My girlfriend of ten years passed away unexpectedly on November 12th. Papa Roach was her favorite band and this was her favorite song. I go out to her grave sometimes and play this for her. Love u Felecia now and forever baby.
I used to think this song was cool when I was a freshman in high school but now that I'm in my 30s and I have enough life experience under my belt... This song hits you like a punch in the gut. Much respect Papa Roach!
When I was younger (14years) I used to feel so powerful with this song and calm but now I am 21 years and actually I am fighting with alcoholism for past 4 years. I am so proud of you and cannot wait to be in your place cause something what was once helping is destroying my life
@@sylwia6856was 21 when I realized I was a hardcore alcoholic. Was going through a handle of vodka or gin a day and couldn’t function at all. Still drink beer but at least I can do normal day to day tasks
I’ve loved this song since it came out !! I just realized I’ve remembered all the words and it’s exactly how I’m feeling right now. Love you guys!! 94 baby here ❤
Goes to show you how careless and free we are as teenagers. Belting this song out in the car with smiles on our faces. Now we listen to it as we ugly cry in the mirror thinking about our life. To be a kid again..
Makeupbykayla I didn't mean literally. I meant I used to be total drunk, and I lost a great boyfriend and lots of other friendships because of it. But now I'm sober married and have a son. So everything happens for a reason I guess. But it definitely wasn't something I'm proud of. Being sober, being a mom and wife, now I'm proud :)
@@jamesdevilliers7053 To all who have questions why my channel description is the way it is: Then KNOW this: We are allowed to judge, even called to judge, ourselves and others. No one personal level, yes, that right we have not, but in general and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT is allowed to do. And not just allowed, expected to do so. John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Bible says: Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. Short answer, THEY ARE WICKED / workers of darkness. Royals are not humans, but angel + animal + human hybrid creatures. GOD NEVER CREATED THEM. Satan did. Masons are human puppets. The cowards, the fearful, the sell outs, the greedy amongst us, mankind. My question: into each of your radar, have my playlists reached?
It's hard to watch someone we love destroy themselves and we can never do something to help them. Damn, it's hard to try and save someone who doesn't want to be saved.
Dont bother if you understood those kind of people which I am one of suffer from past trauma and pain maybe once you get that through you're head you'll understand
This song reminds me so much of my best friend in her addiction, and me trying to fix her. The good news is, she is approaching 7 years of sobriety. There is hope!
I've been there. I tried to help someone that I cared about and loved deeply in high school but in the end I couldn't save him. He ended his life a year and a 1/2 later after I told him that I loved him. Although, he never said a word to me after I confessed to him, I hope that someday in the afterlife I could find him and reconnect with him again.
Never listened to much Papa Roach and the first time I heard this song was when I saw them perform at Louder Than Life in 2022. It was my first big concert experience, and when they played this song I remember looking all around at a sea of thousands of people in all directions just singing while either holding back tears or letting them flow, and I'll never forget seeing this huge 6'5 grown man bawling while head-bannging and singing the lyrics. Papa Roach ended up being my favorite set and I've been a huge fan ever since. This song is incredible and has moved me from the very start
Kalitas Bloodchief of Ghet okay at least in my opinion, I think it’s probably about both. Relationships get very toxic when one is an alcoholic. And honestly, however the song hits you is the truth for you and so it’s still okay to believe it’s about relationship. Just my opinion though
@@UnicornSpoonie yeah i agree i think its about them both being rly bad alcoholics then him wakeing up then trying to calm her down cus she isnt slowing down soo he realizes he gots to let her go i def ben their
I once saw an interview with Country Joe McDonald. He said that music has always been a part of his life. As a child, he would go visit his parents while his parents were working. They would be singing together. He came to realize that sometimes people think what they are feeling is a totally unique experience. That no one else feels the way they do. But then they come across a song that shows otherwise. That music can unite people by giving voice to the feelings we bury inside us, and in doing so make us feel a little less alone.
Letting go of a toxic person in my life. It was hard I kept tearing my heart open for her and she filled it with negativity and manipulation I'm finally free. This is my life and how this song relates to it.
This is a long shot. I'm not sure if you actually read these messages, but I wanted to let you know how much your song, Scars, has meant to me. It describes the toxic relationship between me and my son perfectly. He had mental health issues his whole life. I was a shitty mom while he was growing up and didn't know how to deal with it. He was hateful and verbally abusive to me no matter what I tried to do to help him. I finally had to throw him out. When he died in a car accident at age 33, we had been estranged for a year. He had just started getting his life together and his friends tell me he would have been coming to reconcile and apologize any day. I heard the song playing on the radio shortly after he died and had to pull the car over and cry. And scream. And pound the steering wheel. I still play it when I need to get those feelings out. Thank you. You touched my heart with that song and I would love to see you perform it some day.
