Break Or Break Up? | What If | Life Tak

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • Is there a difference between a break and breaking up?
    What do you think? Let us know in the comments section below.
    To download the TAK App, click on this link below -
    bit.ly/33A6Scr
    Follow us on Instagram: lifetakofficial
    Facebook: / lifetakofficial
    #LifeTak #WhatIf #BreakOrBreakUp

Komentáře • 888

  • @LifeTak
    @LifeTak  Před 4 lety +53

    If you like this video, let us know in the comments section below!
    To download the TAK App, click on this link below -
    bit.ly/33A6Scr

    • @iknowyou7302
      @iknowyou7302 Před 4 lety

      Nice video

    • @iknowyou7302
      @iknowyou7302 Před 4 lety

      First comment in pinned

    • @khwabiida
      @khwabiida Před 4 lety +1

      Akshat is right at his place there is no in between and break.. If we fight from our parents do we leave or take break from them.. No we get back together to normal.. Love and relationships are not complicated it's us humans who make it complicated with using such breaks and excuses @lifetak

    • @Sambitriku
      @Sambitriku Před 4 lety +2

      Nothing is called a break in a relationship.. you want a break means you are not comfortable with that relationship. And that break will definitely turned out to be in a break up. So will go with Akshat. If you are feeling suffocated then nothing called a break. Suffocation in relationship means you are expecting a break up. Not any break.

    • @preetimathur2025
      @preetimathur2025 Před 4 lety +1

      I agree with Akshat .
      You have to sit and talk or write if you can’t talk without fighting.
      And if you need a break you have to give a time frame like 15 days one month .
      But without time frame you cannot put other persons life on hold.
      And what will you get from that break ?
      You will take a break hide all your problems under the rug and after few days or months you come back and have to face same situation same person with whom you have not discussed what the problem is so he will behave the same way do everything like he used to do then again you will take a break and come back and this time the problems or situations you did not discuss about and hid under the rug will explode .
      By the way here we are talking about break from relationship not about me time.

  • @PayelRoyDr2020
    @PayelRoyDr2020 Před 4 lety +222

    i m with akshat..agar break lena hi hein toh time should be mentioned otherwise there is no difference between break nd break up..

  • @gazellecb
    @gazellecb Před 4 lety +59

    The break took me back to Ross and Rachel 's 'We were on a break'

  • @chetna67
    @chetna67 Před 4 lety +7

    Absolutely take a break! Grow as an individual, rediscover yourself. Do what makes you happy. Because if you are not happy, you won’t make another person happy. It’s called ME TIME. Everyone should do it.

  • @priyadarshinighosh3782
    @priyadarshinighosh3782 Před 4 lety +62

    I support Akshat totally. My ex wanted a break in this relationship for 6months, and after that he asked for a breakup. Breaks do indeed lead to breakups in real life. You just breakup or you don't, there's no in-between. Taking a break... that's not how a relationship works. Sit and work through your problems together. Communication is very important. You want some alone time? Sure, go on a solo trip or go hangout somewhere but don't call it a break.

    • @gurusukumaran1304
      @gurusukumaran1304 Před měsícem

      Both of you are not happy in their relationship. Then break up is the best option. He is not the only eleven you have a world to explore

  • @bhoomikalra
    @bhoomikalra Před 4 lety +296

    I think Akshat , because if all start taking breaks .. life will be a mess . Taking a break is like running away from your problems or situation. You should solve it together

    • @ermohammednasirpatel1477
      @ermohammednasirpatel1477 Před 4 lety +1

      Yeh right

    • @honeysoni3029
      @honeysoni3029 Před 4 lety +1

      Exactly

    • @varshachooranolickal
      @varshachooranolickal Před 4 lety +1

      Bhoomi Kalra exactly

    • @rishikapawar3090
      @rishikapawar3090 Před 4 lety +12

      There comes a point in life where u want be alone to keep ur mind relaxed nd if ur mind already have so much u won't be able to deal with the things which will definitely result to brkup.. sometimes to make the things fall on place you need to take a backstep

    • @bhoomikalra
      @bhoomikalra Před 4 lety +4

      @@rishikapawar3090 we can always take a break like a vacation , spa .. or join yoga ... Spend some time with people you like .. Go out with friends .. trust me it's a great stress buster ... But if u are one of those who wants do everything together all the time with your partner then you land up in such situations...

  • @ArdhenduChakraborty621
    @ArdhenduChakraborty621 Před 4 lety +24

    The problem here is very simple. Being in a relationship is like performing any other physiological activity like breathing or thinking. You don't stop breathing BECAUSE of a job or because your leg hurts or similar activities.
    If you feel that your relationship is one, from which you can compromise, in order to focus on some other activity, that relationship wasn't really on your priority list ever.
    Nobody is perfect. Relationships, in their true sense, are.

