The Only 3 Reasons to Get a Divorce

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  • Getting a divorce is never an option whenever you decide to get married. However, many things can happen throughout a marriage that may result in a divorce. In this video, Daniel Ally will share the only three reasons to divorce your spouse.
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  • @danielallyway
    @danielallyway  Před rokem +10

    Thanks for watching! Would you like to connect further? Reach out to me here: danielally.com/contact

  • @msprettykawaii950
    @msprettykawaii950 Před 3 lety +710

    It wasnt the cheating that made me walk away, it was the years of emotional abuse, silent treatment, stonewalling and indifference

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 Před 3 lety +3

      Why did you stay so long?

    • @msprettykawaii950
      @msprettykawaii950 Před 3 lety +46

      @@jimcole6423 I love him and our kids loves him too

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 Před 3 lety +19

      @@msprettykawaii950 completely understand

    • @Donnasbibleverses
      @Donnasbibleverses Před 3 lety +40

      I am going through the same emotional abuse right now for years am so tired of it

    • @blessingtshego4141
      @blessingtshego4141 Před 3 lety +3

      @Donna Dominique.
      Please get out🥺🥺. If you can, if you can't, to the best of your ability, seek help.

  • @tequila.terriquez
    @tequila.terriquez Před 3 lety +508

    The fact that i never saw him blink in this video is astonishing

    • @kinggage
      @kinggage Před 3 lety +31

      He's a robot 🤣🤖

    • @kereenem9499
      @kereenem9499 Před 3 lety +88

      He blinked when you blinked

    • @kellyg9466
      @kellyg9466 Před 3 lety +60

      Omg you had me unfocused to the words because of your comment lmaooo he really didn't blink

    • @hitmusicsociety
      @hitmusicsociety Před 3 lety +30

      Why make me focus on this lmao

    • @BlueNGold09
      @BlueNGold09 Před 3 lety +37

      I stared at his 👀 the entire time because this was the first comment I saw

  • @patricecomedy
    @patricecomedy Před 3 lety +220

    "you don't have the time to be with someone who doesn't appreciate who you are".

    • @carolyncherry6470
      @carolyncherry6470 Před 3 lety +3

      And that is so true

    • @judasbenethsanimez20
      @judasbenethsanimez20 Před 3 lety

      What if the person doesn't have time for you than?

    • @patricecomedy
      @patricecomedy Před 3 lety +2

      @@judasbenethsanimez20 then you bloody well up and leave. That sounds like pure hell.

    • @judasbenethsanimez20
      @judasbenethsanimez20 Před 3 lety

      @@patricecomedy that what my wife did to me

    • @patricecomedy
      @patricecomedy Před 3 lety +4

      @@judasbenethsanimez20 sorry to hear that. You get to chose every day how you want to live. You're never stuck in any situation forever. Figure out a plan and take action. Good luck.

  • @98superstar41
    @98superstar41 Před 4 lety +357

    When your spouse abandons you,never beg them to come back,it will not work,they will literally laugh at you in every way,and you will feel hundred times worse than before,and you will regret every bit of it

    • @mariasanchez-bonilla5465
      @mariasanchez-bonilla5465 Před 4 lety +5

      Me now but without the begging 😞

    • @98superstar41
      @98superstar41 Před 4 lety +21

      @@mariasanchez-bonilla5465 believe me when i say that your emoji s face is a lot better than being humiliated,shamed and walked on.i had to lean that the hard way.at some point,you have to value yourself ,knowing that you re not the one thats wrong and having a clean conscience and a pure heart.and God would not have you be alone for long..believe that

    • @lizbethbrady8308
      @lizbethbrady8308 Před 4 lety +3

      Very true

    • @panedole
      @panedole Před 4 lety +1

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    • @robertjanees7538
      @robertjanees7538 Před 3 lety

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  • @BlackNella
    @BlackNella Před 3 lety +367

    Any abuse is grounds for divorce. Not just severe.

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety +6

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, this is why according To The Heavenly Father Marriage Is Not A Game It Is To Be Taken Scripturally Seriously With Strict Obediance To God,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PEOBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! If the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while divorced you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse, if the marriage can not be reconcilled you both Scripturally are Commanded by God to live un-married having no Scriptural authority to be with no one new,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

    • @cacentrafreeman8196
      @cacentrafreeman8196 Před 3 lety +11

      Amen sista I left for that reason

    • @CookBookbyTalat
      @CookBookbyTalat Před 3 lety +5

      Yeah very true

    • @Laz3rCat95
      @Laz3rCat95 Před 3 lety +27

      agreed. If you allow mild abuse to happen chances are it will become more severe. Even if it doesn't, you don't need that disrespect in your life.

    • @jeffackland5946
      @jeffackland5946 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear

  • @marleygoot174
    @marleygoot174 Před rokem +63

    i don't want and neither my man wants to get divorced that's why i recommend my friends and you guys to still have great experience in bed . i know it's probably sometimes hard for the couples but i say it can become pretty simple . just spanish fly pro and everything is ok

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 Před rokem

      Wow

    • @mayacornwell7291
      @mayacornwell7291 Před rokem +1

      i tried Spanish fly pro too as it relieves stress and my job is extremely stressful (air traffic controller ath the airport) and at least i can enjoy sex w my wife which always says i'm not concentrating on her and don't pursue on her

  • @bubuwinnie2009
    @bubuwinnie2009 Před 3 lety +85

    The abusive partner usually doesn't admit what they did were abusive...but just think that you are selfish as not fulfilling their demands.

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 Před 3 lety +3

      Or its just an excuse.

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 Před 3 lety +1

      Facts

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

    • @rnopes21
      @rnopes21 Před 2 lety

      Yes! This!!!!!!!!!

  • @angelocapitulo9426
    @angelocapitulo9426 Před 3 lety +134

    "VOLUNTARY enslavement to one another that's Marriage"
    I think The real problem is that we're not taking serious about choosing partner

    • @dooomswear3034
      @dooomswear3034 Před 3 lety

      @ran dom ur so dumb

    • @dooomswear3034
      @dooomswear3034 Před 2 lety

      @ran dom it's simply you just need to find someone with similarities not some soul mate and if you only get into relationships for sex and love then you need to rethink

    • @sarahs7751
      @sarahs7751 Před 2 lety

      Many of us enter relationships due to sin..... I guess a marraige that comes from that rarely ends up good.

