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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 22. 06. 2024
- A European girl's experience with an Indian Mother. A friendly talk.
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We Indian also get culture shock when ur 50yrs old mom brings her BF in another room and u are sleeping with ur step brother in 2nd room
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yeah thats the thing youve watched in porn and movies. its not trule largely. while the Indian boys being their moms puppet is the norm. Not a rarity like things you mentioned, 14 yo kid.
@@Thoughtwave-16 fact ho gaya
Consent respect and personal life bro .
We Indian also get culture shock when we see Sweet Home Alabama
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Guys chill, the main question is, what's up with her hair.
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In india moms approval is very imp. Thats our culture. We respect our mothers here unlike foreigners
"Mom" should be worthy of respect first. Your Mom might be great but don't assume others are.
Is every mother worthy?
â@@ChiSa123Even if she is worthy I would give her respect and love. I won't give her my reigns and permission to manipulate me for an indefinite period, even if she thinks she knows the best. Thankfully I was fortunate to have one of the most liberal mom who gave me control of my own thought process when I was as little as 10. Even today I love discussing with mom various topics without fear of judgement. On the other hand my dad behaves like traditional scheming Indian moms and was an important reason behind my breakup. We don't talk unless we absolutely need to...
@@TJ111188 Yes, because of them you are here, not otherwise
@@thesidd19 Your generic statement does not include the fact that not every child is a labour of love.
Plus, bringing a child into this world is a lot of responsibility for which not all parents are either equipped or have the correct intentions. A lot of them look at children as investment LIC policies rather than someone they are building up for them to carry on after they're gone.
"Kaalchaar kaalchaar" chillane se nuance nahi dhakti.
We are the earliest civilizations
Rigveda is the oldest testament of mankind
Facts brother facts, undivided Hindus â€
So?
@@varunkapur5640
Jai Hindutva,
@@varunkapur5640 so we are highly cultured since millennia
@@YourBoss-qn9kz then why dddo wew have to write slogans like Beti bachao, Beti padhao?
There is nothing wrong in getting parents approval
It's sense of respect and care..
If your touching 40 and you can't make decisions independent of your parents, you have failed terribly in your journey as a man.
@@thelitspirit8504 with strong in sense of independence..
And loose in respect..
It seems imbalance..
So it's best to be with roots..
@@ksb4868 this is not respect, this is inability to grow a spine.
@@thelitspirit8504 spine without sense of respect is nonsense..
Becz we're not unculture like them
That 's rude man Don't say that
That's rude man. I'm saying it as an indian.
Exactly. Truth hurts. But they are uncultured
@@aksman8563 if they call us something nasty, I'm sure you wouldn't like that
@@RealAryanGupta they already call us nasty. Check european media
Caption is very true
Anyone looking at the weather in the background, itâs raining, thunderstorms, blue sky.
Moms permission is very important for us Indian Men
Everything your Mother does, she does for YOUR Survival
Everything your Woman does, she does for HER Survival.
- Mike Tyson.
The problem was her hairstyle
We Indians also DO get a cultural shock when the western 50 yr old mothers being their BF and cheat on their husband.
It's a part of my faith, not just any Indian, a hindu Indian or any hindu should and must and should never fill shame in practicing his/ her faith
40 years old man is still seeking mother's permission, is not quite right... he is old enough to make his decisions.
Not all Indian men. There are lots of us who dont seek permissions. We love our elders but also believe in individual rights and the right to choose our partner is paramount . When it comes to marriage we may consider valid suggestions but not irrelavant outdated objections of older generations like different caste, religion , horoscope or higher age of the girl. If i love her, she is becoming a part of my life, period.
We are a very small minority my friend.
Leaving a girl alone at midnight is not our cultureâŠthatâs wrong dude lot of things could have gone wrong.
Because of the quality of Indian men, not because of the fault of women. In foreign countries women can walk safely .
â@@sapien9567 Haan toh bechari foreign mein nahi hain. Ek toh Delhi-UP mein akela chhoda hoga jiss train ke baare mein baat kar rahe thhe uss hisaab se.
Mumbai jaise sheher nahin ki koi bhi male/female raat ke 2 baje local le sakte hain bina tension.
@@sapien9567 itâs a different debate altogetherâŠI have felt uncomfortable being alone in a foreign country at late hoursâŠmy point is he shouldnât have left her alone at late night after all sheâs new to the complete country.
Mummy ne plan me pani fer diyađ
Bhai ladki ko sirf train station pe chhodne gaya... OYO room chodne nahin đ
Why us indians are getting butthurt ? Chill guys . Different countries, different cultures . Why getting offended ?
I am 22 yera men and i ask to my father and mother to go birthday parta after 7pm.....
And i never think they are control' me cause they want protect me.
At that age, he is a man child if he has to take advice from mother. Its nothing about culture đ
He was 100% lying to herđ
I mean, she said he was about 40 years old, at that age no mother dictates your life, Yes, if he was a teenager then it was possible that something like that could have happened!
I personally know men beyond their 40s who are dictated by their mother. One man took a half day off from office because his mother told him to drive her to the market for shopping, wait in the car, and drop her back home. He just had to OBEY. He is in serious debt.
@@alankritakaushal dude, people also use such lie, it's pretty common.
Having our parents permission and blessings is part of our culture
We have different values. Why judge us by their standards?
So, you will leave your female friend (who is not a local) alone at the train station at midnight?! What happened to our "values" then?