    • @fourfire2814
      @fourfire2814 Před 2 lety +1

      Wow! 👍🏻👍🏻 aapns sachme bohot hi achchhi baat kehi hai👌🏻👌🏻

  • @dangeraj82
    @dangeraj82 Před 4 lety +25

    Having a break during work doesn't mean quitting the job. Everyone needs some time and space to rediscover and rejuvenate themselves. It doesn't mean that person is fed up with a relationship or another person. Whether it's sports or war or work or life, break is a must to introspect, reflect and analyze the situation one is into. So Riya is right according to me

    • @deepakk1347
      @deepakk1347 Před 2 lety

      But Shouldn't there be a time period also

  • @rahulnambiar3928
    @rahulnambiar3928 Před 4 lety +66

    Well there is a difference between Break & Break up, 'up' is an extra. You either love someone or you don't, you either breakup or you don't, its 1 or 0 there's nothing in between & if there is its a messed up situation which no one wants to be in. In this case, its "United we stand, Divided we fall."

  • @life_is...
    @life_is... Před 4 lety +76

    The guy looks understanding. He is ready to give her space n suggested other options as well. I think she should think again.

  • @selfgroomingbyshivani626
    @selfgroomingbyshivani626 Před 4 lety +232

    Break n breakup leads to the same thing .. agree with akshat..

    • @roshanjaguja2783
      @roshanjaguja2783 Před 4 lety

      Yes I agree with akshat

    • @rarity2
      @rarity2 Před 4 lety +4

      There's a difference... When someone needs time for herself or himself,, then sometime person wants to be alone to feel better

    • @rarity2
      @rarity2 Před 4 lety +1

      @Rakesh Tripathi no you are taking it wrong

    • @garvit1291
      @garvit1291 Před 4 lety +1

      Shivani Jain agree

    • @ayushsingh1943
      @ayushsingh1943 Před 4 lety +1

      @Rakesh Tripathi you get it.

  • @subhrasaha7525
    @subhrasaha7525 Před 4 lety +32

    If one feels suffocated then the other person must understand and take the break both... During break periods both gets to feel the old same urge to go back to each other and that renews the love..😌 But of course the break should not be for long after all cooperation and adjusting is the best solution for everything ❤️

  • @sadvabanasahu9076
    @sadvabanasahu9076 Před 4 lety +93

    Here the break means independecy,self and alone time to understand ownself .Love means freedom not about binding each other...If you don't capable to understand your feelings then how do you capable to understand other feelings

    • @debolinamandal276
      @debolinamandal276 Před 4 lety +1

      Agree with you

    • @agrimasstudio3318
      @agrimasstudio3318 Před 4 lety

      Relatable

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 Před 4 lety

      Have 2 agree

    • @shamaparveen6719
      @shamaparveen6719 Před 4 lety

      Dear sad ! U are in relationship and u have some responsibility towards other people.people have made things so complicated if someone cant give time or attention to someone should not be with somebody who is fully there for them . this is not love ,I repeat this cant be love .

  • @Brototee
    @Brototee Před 4 lety +81

    Actually when both the partners want a break, then it will be a successful one. Else it may turn to misunderstandings n ultimately could lead to breakup.

  • @aditimukherjee855
    @aditimukherjee855 Před 4 lety +12

    Well, I would like to go in between both of their opinions. Taking a break for self nourishment is not wrong. Nobody has the right to restrict us from doing it. Though a very thin one, but there is a line of difference between a Break and a break up. If the problem is minor, it should sorted out through discussions and if anyone wants a break from a relationship to charge up then it means there must have something happened which has made him/her feel low.

  • @HardikMehta007
    @HardikMehta007 Před 4 lety +8

    The context or the term BREAK mentioned is not appropriate with the situation given in the plot. Here, one has to use the term "Personal Space", which would be more appropriate, and it tells many things, where the person would like to have sometime for himself/herself to re-energise and come back with more enthusiasm in the relationship.

  • @devenmali9820
    @devenmali9820 Před 4 lety +31

    Psychologically there are two mindsets, those who are victims of breakups , they will treat beaks in the negative way and those who haven't faced it would take it as a routine..Well it all boils down to ur maturity of how much trust u bestow on ur love,...If ur bond/love is really strong then break is actually giving them time to get ready to kick start with u in a better manner...And if ur trust is not strong ..U will fear losing the person as a result u will treat 'BREAKS ' as Breakups...

  • @sampadakhurana1642
    @sampadakhurana1642 Před 4 lety +30

    I’ll go with Akshat!

  • @shruthijain1266
    @shruthijain1266 Před 3 lety +8

    I support Riya.. sometimes spending time alone for sometime solves many problems but she should give a time frame

  • @jr9934
    @jr9934 Před 3 lety +6

    Agree. All of us need a break from everything , including relationships to maintain and improve our own mental health and relations. So agree with Riya

  • @samadritamukherjee2826
    @samadritamukherjee2826 Před 4 lety +5

    What if in a break you fall for some other person? Then ultimately you will break up with your previous partner!!