Damn.... everyone goes through things in life that no one has any clue about.... what they deal with, how they feel mentally after being through such things, and the impact it has on who they are and how these things change them forever. Its hard helping someone no matter who they are or how close they were to you if they cant truthfully help themselves. The older an individual gets, the more they have to "really" want to change for THEM. Just being his mom was really all he needed. Its easiest to take things out on who we hold dearest. and to him... that was you. My wife lost her mom last summer to an overdose and blames herself for not being there, not always caring, being hard on her when she relapsed etc.. She goes through the same feelings and its tough. Hang in there.. do it for you and your inner peace. much love!!!
@Michelle Marley You know what? You are not and we're not a crappy mom. It takes a lot to realize your shortcomings. A crappy mom wouldn't care at all. No one knows exactly how to deal with things in life. We were not born with a manual on how to deal or how to feel. I'm sorry for the loss, I lost my mom at 19, I'm 35 now and it still hurts. I'm telling you this because I know you blame yourself but no one could prepare you for what you faced in life. Being a mom is hard enough and you did the best you could especially dealing with mental health on top of everything else in life. Please don't be hard on yourself because if your son was here today he would not want you to feel bad for what you didn't do, rather he would want you to forgive yourself and treasure the good moments you shared. When someone is gone, we tend to focus on the things we regret, instead of focusing on the beautiful moments we shared. ❤️ I pray for healing for your tender heart.
It was a little shocking to read this message right now... I am going through a messy moment in my life :( But getting to know your story has really touched my soul. I hope you read tis Michelle, and I hope you can heal those wounds in your heart.
you ever listen to a song when you're younger and you don't really relate to it but then when you're older going through old cds you realize you've been in situations just like this
@Go With A Smile damn I'm 18 if you're still having emo kid problems and teenage drama bullcrap still into your 30s, man, i guess life never gets any easier, but the music never gets any better which proof of that is both a 30 year old and an 18 year old who should be listening to nee music are both listening to a song the came out when i was a baby, my sister was emo and used to sing evanescence to me to go to sleep and play all American rejects and papa roach and mcr lol
I tear my heart open I sew myself shut My weakness is That I care too much And my scars remind me That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel Drunk and I'm feeling down And I just want to be alone I'm pissed 'cause you came around Why don't you just go home 'Cause you channel all your pain And I can't help you fix yourself You're making me insane All I can say is I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel I tried to help you once Against my own advice I saw you going down But you never realized That you're drowning in the water So I offered you my hand Compassion's in my nature Tonight is our last stand I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel I'm drunk and I'm feeling down And I just want to be alone You shouldn't ever come around Why don't you just go home? 'Cause you're drowning in the water And I tried to grab your hand I left my heart open But you didn't understand But you didn't understand You fix yourself I can't help you fix yourself But at least I can say I tried I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life I can't help you fix yourself But at least I can say I tried I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel I tear my heart open I sew myself shut And my weakness is That I care too much And our scars remind us That the past is real I tear my heart open Just to feel
My weakness is that I care too much. I have many scars and trauma from trying to help someone 😢where I ended up being heartbroken 💔 torn down by their feelings because they wouldn’t fix themselves.
@@NightimeLofi no offense taken. I guess the simple way of putting it is, they gave a severely depressed and suicidal 14 year old me a reason to continue waking up every morning just by making songs, like Scars. I had loved bands before but before PR, I truly felt alone. None of the music I listened to at that point was anything I related to. Then I heard Scars, and for the first time someone else was singing the feelings I felt. It changed everything for me.
Loved the song since it came out. Never personally associated with the lyrics and the video till now. Im 32 and im now living it. The words " i can't help you fixe your self, but at least i can say i tried. Im sorey but i got to move on with my own life" have never ben so true for me in my own life. Thank you much Papa Roach. Over 15 years of music and it's still helping me, love and apreciated you guyz till i die 🤘🤘
This video tears at me bad..i see so many identities in what she did to him that i did to my best friend...the irony of him dumping bottles down the sink hit me hard
I loved this song as a kid. It really hit nerve as a young kid growing up. It is weird to have it hit you as an adult as it still rings true for life experience.
So much of the music I grew up listening to, that I thought I understood, has been such a gut punch and a comfort at the same time. 60% of my teenage music brings me to tears while speaking volumes more then it did when I was younger.
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. “For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Years later these lyrics actually mean something. I know the song from like 10yrs ago my little sister would play it all the time and now that I have scars ..... I just didn't understand.
