Q+A | MEET THE BOYFRIEND: Asking Jordy Your Questions about Dating, Divorce, Long Distance + More

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  • Thank you for allowing me to introduce you to Jordy. I am so thankful to hopefully share this next chapter with you!
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  • @HarpreetSingh-id2eb
    @HarpreetSingh-id2eb Před rokem +426

    My favorite thing about this video is how HEALTHY and SOOO non-toxic his answers are. Very happy for you friend! (:

    • @marilynelliott3236
      @marilynelliott3236 Před rokem +10

      @@alliea8141 Oh wow, your answers don't indicate any problem with Jordy but they sure do indicate a problem with you. That is the most cynical and arrogant answer I have ever seen. You don't even know this man and you're assigning devious and manipulative motives to him, when he has never shown any signs of it that we have seen and yes, Michel is right, we're only seeing the merest hint of what Jordy as a person is like, but everyone around her loves him. Don't you think Michel's parents would see that and guard her from being around a toxic person like that? Put down your own baggage before you comment in a public forum would be my suggestion to you.

    • @marilynelliott3236
      @marilynelliott3236 Před rokem +4

      @@miapoe2501 So men are supposed to pay for everything and that doesn't make you beholden to them? Firstly, you've obviously never heard of the feminist movement and secondly, how did you forget that Jordy has paid for things on several occasions, or haven't you been watching the vlogs? Have you forgotten that Jordy has, in past videos, paid for Michel to do things so they could have remote dates and organised for meal deliveries for Michel when he was away from her? He also bought her the (very expensive) flowery top with the big bows that she had rented because she loved it so much? As far as I can see, he has only ever shown himself to be a super thoughtful, super caring amazing guy. I feel so sorry for the men in your life. You are obviously a taker who doesn't realise that every relationship has to be both ways. One sided never works.

    • @mackenziesmith3412
      @mackenziesmith3412 Před rokem +18

      @@marilynelliott3236 Look up covert narcissism and love bombing. He absolutely has shown signs and Michel should be very careful. Also I don't necessarily think her parents would notice. Many people aren't aware of mental health and more covert forms of manipulation, and her parents aren't mental health professionals/don't appear to have any strong knowledge of mental health in general. So I actually don't think her parents would necessarily know/pick up on this in the honeymoon phase, especially if they're more naive. He showed way too much interest too early. The gifts on the first date, $400 shirt just a couple months into dating for no special occasion (especially when he doesn't even have a particularly high income), watching her videos to study her before they started dating, talking on the phone with her for 8 hours at a time, struggling to come up with a real answer about what he likes about her, eating and drinking things around her that would be harmful for her to ingest and acting flippant about it (the coconut water and also several clearly non-gluten free items in the Hawaii vlog), watching her wedding video with her ex on his own months into the relationship, repeatedly talking about how "kind" he'll be to her because Brook wasn't (kind people don't have to announce or even think about intentionally being kind), not to mention how quickly their relationship progressed--that's not normal, and I could provide so many more examples. This looks way more like love bombing and manipulation to me than it does genuine affection, and anyone who isn't telling her to at least keep her guard a little bit up and be looking for red flags (which honestly anyone should be doing if they're only a few months into a relationship) is giving her terrible advice. He's a walking red flag and like Michel said, we haven't even seen most of it. What we've seen alone should make her veryyyy hesitant with him--I can't imagine how many more of these red flags there are that we haven't seen.

    • @marilynelliott3236
      @marilynelliott3236 Před rokem +7

      @@mackenziesmith3412 Wow, looks like I better watch out then, because my boyfriend and I did pretty much the same things Michel and Jordy are doing, because we were in a long distance relationship too. We're now five years in and getting married next year and I am over the moon because he is the man of my dreams and we are crazy about each other. I know what a narc is. My best friend has been going out with a narc for five years and they finally just broke up recently and the red flags were popping up everywhere with him. I do agree with you that narcs are problematic and not everybody can see them, but its the other things that narcs do that are the indicators. To me, Brook was more of a narc than Jordy. The undermining behaviour that slowly sucks your confidence away, the lies and manipulation, the gaslighting. Now that is a narc. And, her parents didn't like Brook, and let Michel know that, so they're not too naïve. We've all encountered them via the vids.. they seem like very thoughtful, deep thinking people to me. You only have to look at Michel herself. Watch some of the earlier videos and you can see how unhappy she was, because she really WAS with a narc then. Even when she was presenting a brave face and pretending everything was peachy keen, you could see it in her face. Her eyes were soooo sad. Now, she is glowing, she is confident, she is happy. You'll say, yes, because she's in the love bomb phase, but narcs don't keep that up.. that's just the hook to get you in. Jordy is not self absorbed or egotistical. He doesn't need all of the attention or for the adoration to be aimed at him, in fact he keeps on moving that focus back to her. If you asked a narc what do you do, he would NEVER answer, I'm just a guy and I date Michel". He would be singing his own praises to the hilt. He would never say something like, "If I do something wrong and I cause you pain then they can come at me because I would deserve it. " Narcs are more like, "It's your fault that they don't like me, because you haven't presented me properly". It's never them that's in the wrong, its you. Where do you see any of that in Jordy? Sometimes a kind man is just a kind man and I get the feeling Jordy is just a guy who really wears his heart on his sleeve. I thought his answers were very thoughtful and he is capable of great introspection.

