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- čas přidán 8. 01. 2024
- Jubilee recently conducted a social experiment to see if a panel of men can pick out the deep-voiced woman among them as they all answer questions about the male experience. Will she be able to fool them, or does she know less about the male psyche than she thinks? Let’s watch!
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Chloe blew it right away on first question by over explaining.
Yeah, when she said that she wears plataform shoes i thought that everyone was gonna vote for her, a man would never do that, and if he does, he is not gonna tell you
I agree.
@@vincentw3566Ron DeSantis will go to the grave and never admit to it 😂
No man who wears platforms would admit it.
Couldn’t be a man for 10 minutes without mansplaining herself into a hole. Typical 😂
Chloe fumbled it, hard, by saying, "I wear platforms to compensate" sounds way too much like how a girl would make fun of a guy, not how a guy would talk
Platforms? I have never seen a dude do that let alone admit that, let alone call them platforms (where I live anyway).
plus "compensate" More likely to say, just to meet expectations.
As a girl, I can't imagine a guy would talk like that, she was just way off saying that 🤣
That is what sold it for me.
Men don't wear platforms that was what blew her cover
@julieerdman8253 I do lmao😂. Dr. Martin's. I also agree it is feminine tho but I rock it. Get's me all the goth girls.
"What is he compensating for" was the biggest girl comeback
A guy would never use terms like "compensate" because we don't even see it as a bad thing. It's like an engeenering solution to a psychological problem
How does tricking six 20 year old boys show that she understands anything about men? I would assume a man doesn't understand women just because he puts on a dress.
The platform shoes comment gave it away for me immediately. If a man is insecure about his height enough to wear platform shoes, he is not going to freely offer that information without being directly asked!
So.. like Ron DeSantis ? 😅
@@goofygrandlouis6296 As a guy, I wouldn't necessarily have caught the platform shoes thing. I've always been tall and actually wish I was shorter, so I'm not personally aware of the insecurity around height beyond the fact that women tend to go for taller.
Her saying that the guy was OVERCOMPENSATING is exactly what a woman would say lol. If they didnt pick up on everything earlier, that definitely made them know.
YES! Came to make this comment - I'm _so_ glad someone beat me to it. We're not typically like that lmao.
Realistically she blew her cover with her first answer & should have been voted out straightaway, but as soon as she tried to oversell the act of being a 'frat boy' & randomly shoehorned in the bit about "overcompensating", it should've been immediately obvious to the actual lads.
It was a foregone conclusion that the random woman would end up using the episode as an opportunity to take her own personal gripes with men & project them via her 'character', almost as if it was supposed to be a 'gotcha' to men or something like that.
Definitely 🎯
In fact, I never EVER heard a guy, in my life, say something like that. It's a woman thing to say for sure.
Bingo. Soon as she played the "overcompensating" card I would've seen red flags. Guys generally refer to other guys as immature or insecure.
If I were a guy pretending to be a girl I would totally accuse people of overcompensating. 😂
I would have said he was overcompensating out of irritation because he's kind of a dick, but that's how I'd know he was a guy. The ego was on point.
The minute she said 'platform shoes' I was like 'oh no, she blew it.'
I am a woman and thought the same. It’s so vain.
I don't think a man would ever "admit" to wearing platform shoes to seem taller. They'd definitely not open with that, at least!
Damn😂 Here I am wearing them.
I’m a man that wears platform shoes and don’t mind talking about them but idk if i’d say it like she did
I couldn't agree more 👍
Every girl say it’s not weak for a man to show vulnerability but a lot of them end up not liking it and secretly judge a man for being vulnerable. I’ve seen it backfire multiple times against men. It happen on Jubilee too
Do you have the video?
I agree with his. Never open up t a girl, maybe your mom b that's about it.
Yeah. Unless you're incredibly secure in your relationship, don't show vulnerability or open up too much to women, because it's just going to come back at you in a fight, or they will say that it's unattractive and use it to belittle you. They take that information, file it, and throw it back at you in confrontations with regularity.
I would say only become really vulnerable with either a lifetime female friend (seriously life-long so you know she's not the type to betray you), or your wife. Never a girlfriend or someone you're just casually dating.
@@caomhan84That’s a bad woman. I’m too concerned about his pain, and usually crying even harder than him. What’s to judge in him expressing his pain? That’s some messed up shiz niz, right there. A constant whiner is annoying no matter which sex they hail from, so I can see that being a reasonable response, but otherwise, it’s just cruel and unfeeling to bash on someone else’s pain.
@@sharonsimmons6427 I agree that it's a sign of a bad woman and I agree that it's messed up, but the fact remains that it happens with regularity. There's a reason men talk about it, and a reason why men are telling others not to open up to women anymore. One might be able to trust a serious long-term partner with your anxieties and inner demons, but be careful around a girlfriend or someone casual. It's safer just not to do it.
@@caomhan84 I see what you mean, but I don’t understand it.
Also, there was so many cringy answers from Chloe and Joseph, but Chloe immediately stuck out to me as the female, whereas with Joseph I just immediately assumed he was gay
Yeah... poor Joseph..
Joseph's answers were not cringe lol, he was just being himself.
@@Matt-dx3wo I'm sure he'll take confort from that. 😅
I read another comment saying Joseph is a trans man. So it's a biological woman.
She F'ed up when she said he is overcompensating , that's a word that women use when try to shame men...i never met a man in real life who said that to other dude, not even as a joke
Amen!!!!!
@@victimoffate07 Indeed. And if a guy thought another guy was lying to compensate for something he'd probably say something more like "I call BS". Overcompensate just sounds bitchy.
Exactly. No man, ever, would say something like that. Immediately gave away she is a woman.
