How often Do Japanese Girls Cheat? - Japanese interview
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Bro was more confused by their answers than us 😂😂
I would never be able to date a girl who thinks it's not cheating if there's no feelings involved. That's fucking crazy lol.
japanese girls are off the list then lol
It's a CULTURAL THING. In Japan is perfectly *NORMAL* to do it. They *BOTH* do it. You don't know after marriage, and 1 or 2 kids, is GOODBYE FOREVER TO SEX as a couple! Don't believe me? Do the research.
I would 100% be able to date a girl like that
you have to have an open mind. While I agree with you, I also understand what these females are saying too as they're viewing it as a transaction, thus not as bad as someone who is emotionally connected to a person, say a coworker. It all boils down to the definition of cheating and to them, it's an emotional connection...not just physical (as in a cash transaction)
@@Fernando-wz6no may i ask why you say "GOODBYE FOREVER TO SEX" ??? what are the reasons ? the wife ?
They are messed up. They dont consider it cheating but actually will break up with their bf or divorce. Meaning they dont consider it cheating if they are the one doing it. You can see in their hesitation and body language on every answer.
At least some are honest.
eight reasons why japanese people don't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing you, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many sexual partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
eight reasons why japanese people doesn't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make zero effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's pathetic)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing us, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a selfish need to have many partners .
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
I appreciate Japan for what it naturally is, but I'm tired of these naive people who talk about its inhabitants as if they are absolute angels. I once met an arrogant Japanese girl who asked me to stop watching these videos, but I go wherever I want. she told me that reading my negative comments saddened her but I was telling the truth about her culture. what to do if you speak their language badly? she refused to admit that her compatriots have many cultural faults! These people have an ego and hypocrisy problem.
Girls don’t pay for sexxx
Good for you for not asking the girls if they ever cheated, but instead, if they have friends who have cheated. Very smart way to get a good sense of how pervasive cheating is among Japanese women since asking directly would give them an incentive to lie
good reason to not date in japan. japanese girls have to be avoided , they are toxic people. most western (maybe koreans and chinese too) and filippinos girls are less cheating.
my friend wanted to marry a japanese woman and found out she was cheating. The delusional reality that simps believe japanese or asian women are more loyal just because they
Japanese women always cheat, i think more than their men.
If you don't consider having sex with someone else as cheating, just because there are no feelings involved, then the chances are that you are fine with having sex behind your boyfriend's/husband's back, as long as no feelings are involved. I don't know... It came over to me that japanese women don't care about their men, their men are just providers in their perspective.
Only because japaneses have different culture and thus different view about sex, it doesn't mean they don't care. Try to be open minded when you see/read about different cultures.
@@frafra40 Japanese women are not different than any other women. In general,women think that emotional cheating (having feeleings for other person) is worst than physical cheating (having sex with other person).
Usually men just want to have sex with women. But when men are in love, they want something more, they want to live with them. That's why I think japanese women only care about the men's resources. Because while it is just about sex, their men are not going to leave them for other women. But as soon the guy falls in love with other woman, he becomes way more prone to leave his wife.
Therefore, it comes over to me that japanese women consider japanese men only as providers. Other than that, these guys don't have value. They are allowed to have sex with prostitutes, as long as they continue to provide, that's fine to women.
@@frafra40 idk about that man. Their culture is obviously something that’s killing their self worth and well being on the inside. It’s like their just accepting these things hopelessly like “it is what it is mindset” the “shoganai” I’m pretty sure no one wants to be lied to or cheated on but they just accept it in a sad way.
He and other Japanese CZcamsrs ask 風俗は浮気ですか？ / Is Fuuzoku uwaki？.
Fuuzoku is the closest word from prostitution and uwaki is the closest word from cheating but not exactly same.
If I were asked 風俗は浮気ですか？, I’d probably say “No”.
If I were asked 〝Do you see prostitution as cheating？〟I’d definitely say “Yes”
If I were asked 〝Do you think it’s unforgivable that a person who has a partner hires a prostitute？〟 in either language, I’d definitely say “Yes” .