  • @alkeshkhajindar4827
    @alkeshkhajindar4827 Před 4 lety +99

    I would go with Riya coz i had went through this situation and i have felt that from my partner how she was feeling suffocating at a particular time and it feels a lot whn u cnnt give time to ur partner or pay attention to it my gf explained me and it was right wht she was saying
    And yes after a particular period of time we both came back and are still enjoying with each other WE DID TAKE A BREAK BUT DID NOT BREAKUP
    We both are still together and love each other even more than before

    • @abhijnankhamrui7514
      @abhijnankhamrui7514 Před 4 lety

      Vae bolna yar bore ho gaya tujsa...gaya tha kahi halka hone...fir a gaya...

    • @sravanianl6033
      @sravanianl6033 Před 4 lety +5

      But it happens seldom when the other one understands u😔

    • @amardash5964
      @amardash5964 Před 4 lety

      bro plzz help make me thorugh this out

  • @nidhigupta6029
    @nidhigupta6029 Před 4 lety +36

    Decent way to end the relationship"Need a break" 😀😀😀

  • @NirmalKumar-sc5tk
    @NirmalKumar-sc5tk Před 4 lety +1

    I really don't understand the concept of this so-called 'break'. Career, studies, stress will be there the whole life. This is the reason why we choose a partner, to support us in difficult times. And if you do not find independence in a relationship, you are in wrong relationship. You do not need a break. Either sort things out or break up permanently. There is nothing in between. Have you ever seen married couples taking a break?

  • @nidhiarora1432
    @nidhiarora1432 Před 3 lety +5

    Some times a break makes you refresh and you get a kick to resolve atleast one of major issue . If you are surrounded from all the 4 corners and your partner is fighting with you .. taking a break for few months is fine. And when you will meet again their will be some spark and you will have a better relationship. I feel this. It's okay.

    • @andysmudge4849
      @andysmudge4849 Před 3 lety

      LMAO. Girls mostly needed ✌️break✌️ to find someone else and experiment. I don't know why these girls come up with this sh*tty concept of break

  • @SunnahTheProphetsPath
    @SunnahTheProphetsPath Před 4 lety +23

    Akshat is right in my view...... He is trying to understand her and he dont want to lose her.....

    • @Inaya_art
      @Inaya_art Před 4 lety +2

      Exactly kash mujhe koi aisa milta, mila to kho diya uski wajah se jisne meri parwah hi ni ki

    • @Inaya_art
      @Inaya_art Před 4 lety

      @@ratnesh4727 kutta ni human actually human se to dog se acha hai atleast loyal to rehte hai and people are not on world to entertain someone else so everybody should learn to say no

  • @priyamajumder6132
    @priyamajumder6132 Před 4 lety +3

    M with Akshat. Break is the initial of Break Up. When one need a break in a relationship,that means he/she is no more emotionally attached to their partner. If you love ur partner u can't take a break from them for a minute instead of big fights also

  • @ashanjaliprabhakar
    @ashanjaliprabhakar Před rokem +1

    I agree with her, we all get suffocated at certain times and wants to be alone for some time… it’s not break but just want to stay alone to figure out everything

  • @thestudynotes9480
    @thestudynotes9480 Před 2 lety +1

    To take a break means to have time for yourself, no matter in which relationship we are or even if it is husband wife relationship, there must be break, a break to talk to self, a break for self love, a break for privacy, a break to collect ourself.
    Before loving someone else, there must be self love, without self love no one can love another.

  • @banglaybuisness
    @banglaybuisness Před 4 lety +1

    If a couple is married staying with inlaws or in a society such breaks are not practical its better to sort out the matter together rather making it complicated vacation is a good idea

  • @ribintomy2961
    @ribintomy2961 Před 4 lety +22

    If starts with a break... It should be a habit... It will spoil relationships... My opinion

  • @aithalsujatha
    @aithalsujatha Před 4 lety +3

    This is the loose ends of live-in-relation. So I agree with this guy that in these types of relations, break = break-up only

  • @krishnakharsani7616
    @krishnakharsani7616 Před 4 lety +37

    I am with akshat. He is totally right at his place.

  • @minnisingh1806
    @minnisingh1806 Před 4 lety +23

    I don't think so this is a break... This is fully a break up... I also live in a relationship and there were many fights and it's a relation of 4 years... But I never need any break... I only need to talk with him spending time together ❤

  • @swetaroy478
    @swetaroy478 Před 4 lety +4

    Sometimes Break in relationship makes the relationship more perfect and sometimes Break finally end up with break-up...
    That depends on mutual understanding and love between the partner...
    In my thoughts, if our parthner really need break for sometime then give it... And after sometime your partner surely comes & then your relationship becomes more perfect...

