You Don't Have to Be Perfect to Become Fluent

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  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
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    This week’s video is all about perfectionism. I talk about why, where, when and how language learners should or shouldn’t pursue perfection.
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    0:00 Perfectionism in language learning
    0:25 Is perfectionism always bad?
    1:36 Where should we pursue perfection?
    3:10 When is perfectionism more important
    4:43 How to continue improving
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Komentáře • 75

  • @Thelinguist
    @Thelinguist  Před 6 měsíci +6

    📲 The app I use to learn languages: bit.ly/478qBBm
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    ❓Does perfectionism hinder your learning progress? Tell me in the comments!

    • @GeorgeDeCarlo
      @GeorgeDeCarlo Před 5 měsíci

      When are you going to tell the secret of acquiring a new language? Sorry but after 13 years three methods including LingQ and total failure in Tagalog.

  • @JCtheMusicMan_
    @JCtheMusicMan_ Před 6 měsíci +74

    Learning a second or more language should be the same as learning our first language. We listen and then we try to communicate, perfect or not. As we practice and are corrected we get better. The same is with learning to play music. We don't have to learn all the technicalities of reading and playing music. We start by making a sound. As we play and practice more, our sound improves over time. Excellent tips!

  • @denisemoore8536
    @denisemoore8536 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Ah Steve, just the encouragement I needed after a hard class today when I was corrected numerous times - you are always a wise comfort
    thanks!

  • @okladoma9782
    @okladoma9782 Před 6 měsíci +19

    I really appreciate your style of teaching and encouraging people to just quit procrastinating and start speaking as soon as possible. I am a big proponent of vocabulary over grammar in my journey to learn Russian. There is just so much there concerning grammar, that I think I would just give up if I felt I had to be perfect all the time. Keep doing what you do.

    • @Thelinguist
      @Thelinguist  Před 6 měsíci +4

      Thank you! Best of luck with your Russian.

  • @themorningimage
    @themorningimage Před 6 měsíci +5

    Just stopping by to say your videos helped me become more fluent in French and Japanese than I was previously. You're a legend in the language learning community, Steve. Cheers!

  • @Via-Media2024
    @Via-Media2024 Před 6 měsíci +9

    All of the general advice in this video can be applied to learning music too. Music is not technically a language, but learning it is very similar to language learning.

    • @belstar1128
      @belstar1128 Před 6 měsíci

      With music its like "one mans trash is another mans treasure"

  • @ysato9720
    @ysato9720 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I quite agree that perfectionism does not go well with language learning. Despite this, especially in my country, students are not expected to make any minute mistakes in exams, regarding grammar, spellings and translation; and in such educational process, teachers unconsciously indoctrinate students with the norm of perfectionism, forcing them to believe that making mistakes is an embarrassing thing in any case that should be avoided, and that they would soon be scolded if they do so.
    (It’s a pity that there’re actually still a lot of teachers in Japan who often give students unreasonable scoldings.)
    I would clearly have to say that social norms and educational environments should be changed and revised so that language learning will become a more flexible and enjoyable one.

  • @maciek8159
    @maciek8159 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this video. I'm a native English speaker learning Italian my first foreign language and I struggle with ocd. Especially on pronunciation. I will literally listen to how a word is pronounced on a translator 30 plus times and get so frustrated. This eases some of that stress.

  • @LuzAngelafromLightSpanish
    @LuzAngelafromLightSpanish Před 6 měsíci

    Forget and re-learn, that's a great summary of how a language is built in our brains. Thanks for this video.

  • @languageantics
    @languageantics Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you! I hope we don't have to be perfect to be relatively fluent! That's encouraging!! 🤩

  • @sahelss99
    @sahelss99 Před 2 měsíci

    Perfectionism in learning English has slowed down my progress and left me feeling disappointed. Thank you for discussing such an important topic in language learning. You are a role model to me. Thank you, Steve.

  • @attila840702
    @attila840702 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Absolutely agree with the title of this video. I work in English - which is a foreign language to me - and even though my vocabulary and understanding is far better than that of my colleagues, they are still more fluent than me. I never seem to find the right words to use in spoken English and I always make basic grammar mistakes that I would never do in writing.

  • @annettemcnabb3033
    @annettemcnabb3033 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Another wonderful message Steve!! I wanted to say thank you! I have followed you for many years now, i am a member of lingq and i have found a fantastic tutor there for my french and recently i have started Spanish🙂

  • @toms8937
    @toms8937 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks, Steve! This has been a constant struggle in language learning to reconcile these two. When getting frustrated, it helps to calm myself, breathe, and just keep going. In casual settings, conveyance of information is more important than absolute perfection.

  • @mariagraziapirrello4916
    @mariagraziapirrello4916 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much!! I couldn’t agree more!

  • @gabrielterenziomusic5694
    @gabrielterenziomusic5694 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You were integral in igniting my interest in learning languages, thank you for devoting your time so that we have these videos to use for improving Mr. Kaufmann!

  • @polyglot-life
    @polyglot-life Před 6 měsíci

    Someone says that Language acquisition is one of the most impressive and fascinating aspects of human development. So, just follow your heart and convey your feelings to someone you love. Yes, you don't have to be perfect. Just do it.