As an adult, this song makes me cry. As a teen in the early 2000s this was a killer song I loved to jam out to. Crazy how 15 years changes ones perspective on things
Jessica Sizemore self esteem by The Offspring had the same effect on me once I started dating. As a kid the song was just bad ass but the meaning of the song changed a lot as I got older
This song will always be relevant. It not only speaks to alcoholism. Unfortunately, there will always be people who "care too much", putting their own happiness last...thinking they can "fix" and change others. When the fact remains..."I can't help you fix yourself, but at least I can say I tried. I'm sorry but I've got to move on with my own life." Words to live by...but, how many people do? I love ❤ when Jacoby screams...GO FIX YOURSELF!!
Bruh! Trust me theres tons of girls in this world lol, your young as shit you got many to go they nothing last forever! There will always be a better one then the one u had.
This and Getting Away with Murder were the songs that my Mom loves so much because it helped her quit drinking when she started aging in her 40s and realized she wanted to live a longer healthier life. In addition to this being a timeless song it will always hold so much personal value to me.
I used to listen to this song When I was a teenager I have no idea what it was about fast-forwarding it 8 to 10 years I completely understand and is very much relevant in my life
yessssss since i was a toddler my dad always played this genre of music, at that time of age i dint know what it meant but now I DO! i listen to it frequently
Eu nunca vou deixar de curtir esses sons, fizeram parte da minha juventude e simplesmente gera um sentimento bom que não gostaria que esse tempo tivesse passado! Mas agora é só lembranças de um tempo que já se foi!
Nah it's more like *calls band mates* "hey y'all I might or might not have burned my house down with that bitch in it y'all wanna come over and make a video" Band mates: what Lead singer:what Band mates sure bro......
💜2024 And this gem continues to shine 💖💎🔥
2024 ativo e escutando papa roach
Just discovered this song yesterday
yes chicken
yes mr chicken
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My girlfriend of ten years passed away unexpectedly on November 12th. Papa Roach was her favorite band and this was her favorite song. I go out to her grave sometimes and play this for her. Love u Felecia now and forever baby.
this is so sad :(
If no one told you today, I love you
My deepest condolences to you and your families friend. Sending you much love, prayers, and wishes for healing from El Paso, Texas.
Sorry to hear that bud
2023 and this song still hits me like it did when it first came out. I miss this era of music :(
We are old now and this song still hits my emotions.
@@drunkeroc 19 here i remember his songs from mx vs atv unleashed thats how i discovered this artist
Be thankful we had this music in our timeline, I feel bad for the kids today
@@JustYourAveragePostGuy well you are an old soul
@@drunkeroc i am indeed
Who is still listening in 2024?
Heree
never stopped listenning@@nros88
✊🏽
I will always be here no mater what
Here right now@@Gamer_Roblox67
I used to think this song was cool when I was a freshman in high school but now that I'm in my 30s and I have enough life experience under my belt... This song hits you like a punch in the gut. Much respect Papa Roach!
so true!
Hey, same. In my 30s, and this hits differently when uve gone through a lot
In my 20s now and this still hits hard.
This song
Hits hard when you gave everything for a relationship but found out she never cared
I'm telling you when you get older these songs aren't just "fun" to listen to anymore.
They will creep up and hit right in the heart.
They always will especially when we need to hear it
Truth!!
Not true
@@AA-wu2fk you might be too young then .
@@Saibishii nope,just depends on your musical preference
Why America doesn't make songs like this anymore. Early 2000s full with this kind of band
Best era of music
Дааааа полностью согласна (хотя Я только родилась в этот период, но я фанат alt-rock и emo-rock) в России таких групп очень мало
Check out The Warning. They're feom Mexico but hey, that's still North America! Lol
@@alissaalbritton_POWER IS ROCK666👹🤘🔥
Still hits as the first day I heard it. Thank you for writing this ballad . This will always be the song to my generation
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
"My Weakness Is That I Care Too Much" The person that always looks out for everyone else is always alone when they need somebody. 🖤
I do that. I care too much till I am angry and sad and cant bear it anymore
I hate how much I relate to that...