I have heard it as a joke, but not with that delivery or that context. It would be more likely they call you "butt hurt" or something considered more offensive to other groups these days.
I heard some "bloke" use that word a few years back. I remember it like it was yesterday, me and my mate were instantly suspicious, we knew there was something iffy about this "bloke"...we thought he must be a big butch woman trying to seduce young blokes or something...turns out it was just an intelligent bloke with a good vocabulary. I think he might have read a couple of books, y'know ?? Must have been a closet-homosexual.
A real dude isn’t trying to confront another dude saying “You’re over-compensating.” It just doesn’t happen.
While I agree with you, there is a common sentiment among men that tell other men that drive lifted trucks that they must be overcompensating for something.
@@GearForTheYear I’ll concede it’s said ABOUT men, it’s just not said TO men in a direct fashion in those terms. A real dude would say something like, “Having a small d!(k looks expensive,” not, “You’re over-compensating.”
@@GearForTheYearLess than masculine men tend to say that more though.
@@RockerBen you’re moving the goal-posts.
@@GearForTheYear I'm not. If you're looking for a woman and someone is being less than masculine then that would rasie your suspicions.
Platform shoes??? Girl you blew it immediately
Girl blew it from the get-go. You could argue otherwise, but she just did so terrible badly it seems like she didn't even try.
She tried. But the difference between men and women are simply too big.
@@ImNotMito She didn't try. Amala gave an example of trying in the video. Done and done. You don't have to be a man to act like one for a short period of time to try win some game. She just either didn't care and/or didn't want to make an effort.
@@bigt3785amala did worse imo. Chloe at least had half an answer most of the time, whereas amala had confidence and confidence alone
I agree, Amala was horrible, literally her first answer would have given it away
Most guys wouldn't admit to wearing platform shoes
That should have been automatic vote off alone.
Undercover brother. ✊
@@BeWise4LifeYea, I think the only reson she lastet till second round, is cause the first guy was so insanely feminine.
Right
We'd die first before admitting that we wear platform shoes
It doesn’t matter. You can try to be the opposite gender but you’re just insisting on NOT being yourself, and it’s almost always noticeable, to everyone.
Facts plus it’s pretty tragic
shut up
Lol it's an art, I know ALOT of fakes that pretend to be something they're not, some ppl are really good at faking.
It's easy to see through a charade, especially when you're very observant to being with.
Yeah. Feels like they should have gotten a more rough and tumble girl, then changed her voice, rather than choosing the girl just for her voice. Then she could have spoken from the heart more, vs. just working off male stereo types.
There was a feminist who decided to try to live as a man for two years. She quit because the experience was so devastating to her. She wrote a book about her time and how badly men are treated--she committed suicide because feminists started howling about her "betrayal."
That is interesting as true feminists would agree that patriarchy is hurting women and men. No idea why she had that much backslash from other women on her book
I remember this
Her name is Nora Vincent. There is a yt video of her journey. She stopped at 18 months because it was so mentally devastating.
@GoldenXBoots There are pros to patriarchy that benefit women. Now this feminized society we’re seeing is what’s truly toxic to EVERYONE and benefits no one.
No she did not commit suicide because of that, smh with these fucking copy-paste comments
"In the end, I'm a chick, and there's only so much lying I can do." Words to live by.
But it’s still exponentially greater than what men can do. Women have the need to lie to themselves
That's literally ALL women do
@@dylanmonstrum1538 Mostly to themselves
🤣killing me by laughter
LOL LOL LOL
Chloe has a very deep voice, but she does not talk like a man. How she speaks just isn’t how someone masculine talks.
What is 'masculine' talk? You think all guy speaks the same cliche 'alpha male' way?
@@thesazbak5342 No homie, all people masculine do not talk the same. However, generally there are things that statistically mostly masculine people say and carry themselves. A type of charisma.
@@thesazbak5342 No, but the cadence, the wording and choice of perspective are subtly different between male and female.
Like everyone said, platform shoes immediately gave it away
Quick answer: no 😊
😂
💯 😂
The platform shoes gave her away real quick, no man/guy would legitimately say that about themselves openly like that.
Amala blew it. Talking about making friends for different events is not a guy thing to do. If guys want to hang with someone, they just ask "you busy? Let's hang." I know this because all my male friends would do this with me, collect me, and suddenly we are all playing Mario Party.
"6ft if my girl is watching" that was perfect amala lmao
frr 😂
Except not something a man would say.
Part of the reason why we bottle it up is because we asked ourselves "who would even care if I did reach out for help", whenever women reach out they get catered to, while men are brushed off and often hear "cry me a river" "man up" "grow balls" or they show very little effort and give us cookie cutter answers that don't work. No one cares about us men, we live in a society where we're constantly being demonized or treated as fodder.
That would have been my answer to the problem mens lives is. No one cares about mens problems.
Nah, that's not it. Perhaps for you. I LIKE solving things. I ENJOY trying to solve problems on my own. Of course I would get help if I really wanted to, but I'm not comfortable with myself in need of help. Sure for you it's that way, but I can guarantee most men like solving issues, problems, challenges and so on. I almost accidentally ki**** myself twice fixing things in my apartment. One time was electrical issues, and unfortunately I had to ask a professional to deal with it after nearly dying. And the other time was fixing the air-conditioning from the window, which worked like a charm and I was proud of myself for doing it.
I ask for help when I need it, which is rare (or if people ask to help I find something for them to do, even if it inconveniences me). But when I really really need help, I most often don't receive it. If you want to talk about emotional support, good luck. As the op said "grow some balls" or "man up" would be a common response. Generally the response is like the above reply, some version of, "thats a you problem".