đđđ we are a casteist, racist and patriarchal society. We are nothing but hypocrites
@@RDJ0506 Where is patriarchy in this? eh
Sahi bolri wo separate human beings everyone is so how can parents decide who is your life partner â€
U want parents to only clean ur potty when u were of bedwetting age??? When u grow big u will behave as per ur own whims and fancies is it.. okay do that ur life ur wish but in case u land in neck deep trouble then don't go back to parents again suffer urself.
kyuki wo parents hai unki choice galat hosakti hai par neyaat nai.
â@@TheZed83 right
Lagta hai didi abhi abhi ladai krke aayi h
How can parents decide" ?
Jisne duniya mey laaya uska poora haq banta hai
People saying this is "Indian culture" casually forget how our Vedas and texts tell us to become independent and free of attachment! Also, he was just dropping her to the train station so that she would be safe... They weren't booking an OYO room together to do "ghapghap"! đ
Who is taller than sky
Yudhisthir: Father
Sri Ram went to forest to keep promise of his father
Pandavs all married a single women since it was order of mother
Parashuram cut mothers head on order of father since he also though mother was wronged
So don't casually say Vedas say this thatđ
no you are not separate to nobody the person you talk you know or you don't know you have the degree of oneness with them which is highest with your parent your siblings,
veda says you have to ultimately join the holy oneness brahman
if the sense of oneness is lost then doom
Gents girl đ
I think she will get bullied with that hair
And your parents subscribe on your only fans account!!!!! Very different culture
Disgusting. Is is Indian culture to leave a girl/woman (especially one who is not a local) alone at a train station at midnight?! Is is Indian culture to leave them in a place like Delhi/UP etc. where women are the most vulnerable?!
@thelitspirit8504 : if possible can you share your social achievement (s) after getting independence from your so called controlling parents?
Dear, it all rubbish what ever your think about parents. Think logically, people are ready to lick the ass of their employers for their salaries but don't want to obey their pairents those who wash our ass when are not able to do so.
It is not because of their duty but of their love, because they are human and they don't want us remain animal like. Disagreement is different thing but totally discard the presence of parents in your life is just rubbish. You never ever beat the experience of your parents.
@@strangerbuddy5469 why getting personal? Hit a nerve did I ?
@@thelitspirit8504 nothing is personal dear! don't place silly debate sentence instead try to answer my query.if you have some courage..
@@strangerbuddy5469 You are asking a personal question, in a philosophical debate, with an intent to make an ad hominem attack.
Perhaps you need to check what 'personal' means in a dictionary
I am an Indian... I always defended Indian culture and parenting system in India... But my personal experiences with my parents have been very very toxic. I literally hate my father so very much because he is a control freak and have extreme superiority complex(I cannot properly explain in words but I can say that once you spend 6 months with him you will get to know how bad of a human he is). But now I feel not everyone's parents are same but it was not your choice to be born, they brought you to this miserable, brutal and cruel nature of existence and now they will also control the way you think, live and act is heck to much... One can seek advice from parents but parents should not control how a person live, mainly because the world is fast paced and changing rapidly, their way of thinking and living is mostly not relevant in today's world. I feel sad about what I was taught in my childhood by my parents is useless to me as an adult and what should have been taught by my parents I learnt by lot and lot of my personal experiences.
I know exactly how you feel. I am in the same boat. looking back at my younger self, I am realising that how institutionally brainwashed little slave I was. Whole society, religion, culture of ours is built that way. no wonder we were ruled by foreigners again and again and again; because we were raised to feel proud about being a slave and not person of our own. We were only indoctrinated to dispense our responsibility, duty but never ever were told about our rights.
Love your parents, but be your own person. Take care of them, help them but don't let them control you after you are 14+. And never ever burden yourself with the responsibility which was duty of your parents. Be aware of emotional and social blackmail tools. Never ever have delusion about any person like "mera vala/ mere vali alag hai", that includes your parents.
Hope i broke the tradition and don't repeat my parents behaviour with my kids.
Literally just look at ramayana and Mahabharata powerful parents created whole mess and children paid for it.đ
@@kalpitapokia True...
Same goes with me
Whatâs the point if at the end of day that connection, love, belongingness is missing with them and you canât be your true self and speak your heart out. Literally this is so toxicâŠ. But they donât even feel that. For them they are always right and they canât apologise to their children as their ego is more important than their childrenâs feelingsâŠ..
I know their intentions are good and there are many happy moments but if you are in a family but still feel like stranger then itâs not a healthy relationship
Too much controlling nature of parents is not OKAY and side by side children also have to think about their parents too before taking any decision about their life because one day you will be in the same age as your parents are so never forget about this that life is a cycle everything will come back to you so caring for parents loving them in their old age too as you loved them as a child is also necessary ...
Asking from parents is not bad ...
Bro look at our ancient texts, they gave due importance to individual freedoms.
In Ramayana, how Prince Bharath reacted to his mother Kaikeyi when he learned what she had done to secure him the throne.
How Lord Karthikeya left Kailasa when he did not like the conduct of his parents.
Pointing out and reacting to the wrongs of elders was part of our culture, absolute obedience is the actual foreign concept. We have been blind for generations.
Even in foreign, children donât live with their parents after they turn 18. Thatâs western culture.
In India, itâs not. Exceptions are everywhere đ
Before marriage : take mother's permission
After marriage: leave mother at an old age house.
Because the Mom got scared for her son after seeing your hairstyle đ
joking
but its also a reason