The life of an empath 🖤🖤🖤
I can definitely relate
I Stand Alone, GodSmack
Mad respect to anyone who is still listening to this masterpiece
Literally one of the best songs
This song is the best ❤️
Listineng from phillippines
I love this song
Ikr
As someone who struggles with alcoholism (coming up on 3 years sober) this song hits so deeply and keeps me on the right path
When I was younger (14years) I used to feel so powerful with this song and calm but now I am 21 years and actually I am fighting with alcoholism for past 4 years. I am so proud of you and cannot wait to be in your place cause something what was once helping is destroying my life
@@sylwia6856 Keep fighting, I hope it will get better soon!
keep being strong ❤
Come to Islam
@@sylwia6856was 21 when I realized I was a hardcore alcoholic. Was going through a handle of vodka or gin a day and couldn’t function at all. Still drink beer but at least I can do normal day to day tasks
I’ve loved this song since it came out !! I just realized I’ve remembered all the words and it’s exactly how I’m feeling right now. Love you guys!! 94 baby here ❤
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
Still my favorite Papa Roach song
same
Molly C Mine too
me too
AND THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITES 😁
me 2
After years these songs start to make sense hehe
Exactly. As a kid, I just listened to songs like this because they sounded good but now I actually connect to them as an adult.
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I'm a teenager and it hits home for me
yes yes yes lol
yes
2024 still listening. The scars do remind us
Goes to show you how careless and free we are as teenagers. Belting this song out in the car with smiles on our faces. Now we listen to it as we ugly cry in the mirror thinking about our life. To be a kid again..
“Scars remind us the past is real.” Still listening 2020
I tear my heat open just to feel
Samantha Jones same
👁🗨♾🔛➿
Yup.... During quarantine 😪🖤
Yes ma'am you are 100% right!! How we make it thru those scars is what matters!!
Ashamed to admit I was that girl. Been sober since July 17th 2011. And life is much better
Why are you ashamed to be the girl in the video
Makeupbykayla I didn't mean literally. I meant I used to be total drunk, and I lost a great boyfriend and lots of other friendships because of it. But now I'm sober married and have a son. So everything happens for a reason I guess. But it definitely wasn't something I'm proud of. Being sober, being a mom and wife, now I'm proud :)
Oh I was gonna say well nice job with your recovery and getting better
Makeupbykayla thanks!
i respect you a lot. just know that
2024? ❤
Would go to see these guys live in a heartbeat
The older you get, the more the lyrics hit hard on you
This song is like 20 yrs old or something. I'm 40 by now. But im pretty sure I understood it then.. I dont get u types
@@jamesdevilliers7053 To all who have questions why my channel description is the way it is:
Then KNOW this:
We are allowed to judge, even called to judge, ourselves and others.
No one personal level, yes, that right we have not, but in general and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT is allowed to do. And not just allowed, expected to do so.
John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
Bible says:
Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.
Short answer, THEY ARE WICKED / workers of darkness.
Royals are not humans, but angel + animal + human hybrid creatures. GOD NEVER CREATED THEM.
Satan did.
Masons are human puppets. The cowards, the fearful, the sell outs, the greedy amongst us, mankind.
My question:
into each of your radar, have my playlists reached?
@@ahhwe-any7434
Yes, the message is clear, no matter how young you are.
What is this song trying to transmit?
@@ahhwe-any7434 You were 20. Many of us were 10-15 and we didn't have any life experience yet so we just thought it was a cool song.
My weakness is that I care too much.. Favorite line in the song💕
should have been Our weakness :(
thats my weakness as well.
came* too much
i thought it was 'my weakness is that i cant do much'
+Ducati 959 Panigale (Ducati959PGL) 100% better than Tøp
Who's still jamming to this masterpiece In 2021
Yeah
MEMEMEMEMEMEREREE
Me
Bitch I *discovered* this masterpiece in 2021
@@shuffle2220 hahaha 2 bad I don't care
Wish I can turnback 15 yrs ago 😢😢😢
Never gets old or boring. What a master piece. It is a pity that we don't get music like this these days.
Any old papa roach fans out there?
Been one since 05. This was actually the first song I heard by them and it was on total accident
cosmicskyaj meee
cosmicskyaj hell yeah
yep
Meeeeeeee
"My weakness is, I care too much." Yep.
What a powerfull phrase!
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha this is a real interaction
This line really got my attention, it resonates a lot with me
Same for me! Hit me like a brick actually! Any room for one more here ??
@@nicolassanabria4386 yep. Always.
This song reminds me of mental scars. The problem for me is: My weakness I care too much. That is the damn truth.
Me too
It’s amazing how certain songs such as this gem hit so much differently the older you get…
2022 and still listening. Goosebumps. So many memories.
Feeling the same way.
100% same here
Same
same
Absolutely 💪🏻
anyone else going on a nostalgia binge.
+jingerstorm meee
right here man
+jingerstorm as I am high?? Hell yea!
hell ya...miss those times
+jingerstorm YESSSS!
Listening to this in 2024!!! ❤
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
I heard this song at a Chinese prison camp
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
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To whoever is listening to this song now, wherever you are.... Sending you love, peace, healing and all good wishes. May your life be good
Right back at cha...😊
@acousticmusic4777 thank you. I wish the same to you.