  • @Carol61347
    @Carol61347 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you Steve as always, agree re frustration, you are always such a help to keep motivation levels up, joined LingQ last week and it amazing 👌

  • @kwajcarol
    @kwajcarol Před 6 měsíci +2

    Yes… it is easy to give up (temporarily at least) when learning / making mistakes. That is why it is So Much Easier to live in another country (totally immerse) to progress !

  • @travis3077
    @travis3077 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thanks again, coach Steve. Now I'm motivated to read some more stories on lingq.

  • @jonah92861
    @jonah92861 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Steve you’re awesome and always right and spot on with your videos. Thanks for changing my life with your advice ❤

  • @internautelambda6417
    @internautelambda6417 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Bonjour Steve ! Excellente vidéo, comme d'habitude ! 😊
    J'aurais simplement une petite remarque : contrairement à vous, je pense que la prononciation est un aspect qu'il faut absolument s'efforcer de maîtriser quand on commence une langue.
    Si on ne fait pas ce travail-là, on prend de mauvaises habitudes dont il devient difficile de se débarrasser par la suite, surtout quand on veut se faire comprendre à l'oral.
    Par exemple, si j'essaie de parler avec un Français natif, et que ma prononciation est mauvaise, il va spontanément avoir envie de passer à l'anglais. Résultat : je vais moins vite progresser que si j'avais travaillé la prononciation dès le départ.
    Merci pour vos vidéos, et portez-vous bien ! 😊

  • @KingdomArabiclanguage
    @KingdomArabiclanguage Před 6 měsíci +1

    The topic of the video is timely, and indeed we often think about this matter. Thank you very much .🌷🌷

  • @andrew_rogovoy_art
    @andrew_rogovoy_art Před měsícem

    Best motivation! Thanks

  • @mytake539
    @mytake539 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks Steve for your 🎉 wonderful videos which I accidentally happen to watch. Apart from teaching how to master a language please make a video about which apps you use for pictures, background music, editing, camera, mic etc. Thanks.

  • @sistakastet
    @sistakastet Před 5 měsíci

    Pronunciation is the most important I think and what you should start with. Instead of the other way around.

  • @MoDilshad229
    @MoDilshad229 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good morning sir I am from India really you are a good teacher

  • @victorrychkov2839
    @victorrychkov2839 Před 6 měsíci

    Sir, you're a national canadian treasure!

  • @bangbang100francis6
    @bangbang100francis6 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for the advice match appreciated my friend

  • @hanglam6216
    @hanglam6216 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you So much . I will try to learn well

  • @EugeniusNaumenco
    @EugeniusNaumenco Před 6 měsíci

    what I've always believed in is that the only thing u have to be perfect at in language learning is pronunciation cause the process of perfecting it gives u some much exposure to a language and a such a profound feeling of connection, it's just unbelievable

  • @vkyamen5788
    @vkyamen5788 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @MumtazAhmadi-ju3jn
    @MumtazAhmadi-ju3jn Před 6 měsíci

    Very good it's the basic step

  • @Jeuwud
    @Jeuwud Před 6 měsíci +1

    Eager to watch your videos 🙏🥂💐

  • @tedc9682
    @tedc9682 Před 6 měsíci

    !!!!! and !. What a terrific number of excellent ideas!

  • @vilhelmnorberg9265
    @vilhelmnorberg9265 Před 6 měsíci

    Great video! For me, good pronunciation and sounding like a native are two different things.

  • @Komatik_
    @Komatik_ Před 6 měsíci

    The one counterpoint to "being understood is good enough" is that there are parts of some kinds of accents that are genuinely grating to listen to. Not all accents, but there are some kinds of mistakes (which likely depend on the language in question) that just leave the native listener uncomfortable. On the other hand, some accents are just that - clearly foreign, but there's nothing particularily unpleasant about them for a native listener.
    I would value ironing out grating aspects of one's accent, but the non-bothersome aspects don't seem terribly important to me in comparison to fluency in word choice, sentence structure, speed of processing the language etc.

  • @dengai2932
    @dengai2932 Před 6 měsíci

    I define fluncy to be the point where you start thinking on your target language.

  • @LanguageswithErman
    @LanguageswithErman Před 6 měsíci +1

    inspiring...

  • @user-jk7gy3em8t
    @user-jk7gy3em8t Před 6 měsíci

    THANKYOU LOT SIR
    I M FROM SRI 🇱🇰

  • @96joeysmith
    @96joeysmith Před 6 měsíci

    Steve is my guardian angel

  • @fighterlife3644
    @fighterlife3644 Před 6 měsíci

    I watched your channel for a while.
    I have a suggestion, although it may seem impractical. Only you possess the ability and resources to undertake this endeavor after studying all languages: to create a completely new language that combines the best features from each language, considering various perspectives such as:
    The accuracy of delivering meaning in the language.
    The diversity of pronunciation in the language.
    The pleasantness of the language, resembling singing.
    The ability of the language to express a wide range of emotions.
    The minimalistic nature of the language's dictionary.
    The ease of learning the language.
    I somehow think that it can save the world and you are the hero and deserve the great honor written in Wiki, textbook!