  • @surabhiiyer5391
    @surabhiiyer5391 Před 4 lety +4

    I think riya , many a times partners get confused with the term break or breaking up ....the thing is if a person cannot concentrate completely on the relationship ...then little distance brings out the lost trust or lost love ..sometimes relationships are so strong that the other person taking a break cannot live from the person even for a day ...so ..if u give ur partner independence ..then its always better.

  • @oasis8742
    @oasis8742 Před 4 lety +20

    There's a big difference between break up and taking a break in relationship.
    In break up, couples aren't together anymore until they patch up, whereas taking break means getting space for sometime when both of the couple or either one of them is exhausted with lots of things going on in his/her/their life, and I think these basic things everyone knows.
    Now let me tell the difficult part, no matter how much understanding person a human can be,unless both the partners mutually agree. If one of the partner ask for taking break, it hurts the ego of the other partner which completely block the person's ability to understand, sometimes instead of getting problems solved it gets more worse which might lead to break up, even after break up one of the partner who fails to understand the word break will think himself/herself responsible for the break up whole life.
    It's not his/her fault for failing to understand the word "break", because it's already very sensitive, first you think why do u need break? Because u r already suffocated with the relationship for lots of fights n issues or silly arguments, since the relationship is already so sensitive do u think it's easy for anybody to understand the word "break" at that moment..
    My best suggestion is take break but try not to mention the word, just do it wisely distance urself as much as possible until ur fine

    • @panandan8
      @panandan8 Před 2 lety

      Agree just don't mention the words.. u can go out with friends or few day somewhere else that will be break with him ...but don't mention the words ...

    • @barshajana3860
      @barshajana3860 Před 11 měsíci

      Okay so if the word break is not mentioned then the other person will feel like they are ignoring them or completely cut out bcoz we have habit to talk to them, text them , share things with them. And it really hurts , some or the other way you think that you are reason of their break even if you are not. I don't know what is the solution.

  • @rakeshjindaleesoutheastroa2141

    issues are always there, but both need to put efforts together and also need to give some space for self exploration so that relationship not feel like a burden

  • @craftysheetal
    @craftysheetal Před 4 lety +22

    Both r right in there place..
    I have felt the same way what Riya felt and at same time Akshat is also right what he feels

  • @atreyeechakraborty5769
    @atreyeechakraborty5769 Před 4 lety +31

    You just needed to add a little context. If a girl suddenly comes and tells i need a break it is not understandable.

    • @anusha3314
      @anusha3314 Před 4 lety +2

      If husband and wife are understand to each other they can simply say I want a break, partner 'll not cancle your plan.....😊

  • @madhuphalanetra3498
    @madhuphalanetra3498 Před 4 lety +5

    I thought it was only me who felt like taking a break from everything, including our child, all that I wanted was to be in a place where I am served two very simple meals a day and no other soul around, and all that I wanted to do is eat and rest/sleep, so that when I am back to my family life I can give my 100% to them, I love my family, but t the same time i needed a break , that's it just break from everything. For sometime. Which I got last no ember for 3 weeks, my husband could see that I needed a break, fortunate enough to have a partner like him, I can see myself in riya.

  • @kinjalrabadiya2003
    @kinjalrabadiya2003 Před 3 lety +4

    Agar mumy papa sis bro sab break lene lagege to duniya kaha jayegi?😢koe bhi relation me break nahi hoti

  • @sanvijosef4096
    @sanvijosef4096 Před 4 lety +42

    A girl always stuck in between family career nd a relationship so now if she is getting irritated or frustrated then she want some space nd time for her to get out of all these stuffs ... So i think she is right

    • @domeroom3467
      @domeroom3467 Před 4 lety +4

      Space & Time is very imp in human life .

    • @amanmishra-uz8mr
      @amanmishra-uz8mr Před 4 lety +1

      the same case happen with guys also and in the case of the guys he has to support his family, you never expect a girl to support his family but you always think that its boy responsibility to support the family....

    • @angelgudia
      @angelgudia Před 4 lety

      Communication sorts out problems not break.

    • @manohara2406
      @manohara2406 Před 4 lety +2

      Well said,!!! But I have a question, what if this situation is between wife and husband? Do really either of any should take a break, to understand themselves?

    • @ASaaa999
      @ASaaa999 Před 4 lety +3

      Manohar A Shaadi ke baad agar aise problem aati hai toh either the couples choose to cheat on each other instead of confronting or end up in a marriage with a lot of misunderstandings. Everyone needs break and an alone time in their lives where they can figure out what is wrong in them how can they sort things out which is going on inside them
      When there's a lot of pressure you end up fighting with every second person you know it's really not easy... as well as it depends on each individual the mental stress they can handle etc...