However, as an another parson says, there seem to be some people who don’t care that their partner hire prostitute. I know ONE that kind of Japanese woman and she loves her boyfriend very very much. It doesn’t cultural or national thing but personal thing.
Though almost all Japanese people including me consider cheating including hiring prostitution while having a partnar unforgivable, having prejudice on different race / country more unforgivable(Your logic is definitely wrong. There are many people who have cheated many times but don’t forgive their partner’s cheating. There must be vise versa).
In this world, there must be many women who work as prostitute for their family. You shouldn’t assume how they love their partner/family based on how you love.
I think cheating just means something different in Japan to begin with. In the west we seem overly concerned with the physical act of cheating and less so with the emotional side. In Japan however it seems to be the opposite, what might make more sense if you think about it. Since if you have sex with a prostitute purely out of lust, the chance that you will leave your partner is probably way lower than if you fall in love with someone because you have been secretly engaging in deep conversations with someone.
its scary that they look innocence and at the same way cheat and recognized prostitution is considered ok.
If a woman says it's fine to go to a brothel then I'm assuming that her doing a one night stand doesn't count as cheating too. Ask about one night stands next. If it's normal to do or if many girls do it. Also ask them if they think body count matters.
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Some women will say it's ok if it was just for sex and not love. But that seems like more a mental health issue or lack of confidence. Because they want a partner. I feel as the economy has become worse that this thinking has increased. Maybe 15-20 years ago less people would have these kinds of opinions.
@@blackknight597 I think it's more of a distorted sense of values from a global perspective. They seperate sex love and marriage. They are an openly sexual country because of the lack of religion.
My theory is when they're young they just have sex with a bunch of guys they find physically attractive while falling in love with guys who are nice to them. And end up marrying a financially stable ugly guy.
After getting married they probably feel less sexually and emotionally satisfied because they're used to more attractive men. so they end up cheating.
It's the same 30-40 years ago since the bubble period. Japanese women are just good at hiding it.
@@blackknight597Why is it a mental health issue? What makes your judgement and values the standard by which others should be judged?
You obviously missed the point. Some Japanese women don't see the possibility of men 'cheating' when using a brothel since it's paying for an act of service, hence there are no feelings/ emotions involved, just urges which are gone after.
Thank you for your efforts to make this video. I really liked it and gain some new information about one of the cultures in Japan. I also learned some Japanese words. So thank you for that as well. Keep up the great work!
This channel is so interesting. Found it by accident but subscribed. Keep up the good work
This was really interesting for me when i lived in japan.. the big separation of feelings and sex. Almost all people i met considered sex more like a natural need like eating and separated it completely from feelings. Sadly, this is absolutely nothing for me.
they are very progressive it seems like and not hung up on our outdated Western ideas. I am more curious about their ancient tradition of bukkake. Do the majority of Japanese women enjoy it?
@@martinvanburen4578 Dude, thats not an ancient tradition, and im fairly certain those who enjoy it are in the minority.
@@martinvanburen4578 yes especially if it involves multiple foreign men
@@martinvanburen4578 They aren't "progressive" at all, this way of thinking is thousands of years older than Western Romanticism.
yeah they progress themselves to negative birht rate@@martinvanburen4578
So basically, for Japanese women, feelings and sex have a different place in their hearts when they are in a relationship. unlike women from other countries who combine both.
I didn't know there was such a thing in the world, I can't have a relationship like that.
There is a reason! Women are emotional invested into men that's why they have sex with them unless they work for sex. Unlike Men we can have sex with no emotions. Men and women are wired differently.
We have to understand that they’re a different culture then most of us (we have to be very open about it), but it is indeed kind of sad and disappointing. They’re literally justifying their partners actions and basically saying “yeah go do that, it’s fine” so it invites them to go around paying any prostitute they find and sexually have a thing for, but they’re justified because they’re paying them and “don’t have any feelings” for them. They don’t even know if he does have feelings for her (prostitute) and indirectly, this tells us that if he can do it, then I can do it as well, cause things in an relationship are suppose to go both ways, so they’ll likely go do it or think about it one day as well. It’s pretty sad honestly, but we gotta respect it I guess .
