I WANT TO SUE MY HUSBAND FOR CHEATING || Justice Court EP 154-A
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Women we are always suffering for our children, I pray Africa should start helping single parents.
Myself I passed through this 37 years ago. My son was abandoned by the father.
I cried when I see this lady,I was very lucky that I had a good paid job. Sponsored my son in good school, he became a marine engineer and the retired father came to his life for forgiveness and asking for him to help take care of his children he had with 4 Women. Life is very difficult for African mothers. Am in Australia now and I see women abandoned with children enjoying the best of their lives.
God bless you ❤
It is your fault! U allowed him to have sex with you, you pro create with this man, so it is your fault
hmmm
thank God for you
Women don't suffer because when the Children become adult and successfull they always remember their mother. You live in Australia now and father would probably be somewhere in Africa enjoying the fruit of his labour.
@@ay1ismBut some people would still want the child to care for the father.
The only concern that I have in situations like this is that an irresponsible parent will want to reap where he did not sow when the children become successful and people will start preaching forgiveness.
Bottomline, stop making children that you can't care for please
Just what's on my mind
Children of nowadays are wising up o. Many have denied their parents care during old age with the excuse of struggling for ends meet. It depends on the notion given by the one responsible for their welfare. I'm actually saying from experience.
Thank you...u said my mine
God bless you dear
Talk truth
Silly to think because you separate from someone that means you are no longer responsible for your children.
If any child is watching this, please remember the sacrifices of the Active parent.
It’s a struggle but parents do it for the Love of their children.
God bless you
God bless you
I don't know how God created some men some fathers if I may say, personally I can't leave without my children with me and I made sure av done everything to forgive my wife or that she forgives me no matter the problem we have just so I can keep and see my children with me and growing under my watch.God I love my children.
The women feels cheated, she wasn’t given enough time to pour out her heart..
She doesn’t look satisfied
Pour out which heart? Did you not hear when the judge said she doesn't want to hear any stories about what happened in the marriage if both partners are not willing to come back together? What's the need of hearing stories and at the end of the day they both still go their seperate ways? Is that not a waste of the court's time. If both partners have decided to go their seperate ways (the man said he is no longer interested in the marriage), which story again do you want to hear? The focus will now be on the warefare of the children. It is only when both partners are still interested in the marriage that judge Funmi will allow both partners say their own side of the story and she will later refer them to a marriage counsellor. Do you think the man doesn't have his own story to tell? If marriage end, na the man cause am. The woman was innocent. Some women that are like tigers in the house.
You don't get to pour your hearts out when two adults have agreed to go their separate ways.
The issue on ground would automatically shift to the welfare of the Children of that union, PERIOD.
The judgment is not fair for the woman, the lady wasn't satisfied at all
I feel the woman wasn't given enough time to express herself better.
And, the 25k is way too small for three children. Who would balance the school fees when she's already taking care of their accommodation and clothing.
You are right. She should enrol them in government school so they can use that 25k properly for themselves. My brother n I went to government school n today we live outside the country. What will be will be. If they want, let them attend kings and queens college , your destiny can't be changed
@@victorezeagu1893 True.
I also attended a government secondary school in Lagos here. She should just make do wisely with what's available for now.
And feeding. Judge didn’t even make sense of this case.
One of the reasons comprehension passages are treated in primary and secondary schools.
@@victorezeagu1893 Govermemt sch of those days….
I’ll never understand men that neglect their children after a marriage fails just to spite their exes. Shameless lots!!!
Unfortunately, some women do this too… the numbers is not as high as with men, but it happens.
It’s often irresponsible behaviour and to spite the other spouse.. very wicked
@@Mariamsadventure it’s so pathetic and sad coming from either gender
I am going through this now
@@femilicious SUE HIS ASS THE AUDACITY AND SHAMELESSNESS!!!
I know of one that was sending the children from his new wife to expensive schhols while the children from the first wife he put them in public schools and was not really catering for them. Wickedness of the hieghest order but today the kids from the first wife are flourishing. This life hmmmm! If only they see tommorow!
This man is showing a very deep sense of negligence towards his responsibilities.
I wish our justice system will work so that there will be great consequence for not paying child support to deter from making babies indiscriminately.
DNA test should be made compulsory before de man can start paying for the child expenses
@@barrypatrick3425 , Very necessary but if you go that direction. Women will attack it
@@chukwudiikpo1507 yes now! Dey wan chop a man’s money, but don’t want the man to do a DNA test, women can be very funny..