  • @Legendgaming847
    @Legendgaming847 Před 4 lety +3

    If u feel like talking a break it means u r not happy with that relationship.

  • @deepthireddy7406
    @deepthireddy7406 Před 4 lety +1

    I agree with her because few people get alright once they take the much required break...breaking up is when we no more want to be with the person whereas break is just sitting back to analyze what went wrong that lead to this situation

  • @shreehari2681
    @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +65

    if other Person can't live without her ,
    what he do
    What about his Loneliness
    & How can one Let other Crying Or alone
    Even for one day

    • @Inaya_art
      @Inaya_art Před 4 lety +1

      Truth of the world

    • @samreenwajid251
      @samreenwajid251 Před 4 lety

      Its too difficult.

    • @warrior1083
      @warrior1083 Před 4 lety +1

      This world is full of selfish people so the other person emotion feeling pain doesn't even matter

  • @aparnamaheshwari105
    @aparnamaheshwari105 Před 4 lety +4

    I think both are right in their own way....same situation happen wd me n my partner replied same ki tmhe break up krna h or break kitna chaie 7 din 15 din aisa lg rha h hmari story chl rhi... aaj tk wo break nhi mila btw he is so loving n caring.

    • @patriotic190
      @patriotic190 Před 4 lety

      Then why do you need a break if he's caring and loving.

    • @aparnamaheshwari105
      @aparnamaheshwari105 Před 4 lety

      @@patriotic190 actually me relation m itne efforts nhi paa rhi thi jitne dene chaie the n frustration level increased...family..job..study...all going together...personally i feels so bad for him bcz he deserves more love as he did so i want to do meditate n self realisation to observe the mistakes of myself n make our relation more strong.

    • @patriotic190
      @patriotic190 Před 4 lety

      @@aparnamaheshwari105 if he's fine with it and supporting you then I don't think there's any problem. Giving time and everything can be managed. Taking a break from relationship will not solve the problem. Do you think if you stay away from him for few days or a month you can bring everything on track. Because job study family everything is on going.
      Just an opinion.

    • @aparnamaheshwari105
      @aparnamaheshwari105 Před 4 lety

      @@patriotic190 actually the point is i want to recollect the positive energy through meditation n the time which i give him is now for myself.U tell me agr andr s hi frustration h to sbpe gussa aaega n hmara reltion fmly frnd or partner sbke saath hi khrab hoga accha hoga thoda break le kr khud p work kre jisse hm energy collect kr k sb shi kr ske qki frustrtn m pta nhi hm kya 2 bol jaate h kisi ko sayad kisi ko kitna hurt hota h iska idea lgana b muskil h...Islie phle khud ko smjhna bhut zruri h.

  • @siddabathulasrinivaas5114

    Let's all fight for men's rights.

    • @manohara2406
      @manohara2406 Před 4 lety

      Bro it's not a question of men or women is correct, it's about the feeling of individual, irrespective of gender cause in this video girl is asking for a break, there are situation where a boy asks for a break. So please stop being so masculism!!!

  • @zulqadaridrishi457
    @zulqadaridrishi457 Před 4 lety +54

    Inko Bina Reason K Break aur Bina Reason K Leave Chahiye Hoti Hai 😆😆😆

  • @saritalohar5635
    @saritalohar5635 Před 4 lety +43

    When she wasn't ready for the relationship, why did she even choose to live with him?? This is all bull shit. This is giving negative information to the couple. Akshat is right.

  • @sarathramesh4122
    @sarathramesh4122 Před 4 lety +1

    I support Akshat.. Taking a break in relation is just like selling your car and believing that the new owner and situations will make it fine and the car will come back to you all by itself😌

  • @ParitoshPushkar
    @ParitoshPushkar Před 4 lety +1

    Taking a break in any relationship, it means there is only compromise, nothing like a true & fair relationship. there are nothing sence of gap, suffocation, anxiety etc in fair relationship. If you are suffering from axiety,sorrow, sadness etc.., then your thoughts will always be like that. therefore always thing +ve and stay with someone who you like most.

  • @sanafab6200
    @sanafab6200 Před 4 lety +2

    I take riya's side ... if she needs a break to compose herself and fully invest herself in a relationship its tym that everything that he does will only irritate n suffocate her more and that obv leads to a breakup .... taking a break is not a bad thing to get so dramatic about ..... she needs a break to focus on herself and spend some time alone to think and decide of her choices and future events and if she decides to breakup later on its not a mistake ... because its her choice .... noone can sit hurting in a relationship ....if its not meant to be , it will never be .... its time to understand her and not suffocate her by staying by her side saying he doesnt wanna lose her.... if some1 needs some time alone its right to give them their tym rather than acting like u care for them by deciding for them whats right or wrong for them .... maybe during a break she may realise that she really loves him and may come forward and end this break and this may help her invest more into the relationship than before .... so its better to let her have her time rather than getting dramatic over these things ,,, its important to know that some things cant b solved by talking .... i hope ppl understand that

  • @BeWithRimpa
    @BeWithRimpa Před 4 lety +12

    I support akshat. Relationship me break ka ek limited time hona chahiye....... Jab koi ye sure nhi keh sakta k kitne time k liye break chahiye tab wo apni relationship k bare me bhi sure nhi hai.....