It's not a separation that is occurring naturally in their heads. Japan is still exiting their misogynistic roots and this is a cultural phenomenon that has stuck around. The issue is that Japanese people do not publicly deviate from societal norms. Notice how the women say its not cheating but they don't like it? Because its human nature for people to be possessive of their partners and the average person is not able to separate the idea of sex and feelings. Some of them are almost confused entirely about the concept and contradict themselves in their statements. Men are far hornier than women and this gives them a free pass to cheat on their partners and a way to gaslight them into thinking its ok. When the men say cheating or prostitution is fine, they mean for themselves, not for their girlfriends.
Why are u lumping all the Japanese women together, it is clear in the interview that every one of them had different opinions when it comes to cheating. It depends on the individual, I would say Japanese culture doesn't have a proper definition of cheating. So, opinions on cheating would defer from one individual to another in Japan
eight reasons why japanese people doesn't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing us, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
Thank you for these videos. As an American Male, from NYC, who has dated a couple of Asian women, your videos (especially with the questions that you ask women from Japan), are very enlightening.
Asian women do not equivalent to Japanese women, coz they have different values. And Japanese women who where born in US is culturally different too. Just telling you ahead of time to ensure that you don't make any wrong judgment base on this video (For example, when you say:" Hey honey, I just had sex with a whore, I paid for it, no feelings involved. Nothing to worry about." And then you appear on the trending news the next day.
youre a great interviewer! i can appreciate you not putting words in their mouth and letting them answer even though the answer was mostly the same. Keep it up love your content!
when i watched your first video you only had 100 subscribers but in a month, you've gained 6000 subscribers. good to see you gaining more viewers! i think the video on body count really helped your channel grow
oh right, that was the guy who recently put out that video. i remember seeing it and thinking finally someone had the guts to make a video about it straight up. at the same time, this guy isn't doing anything too original. he's pretty much a carbon copy of takashii from japan at the moment.
I wonder why people are so obsessed with Japanese street interviews.
eight reasons why japanese people doesn't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing us, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
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I have seen so many videos on this topic that I'm not even phased anymore
it's crazy how cultures develop our mentality about certain things. i could never see my partner having sexual activity with other people and not call it cheating as long as they are paying 😮
My japanese gf told me the same its not cheating ,so i went to get a massage nd when she got to know i visited ,we had huge fight she had knife crying yelling police were called on .so dont beleive in what they say .by the way am still with her after all that shit .
That was surprising. It's the true feelings and tatemae that are unique to Japanese people.
Facts
Japanese, esp. in Tokyo, view sex as something adults do to relax
That's not good ? I'm American and this Japanese woman have been on and off friendship , but I think she want's more ? but she from Nagoya lives in Tokyo
Are you Japanese❓
@@user-ix5yj9ip9vwhat did she ask for (more)?
@@nav4688 no but I'm sure she wants to change our relationship , cause our conversations get more personal
A Japanese actress cheated on her husband and he's the one who apologised to the public, is Japan okay
Obviously they are not ok. Judging from how they experiences downfall both economically and culturally.
@@user-op3tg9vg5u I understand the economic downfall but I'm not so sure about the cultural one
I'm surprised about the brothel part, in fact one of my childhood friend a Chinese guy, got divorced from his wife two years ago just because his wife found out that he went to the brothel behind her back, they live in Australia btw. Apparently, she went on a bit of revenge rampage and slept with a few oversea Chinese students as a payback.
I completely understand where they are coming from to say it's not cheating. There's no feelings involved it's just a service. But it's still reflects poorly on him
Can you ask japanese men too if they think if it´s cheating if their girlfriends pay to have sex?
