I love that there is a song now that captures that very distinct feeling of wanting to peel your skin off so that people will stop looking at you like you’re prey
As an unattractive person, I never knew the struggles attractive people went through and that you too wanted to peel off your skin- my heart goes out to all of you ❤
Growing up I always refused to wear makeup and I always wore clothing that was more masculine in order to be as repulsive as possible to men. I would forgo hair brushing and personal hygiene frequently to keep up this appearance. It’s so sad how far I went in making myself disgusting so I wasn’t the subject of unwanted attention. That I even felt like I had to do that as a kid, looking back is so messed up. This song perfectly captures my thought behind why I did that.
Very much the same for me when I was a kid. I learned at an early age that hopefully if I just didn't look appealing to them I wouldn't be a victim again. I did my very best to dress, act and look like a boy and just be invisible. This song has me sobbing because of not only the song but also this comment. Knowing in a heartbreaking way that I wasn't alone.
I'm so sorry, none of us deserve this, and the the inner violence that gets created from the fear and anger these actual villains create is so overwhelming sometimes, we are more than this and we are more than what these sick men see
I shave my hair and wear baggy clothes and don't take care of myself for this reason for 5 years now, after someone took my sense of self from me. Idk when I'll ever regain it.
Even if I put makeup and wear feminine clothing I’m still extremely repulsive so you’re very lucky and I wish I were you and I wish I could be pretty and I wish you realized how frickin lucky you are.
My situation is quite different, I didn't wear masculine, but I wear hijab since I was 7, and covered myself head to toe (literally) like you couldn't even see anything of me except my face, and still got assaulted at 10, and still got blamed (at least people asked what I was wearing and doing, they even blamed me for laughing in the streets when coming back home with my friends). It may save some people to wear like that, I don't know, but it makes me angry that we think it's about how we look like. It's about how men act. It's about how culture, in all around the world, is making it seem like it's our fault. Like it's our responsibilty to look disgusting or unattractive. I've repeated that day in my head more than millions of times (I'm 22 now) and I can't think of a single thing to blame myself for. But still I have to think it through everytime and convince myself that it wasn't because of my smile.
It's sad that this song is so relatable. I and so many women know exactly what that feels like because we have felt it. We feel it all the time. This is the first song I have heard that gives it such an accurate portrayal. Thank you for giving voice to that feeling.
Hey, I know yu won’t answer, but I wanted to say I was at the Melanie concert yesterday and you were an opener for her. The date was June 11th 2024, your performance blew my sister and I out of our seats. We loved how amazing you did, and I’m so happy I got to see you before you get super big!
You’re music sounds so eerily mythological, like the end of time in an apocalyptic world. A fight to death between your ex love. Running away through a foreign forrest to get to a destination that you didnt even know existed.
I’ve never felt this feeling because I’ve always been unattractive and repulsive to men. Never felt uncomfortable around men cuz they feel uncomfortable around me. I wish I were you
@@aizuni no you don't. You don't have it nice either, but let's not make it a contest of who is less fortunate because the problem is not you being attractive or not, but women in general being objectified to the extent where you're only worthy of attention and valuable as a person overall if you're "hot" or "beautiful", which also makes you an object of constant harassment.
@@pumigarnet Yes I do because you know what, there are more advantages to being beautiful and/or hot anyway that make up for being seen as an object anyway. And not even all men would see you in a disgusting men, yes maybe a lot but there are still some genuinely kind men out there. And being beautiful makes you admired or at the very least respected by both genders. An ugly girl is ignored and disrespected by everyone
sofia, i love watching your music evolve. it's truly incredible the way you have matured from rainbow rocket ride to unattractive- it just keeps getting better and better. i'm so excited to see where you decide to go next (also, this song is heart-wrenching and relatable and everything awful and you put my feelings into words, so for that i thank you)
i can not get over this song damn girl you're saying the things i feel everyday I've been waiting for the full version for long time and let me tell you, you didn't disappoint us
Thank you for this. This was my exact reasoning as a child when I developed binge eating disorder. If I was ugly, no man would want to hurt me that way anymore. I was very wrong. Now I'm 36, very fat, and still, I have the experience of being afraid every time I leave my house. It's not the way we look. It is simply the fact that we are women. I learned that far too late. I'm sorry to anyone else who has ever felt this way.