But in general my observations have been the following... the less capable you are and/or the more commonly you ask and are percieved to need help, the more likely you are to recieve it (Up to a point where people feel taken advantage of. lf course). you have that support network built, people think you will be in trouble without them so they make the effort. If they think you'll manage they are more likely to ignore you. That seems true of men or women.
@@nancode that's why I said "PART of the reason" my comment was more about emotional support and psychological stuff, why we bottle our emotions. I just didn't feel like listing all the reasons why we don't ask for help, and yes you're right many of us do like to solve things on our own, but the handy dandy stuff is not what I was talking about, I would much rather work on my truck by myself.
Also, when you look at any funding for issues whether medical or social it is FAR less for men - domestic violence, cancer charities, homeless shelters, mental health, you name it, if it's for women it's exalted, if it's for men it's forgotten
The way the one guy was talking about wanting to go for a walk with a girl.. and not it being as a ploy to get sex or something but legitimately wanting to just go for a walk and get to know her better or just have a nice time is absolutely what guys will talk about with other guys.. probably not with women present.. but with their guy friends for sure. Amala talking about hard how it is to grow your calves killed me LMAO 😂😂 I'm not saying some guys wouldn't talk about that but I've never had that discussion in my life. It's just really funny to me how men and women absolutely think so different.. in a good way!
One time I was walking with a woman after getting dinner (I didn't particularly enjoy the date) and I felt it was impolite to leave while she was talking but she didn't stop so I figured I would see her off at the corner. At the corner we were still talking I stopped then she asked where my car was. I said back that way. Then she very abruptly got all weird and like I was going to abduct her or something. So I rapidly tried to de-escalate the situation.
Anyway, it's annoying. I am glad I didn't just say, "I wanted to leave but you wouldn't stop talking".
I would say though I know women who definitely think more similar to me, it really just depends on the person and the subject.
That guy's answer was honestly not that far off from what I was thinking, trying to put myself in men's shoes. One of the first things that comes to mind is the idea that society seems to have such a nefarious view of men these days and thinks men always have the worst intentions.
@@CassTeaElle 100% agree.. I think 2023/2024 people are constantly looking to find the worst in people when in reality I think most people (men and women) are just normal people, looking to live normal lives and do normal things.. nothing nefarious at all.. just wanting to find a connection with someone.
@@CassTeaElle Not only having to be afraid of your own safety but take into account how others perceive you. Have been a couple of times that I have been either forced to stop or to take a more dangerous route because I noticed the woman ahead of me getting anxious and stressed.
I have also encountered a crying girl in the middle of the night asking to use my phone before discovering that I am a guy with long hair and then looking like I am about to attack her. And yes, she got to borrow my phone and her friend said she was coming down to help her but I left before that because she still looked like I was about to maul her in that dark alley.
Its a thing you learn growing up. Women see you as a monster. And if you are nice and kind you are just a well behaved monster
@@CassTeaElle Not society. I feel it is women. I don't look at other guys and think they are going to do something bad. But as a guy I am always watching how I act, the words i use, etc, so women don't feel uncomfortable.
Chloe was being explicit, impatient and very connected with herself, which is the complete opposite of how the average man normally acts.
There is nothing wrong about saying you look like an action figure if you look like an action figure.
Being humble isn't lying
saying i look like a action figure is not humble tho.
also he sounded like a asshole with u need to be perfect to get a girl with an expensive car and i only do tiktok for the money.
@@alwaysjarron6260 How did that make him sound like an asshole? lol what? So only doing tiktok for money so he can afford the life/girl that may come with that makes him an asshole? Man I just don't understand people these days lol.
And him being *Confident* doesn't make him wrong.
@@metashadow3924 it made him sound like an asshole because he talks about mainly superficial things. And people like that are generally considered assholes. Hope that helps.
@@PositivelyVika
A lot of women talk a lot about superficial things. Does that make them assholes too?
@@Harry-tl7pj lol is this seriously your argument? Yes, I think any person that talks mainly about superficial things and is out to achieve only superficial things - is not a very nice person. So yes, I'd consider them assholes.
People can pretend to be whatever they want, but that just makes them delusional not successful.
"They don't go to DOCTORS." cracked me up. It's so true.
Absolutely. I walked off a bad injury, but no doctor for me.
Suffered 2 months, but it was worth it. I did not die.
@@goofygrandlouis6296 Well, I went to a doctor because removing my appendix on my own didn't seem to be a viable option.
@@ConservativeGrouch 😅
They should do this same experiment, but instead of the guys evaluating each other, have a separate group of women try to figure out which is the fellow woman.
They were already have. This experiment was inspired by it
And the men understand how to pretend to be a women so much that it takes until there's 2 or 3 people left to know they got the dude out, but women understand men so little that every time they try to pretend they're spotted so fast because they can't get out of their feelings that they still whip out the stereotypical woman responses to shit. "you're overcompensating"
For guys, peeing with boner is difficult. And for many/most, getting a boner closes a valve basically that prevents you from being able to pee at all. Think of it like trying to get water through a kinked water hose. You can sometimes get drips or a spurt or - more likely - nothing.
This seems like way too much info, but while we're here: I heard that guys would go to the toilet to try to get rid of a boner. Does that seem logical?
@@heykay5610 Yes
Yep that's right! It's to prevent pee and ejaculate mixing. I had a lot of guy friends as a teenager that weren't shy 😅 as for going to the toilet to get rid if a boner, I guess trying to force pee would signal the body that it's not "go time" maybe? 😂
Reminds me of when I used to get boners.
