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  • čas přidán 10. 03. 2017
  • Mingyur Rinpoche offers suggestions on how to change deeply ingrained habits.

Komentáře • 220

  • @dineshpant4098
    @dineshpant4098 Před 6 lety +19

    Though I am a Hindu by birth but I am a Buddhist by heart and nature. Lord Buddha's continence fascinates me. Recently visited Mcleodganj, the aura of His Holiness Dalai Lama's Temple is still fresh in my mind. I love watching all these videos. Great.

  • @grishayampolsky
    @grishayampolsky Před 7 lety +81

    haha that paper thing was priceless.
    Mingyur is a very good explanaitor and also funny

  • @simpleandsavored9210
    @simpleandsavored9210 Před 7 lety +288

    words of the wise, lots of failure in the beginning is actually success in the long-term.

  • @shubhadarupvate
    @shubhadarupvate Před 5 lety +18

    Such a big lesson taught yet seems so simple.He's amazing

  • @daleincisions
    @daleincisions Před 6 lety +61

    I like the fact that he's talking into millennial problems right now , like the smartphone thing very on point

  • @sonam8347
    @sonam8347 Před 6 lety +58

    I love ur way of speaking.. I do respect ur innocence. Sir....now I love to follow whatever u said... My heart wants to follow ur rules as a disciple.. in the world full of distractions I found u as my saviour ..bless us...

    • @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13
      @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13 Před 6 lety +2

      sonam sharma "ATHTHAAHI ATHTHANO NATHO KOHI NAATHO PAROSIYAA" so you should follow buddha's teachings and you will be your own saviour.

  • @exequielbayo59
    @exequielbayo59 Před 3 lety +7

    I love this guy so much, his teaching are simple and inspiring. Thank you, thank you!

  • @GOETHALS1000
    @GOETHALS1000 Před 6 lety +1

    This is the cutest way to make somebody understand something .......... amazing person ...Thank u for your videos .

  • @luisurena9876
    @luisurena9876 Před 7 lety +16

    Thank you. 💚💙🌱🙏 I love how Rinpoche explains things.

  • @syedmuzaffarali2006
    @syedmuzaffarali2006 Před 6 lety +120

    Knowledge worth 100 books in 2minutes

  • @PradeepMenon666
    @PradeepMenon666 Před 6 lety +15

    What a great person! :) There is only good will in his words here

  • @finnibertlunchiken7792
    @finnibertlunchiken7792 Před 6 lety +3

    Love Mingyur Rinpoche. What a great teacher. Love his videos.

  • @user-sh1wf2xy4e
    @user-sh1wf2xy4e Před rokem +1

    Thank you mingyur rinpoche for all shares, very difficult to change habits because we also have the bad habit of try changing what we want as fast as possible.

  • @madeehakanwal6072
    @madeehakanwal6072 Před 7 lety +41

    mind blowing learning techniques

  • @adv.prasad_pawar
    @adv.prasad_pawar Před 5 lety +4

    Golden words that everyone can follow in his life to chage the unwanted things....!

  • @Mohan27041968
    @Mohan27041968 Před 4 lety +2

    He is one of sweetest and Happiest Monks I ever seen.. So lovable...

  • @rajivnayan4545
    @rajivnayan4545 Před 5 lety +2

    One thing I have to say that i never seen you guys like that because u have 0 % arrogance and u r giving ur knowledge without any selfishness
    Thank you so much

  • @snowflakes8229
    @snowflakes8229 Před 4 lety +4

    very satisfying part is playing with paper. i have watched many times .great sir

  • @raffaeltroost2660
    @raffaeltroost2660 Před 6 lety +6

    This was so helpful Mingyur Rinpche, thank you so much. You are always radiating with happiness I love it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @brahma1905
    @brahma1905 Před 4 lety +3

    I change my habit after watching your wonderful video.tq

  • @CaptainAMAZINGGG
    @CaptainAMAZINGGG Před 6 lety +7

    I'm so in love with this man omg he's the cutest ever. :') he is like all of the joy.