Yes, we definitely need to see their point of view about this topic, 😂😂
Probably the same POV. Morals and ethics are thrown out of the window in big cities in Japan when it comes to prostitution/cheating
Interesting responses. I think perhaps some girls that don't particularly like sex would be okay with it as that means they don't have to endure doing it with their partner. But yes, it is definitely a harder thing to understand as an outsider. I imagine since cheating is "accepted" in Japan, some of the girls will try not to seem too strongly against it because it is an "accepted norm" even if they wouldn't allow it. I will say though that in America at least, it's not "well-known" but there are definitely a lot of married men that go to チャイエス type places because their wives stop wanting to have sex. Not saying it's okay lol because I also think that's weird to be generous...but it's not talked about because people think most 風俗 you spot in America is forced prostitution, so it's even more taboo. Whereas in Japan デリヘルやピンさロやメンエス are legal and all over Tokyo lol. That's before you even get into soaps.
It's not a hard thing to understand at all this was a very normal phenomenon in the west before as well. Many successful and hardworking men had mistresses for this exact reason.
Seems as though females in Japan don't care if you get with a prostitute because as a whole, they don't see them as human.
There is not such a person that does not like sex. If she does not like sex it is because you can't give it to her properly.
eight reasons why japanese people don't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing you, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many sexual partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
eight reasons why japanese people doesn't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing us, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
So they are perfectly fine when their bf invites a prostitute over their house and just fk?? Because there’s no emotional attachment? This is just sad.
Which girls said perfectly fine❓
Though I don’t forgive if my boyfriend hired a prostitute and I know only one Japanese woman who says who could forgive it, I don’t know any Japanese woman who is perfectly fine with it.
But, once I talked about that woman, people from overseas think that all Japanese women don’t care about it.
It would be interesting to hear whether the women you interview think going to "host" clubs is cheating. That's now a significant social problem here in Japan. Many Japanese women have been driven to prostitution to pay the enormous and often fraudulent bills they run up at such clubs. It's pathetic that so many young Japanese woman are so lonesome that they feel compelled to go to such clubs for male companionship. And the men that work at those clubs are often very strange-looking dudes, from what I've seen (scrawny, with lots of makeup and ridiculous hair).
Because of these videos I have had conversations with my Japanese boyfriend laying out my expectations 😂
That’s the reason why my friend dumped his ex-girlfriend.
When she asked him not to hire prostitute, he was very shocked. He couldn’t say anything then and asked our opinion. We told him to ask her why she said so.
Later, he got mad to hear that she thought that most Japanese people didn’t see prostitution as a cheating and that he might hire prostitute.
He is usually very calm but was very emotional because he was mad at that she believed what internet says more than him.
@@noripee8278Your friend broke up with her for that? Instead of reassuring or explaining to her that maybe not all Japanese people view things that way?
@@Ram315 He had lived in America and his ex-American girl friend had cheated on him. He had said to her how that American girl hurt him…and she asked him not to hire prostitute because he was Japanese！ That’s super rude！
Look at the comment posted after yours. Very rude and disgusting.
An American girl cheated on him. Though I used to live in America too, I’ve spent most of my life in Japan. While a few Japanese guys who had partner then have asked me to sleep with me, nearly 20 Western guys who had wife or girlfriend have asked me to do so.
But we don’t think that cheating is normalized in the West. But many Westerners think it is here. I think those people want to think so.
Both of us felt that Westerners(especially Americans) are very careful not to be considered racist or sexist by Black people or White women but they easily show their latent sense of discrimination against Asians.
We don’t forgive that.
that's not true at all and a bad way to think.@@jm1835
eight reasons why japanese people don't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing you, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many sexual partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
the number of persons you interviewed was good. I would like you to ask more questions, should your interview partners be okay with that. i ask so because that way we can understand their reasoning or opinion even better.
Its so crazy how that idea is so normalized, even in america we believe its cheating, where relationships are less strict for some.
Context: When couples in Japan get married and have children, their sexlife is basically over, women's priority are their child only and the house, men spend most of their day working, and they usually go to prostitutes to satisfy their needs, women are usually aware of this
Cheating is considered a breach of the marital commitment when it involves breaking the promise of faithfulness and loyalty expressed . The vow to "forsake all others" and remain faithful to one's partner is fundamental . Therefore, engaging in any form of emotional or physical infidelity, going against the commitment to exclusivity and fidelity, would typically be seen as a violation of those vows. The interpretation of what constitutes cheating may vary between individuals and cultures, but it generally involves betraying the trust and commitment made to one's spouse.