    • @mackenziesmith3412
      @mackenziesmith3412 Před rokem +10

      @@marilynelliott3236 That's great, I'm very happy for you, congrats! I've been in two relationships with narcissists--one overt and one covert. They both started out the same way Michel's did, with tons of love bombing, and I was over the moon--that phase also lasted for quite a long time (longer than Michel has even known Jordy). People around me liked them at the time too. If you go back a long time ago, you can even see that at one point Brook love bombed Michel too. I also don't think her parents always disliked Brook, I believe they started to dislike him later into their marriage when he began to neglect her. But to be clear, I think Brook may be a narcissist as well, and I'm not saying that Jordy absolutely is one--of course not. I'm saying that this behavior is identical to love bombing and, although not every relationship that starts this way becomes toxic/abusive, many do. People with a history of abusive relationships (like Michel's with Brook) are also more likely to end up in another abusive relationship, so they should be especially vigilant for red flags. All I'm saying is that this behavior is not typical of an early relationship, but it is typical of narcissistic love bombing. Anyone experiencing this should be looking out for signs of narcissistic/toxic behaviors, but ESPECIALLY someone who has been in abusive relationships before. Narcissists begin relationships looking like the person of your dreams--they have idealized you and will do any and everything for you. This is until you reach the devaluing stage, which can happen days, weeks, months, or even years into a relationship (yes, the love bombing stage can and does last for years in some cases). That's when the gaslighting, putdowns, etc. begin--they don't happen at the start of the relationship. And no, your description of how a narcissist would respond is only accurate for overt narcissism (and even then, not necessarily). Covert narcissists actually commonly respond exactly the way Jordy did--by putting themselves down and minimizing themselves. It's typically a tactic to get compliments, other times it can be as a form of manipulation to appear humble. I don't think Jordy would be an overt narcissist, and to be honest, they're not as dangerous because their narcissism is pretty easy to spot. I think that, IF he is a narc, he would be a covert one. Covert narcs are very dangerous because their manipulation is very subtle, they often appear very kind and empathetic, etc. In fact, usually only people very close to covert narcs actually experience or see the abuse. And also because it's so subtle, many of the victims may not even realize it's happening--they often end up believing *they're* the ones at fault. I've spoken with people who were married for 20-30 years before realizing that their partner was a narc and was abusing them. I both have a degree in this and, like I said, was in long term relationships with people who had this illness. I know exactly what it looks like, which is why I'm concerned for Michel

  • @nessness_x
    @nessness_x Před rokem +128

    I love that his favorite thing about you ISN'T that you do his laundry... he seems very sweet and I'm glad you're with someone more aligned with who you are :)

  • @yasminegibbs-wilson3275
    @yasminegibbs-wilson3275 Před rokem +263

    Jordy is such a breath of fresh air for you. I know if we can see the kindness he shows, his intentionality and his genuine want to make you happy and are giddy for you, I can’t imagine how you must feel, feeling it. You deserve the absolute world, and it’s so awesome to be seeing this amazing relationship come to fruition. I feel like I’m watching a couple that has been together for years, as their younger selves…like looking at your parents as young adults. Enjoy this life God has so purposefully and wonderfully given you…it’s obvious he was saving Jordy for you and anyone before him was just a stepping stone to shape into who you are today, ready to fully receive the man so obviously made for you ❤️

  • @lursipienta
    @lursipienta Před rokem +208

    Through the years I watched all the videos with your ex and I noticed how you spent half the time complementing him and lifting him up and he never did that for you, that irritated me a lot! So just the fact that Jordy has such nice things to say about you lets me breath out finally and feel very hopeful and happy for you! I know you are nervous of our response and judgement and I get it, hope all the friends here have 0 judgment and can be just so happy for you :) I know I am

    • @christaberry3375
      @christaberry3375 Před rokem +11

      So much THIS!!! ✨️

    • @morningmom6
      @morningmom6 Před rokem +14

      Absolutely agree! I always thought she deserves so much more. My husband even said so! ❤️

    • @JP-nb2fv
      @JP-nb2fv Před rokem +5

      Yes!!!