I got to see you live at Melanie's concert last Friday and it was such a surreal experience! Your music gave me such a horror filled beautiful feeling, I loved the eerie vibes you put on stage. Your music though has such a strong meaning to it too, and I feel so special to say that I saw you perform in person!
Sofia, this song just encapsulates such strong emotions and ideas, and being women in modern day society means we have to hide ourselves and make ourselves unattractive to avoid undesired disgusting attention by men hwo have no respect. You are truly so talented and amazing at expressing thoughts that can be hard to put into words. Thank you so much for making such awesome music and I'm excited to see you June 3rd!
Does anyone have any song recommendations with similar lyrics, the genre doesn't really matter. I just... need more, i there's any. This is the first song i've ever heard that portrays this nasty feeling so well and i feel more validated listening to it. I'd love to find more similar songs, or even movies/series/art/literally anything. I just wanna cry:)
There’s on artist named BANSHEE-her genre is quite the opposite of this and it’s mostly screaming but it encapsulates unhinged female rage, pain, and darkness regarding this kind of topic (SA, toxic relationships, and abuse). It’s definitely not for everyone bc not everyone likes screaming genres, but it’s good for when you’ve been pent up and holding everything in and need to release all kinds of emotions. I listened to her after my friend revealed the details of her being in her most recent toxic and creepy relationship 🥲
Paris Paloma has tons of songs about things like this. Some good examples are "The Last Woman on Earth" and "The Fruits," but there are many more. Very much recommend, her lyrics evoke visceral feels👌
I saw your music for the first time a few days ago at Melanie’s trilogy tour DFW and…. Omg. I’ve been obsessed with this song since then. Your music is absolutely amazing, plus your stage presence was crazy!! I’m so glad i discovered your music :D
Growing up , I always had the urge to just stay at home , to be away from all that filth that had tainted me. Now it's nearly impossible to go out without feeling like a prey . Even when I'm safe , I feel like my body is convinced that I'm not
that's so perfect. I've never heard anything better in my life. Nothing that more reveal my deep deep fillings with such an incredible precision. I wish i wrote this. Thank you.
Is there a word for this? For me (not speaking for everyone) it's a coping mechanism trying to protect myself. So I'm wondering if there is a psychological term for this (trying to look unattractive to men)
I just had a moment that reminded me of this song and comment. I realised that the negative feelings I have towards my ability to love and empathise (which I have been aware of for a while) are similar to my feelings about my body. I feel betrayed by all three because it "got me into" and kept me in a "bad" relationship. Like I'm not just hiding my body or beauty to feel safe from men, also as an attempt to avoid feelings like fear and panic, but also I harbor some negative emotions about having a sexy body. Like I blame my body for what a man did. Which is against basic 101 feminism.... but it's one thing to logically understand, it's not your fault for looking attractive, but another to actually accept and feel it, allow my body to exist, take care of it, love it despite it all.
Not my usual style, but I had been struggling to tell people why I got so jealous of young Furiosa when she pulled out of her own hair and rubbed grease on her face. This gets it
![Paris Paloma - the fruits [Official Video]](/img/n.gif)
I love that there is a song now that captures that very distinct feeling of wanting to peel your skin off so that people will stop looking at you like you’re prey
As an unattractive person, I never knew the struggles attractive people went through and that you too wanted to peel off your skin- my heart goes out to all of you ❤
Growing up I always refused to wear makeup and I always wore clothing that was more masculine in order to be as repulsive as possible to men. I would forgo hair brushing and personal hygiene frequently to keep up this appearance. It’s so sad how far I went in making myself disgusting so I wasn’t the subject of unwanted attention. That I even felt like I had to do that as a kid, looking back is so messed up.
This song perfectly captures my thought behind why I did that.
Very much the same for me when I was a kid. I learned at an early age that hopefully if I just didn't look appealing to them I wouldn't be a victim again. I did my very best to dress, act and look like a boy and just be invisible. This song has me sobbing because of not only the song but also this comment. Knowing in a heartbreaking way that I wasn't alone.