The man should man up, the salary he earn is to small for the upkeep of the children, the woman has done great work for feeding the kids for almost 2 years, if the kids are staying with the man will 50k be enough for one month? Thanks to judge Funmi for added feeding and medical allowance to the man bill.
What scares me the most is bringing kids into this world and not being able to care and provide for them... I would rather die childless.. If I can't guarantee the type of life i desire for my kids I wouldn't bring them into this world.
Conditions changes… as you can see most of the women always take the responsibility regardless of their situation. The man chose not to help, not that he cannot.
The man's responses seemed well rehearsed to avoid financial responsibilities...judging by his appearance, I'm doubtful of his claims🙄
honestly
Leave people family matters
The man is looking so mean and wicked
You left all 3 children with her alone for years
No matter your claim you could have still been supporting them no matter how little biut you’re just wicked
Say what you know
The woman took their three children away from him and relocated them to the east.
Very irresponsible man. His manhood shud be cut off
If it's a course or spiritual forces that causes marriage to break after man and woman agreed to give birth to children due to love, ,, God please do something 🙏. Because the world is bleeding.
Let them go to government school if he can't afford private school
That's the problem with eastern people. They will never patronise government schools
This man is very funny. Because his business collapse doesn't mean he should neglect his responsibilities for his wife
The man no longer owe the woman any responsibility since they have gone their separate ways and are not interested in coming back together.
He only owes the Children of the union his responsibilities.
@@christiannnamdiepelle2666 Did he even take care of the children of the union ? that's why the woman is in Court. If his business is failing, those that mean the woman should be the only one catering for the man's responsibilities?
As soon as she mentioned cheating, thise two men at the front tho😂😂✌️
Like, not again 😂
The man was allowed to speak but the woman was constantly interrupted. Annoying much!
This woman looks very disappointed, like she was deceived, and u can tell the man is very good at his game of cover up. Smh…..
This wasn't a fair judgement at all. Too much burden left for the woman. Her income wasn't even put into consideration at all.
It is a fair judgement , u feminist are trying to find ways to exploit men..
@@barrypatrick3425 how is it fair? The woman is not even allow to express herself well
@@barrypatrick3425 you don’t even know the definition of feminist or feminism. I swear some of you are soooo ignorant, it’s embarrassing!
@@barrypatrick3425exploit? Do you know what means💀 isn’t he the father of the kids?
@@s.a3985 then I suggest a DNA test should be carried first, before he start paying for the child expenses
All these Lagos marriages e get as be shaa....How can you marry someone without knowing his/her village? Do you even know if he/she is a ghost? People dey take risk oo...
can a ghost get married?
@@iheomandiigbo7758 yes
@@joyewoma where?
@@iheomandiigbo7758 grown up man like u di ask if ghost di get married
Oga take care of your small pikins u dey have for this woman oo i said my own🙌🏾
The judge is very inconsiderate towards the woman
I agree 💯. All these silly talks is because it's Nigeria. Who will have these silly conversations with this man abroad.
Single mums really have it bad in Nigeria.
How is he suddenly earning 50k if he was a business man earlier 😅
God bless you Judge Funmi. May God continue to give you the wisdom of Solomon. I love the way you handle case. More grace your honour.
A whole churchman cheating and neglecting his wife chaiii! 🙆🏾♀️
But the money is very poor for the upkeep of the three children things are very hard now in the country
What do you now want him to do? Maybe you can offer him jobs
Husband in the courtroom with hat on
Why not
He’s a man
😂😂😂😂😂
How u sue for cheating😂😂😂😂 anyways oga,man up and start taking care of your kids
Thank you Judge for your good work
Business is affected and your stomach is big. Shame
Exactly...he looks well put together n well fed to be in such predicament...he made up those responses to avoid much financial responsibilities. I very much doubt his claims, sounded well rehearsed to me. My take💁♀️
😅😅
@ladytee don't be too sure.
Public service announcements!!! Men that neglect their children reaps 1 million percent of their negligence. Even if the child decides to forgive you, it is never the same and all support that the man receives from such child later in life is cursed.
Judge forget to say thank you to AKIN... pressure ti wa
That man does not look like someone earning 50k o, he might make up a fake statement of acc. He definitely earns more
But does the woman has the right to put the children in any school of her choice not minding the school amount of the fees ?
Hope this man didn't mention 25k per month under dures?
If he eats free food,
Free house,
Working from home without transportation,
Free clothing,
Free detergents,
Free hospital bills,
Free salons,
Free recharge card and phone,
Even free life, There is no way he can raise 120k in every 3 months o (if 50k is his salary true true). Emergency for the kids no dey this bill o
My take is
Look for an affordable school for your children or else, yahoo boys or armed robber will be plus one very soon.