    • @mylene_b
      @mylene_b Před rokem +23

      Yes and it irritated me when he ex said his favorite thing about Michel is coming home and seeing his laundry folded. Ugh. He made it sound like he got himself a maid.

    • @agees924
      @agees924 Před rokem +3

      Agree! In the several videos I have seen of the ex, he just seemed kind of distant and uninterested. Not very warm. Jordy’s conversation clicks so much better with her and it’s adorable.

  • @valeriehaviland7132
    @valeriehaviland7132 Před rokem +120

    The way he looks at you and just want to treat you so right with kindness! You deserve it! Sending all the good vibes two you both

  • @swagprincess5722
    @swagprincess5722 Před rokem +191

    I really don’t wanna make a judgement or criticism but I really do appreciate Jordy’s energy and how present in the moment he is. That is a good kind of person to have in your circle 😊 welcome Jordy!

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  Před rokem +13

      Thank you for this 🥰🥹

    • @swagprincess5722
      @swagprincess5722 Před rokem +8

      @@MichelJanse haha I consider Jordy one of my friends now! Is that weird? LOL

  • @kimwallace7114
    @kimwallace7114 Před rokem +59

    This warms my heart!!! I pray everyday my boys find a young lady like you one day! Y’all are darling…I’m loving you two together! Thank you for sharing this darling relationship with us! TEAM JORDY!!!

  • @karenwyand7884
    @karenwyand7884 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for including us in your life. This was so well done. I think we can all see what you see in Jordy … a truly kind person. Two kind souls have found each other. Embrace it.

  • @savannaward2868
    @savannaward2868 Před rokem +38

    So excited to watch this Michel!! You seem so happy with him and that makes me happy! Already know I’m gonna like him!

  • @caseycox10
    @caseycox10 Před rokem +18

    I love how he talks about you. Also, I think acts of service is a love language for you. It equates to being taken care of and someone being really kind and wanting to make your day better by helping. Congrats you two!

  • @chrissiedcohen
    @chrissiedcohen Před rokem +7

    This was lovely, you are both lovely together & separately. Michel, your ease, comfort, & joy are apparent. Thank you, Jordy, for being the man she deserves, after the guy she was married to. As someone who has been a subscriber from many apartments ago, thank you for taking us along as you bloom!🌺

  • @maryanntownsend265
    @maryanntownsend265 Před rokem +28

    Your introduction before our meeting Gordy was so honest and real. Upward and onward and keep smiling. The best is yet to come💜

  • @lisadavall283
    @lisadavall283 Před rokem +7

    He's like a breath of fresh air! The way he looks at you is just adorable too! I'm so very happy for you and hope to see more of Jordy! Welcome to the "family"!

  • @prp6728
    @prp6728 Před rokem +6

    He is not shy! I love this for you and your continued growth. I honestly can only see positives here. He gives you space to grow while also being there for you. I also love how realistic and down to earth he is. So nice to see that!

  • @deanadick2700
    @deanadick2700 Před rokem +2

    Thank you Jordy for sharing yourself with us. Seeing you both happy and enjoying being around each other is heartwarming. ❤ Y’all compliment each other well and I look forward to watching you grow as a couple.

  • @marinamachado973
    @marinamachado973 Před rokem +13

    I absolutely love how he looks at you and how he recognizes you for who you are and your kindness. Also, he seems very intentional about you and it shows how much this means to you.
    I hope you two are very happy together and I wish you all the best, because you deserve it

  • @kimberlybauer3284
    @kimberlybauer3284 Před rokem +5

    Jordy is a DELIGHT. I love the lightness and ease between the two of you. Thank you for sharing with us!

  • @SiMpLy_ThE_SmItHs
    @SiMpLy_ThE_SmItHs Před rokem +4

    One thing I’ve always appreciated about you is how candid you are. I respect and really love that about him as well! It’s very sweet

  • @daisyzara
    @daisyzara Před rokem +173

    I loved the talk you had with us before sharing him because it shows how much you’ve grown in the last couple of months. I love the fact that you’re setting boundaries with us, which you definitely should. I love this for you!