  • @angelasturn
    @angelasturn Před 3 lety +86

    I’ve been abused ( physically, emotionally, financially, verbally, extensive amounts of betrayal ) went to counseling for years, been married 20 years i don’t like getting beat up, I’m filing for divorce

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife Před 4 lety +67

    in order to be your self you have to free yourself

    • @arachietonia3931
      @arachietonia3931 Před 3 lety +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @certaindeed
      @certaindeed Před 3 lety +4

      If you believe that then you do not understand the basic foundation of marriage. Don't get married.

    • @YOUsay1209
      @YOUsay1209 Před 3 lety +3

      Marriage is Burden

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  • @TheVlogLife
    @TheVlogLife Před 3 lety +182

    Amen 🙏🏽 I needed to hear this because I’ve been considering Divorce. A part of me is still fighting for our marriage, but it still takes two people to want to make something work. I’m still fighting until the good LORD above himself says, “you’ve fought enough time to move on.”

    • @emilynunez577
      @emilynunez577 Před 3 lety +5

      I feel you going through this as well ur not alone

    • @tammymac2138
      @tammymac2138 Před 3 lety +13

      No you’re not alone! I’m tired of his boring self. The sex is boring! I hate this marriage. I hate I married him.

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    • @TheObsidianLogic
      @TheObsidianLogic Před 3 lety +3

      @@tammymac2138 I feel you, but them streets are tough. Trust, everyone has flaws so expect your next partner will have them.

    • @tammymac2138
      @tammymac2138 Před 3 lety +24

      @@TheObsidianLogic Yeah! I have flaws, everyone has them. At this point in my lifetime, I don’t want another boyfriend or husband. I’d rather be single 😇

  • @goldensgreensandblues3858
    @goldensgreensandblues3858 Před 2 lety +24

    Two of these reasons to leave but scared of finding worse or being alone for the rest of my life. Self imposed isolation is the worst and leaves me trapped.

    • @abigailmwaba790
      @abigailmwaba790 Před rokem +2

      Am exactly like u and same situation

    • @zeynepustun1672
      @zeynepustun1672 Před 5 měsíci

      What did you do:(?

    • @dagmastr12
      @dagmastr12 Před měsícem

      You have to remember that we are all alone... I'd rather be alone than miserable or being put down ect.

  • @aikhanam2
    @aikhanam2 Před 4 lety +72

    My husband was a narcassist.

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    • @YOUsay1209
      @YOUsay1209 Před 3 lety

      But i support men only how dare you

    • @davidh.7376
      @davidh.7376 Před 3 lety

      Me too

    • @jeffackland5946
      @jeffackland5946 Před 3 lety

      Hello Asha how are you doing

    • @tonitalks267
      @tonitalks267 Před 3 lety

      That’s hard. I wish you healing.

  • @joellabrizuela1301
    @joellabrizuela1301 Před rokem +6

    I grew up in a Christian home I don’t believe in divorce. I’ve been married almost three years and together 8 years prior. It’s been a nightmare. I’m in a abusive relationship mentally and emotionally with an addict . It’s made my relationship with the Lord torn because I’ve been in survival mode. He has gotten physical with me a few times . We don’t have the same values. I regret marrying him I feel I married the wrong person. All three apply to me from this video… I am not at my full potential or purpose I feel like I’m in jail and miserable. I have prayed , fasted , sought counseling on my own . Signed up for a marriage retreat he didn’t want to go . I have tried a temporary separation. We have a child together .. I can’t do it the disrespect I get and the heartache is unbearable . I need prayer for the strength to leave thanks for listening

    • @b.k.701
      @b.k.701 Před 4 měsíci +1

      No amount of fasting or counseling will make an abuser stop abusing. Darling, please, please leave him. 🙏🏻

    • @nompiloangelmakamo5414
      @nompiloangelmakamo5414 Před 29 dny +1

      They'll be no change, you'll fast until you become pale, leave while you can.

  • @soulprospers4110
    @soulprospers4110 Před 4 lety +69

    I was married to a narcissist for 10 yrs and didn’t know anything about narcissists but I became just a shell of my former self it was so horrible. I began seeking God every day and He told me to get out. Unfortunately, I had a hard to believing God would do that so I stayed for another year of abuse. God kept saying to get out so I finally obeyed Him. During the divorce process my ex was trying to take our daughter away from me so I kept praying and one day God showed me a quick vision of His huge hand holding a rolled up scroll. He said it was a “divorce decree.” So I knew it was all in God’s hands. And the divorce went smooth and easy in spite of all the ex’s lies about me and I got everything I prayed for including full custody of my daughter. I learned that it’s really important to stop listening to society and do what God is telling us to do no matter what society says or thinks. We must always divorce evil. There is no place for evil people in the lives of God’s children ❤️

    • @TheVlogLife
      @TheVlogLife Před 3 lety +3

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @LFJ10.
      @LFJ10. Před 3 lety +3

      Your “God” is but an idol
      Flee from the spirit of Antichrist
      God hates divorce and would never tell you to do it sorry

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety +2

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PEOBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! I f the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while divorced you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 Před 3 lety

      You are a female.

    • @sbaby-np5hy
      @sbaby-np5hy Před 2 lety +6

      @@supergirl109 I think sometimes divorce is necessary it's unfortunate but it is necessary whether you have children or not because sometimes staying in a volatile relationship for the children hurts the children more than leaving the person and then your children could end up in therapy and extremely unhappy.

  • @Spiritual_876
    @Spiritual_876 Před 4 lety +48

    Daniel I walked away from a man I love because I felt trapped ... Oh pray about your relationship before you make decisions.

  • @jordanruth0809
    @jordanruth0809 Před 4 lety +11

    In 16 years of marriage. But all of this is our marriage. No purpose and I made the mistake thinking I did right in God’s eyes all to be put to utter embarrassment and shame. I can only pray for him in the fact a relationship with our children don’t perish. I have tried but my capacity has been reached. I don’t feel safe, definitely not love or respected but out of fear I stayed and I need to boldly walk on cause I can’t save this marriage alone. I’m tired of trying to show but he has no regard to respect our vows. If he is happy doing that, let me get out of the way so I can get myself together and move on. Thank you for sharing.