God help men iut there
Kudos for the judgement
Proud of you ma❤
Good judges and best among so far
Wisdom of justice funmi is from above ❤❤❤
I don't understand how the man don't have to prove his salary. He can say anything and the court accepts it. How do we know what he can afford. There's no proof of income. No one knows what he really makes. Did the Judge address the domestic violence? smh
The Judge don't joke with domestic violence. U would have noticed this if u are conversant with her other videos. The prove of salary will definitely be looked into since the judge mentioned it
Again did she address the DM complain?
There was no need to delve into dv issue since they are already separated, and the woman's claim was negligence towards the welfare of the children
@@eminentandmodest You have to be living together to be physically abused? What nonsense. The Judge didn't even hear her side. Anyway that's the mindset of the judge, she never addresses DV issues.
If you notice the judge decided to overlook the issue of domestic violence partly because of the time of report and the technicalities of proving the extent of damage secondly due to the fact that the couple have decided to move on ...On the issue of income the man promised to provide his pay slip as evidence of actual income . I strongly believed that the judge tried to limit the damage
That's why we have condoms to avoid this kind of drama, nobody say's that you should not have sex.
Weldone ma'am
You're doing well
They both look responsible and beautiful together; and I’m sure the love was shacking themselves
This man is not sincere at all
There's a law that remove a man earnings to his wife and children?
Good a man have to take responsibility of his children, judge fumi i am not against your judgment, but you fully know that nothing is working in Nigeria so you can also use that power to speak out to the BAD governance in Nigeria, we need the support of the judiciary to make the system work in Nigeria
She didn't even address the domestic violence complaint.
There are public schools doing better than the private school, abeg cut your coat according to your size.
No, they won’t. Nigerians with the competition & show off mentality.
@@The_Cruise_Fam I swear 🤦
The man looks unhappy with life in general. He may not be wicked but it seems his finances are not at its best.
It is a difficult situation.
Marriage is complex and one can imagine the pain in their hearts.
The woman needs help to cope while the man should gear up and train his children to avoid unpalatable stories in the future
God bless you Judge fumi, u did the right thing..
This man will not meet up with all the responsibility given to him by the court considering what he said his salary is. He is supposed to be saving 40k monthly to be able to pay the children's school fees. He will be left with 10k for his transport to work and feeding. If he wants to sacrifice so much for his kids he will then give them 5k every month for feeding. He will definitely default.
Don't be fooled...they're mere excuses to avoid financial responsibilities, how come he hasn't been responsible for almost 2 years...besides he looks well fed n put together for someone earning 50k monthly🤷♀️
@@ladytee5509 Most at times men are the victims domestic violence but because they are not naturally the talking type you will hardly know. They manifest mostly when they are pushed to the wall and everybody will be shouting wicked man, beast etc. No man marries a woman he doesn't love but a woman can and love/hate later.
If a woman is abused she will discuss it everywhere; saloon, market, swimming pool, neighborhood, Church, shrine🙄 etc. And the society tend to support women than men. If a man is domestically abused he can't even tell his family or friends because he will be seen as less a man rather than that he needs help. So the best option for him is to run away from the woman before she kills him.
The man on the video seems to be a reserved person so he doesn't want to go into the detail of what transpired between them. He just want to settle it and move on. That is why he didn't calculate properly. Forget about appearance, it could be deceptive. He wouldn't throw away his fine old cloth to make the world believe things are so hard for him.
Men are mostly victims of abuse?? Can you please share the stats. You and I not know that the Nigerian society supports the man!
I love this Judge
We Africans have to stop having many children now. One child is minimum two should be maximum. Children suffer when parents separate. We know women always bear the brunt. Women should stop listening to people saying have more children. My husband told me right to my face that if I could have another child he will see im stupid and it was going to be my responsibility alone,Respect to the beautiful judge.
At the same time, some have this mentality of saying, "Na God dey give pikin". I agree with you 1-2 is enough. To avoid unnecessary problem/pressure.
So what if both two kids died after some years , what will you do , to start afresh right. Dey play
Ukhuluma kwabantu abaWrong lol! In some cultures ,parents see children as their "retirement package"
@chigbo peter oga must you reason like that?
@@kelechiokochi412 how do you want me to reason , are you God
Judge funmi didn’t handle this case as expected ooo
Thank God you mentioned judge funi, Our Honourable Judge name is FUNMI
@@akinremielizabeth7490 ok
The lord bless you 🙏 ma
Well, if a man earns 50k monthly and gives out 25k for feeding every month and has to pay 120k school fees every 3 months + hospital
He will die.. Cos expenditure is way more than what he earns..