  • @butterfly-kb4cn
    @butterfly-kb4cn Před rokem +7

    I just wanted to say that it’s nice to see you happy! Whether you continue sharing your relationship online or not is your decision and completely respect it. He seems to be completely invested in you and what it takes to further your relationship and all that matters is how you feel about him. I wish you both the very best! 💕

  • @lechelerenee4919
    @lechelerenee4919 Před rokem +12

    I’m so proud of you for setting healthy boundaries I can’t wait to see where life takes you! And Jordy!

  • @rachaelesque3
    @rachaelesque3 Před rokem +5

    You both look so effortless and happy in each others presence. So natural. I am absolutely thrilled for you and hopeful for myself after my divorce. Your videos have helped me to not become hardened or bitter. Thank you so very much. ❤️

  • @stephanielacoco
    @stephanielacoco Před rokem +33

    He seems really sweet and I love how relaxed/chill he is about your ex-husband situation and videos. His reaction to watching your wedding video was adorable. I think he is a kind hearted human, I say bravo on landing such a great one!!

  • @susanb.1772
    @susanb.1772 Před rokem +6

    Jordy seems like such a genuine guy. Love seeing the two of you together and hope your relationship continues to be blessed.

  • @cheekyrosetexas4702
    @cheekyrosetexas4702 Před rokem +49

    I don't usually comment but my face hurts from smiling at how sweet and kind you both are!! Praying wonderful things for you both!!

  • @caseys4248
    @caseys4248 Před rokem +4

    Michel, I found your vlogs around the time your divorce was public, and have followed your journey. Y'alls relationship is so sweet and it's so nice to see you happy. I wish the Michel a year ago could see how far she would come and how happy she would be. You deserve to be treated well and you are worthy of love..so happy for you and Jordy!! ❤️

  • @morningmom6
    @morningmom6 Před rokem +2

    I loved this! I love how he is very real with you. Acknowledges that he isn't as super clean as you. He isn't trying to be perfectly, exactly what Michel wants or needs. You seem to really compliment each other. My favorite thing is his appreciation of you and how he shows you he cares.

  • @hoochturner7213
    @hoochturner7213 Před rokem +6

    You have grown up so much in the last year. I have cried with you, laughed with you and watched you find this wonderful, confident, beautiful person.
    Then oh my goodness not only are you out making friends, but you found a man that makes you laugh and your heart soar. You have made the 3 hours of dialysis 3 days a week fly by. I am so glad that this is your time. Be. Safe traveling and conquer the world!!

  • @katrinaruss8512
    @katrinaruss8512 Před rokem +5

    We love happy and in a healthy relationship Michel! He seems like such a great solid guy. He came off super well intentioned and authentic. Can’t wait for more content and what the future holds for MORDY

  • @csparksfly3
    @csparksfly3 Před rokem +7

    So nice "meeting" Jordy! I've been watching you since the divorce and have been cheering you on ever since. I've really enjoyed watching your journey and makes me so happy to see you and Jordy together.

  • @laurengibson3061
    @laurengibson3061 Před rokem +13

    I’m not crying you’re crying!!! This made my heart so happy. He seems lovely and you guys look so comfortable and happy!

  • @sillyneedsbilly
    @sillyneedsbilly Před rokem +3

    Watching this with the biggest smile! Seeing everything you have been through it is so lovely how you have come through it and grown! You are an inspiration to your followers about what can happen when you get through the darkness life can throw at you

  • @jennie-cc9dh
    @jennie-cc9dh Před rokem +3

    I really like that Jordy seems to be a very confident man. He’s very expressive and not afraid to say what’s on his mind. I also see the kindness in his words. So very happy for you both. You seem very compatible with one another.
    Also- I love that you have that verbal/intellectual connection. I often think this is overlooked, but so very important especially for long term relationships. It’s always good to have your partner as the person to talk to and share thoughts with.

  • @lanyebarnick8410
    @lanyebarnick8410 Před rokem +8

    I was just sitting here with tears in my eyes so happy for you. I cannot wait for my son and hubby to come home so they can wait how cute you 2 are! We are all about it! Keep on keeping on girlfriend!!!!!! love ya!