I'm so sorry, none of us deserve this, and the the inner violence that gets created from the fear and anger these actual villains create is so overwhelming sometimes, we are more than this and we are more than what these sick men see
I shave my hair and wear baggy clothes and don't take care of myself for this reason for 5 years now, after someone took my sense of self from me. Idk when I'll ever regain it.
Even if I put makeup and wear feminine clothing I’m still extremely repulsive so you’re very lucky and I wish I were you and I wish I could be pretty and I wish you realized how frickin lucky you are.
My situation is quite different, I didn't wear masculine, but I wear hijab since I was 7, and covered myself head to toe (literally) like you couldn't even see anything of me except my face, and still got assaulted at 10, and still got blamed (at least people asked what I was wearing and doing, they even blamed me for laughing in the streets when coming back home with my friends). It may save some people to wear like that, I don't know, but it makes me angry that we think it's about how we look like. It's about how men act. It's about how culture, in all around the world, is making it seem like it's our fault. Like it's our responsibilty to look disgusting or unattractive. I've repeated that day in my head more than millions of times (I'm 22 now) and I can't think of a single thing to blame myself for. But still I have to think it through everytime and convince myself that it wasn't because of my smile.
I touched the notification so fast u guys have no idea I'm like an addict with this woman's art
OMG SO DID I AND I SCREAMED AND AND AND MY MOM WAS LIKE WHAAAAT
it's messed up, that i, a 14 year old can relate to the lyrics. thank you for creating this Masterpiece
Mee too gurl mee too✨
It's sad that this song is so relatable. I and so many women know exactly what that feels like because we have felt it. We feel it all the time. This is the first song I have heard that gives it such an accurate portrayal. Thank you for giving voice to that feeling.
Proud to be an early fan of this powerful music you have created
SAME, so MUCH!
The violin is just- *chefs kiss*
Hey, I know yu won’t answer, but I wanted to say I was at the Melanie concert yesterday and you were an opener for her. The date was June 11th 2024, your performance blew my sister and I out of our seats. We loved how amazing you did, and I’m so happy I got to see you before you get super big!
Me too! So glad I found out about her!
I found her from the concert too
Wait she's not big yet?
@@Shosai-cx2ob not rlly man
Haha! I was at the Minnesota concert too
You’re music sounds so eerily mythological, like the end of time in an apocalyptic world. A fight to death between your ex love. Running away through a foreign forrest to get to a destination that you didnt even know existed.
This woman is talented. I went to the Melanie Martinez concert in Baltimore. I HAD to look up Sofia's music. She is good!
i hate that so many of us relate to this so deeply
God such intense yet succinct lyrics, how perfectly she expresses that feeling, every woman knows this feeling so well, how disgusting and sad
I’ve never felt this feeling because I’ve always been unattractive and repulsive to men. Never felt uncomfortable around men cuz they feel uncomfortable around me. I wish I were you
@@aizuni no you don't. You don't have it nice either, but let's not make it a contest of who is less fortunate because the problem is not you being attractive or not, but women in general being objectified to the extent where you're only worthy of attention and valuable as a person overall if you're "hot" or "beautiful", which also makes you an object of constant harassment.
@@pumigarnet Yes I do because you know what, there are more advantages to being beautiful and/or hot anyway that make up for being seen as an object anyway. And not even all men would see you in a disgusting men, yes maybe a lot but there are still some genuinely kind men out there. And being beautiful makes you admired or at the very least respected by both genders. An ugly girl is ignored and disrespected by everyone
Her music is not just music it’s an art masterpiece
Hey you have a really pretty voice. Like a fairy ! 🧚
sofia, i love watching your music evolve. it's truly incredible the way you have matured from rainbow rocket ride to unattractive- it just keeps getting better and better. i'm so excited to see where you decide to go next
(also, this song is heart-wrenching and relatable and everything awful and you put my feelings into words, so for that i thank you)
i can not get over this song damn girl you're saying the things i feel everyday I've been waiting for the full version for long time and let me tell you, you didn't disappoint us
Omg everything you create is so good it makes me melt into a little puddle of sensation
I heard u as an opener for Melanie Martinez last night and oh my god I’m so glad I was introduced to such a good artist that night
This song is the embodiment of what I’ve been feeling for a long time. It’s masterful and painfully true.