Assuming the 50k is the truth though.
So the mother has been doing this exact same thing by herself for the last 2 years. Nobody thought it was too much for her. The dad should go and find more income…he can sell asu if he needs to.
That's the price for having kids...
@@highlyfavoured5121 Don't get me wrong, I am not in support of either the man or the woman. We do not know what led to the separation and abandonment. All I'm saying is that, if the man earns 50k for real, then this agreement is unrealistic and the man is merely agreeing because he is in court..
@@abbeybaruwa516 he is a man and should look for a way to boost his income to take care of the children he brought to the world. If he was responsible and supportive of the wife regarding the welfare of the children, they won't be in the court
@@abbeybaruwa516 do you think the man is single now .,, probably taking care of another woman with his 50k salary, and also kissing her Buttocks to keep her if he’s not married to her yet., this is absolute irresponsibility on the man.,,if a man is responsible that man will always be concerned about his children irrespective of the differences between him and the mother of the children. Truth be told.
What a shame and dis guy is a pastor?? 🧐 Heyyy. Wonders shall neva cease o. 🤦🏾♂️🙄
This woman was not properly attended to. I am seriously wondering why this session was handled poorly
This woman dey pay 40k for children school fees at d east😂
So she no see 5k,10k,15 or 20k schools since there is no money.
They didn’t allow the woman to explain at all. I felt bad for her because that man is not a good man
Watching from Cameroon ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I don't pray for anybody I know to marry this kind of selfish man. ' it will be burdensome ' who is supposed to carry the burden of your own children?
In as much as the man has no reason not to pay the children's fees, it's obvious the lady is lying about the amount for the fees...
She couldn't even come up with the name of the school at the snap of a finger...
The judge in her wisdom also sensed it and agreed the man should find out the fees and be paying...
Even if she was Lying, d judges judgement at d end balances each of themselves input. 120 from 2children fees isn't exuberant
@@DoyinAbiodun3 children
Women have to be very careful when going into inter tribal marriages! Values are very important!!!
That was sound judgement by judge fumi
You’re seperated and want to sue him for cheating? We need Moral, Academical and Constitutional orientations in that country, not all these religious and cultural foolishness that’s killing us all. More grace you Honor
My brother, I am surprised oooo. There is almost no marriage yet you are talking about cheating. Entitlement mentality. Tomorrow now, if another woman should come into the picture, you will start hearing husband snatcher
I think cheating (the way we think of it) is usually about one person stepping out of the relationship. In this context, I think cheating is about her loss of income and time wasted on the marriage.
@@theconciousentreprenure Time wasted on marriage? What about his time too? Abeg dont bring this western nonsense here. Yes, she is disadvantaged now but she got her Children and she would be better off in the future.
@@ay1ism are children now trophies or settlement "objects"?
We don't know much of what went down in that home.
The Lord bless Judge Funmi Asaolu
She has a attitude today
Good job
I love Judge Fumi, she is focused on the Children’s welfare ❤
Why do so many pay for school? Isn’t school free? It should be so that every child has an education.
Is it a must that one children should to school that can drained your pocket? If you divide your salary by two for only the upkeep of your children, what about the other expenses such as rent, transportation, school fees and unforeseeable situtions?
Man must always die first in a relationship.
End.
All this our northern men tah
Na wa for them
the children should be enrolled in a government school cut down some financial burden on both the man/woman side
Exactly. Even if it’s for the main time
Theywifes people might be rich
The judgement wasn't fair to the woman.
Na so so igbos dey come this show now. Nonsense! Tomorrow, they will say it was Peter Obi who started the program in Lagos, and it was Obi who appointed Judge Funmi. Lets kuku call the program Igbokwenu Court
No need for tribalism here
@Debbie Balogun It is my opinion, not yours.
God is love ❤
@@David-el6hh hatred for igbos and love for Nigerians
@Victor ezeagu Go to the Anambra court Peter Obi built. You are choking us in Lagos.
God help you ma💜
I know that guy at the back of the lady he is so regular in justice court
Same reasons, I stopped watching this program for quit sometimes… judge Funmi, pls let the woman’s speak for God’s sake. She’s not even asking for too much, not asking for rent just upkeep and school fees for the kids the unserious man brought to the world.
The man should be made to pay up to 100k for three kids monthly. A man that doesn’t know where his kids live and which school they attend but quick to say he wants to have one… what a show of shame.