  • @alexadavidson6227
    @alexadavidson6227 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely love all of this happiness for you!! 😭❤️ The fact that he kept saying over and over again how much he values your advice and opinions!! That is the healthy relationship we’ve all wanted for you. ❤️

  • @bi4ncaslife
    @bi4ncaslife Před rokem +15

    LOVE. HIM. And LOVE you. You're wonderful together. The happiness and health of this relationship radiates off of both of your faces. I'm thrilled for you!

  • @connorsnana100
    @connorsnana100 Před rokem +3

    Ahhhhh!!! Sooooo sweet! I’m very happy for both of you. I’m one of your biggest cheerleaders guys. Be happy, enjoy each other, and remember God is blessing you with each other. I’ve been waiting for this video.. thanks for introducing Jordy and thanks Jordy for being here and so open with us. God bless you both.

  • @michelegriffin9093
    @michelegriffin9093 Před rokem +60

    I am so impressed with Jordy's thoughtfulness. The lovely gesture of gifting you a book for your birthday in contrast to your ex giving you a workout set in an Amazon box! TEAM JORDY!!!

  • @LStottmann
    @LStottmann Před rokem +2

    He is so lively, positive, and talkative and fits your personality so GREAT, Michel!
    I am SO happy for you!!
    Also, I’ll add, Jordy mentioned how you aren’t “over sharing” on CZcams and that you share for the benefit of those watching and I totally agree! I still to this day also repeat what you said in a vlog previously when I’m discouraged “if worrying about what other people think is the ONLY reason I’m not doing something, then I’m going to do it!” It really resonated with me and I will carry that with me for many years to come. 😊

  • @stephanienicole8916
    @stephanienicole8916 Před rokem +2

    This was wonderful to watch. I'm so happy to see you happy Michel! You have been through a lot in the last year and to be blessed with a man who checks the important boxes the have been been neglected in the past is huge. Jordy, it was good to learn more about you. Treat our girl right! Which honesty, it seems you have already been doing well😊👏

  • @susiesmith9957
    @susiesmith9957 Před rokem +5

    Love that you two are living in the moment-- enjoying a spiritual relationship without the demands or drama of the ego. Two highly evolved souls!

  • @claraf9533
    @claraf9533 Před rokem +7

    I went through a terrible breakup years ago with an ex fiance. I met my now husband a few years later and we now have 3 wonderful children. I found your channel very randomly but it has been a huge blessing and I’ve kind of been able to process things about my own breakup that I didn’t realize were still lurking in my heart.
    So thank you for your candid generous sharing of your life. You are making a difference to people. Bringing joy to the world. And I am very happy for you. You and Jordy seem like a genuine and sweet couple. Mutual admiration, shared values, and the care you have for each are evident. God bless!

  • @stephanieshifrin4285
    @stephanieshifrin4285 Před rokem +10

    You two are really great at communicating. As a 51 year old recently divorced woman, I think that goes such a long way in preventing future issues. Keep being adorable 💕

  • @courtwestmoreland94
    @courtwestmoreland94 Před rokem +1

    So happy to see you happy! I don’t comment on your videos very often, but I’ve followed along since you’ve had about 15k subscribers. I found your channel when I was searching for wedding planning/DIY videos when I first got engaged almost 3 years ago. I happened to stumble across your channel and I have kept watching ever since! It’s amazing to see how much you’ve grown and changed over the last couple of years! I love watching your videos and look forward to many, many more! 💖

  • @noubiessman7446
    @noubiessman7446 Před rokem +3

    I love how you are both looking at each other during this whole thing, it shows just how much you guys connect with each other❤️

  • @cssquared3
    @cssquared3 Před rokem +12

    I just watched your introduction and paused to comment this. Only you know what’s best for you. I dated someone two months after my divorce was finalized. I posted a picture of him on my Facebook and someone commented “what happened to the one you married?” I knew then moving forward I would protect my peace at all costs. Her and her ignorant self were immediately blocked. You don’t owe anyone any kind of explanation for anything. You are VISIBLY over the moon and finally being treated how you deserve to be treated. If someone has anything negative to say about that, that speaks on their character. The real issues lies within those people and their sad lives. I’m proud of you for creating and implementing boundaries to protect what’s special to you.