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 Před 4 lety +1

      Its a trying moment,i went through it some years back and i thought my world was over. Trying to explain the children and relatives yet the moment i stepped aside to sort matters,another woman entered my house as the new wife before we could start any negotiating.
      This changed the entire story opening lengthy court battles But finally i resumed my house,my husband didnt make it to the end so am a widow now,never to trust a man again but happy with my maker.
      Peace.

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, Praying for everyone who is having such negative experiences, this is why according To The Heavenly Father Marriage Is Not A Game It Is To Be Taken Scripturally Seriously With Strict Obediance To God,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! If the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while seperated(Scriptural) or divorced(Not Scriptural) you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse, if the marriage can not be reconcilled you both Scripturally are Commanded by God to live un-married having no Scriptural authority to be with no one new,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
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      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

    • @xavcuttinoakatheinspiratio4353
      @xavcuttinoakatheinspiratio4353 Před 3 lety

      I understand what you mean. I was that spouse who was deaf to my wife's pleas for us to get help and seek counseling. I always said no, and when I did finally agree to go the counselor basically teamed up with her against me. My wife prayed consistently for our marriage to work and by the time I finally came around she acts almost as if our marriage is now something she doesn't want. I just keep praying.

  • @OnasaD
    @OnasaD Před 3 lety +93

    *Finances and infidelity are the two most common causes of divorce*

    • @alexman8800
      @alexman8800 Před 2 lety +11

      just to be sure financial abuse should be not just about denying money to a spouse (as what most people then to think), but also when one spouse abuses the household budget with excessive spending on things (like services, consumer goods) that will NOT be there anymore (or depreciate much in value) when listed under the column "Community property".

    • @harrymcnicholas844
      @harrymcnicholas844 Před 2 lety +3

      Many times they are connected.

    • @somethingtosay1119
      @somethingtosay1119 Před 2 lety +2

      @@alexman8800 your absolutely right because that’s considered theft. Is it not considered abuse if what you consider the basic necessities your spouse sees as frivolous. Who gets to make those decisions the main bread winner or both or you as a couple!

    • @somethingtosay1119
      @somethingtosay1119 Před 2 lety +2

      The second you put a cap on someone is the second it’s no longer a marriage because one partner doesn’t see the other as a equal otherwise they wouldn’t have done it. If your speaking about addiction or something even worse. Get them help, worry about them and take care of them. Two different situations.

  • @jordanruth0809
    @jordanruth0809 Před 4 lety +26

    Honestly my husband has failed the first two. It has gotten to the point that he doesn’t have no regard for what he does. Number 2 is him mostly.

    • @mysecretsketchbook865
      @mysecretsketchbook865 Před 4 lety

      Anybody watching this who does the following or has a partner who does. hit their children / argues with spouse/ is feeling very low in verge of divorce PLEASE WATCH my videos about getting rid of negative energy. Peace from England UK

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @alicia2931
    @alicia2931 Před rokem +10

    My husband constantly hides things and just recently emailing coworkers from his work email at 1 am and flirting. The thing is I always catch things early on before it progresses. I’m tired of having to gatekeep him and searching his phone because I know he’s doing wrong. This is toxic and holding me back. Also my relationship with God has been on a decline being with him

  • @ceceliaruiz6370
    @ceceliaruiz6370 Před 2 lety +23

    Abused for 16 years, betrayed more times than I care to admit, lost my sense of purpose in this world...good thing I filed for divorce 2 months ago. Being with a narcissist was not love but pain. I thought I would never have my heart broken but turns out I had it broken over and over by the same person that I loved so much.

    • @auduabubakar506
      @auduabubakar506 Před 2 lety

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

    • @auduabubakar506
      @auduabubakar506 Před 2 lety

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

    • @auduabubakar506
      @auduabubakar506 Před 2 lety

      Whtsaap him"**

    • @Brooke-zq7se
      @Brooke-zq7se Před 2 lety

      How are you doing? Same situation but 15 years and divorced 3 months ago. Didn’t know life could be so peaceful.

    • @louisefremeau1959
      @louisefremeau1959 Před 2 lety +1

      I too am married to a narcissist.. I am nothing in his eyes.. He doesn't leave because of finances.. I have to leave.. Narcissistic behavior is the worst the hardest to leave and they in turn destroy you..

  • @rockyi1969
    @rockyi1969 Před 3 lety +56

    Brothers and sisters once you walk out, please never ever look BACK. Coz life ain't worth wasting on these kind of people (narcissist). There's more to life with God as the centre of it all. Let the Lord lead youand keep you. You don't have to be tortured emotionally or mentally.

  • @officeprofile6148rituahlawat

    I have most of the 3 given reasons. I'm still thinking over it and trying to work over it. May God bless us.

  • @gotellthem2099
    @gotellthem2099 Před 2 lety +8

    Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28

  • @daliahangadi5888
    @daliahangadi5888 Před 4 lety +16

    daniel you forgot to mention addiction i am married to a gambler and he would leave me for hours on satuday and holidays he never spent time with me i wasnt his first priority

    • @dieselpower456
      @dieselpower456 Před 3 lety +2

      That would fall under abuse

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Před 3 lety

      That would go under the category he mentioned already either abuse or purpose. Just my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️.

  • @abhijeetroy1411
    @abhijeetroy1411 Před 3 lety +27

    I’m married to a beautiful soul, however it’s been 8 years and i have never felt like lovers or spouses, it’s true we care for each other, even during our vacations we were just doing things separately, i can’t see her being unloved, I try my best but just can’t find the spousal love, don’t know what to do

    • @joeyburrell3207
      @joeyburrell3207 Před 3 lety +11

      Omg, that’s me. Married to a beautiful soul but can’t feel any erotic passion for her. We’re like best friends and roommates.That factor alone is killing us. I see it’s been 3 months since you posted. Just curious to how you guys resolved

    • @caylieann1994
      @caylieann1994 Před 3 lety +6

      @@joeyburrell3207 I feel this way about my husband. He's amazing and we've been together for 5 years, but I feel like we can both find so much more in someone else. Our goals have changed significantly since we first met.