  • @mahirahmed6388
    @mahirahmed6388 Před 6 lety +41

    good ASMR.

  • @ajaythomaslukose1635
    @ajaythomaslukose1635 Před 6 lety +13

    Beautiful demonstration.

  • @madanpoudel8878
    @madanpoudel8878 Před 6 lety +2

    i have not been influenced as this guy is making me from his action and words!!!
    thank you so much

  • @sumsum5830
    @sumsum5830 Před 4 lety +5

    Sir pls pls do more videos
    It's going to be a blessing to the mankind

  • @mach2262
    @mach2262 Před 3 lety +8

    Really mind blowing at the simplistic yet effective lesson!!! 🤩🥰🙏

  • @luciesimackova4805
    @luciesimackova4805 Před 3 lety +2

    Briliant! So clever and simple

  • @tracylawlor4214
    @tracylawlor4214 Před 6 lety +2

    I've watched this over and over because He's so adorable....

  • @skyvalentine9694
    @skyvalentine9694 Před 6 lety +1

    I like this guy. And his way of speaking. and his simple but effective analogies. Ans his humorous way of explanation. A true Buddhist Master you can learn from.

  • @ajitmenon8246
    @ajitmenon8246 Před 7 lety +20

    Love your videos...they are very good and helpful! Also, good demonstration of how habits are!

  • @pheakros5564
    @pheakros5564 Před 3 lety +2

    Very good metaphor for discovering ways to change habits. Thank so much.

  • @johnnytortuga5795
    @johnnytortuga5795 Před 6 lety +2

    The analogy with the folded paper is perfect.

  • @bluesea8227
    @bluesea8227 Před 7 lety +15

    Hello , I have an illness since I were born . I met alot of doctors but it's not gone away. Doctors said I have nothing wrong with my body . I did x ray ... etc a lot of that. It's 16 years today. and I come here for self healing. I hope I can see the light after I broke my self in many pieces. thanks you !

    • @richiekong6843
      @richiekong6843 Před 7 lety

      You can do it. Don't ever give up even not yet meet expectation. Love yourself and your body will self healing.

    • @rudhradevraj8774
      @rudhradevraj8774 Před 6 lety

      Dont know that god will or will not bless you but if you work for your self than you will surely emancipate from your misery and will experience the eternal bliss.

    • @ranveersaha4992
      @ranveersaha4992 Před 6 lety +1

      Get well soon

    • @brostenko5203
      @brostenko5203 Před 6 lety +5

      Might be useful for whoever can accept it.
      Leave the thought about self centered; What's wrong with my illness or body, why I'm not healed? Why none doctor could cure me? Are they stupid doctors?
      It can folow building anger in your mind where those negative thoughts effect to your body cells which produce consequently worsen and slow down your healing.
      Instead ....
      Develop positive thoughts such as loving kindness compasion to everyone.
      It sound naive but when you are sick and could still care others by praying for who have suffering / illness, hopefully they could get happiness / healing.
      Your postive thoughts Automatically produce good cells in your body.

    • @istoppain62
      @istoppain62 Před 4 lety

      Give it a try don’t stop. Work on inside and there is nothing wrong there

  • @kareng1952
    @kareng1952 Před 5 lety +2

    Determination and patience are 🔑 to kicking habits. The more entrenched the habit, the greater the determination and patience should be.👍🏻

  • @tarundubey5847
    @tarundubey5847 Před 6 lety +7

    A priceless advice from a beautiful soul....Thank you sir....Lots of Love....

  • @ericjorgearnezinochea9679

    The paper analogy was on point.. because it folded back at the last second. Dont power through your bad habits. its a losing battle. Try to change your enviroment to make those habits less appealing. Other strategy is to replace those bad habits with good or (temporally) less damaging ones.