Can't get past the judeo-xtian idea of a spouse as chattel, huh?
There is no same cultural norm for "breaking the promise of faithfulness and loyalty expressed" in Japan because you don't make such vows in any legal or socio-cultural form. You don't get married at a wedding. That's just a *format* for a party to celebrate the *actual* marriage: completing a form at the local town office and paying the 1500 yen fee to register as married and swapping names across family registers.
@@iatsd Just say your wife has a boyfriend
@@omnacky bet that took you hours to think up, huh?
Those are Christian vows by the way.
I actually agree with the girls that said prostitution does not count as cheating, but of course, that doesn't mean you have to tolerate it. As some of the girls clearly said, they wouldn't be OK with it and possibly even break up.
Some people seem to get the wrong idea from such answers. I doubt Japanese women would stay with a guy who likes to go to the brothel.
That's right
A lot do. It varies, obviously, but it is not uncommon at all.
At one place I worked, both the husband and wife that owned the business had lovers that they kept at apartments in town and would visit 1-2 times a week. They were happily married to each other, with 3 kids. They *stayed* happily married, despite knowing full well about each others partners, *because* they both made sure they played the game the way Japanese society says they should.
eight reasons why japanese people don't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing you, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many sexual partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
eight reasons why japanese people doesn't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing us, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
eight reasons why japanese people doesn't make good friends at all, why none/few of them are trustworthy in fact:
firstly, they make no effort to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak Japanese, they make fun of our accents and they don't forgive bad pronunciations
Second, they refuse to show their feelings, even if we are polite, kind and respectful. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle for some reason (actually it's only when they're drunk, it's shameful)
third, they like to criticize others behind their backs. they judge you without knowing us, they don't give us a chance. they don't tell about our mistakes, how can we improve.
fourth, they feel a non-human need to have many partners for selfish reasons.
Fifth, they treat foreigners like walking dictionaries/wallets
sixth, even though they have many cultural flaws and assume bad things about foreigners, they still fear being criticized by them for some reason, while we do it for a good reason.
Seventh, they easily judge our appearance while it's not our fault we are built like that "buuuuh taller or older foreigners = bad people"
eigth , they refuse to meet people online. and they refuse to invite people into their homes
I love Japan, for what it has naturally, but I don't understand why its people are so well regarded around the world. don't bother me with disingenuous comments like "nyeeeeeh there are people like them all over the world"
The girls in the green and red made me disappointed and hopeful at the same time. Is it yes that they do cheat? And yet they still think it’s wrong to cheat? That’s so backwards. Unless that’s a translation error… but yeah
I dunno why they don’t think prostitution is not cheating just because of money. That’s just odd
I think another cool question to ask girls next time. What do they look for in a relationship? And if they say exclusivity. Then ask again if it’s ok if their mate went out to a prostitute would they cut it off? Cause that would mean that all that exclusivity is out the window.
Do they even value a mutually exclusive relationship?
If they are ok with their partner going out to a prostitute then should just make it an open relationship if that’s the case
At one place I worked, both the husband and wife that owned the business had lovers that they kept at apartments in town and would visit 1-2 times a week. They were happily married to each other, with 3 kids. They *stayed* happily married, despite knowing full well about each others partners, *because* they both made sure they played the game the way Japanese society says they should. Worked perfectly fine for them.
Their marriage will not last
@@Water-Earth-Fire-Air They'd been married 23 years & had three kids when I met them. Why would it not last? They were playing by all the Japanese social rules.
Polygamy is okay. What's important is consent and trust. That situation is different from the situations they're talking about here.
good reason to not date in japan. japanese girls have to be avoided , they are toxic people. most western (maybe koreans and chinese too) and filippinos girls are less cheating.