    • @joeyburrell3207
      @joeyburrell3207 Před 3 lety +2

      @@caylieann1994 Thankyou so much. That was so well put and to the point. Was starting to think it was just me, and that I must clearly be defected, evil, or something. Thanks again.

    • @vovanminh999
      @vovanminh999 Před 3 lety +3

      @@joeyburrell3207 , love is always have up and down side , so try work things out and stick to together , avoid cheating in any cases .

    • @jentbotbfa
      @jentbotbfa Před 3 lety +5

      @@joeyburrell3207 better to live a lifetime with your best friend then suffer after the “passion “ fades... Because it always does. Either way hope everything works out for you.

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 Před 4 lety +5

    It looks off topic BUT good starting point bc without a sound relationship nothing else can progress. Behind every successful man there's a supportive woman.

    • @novaheads
      @novaheads Před 2 lety

      Elon Musk is single so no

  • @alehernandez6329
    @alehernandez6329 Před 2 lety +7

    I started crying at second 58 😥. I don't want my kids to suffer for divorcing their dad 🥺 I'm so confused. he's a good person a good friend to other people but not a good partner. What if Im making a mistake?! After 19 years is hard to know if I should move on 😢

    • @BPb123
      @BPb123 Před rokem

      I'm in the same boat. My kids are 18 and almost 14. How's it going now?

    • @princessasamba
      @princessasamba Před rokem

      In this boat, I have taken the bullet!

    • @adenikeogunyale
      @adenikeogunyale Před 6 měsíci

      Even today, God still specialized in making new wine 🍷 in marriages that's finishing/finished their wine.
      Take it to the Lord in prayer!
      God still hates divorce, even today!!!

  • @TashmahalStorm
    @TashmahalStorm Před 3 lety +12

    No excuse for him cheating esp for a whole year.

  • @monicacantu4892
    @monicacantu4892 Před 4 lety +4

    Your videos always come at the perfect time 🙏🏻God Bless you and your family.!

    • @robertstones8367
      @robertstones8367 Před 3 lety

      Hey would like us to be friends you can hit me on Hangouts@Robertstones56@gmail.com

    • @edwardmarsh4127
      @edwardmarsh4127 Před 3 lety

      You're very correct

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

    • @richardkeizer1692
      @richardkeizer1692 Před rokem

      I literally married the wrong woman, can't take her cheating in my house. Praying for the right one.

  • @buckwheat6722
    @buckwheat6722 Před rokem

    Daniel Well said, Spot on. Thank You! Wish you could have coached my ex and myself back in 2009.
    It was mainly one sided from her point. Disastorous for me. BUT, I am absolutly happy now with ZERO regrets!

  • @stephaniefythm
    @stephaniefythm Před rokem +57

    I went through a lot of financial crisis during my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.

    • @eadad4371
      @eadad4371 Před rokem

      I'm a single dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated

    • @stephaniefythm
      @stephaniefythm Před rokem

      @@eadad4371 Generally, investing requires higher knowledge. For this reason, It's important to have a solid support structure (financial consultant) to guide you through especially in asset picking. I operate with (Regina Louise Collaro) an investment advisor who partners with a licensed wealth management firm. For the record, the experience has been the best for my finance.She is quite popular for her services so you might have heard of her.
      She made me financially stable investing through her help, now I earn on a monthly basis through her passive income strategy... So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.

    • @eadad4371
      @eadad4371 Před rokem

      @@stephaniefythm That’s great , your investment advisor must be really good,I have seen testimonies of people using the help of investment advisors in making them more financial stable. Do you mind sharing more info on this person?

    • @stephaniefythm
      @stephaniefythm Před rokem

      @@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located

    • @emeldcentor1474
      @emeldcentor1474 Před rokem

      @@stephaniefythm Just got out my marriage, I have had intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .

  • @barrykilts4506
    @barrykilts4506 Před 2 lety +4

    I glad to see that someone in this world still believes in effort to fix,repair or just plain realize the problem and change it rather than putting on your track shoes at the 1st sign of discomfort.I didn’t say they’re aren’t allowable reasons,I just would rather see effort to change once the problem is realized or that there is a problem.anyway I applaud you and no I’m not perfect I have my own problems

    • @emiliawalter4683
      @emiliawalter4683 Před 2 lety

      Hello for any love spell help contact this number on whatsap

  • @yeseniaosorio5569
    @yeseniaosorio5569 Před 4 lety +15

    My moster in law is doing everything to destroy this marriage and her other sons marriage too not just mine.

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 Před 3 lety

      Yeah, experienced that myself.

    • @malibudolphin3109
      @malibudolphin3109 Před 3 lety

      Parents are dead...the sister is EVIL & he's just she's awesome...no she's NOT, treats him as her husband and me as a mistress to be destroyed!?!! & No matter her level of wickedness he defends her !??? She's sick, weekly she on him about how much she loves him, your the sister not wife sicko! This is the 3rd relationship of his she is doing everything she can to destroy, seriously it's sick.
      Lord help!

    • @rockyi1969
      @rockyi1969 Před 3 lety

      Ditto

  • @dorynetham1822
    @dorynetham1822 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes, thanks for your affirmations. God bless you.

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @nobetautilities5015
    @nobetautilities5015 Před měsícem

    Thank you bhuti. That was a lot of help. God bless you bhuti

  • @alphyzqrw7222
    @alphyzqrw7222 Před 4 lety +11

    In order to be yourself free yourself 👍👍👍

    • @contrarysheby5546
      @contrarysheby5546 Před 3 lety

      And that is what I did. Good man, just didn't feel like I could be myself fully. I'd rather be alone.

  • @helenespinoza8724
    @helenespinoza8724 Před 3 lety +6

    Good to hear this cause im ready for a divorce ive been.cause everything uve said i went thrue he cheats constantly lies i even caught him a few months ago and he pushed me out of his home and we were working in the marriage.but after that no way.im ready to serve himwith papers.

  • @torifuentes1879
    @torifuentes1879 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Wasn’t prepared for #3, I really appreciate this being acknowledged

  • @2bethankful48
    @2bethankful48 Před 15 dny +1

    I walked away of a 23 marriage due to the fact of disrespecting me and he didn’t respect himself . That means a lot to me and I took it for way too long. But thank the Good Lord for he rescued me from a sinful marriage that was going to end up in a bad way. God knows what he’s doing when he removes us from things and situations . God protect what belongs to him. Sin doesn’t go to well with our God.