  • @medioguiri
    @medioguiri Před 3 lety +1

    I nod enthusiastically while watching this ... on my smart phone ☺

  • @veereshsipraygodentireworl7032

    i love to rinpoche , he is extradinary teaching

  • @auroraa3613
    @auroraa3613 Před 5 lety +2

    Always feel so relaxing listening to monks.Dhanyawad! I am grateful for the opportunity that i could get a chance to listen you.

  • @other785
    @other785 Před 6 lety +3

    You're so affable and adorable. Thankyou Paul. :) So simply explained. Lots of love and light to you.

  • @richardcarew4708
    @richardcarew4708 Před 3 lety

    Master Rinpoche, I too have been a book reader.. and I never watched television.. so.. a book a day was my habit most of my life.. 5 books going all the Time.. the internet came along, at first it was just universities and text only.. access to all the libraries in the World.. far out man.. Smartphone technology brings the internet to every person on Earth.. it's the greatest combination since cans and soup... it's mostly free information.. all those books.. science in actual science papers.. I have been sick for 23 years in bed.. I read.. and look for new information.. because that's what makes me happy... television teaches people to be passive observers.. shut the mind off in favor of someone else's thoughts and ideas.. it's definitely habit forming.. much more than anything else in our society.. it's global.. it's not accurate information.. but if you have no other information.. how can we know?.. and.. you know.. all the kids are doing it, right?.. must be OK.. at least with a smartphone you request the information you receive..
    random thoughts 🤔.. thanks for yet another great teaching video.. and this opportunity to say.. turn off your television.. please.. you will be glad you did 🙏Namaste ✌

  • @BK00.7
    @BK00.7 Před 6 lety +2

    Haha the paper eg was so great, I understand it in sec, it's really hard to change the habits but he gives best way to break it. I love his ways of explaining 👏

  • @AJHoll
    @AJHoll Před 6 lety +40

    Wow that example with the Paper is an absolutely spot on example for me when I first started No-fap, I tried so many times and failed as many times, but now after 2 years of constantly trying, my metaphorical paper is straighter than it has ever been

    • @tasvak3452
      @tasvak3452 Před 6 lety

      H Meister so how long have you been nofapping?

    • @omly85
      @omly85 Před 6 lety

      I can relate,i've only fapped once in the last 2 years.It was very hard to do but i'll never go back or give my power away like that again.

    • @emanuellopez8578
      @emanuellopez8578 Před 5 lety +1

      r/cursedcomments

  • @dilipaweeratunga
    @dilipaweeratunga Před rokem +1

    This is the video I found Venarable Bhante. In 2017🙏

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen Před 6 lety +7

    Very inspirational and so funny! We can learn a lot. :) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

  • @Kanzu999
    @Kanzu999 Před 5 lety +2

    So simple, yet so wise.

  • @veronicachani6222
    @veronicachani6222 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you. this is very useful in my case.

  • @DoctorObviously
    @DoctorObviously Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is EXACTLY how kicking off an addiction works too.

  • @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13

    Saadhu saadhu saadhu .the paper thing is a miracle

  • @subhad6930
    @subhad6930 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you soo much..namo buddhay..

  • @Earthsuitlife
    @Earthsuitlife Před 7 lety +3

    Beautiful and so succinct. Thank you.

  • @chistayachistaya
    @chistayachistaya Před 6 lety +1

    your explanation is so simple but so convincing

  • @user-ys5mz9hp4l
    @user-ys5mz9hp4l Před 4 lety +2

    So relatable.
    This really helps me with the mind set.
    Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

  • @jassimlatheef1884
    @jassimlatheef1884 Před 6 lety +2

    This guy is just awesome!!

  • @kunjbiharibudania4866
    @kunjbiharibudania4866 Před 7 lety +7

    sir you're so funny and simple thanx for the advice thank you very much✌

  • @mayankrajprajapat8542
    @mayankrajprajapat8542 Před 6 lety +1

    So so delight full you are.