@@heykay5610 Yeah that's that thing. (Pun not intended.). I don't really understand why but sometimes if you can pee and it will let it go down. Usually in the morning when you first wake up
The insight about having difficulty making friends as an adult is so spot on for both men and women. Pretty much the only friends I have as a grown woman are other moms but my husband has had an even tougher time making dad friends and maintaining the friendships he had prior to getting married and becoming a father.
I’ve always been a pretty solitary person and so it luckily doesn’t bother me much but sometimes I lament that I don’t connect easily with people who I think are deserving of my time.
I couldn't make friends as a kid *or* as an adult. As a kid, I was always the last kid picked for any sport, the one everyone forgot to invite anywhere, the last one to know anything. The person I considered my best friend always considered me their seventh or eighth best friend. Probably not even that.
I got cancer in very early adulthood (age 20) and nobody gave a fuck or came to visit me more than once. I was in hospital for a year and had like six total visits besides my parents and grandmother lmao. Most so called friends from that time have no idea whether I even survived. I tried to make friends for another ten years, failing to maintain anyone's interest more than a few months before I just gave up.
38yo male.
One thing to remember about men, is they deal with rejection and typically get burned by others quite a lot so they learn early on to be more stoic due environment naturally.
We all heard girls mature emotionally quicker but, some lady I heard once mention "big boys grow up fast." What she meant by that is they often get treated more like a grown up earlier, less likely cuddled, assigned more physically exerting chores and often entails more responsibility and the accountability, etc... which when I thought about it and remembering back it's likely true. I was taller and much bigger at twelve than any of my sisters, the youngest of them seventeen at the time.
When a man asks for help, he usually needs to be very trusting in who he confides in and typically will approach them with some confidence and assertiveness, it's usually a close family member or really close friend he'd confide in. Men do not usually have a wide social network most women have, so is very likely there are fewer people fit the bill.
Keep in mind, it's one thing to be asking advice but a different thing to be asking for astute personal solution.
Obviously when you're looked upon as some sort of protector and provider it does not appear you're doing either nor very good at that if you're perplexed with an issue. Most men will rarely confide troubling things with their spouse directly just due that, mainly because they do not want her to share a burden, let's face it if she's worried that's also something else weighing upon his mind.
I have sons your age. Don’t give up. Society has changed and it’s become an inhospitable place for young men, but we’re starting to see a shift. Watch some Jordan Peterson and keep your chin up.🙃
I get it dude. Same for me 30F@purringbluzzmuffin8030
@@tommack9395 Guys communicate differently from women and handle problems differently. When females have a problem, many will find others and talk about the problem, but men tend to "go into their cave" and pull away to mentally go over the problem and try to come to a solution. Their male friends automatically recognize this and other than giving them a word of support ("hang in there", "I'm here if you need to talk"), they know to leave them alone. Females will see this and try to talk to them ("you will feel better if you talk"), which is exactly the wrong thing to do with guys in this situation, and this sometimes generates a "leave me alone!" retort that hurts her feelings. Once the guy has come to a conclusion (a solution or acceptance that there is no solution), he will come out of the "cave" and join society again.
If a man asks for help, he really means "I need help", and he would not have brought this up with another man unless he wanted a solution. When a woman is talking with a man about the problems she is facing, she may just be thinking out loud and not looking for a solution, and she gets frustrated when he starts offering solutions. All she wanted was someone to listen. Women don't go into a cave, they want someone to talk and share with, but sometimes when he asks, "Is everything OK?", and she says "Yes", that really means, "No, things are not OK, but I want you to show you care and ask me again", and since he speaks male English, he hears "Yes" and thinks everything is OK.
As a woman in my mid 30s, I have no clue what "male privilege" is. Honestly I feel like I have a hell of alot more "privilege" than a man. I could destroy my husband's life with a lie and no evidence to back it up. That's too much power for a person to have and I know far too many women who abuse that power.
Men have privileges which women don't have and the other way around. Eg. Men don't get periods, men don't give birth and don't breastfeed. Men are stronger better suited for leadership roles, which are all privileges.
Men have privileges which women don't have and the other way around. Eg. Men don't get periods, men don't give birth and don't breastfeed. Men are stronger better suited for leadership roles, which are all privileges.
Men have privileges which women don't have and the other way around. Eg. Men don't get periods, men don't give birth and don't breastfeed. Men are stronger better suited for leadership roles, which are all privileges.
Men have privileges which women don't have and the other way around. Eg. Men don't get periods, men don't give birth and don't breastfeed. Men are stronger better suited for leadership roles, which are all privileges.
Men have privileges which women don't have and the other way around. Eg. Men don't get periods, men don't give birth and don't breastfeed. Men are stronger better suited for leadership roles, which are all privileges.
Amala the “hard to make friends after high school” was your most feminine answer.
Agree. I was shaking my head after that one. But none or her answers were great. She overexplained everything.
Amala's answers were cute, but mostly absolutely stuff chicks would say.
LOL that first question from action figure man is such a nailer. That is even hard to answer as a guy. Chloe gives herself away to anyone who's paying attention. Sounds unsure of some answers and kind of making it up.
The voices give it away. They needed to get like all high-pitched voices to play this fairly. All of the remaining 4 voices are distinctly raspy, deep without overtones. The only one that could've been sus is Tyler, but he's done plenty to confirm himself.
Tbh, I honestly thought Chloe's voice was some kind of voice modulator. No offense to her, since that is her natural voice, but it didn't really sound like a natural male voice to me, or a female voice. It just sounded off.