  • @ntakirutabonny6782
    @ntakirutabonny6782 Před 4 lety +4

    Dear daniel, many thanks for the video. Iam in the affection of the three reasons,

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @Grounderz7
    @Grounderz7 Před 2 lety +3

    I have a question for people going/ gone through a divorce. If my spouse is a foreigner, how do you deal with the kids custody and how was your arrangement? The only thing that's preventing me from getting a divorce is my little kid. She's only four. She's having fun times with her step older sister. Divorce would mean separation and especially in COVID times, difficult to see one another.

  • @glimpseofcambodia
    @glimpseofcambodia Před 2 lety

    1:46
    You made it clear to everyone that has whatever their threshold.
    I am a widower now and you make it truer
    Thanks

  • @karenzarodrigo1269
    @karenzarodrigo1269 Před 7 měsíci

    You truely touched my heart by explaing these 3 reasons and i think you were spot on. Dou do counselling ? ❤

  • @basurelect2665
    @basurelect2665 Před 4 lety +3

    Great topic for our personal growth

  • @Hi-DE3021
    @Hi-DE3021 Před 3 lety +27

    After 23 years of marriage I feel I have reached my limit of feeling ignored and unloved. It wasn't like this in the beginning but over the last 5 years we have grown apart and I feel like I'm really not been true to myself. As only being married yourself for 10 years can you really understand what long term it can be like?

    • @johntonia2808
      @johntonia2808 Před 3 lety

      Snoppyhacks on i^nstagrAm helped me gain access to my spouse chats and messages all his conversations were wied directly to my phone

    • @louisefremeau1959
      @louisefremeau1959 Před 2 lety +5

      I am with you on feeling unloved and ignored.. I have been married for 40 years and I am tired of it all.. He uses me to do all the work here while he goes out with his friends and he never takes me anywhere.. Talk about being afraid to do this... but I need to... for my sanity..

    • @whyttechairelli9593
      @whyttechairelli9593 Před rokem +1

      @@louisefremeau1959 Wow, Sorry to hear this I also went through this trauma am divorced now, i have no other words to describe the way you feel like me, so I would have like us to know more about each other better?

    • @perfectlyspecialgifts
      @perfectlyspecialgifts Před rokem +1

      @@louisefremeau1959 thank you for showing me that is more common than I thought it was.

    • @louisefremeau1959
      @louisefremeau1959 Před rokem +1

      @@lala5061 yes. He always makes false promises.. I feel so alone and unloved , it's such a horrible existence. We don't even talk to each other ... I wish I could have a lawyer explain to me what will happen so I can prepare myself for this ... I can't believe that people live like this.. it's totally not right.. It's a waste of a life.. what do I do ?

  • @AleX-ee6ql
    @AleX-ee6ql Před 2 lety +1

    I had all 3 reasons. He signed the papers yesterday. Now it’s a waiting game

  • @mariabarela-celestino7582

    Yes, thank you so much for that info, god bless you

  • @kiaraclara5775
    @kiaraclara5775 Před 3 lety +3

    love this video its really gives a teaching

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @jeaninehicks2907
    @jeaninehicks2907 Před 3 lety +3

    If your spouse is not willing to improve the marriage, I would say divorce. You cannot work on a marriage if both parties are not willing to put in the work.

  • @celesteking1997
    @celesteking1997 Před 3 lety +1

    I Love this! Thank you so so much!!!

    • @johncathy4086
      @johncathy4086 Před 3 lety

      Hello greetings to everyone in this page I want to shere my testimony I have found back the joy of my life . Today Friday , 28 November 2020 bear witness.i am John carthy and I live in Florida.Few months ago my girlfriend broke up with me and said she was done with me not knowing she had an affair with one of my neighbor next door. I don’t know how to explain .. she never talk to them and she doesn’t even pay much attention to people around while she visited me though.i trusted my girlfriend and think she could never cheat on me but when the whole thing started; like a dream..damnn.. I was crazy. SHe began to date a guy next door as if we never knew each other I couldn’t just stand it ..I got upset and tried to fight her in so many occasions but my friend told me no..I got be patience and contact Dr Anthony that he will help me get back my girlfriend so I had to listen to her and she gave me Dr Anthony Email: Africamagicspellcaster2019@gmail.com and I got his email address : Africamagicspellcaster2019@gmail.com through and contacted him and Dr Anthony told me what to do and wait that by full moon my girlfriend will come back to me begging since I did not offend him.so really few days ago my girlfriend came back begging and she has proposed to me today. What a wonderful Dr Anthony ; I am grateful to Dr Anthony and the seventh spirit God!!
      CONTACT HIM NOW FOR HELP…
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  • @kikyburnett3356
    @kikyburnett3356 Před 3 lety +1

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Yes... great video Thank You so much👍👍😍😍

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @MrLeafsta
    @MrLeafsta Před 4 lety +51

    Great video. A lot of people are living a lie in there marriages, relationships. Self destruction waiting to happen, unless you take action and move forward.

  • @asdf4678z
    @asdf4678z Před 3 lety +3

    You can only reconcile if the offending spouse is sincerely remorseful and changes the hurtful behavior. Unfortunately most don't because they get off by being a jerk and they are incredibly selfish ...don't care how what they do affects anyone else...... . The end.

    • @johnsonwilliam6445
      @johnsonwilliam6445 Před 3 lety

      Dr larry can help you get your ex back he is a love spell caster he help me bring back my ex after 6 years of breakup.If you have WhatApp, use the number. ➕1⃣,9⃣2⃣9⃣,4⃣7⃣3⃣,1⃣9⃣5⃣6⃣.

  • @margaretmuralles4709
    @margaretmuralles4709 Před rokem

    Really insightful, helpful. Thank you

  • @danielkliemczak3450
    @danielkliemczak3450 Před 3 lety +2

    I was in Marriage...
    I begged for marriage counselor... Was denied, but one after other conditions were imposed.
    Finally we had the counseling... After a year almost.
    She was considered the victim and me the jerk...
    I asked to quit.