  • @user-ln3qg7zm6f
    @user-ln3qg7zm6f Před 6 měsíci

    Hello,Steve! Be so kind and share please your thoughts ans experience as for reding more, learning your target language. Would you recommend to read more out loud or silently? And do you translate each sentence into your native tongue or just read,diving completely into a target language without using your native tongue?
    Thank you in advance for your answer😊

  • @titofernandezmeirino9832
    @titofernandezmeirino9832 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hi Steve, I do have a question for you: how did you learn Russian? Thank you very much for your always interesting videos and best regards to you.

    • @Thelinguist
      @Thelinguist  Před 6 měsíci

      Thanks for watching. Here's a video on how I learned Russian: czcams.com/video/3vAKzpbtNGk/video.html

  • @A-voz-do-Planalto.
    @A-voz-do-Planalto. Před 6 měsíci

    Great

  • @gamingwithpurg3anarchy157
    @gamingwithpurg3anarchy157 Před 6 měsíci

    Hey steve I have a question. It is my dream to go to, and maybe Live in Brazil.. maybe even raise my future kids there.. is there a job I can look into that will pay me to learn Portuguese and live in Brazil for a short period? Kinda like your experience with learning Chinese. If you respond to me it'll be greatly appreciated, thank you ☺️
    Until then, I decided today that I'll spend at least 4, hours a day reading and listening because after 2 years My comprehension skills are very Lacking. Well all my skills.. never spoke before in Portuguese and never got to talk on the phone.. Well I did once.. but I knew nothing in terms of comprehension and I just froze up cause I was nervous and so we ended the call. So I'm hoping multiple hours a day will help me with my comprehension and reading cause I remember the 1 week I was studying 5-10 hours a day I learned A LOT more than ever.

  • @maru8140
    @maru8140 Před 6 měsíci

    Can I learn Japanese like a child? I mean by listening.
    Children spend almost two years of their lives just listening before they start speaking.
    in last year I tried to memorize a lot of words , ithink I memorized about 1,000 words, but I have forgotten most of them now.

  • @jacobslink6321
    @jacobslink6321 Před 6 měsíci

    Sir, my name is Collin. I am one of your follower.
    Can one learn two languages at the same time?

  • @BenAhmed0077
    @BenAhmed0077 Před 6 měsíci

    But (A) personality dosen't accept other than perfection

  • @foxybrown2
    @foxybrown2 Před 6 měsíci

    You said that right because even though he can speak several languages his pronunciation is not good. Pronunciation was the first thing that i was working on. I guess i approached language from this point because I am a musician and sounding like what i hear is very important to me. I do not want to sound like American trying to sound like what ever language i am speaking.

    • @Thelinguist
      @Thelinguist  Před 6 měsíci +1

      In which language do I have poor pronunciation in your opinion? Most people are influenced by their native language when they speak another language. I don't consider that poor pronunciation.

    • @kennethwdc
      @kennethwdc Před 6 měsíci +1

      Take French for example. You talk in French like you talk in English. It's recognizable it is you. Luca Lamporiello is like this as well. He sounds like Luca in the languages he speaks. Contrast this with Language Simp when he tries to speak French well. He throws himself into character and sounds like a different person. By the way, I've learned a lot from your videos.

    • @foxybrown2
      @foxybrown2 Před 6 měsíci +1

      It not terrible but when I heard Nate the guy who does a Spanish channel his sounded like a Mexican not a American speaking Mexican Spanish. But by your comments i understand that you are not focusing on sounding just like a native. just focused on understanding and speaking the language.

  • @Tamer22249
    @Tamer22249 Před 5 měsíci

    I will Become Fluent in English By The End Of 2024 💪

  • @pierreabbat6157
    @pierreabbat6157 Před 6 měsíci

    I will never sound like a native speaker of Colombian Spanish. Neither will a native speaker of Puerto Rican Spanish.

  • @seren7173
    @seren7173 Před 6 měsíci

    languages are tools to be used,not arts to be mastered.

    • @bugsbunny7168
      @bugsbunny7168 Před 6 měsíci

      You could still communicate with a B1 level , that doesn’t mean you should stop there ,

    • @seren7173
      @seren7173 Před 6 měsíci

      @@bugsbunny7168 just talk about some deeper things like economic,policy,and others.people's mother languages also are influenced by their knowledge.there is no esception of second language

  • @sevvalllyildirim
    @sevvalllyildirim Před 6 měsíci

    PLEASE DO SOMETHING FOR PALASTINE!!!

  • @user-go6il2tm4b
    @user-go6il2tm4b Před 6 měsíci

    Theres no authentic way. Just study study study repeat repeat repeat

  • @sevvalllyildirim
    @sevvalllyildirim Před 6 měsíci

    PLEASE DO SOMETHING FOR PALASTINE!!!

  • @sevvalllyildirim
    @sevvalllyildirim Před 6 měsíci

    PLEASE DO SOMETHING FOR PALASTINE!!!