Great video! Very enlightening. I had no idea Japanese women were so understanding about men cheating on them. Even with a prostitute it is still cheating. I am from the United States and I dated a Japanese woman for two years. I had no idea they had this sentiment about prostitutes. 😂
pahahaha i hope you are not seeing it as a missed opportunity
Well it depends whether the Japanese woman was born in Japan or US. Coz its the social culture, and not the race that defines their perspectives in things.
Intention behind what are you dojng matters more than feeling. It's like saying oh i decied to leave the baby in the middle of the road but there was no feelings behind. There are definitely feelings behind everything but what matters is Intention. Nonmatter what you say if there is feelings or not your Intention says a lot about yourself.
good luck with your work
You should do the body count video again 👍
4:15 this shit is funny as hell lmao
Could you do the same but ask guys if they themselves think going to a brothel as a guy would be cheating.
U guys are crazy and i love it😂, how do u not consider that as a cheating 😭😭😭, i don't get it and i will never agree, but that's why i love your cultural so much because u guys are built different ong
I have a feeling alot of these girls say that its not cheating because they themself have worked as a prostitute at some point in their life. Apparently its popular in japan
True that, 300k P in Japan so 1 out of 20 girls in japan work or had worked as P .
what if a man went to a brothel because he was afraid if he did what he wanted to his current gf she might feel he is disrespecting her and end the relationship, since most don't actually openly say what they want sexually, out of fear,
If you find out you're being cheated on, and fidelity is a non-negotiable virtue for you, save yourself the trouble and just leave. Don't fight them, don't let them explain; assume and accept that it's just who they are if it's a repeated offense. If it is their first time, that is who they will be from now on. Very few outliers get past their cheating habits, so don't compromise your non-negotiables for something less unless you have a genuinely indisputable valid reason to stay together.
Someone who doesn't want to cheat will not put themselves in situations that make it easier for them to get tempted. Infidelity is seldom accidental, and those instances that do occur are likely related to assaults and abuse.
For those who cheated and are actually remorseful, and are doing their best to stay faithful with either their new partner or the same partner that forgave them, keep it up! Don't do it anymore please! It hurts to be betrayed.
I like because u asked many people most of vdo people only asked 3 or 4 people by the way i subscribed your channel
its crazy that these girls agree with TOP G
Bro do more videos on this topic
its really a profession in japan. and the "service" cost alot.
NOW, that's what we call culture shock lmaoo
Yoyo great work, shut out to you man. PS. They will never accept if they had cheated.
For me it would be absolutely unacceptable if my bf had sex with a prostitute. Immediate break-up. I'm in Australia so i reckon i have a pretty western view on the subject tho - to me it's unfathomable that people would tolerate that sort of behaviour from their partner.
as an australian man i just had a japanese girl give me her number in NSW, I text her and her bf angry texts me about some made up story where i forced her to give me her number lol. They are fucked
The lady on the left around 4 minutes is gorgeous 😍😍
"If there's no emotion then is not cheating". That's such robotic answer. No wonder they are slowly disappearing (decreasing birth rate).
This is WILD information. I am the perplexed foreigner you speak of.
As long as money is paid 😂
my ideal society
I'm so curious about the hair touching. Do Japanese women/men not want their partners to touch their hair? What's the reasoning behind it?
1:03 because she sees it as a business transaction with no emotional investment. but with a co worker and no payment its obvious theres an attraction there.
Cheating is cheating whether there is money involved or not . Im amazed that some Japanese women think this is ok behaviour, just wow i am shocked
What do you they mean by no feelings behind. So are they saying if they sleep with someone else that there is no feelings behind. The person literally feels like sleeping with someone else. That is a total disrespect to the relationship.
The thinking process is wild in Japan...😐
This interview is kinda depressing. Why would you stick to someone who has no respect for you and others ? Like level up your standards please💀
Why are they so sure there is no feelings involved with a prostitute? Especially if the person has a good time with them leading to more sessions with the same person. It just seems like flawed thinking to me.
from greatest warrior nation in world to this, just imagine their ancestors, in my opinion they do not think for themself its like when you ask women if men are needed in USA and they say no. Just repeating what everyone says.
