I'm 15weeks+4 🙋♀️ I found Nurse Zabe because i watch "Mama Doctor Jones" 😄 shes an OBGYN. Only recently been subscribed here ^_^ really helpful tips though! Even though I'm in the UK 😅
The definition of natural is not made or caused by mankind. An Epidural is mad made, so by definition it's not natural. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. I don't know why people get offended by being linguistically correct.
HAD the epidural. LOVED it. No problems and I was up and walking within the hour after giving birth. No side effects. No long recovery and the most beautiful memories of L&D. Recommend 100%
Love that! Do you think it was the dose/placement that made it a good experience? The timing? (Like how dilated you were when you received the epi?) Do you have any extra details you can give?
I've been interested in a pool birth or giving birth in a large bean bag. A bed just doesn't seem like a comfortable position. I want to be mostly facing down as much as I can! Let gravity do some work too 😂
I used solely heuristic remedies for my birth, I'm not particularly hippy dippy but am highly sensitive to drugs. There are so many great alternative options, I would love to hear about other options avaliable!!
Maya Chaoui oh oh sweetie you don't have to go through this fright. I had suffered from this but I came to the reality. Just put in mind that when you reach that bridge you will cross it. Enjoy your pregnancy and when that time comes you are going to overcome no matter what.
I’m a newlywed and we aren’t planning to get pregnant for a while but I’ve been binge watching all your videos! I hope to have a nurse like you one day 💕💕
I did my birth unmedicated. I was totally open to an epidural as part of my birth plan. But it never got so bad that I felt I needed it. When I was pushing the head out though, I was begging the nurse to just cut me open and get it out loool
Agreed. I was terrified to get the epidural when I was pregnant but when I went into labor and hit about 7cm I decided to get it and it wasn't bad at all.
I had it for a csection I was terrified but felt nothing! Ended up having a panic attack after I had it and needed oxygen though 🤦🏻♀️ only because I was scared haha
I agree too. I ended up having an emergency C-section and the anesthesiologist did a great job! I was in the middle of a big contraction and I didn't really feel anything. 😂 And months before I was like heck no epidural if I can help it. (Just a personal choice/preference at the time and a little freaked out by the thought.)
The pro is 1000% times better. Women should not needlessly suffer in a modern age with amazing medicine. An Epidural is like a piece of heaven when your in absolute hell. Recommend it.
Epidural made my birth so much more comfortable!! When anyone asks me if I suggest it yes! Took the stress off worrying pain and really let me focus on pushing. Baby was out in an hour :)
Same! With my 1st I ended up getting it and I was not worried about pain and focused on pushing. Currently 8 months pregnant and definitely getting an epidural again if I can ^.^
Whew contractions are like a whole other world of pain. Never felt anything like it before. I’m glad I got an epidural. Didn’t feel the epidural itself and didn’t feel the birth. They gave me a clicker for it 😁 It was crazy because I hadn’t pushed it and a nurse came in and was like “you might want to push that button now” I’m not sure how she knew but it was time to push like 5 minutes later. Thank you for that nurse! Didn’t feel a damn thing. Quick, painless delivery. The pitocin made me contract and whew, intense. Any who, thank you for being you! These videos are awesome.
Xam did you have tearing? what was your recovery like? super curious because i’m weighing the options though i’m only 10 weeks right now lol thanks for sharing your experience!
StealingSunsets Yes I tore and recovery wasn’t too bad. They made me very comfortable. You’ll wear a diaper thing for a couple of days and you will discharge and bleed a bit. So, my son was premature, only weighing in at 4lbs 7oz. I still tore and they had to stitch me up (they stitched me up a bit too much, I think, because sex 2 years later was still tough.. it took a bit to get the peeper in the hole) just being honest lol 😇 They did a fantastic job though, I think my experience was smooth because of how little he was. Of coarse every woman’s experience is different. Congrats on the baby! I hope your birth experience and recovery go well. And don’t do what I did and deny the epidural the first time they ask ( I denied it the first time they asked if I wanted an epidural because I was feeling ok, little did I know shit was about to get real haha don’t make the same mistake) it’s intense but once the meds kick in you shouldn’t feel anything. I hope you have an healthy pregnancy and baby. 💕 Edit: sorry for the wall of text, hopefully it helped you and if not I’m sorry for the rambling lol
It’s scary but most women end up with it. The first couple days postpartum are the worst as far as that goes, but it’s really not all that horrible. They have good sprays for numbing and some for healing. I tore with both of my boys and will probably tear again with my 3rd (due in October!) but it heals and then it’s like it never happened! You just have to take care of yourself and be patient! Good luck ladies!
I had an episiotomy with my first (which was my epidural birth) and tore with my second (which was my natural birth) and I'd prefer to tear I think. Things seemed to heal quicker and I wasnt in as much pain. Stitches aren't fun but they're pretty quick about it usually.
I had an episiotomy with my first and second degree tearing with my second. For me, an episiotomy is much worse. The recovery was more painful and I bled much longer. Tearing was not nearly as bad for me.
Seems like there might be an increase in tearing risk if youre medicated (no shame, but if youre not feeling the pain, it may be easier to push harder without gently stretching first). I have no idea if it's true, but I've wondered about it. I've only had unmedicated births and absolutely no tearing either time. Again, no shame, but I've been curious if there's a link.
Thank you so much for this! First of all, your distinction between pain and suffering was mind-blowing for me and a real game changer--it changed my whole perspective on epidurals. Secondly, thank you SO MUCH for actually giving a BALANCED perspective on epidurals! I've done a lot of research on these, and I think this might actually be the *first time* I've heard both the positives and the negatives from the *same person*. Usually it's either "epidurals are awful and are guaranteed to cause a cascade of interventions and you should never ever get them or else you're a failure" or "epidurals are so awesome, bad stuff hardly ever happens so don't even worry about it, and anyone who doesn't want one is a crazy hippie person," so it really means a lot to hear a balanced perspective!
dear gosh you are literally an angel. I've been freaking out so badly about my due date coming and what the epidural will actually be like. this is putting my mind so much at ease.
Uhhhh I hope I have a nurse like you looking after me and baby ❤️💙 Thank you for your videos, they’ve truly answered many questions for me and have actually calmed my nerves. 💙💕
Thank you! I appreciate your pros AND cons. Instead of just preaching about your own preferences. Your videos bring me such comfort. You're very knowledgeable and I feel confident I know my stuff after listening to you.
I don't have children and don't plan on having them for a while but i love watching your videos! So informative and i would love to have a nurse like you!