Thank you. God bless you
Same to you ♥️
💯 💯💯
2020, still listening, its not a phase mom. Its a way of life
Yes.
Basically
J im heheh I saw the original “badicallyy”
no matter time, good music is like good whisky is better while time pass by.
Hacker
2023 and I'm still rocking this!! Feel it in my chest so hard!!
🤘
It's been 15 years and this song is still stuck in my head.
holy shit, I'm old!😅😅
He produces the song in 2005. Back when he was 28 🤯
@@hugoadancampuzano❤
2020 AND STILL LISTENING. AWESOME 2000 MEMORIES
On god I stil be listen to this
For real tho
Yes
Fuck I miss this days 😭😭😭
Omg I thot I was the only one
It's hard to watch someone we love destroy themselves and we can never do something to help them. Damn, it's hard to try and save someone who doesn't want to be saved.
💯💯
I’m that someone. It’s difficult on our side as well
Dont bother if you understood those kind of people which I am one of suffer from past trauma and pain maybe once you get that through you're head you'll understand
This song reminds me so much of my best friend in her addiction, and me trying to fix her. The good news is, she is approaching 7 years of sobriety. There is hope!
I've been there. I tried to help someone that I cared about and loved deeply in high school but in the end I couldn't save him. He ended his life a year and a 1/2 later after I told him that I loved him. Although, he never said a word to me after I confessed to him, I hope that someday in the afterlife I could find him and reconnect with him again.
This song has a special place in my heart; hits in a way I can’t even explain ❤ 🙏 ♾️
2023 and I’m still listening to this awesome rock band. Rock on 🤘 Papa Roach.
real
"My weakness is that I care too much" story of my life
Sameka Adams same here brother!
Damn, same here.
Your picture for your comments is weird plz don't make fun of me that I have no picture :3
Meee too
Fucking same. Almost always leads to me being walked over and it sucks! :(
'and my weakness is that I care too much' - my life story.
music.saves. us. same
music.saves. us. same :/
That's why I keep to myself. As emo as that sounds, it's true in my case.
Me too
music.saves. us. ITS MY LIFE STORY AS WELL!!! :-(
We Don’t Search For Old Songs, But The Memories They Hold Near and Dear To Our Hearts ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Totally true
Never listened to much Papa Roach and the first time I heard this song was when I saw them perform at Louder Than Life in 2022. It was my first big concert experience, and when they played this song I remember looking all around at a sea of thousands of people in all directions just singing while either holding back tears or letting them flow, and I'll never forget seeing this huge 6'5 grown man bawling while head-bannging and singing the lyrics. Papa Roach ended up being my favorite set and I've been a huge fan ever since. This song is incredible and has moved me from the very start
This song tells such a story that I can relate to on such a deep level
Lunadarkheart's Vlog same
Logan Johnson I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE. BILLIE JOE ARMMMSSSTRRRROONNGG
Green! at the Day OMG ANOTHER FELLOW AMERICAN IDIOT YASSSS
Logan Johnson YAAAAAAAAAASS
Lunadarkheart's Vlog it's a good reminder that other's feel the same. I'm not alone
When I was younger I used to think this song was about relationship. Now I realize is about alcoholism
Kalitas Bloodchief of Ghet okay at least in my opinion, I think it’s probably about both. Relationships get very toxic when one is an alcoholic. And honestly, however the song hits you is the truth for you and so it’s still okay to believe it’s about relationship. Just my opinion though
@@UnicornSpoonie yeah i agree i think its about them both being rly bad alcoholics then him wakeing up then trying to calm her down cus she isnt slowing down soo he realizes he gots to let her go i def ben their
@@brandanbennett8790 now its time to learn english
My friend if you see this. Music is to be interpreted by the listeners. It has many meanings. I bleed for my own interpretation.
@@papagnerd1943 not really
insane that this song is 20 years old... i remember singing this as a kid feeling like no one understood my pain
I once saw an interview with Country Joe McDonald. He said that music has always been a part of his life. As a child, he would go visit his parents while his parents were working. They would be singing together.
He came to realize that sometimes people think what they are feeling is a totally unique experience. That no one else feels the way they do.
But then they come across a song that shows otherwise. That music can unite people by giving voice to the feelings we bury inside us, and in doing so make us feel a little less alone.
One of the only songs I can sing properly! I have always fucking loved this one. I heard this song almost before anyone. DAYM the MEMORIESSSSSSSSSSSSS
Letting go of a toxic person in my life. It was hard I kept tearing my heart open for her and she filled it with negativity and manipulation I'm finally free. This is my life and how this song relates to it.