Liberalism in a nutshell.
Once and done for me . I won’t be playing in someone else’s dump zone
So what if they sleep with a coworker that they have absolutely no feelings for? That is still not cheating in their way of thinking right?
This will have nothing to do with the topic but..... The girl that answers at 1:18 is freaking gorgeous !!! and I fully agree with her responses.
I love Japanese women and their understanding that men sometimes need new poon and that banging a prostitute doesn’t mean you’re not in love with your girlfriend anymore.
The women also cheat. Japanese housewives are known to visit host bars to have s3x with male gigolos, while their husbands go to 'soap houses' and prostitutes.
I would not be able to have a girlfriend that thought it was okay for me to cheat on her with a prostitution so long as there are no supposed feelings. I would consider her to be trashy, uncaring, unloving, low intelligence, low moral standards, nihilistic, misandrist and misogynist. A couple should dedicate their entire sexual needs and love only to each other.
Im fascinated they this focus on emotions more than the act of sex. In the West, Latin america etc I think nearly 100% consider it cheating. Incredible cultural difference
After reading the comments my conclusion is
Not my problem
And in case you're wondering why. It's because i don't care about dating in general it's kinda emotionally taxing for me. If someone does confess im more likely to say sorry I see you more as a friend
The woman in red clothes said wise words!
What wrong these women who said that they man having sex with another person is not cheating. Yes it is even if u give him permission. Ur just telling him it’s ok to do it openly in ur face. If u or the person ur in a relationship with go out of the relationship with another person it’s cheating. It doesn’t matter that she is a prostitute
when he's Interracting in English:😃
when he's Interracting in Japanese :😏
City life sounds like 💩 life if you looking for someone that wants Marriage. Good video 日本よよーさん. I did want to add this. Some people do have their own definition of cheating in my view if you are talking to another person if you are in a established boyfriend & girlfriend relationship and your dating or talking to someone else behind close doors that is 100% Cheating in my view.
Lmao countryside girls are more messed up in Japan. For one, Japan is not a religious country.
I Like Those Girls In The Black Leather Jackets!
Pervy Sage would love meeting these women 😂😂😂
This is so wrong on so many levels. If money is the only barrier separating cheating vs no cheating then the following holds true for example if I killed someone because I was paid to do it vs I killed someone because I wanted to holds a difference in punishment. WRONG if you were tried in a court in Japan you would receive the same punishment in both cases. I understand its an extreme example but it proves the point that there is no difference. If these women and men want to cope by making an expectation then fine, they can live however they want. It's just not healthy though and will lead to bigger problems down the road. I hope this mindset changes
The moment passport bros changed their destination
its kinda stupid to think that a guy who realy loves you cheates on you just bc of his desires
the idea behind cheating is deeper than a sexual desires
cheating represent that there's no true connection
think about it
It more shows the lack of empathy. As in, doing something for instant gratification, that you know will hurt the person you love. But you care more about your own desires than hurting the person you love. That is the sign of a psychopath/narcissist/sociopath.
they say they don't mind now.... watch the claws magically appear when i happens to them.... 😄
i think you are absolutely right. I strongly believe that you cant take Japanese for what they say and said, coz they are not being honest about how they really feel and their thoughts. Cheating husbands will definitely face horrorible consequences when it did happen to them.
@@user-op3tg9vg5u look at it this way, if having many wives or husbands (for various reasons like variety...), work in a family situation, it would be much more common than a tiny minority trying to convince the vast majority that that is the way to go, right? in the case of "service providers", let's face it, no matter how good looking your wife is, there is always somebody younger, prettier, sexier and willing to do anything for a fee... furthermore, even if you were able to have wagyu any which way every dinner, i have yet to meet a person that consumes it every meal with enthusiam after a year.... let alone 20.... believe me, buddy... i have done it for 25 and it takes discipline....
so, was i ever tempted to have fish occasionally? of course! but you have to ask yourself: is it worth the risk to potentially jeopardize your entire life and family just for a few thrills? nothing is worth the stampeding wagyu and subsequent grief of a broken family. besides, you can always try different things with the wagyu....
cheating happens because the relationship never transcended to the mental level. it is a cold hard fact that eating wagyu everyday is going to be tedious at best for both parties.... but a committment to intertwine and pool your resources was made.... for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part... make it happy no matter what.... there is no try...