It's true though: people say she has a masculine or man's voice, well yeah, *for a girl* and especially when you can see her there's an incongruence, BUT audio only? not really, maybe first pass not paying attention but tone, timbre, depth, all that, just isn't right ie somethings off, and if you were asked to identify she stands out
I'm not shocked that she got voted out instantly, from my experience most women genuinely have no idea what being a man is like, and using stereotypes like she did very easily gives it away. Also yeah the peeing with a hard-on is a dead giveaway, any guy will know the experience of having to go and suffering through having to just wait it out, but there's a good chance even your girlfriend won't know because it's not something you'd call attention to, you'd just bear it.
I think that's one of the biggest giveaways, even when guys open up about their insecurities, there's always a form of hesitation because we're so used to the fear of being rejected for it. There's a certain amount of comfort women have about speaking about their feelings that men can only have with guys, and it tends to be more nonverbal than verbal.
The voice made this super easy. They should all use a voice thing like Amala had and try that. Just rely on the answers and the energy.
I mean the jacked guy had a higher pitched voice than "caleb" so it's not all voice. But Joseph was clearly a red herring and he got booted off right off the bat.
I've been a male for 63 years and I don't know what male privilege is.
I'd like to know as well. It feels like aa secret bank account everyone tells me I have but no-one will tell me where it is and how to access it.
Agree. Same with white privelege.
The homosexual feminine guy would say that
I agree, and I have never had the conception that men get a better deal out of life. Strong-minded women usually hold the top in a relationship and there are more of those than men nowadays. Men may be more aggressive/competitive, but I am far more afraid of the passive-aggressive women that tend to appear from those strong women I find attraction to.
My guess… people treat you with respect right off the bat (or used to, when society respected their elder), you get positions of power over women, maybe some others.. but it’s hard to think of it. Maybe don’t do housework as much ? I dunno. I guess I don’t know either, but I’m a lady. I tried. 🤷♀️
Overcompensating was such a female talking. No heterosexual man would ever use that as a comback. Way too emotional. “The calm down bro” was pretty accurate though. We show strength without insulting.
Exactly 🎯
Nah the tone of the calm down bro came across wrong as well.
Yeah, lol.. "You're Overcompensating " hahaha
this was a losing battle for chloe because she’s kind of just some girl who happens to have a deep voice. if they took someone who’s military or works in construction, this convo would have been much more fun and less painful to watch
As a woman with a more masculinely orientated brain, I find myself relating to a lot of the things the guys said honestly. (no, I'm not gender dysphoric. lol I am a heterosexual woman, and confident in that. lol I just think more like a man) That part where they talk about doing literally anything before they ask for help. That is SO me! HAHAHA! I LOVE to help others, but when it comes to myself, I have a hard time ADMITTING that I need help, and will often go to extremes to avoid it all together. lol
I feel you. And only after I read the comments about "don't go to doctors" I started to realize it's a thing (when Amala said it I just didn't get it and assumed it meant go to therapy), because I don't like to go to doctors and always assume it's just individual personality, and I definitely know some men who like to go to doctors much more than I do (I think there might be some cultural difference here😂
It was the liberal art school part for me 😂🤣
It’s almost like men and women are different
A girl pretending to be a man is definitely harder. Guys spend a lot of time trying to decipher women (In general, not always), and women just don't. So when it comes to acting, I would imagine it would be much easier (but not easy) for a guy to fake it.
@l.a.1477 hence the “in general, not always”
The platform shoes said it all, and then she said she was in a frat😂
Spot on. I can only look for my brothers when i'm in a deep shit. My parents know little to nothing about today's struggle.
bro's have your back, we know, even strangers we understan each other
15:07 she ruined it again right before the bell went. No guy would say his dad.
Amala, your answer about being able to pee with a boner would have given you away immediately.
I did like the answer that the 3rd guy gave about people automatically assuming the worst with men. In my case, I once had a little girl approach me at a Sam's Club because she was lost and wanted some help. IDK why she came to me because there was a woman with a toddler in the shopping cart right next to me, but she did. I said, "It's OK - they are still in the store, and this nice lady will help you find them". The lady immediately knelt down, gave her a hug and was still talking to her as I continued shopping. Why did I do that? I would like to have helped - my instinct was to protect and help, but I feared that this help would or could have been misinterpreted. If the mom had rounded the corner while this woman was giving her a comforting hug, she would have probably thanked her for taking care of her daughter and they might have swapped emails and become friends. Would she have reacted the same way if she had rounded the corner as I was giving her a comforting hug?
I was thinking the same thing, the boner answer would have given her away
I agree. As a mom, I can see how a mom could be panicking and desperately looking for their kiddo and think the worst. You hear terrible stories about what can go wrong and jump into protect first ask questions later. I don't think that should be the assumption we should make, but it seems like it would be easy to jump to the worst-case scenario, sadly. I wish that wasn't a thing because it isn't fair to the majority of guys that just want to help and are safe. Good on you to be aware of it and working to protect yourself and still make sure the little girl was safe.
It’s sad but there is good reason for that
I would've never given that hug. I would've set out to accomplish the task at hand, which was to find either the parent or an employee who could make a store announcement.
I don't disagree with your comparison of course, but I honestly don't think hugging her would have even occurred to me.
That depends. Were you wearing trousers ? If you were prancing around in a pair of tights, she might just have been a little suspicious even though wearing tights does not automatically mean you're a predator...but I know exactly what you mean and I agree, sadly. It really IS a sad state of affairs that people would be suspicious like that, but it's just reality, a sign of these fucked-up times. 😔
To me when a conversation with a stranger starts with “i feel like…” this gives me extreme feminine vibes. I never talk with a dude i don’t know and who i dont call bro about something personal and even when i do i simply say what i think not how i “feel” and i don’t know one dude who is like that.
Im sure im not the only one who thinks like that. If u pay attention the moment when the woman started with “i feel like…” everyone find that suspicious and i would to. Guys usually don’t talk about feelings like that.