I want to go natural but I get a lot of discouraging looks from people I know. Like I won’t be able to do it or they think I’m in over my head, it’s really frustrating and discouraging. I’ve learned to just not talk about it to anyone except my boyfriend who’s on my side about everything. I’m for all things natural and it sucks to have that feeling that people don’t believe in me but it make me want to do it even more..Praying for a great delivery
A supportive partner is all that matters, girl! I got some eyerolls when I first got to the hospital about my plans to have an unmedicated birth but I did it anyway because who cares what they think! You aren't there to impress anybody (which is good because I made a lot of noise and was totally naked for a good bit of it lol). The most important thing in my experience was just to trust the process and be as completely relaxed as possible. I learned the stages of labor and practiced relaxation techniques daily at the end of my pregnancy that I learned through my childbirth education class. The support of my doula was also invaluable! For me personally, needles, numbness and the inability to move freely are my biggest fears (literally give me panic attacks when I have procedures done that require those things) so I was able to relax much more just moving and moaning and going with my body than I think I would've been with an epidural. If you are still on the fence I would personally recommend reading natural birth stories or watching videos and asking yourself what feels more relaxing and less scary to you: moving and swaying and moaning through the most intense physical experience of your life and feeling everything your body is doing as you bring baby into the world OR being mostly numbed to it all, confined to bed with all kinds of things hooked up to you with little to no pain. Once you've picked your preference, do everything you can to prepare but always be willing to change on a dime if baby's safety demands it!
You will know what to do when it’s time to make your choice. As long as your choice is informed and you do it because it’s what YOU want to do it’s the right choice.
My goal is to do it without epidural. I really don't want to have a catheter. And honestly I want to experience the entire thing. I have been watching no epidural labor and delivery videos the past couple of days. It's just such a beautiful thing and I'm really hoping I can experience it. I'm only 10 weeks pregnant but I think it's important to get an idea of what you want during your labor and birth. Thank you for your videos always so very helpful!
I REALLY wish I could understand why anyone would choose to go thru such maddening pain. I've read it so many time "I want to experience it" and other renditions on that same sentence. I just am still not getting it or a more defined answer.
@@harrietpotter2646 I really don't understand why you are bothered enough to even comment on what I want to do. But you do you. I don't have to give a more defined answer it's my choice. There are pros and cons on both sides. I don't want to deal with an epidural if I don't have to.
We are trying to conceive right now and I have been watching your videos lately. You are so amazing. I am the kind of person that likes to plan and know EVERYTHING before I go into something. Your videos are exactly what I have been looking for. From the bottom of my heart thank you so much!
Had my first baby 4 weeks ago! Since day one I knew I wanted to get an epidural. In my experience, it was the best thing. I was able to relax, nap and enjoy the process. Most of all, every time they would measure me and I was another centimeter dilated, it was more of a happy exciting feeling rather than “are you effing kidding me!?” (as I saw my sister go through it unmedicated) 🙂 Props to everyone who goes through this unmedicated! You all are amazing!! 💛
I’m almost 30 weeks pregnant and can’t even tell you how helpful your videos have been. You were truly born for this, thanks so much for the good work!
I’m expecting my first in February. And I’ve found your videos, and I really am so glad I did. You’re so calming and comforting, and super informative. Thanks so much for doing what you’re doing!
I absolutely want an epidural. I have suffered from period pain throughout my life and my pain tolerance is so low, I know once my contractions start I will be begging for one.
I had an epidural with Both. I felt empowered by the fact that I could relax and enjoy the company of my family, singing, joking, taking naps, all while having a baby hah! I loved being relaxed! It really helped be less tired and enjoy my baby as soon as she got there. I also labored all night and got no sleep so having the opportunity to nap and relax was amazing. I did get a UTI from my catheter the first time and it was absolutely the worst! But the second was perfect.
I love your videos! Thank you so much for sharing all of this information. I'm about to go into labor myself, and your videos have been very helpful in preparing for it mentally. 💖❤️
I love your distinction between pain vs suffering. I've had a med free birth, and seen med free births, and you're right, pain can be normal, can be manageable, but no one should be expected to endure suffering without relief. There is definitely room for pain meds in labour and no one should feel shamed for taking that option. I'm definitely going to be more open to my med options for #2.
I am a 20-year-old college student and I in NO way am planning to have a child soon, but I love your videos!!! You have such a sweet and soothing nature about you. Thanks for the lessons!
Thank you for actually going over the cons. I watched so many videos on this and you were the first to actually address the cons and possible complications in depth. I had an epidural for my first and experienced many of these complications and hope to never have to do it again.
So happy I stumbled across your videos. I get soo emotional every time I watch one. I’m expecting my first April 24th and I want to educate myself on everything childbirth and your videos are so HELPFUL.
Currently 37 weeks. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge. 💙💙💙 Even though it is not my first birth I still get a little nervous about making that choice, epidural or no epidural.
I was at a birthclass a few weeks ago, where the midwife said: if the birthing mom has been pushing in the same position for an hour, without any kind of progress, she (the midwife) had been doing a poor job. Moving around is very important.
Thank you for all your videos! I am almost 22 weeks pregnant with my first child, and am trying to research/prepare, and your videos are helping tremendously. I hope I have a delivery nurse like you! Thank you for the great care you give.
I had an epidural (doctor decided for me because I had high blood pressure) and I had the easiest and best delivery ever!! It was amazing the whole way through.
I think you made a very great point on pain vs suffering mentally! Thank you for that, I’m a very petite woman and underweight but pain tolerance is high but i’m still deciding on risking going without medication. Everyone makes epidurals sound so terrible or painful but suffering mentally shouldn’t have to be part of such a happy and beautiful moment. Currently 20 weeks!
Trust me, you wont even feel that epidural once you are dialated to a 7. That is usually about the time I will have mine done and the contraction pain is pretty intense to where any needle prick is going to be unnoticed my you. The relief you feel after its in place is heavenly.
Really, really great and concise info here. She raises something most don't think of-- pain AFTER the delivery! Labor w/o pain medication is one thing, but tearing and having to get stitches down there is a whole other thing. Even if the epidural is turned off after delivery, it helps ease some of the pain that comes after.
Thankyou for this video i ended up having an epidural after 14 hours of labour and i felt so guilty but physically didnt have it in me this video has made me feel so much better xx
32 weeks in and this is the first time I'm considering going without the epidural. I have an appointment this week with my ob, so I'll definitely be talking with her more about this. Thank you.