  • @AK141415
    @AK141415 Před rokem

    Found your channel recently and love how you open yourself up to the community. I have binge watched ALL of your videos and your love and positivity is so wonderful! Thank you for being so vulnerable to us. Jordy is so welcome!! ❤️

  • @ritubogar
    @ritubogar Před rokem +10

    He seems like a very genuine guy with his mind and heart at the right place 😊 Hope the best for the 2 of you! ❤️

  • @anastasia_six
    @anastasia_six Před rokem +3

    I just love that when you brush against him, he doesn't move away. Your "touch" love language is very much appreciated in this relationship! 💞

  • @BrigitteCoffman
    @BrigitteCoffman Před rokem +11

    AWE---This was an "awe moment" for me! For others too, I am sure. I am typing this before reading other's comment. I love the relationship you two are having. Hopefully it continues, because it is so precious! Glad you introduced Jordy's music. It's very good. Most music I fall for, are songs introduced to me by others. So, I am grateful you shared it with us. Love your trips, and how you share them with us. Let's not compare Jordy with past relations. Because, you can't share this in comparison of your past. He is very uniquely a man full of Love and Joy! His last relationship lost a precious soulmate, for sure! Jordy, thank you, for sharing your current life with us. It's a Blessing getting to know you! Brigitte (age 66) in Tulsa Oklahoma who has watched Michel, way before Michel even dated....her past relation. Love you both, dearly!

  • @zoeydodge4345
    @zoeydodge4345 Před rokem

    The vibes between you two are amazing! You guys just seem to connect so naturally!🤍 so wonderful to see you being so happy and really becoming the Michel that we all love!!🤍 always advocate for yourself! Me and my husband advacate for ourselves everyday! Communication truly is key!!

  • @lexiemerz5069
    @lexiemerz5069 Před rokem

    i am inspired by your willingness to be vulnerable in sharing Jordy/dating while at the same time setting boundaries for yourself and this community. hats off to you friend - what an amazing journey of self-awareness, love, and growth you are on. ❤️

  • @JolandaBecker
    @JolandaBecker Před rokem +3

    Got tears in my eyes when he said his favourite thing about you is your kindness. So sweet and so true!

  • @KarrenKora
    @KarrenKora Před rokem +43

    this story that is your life has been a joy to witness, thank you

  • @lanegonzales1
    @lanegonzales1 Před rokem

    I've only watched a couple of videos, enough to know some of the biggest trials you have been through, and it makes me very happy to see you so genuinely joyful with Jordy. This is exactly what your deserve and I hope you continue to experience those feeling indefinitely.

  • @kaylaskaggs9241
    @kaylaskaggs9241 Před rokem

    I am so thankful for your openness to share your life online! It can be extremely vulnerable, but because of your honesty with everything in life, I feel like I know you like a close friend! Michel, I am so so happy for both you and Jordy! I have truly teared up out of joy for you and watching this season of your life unfold. Going from your honest video about the divorce to this - I cannot begin to explain how proud, encouraged, and simply happy for you that I am!! You are truly the most real person online I’ve come to know! 🤍✨ so happy to meet your sweet boyfriend!!

  • @hndeiw11248
    @hndeiw11248 Před rokem +4

    Happiness looks great on you, Michel. ♥️
    I’m praying for you both as you navigate this season of life.

  • @karenlozano3618
    @karenlozano3618 Před rokem +6

    Awww! Michel, he seems wonderful! My heart was so happy watching this video! I was smiling the whole time and almost shed tears of joy! I hope God blesses you both with infinite love and wisdom to be successful in all areas of your life. I love you! 💕

  • @rebeccacurtis758
    @rebeccacurtis758 Před rokem +8

    I LOVE this!!! Really enjoyed getting to see other sides of you, that we don’t get to see, from his perspective, like your laughs and goofiness! I am so, so happy for you. Praying for God’s wisdom for you both as y’all continue to build your relationship ❤️

  • @melodyabbee5325
    @melodyabbee5325 Před rokem +1

    After watching you go through such horrible pain during your divorce, it is SO amazing to see how happy you and Jordy are together! You made it through the valley and now you are on top of your mountain! I wish you both so much happiness and I look forward to watching you both grow in your relationship together!!

  • @sarahreavis2924
    @sarahreavis2924 Před rokem +11

    Oh my gosh, we LOVE him. He seems like such a great for you and a wonderful person in general ❤️

  • @SD-cu6if
    @SD-cu6if Před rokem +7

    I discovered you from your divorce videos as I’m going through the exact same thing. It’s so reassuring to see that you’ve met someone like Jordy. He seems awesome I’m happy for you two!

  • @valeriemoutinho5827
    @valeriemoutinho5827 Před rokem

    this just warmed my heart. i've been listening to jordy's music for just about as long as i've been watching your videos. you are both glowing and looking so happy, which just makes me incredibly happy and excited for you!