Im not free yet. Soon I hope. Hard stuff man rn..
I'm going through the same thing. She put a family tragedy on me so I could talk to her. She broke up with me. My heart is closed off from her now.
I feel you man.
@@streetoak6580 Your the captain of your ship steer clear of danger as soon as you can. PEACE ✌
Good man, I know what its like
This song is still a masterpiece after all these years.
ya
👍
This is so good but you must hear "Whispering Wolf" or "The Wave" by SLT 🤘
@@jamesdevilliers7053Your missing daddy.
We don’t search for old songs…
We search for old memories. 💞👌😊👍
2024 April 26th. This song never ever hit me as bad as it is now. I always loved this song. Now it's hitting too close with home
Still figuring out where mama roach is.
We’ll find the answer to that when they reveal where mrs krabs is
On the floor, lying flat.
Not at the river that is for sure
What about Popa Chubby?
Bruh don’t be that guy 😂
This is a long shot. I'm not sure if you actually read these messages, but I wanted to let you know how much your song, Scars, has meant to me. It describes the toxic relationship between me and my son perfectly. He had mental health issues his whole life. I was a shitty mom while he was growing up and didn't know how to deal with it. He was hateful and verbally abusive to me no matter what I tried to do to help him. I finally had to throw him out. When he died in a car accident at age 33, we had been estranged for a year. He had just started getting his life together and his friends tell me he would have been coming to reconcile and apologize any day. I heard the song playing on the radio shortly after he died and had to pull the car over and cry. And scream. And pound the steering wheel. I still play it when I need to get those feelings out. Thank you. You touched my heart with that song and I would love to see you perform it some day.
Damn.... everyone goes through things in life that no one has any clue about.... what they deal with, how they feel mentally after being through such things, and the impact it has on who they are and how these things change them forever. Its hard helping someone no matter who they are or how close they were to you if they cant truthfully help themselves. The older an individual gets, the more they have to "really" want to change for THEM. Just being his mom was really all he needed. Its easiest to take things out on who we hold dearest. and to him... that was you. My wife lost her mom last summer to an overdose and blames herself for not being there, not always caring, being hard on her when she relapsed etc.. She goes through the same feelings and its tough. Hang in there.. do it for you and your inner peace. much love!!!
@Michelle Marley You know what? You are not and we're not a crappy mom. It takes a lot to realize your shortcomings. A crappy mom wouldn't care at all. No one knows exactly how to deal with things in life. We were not born with a manual on how to deal or how to feel. I'm sorry for the loss, I lost my mom at 19, I'm 35 now and it still hurts. I'm telling you this because I know you blame yourself but no one could prepare you for what you faced in life. Being a mom is hard enough and you did the best you could especially dealing with mental health on top of everything else in life. Please don't be hard on yourself because if your son was here today he would not want you to feel bad for what you didn't do, rather he would want you to forgive yourself and treasure the good moments you shared. When someone is gone, we tend to focus on the things we regret, instead of focusing on the beautiful moments we shared. ❤️ I pray for healing for your tender heart.
Sorry for your loss
It was a little shocking to read this message right now... I am going through a messy moment in my life :( But getting to know your story has really touched my soul. I hope you read tis Michelle, and I hope you can heal those wounds in your heart.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.
I fucking love this song. Best era of music hands down 🖤
The early to mid 2000s was one hell of a time for us 90s kids. Great music,great TV shows, great weed..
you ever listen to a song when you're younger and you don't really relate to it but then when you're older going through old cds you realize you've been in situations just like this
Yup
I'm young and when I see my parents, with this song I understand them.
Yep. .. Lots of them. Lol
@Go With A Smile damn I'm 18 if you're still having emo kid problems and teenage drama bullcrap still into your 30s, man, i guess life never gets any easier, but the music never gets any better which proof of that is both a 30 year old and an 18 year old who should be listening to nee music are both listening to a song the came out when i was a baby, my sister was emo and used to sing evanescence to me to go to sleep and play all American rejects and papa roach and mcr lol
So fucking me
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
My weakness is
That I care too much
And my scars remind me
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
Drunk and I'm feeling down
And I just want to be alone
I'm pissed 'cause you came around
Why don't you just go home
'Cause you channel all your pain
And I can't help you fix yourself
You're making me insane
All I can say is
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
I tried to help you once
Against my own advice
I saw you going down
But you never realized
That you're drowning in the water
So I offered you my hand
Compassion's in my nature
Tonight is our last stand
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
I'm drunk and I'm feeling down
And I just want to be alone
You shouldn't ever come around
Why don't you just go home?