  • @TheLittlePianistBhavik
    @TheLittlePianistBhavik Před 4 lety +2

    Break and breakup is same thing... Agar marriage hi jaye after that agar aise suffocation hone lage to b kya break logi.. Ya divorce... Respect kro uski jo apki life me h apko sache Dil se pyar krta h... Warna aise logo Ki kami nhi jo apko sirf use krte h han vo apse kbhi fight nhi krenge... Think about it

  • @25dharsus
    @25dharsus Před 4 lety +1

    If you truly love her, you would let her take a break. If she comes back to you, she will love you more. If she doesn't come back, she never loved you enough to begin with.

  • @chaitanyaq3709
    @chaitanyaq3709 Před 4 lety +27

    When you truely love someone, you can't stand not talking to them, even though other situations are taking your time and energy, you can only stay apart for 3 days max you can manage. After that, if you still need a break, it means you don't love the other person very much. Even in these 3 days, it should feel like eternity. Her love for him isn't so strong enough, else she would want him to share her troubles with him, because pain shared is pain lessened.
    He seems wanting to support her but she's not ready to take his support.Either his style of support irritates her or he himself irritates her, so needs a break.

    • @jkdesiduniya
      @jkdesiduniya Před 4 lety +1

      If he irritates then it's a breakup not just break. Additionally, if she doesn't need his help means she is putting ego inbetween both.

  • @firejaegar4662
    @firejaegar4662 Před rokem

    Idk man I took like a week long break in my relationship and that really helped both of us. Y'all just have to be mature and hear each other.

  • @manishgupta-rd2ru
    @manishgupta-rd2ru Před 4 lety +3

    I will support to Akshat not to Riya

  • @abhasinha1322
    @abhasinha1322 Před 4 lety +2

    In my sense akshat is at right place because,If their is any problem they should come together to sought out but taking a break is not just a solution.
    Waise toh phir yaar kitne hi break hoteh rahenge,
    and well that will make the relationship more complicated.
    Well every body has different different opinion...😔😔😔🙏🙏🙏

  • @ajitmalekar1170
    @ajitmalekar1170 Před 3 lety +1

    I think she needs some space of her. Give her space. That doesn't mean she needs a break.

  • @ritikkumarsahoo7462
    @ritikkumarsahoo7462 Před 4 lety +1

    We do take a break from our job when we feel we're not into that job or we feel suffocated. And love is also a part of our life. We can take a break. For purpose of spending time with yourself only we go on a road trip, solo trip, trekking with unknowns. But life doesn't end there, we back to our life. Then why not in love? True love never ends even after a break or breakup. Only a break or alone time can refresh everything in relationship.

  • @Mukundvlog
    @Mukundvlog Před 4 lety +1

    Girls are always confused about her choice. And that Same thing is here. She chose him as a bf. After some time she confuse about her choice .either he is good or bad for her . So she needed break.
    Boys are always straight forward and clear about his choice.
    So a i am with akshat here..he is right.

    • @Honeybear0488
      @Honeybear0488 Před 3 lety

      I’m a lady ! I was never confused . If I felt uncomfortable , I was always upfront ki yeh bakwas nahi chalega..either I am all in or all out. No grey area!

  • @gajananambre5237
    @gajananambre5237 Před 4 lety +1

    Both are right at their place. Human emotions are really complicated. Sometimes we reach at point where we see everything is falling apart. Today's generation is facing so many mental problems frustration anxiety irritation loneliness to fight these problems we need some me time it doesnt mean that person is running from his responsibilities.it means he is trying to rejuvinate himself in order to solve those problem. If they dont take a break it will negatively harm their relationship

  • @surabhipradhan3919
    @surabhipradhan3919 Před 4 lety +3

    Yes sometime we need a break.. To spend time with self.. For a healthy relationship. Trust must be there in relationship... Without trust no love

  • @shreehari2681
    @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +23

    ThatsWhy think before making Relationship

  • @shebangart4418
    @shebangart4418 Před 4 lety +2

    I support Akshat.
    There is nothing like break..
    This same break turns out in a Break Up.
    Even in a relationship people can take out daily some time for themselves. One does not need to go far from each other or stop contact with each other

  • @dollypillay4596
    @dollypillay4596 Před 4 lety +1

    Going for a vacation is the best thing because because oneself gets stressed with work and other things but spending time with your love helps it....break is not a solution

  • @saraikamei
    @saraikamei Před 4 lety

    I am with Riya, everyone needs break from one or other....
    I am a married women with 1 son, sometimes i really get suffocated with work in office and then work in home as wife, mother and importantly daughter in law. I use to go alone vacation or my parents house for almost a month and then come back with freshness and continue my relationship and work happily. Nothing wrong in taking break.