  • @BethanyC
    @BethanyC Před rokem +2

    Watching y’all together is just so precious 🥺 y’all fit together so well and I hope you share more of your relationship going forward 🤍

  • @juliafriesen9577
    @juliafriesen9577 Před rokem +3

    Oh this is so great. I just love that he notices your 25 diff laughs. For him to even mention that alone is sweet. This makes me happy. It looks and feels like you guys have been together for longer than you have. This reminds me of my hubby and I and we have been together for 13 years :). We used to have friends that would say to us that we made them sick of how nice we were to each other. There's just a lot of kindness and truth and this makes me smile.

  • @laurengruninger1215
    @laurengruninger1215 Před rokem +215

    I recently ended a relationship with my bf (we actually were in Hawaii a couple months ago too)and it'sbeen hard. Nothing horrible went wrong, I just never got that spark and knew we both deserved true love. When I watched this and saw they way you guys look at each other and interact I was reminded of what I look forward to having again one day :)

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  Před rokem +28

      Sending you big hugs and lots of love 🤍 so thankful for you!

    • @amyxu7221
      @amyxu7221 Před rokem +1

      I feel the same way. It's so good to see

  • @averymccall224
    @averymccall224 Před rokem +1

    You are so full of joy Michel!! I’m so happy to see how you’re growing through all of this!

  • @debbieohalloran8103
    @debbieohalloran8103 Před rokem

    It is soooooo good to see you so happy, Micale - the way you and Jordy interact, and the way you both smile tells it all! May this relation continue to blossom and grow, and may you give each other new found faith and hope in the future! Welcome to the family, Jordy - Glad to meet you!

  • @aliciaa7831
    @aliciaa7831 Před rokem +7

    Wow so fun to finally meet him!!! He seems great and you seem really good together and good for each other! I said it before and I'll say it again, you seem so much more at peace and so much more "real" in a way since you ended your last relationship. I'm happy for you!

  • @whimsucrossing
    @whimsucrossing Před rokem +4

    When the two of you waved at the end together, it brought such a huge smile to my face! Love to see you happy. :)

  • @liveandlearn4980
    @liveandlearn4980 Před rokem +2

    You both are outstanding communicators and very honest with each other. I love that Jordy asks to hear your opinion and really values your advice. That is huge in my book!! I watched some of Jordy's music videos out of curiosity and really loved his voice and personality on stage. He is refreshingly different and you guys make a great couple. Best wishes for continued happiness to you both.

  • @kateeve5717
    @kateeve5717 Před rokem +2

    It’s nice to see you seem so at ease with someone. There doesn’t seem to be any artifice from him, he seems to be a really genuine and straight shooting person! Enjoy your time together 😊

  • @MegaCj65
    @MegaCj65 Před rokem +3

    Awe..... I love the smiles! Happiness looks great on both of you. Congratulations and best wishes on a happy, healthy and successful relationship. I think Jordy's a keeper!

  • @pa686
    @pa686 Před rokem +3

    Jordy is literally the nicest guy ever.. you look so happy and at ease with him and he seems so sincere. It's great to get to meet him

  • @daniellebaker1918
    @daniellebaker1918 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for sharing this Michel - I truly hope that you experience joy and receive only kindness by sharing this part of your life with all of us. I love seeing such an important part of your life right now, and I think you two are just the cutest!

  • @ESE33
    @ESE33 Před rokem +2

    You two have the exact same energy and it's so beautiful to watch it play out. I'm really happy you found someone that makes you so happy and that genuinely wants to make you happy

  • @vickieb.932
    @vickieb.932 Před rokem +18

    You guys look so happy 😊 together. ❤ that your sharing this personal side of your life. Stay Blessed 🙌.

  • @catlizcrain
    @catlizcrain Před rokem +3

    He is a breath of fresh air 🤍 I feel like he matches your spirit and compliments you so well. Welcome to the fam, Jordy! 🥰🥰

  • @Sincerley_Jules
    @Sincerley_Jules Před rokem

    Omg Michel the smile on your face says it all. May God bless you two and be with you through this new season in your lives .