I had all 4 of my baby’s naturally no meds girl but i am now due with my5th in a week and I might want to try epidural because it takes so much out of you to feel all that pain but I’ll wait untill that time comes ☺️ either way your body can doit that’s what we were made for
You are an amazing woman!!! Am definitely more open to the thought of having an epidural now if like you said pain turns to suffering. You are very relatable and make a lot of sense. Thank you!!! Xxx
I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I love all your videos! I have been super nervous about labour pain and delivery (still am but not as much as before) but being informed about all these things is relaxing me and has given me an overall confidence that I can manage everything. So, thank you. :)
First time pregnant here. This video was incredibly helpful ❤️ Since I’ve never been through this before I have not made a fixed plan, and will adjust as Things go depending on how I feel. If I can do without the epidural I will, but if I can’t handle the pain and start feeling miserable, I will not hesitate to get it. Thank you 😊
I had an epidural with all three of my deliveries. I regret nothing lol Thanks for such informative and helpful videos Elizabeth!! These are so great for women to hear!
I just gave birth on the 16th and your videos gave me such piece of mind in my birth decisions and really made me feel like I knew enough of what was going on. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!
Thank you for making this video, and I'm very excited to see your next video about an unmedicated birth. I'm due in 3 weeks and I'm still trying to fully decide on my birth plan. I'm super open minded and know it can change, and it's good to know that good nurses roll the flow as well and are always there to help you. :)
I wanted a natural and unmedicated birth. After about 20 hours of labor and contractions I was begging for an epidural. I don’t remember any pain when epidural was administered. I just remember the bliss and relief from pain.
I’m watching this video literally on my 54th hour of back labour. I wanted to go all natural before now 😩 I had my second sweep and the contractions have gone from 0-100 and I’m in agony
I cant watch your videos without crying because I end up thinking about labor with my son and how I want to do things differently with my next, future child. I love your videos ❤
I watched your video the night I went into labor and I definitely had you in my thoughts when I decided to get the epidural , I was extremely afraid of it but i got it and it was the best decision ever because pain was unbearable for me with my contractions being so close , if I were to ever have a baby again epidural will be in my plans
I’m 28 weeks pregnant my first baby and your videos has been making me feel more calm about labor. I mean I’m still nervous about it but watching you videos make me feel like I got this. Can’t wait to meet this baby, I say I don’t want epidural but I feel as if when labor comes I’ll change my mind . Love your videos ❤️
I’m so appreciative of your videos. It is a time of uncertainty with covid19 and know my doctor is doing his best. I still have 3 months to go but these are a nice way to help me mentally prepare for what’s to come.
I had an epidural May 9th 2019 and had a wonderful experience. The needle didn’t hurt and I didn’t feel any pain through my labor but I was still able to feel pressure from contractions. I was able to push on my own from the pressure. (: But I also had amazing people helping me at the hospital I went to. Plus they numb you before they insert the epidural needle. I had the button to give me more medication btw.
For my first child, I decided I will have an unmedicated birth. I had practiced breathing exercises.. changed my mind 😃 and requested epidural during my labor. Best decision for me. Expecting my second child anytime now!!
I really love your videos. I'm currently pregnant with my first baby. And I was so scared about getting an epidural but also so scared about unmedicated birth. I feel way more comfortable and at ease with your information. Thanks you so so so much
Due date is in 20 days and if I’m honest getting so excited and nervous. We are completely ready to go car seat put in the car and took it to the CHP office to verify it was in correctly. Baby’s and my bag is packed and we are keeping our cars with full tanks to be prepared. Lastly everyone’s keeping their phones on loud. I keep trying to tell myself pain is temporary, and women have been giving birth for thousands of years. So I can do it! Lastly idk how you’re not at a million subscribers already?!?!? Your videos are so helpful, intriguing, and genuinely help calm me down when I’m feeling anxious.
On a related note, I wonder how hospitals cope with car-free mums? I've heard that hospitals only relinquish their custody of newborns to the mother when she presents the security guard outside with a car and infant car seat. I live in downtown L.A. and walk almost everywhere. I take the bus and subway now and then. If I have a baby, the two main hospitals I'm most likely to give birth in are walking distance and a third is a brief bus ride away. I imagine the legal bureaucracy will actually force me to acquire a car seat somehow from somewhere THAT I WILL NEVER USE AGAIN and either rent an Uber or bother my only relative in in the area, who I barely know, to give us a ride home. For a whole 9 blocks, lol!!!
You should call one of the hospitals and ask! When you call I would ask to speak to someone in labor and delivery. In big cities like that a lot of people don’t drive! I live in Ca but I live about 3 hours from LA and it’s a smaller city so it’s not as common to not have a vehicle. But I couldn’t imagine them saying no to a mom walking
Thank you for this. This is my first child and I’m so freaked out but excited for her to come. I hate pain and am wanting an epidural and pray it will work for me. I love your videos just thank you again for prepping me for what is about to come in 6 months
I’m a 1st time mom expecting twins. Idk where I’d be without your help & tips! I just love your videos!! Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge and expertise with us, beautiful !
This is my 2nd pregnancy and expecting twins. Baby A is making things look like we're headed for a Csection and my biggest fear is the epidural and catheter. My first birth was unmedicated and wanted the same this time around but, babies safe arrival is my goal at this point. Hoping your labor and delivery goes well!
I’m hoping not to, however I’m open to the thought of it! I’m an ER nurse in the facility I’ll be delivering in, and I’m very familiar with our anesthesia team which makes me feel much more comfortable as I’m not a huge fan of needles. Love your videos!!
I went natural until I was stuck at 9.5 cm for 4 hours and I tapped out! I loved it after!!! I was sad because my husband couldn’t be in the room when they were doing it but I think it helped a ton with the pushing
In Tampa Florida husband was allowed in room but they made him sit down in a chair on opposite side but I didn’t care my nurse was awesome I held her hands 😭❤️
Im 34 weeks pregnant. I initially was definitely wanting to get an epidural because I'm terrified of birthing pain. After watching a handful of your videos I'm feeling much more comfortable about an unmedicated birth and will go into my birth plan without a requested epidural. Though like you've said, plans can change. Thank you so much for making CZcams videos. You're definitely the most educational one I've watched thus far and I appreciate you so much!
I was my best friend’s birthing partner, the midwife she used had hospital privileges so she was going to have a water birth in the hospital. She is terrified of needles, so she was determined not to have an epidural. And she was a champ at dealing with the pain, despite being 7cm dilated, the nurses and midwife couldn’t tell when she was having a contraction except when she told them. Then her labour slowed in progression and they opted to break her water. The way the tub was set up, the midwife couldn’t check how dilated she was, and didn’t know her cervix wasn’t still opening at the same rate, but Luna, my niece was turning over and creating an enormous feeling of pressure like she had to push. So the midwife told her to push. She did for hours, with her agony intensifying. Turns out she was ramming Luna into her cervix causing some internal swelling and a lot of pain for my friend. She asked for an epidural two hours before her midwife gave in and helped her out of the tub, which by that point she was hysterical so definitely suffering. Her contractions came pretty much every two minutes, and they had to stop multiple times while trying to administer the epidural because she couldn’t stop shaking. The asshole who finally got it in then began berating her because “if [she] knew she was going to get this, [she] should not have waited so long.” The epidural hadn’t kicked in yet. She was still in pain, and at that point hysterical, she could no longer understand anything anyone said to her and just kept repeating, “I can’t.” I nearly killed him. Once the epidural began to give her relief the doctor checked and realized she was at 10cm, but decided to let her sleep for 2 hours. Which was good because she was asleep before he finished talking. Honestly we were surprised that they even allowed her the epidural at that point in her labour, but once she was awakened and her contractions restarted, it was so unbelievably better. She said if she has another baby she’ll be walking back first into the hospital with a sign pointed at her back.