How do men talk then?
@@FlamingCockatiel just say what you think
I'd like to see 8 women trying to figure out who's the trans-woman.
I would've failed at "male privilege" cause I've NEVER had that being a man, so I would've stumbled on what to say. 😂
Just tell them to F off which is the only appropriate answer to that question.
People nowadays use it as a loose term, so an action without worry.
I feel like the other guys would have thought that guy was the mole if he brought up privilege lol
@@CassTeaElleNah, way too many dudes are self-proclaimed feminists thinking it'll get them laid, the world is going to shit because of all the simps...
I agree!..what male privilege 😂
I would not hesitate to ask for help from friends. But I don't.
Because there's no sense asking for things they don't have or cannot give. Everyone's busy with their own life and have little expertise on modern issues.
"They don't go to doctors"
Yep, haven't been to one in 15 years. I ended up loosing a finger and went inside to bandage myself up. Had no plans of going to the hospital. My wife was not having it. She forced me to go. I'm kind of happy she did though because I had a splintered piece of finger bone hanging out of what was left of my finger. The doctor said it's very easy to get a fatal infection from exposed bone. Ill probably live longer than I would if I didn't have my wife. A lot of guys are very hard headed when it comes to asking for help. I think it's because as men we are supposed to be the ones with the solutions and not the ones asking someone else for the solutions.
Interestingly, married man do live longer. It may be directly from their wives making them seek medical care. Also, men with families don't take stupid risks as much as single men.
@@MaraJadeTX makes sense.
I lost an appendage but I will be damned if I go to a doctor? Sorry no, that is not a male thing. Not going for help for more nebulous things, yep, very male. Losing body parts? Seek psychological help. Which of course not, but it would be the logical thing nevertheless.
@@MaraJadeTXmarried white men
League and Tarkov are the kind of games women think men play. Dead giveaway.
Men do play them, sure, but as a favorite? No way.
Outed herself off gate with the platform shoes. No dude would admit that and one that would admit it wouldn’t actually do it.
I've never seen a man wear platform shoes no matter how short they are. Do they even make those for men?
I feel like this would be to judge, but they purposefully chose soft voices to throw them off.
It’s not a struggle not needing to go to someone for help, it’s the best option to gain strength and leadership skills. Learn the lessons on your own is the best way to truly know why the decision is made.
Asking for help gains you far better leadership skills than not taking that option..
The gymnast answer doesn't work very well Amala. Mainly because men's and women's gymnastics are so completely different. It's a good thought, but I'd have suggested saying "I like to cook", as you can fob it off by saying your mom taught you and you kinda enjoyed it. For extra credit you'd should add that your favourite dish is something like Eggs Benny, extra bacon, extra hollandaise sauce, with avocado on the side when I can afford it.
I think because girls are more vocal about things, guys have more info to pull from. Where girls only have limited info to pull from.
The female experience is easier to fake because its popularized more in the media. Even as kids, the majority of Disney shows showed the teen female experience and a female lead. For a male lead the guys, if it wasnt a cartoon, it didnt happen and this continues into many or the top shows aimed at adults.
I have a female friend who's a bit of a tomboy. One time she told me that she "thinks like a guy."
Me: "Are you thinking about sex right now?"
Her: "No!"
Me: "Then you DEFINITELY don't think like a guy..."
Her: ...
Saying he was overcompensating should have been what gave them the answer, that is absolutely a woman answer to confrontation.
You would NOT have fooled me with the second question! It is difficult and potentially painful depending on how hard. You can't aim down when you're up. If you try it will crimp. I have found the way is to twist.
Easy solution lol.
Just suck up your pride and sit down, it's what I do.
Guys are too uptight with standing to pee lol
If I was called a girl for liking Kingdom Hearts I would go off on that guy and asked why he thinks I would be a girl for liking it or I would have that person back that liked the game. A lot of guys played Kingdom Hearts when it came out.
Yeah that broke my heart because it’s a great game and there are allot of male CZcamsrs who talk about it
Nah that game is at least gay af. Might not be a girl but definitely not 100% a man lmao.
Yea king of heart is not a very masculine game. also most of the people that still play it are gamers aka overgrown children, actual kids, and adults that grew up playing the game since they were kids most buy it because it was part of their childhood so nostalgia.
My friend Jon would also. It was a bad take.
No girl I knew growing up played Kingdom Hearts.
That games fandom was a sausage fest in my personal experience. That said my first contact was with a demo on 3DS more than a decade after the first PS2 game launched, and I didn't buy the full game... so... according to all these 'YT guys' in the comments, I'm more of a man.
Just so no one gets too confused here, I am a biological male.
To be vulnerable means to be unprotected and open to attack, so it actually is weakness.
You're a little off with the second part.
Being unprotected doesn't mean you're weak, it just means unprotected.
A strong man can be vulnerable, attacked, and come out of it okay.
Being vulnerable isn't as bad or good as people say it is; just know how to successfully conflict with whoever is getting on your case when vulnerable, or make a tactical retreat for your own sanity.
@@HHHIII4363i agree somewhat with your reply… but this still doesn’t change the fact that being vulnerable is technically a weakness. You just have to weigh the consequences if revealing said weakness can help more instead of hurt
@@ziiiiiiii754 that is true. Thinking like a tactician 👍
@@HHHIII4363 I considered this prior to posting my comment, and I decided that although it's possible to simultaneously be both strong and vulnerable, the vulnerability is still a weakness because it detracts from overall strength in at least some capacity relative to a similar state absent of the vulnerability. I suppose it could be thought of as _relative_ weakness.
@@gabeo9474 I would consider it being a weakness in defences, but not strength.