Oh my goodness. The whole song is a masterpiece but she leaves it on a note of panic. There’s not a closure there’s the start of a horror story
I have been OBSESSED with ur music since the Melanie concert
Now she will play for Taylor swift at Wembley era tour
@@AnnaF33 i know im so happy for her
I SAW YOU AT THE MELANIE MARTINEZ TRILOGY TOUR IN FORT WORTH AND ME AND MY DAD FELL IN LOVE WITH YOUR MUSIC AND THE BASS
I LOVE YOUR SONGSSS
Always a good day when she uploads 🗣️
Stop Sofia ily and this song im so glad i get to see u live
That was intense and I'm so here for it!
Sofia's talented. Wow! Recall that attention over 50 years ago. Sadly still happening. Hard to deal with when young.
found you on your ig, you're one of a kind, non mainstream amazing art creator. You did not just created songs but stories in your art
okay.. this is a masterpiece. thank you so much, Sofia. you're amazing.
Absolute masterpiece, I love it. So much talent.
I have literal goosebumps this song is so agonisingly beautiful
Thank you for this. This was my exact reasoning as a child when I developed binge eating disorder. If I was ugly, no man would want to hurt me that way anymore.
I was very wrong. Now I'm 36, very fat, and still, I have the experience of being afraid every time I leave my house.
It's not the way we look. It is simply the fact that we are women. I learned that far too late. I'm sorry to anyone else who has ever felt this way.
Incredible
Edit: It makes me sad in a distinct way, I can place but don't really want to somehow. I think because I'd break.
So new…yet so familiar…LOVE IT…❤❤❤
So glad this song came upon my feed!
I got to see you live at Melanie's concert last Friday and it was such a surreal experience!
Your music gave me such a horror filled beautiful feeling, I loved the eerie vibes you put on stage. Your music though has such a strong meaning to it too, and I feel so special to say that I saw you perform in person!
Oh my god a song that speaks everything I've wanted to say
I love how brave you are with your music and vocal choices! Keep it going girl!
I JUST SAW YOU ON TOUR FOR MELANIE OMG I LOVE IT THANK YOUUUU
you ate that shit up at melanie's balitmore tour omg. i'm obsessed now 😭😭
I saw you at the melanie martinez concert yesterday! And let me tell you! You are beautiful and amazing! It was so amazing!
I feel like this has given voice to a feeling I've had for so so so long
Sofia, this song just encapsulates such strong emotions and ideas, and being women in modern day society means we have to hide ourselves and make ourselves unattractive to avoid undesired disgusting attention by men hwo have no respect. You are truly so talented and amazing at expressing thoughts that can be hard to put into words. Thank you so much for making such awesome music and I'm excited to see you June 3rd!
Gold 💛 this is amazing 👏 🤩 😍 🙌
This sums up that feeling so well that it hurts
This is so freaking underrated! You deserve more views!❤❤
i hope the same men this song is about feel deeply unsettled and disturbed
Does anyone have any song recommendations with similar lyrics, the genre doesn't really matter. I just... need more, i there's any. This is the first song i've ever heard that portrays this nasty feeling so well and i feel more validated listening to it. I'd love to find more similar songs, or even movies/series/art/literally anything. I just wanna cry:)
There’s on artist named BANSHEE-her genre is quite the opposite of this and it’s mostly screaming but it encapsulates unhinged female rage, pain, and darkness regarding this kind of topic (SA, toxic relationships, and abuse). It’s definitely not for everyone bc not everyone likes screaming genres, but it’s good for when you’ve been pent up and holding everything in and need to release all kinds of emotions. I listened to her after my friend revealed the details of her being in her most recent toxic and creepy relationship 🥲
Paris Paloma has tons of songs about things like this. Some good examples are "The Last Woman on Earth" and "The Fruits," but there are many more. Very much recommend, her lyrics evoke visceral feels👌
She's releasing music on my birthday OMGGG
I saw your music for the first time a few days ago at Melanie’s trilogy tour DFW and…. Omg. I’ve been obsessed with this song since then. Your music is absolutely amazing, plus your stage presence was crazy!! I’m so glad i discovered your music :D
I Love This Song So Much
I cry everytime I listen to it
found u from the trilogy concert at the honda center snd your absolutely incredible
I'm a mariachi, and I love this!! Exquisite from all languages
Growing up , I always had the urge to just stay at home , to be away from all that filth that had tainted me. Now it's nearly impossible to go out without feeling like a prey . Even when I'm safe , I feel like my body is convinced that I'm not
AYEEEEE. IT'S HEREEEE. I've wanted to add this to my playlist since I first heard the teaserrrrr✨
Love you Sofia!!!!