'Cause you're drowning in the water
And I tried to grab your hand
I left my heart open
But you didn't understand
But you didn't understand
You fix yourself
I can't help you fix yourself
But at least I can say I tried
I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life
I can't help you fix yourself
But at least I can say I tried
I'm sorry but I gotta move on with my own life
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
I tear my heart open
I sew myself shut
And my weakness is
That I care too much
And our scars remind us
That the past is real
I tear my heart open
Just to feel
Thank you so much ❤️
Yeah man, we appreciate it.
takes me back to 2012 when uploads had the lyrics in the description
My weakness is that I care too much. I have many scars and trauma from trying to help someone 😢where I ended up being heartbroken 💔 torn down by their feelings because they wouldn’t fix themselves.
This song had its foot on our necks when it came out. Shout out Papa Roach!
This is so good but you must hear “The Wave” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🐺🎸🐺🤘
This song really helps, when your hating yourself and life. I blast it and scream it as loud as i can.
Ik cus when my uncle had just passed i would just lay in bed listening to tdg (Three Days Grace)
Yeah Madelaine, this is definitely one of those songs..
This song literally saved my life 15 years ago. This band means the world to me.
Glad you're still here with us,Zen. Peace be with you.
Zen Dolorr how did they save you.
How did they save you just asking not trying to be mean or anything
@@NightimeLofi no offense taken. I guess the simple way of putting it is, they gave a severely depressed and suicidal 14 year old me a reason to continue waking up every morning just by making songs, like Scars. I had loved bands before but before PR, I truly felt alone. None of the music I listened to at that point was anything I related to. Then I heard Scars, and for the first time someone else was singing the feelings I felt. It changed everything for me.
For the record they didn't save your life you did
Loved the song since it came out. Never personally associated with the lyrics and the video till now. Im 32 and im now living it. The words " i can't help you fixe your self, but at least i can say i tried. Im sorey but i got to move on with my own life" have never ben so true for me in my own life. Thank you much Papa Roach. Over 15 years of music and it's still helping me, love and apreciated you guyz till i die 🤘🤘
Still emo at age 23, turning 24 in September, I was the only emo in my hometown I still am 🖤💫
i'd be like, bitch you just burned down my house... wtf are you doing here?
lol
he was thinking that
id been no words, just straight getting away with murder. lol
LMAO! I would also be like that.
😂
anyone else going on a nostalgia spree to reminisce about their emo days?
yes
Guilty as charged
yup
I was never emo
i dont care about u so......xD
And my scars reminds me that the past is real!!
Dont try and fix something that is broken and twisted, walk away, life is too short :)
2009 me: “mom it’s not a phase”
2020 me: “husband it’s not a phase”
2,001: Mom and dad it´s not a phase
2,010 Husband it´s not a phase
2,021 Son and daughter it´s not a phase, you must got this eternal phase
@I Am Who I Am asking for likes? disliked and unsubscribed
lol YAAAAS!
break out the eyeliner , hair gel , black t-shirt and skinny jeans
emo time
Oh man Big up to the Emo era, You are a legend if you are coming back for this awesome masterpiece
This video tears at me bad..i see so many identities in what she did to him that i did to my best friend...the irony of him dumping bottles down the sink hit me hard
This is so good but you must hear "Whispering Wolf" or "The Wave" by SLT 🔥🎸🤘
I loved this song as a kid. It really hit nerve as a young kid growing up. It is weird to have it hit you as an adult as it still rings true for life experience.
So much of the music I grew up listening to, that I thought I understood, has been such a gut punch and a comfort at the same time. 60% of my teenage music brings me to tears while speaking volumes more then it did when I was younger.
Omg u r kool
Took me 11 years to realize that jacoby wrote this song to himself. In the perspective of his loved ones. When he was struggling with alcohol
Wow really?
🎻🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎧🎧🎧🎧
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. “For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
This will always hit my heart.
This was an Anthem for all us emo kids back in the day.
True 😀
Still is 😅
Funk Master i was no emo but I respect I was 14 when I fell in love 🥰 with papa roach I’m 32 and I love the fact he still loved
Just because he had black hair makes him emo 🤔
ACID No... he was referring to the emo kids back in the day that listened to this song.... -_-
“Scars remind us the past is real.” Still listening december 2021
yuh
Years later these lyrics actually mean something. I know the song from like 10yrs ago my little sister would play it all the time and now that I have scars ..... I just didn't understand.
I remember listening to this on the Getting Away with Murder album. Lost my CD some time ago. Wish I still had it.