    • @shornandkenny
      @shornandkenny Před 3 lety +1

      The jerk? You mean the abuser. Call it what it is but I'm on your side I have the exact same problem. ❤take care brother❤

    • @danielkliemczak3450
      @danielkliemczak3450 Před 3 lety +2

      @@shornandkenny thank you man... Being in a divorce is not easy...

    • @shornandkenny
      @shornandkenny Před 3 lety +1

      @@danielkliemczak3450 no shit.
      FML

  • @russpeaknuckel9525
    @russpeaknuckel9525 Před 3 lety +11

    Don't get married.

  • @helenespinoza8724
    @helenespinoza8724 Před 3 lety +3

    Everything you said is true.and the Lord has showed me twice and i will never be with him again.

  • @CookBookbyTalat
    @CookBookbyTalat Před 3 lety

    Superb and very informative video.nice and attractive way of talking.

  • @canvan9735
    @canvan9735 Před 3 lety +1

    I love your video. It really helpful for my thought. Thank you, brother.

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 Před 3 lety

      DR ORDIA was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 🙏🙏🙏

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 Před 3 lety

      Text him on what's app 🙏🙏

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 Před 3 lety

      +2348077751695.

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 Před 3 lety

      +2348077751695.,,,,

    • @canvan9735
      @canvan9735 Před 3 lety +1

      How much does he charge?

  • @Anna-gt3gg
    @Anna-gt3gg Před 3 lety +7

    Excellent. Having gone through divorce, I now understand that I was acting out of 2 of the reasons cited here: 1. Persistent betrayal, and 2. Emotional abuse.

    • @sophiasusan2559
      @sophiasusan2559 Před 3 lety

      The best way to avoid psychological breakdown after experiencing or having to deal with infidelity is to make sure you are not just assuming your partner is cheating,don’t say they are cheating until you’ve gathered proof of their act,confrontation without evidence is just unacceptable, I contacted Wizardcryptohacker@gmail.com when I was in the eye of the storm with my now ex husband,I saw all his mails,WhatsApp messages,Kik and even pictures he exchanged with his lover, but it was easier in the end really. His service is quite cheap,faster and reliable,I got all the details I’ve been dying to know about my husbands phone in less down 4hours after I got my service rendered. You can reach him via wizardcryptohacker@gmail.com
      He is truly a great wizard ✊

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, Praying for everyone, this is why according To The Heavenly Father Marriage Is Not A Game It Is To Be Taken Scripturally Seriously With Strict Obediance To God,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PEOBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! If the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while divorced you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse, if the marriage can not be reconcilled you both Scripturally are Commanded by God to live un-married having no Scriptural authority to be with no one new,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

    • @johnsonwilliam6445
      @johnsonwilliam6445 Před 3 lety

      Dr larry can help you get your ex back he is a love spell caster he help me bring back my ex after 6 years of breakup.If you have WhatApp, use the number. ➕1⃣,9⃣2⃣9⃣,4⃣7⃣3⃣,1⃣9⃣5⃣6⃣.
      .

  • @marshahanson5870
    @marshahanson5870 Před 4 lety +27

    I thought till death do us part meant I had to chase after someone. Then I saw this video.

    • @sophiasusan2559
      @sophiasusan2559 Před 3 lety

      The best way to avoid psychological breakdown after experiencing or having to deal with infidelity is to make sure you are not just assuming your partner is cheating,don’t say they are cheating until you’ve gathered proof of their act,confrontation without evidence is just unacceptable, I contacted Wizardcryptohacker@gmail.com when I was in the eye of the storm with my now ex husband,I saw all his mails,WhatsApp messages,Kik and even pictures he exchanged with his lover, but it was easier in the end really. His service is quite cheap,faster and reliable,I got all the details I’ve been dying to know about my husbands phone in less down 4hours after I got my service rendered. You can reach him via wizardcryptohacker@gmail.com
      He is truly a great wizard ✊

    • @thepurplebunnyx5825
      @thepurplebunnyx5825 Před 3 lety +1

      what about; death of love ,death of respect,death of empathy-that will do you part

  • @kamed.
    @kamed. Před 4 měsíci

    Amen! Thank you Daniel. This is the TRUTH!

  • @jamesshaw3850
    @jamesshaw3850 Před 4 lety +3

    The mindset is all that is about this topic. The moment your not happy with one another. Walk away.

    • @mysecretsketchbook865
      @mysecretsketchbook865 Před 4 lety

      Always question why you are not happy. Could there be other factors???.what's the cause behind your unhappiness?. Do you get headaches/ heaviness? Do you get dizzy. Do you feel you are falling behind?.

    • @kiaraclara5775
      @kiaraclara5775 Před 3 lety

      lolz

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, Praying for everyone who is having such negative experiences, this is why according To The Heavenly Father Marriage Is Not A Game It Is To Be Taken Scripturally Seriously With Strict Obediance To God,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! If the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while seperated(Scriptural) or divorced(Not Scriptural) you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse, if the marriage can not be reconcilled you both Scripturally are Commanded by God to live un-married having no Scriptural authority to be with no one new,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

  • @takethetimeitstime2108

    I am going through a divorce for 14 years emotional abuse and betrayal and in that 14 years I tried to workout the situation but communication and time is also a issue for him

  • @unojayme1046
    @unojayme1046 Před 3 lety

    You are so smart... You have given so brilliant advice!!

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, Praying for everyone who is having such negative experiences, this is why according To The Heavenly Father Marriage Is Not A Game It Is To Be Taken Scripturally Seriously With Strict Obediance To God,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! If the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while seperated(Scriptural) or divorced(Not Scriptural) you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse, if the marriage can not be reconcilled you both Scripturally are Commanded by God to live un-married having no Scriptural authority to be with no one new,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

  • @anastaciafrizzell3496
    @anastaciafrizzell3496 Před 3 lety +18

    My husband sprayed chili oil in my eyes because I didn’t pay attention to a video he wanted me to see. Is that “severe abuse”

    • @tbreezy6830
      @tbreezy6830 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes it is. I'm sorry, may God strengthen and protect you.

    • @jeffackland5946
      @jeffackland5946 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear

    • @rogerringold616
      @rogerringold616 Před 3 lety

      No ....it was when he did it, triggered him. It was something you do or dont do in his mind, constantly. Dont confuse specific situations for overall generalities.