Don’t bring kids to this world if you ain’t going to care for them. And ladies, pls love is not about facial looks or love making, look for a man that would care, listen and express himself through dialogue and not violence to you.
Someone said the woman has been taking care of the kids for 2 years.. I laugh😃..
Was it stated that the man had not been taking care of his family before the separation??
Truth be told, the Law is way too harsh on the male folk. If the man is expected to pay the bills, the woman should take a share of the bills too, Atleast 70:30. As they both made the kids.
That to me is fairness, If we cannot afford private schools, then the kids should attend government schools. Afterall, most of us here are products of government schools and we didn't die.
This part of the world should normalise adequately caring for their own kids, giving them the best of welfare. Not just fantasise the the thoughts of being parents.
I pray one day that men will be able to carry, give birth and deal with the aftermath… THEN perhaps you lot will understand how asinine it is to require women to pay. A man should prepare himself to fund the entire family, if he wants a legacy! For the simple fact that you are not the vessel in which they children come thru, means your responsibility and focus should be protecting and providing. The issue is many males grow complacent and don’t want to expand their earnings, or at least ensure that they have earnings that is sufficient for the number of children they want to have. When a woman has children she is in a PHYSICALLY And mentally weaker state! It should be your honor as a man to provide for your counterpart when she is in such a fragile state. Smh.
Women dey suffer sha. It is well
Someone whose salary is 50k should put his children in school that pays 7-8k not 40k,there is no way he will meet up with that obligation
#JUDGEFUNMIASAOLU, God bless you always and anything you lay your hand 🖐️ on we be prosper, because I can see in so many cases you don't normally take side, and I also like this your old school hair style na confirm old school 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤
From watching this I have observed that this judge does not care about DV
She’s always harsh on the women like it’s their fault
In this case she did not care at all
She was still nasty to the woman
It’s a shame but that’s Africa
Your honor, I’m still confused about the responsibilities sharing ratio of both parents?🤔I believed both parents have to share the responsibility equally except the husband is making more than the wife and a ration of 63/35 would be d considerable. But most Nigerian women were brought-up like a slave especially going into marriage, to obey their husbands like they’re going to another training center.
Is he sharing responsibility of cleaning the house, bathing the kids, cooking for them, doing school runs, changing their diaper , washing their clothes, doing home working, picking up after them ?
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 madam, who cares? Nobody asked no one not to use their senses going into relationships instead of asking God for everything. Is it religion and cultural idiocies that’s facing the consequences now? Eze 18:2. Every relationships needs to agreed on how to build their intended homes before having kids, and women should stop being raised like a slaves instead of partner with equal rights in d relationships
"i have neva being there" so where e go marry the lady?
Jesus! I knw this couple. 😪
I don't think dat dis school fee's is true,but try to be giving dem enough money pls.
I don't like the up keep he proposed for the three children things are expensive
Honestly, it's too poor
Where is he going to get they money please
@@victorezeagu1893
He said he collect 50k a month how can he share it equal
He is supposed to give them 35 or 30 cos he s alone and they 3
So he should tell the court an unrealistic amount? You can't give what you don't have!
the woman want to talk......but judge funmi didn allow her to pour out her mind
if the woman says she doesn't need the man's money to look after the children, does that free the man legally of his responsibility?
immediately you separated and you eat?oga you're wucked
This is the primary problem with Nigerian Everything about this case was about money. No detailed judgment on access to the kids like equal time or kids visiting. What if the children are not his? Will the court provide opportunity costs?
Can someone confirm which sign language this is? Is it ASL, BSL or NSL?
What's an average Nigerian salary for a 4 member family, and how much should that family be able to make to to live comfortably?
A man with a wife and 3 kids should earn nothing less than 300k per month if they want to live comfortably
@Adeyemi Adeleye thanks for the info.. just trying to understand, really appreciate🙏🏾
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The judgement is not fair to that woman. Not given plaintiff enough time to explain herself was not good. The defendant was able to explain himself and the judgment favors him. The defendant is not responsible
Am sure if you hear the whole story you will marvel at the woman's attitude,for 2years you have denied the man of seeing the children.
What woman put another man's picture in her DP and expect the man to be happy.
Churchman's father send money monthly to the wife.
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If he earns N50k and he is handing over N25k for the kids is it sustainable to live in the remaining N25k?
This is not an argument that he should not be supporting them, but more how difficult things are in Nigeria for those on low wages and that is before the upcoming increase in prices due to the removal of fuel subsidy.
The woman is unhappy
My Judge some wife cause mental pain to some good men