My mom had a hot spot with her epidural while delivering me, caused a lot of stress and she ended up having to get an emergency c section... Now I'm 33 weeks pregnant and I reaallllyyyyyy want to avoid having an epidural but who knows! I'm putting in my birth plan that I'd rather avoid it. Thank you so much for the comprehensive low down on epidurals, it makes me feel SO much more informed :) ❤️
Thank you so much! I love your videos! I had heard a lot of scary things about epidurals as well as knowing that most people don't have problems. I didn't have one with my first labor, but this time I'm going to be in a hospital instead of a birthing center. I still don't want an epidural but your video helped me know that the scary things I had heard were because of epidurals done incorrectly or just one of the possible risks. Thank you!
The not being able to move or walk or change position literally gives me anxiety. Fingers crossed that I can do this all without an epidural. Of course anything to have a healthy baby is goal #1.
I totally feel this way as well. Like mentally knowing I wont be able to feel my legs or move on my own gives me so much anxiety! But I'm really leaning towards the epidural because I'm terrified of the pain.
@@melissajenkins1637 yes. I did read that. In my experience, everyone I know is still restricted to the bed and is not allowed to get up and move around. Unfortunately, my bp was too high and an epidural was suggested. The guy fished around in my back for 15 min and several contractions. And while I was greatful for the 2 hour nap I got - I woke up to a rush of intense pain and the urge to push. While I was happy everything pretty much wore off at go time, no one really believed that I could feel everything. I didn't know why I was feeling everything, I thought something was wrong - which was freaking me out. Communication fail. And I was still made to stay in bed although I could literally stand. I pushed for 15 min and our LO was here. Happy and healthy. Tore very slightly and a couple stitches were put in - I felt every one of them. Again they didn't really understand that i could feel that. They thought I had some immunity to the numbing agent. I honestly would rather push a baby out again than sit through sutures.
Your videos are making me feel so much better I had an awful labor and delivery with my son 6 years ago and I’m terrified about my third pregnancy but ur videos have been helping make me feel so much better
Does anybody else think she looks like Drew Barrymore? (Visually, vocally, and mannerisms)
Omg yes
i was just thinking that!!
Prettier!
Was literally thinking this the whole time.
Definitely she's so pretty xx
I love this nurse!!!!! She's the dream nurse in delivery. Wish more would take notes.
Victoria Carter 💯 I had the worst nurses for birthing my kids! They were not on my team and they did not listen to me or my husband
Victoria Carter I agree! I don’t have kids but I hope and pray I get one like her when I do!
Currently 0 weeks pregnant and I don't know why I'm here but great video, good job.
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Same
Me too, god this is scary stuff
Same same 🤣🤣
I'm 15weeks+4 🙋♀️ I found Nurse Zabe because i watch "Mama Doctor Jones" 😄 shes an OBGYN. Only recently been subscribed here ^_^ really helpful tips though! Even though I'm in the UK 😅
Thank you for calling it epidural birth and unmediated birth not epidural and natural birth. All birth is natural ! Really love your videos
YES YES YES!
The definition of natural is not made or caused by mankind. An Epidural is mad made, so by definition it's not natural. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. I don't know why people get offended by being linguistically correct.
@@jacquelinehadid8043 couldn't agree more!
@@jacquelinehadid8043 Totaly disagree. Epidural is just a pain relieving technique. Both ways baby gets out through vagina, which is natural.
In my opinion if it comes out your vagina it’s natural
HAD the epidural. LOVED it. No problems and I was up and walking within the hour after giving birth. No side effects. No long recovery and the most beautiful memories of L&D. Recommend 100%
Emily same experience! 3 times
Love that! Do you think it was the dose/placement that made it a good experience? The timing? (Like how dilated you were when you received the epi?) Do you have any extra details you can give?
Same! Was walking soon as it wore off within an hour. Didn't even feel the lidocaine
My epidural didn't fully work, hated I couldn't move around. Going to try next time without one.
Uff! Your comment gave me relief!
Nurse: what’s your birthing plan
Me to have a baby lol
Rose Borelli This is me 😂😂😂
Mee too
I've been interested in a pool birth or giving birth in a large bean bag. A bed just doesn't seem like a comfortable position. I want to be mostly facing down as much as I can! Let gravity do some work too 😂
Right..
😂😂😂
Can you do a video of pain management options that aren’t an epidural. Other medications etc
Great idea!
I know its not pain management, but a video on alternatives like nitrous oxide would be awesome.
I used solely heuristic remedies for my birth, I'm not particularly hippy dippy but am highly sensitive to drugs. There are so many great alternative options, I would love to hear about other options avaliable!!
I second this. I have a pretty severe fear of labor and childbirth, and now that I’m pregnant, every day is filled with panic and dread.
Maya Chaoui oh oh sweetie you don't have to go through this fright. I had suffered from this but I came to the reality. Just put in mind that when you reach that bridge you will cross it. Enjoy your pregnancy and when that time comes you are going to overcome no matter what.
I’m a newlywed and we aren’t planning to get pregnant for a while but I’ve been binge watching all your videos! I hope to have a nurse like you one day 💕💕
Sammmeeeeeeeee!!
Me too, I'm glad to see other people watch when they are not 🤰, makes me feel a little less crazy
Same!
Same girl! Not even married hahah. I find child birth very fascinating.
I have had 3 children...3 epidurals. Amazing and easy births, all of them. My main advice is to be flexible about your birth plan
Thanks for that I’ve had two no epidurals but this time around I really want L&D to be more relaxing. Did you get it right away or waited for a while?
The Beavers Family I got it as soon as I could. At 4 cm
I did my birth unmedicated. I was totally open to an epidural as part of my birth plan. But it never got so bad that I felt I needed it. When I was pushing the head out though, I was begging the nurse to just cut me open and get it out loool
I'm gonna be flexible, but prefer to do it unmedicated, vagina
Epidurals seem a lot scarier than they actually are in my opinion. Mine was absolutely fantastic. 10/10.
Agreed. I was terrified to get the epidural when I was pregnant but when I went into labor and hit about 7cm I decided to get it and it wasn't bad at all.