    • @Honeybear0488
      @Honeybear0488 Před 3 lety

      You are a married lady . You are committed to your spouse . In your case, you are just taking time off but that not being on a break . You didn’t keep your spouse or your kid from texting you in case of anything .

  • @raachnasharma3006
    @raachnasharma3006 Před 3 lety +1

    But can you give a break after marriage also..and after having kids...I don't think so..
    Sometimes I want that...but my hubby even don't let me go to my mom's house more than four or five days..he says..he can't live without me..he feels so empty..
    Although we are living with my Father in law and mother in law...and we have a 10 yrs old kid. I don't think taking break is a practical solution after marriage...

  • @MukeshAmbani_Mumbai
    @MukeshAmbani_Mumbai Před 3 lety

    One must find the way for onself irrespective of ones gender. If you want break, take a break. But come back only if you are in love.

  • @paruljhamb5451
    @paruljhamb5451 Před 4 lety +2

    I hate riya...she’s not at all being practical...if she loves him...she should talk about it openly with him ..taking a break is not a solution...you want time for yourself and what about the other person who devotes his each and every minute solving the problems of relationship.

  • @dewy0-0
    @dewy0-0 Před 2 lety

    I think the girl is right.Cuz when you have these relationships,office pressure,family taunts,second thoughts etc....you NEED a break from everything when you are in this kind of situation you hate everything and feel suffocated even in fresh air..You just want some alone time,a solo trip or COMPELETE FREEDOM

  • @rahulkelkar2121
    @rahulkelkar2121 Před 4 lety

    Akshat is correct! Absolutely correct.. you will not get break after marriage.. There has to be 2 things 'yes' or 'no'. There should be nothing in between.

  • @srimanaswini8521
    @srimanaswini8521 Před 4 lety

    Wanting to have a healthy space is not wrong!! Taking space is break for a while is not wrong.

  • @malobikaghosh3591
    @malobikaghosh3591 Před 4 lety +5

    I am with Riya, sometime people should take break to love themselves than to someone else. First love yourself than only you can love others. Love means freedom and that's what it should always be

  • @akanshadhoundiyal1381
    @akanshadhoundiyal1381 Před 4 lety +2

    I support Riya, cause some answers are best answered by silence, our own aftermath, be it with one's career, lifestyle, friends, parents anyone. And once one is self soughted, one can explain and discuss it with the other person, which builds one's genuine perception regarding different aspects of life.

  • @suyashivinit2425
    @suyashivinit2425 Před 4 lety +9

    I support akshat ..... coz break ka bhi eek limited time hota h ...if she had said like I wanna go alone for a week or so then it was good ...but she wants some time a little break and space where some little are undefined durations......but honestly both are so good as actors ....I love them !

  • @thatailurophile3706
    @thatailurophile3706 Před 4 lety +1

    We need a break ka trend Friends se start hua hai. Agar prob hai toh sort karo nahi toh kuch din bina baat kare reh lo. You cannot leave a person for for small things. Ye socho ki shadi ke baad koi prob aaye toh bhi break break karte rahoge??

    • @Honeybear0488
      @Honeybear0488 Před 3 lety +1

      Kuch log relationship ke layak mature nahi hote. :(

  • @dikudesai6486
    @dikudesai6486 Před 4 lety

    Did anyone thought about what girls do all her life?
    Cooking,taking care of babies, Job, family there’s no end to that
    She’s not taking break from him
    She’s taking break from responsibilities and burden
    Somewhere between right and wrong there’s something called humanity
    Sometimes rather than being mom wife gf daughter, daughter in law she just wants to be her
    Everyone is looking at relationship issue because she’s taking to her bf
    But what will be everyone’s view if she was saying same thing to her parents or children?
    It’s just that she’s asking some time to identify herself and bring her back on track.
    She’s just tired of being perfect.

  • @k.shivanishiva6045
    @k.shivanishiva6045 Před 4 lety +1

    Both are right from their own mindsets....but I would like to say that .. taking break is not a crime ... unless the duration of space become years ...!!

  • @shariqatayamman4126
    @shariqatayamman4126 Před 4 lety +1

    Some times u get frustrated and can't share anything with anyone, tat time break is needed,break doesn't mean breakup, it's up to us how much we trust n understand our partners

  • @ituipshitatripathy1270
    @ituipshitatripathy1270 Před 4 lety +1

    If akshat realy loves and believe her.. Then he should give her a break.... For her mind to be refreshed for a more better relation... Because to restart we need a refreshment must...