It's allowing someone to know of your weak points, which is a bad decision for the security of your stability.
This is a threat to your strength because any aggressive infiltration could cause damage to your internal support.
But I wouldn't consider vulnerability to be in a direct negative relationship with the strength of a person
The moment she got defensive she outed herself in my opinion. Guys will tend to avoid escalating a conflict at risk of getting ass kicked. she insulted him, men wont do that unless they want a fight.
First question I would've asked the suspicious person:
When you get kicked in the balls, where does it hurt?
In the balls
@laura-would-be-laughing Starts in the balls but then quickly rises up through the lower belly
They did one with a guy who sounded like a girl and he actually won.
No he didn’t 😂 you might wanna rewatch. The guy got eliminated in round 2.
@@danielsociety9234 mhm thx
@@danielsociety9234
Same as here but the girls did keep on voting out other girls.
The question about what's the hardest thing being a guy I would say "dating is so hard because with the current climate, girls can accuse you of rape and you could go to jail in an instant"
Simply put:
her “woman-splaining” far overshadowed any “man-splaining.”
Dead give-away.
You have the best answers, they're all funny 😂
Lol, I would have definitely chewed a contestant out (man or woman) for saying they can't get big calves. That's not a problem that's a symptom of not trying ...or a legitimate medical issue.
Amala…. Yo you got me crackin my sternum lmbo especially your voice over and answers! Keep up the good work!😂😂😂
My voice is like 12 octaves deeper than the deeps person voice you know.
She mentions a few times that men need to not perceive asking for help and vulnerability as weakness. I feel like these woman really have no idea how common it is for women to lose interest in a man the second he shows emotion. I'm really sick of this statement, as its basically a trap. The reason grown men stay silent is because we learned through experience how much women look down on you after a moment of weakness.
Calf answer was good… friends answer more feminine. This was a fun episode!
No it was garbage. You work on legs, not calfs. And the reason you need to work legs is because you were dumb and never did legs, only upper body to get a fake V shape. Eventually you noticed how weak legs just dont match right and had to try to catch up. Thankfully I never skipped legs.
Guys usually don't talk much when asked questions (especially straight out of the gate) they are halting with their answer, but if talking freeflow (or because they have something they want to say) they can BECOME garrulous.
Ask them a question and they'll slow it down so they don't make a mistake while answering as they care about others understanding them and giving those people time to take in what they just said before they continue talking.
Women and more feminine men always answer questions quickly with too much information spewing out without interruption - like they want to get ALL their thoughts out fast so people don't have time to have their own thoughts but just HAVE TO LISTEN until they've finished.
Peeing with a Boner is often difficult at first and even slightly painful sometimes, but once you get going it's such a relief (because the prostate has to switch over from being ready for sperm from the testes to the urinary tract for urine from the bladder - once it's switched over and going it's smooth relief).
Just FYI. 😁
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As a man, I'd love to know what male privilege is and how to claim it.
Also, I probably would have been voted out early as well. Not for my voice, just because I wouldn't have fit in with that group.
I don’t remember us having any privilege tbh.
@user-md9dz3gj6r i believe women and men have some "privileges" nowadays if we talk about usa. However, if we talk about countries where women are denied education and can't leave their homes without a man it's a different story
i live in a country, where this situation is in the middle i guess. So, a lot of the time i hear about unequal salary from women in my life aka aunties and their friends. It's also harder to get employed in some fields if you're a woman in my country. But, i guess it differs from country to country and from culture to culture.
In general, if we don't talk about extremes like countries where women can't even get education, i guess it's not fare to compare, because both sexes have their own experiences!
@@savorysnot8604 Yes, some countries have stupid restrictions like preventing education or denying ability of autonomy.
However, as a Canadian... education was forced. While I was growing up parents had three choices: send to school, home school using school materials, have kids pulled from the house.
Then there is being hammered in the 'go to college/uni' that turns into massive debt and usually not used in the work force. Doctors, lawyers... stuff like that are taught how the job will likely work.
However, office work didn't match up... and forget about labour workers.
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Anyway, the topic in question is 'male privilege'. I have not personally noticed any high value special treatment due to being male.
Sure, car mechanics have talked to me differently... but when comparing the charges for the work done, I'm not getting a discount.
I go into a fabric store and get told to my face that men can't colour coordinate... but I'm still charged the same as any woman.
I have even worked worked labour where I did harder work and more work, yet still paid the same as the women I worked beside.
I go looking for a raise or promotion, I don't get a special boost over the women.
If there is 'male privilege' beyond being spoken to differently (which is arguably not a benefit), I'm not getting any. My life is not better off for being a man.
If anything, the privilege I have is being told to 'suck it up', and 'pay for the woman's stuff'.
I envy my parents. Dad worked, fed and sheltered my mother... and in exchange, she tended the house, and majority of the kids stuff. But he was also paid enough to do so. In his day, a day's pay fed the family for a week. And I'm now lucky if I can feed myself for a week on a day's pay.
You can have sex with whoever you want and be praised instead of shamed, you can go out at night without fear, you are less likely to be raped, molested, or murdered. Men are listened to more readily than women, women are ignored and made out to be ridiculous when we are stating facts. There is data to prove this. You do not have to have a period or birth children. That is a huge burden you take for granted. Your muscle is genetically stronger which society values more than us creating life. So you are seen as the better sex. Even though women are fascinating creatures, we are usually devalued by men constantly
@@savorysnot8604 There is not a single right or privilege that men have over women in any western country.
Amala also blew it in the first answer. "I'm 5'11", 6' as my girls watching". No guy would try to rizz this hard in a setting with other guys and no girls around lmao.