My epidural saved my sanity. Would recommend to everyone.
Agreed! I personally didn’t feel the epidural being administered either. Quick and painless birth as well.
I had it for a csection I was terrified but felt nothing! Ended up having a panic attack after I had it and needed oxygen though 🤦🏻♀️ only because I was scared haha
I agree too. I ended up having an emergency C-section and the anesthesiologist did a great job! I was in the middle of a big contraction and I didn't really feel anything. 😂 And months before I was like heck no epidural if I can help it. (Just a personal choice/preference at the time and a little freaked out by the thought.)
This has definitely confirmed that I'd rather not have an epidural if I can! Thank you for your frank and honest videos!
stripeydani good luck, mama! 💪🏼💗
The pro is 1000% times better. Women should not needlessly suffer in a modern age with amazing medicine. An Epidural is like a piece of heaven when your in absolute hell. Recommend it.
@@Georgian1717 Well it's been two years and I didnt get an epidural, my baby arrived so fast I didnt even get a chance to consider pain relief xD
Epidural made my birth so much more comfortable!! When anyone asks me if I suggest it yes! Took the stress off worrying pain and really let me focus on pushing. Baby was out in an hour :)
Same! With my 1st I ended up getting it and I was not worried about pain and focused on pushing. Currently 8 months pregnant and definitely getting an epidural again if I can ^.^
Right ! Oh my gosh like a saving grace!
Did you shake when you got it? Is it normal ?
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Wow... no pain and it still took you an hour??😥
Whew contractions are like a whole other world of pain. Never felt anything like it before. I’m glad I got an epidural. Didn’t feel the epidural itself and didn’t feel the birth. They gave me a clicker for it 😁 It was crazy because I hadn’t pushed it and a nurse came in and was like “you might want to push that button now” I’m not sure how she knew but it was time to push like 5 minutes later. Thank you for that nurse! Didn’t feel a damn thing. Quick, painless delivery. The pitocin made me contract and whew, intense. Any who, thank you for being you! These videos are awesome.
Xam did you have tearing? what was your recovery like? super curious because i’m weighing the options though i’m only 10 weeks right now lol thanks for sharing your experience!
StealingSunsets Yes I tore and recovery wasn’t too bad. They made me very comfortable. You’ll wear a diaper thing for a couple of days and you will discharge and bleed a bit. So, my son was premature, only weighing in at 4lbs 7oz. I still tore and they had to stitch me up (they stitched me up a bit too much, I think, because sex 2 years later was still tough.. it took a bit to get the peeper in the hole) just being honest lol 😇 They did a fantastic job though, I think my experience was smooth because of how little he was. Of coarse every woman’s experience is different. Congrats on the baby! I hope your birth experience and recovery go well.
And don’t do what I did and deny the epidural the first time they ask ( I denied it the first time they asked if I wanted an epidural because I was feeling ok, little did I know shit was about to get real haha don’t make the same mistake) it’s intense but once the meds kick in you shouldn’t feel anything. I hope you have an healthy pregnancy and baby. 💕
Edit: sorry for the wall of text, hopefully it helped you and if not I’m sorry for the rambling lol
26 weeks pregnant with my first and I really needed this video! Thank you for sharing some of your knowledge because I still had so many questions. 💜
Same here! 💜
I had an epidural and absolutely don’t regret it lol.
Same girl. Same 😂👌🏼
can you talk more about tearing? it's scary
Same im worried about tearing and running my lady bits for future escapades
It’s scary but most women end up with it. The first couple days postpartum are the worst as far as that goes, but it’s really not all that horrible. They have good sprays for numbing and some for healing. I tore with both of my boys and will probably tear again with my 3rd (due in October!) but it heals and then it’s like it never happened! You just have to take care of yourself and be patient! Good luck ladies!
I had an episiotomy with my first (which was my epidural birth) and tore with my second (which was my natural birth) and I'd prefer to tear I think. Things seemed to heal quicker and I wasnt in as much pain. Stitches aren't fun but they're pretty quick about it usually.
I had an episiotomy with my first and second degree tearing with my second. For me, an episiotomy is much worse. The recovery was more painful and I bled much longer. Tearing was not nearly as bad for me.
Seems like there might be an increase in tearing risk if youre medicated (no shame, but if youre not feeling the pain, it may be easier to push harder without gently stretching first). I have no idea if it's true, but I've wondered about it. I've only had unmedicated births and absolutely no tearing either time. Again, no shame, but I've been curious if there's a link.
Thank you so much for this! First of all, your distinction between pain and suffering was mind-blowing for me and a real game changer--it changed my whole perspective on epidurals. Secondly, thank you SO MUCH for actually giving a BALANCED perspective on epidurals! I've done a lot of research on these, and I think this might actually be the *first time* I've heard both the positives and the negatives from the *same person*. Usually it's either "epidurals are awful and are guaranteed to cause a cascade of interventions and you should never ever get them or else you're a failure" or "epidurals are so awesome, bad stuff hardly ever happens so don't even worry about it, and anyone who doesn't want one is a crazy hippie person," so it really means a lot to hear a balanced perspective!
dear gosh you are literally an angel. I've been freaking out so badly about my due date coming and what the epidural will actually be like. this is putting my mind so much at ease.
Can you do a video on the risks and benefits of induction?
Yes please!
Yes please! This is such an important topic.
yes please! really want to know more about induction and i trust her so much more than random google sources
YES!! Please
Uhhhh I hope I have a nurse like you looking after me and baby ❤️💙 Thank you for your videos, they’ve truly answered many questions for me and have actually calmed my nerves. 💙💕
Your voice is so comforting, I wanna deliver at the hospital you work at
I’m not pregnant and nowhere near being pregnant at this point in my life but I love watching these type of videos. So informative!
You have such a soothing way of explaining! I hope I'm blessed with a nurse like you!
Thank you! I appreciate your pros AND cons. Instead of just preaching about your own preferences. Your videos bring me such comfort. You're very knowledgeable and I feel confident I know my stuff after listening to you.
The discussion of pain vs. suffering was totally eye opening. Wish you could be there with me in L&D!
I don't have children and don't plan on having them for a while but i love watching your videos! So informative and i would love to have a nurse like you!