  • @studytour7314
    @studytour7314 Před 4 lety

    I support riya . Everyone needs a break she only need some space so that their can be better . And a break can come along with lots of love . If anyone loves you then he / she will never break up with you.

  • @theseharali
    @theseharali Před 3 lety +1

    There's surely a difference between break and breaking up.. And if she wants some time alone, there's nothing wrong in that..
    But I personally feel break isn't a solution, communication is the key ✨

  • @anuragsrivastava4163
    @anuragsrivastava4163 Před 4 lety +2

    Move on..... Let her take the break for the rest of her life....

  • @rajeshnarottamdasjoshi7501
    @rajeshnarottamdasjoshi7501 Před 4 lety +18

    Yes you are asking too much.....somewhere it's start of ending relation....Akshat is right

  • @mdalfayedali7643
    @mdalfayedali7643 Před 4 lety +1

    I could not understand difference between BREAK AND BREAK UP.

  • @anupaudel3902
    @anupaudel3902 Před 4 lety +1

    I think Riya is right. Everyone needs space for sometime otherwise we get bored and irritated overlooking from routine and monotonous life. If Riya spend sometime either self or with her friends they both will start missing each other and their love grow again.

  • @ajaybarucha1514
    @ajaybarucha1514 Před 3 lety

    OK got it! you need a break. how exactly? Did you explain to him how exactly you need that break? like, you want to stay separate for a month ? or together but not talking for a month, how exactly you want that " break"?

  • @dhanushm.m1779
    @dhanushm.m1779 Před 11 měsíci

    In this case, i would completely support Riya ji. There is a huge difference between need a break and breaking up. And yes bahut farkh hai dono sentences Mai. "I need a break '' is really a huge difference than "breaking up ". Yar it's fair enough for a person to have breaks in his /her life. Every person has that right and yes no one can ruine it.

  • @anuradhachaturvedi823
    @anuradhachaturvedi823 Před 4 lety +6

    De do yr break... break is cowardness . Talk to ur loved ones n say u need time not break.

  • @prithvi7752
    @prithvi7752 Před 4 lety

    I agree with Akshat.. both should grow together and fight against the problems and solve them..She says she needs a break that mean she don't want to be with him. This is not cinema and cinema is not reality... Break means breakup.. that's it ..

  • @alishasoni1601
    @alishasoni1601 Před 4 lety +1

    I m with riya, jab Kisi k sath apko suffocation hone lge to us person k Sath nh rahna chahie... Or agr aap use pyar krte ho to break Lena better option h but tym decide hona chahie like how many days she needs for herself...

  • @itstheinfinity4891
    @itstheinfinity4891 Před 4 lety

    This is not about break or breaking up. If one person does not need then the other person himself should break up with her. In a relationship both need to need each other. If one is careless about the feelings of the other than such a relationship is not a respectful relationship and then there is no respect in a relationship then it is ants good as broken. If she had love for him then she would take him in confidence and try to solve it. What if she was married to him and had a child? Would she have left him then? She would not! That means that she is selfish. She does not need him and he should dump her

  • @hiya3333
    @hiya3333 Před rokem

    I would definately support Riya, not because I am a girl too but because I've gone through the same phase..Idk why partner's don't understand that taking break is necessary so that the urge of old love renews instead of feeling irritated by forcing one to stay...In the end of the video was the exact words what my last relationship partner said...I totally can feel Riya whatever she said in the end..."I too just wanted some time for myself"..I wanted a "break" not breakup! I loved him a lot...but for his lack of understanding the relationship ended in the end.

  • @kalyaneedesai6281
    @kalyaneedesai6281 Před 2 lety

    what Akshat says is very right. I agree with him that we should communicate and find the solution.

  • @ravijeeverma876
    @ravijeeverma876 Před rokem

    It's better to go for arrange marrige. No drama, no expectations , no tantrums. I would never want my children to indulge in love affairs and go for arrange marrige. These love affairs consume energy and stops the youth from productive work. There is nothing known as relationship or love. Only thing is marrige. All these love affairs are drama.

  • @pranjalbadgujar8623
    @pranjalbadgujar8623 Před 4 lety

    Agree with Akshat... There is no such thing exist in relationship.. if you need time for yourself then say it discuss it. Akshat is very kind person so it would definitely supported you.. no need to say need a break...

  • @minakandpal4836
    @minakandpal4836 Před 4 lety +2

    According to me i go with riya...Bcz apne relation mai Hum dono mai hum mt bhulo nd if she needs to be alone nd needs some privacy..So he should understand her..Nd give her soMe tym for heR..break nd breakup is diffrent..It's my opinion...Guys..