I get it. People are annoying and you don’t want to be bothered by them, so wearing headphones may help with that, however, it presents you as a target, especially in certain environments. The reality is, if you are concerned about being assaulted, wearing headphones on or off is one of the absolute last things you want to do.
As a biological woman I would never try and speak for men but I feel like they would be more hyper vigilant than women because they're not only out there protecting themselves but protecting others, that's just what they do.
You’re awesome Amala ❤
For the hyper vigilant point, I actually try to not be the creep or weirdo if you will. I will either walk slower if behind a female or just cross the street. I will also look towards the ceiling when going up stairs lol
As a man, father, and veteran, I'm always situationally aware. I recommend that in today's society, everyone should be situationally aware. It seems young people are less situationally aware. I joined the military at 17 and went to basic between my junior and senior years, so I've been aware of my surroundings, probably even before basic.
The reason why it's so much easier is because the internet is full of the options and insights of women. Couple that with TV advertising which geared towards women.
Women are socialized to trust people and not be confrontational. This makes sense.
Agreed. Did you notice how when a woman revealed something, they all became sort of nurturing, agreeing with her, or sympathising with her?
You just realized.. Women Talk?
Ooof. Skill issue.
I disagree. The minute you disagree with most modern women about something, you then become enemy number one.
@BabyGirl-mx4vc Oh, that's really sad! 🥺🫤 I hope that your comment in disagreement didn't make you any new enemies!
@@ethicscannie5716 I could care less if it did. I spoke the truth and women hate the truth.🤷♀️
Assuming I could get my voice that high, I would have struggled with round two as well. I may have been able to float the minstrel stuff but with the SA I would have faltered.
"My pronouns are she/they"
Everyone else: "welcome aboard!"
Men are just as vigilant alone, the difference is that we are more equipped to deal with danger if it does come
As soon as I heard him speaking, it gave me "Tootsie" vibes. He wouldn't deceive me.
My father taught his five girls to know how to defend oneself, and never be a victim.
What's wrong with being a victim? It's not a dirty word
I wouldn’t say I feel a sense of fear for my safety but I definitely have hyper vigilance when I go out and pay attention to my surroundings. For example, I never walk to my car staring at my phone, I watch my surroundings as I get in my car and lock the doors before I do anything.
I'm not hyper vigilant, but I do practice situational awareness. Knowing what is going on around you not only keeps you safe, but can allow you to keep others around you safe as well.
I really related to the discussion on heightened awareness in your surroundings. That brought out my stress level. I could write a book on my avoidance and mental escape plans I go through everyday.
"what's the correct procedure for dealing with a yeast infection?"
Not sure he'd be on this one.
9:05 maybe I was wrong.
Im a woman, and even I dont know 😭 I would get voted out
@@milirodriguez8493 lol apologies to you madam for being wrong. I thought it could have been a good question.
@TheMSS1977 Oh no, no, that would still be a good question. I was just stating that even I would get that wrong. Women are definitely more common to get yeast infections so that would still be a good one
The reality is that we men know women more than women think we do. That's why trans women are so comfortable to take women's spot but you'll never see lesbian tomboys try to take men's spot and tomboys have been around way longer than trans women (way before all these advance technologies and surgeries).
I do feel that about the hyper-vigilance; I don't know if it's exclusive to women, but probably a lot more common. My boyfriend actually questioned me about why I always look around at everyone when I go to certain places, and I had to explain that it's because I know there are sketchy people around and I feel the need to be aware of my surroundings.
I think you’re wrong. They should have kept talking about clothes, then move on to hair, makeup, superficial things! Any straight man will struggle about women’s sizes, brands, fabrics, fashion, fitting issues. Personal issues? TikTok women give enough material on that.
A big female trait is to interrupt each other.
I love Natt's content! He does girl voice trolling. So fun seeing you react to a video with him😂
I think it's easier for a man faking being a girl as there ia an abundance of programmes in media where women talk about their experience and feelings, where as most male fronted programmes talk about things such as sport, cars films etc. Not so much about being male.
@@tonytang8662 true
I’m male, and I’m hyper vigilant while out in public…constantly. Granted, I’m obviously not fearful of being SA’d like a female would be worried about, but in today’s society where there are people in the news nearly every day shown shooting up a place or robbing a store or just being a menace in general, I’m always on edge.