I want to go natural but I get a lot of discouraging looks from people I know. Like I won’t be able to do it or they think I’m in over my head, it’s really frustrating and discouraging. I’ve learned to just not talk about it to anyone except my boyfriend who’s on my side about everything. I’m for all things natural and it sucks to have that feeling that people don’t believe in me but it make me want to do it even more..Praying for a great delivery
Girl, no matter what happens, you got this!! 💗💪🏼
A supportive partner is all that matters, girl! I got some eyerolls when I first got to the hospital about my plans to have an unmedicated birth but I did it anyway because who cares what they think! You aren't there to impress anybody (which is good because I made a lot of noise and was totally naked for a good bit of it lol). The most important thing in my experience was just to trust the process and be as completely relaxed as possible. I learned the stages of labor and practiced relaxation techniques daily at the end of my pregnancy that I learned through my childbirth education class. The support of my doula was also invaluable! For me personally, needles, numbness and the inability to move freely are my biggest fears (literally give me panic attacks when I have procedures done that require those things) so I was able to relax much more just moving and moaning and going with my body than I think I would've been with an epidural. If you are still on the fence I would personally recommend reading natural birth stories or watching videos and asking yourself what feels more relaxing and less scary to you: moving and swaying and moaning through the most intense physical experience of your life and feeling everything your body is doing as you bring baby into the world OR being mostly numbed to it all, confined to bed with all kinds of things hooked up to you with little to no pain. Once you've picked your preference, do everything you can to prepare but always be willing to change on a dime if baby's safety demands it!
Courtney Milner you can if you believe you can doesn’t matter what people say ! Stay strong 💪
Our bodies were made to give birth naturally. Your body will know what to do.
You will know what to do when it’s time to make your choice. As long as your choice is informed and you do it because it’s what YOU want to do it’s the right choice.
So interesting..... you are making me rethink things... I still don’t regret mine but I wish someone had takes me through all the impacts
I would loooove to have you as my nurse!!! You’re so sweet and nurturing 💕
My goal is to do it without epidural. I really don't want to have a catheter. And honestly I want to experience the entire thing. I have been watching no epidural labor and delivery videos the past couple of days. It's just such a beautiful thing and I'm really hoping I can experience it. I'm only 10 weeks pregnant but I think it's important to get an idea of what you want during your labor and birth. Thank you for your videos always so very helpful!
Maya Papaya May i ask what other videos you’ve been watching?
I felt this way until I was actually in active labor... ;)
I REALLY wish I could understand why anyone would choose to go thru such maddening pain. I've read it so many time "I want to experience it" and other renditions on that same sentence. I just am still not getting it or a more defined answer.
@@harrietpotter2646 I really don't understand why you are bothered enough to even comment on what I want to do. But you do you. I don't have to give a more defined answer it's my choice. There are pros and cons on both sides. I don't want to deal with an epidural if I don't have to.
@@ICaughtTheSnitch26 good for you. Nothing wrong with an epidural.
We are trying to conceive right now and I have been watching your videos lately. You are so amazing. I am the kind of person that likes to plan and know EVERYTHING before I go into something. Your videos are exactly what I have been looking for. From the bottom of my heart thank you so much!
I'm 38 weeks right now and I appreciate this video so much, thank you
Had my first baby 4 weeks ago! Since day one I knew I wanted to get an epidural. In my experience, it was the best thing. I was able to relax, nap and enjoy the process. Most of all, every time they would measure me and I was another centimeter dilated, it was more of a happy exciting feeling rather than “are you effing kidding me!?” (as I saw my sister go through it unmedicated) 🙂
Props to everyone who goes through this unmedicated! You all are amazing!! 💛
I want you to be my nurse!! 😭😭😭
I’m almost 30 weeks pregnant and can’t even tell you how helpful your videos have been. You were truly born for this, thanks so much for the good work!
I’m expecting my first in February. And I’ve found your videos, and I really am so glad I did. You’re so calming and comforting, and super informative. Thanks so much for doing what you’re doing!
Kayla Danielle Thanks for watching! Wishing you a healthy and safe delivery! 💗
I absolutely want an epidural. I have suffered from period pain throughout my life and my pain tolerance is so low, I know once my contractions start I will be begging for one.
I had an epidural with Both. I felt empowered by the fact that I could relax and enjoy the company of my family, singing, joking, taking naps, all while having a baby hah! I loved being relaxed! It really helped be less tired and enjoy my baby as soon as she got there. I also labored all night and got no sleep so having the opportunity to nap and relax was amazing. I did get a UTI from my catheter the first time and it was absolutely the worst! But the second was perfect.
I used this technology 😁two times with my boy and then the little girl. My two experiences were both AMAZING!
I love your videos! Thank you so much for sharing all of this information. I'm about to go into labor myself, and your videos have been very helpful in preparing for it mentally. 💖❤️
Megan Harris good luck, mama! You got this! 💪🏼💗
I love your distinction between pain vs suffering. I've had a med free birth, and seen med free births, and you're right, pain can be normal, can be manageable, but no one should be expected to endure suffering without relief. There is definitely room for pain meds in labour and no one should feel shamed for taking that option. I'm definitely going to be more open to my med options for #2.
I am a 20-year-old college student and I in NO way am planning to have a child soon, but I love your videos!!! You have such a sweet and soothing nature about you. Thanks for the lessons!
Thank you for actually going over the cons. I watched so many videos on this and you were the first to actually address the cons and possible complications in depth. I had an epidural for my first and experienced many of these complications and hope to never have to do it again.
So happy I stumbled across your videos. I get soo emotional every time I watch one. I’m expecting my first April 24th and I want to educate myself on everything childbirth and your videos are so HELPFUL.
Currently 37 weeks. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge. 💙💙💙 Even though it is not my first birth I still get a little nervous about making that choice, epidural or no epidural.
I was at a birthclass a few weeks ago, where the midwife said: if the birthing mom has been pushing in the same position for an hour, without any kind of progress, she (the midwife) had been doing a poor job.
Moving around is very important.
Thank you for all your videos! I am almost 22 weeks pregnant with my first child, and am trying to research/prepare, and your videos are helping tremendously. I hope I have a delivery nurse like you! Thank you for the great care you give.
I absolutely love her videos , I’m a first time mom & now i know everything i wanted to know thank you so much !
My first time pregnant and I am watching very single one of your videos. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
THANK YOU!! I’ve been recently thinking about this like crazy! I’m due in early September and needed this information to help me with my decision.
You are so amazing!! Thank you so much for you videos, they are incredibly helpful!
I had an epidural (doctor decided for me because I had high blood pressure) and I had the easiest and best delivery ever!! It was amazing the whole way through.
Yes same!! The high blood pressure and all
I think you made a very great point on pain vs suffering mentally! Thank you for that, I’m a very petite woman and underweight but pain tolerance is high but i’m still deciding on risking going without medication. Everyone makes epidurals sound so terrible or painful but suffering mentally shouldn’t have to be part of such a happy and beautiful moment.
Currently 20 weeks!
Trust me, you wont even feel that epidural once you are dialated to a 7. That is usually about the time I will have mine done and the contraction pain is pretty intense to where any needle prick is going to be unnoticed my you. The relief you feel after its in place is heavenly.