And with the 2nd you 100% gave it away
Bro when I heard Chloe talk I was all like " yo WTF, check for equipment"🤣🤣lol, the voice does not match the appearance at all bro.
The voice?! Is that her actual voice?!
Yes lol
I can’t get past it
It's about 1/1000 or 1/10 000. I reckon she might have worked on being able to speak lower but it's not incredibly unusual..
@@ribbonsofnight
Yes it is.
@@VariantAEC well do you think it's 1/1000 or 1/10 000 for a regular woman to have a very low voice? You can class that as incredibly unusual if you want.
be crazy waking up and hearing the chick you sleep with say in a deep manly voice, "hey what's up man.." .
It feels like I am the only one blown away by her super masculine voice. No way she didn't mess around with T, I've never heard a woman sound like that, not even Tracy Chapman sounds that masculine.
You threw me off with the LoL and Tarkov 😂
You got eliminated with your first answer 😂
No 😭😭😭
@@TheAmalaEkpunobilol 😂
Wants to come across as a guy... mentions shoes right out of the gate.
Great now i'm self conscious about my calves; thanks amala
A group of guys will always sort themselves into a “hierarchy”. It’s instinctual. Chloe may have known that intellectually, but irl she had no clue what to do.
The part about having a tough time getting friends is not smth most men would ever say, for us men talking to other dudes is more less braindead easy. All you gotta do is just talk about sports or games whichever u know most about, maybe cars aswell if thats smth u got in common.
I dunno i've not tried to make new friends IRL but when i've been in a group of dudes its never been hard to find something to talk about if u listen for a few minutes. I think us men we can talk about practicly anything without beeing to serious while women i feel put way to much emotion and feeling into it and i feel making friends as a woman is much harder cause u can't rly tell whos fake and not. Women are far more duplicitous.
Women don't care who's fake or not cuz they gonna encourage each other upfront anyway. _"Yas queen slay! You go girl!"_ It's easy to bond with people that are equally enthusiastic. The drama & gossip can work with anyone.
I've never tried to make friends. Ever. I just have a bunch of them. So I'm not picturing guys talking about how hard it is to make friends.
The peeing with a chub question was good.
chub is different than full on.
Very cool video. Many insights drawn about how men and women can think and respond differently in the same scenario . Fun to watch. As always Amala , never fail to entertain.
Amala: They dont go to doctors! 👀
Me feeling attacked: Okay but like... I feel fine
Until the end interviews part I thought that they left the voice changer on for her! I know we established that she has a masculine voice but damn 😳
Girl. No guy would EVER say it’s hard to make friendships that are not superficial. 😂😂😂
Okay "Kelley"
@@templesleeper27 But are they wrong though?
The closest a guy would go is to say "Sometimes it's difficult to make real friends" Obviously with some variation of structure depending on who it is.
But Kelley is right that guys wouldn't say it's hard to make not superficial friendships.
I don't really think guys use superficial all too often
@@HHHIII4363 Two girls telling a guy what dudes would say 👍 I don't get why you're even answering me, obviously I disagree with the comment, and your main point is that guys wouldn't use the word superficial on the basis of "I just dont really think that" Very strong argument. Even if I remove my own experience from the situation - it's not even an uncommon topic. Everybody complains about this. Of all the "but guys don't" points one could make, this is the weakest and it's not why girl in the vid gave herself away
As always, probably the odd exception. But shallow friends is the female stereotype not the male. A friend is a friend you get what you invest, if they only want to use you, they are not your friend.
@@templesleeper27 Number 1. I am a guy speaking my own experience and the experience of those i can relate to.
Number 2. I was talking about Amalas response, not the jubilee girl.
I was not trying to be rude, so there is no reason for you to be, even if i was a girl.
Number 3. I was responding to you so that i could get a conversation going.
A woman did successful pretend to be a man. And she wrote a whole book about the experience. Then she unalived herself because she couldn't live with what the experience showed her about her world view.
Your answer about finding friends is such a chick answer. We appreciate having friends, but we don’t go looking for it. The majority of us are perfectly ok being alone.
League of legends as an answer is crazy😂
Joseph was such a plant, not just the voice, even with his favourite videogame being Kingdom Hearts, "I didn't know it wasn't manly..." It's a game with Disney characters, it's a kids game! As for Chloe, her voice might have thrown me, but as you said her answers/responses were a little too (emotionally) involved.
Not to forget that the game's main theme is "friendship"..
I wouldn't be shocked if it came out that Joseph is a "trans"man. Jubilee would pull that kind of thing.
I was surprised by the kingdom hearts part. I love the game and its franchise, but then I realized I was a kid back then and all I cared about were the disney characters, so I can see why they thought he was a girl. I feel like most guys in that group prefer those rated M or at the very least rated T games.
Hey one of my good friends loves kingdom hearts. That is not a 'chick game'. Not that most things are gender specific.
@@Oblithian Buddy, KH isn't the first thing to be "gender attributed." Calling it _"a girly game"_ doesn't mean guys can't like it. I'm a pretty masculine guy yet KH was my entire childhood.
The only woman i saw who successfully became a man, Suicided in Depression.
A group of women were discussing their fear, about men urinating in them, and NOT ONE knew it was virtually Impossible.
Scammers fool others all the time about their gender.
They should’ve let her stand on a small stool so her voice was coming from higher up
A big stool
Can you also react to a guy pretending to be a girl?
Sending love ❤
Blew it on the intro. Needlessly detailed and specific.
You saying "superficial friendships"... GURRRL!
By the way, Kingdom Hearts 2 is a masterpiece, from the intro theme song to the genius mix of Square's and Disney characters... simply loved playing it.
No one seems to be talking about how well you answered these questions as if you were a guy... It was hilarious!