I am a women who is very comfortable being out alone .
ur so special!!
Do you live in a neighbourhood with 99% of Granddads and Grannys? 😅
@@Joni-lq3rf No in the center of town.
are you kidding me ??
we guys have to be hyper vigilant for not only ourselves but everyone that we care about thats with us.
we have to keep our heads on a swivel and our backs to a wall and facing the entry (when at a restaurant).
so yeah were hyper vigilant for not only ourselves but our families too.
You must live in a very different place to me.
Try coming to *Scandinavia* and see how far that will get ya..
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“PUT ME IN COACH” gets me every time 😂
I'm a man I can't pretend to be a woman, that's too absurd, and any man that can pull that off has to be crazy.
I mean I (woman) am aware of my surroundings generally, more so than others, I would say. But if I were hyper-vigilant, I think I would lose my mind. I don’t live in too dangerous an area so I’m allowed to be more at ease when alone/at night. That keeps my anxiety in check lol.
Side note: AMALA YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL TODAY. Like obviously you look beautiful everyday but the necklaces worn here are to die for; they complement you so well I kind of want to know where you got them😅. I especially like that they’re more ornamental (the heart one, at least) but coupled with a casual sweater.
So, what we're saying here is that women are very simple to figure out. That's sort of alarming actually.
To be fair, men are also easy to figure out. No one is really complex.
I don't think so. Women's issues are way more public, so it's easier to deduce how a woman would react and answer these questions
@@darkmatter1475This. Especially at this fairly conversational level.
Also, the guy dodged and stayed silent on most of the tougher questions. Better to stay silent and let them think he's a man, than speak and let them KNOW he's a man. 🤭
@@daniw1319 the thing is that I don't think "women's issues" are more public. It's a small fragment of issues that certain women view to be issues. And then, those women decide for all of the rest of the women what a woman should care about. And if you don't agree, those women shun you. And women are mean. So, when it comes down to it, sitting around talking about our periods all the time and how we are perpetual victims because men are terrible is a slanted perspective at best. Maybe even modern women are embracing a stereotype of what they think a woman should be. Either way, this is why people have no hope for the women of the future.
As a woman, I do feel unsafe going out alone in the evenings, but not in all places. Some neighborhoods feel safe, but other places I feel unsafe.
I don’t think people understand that, as much as there is ever any reason to, guys feel just as weary of other guys. (Or at least before they started convincing women they were fragile snowflakes again🤦♀️)
My mom taught me how to defend myself from a young age much like the boys were taught by their dads which I’m sure is affected how I have always walk through the world with confidence. Between that and having more guys as friends than girls most of my life I never learned to fear them while knowing if it came to it I could hold my own. I’d say I never felt like would have to any more than the guys did amongst themselves also.
Natt is really good! He has his own CZcams channel where he voice trolls people on the internet. Even going as far as dressing as a woman😂
His a pro and master of disguise!😂
I feel being hypervigilant is most definitely a Woman thing. I think 99% of us have been touched inappropriately.
I think woman are hyper vigilant because we are taught to be by our family , school and media. Woman also watch more crime shows than men do , a woman's psyche has been drill to be more afraid at all times so I don't think it's from traumatic experiences. I know more man who been raped and assaulted then woman and they still aren't as hyper vigilant like a woman can be .
The biggest problem I see (yes I'm much older....Grandmother of four) is how superficial young woman have become. Young woman seem more like teenagers until Late 20's to mid. 30's. This makes it so much easier for predator's to get to them.
Dang, Natt could be a voice actor.
Edit: As a man myself, I’m rather paranoid when it comes to people and things that could hurt me.
I would ask the group to pick a fashion aesthetic (dark academia, cottage core, princesscore, balletcore, etc.) that describe yourself. thats so specific to girl culture.
i would be out, i don't even know what you are talking about D:
Men are always hyper vigilant. We have to be by nature.
As a man with ADHD and social anxiety im in fight and flight mode all the time , Always looking out and aware of my surroundings , Its not just a woman thing.
Being aware of certain men dominating in a group, I asked my friend what the female equivalent would be. She replied that the women who dominate would be ones who seem to have it altogether.
What does being aware of certain men dominating in a group do for a man/you?
@@user-di4ud4xn5h Personally, it makes me feel that I have less of a voice in what they’re talking about. That also depends upon the type of group and what we’re all talking about.