Just criminalize adultery (sex outside mariage) modify constitution and denounce/modify some international treaty to avoid the law getting striked down and problem solved.
great job, you chose beautiful girls to interview, maybe you can do some interview with night life girls, that would be interesting to watch, curious with how they are thinking, thanks for your hard work.
I'm surprised he didn't mention sefure. *sefure means sex friend*
All the time.
Way more savage than American women.
I’ve lived in both countries and seen firsthand how Japanese girls are.
I find it really interesting that how the japanese are thought of being way more regimented, repressed, etc. , Yet the comments show that Americans at least the majority of those who commented, are way more uptight, narrow minded, narcasistic/self centered, insecure.
the first girl on the left and the girl on the left at 3:13 are so cute WOW
Different cultures, different POVs... But big city girls are always more openminded. Most Asian countries have an open rule about this... Wait, what .. European too. Its just how its stated.
Also, you only see what the vlogger wants you to. If its a conservative vlogger you would here conservative answers. We get the answers we are looking for.
If I date a Japanese girl I would ask her to explain what she counts as cheating. If I feel comfortable with her response then we're good or I will ask her to adjust some things
Yea she wouldnt break up with me sugoi!~•
good reason to not go in japan.
Im trying to understand there logic of being ok with their boyfriend/husband cheating , because to me if you are in a monogamous relationship you are not only emotionally invested in the person your with but sexually also , so when you stray away to go and have sex with someone else its cheating because your having sex with someone that isnt your partner regardless if theres money exchanging hands or no money
Now if there was a conversation like ( hey i want to be in a open relationship ) if she agrees to that then i could understand that they would be ok with their man messing around with other women , but if there wasnt its cheating then
I could be wrong but i wonder if they only view men as providers nothing more than just that so its ok for there man to cheat with another women , or maybe they dont want to have sex as often with their man so its ok for him to get it from someone else.........i could just imagine , ( girlfriend -hey where are you going ) (boyfriend-im going to see someone to have sex with) (girlfriend-ok have fun , once your done dont forget to buy some groceries on your way back home )
I think it's just the normal nature of women and men. Both contribute their part.
This is why Japanese women go crazy over Kdramas. Deep down, they all want a man that will be loyal and only love them. Japan's patriarchal society has made it acceptable for their women to feel like they aren't deserving of true love. That's sad.
I mean if you equate true love with sex then it would appear that way but have you considered that they don’t?
These are grown women. They are free to make the decisions to better their lives but they choose to remain in those types of relationships because it’s part of the culture they are in. 😅
“Deep down, they all want a man that will be loyal and only love them”…all of the women interviewed have communicated they are literally ok with cheating in some shape or form and none of the women showed any remorse or body language that conflicted with the very statements they gave. 🤔
Start having adults being accountable for the decisions they make. Blaming someone or something else just shows a lack of maturity on your end.
Rip japan
Moving to Japan
Ive seen a few of these videos where women seem to not consider prostitution as cheating and the men in the comment sections being disturbed by this because they fear the women will also do the same. Well, in general women are more concerned about emotional betrayal than sexual. Since men don’t connect with sex in the same way women do(emotionally) many women won’t care if he has sex outside of the relationship as long as he’s providing for the family and coming home at night. 😂
Not that i want to be involved, but when they say brothel is not cheating, does that mean they would go to the male version of a brothel themselves?
Women are the same in every country. The 304s are everywhere. Be careful out there men.
Regardless of the comments. I don't care if it's part of their culture or not. I will never date a cheater. No excuses and no exceptions. Don't like it get the fuck out of my life. That's how I role
4:14 That's funnier in japanese lmao.
ー行ってくる！
ー楽しんでみて！
Which would be the equivalent to:
-I'll be right back!
-Have fun!