    • @IBFARTING
      @IBFARTING Před 3 lety +1

      That's criminal and he should be arrested

    • @errie436
      @errie436 Před 3 lety

      Please get out of that relationship😓

  • @elizabethrodriguez3274
    @elizabethrodriguez3274 Před 2 lety +3

    I was married for five years, over those five years I constantly found him on dating sites which made me very depressed. He was in the military and once he seperated and we came home after two months he went out and paid for sex. I came back for three months and I was depressed and gained so much weight. After that he became very jealous at times he even put hands on me. I left but we are still married. I feel very bad for him. He says he is suicidal. But I feel so much peace now for myself. But part of me remembers all the beautiful times we've had. Am I moving too quick?

    • @reginamcadory674
      @reginamcadory674 Před 2 lety +3

      No mam you are not. Once he started acting up, it was time to go. I am going through something similar. Keep moving forward and find peace.

    • @missjenn6861
      @missjenn6861 Před rokem

      How did you find him on a dating app? Were you there too?

    • @moneytime1556
      @moneytime1556 Před 5 měsíci

      Leave he is not going to change. I under you remember the good times but I don’t think he is going to change

  • @user-fo9rz3de4f
    @user-fo9rz3de4f Před 4 měsíci

    I like what he said about reconcile!! And communication to fix the issues...most shut down and avoid the issues or escalate the situation.

  • @chitraedwards9376
    @chitraedwards9376 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for your words

  • @gwenevalovett7227
    @gwenevalovett7227 Před 3 lety +4

    I think you should date for a certain amount of time until you are sure about the person . Then if you are ok with the person then tie the knot.

  • @shaynapuaaladeponte890
    @shaynapuaaladeponte890 Před 2 lety +5

    Thanku for this me and my husband are separated and I’m waiting for the divorce hearing. There has been years of lies drugs and abuse. Ive been so sad and my heart feels like its broken but GOD brought this video to reassure me I am doing the right thing🙌🏽Thanku 2 of these git home😞LORD I GIVE U MY LIFE USE ME TO BE UR VESSEL IN JESUS NAME AMENE

  • @shay12359
    @shay12359 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for this bideo is truly a eye opener for me

  • @aeamissouri8518
    @aeamissouri8518 Před 2 lety

    I am truly truly needing to make a decision... I've been married 15 long years, and its been tough. I feel held back, emotionally abused, but when I try to divorce, he gets all depressed and emotional. I went back to church who told me my marriage was not blessed, and I stopped everything since I did not want to continue committing a mortal sin, and asked that he marry me through the church, and his first reaction was a big NO. The timing is aweful, but I pray everyday, since I'm confused. I think this video was excellent in helping me get closer to a decision.

    • @bababenadryl1808
      @bababenadryl1808 Před 2 lety

      I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,,

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  • @Strangernightg
    @Strangernightg Před 4 lety +7

    Thank you so much for sharing this video and your opinion Daniel!!

  • @twinsoultarot473
    @twinsoultarot473 Před 3 lety +13

    I am closer to my husband (who I married twice) and I realise that I am becoming who I am meant to be after he passed on - (because I am now listening to and experiencing what he was saying all along.)

  • @malorienicole4370
    @malorienicole4370 Před 2 lety

    That was amazing thank you so much

  • @conniefoxx9813
    @conniefoxx9813 Před 3 lety +1

    I've tolerated my husband's childish behavior for much too long; we've been married for 40 years, and I have pretty much been disgusted with him for over 35 of those. He lies, exaggerates, yells (better now, but he used to yell ALL the time), cheated and I didn't find out till I was 7 months pregnant I'm sick to death of him riding around on a lawnmower and thinking that is ALL there is to maintaining a home while I've taken care of the kids, got them to school, helped with homework, took them fishing/camping (they are grown now), did all of the grocery shopping/cooking/dishes. The more I think back the more I realize I've allowed this and maybe I need to see a shrink. I've tried to leave before and every time something happens like me losing my job. I do not even like my husband any more and NOW (because my Irish ancestry is pretty obvious), my husband who is a different race has begun saying things like how much he hates white people, how marrying me was the biggest mistake he made (don't think so, cuz someone else wouldn't be putting up with this sh*t). He is the biggest pig I've ever seen. He has to have the largest portion of food, the best place to park, the best seat in the living room if and when he decides to sit there, and doesn't want to do anything but sit in front of a computer, get high, and play poker. He even said many times that we are 'roommates'. Well, that may be true....but, I've cheated myself out of a real relationship too. I've become quite distrusting, but very much he knows better to hit me (he did it one time, and I took something up and cracked him upside the head which stopped that shit....he knows I'll fight back.) But now I also realize we are close to retirement and HE is the only one that has the 401(k), and I think he has either been taking money out unnecessarily or hiding money somewhere. The man has always earned more than me, and we split the house bills even though I make about $15K less per year than him....and he whines about how he never has any money and is always broke. So sick of this man, but have a fear of becoming like my mom who died with nothing.

  • @InfiniteValue
    @InfiniteValue Před 4 lety +39

    You have an abundance of wisdom brother! Thank you for being you ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @sheekadaDahab
    @sheekadaDahab Před 3 lety +4

    1 Abuse (any kind of abuse)
    2 CHEATING
    Only these two are real reasons to get divorce

  • @madmojo-ou2pz
    @madmojo-ou2pz Před 3 lety

    Seems like alot of those things can be subjective tho like you may feel betrayed, Abused, or have another propose in your own mind but it may not be reality

  • @lincolndomingo634
    @lincolndomingo634 Před 4 lety

    Yes..Great wisdom.

  • @yandez10
    @yandez10 Před 3 lety +3

    My husband says God told him to leave me. We've barely been married 1 year. Ugh.

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      @troywine1413 Před 3 lety +1

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    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety +1

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 Před 4 lety +13

    Daniel thanks for this info! My husband & his fam has become a royal pain! I've tried for yrs to get along with them but it's impossible! He makes me the bad guy with everybody! I think it's time to say goodbye! I paid for my brand new car & I pay his car note plus our mortgage! What more can I do?! Sincerely Sick & tired!!!