Hi Amala, Thank you for making amazing content!!!
Given the height I would say insecurity would be the height
My husband has said he doesn't feel hyper-vigilant unless someone SHOWS they are bad willed. Every woman I know is usually vigilant, most circumstances outside of their home, even if no obviously crazy person is around.
So interesting how the men just handled their business and quit when they were confident, and the women kept going, kept trying to edge out OTHER WOMEN in order to reduce the number of victors and make their own personal reward at the end bigger. VERY interesting.
13:59 Of course we always look around to see if it is safe when we are in a dark place, we make sure that no one is following us or that no one wants to rob us. That's how you do it. This is generally what you do as a human being to be safe., but what you often do as a man is make sure you don't really look anyone in the eyes when you're walking somewhere, because otherwise you'll quickly get punched in the face.😅
Generally as unprovocative as just walking around, try not to pose a danger or threat to anyone if you know you're in a dangerous place or you're not sure whether it's safe or not.
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They study us. Men actually study us I bet harder than anything in life. Ever found your dudes journal? 😉 yup
Great point! We women are for sure "complicated" compared to men. Well, our bodies are, our mind works differently. Just as men can be mysterious to us with their more subdued psychic energy, we must be mysterious to them with our hyper energy. (Normal to us, but hyper to them).
We men don't keep 'journals'.
@@gagewesterhouse9558Some actually do.
@@gagewesterhouse9558 LOL
@@gagewesterhouse9558 That's what she meant. :)
I am engaged, and a born women. I don’t know if I need to define that or not.
But yes, I am ESPECIALLY hyper vigilant when climbing out of my vehicle, or if I have to shop at night alone. I really try not to shop at night alone.
It's amazing, one day someone woke up and said... I want to tell everyone my opinion, on everything. No training, education or personal experience. Just talk... talk, talk and more talk. 🤷
13:48 i always carry means to protect myself.
Our civilization does not have long before it ceases to exist.
Not long enough..
Okay😅
As a woman, Im very vigilant when Im alone, or alone with other girls. If Im with a guy friend I dont have that vigilant sense.
Women saying "I Am A Girl" is kinda Enamoring
huh?
@@doctorposting it's nice to hear when said out loud
love you girl!!
Im definitely hypervigilent
That is good, but do you know self defense?
@treybrannon4964 i know how to use my glock pretty well 🤪. Also self defense say if its a man hes almost always going to over power a woman.
I am vigilant, but not hyper - vigilant. I just be safe. Just like men do. Everyone should be aware.
They need to tell the participants that there may or may not be an imposter, not that there is. That subtle dynamic would make it much more accurate.
Hyperaware not hypervigilance
What’s the difference
As a woman, I am always careful when walking to and from my car by myself, especially if I am carrying several bags or I am otherwise occupied with stuff. It can be a bit daunting at night by myself in a deserted parking lot in dim light too.
As a woman I don't feel fear necessarily. That's not to say I haven't. But absolutely, hyper-vigilant. But I also don't let my past traumas affect my view on world around me in my present. So I don't assume the bad things that happened will absolutely happen now. I'm aware of the possibilities.
13:49 id say im pretty vigilant when it comes to my safety and any potential threats that might come my way, mainly because my dad instilled the saying to me “you can make friends with everyone in the room, but utilize any potential weapons or possible escape routes if things ever went south”
At this point its kinda become a subconscious thing to be checking whose behind me, in front of me, places to find cover, places to go to hide from people , anything i could potentially use to protect myself with, all in the off chance that something happens out of nowhere and need to make a split second decision that could save my ass.
I’m not sure what going out and not being hyper vigilant would be like. Never done it. Especially after combat tours, it’s just smart to be aware.
📢 Hey! If anyone missed Amala on Pierce Morgan, trust me when I tell you it is a MUST see. Our girl is literally a dynamo on that show, there are no words for the respect I have for Amala in the way she showed those petty squabblers how a person SHOULD conduct themselves in a debate, she put them all to shame.
It's certain they'll ask her back, only live next time.
Seriously, don't let this one slide by!
Perhaps after decades of focusing on women, men understand them more than they understand men.
As a man and as a husband, I am aware of my surrounds most of the time.
As a man, I don’t think I could correctly guess on all the questions that was being asked in this video, yet alone know what to say.