Really, really great and concise info here. She raises something most don't think of-- pain AFTER the delivery! Labor w/o pain medication is one thing, but tearing and having to get stitches down there is a whole other thing. Even if the epidural is turned off after delivery, it helps ease some of the pain that comes after.
Thank you so so much for this.. Calms my heart knowing more Info on this topic. You are a blessing.
Ugh I love how educated you are! So wishing you would be my labor nurse♥️
Thankyou for this video i ended up having an epidural after 14 hours of labour and i felt so guilty but physically didnt have it in me this video has made me feel so much better xx
I got my spinal when on my side. That was a big help.
32 weeks in and this is the first time I'm considering going without the epidural. I have an appointment this week with my ob, so I'll definitely be talking with her more about this. Thank you.
You’ve eased my anxiety so much! Not just the information but HOW you have delivered it! Wish you could be my nurse ❤️
I am 29 weeks pregnant and thinking of having my baby naturally.
What did you decide to do?? I’m 5 months along and I’m terrified ...
I had all 4 of my baby’s naturally no meds girl but i am now due with my5th in a week and I might want to try epidural because it takes so much out of you to feel all that pain but I’ll wait untill that time comes ☺️ either way your body can doit that’s what we were made for
I’m 14 weeks 😌I’ve been watching your videos since I found out and it has really eased my nerves
This was extremely informative! Thank you!
You are an amazing woman!!! Am definitely more open to the thought of having an epidural now if like you said pain turns to suffering. You are very relatable and make a lot of sense. Thank you!!! Xxx
39 weeks pregnant and still unsure if I’ll get it or not, but this video has really helped me feel informed and at peace with whatever I decide! 💕
You are almost done!! Wishing you a happy and healthy delivery whatever you decide 💗💗
you’re so educated and you really know what you’re talking about! i hope to have a labor nurse like you when i have my daughter 😭
Marina Rivera I’m sure your labor nurse will be fabulous and help you welcome a healthy baby girl! Good luck, mama! 💗💪🏼
I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I love all your videos! I have been super nervous about labour pain and delivery (still am but not as much as before) but being informed about all these things is relaxing me and has given me an overall confidence that I can manage everything. So, thank you. :)
Oh, I would love to have you as a delivery nurse in the future, you are just so good and understandable with a good aproach❤
First time pregnant here. This video was incredibly helpful ❤️ Since I’ve never been through this before I have not made a fixed plan, and will adjust as Things go depending on how I feel. If I can do without the epidural I will, but if I can’t handle the pain and start feeling miserable, I will not hesitate to get it. Thank you 😊
I had an epidural with all three of my deliveries. I regret nothing lol Thanks for such informative and helpful videos Elizabeth!! These are so great for women to hear!
Glad you had such great experiences! Epidurals can be awesome for sure!
I just gave birth on the 16th and your videos gave me such piece of mind in my birth decisions and really made me feel like I knew enough of what was going on. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!
Thank you for making this video, and I'm very excited to see your next video about an unmedicated birth. I'm due in 3 weeks and I'm still trying to fully decide on my birth plan. I'm super open minded and know it can change, and it's good to know that good nurses roll the flow as well and are always there to help you. :)
I wanted a natural and unmedicated birth. After about 20 hours of labor and contractions I was begging for an epidural. I don’t remember any pain when epidural was administered. I just remember the bliss and relief from pain.
I’m watching this video literally on my 54th hour of back labour. I wanted to go all natural before now 😩 I had my second sweep and the contractions have gone from 0-100 and I’m in agony
All your videos are so helpful and you are so sweet. I love this channel, even if I don't have kids on my own. Thank you so much! Hugs from Norway.
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I am 16 weeks along and I'm so glad I found your channel :)
I cant watch your videos without crying because I end up thinking about labor with my son and how I want to do things differently with my next, future child.
I love your videos ❤
Wow you seem AMAZING!! when I get pregnant I want to travel to what ever hospital you work at just so I can have you as my nurse!
I watched your video the night I went into labor and I definitely had you in my thoughts when I decided to get the epidural , I was extremely afraid of it but i got it and it was the best decision ever because pain was unbearable for me with my contractions being so close , if I were to ever have a baby again epidural will be in my plans
I’m 28 weeks pregnant my first baby and your videos has been making me feel more calm about labor. I mean I’m still nervous about it but watching you videos make me feel like I got this. Can’t wait to meet this baby, I say I don’t want epidural but I feel as if when labor comes I’ll change my mind . Love your videos ❤️
I’m so appreciative of your videos. It is a time of uncertainty with covid19 and know my doctor is doing his best. I still have 3 months to go but these are a nice way to help me mentally prepare for what’s to come.
I had an epidural May 9th 2019 and had a wonderful experience. The needle didn’t hurt and I didn’t feel any pain through my labor but I was still able to feel pressure from contractions. I was able to push on my own from the pressure. (: But I also had amazing people helping me at the hospital I went to. Plus they numb you before they insert the epidural needle. I had the button to give me more medication btw.
Lina_58 yay! Glad you had such a wonderful experience with your epidural and birth! 🤗
For my first child, I decided I will have an unmedicated birth. I had practiced breathing exercises.. changed my mind 😃 and requested epidural during my labor. Best decision for me. Expecting my second child anytime now!!
I really love your videos. I'm currently pregnant with my first baby. And I was so scared about getting an epidural but also so scared about unmedicated birth. I feel way more comfortable and at ease with your information. Thanks you so so so much
Thank you so much for sharing! So interesting
Due date is in 20 days and if I’m honest getting so excited and nervous. We are completely ready to go car seat put in the car and took it to the CHP office to verify it was in correctly. Baby’s and my bag is packed and we are keeping our cars with full tanks to be prepared. Lastly everyone’s keeping their phones on loud.
I keep trying to tell myself pain is temporary, and women have been giving birth for thousands of years. So I can do it!
Lastly idk how you’re not at a million subscribers already?!?!? Your videos are so helpful, intriguing, and genuinely help calm me down when I’m feeling anxious.
Melanie D you got this, mama!! 💗💪🏼
I keep telling myself the same things you are but I’m starting to get really nervous too!! I’m due in 6 weeks!
Good luck 💖
alexis oneill Thank you! And good luck to you as well!!:)
On a related note, I wonder how hospitals cope with car-free mums? I've heard that hospitals only relinquish their custody of newborns to the mother when she presents the security guard outside with a car and infant car seat. I live in downtown L.A. and walk almost everywhere. I take the bus and subway now and then. If I have a baby, the two main hospitals I'm most likely to give birth in are walking distance and a third is a brief bus ride away. I imagine the legal bureaucracy will actually force me to acquire a car seat somehow from somewhere THAT I WILL NEVER USE AGAIN and either rent an Uber or bother my only relative in in the area, who I barely know, to give us a ride home. For a whole 9 blocks, lol!!!