"Hey man we're gonna have to cancel band practice, my girlfriend burnt the house down"
"But we've got a gig in two days"
"Say no more"
As an adult, this song makes me cry. As a teen in the early 2000s this was a killer song I loved to jam out to. Crazy how 15 years changes ones perspective on things
Hello, how are you doing? It’s nice meeting you here. Thanks for your unwavering love and support❤You have yourself a wonderful day ahead ❤️❤️🌺🌺🤘🏻
My Brother my weakness is now my strength 💪
The older you get the more sense these songs make
Jessica Sizemore self esteem by The Offspring had the same effect on me once I started dating. As a kid the song was just bad ass but the meaning of the song changed a lot as I got older
Jessica Sizemore agree
Exactly like Basket Case by GreenDay
Absolutely.
yup
You know a good music when you don't get tired listening for the nth time.
Yup, I listened to Jesus of Suburbia for eight hours straight...A nine minute song, but it's just that damn good
Jealous Dan Strikes Again green day is fucking boss
bud more like 20th
This song will always be relevant. It not only speaks to alcoholism. Unfortunately, there will always be people who "care too much", putting their own happiness last...thinking they can "fix" and change others. When the fact remains..."I can't help you fix yourself, but at least I can say I tried. I'm sorry but I've got to move on with my own life." Words to live by...but, how many people do? I love ❤ when Jacoby screams...GO FIX YOURSELF!!
When I was a teenager I just liked the song, now it hits. Goddamn it hits you right in the heart
this song makes me wanna cry cuz im goin through all this shit
tanner sims It gets better, dude. You just gotta keep pushing on and it'll work out.
Bruh! Trust me theres tons of girls in this world lol, your young as shit you got many to go they nothing last forever! There will always be a better one then the one u had.
do you like bvb
This and Getting Away with Murder were the songs that my Mom loves so much because it helped her quit drinking when she started aging in her 40s and realized she wanted to live a longer healthier life.
In addition to this being a timeless song it will always hold so much personal value to me.
Hella underrated comment.
Pure gold.
and the scars remind me that the past is real - sometimes I forget & then I remember that it all really did happen.
As someone who’s been a hip hop fan my whole life I heard this song as a kid and I’m 25 now and it’s still a banger
I used to listen to this song When I was a teenager I have no idea what it was about fast-forwarding it 8 to 10 years I completely understand and is very much relevant in my life
GoodasGold I don't get it
Same here!!!!
Same as chemistry by semisonic
yessssss since i was a toddler my dad always played this genre of music, at that time of age i dint know what it meant but now I DO! i listen to it frequently
Definitely
Whenever I hear this song, it reminds me of my crazy ex-wife.
Haha, what a beast! :D
Zachary Grigley
you know last resort some guy comented cut my wife into peaces this is my last devouse
Zachary Grigley it reminds me of my ex boyfriend
This reminds of far to many of ex girlfriends.
Eu nunca vou deixar de curtir esses sons, fizeram parte da minha juventude e simplesmente gera um sentimento bom que não gostaria que esse tempo tivesse passado! Mas agora é só lembranças de um tempo que já se foi!
@@DanielCobain30 da pra aguentar, somos fortes e a vida por mais dura que seja, ainda tem a sua beleza!
13 лет спустя огромный лайк. Огромное Русское спасибо за большой позитив композиции🤩
This is so good but you must hear "Whispering Wolf" or "The Wave" by SLT 🤘🎸
Calls bandmates:
"Hey, I just burned down my house. Wanna come over and make some music?"
"Sure."
Xx whatsername xX IM DYING HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHA
on my way. got marshmallows
Xx whatsername xX *my drunk ex burned my house down. Pay attention
Xx whatsername xX ahahahaha 😂😂😂👌🏻
Nah it's more like
*calls band mates* "hey y'all I might or might not have burned my house down with that bitch in it y'all wanna come over and make a video"
Band mates: what
Lead singer:what
Band mates sure bro......
I proud that grew up listing to this type of rock music
+the black mask vloger I'm proud that i went to school and listed in grammar.
+cody clampitt listed? I hope that was a joke.
so do i
Why? Listening to rock music isn't much of an accomplishment, I don't understand why pride is the correct emotion in this situation.
I proud
Simply iconic throughout the years...💜🔥
Hello, how are you doing? It’s nice meeting you here. Thanks for your unwavering love and support❤You have yourself a wonderful day ahead ❤️❤️🌺🌺🤘🏻
Just for today…time will never heal my wounds…music will…2023, and this song will forever kick the deepest feelings inside me
Yeahh we are legend 2021 for listening this songs.
indeed, all year long :p
Yep I’m lesson to it right now 🖤💙 black and Blue is emo colors
#journeydontstopbeliving
Yeah 🤟