its always a good day when Sofia uploads!! thank you so much for this amazing song that describes so many emotions ive felt in the past!!!
this has billie eilish vibe and you are SOOOO AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!
YOU WERE SO GOOD AT THE TRILOGY TOUR
YUHH this is so hype omg you put feelings into words SO WELLLL
you never disappoint, literal goosebumps
This is a relatable song to most women out there
This song is so powerful
I relate to this too much…
Can anyone confirm Sofia’s trilogy tour setlist? Would love to hear this beautiful piece live
I have never resonated more with something. Welcome to the world of women.
we're so lucky to have you sofia
that's so perfect. I've never heard anything better in my life. Nothing that more reveal my deep deep fillings with such an incredible precision. I wish i wrote this. Thank you.
Full body chills
Ugly crying to this rn
I have gooosebumbs
The way she captures the feeling Is priceless ❤❤❤
Underrated masterpiece!!!!!!!!
Stunning way to drop the lyrics out into a pool of blood from the tragedy.
obsessed. will leave it at that 💚💚💚
Saw you at the Trilogy tour yesterday at the one in Columbus I just had to look you up it was absolutely amazing! Even better in person!!!
I discovered your music while seeing you perform at the trilogy tour and your songs are soooo good!❤️
In love!! ❤️
I got so addicted to her music on the day of my trilogy tour concert
WAKE UP BABE, SOFIA JUST RELEASED A NEW SONG!!!!
THIS IS THE OFFICIAL VIDEO??? WHY ISNT THERE MORE LIKES
✨💖✨
I just want someone to need me.
This deserves more recognition
*added to stepdad playlist* 😅
She reminds me of Ethel cain😮
I got to see you live in Orlando last week and holy shit, I was in awe 😍 currently have your stuff on repeat ❤
I need the backyard demon song, Sofia! Please upload!
Wasn't there another version of this song? I swear i remember it differently
Is there a word for this? For me (not speaking for everyone) it's a coping mechanism trying to protect myself. So I'm wondering if there is a psychological term for this (trying to look unattractive to men)
Please inform me if u find!!! ❤
I wanna know too
I just had a moment that reminded me of this song and comment.
I realised that the negative feelings I have towards my ability to love and empathise (which I have been aware of for a while) are similar to my feelings about my body. I feel betrayed by all three because it "got me into" and kept me in a "bad" relationship. Like I'm not just hiding my body or beauty to feel safe from men, also as an attempt to avoid feelings like fear and panic, but also I harbor some negative emotions about having a sexy body. Like I blame my body for what a man did. Which is against basic 101 feminism.... but it's one thing to logically understand, it's not your fault for looking attractive, but another to actually accept and feel it, allow my body to exist, take care of it, love it despite it all.
@@helpfuliavids beautifully worded. And I relate to this a lot.
Really incredible
I LOVE THIIIIS
OMG I LOVE IT ❤
I never ever related to any song this much
It's so quiet on the mobile I have to crank the volume
This is so mf good like it touched my soul
SOFIA WHAT THE AHHHHHHHHHH
Wow wow wow wow wow
Not my usual style, but I had been struggling to tell people why I got so jealous of young Furiosa when she pulled out of her own hair and rubbed grease on her face. This gets it
YOU DID SO GOOD AT THE CONCERT❤
MOTHER IS MOTHERING
I waited for this since Sofia posted a reel, it's too fcking sad that even kids can relate with the lyrics. You're so talented