  • @Xuri0612
    @Xuri0612 Před rokem +1

    Jordy is awesome Michel! I am soooooo happy for you. You truly deserve someone who is as kind and genuine as you are. My most favorite song by Jordy is "BETTER." I am currently going through a self-healing journey and that song brings so many things into perspective for me. God bless you both sweetheart. 💞

  • @RulersxRocksx3
    @RulersxRocksx3 Před rokem +13

    He seems so fun and goofy!!! So happy for you Michel ❤️

  • @insidewittsworld4620
    @insidewittsworld4620 Před rokem +4

    I LOVE this so much! I’m so glad to see you happy and the way you two look at each other is 😚👌 I hope to see Jordy more on the channel as time goes on. He is so well spoken and genuine. I can definitely see how you two connect! Sooo cute! I’m so happy for the both of you!

  • @RYN330
    @RYN330 Před rokem +1

    I love this for you!! Jordy seems so genuine and kind and I can see how much you adore each other. On a side note, I love a consistent CZcamsr! 👏
    Your vlogs are great and you always seem so kind and grateful. I am so happy I discovered your channel and wish you so much happiness!❤️

  • @Filmyism
    @Filmyism Před rokem +1

    Wow, I approve of this guy for you SO much. He’s so compassionate, reflective, kind, and intentional. You can tell he’s really in it for you and not just to check some box. I hope you decide to share more of your adventures together, but of course share what ever you’re comfortable with. SO happy you’re having this experience Michel, you deserve this so much.

  • @kaiw522
    @kaiw522 Před rokem +4

    Omg this is the energy I've always wanted for you Michel 💖 so darn happy for you!

  • @bethschultz922
    @bethschultz922 Před rokem +3

    I’m so happy for you! He seems genuinely kind and thoughtful with the right motivations. I hope you continue to your instincts :). You have good sense!

  • @elizabethjean5219
    @elizabethjean5219 Před rokem

    This video is fantastic. The true joy you bring to each other is evident. The way you both speak to each other and about each other is wonderful to see. You both deserve to be happy and it looks as though you have found that in each other ❤️ May your journey together be blessed!

  • @Kayyyla90
    @Kayyyla90 Před rokem

    Thank you for doing this video and introducing us to Jordy!! He seems like such a nice guy and like he genuinely cares about you and is on the same page with how you want your relationship to be. I'm so glad you found each other and I wish you both nothing but the best!!

  • @h4ley3lder
    @h4ley3lder Před rokem +4

    michel i love him 😭 he seems so sweet, quirky (in the best way!), and genuine!!! i’m SO happy for you :’) 💗

  • @bridgetdunn8065
    @bridgetdunn8065 Před rokem +3

    This was so sweet, thank you for sharing with us. I love to see you so happy!

  • @karsonbarclay
    @karsonbarclay Před rokem

    I'm truly happy to see you authentically happy and free. I have been watching your videos for years now and im proud and happy to see you living your life the way YOU want to.

  • @makenziebary4346
    @makenziebary4346 Před rokem +2

    This makes me so happy! I love how much the word “kind” was used! No drama just kindness! Congratulations 😊

  • @leslieadams6702
    @leslieadams6702 Před rokem +3

    SO FAR IM DIGGING JORDY, HE SEEMS SINCERE,HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR, VERY KIND AND SO INTO MICHEL❤️

  • @LBELIZABETH96
    @LBELIZABETH96 Před rokem +3

    I’ve been a fan of Jordy’s for a while now and it makes me so happy to see you guys together!

  • @helenstratigos4862
    @helenstratigos4862 Před rokem

    Aw, I love you two together. Jordy seems like such a good soul - very honest, respectful, kind, open-hearted, and an intensely great listener. Very talented too. Take good care of each other. I wish you every happiness on this journey...! ❤

  • @christinevaughan2700
    @christinevaughan2700 Před rokem +1

    Omg you deserve this! He seems like a sincere, very kind guy who really adores you. He understands what you’ve been through and is outright saying that his intention is to do better by you. I only get good vibes💕

  • @shelbitioli
    @shelbitioli Před rokem +8

    Oh my God. My insides are lit up for you. I didn't stop smiling. He is so affirming. What a good soul.

  • @ashliekuntz6410
    @ashliekuntz6410 Před rokem +3

    Okay I officially love Jordy! I love how he treats you and you look so happy🥰 thanks for letting us get to know him as well!

  • @deborahleatherman7001
    @deborahleatherman7001 Před rokem +1

    I’m tearing up and so happy for you both! Having gone through a kinda similar situation I can attest to how it is so healing and refreshing to be with someone so caring and loving!

  • @chrissylee325
    @chrissylee325 Před rokem +1

    So happy for you!! It’s great to see you so happy and with someone who clearly cares and makes an effort. I wish you both the best. Can’t wait to see what the future brings you ❤️🫶🏻