    • @mysecretsketchbook865
      @mysecretsketchbook865 Před 4 lety

      Anybody watching this who does the following or has a partner who does. hit their children / argues with spouse/ is feeling very low in verge of divorce PLEASE WATCH my videos about getting rid of negative energy. Not converting you. Plz give 10p to charity box for yourself and everyone you live with including your spouse. Peace from England UK

    • @Mich2Paris7
      @Mich2Paris7 Před 3 lety

      Watch Dave Ramsey, get out of debt, debt causes a lot of fights and resentment, then read the book love languages, hopefully he will be on board with giving that a try as it will improve your relationship

    • @Mich2Paris7
      @Mich2Paris7 Před 3 lety

      Also read why mars and Venus collide by John gray

    • @nextlevelamazing7865
      @nextlevelamazing7865 Před 3 lety

      Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, Praying for everyone who is having such negative experiences, this is why according To The Heavenly Father Marriage Is Not A Game It Is To Be Taken Scripturally Seriously With Strict Obediance To God,
      Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONCILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! If the marriage can not be reconcilled then Scripturally, if this is in fact your very first spouse, Scripturally neither of you are authorized to get re-married to a new person, while seperated(Scriptural) or divorced(Not Scriptural) you are Scripturally not authorized to date anyone else nor have sexual contact with no one else but your very first spouse, if the marriage can not be reconcilled you both Scripturally are Commanded by God to live un-married having no Scriptural authority to be with no one new,
      May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
      “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
      *LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
      18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
      ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
      10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
      11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
      12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
      13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
      14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
      15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
      16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
      *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
      39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
      *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
      16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
      *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
      Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
      19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
      2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
      3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
      4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
      5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
      6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
      7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
      9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      These Scriptures apply to
      1. a male and female marriage only
      2. those who are married to their very first spouse
      ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
      ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●
      God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
      V/R

    • @whyttechairelli9593
      @whyttechairelli9593 Před rokem

      I am sorry you had to go through this difficult times.. I would like to get to know more about you.

  • @awakentotruthmichaelsmith4698

    Why would you need to be consistently betrayed. Isn’t being cheated on once enough?
    Some people are able to move past that type of trauma, some people are not. I understand both

  • @fredyriel7552
    @fredyriel7552 Před 2 lety

    Hello and thank you for this great sharing. I appreciate the

    • @auduabubakar506
      @auduabubakar506 Před 2 lety

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

    • @auduabubakar506
      @auduabubakar506 Před 2 lety

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

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      @auduabubakar506 Před 2 lety

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  • @cpd7172
    @cpd7172 Před rokem +7

    What if two people are not necessarily bad people? They’re just bad together. Like they bring the worse out of each other when they’re together. Maybe they’d be better off as just friends..

  • @nathamichael6996
    @nathamichael6996 Před 2 lety +4

    Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It’s the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you #minslegend.

  • @pandapanda5738
    @pandapanda5738 Před 3 lety +2

    I still feel like I don’t deserve to be happy. I still hate him and get upset but I always go back to him because love and need him. It doesn’t matter what he says or does I’m still the one to bend and be with him.

  • @WATER4KAYLEE
    @WATER4KAYLEE Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks I really needed to hear this

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      @emiliawalter4683 Před 2 lety

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  • @gavinreid5387
    @gavinreid5387 Před 3 lety +8

    My ex changed her personality after the wedding.

    • @erikrohr4396
      @erikrohr4396 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh no!

    • @bjyxfgk
      @bjyxfgk Před 3 lety

      Maybe you just didn't really understanding your ex before.

    • @gavinreid5387
      @gavinreid5387 Před 3 lety +2

      @@bjyxfgk I certainly thought I did. Her attitude change, she dropped her mask.

    • @bjyxfgk
      @bjyxfgk Před 3 lety

      It's a hard conditions, hopefully you forgot it and it didn't impact your life at all.

    • @troywine1413
      @troywine1413 Před 3 lety

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  • @solomonmurphy818
    @solomonmurphy818 Před 4 lety +3

    Yes

  • @king_rhino8644
    @king_rhino8644 Před 3 lety

    Yes... Thank you..

  • @evangelisttony5290
    @evangelisttony5290 Před 2 lety

    Great Daniel. A big yes! I like it

  • @lalapsy23
    @lalapsy23 Před 3 lety +5

    Divorce is so important when the love just isn't there . And that person is a monster . He is a monster and I'm glad I'm away from this evil demonic person and we are divorced!
    I'm so so so so happy yayyyyy you don't understand the weight has been lifted. Yahweh has blessed me by giving me my freedom and happiness back .

  • @skygamer566
    @skygamer566 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank god ;-; u have this my mom got angry ;-;

  • @davidbecerra9355
    @davidbecerra9355 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you very much for your advice

    • @trellnba176
      @trellnba176 Před 3 lety

      DR ORDIA was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 🙏🙏

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      @trellnba176 Před 3 lety

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  • @DeliaNErik
    @DeliaNErik Před 3 lety +2

    My husband and I been through a lot
    I don’t suffer from any of this things u mention
    But the only problem is the I don’t feel like I have a husband we don’t do anything together everything we do is separate, his not a family person so the bothers me a-lot

    • @kennethmarvin419
      @kennethmarvin419 Před 2 lety

      sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw a photo of you, it was more than words could explain.Your profile is irresistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend

  • @thegraybeard
    @thegraybeard Před 2 lety +5

    My wife checks the majority of these blocks, life is utterly miserable with this person. However, I've been procrastinating for many years because I know she will use the women-favoring legal system to destroy me in every way possible. As a man, it's terrifying to think that everything I've worked so hard for can be taken away with little to nothing that I can do about it.
    I also believe I am not alone. The difference is men are not willing to put themselves out there like this for a variety of reasons.

    • @alexislaura9487
      @alexislaura9487 Před 2 lety

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together i got help from a great man who brought us back together.....

    • @alexislaura9487
      @alexislaura9487 Před 2 lety

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      @alexislaura9487 Před 2 lety

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    • @thegraybeard
      @thegraybeard Před 2 lety

      @@alexislaura9487 Glad to hear things worked out well. I really mean that. Fortunately, I have no legal issues but have seen enough from men around me that I must tread lightly through the process. Hope to be rid of this abusive person soon. Wish me luck. :)

    • @kabirmuazu4190
      @kabirmuazu4190 Před 2 lety

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