You should call one of the hospitals and ask! When you call I would ask to speak to someone in labor and delivery. In big cities like that a lot of people don’t drive! I live in Ca but I live about 3 hours from LA and it’s a smaller city so it’s not as common to not have a vehicle. But I couldn’t imagine them saying no to a mom walking
My answer hell yeah trust me it doesn’t hurt and labor pains are SERIOUS don’t be afraid to take whatever they give you lol
Thank you for this. This is my first child and I’m so freaked out but excited for her to come. I hate pain and am wanting an epidural and pray it will work for me. I love your videos just thank you again for prepping me for what is about to come in 6 months
I’m a 1st time mom expecting twins. Idk where I’d be without your help & tips! I just love your videos!! Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge and expertise with us, beautiful !
This is my 2nd pregnancy and expecting twins. Baby A is making things look like we're headed for a Csection and my biggest fear is the epidural and catheter. My first birth was unmedicated and wanted the same this time around but, babies safe arrival is my goal at this point. Hoping your labor and delivery goes well!
I’m hoping not to, however I’m open to the thought of it! I’m an ER nurse in the facility I’ll be delivering in, and I’m very familiar with our anesthesia team which makes me feel much more comfortable as I’m not a huge fan of needles. Love your videos!!
Agreed! I was totally comfortable with my epidural care with my first because I trust all our wonderful providers!
I went natural until I was stuck at 9.5 cm for 4 hours and I tapped out! I loved it after!!! I was sad because my husband couldn’t be in the room when they were doing it but I think it helped a ton with the pushing
I got a spinal with my c cection. My husband was holding my hand. In sweden this is normal.
I live in Chicago in the US and they wouldn’t, I needed a spinal while I was pregnant to get a cerclage and still my husband couldn’t be there
@@marthagehrig9470 Here it is standard. My husband was with me the entire time. I am so happy about it.
In Tampa Florida husband was allowed in room but they made him sit down in a chair on opposite side but I didn’t care my nurse was awesome I held her hands 😭❤️
I wonder why they wouldn't allow your husband to be there. That would instantly piss me the hell off.
Thank you for all these information very helpful. God bless you.
Im 34 weeks pregnant. I initially was definitely wanting to get an epidural because I'm terrified of birthing pain. After watching a handful of your videos I'm feeling much more comfortable about an unmedicated birth and will go into my birth plan without a requested epidural. Though like you've said, plans can change. Thank you so much for making CZcams videos. You're definitely the most educational one I've watched thus far and I appreciate you so much!
I was my best friend’s birthing partner, the midwife she used had hospital privileges so she was going to have a water birth in the hospital. She is terrified of needles, so she was determined not to have an epidural. And she was a champ at dealing with the pain, despite being 7cm dilated, the nurses and midwife couldn’t tell when she was having a contraction except when she told them. Then her labour slowed in progression and they opted to break her water. The way the tub was set up, the midwife couldn’t check how dilated she was, and didn’t know her cervix wasn’t still opening at the same rate, but Luna, my niece was turning over and creating an enormous feeling of pressure like she had to push. So the midwife told her to push. She did for hours, with her agony intensifying. Turns out she was ramming Luna into her cervix causing some internal swelling and a lot of pain for my friend.
She asked for an epidural two hours before her midwife gave in and helped her out of the tub, which by that point she was hysterical so definitely suffering. Her contractions came pretty much every two minutes, and they had to stop multiple times while trying to administer the epidural because she couldn’t stop shaking. The asshole who finally got it in then began berating her because “if [she] knew she was going to get this, [she] should not have waited so long.” The epidural hadn’t kicked in yet. She was still in pain, and at that point hysterical, she could no longer understand anything anyone said to her and just kept repeating, “I can’t.” I nearly killed him. Once the epidural began to give her relief the doctor checked and realized she was at 10cm, but decided to let her sleep for 2 hours. Which was good because she was asleep before he finished talking.
Honestly we were surprised that they even allowed her the epidural at that point in her labour, but once she was awakened and her contractions restarted, it was so unbelievably better. She said if she has another baby she’ll be walking back first into the hospital with a sign pointed at her back.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 My friend also opted for an epidural the last minute. I don't want to start something and not finish. I want to go for epidural first thing
My mom had a hot spot with her epidural while delivering me, caused a lot of stress and she ended up having to get an emergency c section... Now I'm 33 weeks pregnant and I reaallllyyyyyy want to avoid having an epidural but who knows! I'm putting in my birth plan that I'd rather avoid it. Thank you so much for the comprehensive low down on epidurals, it makes me feel SO much more informed :) ❤️
Eeeeek I am so glad YOU did a video on this! Thank you so much, beautiful girl!
Thank you so much! I love your videos!
I had heard a lot of scary things about epidurals as well as knowing that most people don't have problems. I didn't have one with my first labor, but this time I'm going to be in a hospital instead of a birthing center. I still don't want an epidural but your video helped me know that the scary things I had heard were because of epidurals done incorrectly or just one of the possible risks. Thank you!
You are truly amazing! Thanks for this video
The not being able to move or walk or change position literally gives me anxiety. Fingers crossed that I can do this all without an epidural. Of course anything to have a healthy baby is goal #1.
A nurse can help you change positions.
@@moo209 yes I understand that. My anxiety comes from literally being unable to do that yourself.
I totally feel this way as well. Like mentally knowing I wont be able to feel my legs or move on my own gives me so much anxiety! But I'm really leaning towards the epidural because I'm terrified of the pain.
In one of Ina May's You Tube videos she talks about different levels of epidural medicine and with lower doses you can still move your legs :)
@@melissajenkins1637 yes. I did read that. In my experience, everyone I know is still restricted to the bed and is not allowed to get up and move around.
Unfortunately, my bp was too high and an epidural was suggested. The guy fished around in my back for 15 min and several contractions. And while I was greatful for the 2 hour nap I got - I woke up to a rush of intense pain and the urge to push. While I was happy everything pretty much wore off at go time, no one really believed that I could feel everything. I didn't know why I was feeling everything, I thought something was wrong - which was freaking me out. Communication fail. And I was still made to stay in bed although I could literally stand. I pushed for 15 min and our LO was here. Happy and healthy. Tore very slightly and a couple stitches were put in - I felt every one of them. Again they didn't really understand that i could feel that. They thought I had some immunity to the numbing agent. I honestly would rather push a baby out again than sit through sutures.
You are such an amazing nurse! I’d love a video possibly on the pros and cons with other medication options that are not epidural.
I can certainly work on that!
Your videos are making me feel so much better I had an awful labor and delivery with my son 6 years ago and I’m terrified about my third pregnancy but ur videos have been helping make me feel so much better