  • @danielsalas3394
    @danielsalas3394 Před 7 lety +1

    great vid,been wanting to build a reading habit and I think this helps a lot,thank you

  • @moniqueesau5024
    @moniqueesau5024 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for your insightful advice.

  • @phurbulhamo2815
    @phurbulhamo2815 Před 6 lety +3

    Omg excellent thank u so much may Buddha bless u always

  • @sheilakirwan6900
    @sheilakirwan6900 Před 7 lety

    So sweet and simple ...thank you Rimpoche

  • @karmatshomo3510
    @karmatshomo3510 Před 4 lety +2

    Wondfull and lovely teacher so greth

  • @YourMom-vd9kq
    @YourMom-vd9kq Před 3 lety +1

    Ruthless compassion.

  • @hitonozhimomi2137
    @hitonozhimomi2137 Před 6 lety +1

    Ahhh I love this guy mann thank you .

  • @audreyburton5367
    @audreyburton5367 Před 7 lety +5

    Thank you.

  • @bcsjourneyvlog5077
    @bcsjourneyvlog5077 Před 5 lety +2

    thank you

  • @shyonacharjee5621
    @shyonacharjee5621 Před 6 lety

    Excellent depiction of changing habit.Habit changes not suddenly but gradually through consistent effort

  • @missdaytonas
    @missdaytonas Před 6 lety +2

    i love him

  • @shakuntalachhotu3598
    @shakuntalachhotu3598 Před 3 lety +3

    Beautifully explain.....

  • @sarathyone1
    @sarathyone1 Před 6 lety +1

    Thanks master for this wonderful video. What we thought is a difficult job made easy, with this simple and powerful process

  • @sadabnihal675
    @sadabnihal675 Před 4 lety +1

    He's just awesome ... A great teacher....💕💕

  • @love123_ultra5
    @love123_ultra5 Před 6 lety +1

    I love his voice

  • @onepercentruleeveryday
    @onepercentruleeveryday Před 3 lety +1

    habit changing takes time but it’s rewards come tenfold:) our habits create our destiny

  • @jom.a.md.s.h.2206
    @jom.a.md.s.h.2206 Před 2 lety +1

    Namo Buddhay 🙏🙏🙏

  • @monotoshghosh7971
    @monotoshghosh7971 Před 6 lety +1

    Wow...the demo is excellent. Hope it will surely help me..thanks

  • @editeisabelfaria5618
    @editeisabelfaria5618 Před 3 lety

    Obrigada Mestre!

  • @vivekmohank2982
    @vivekmohank2982 Před 5 lety +1

    Lots of love from heart sir.this video means a lot to me..

  • @biswaMastAadmi
    @biswaMastAadmi Před 6 lety +20

    on way to become buddhist

  • @gk411
    @gk411 Před 5 lety +1

    Wonderful, that is lovely..om 🙏✌📿🌻🍃

  • @saugat805
    @saugat805 Před 6 lety +1

    thank you :) gave me hope for a lot of things :)

  • @viczog6087
    @viczog6087 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you so so much

  • @jaymehta2560
    @jaymehta2560 Před 6 lety +1

    Amazing .Thank you

  • @Nexistence112
    @Nexistence112 Před 5 lety +1

    Very good example!

  • @dreamyeyes09
    @dreamyeyes09 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @shiraliagrawal83
    @shiraliagrawal83 Před rokem +1

    He is amazing teacher🙏

  • @Aprilatemypie
    @Aprilatemypie Před 7 lety +30

    Thank you. ❤️

  • @user-il6kp4cv9l
    @user-il6kp4cv9l Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you!

  • @arafatansari9548
    @arafatansari9548 Před 6 lety +1

    Sir i liked yours speeches..and process and personality.

  • @10thgrademath66
    @10thgrademath66 Před 6 lety +1

    It's really valuable words😀..it is very motivational🤓

  • @tatato1345
    @tatato1345 Před 5 lety +2

    This guy is adorable

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Master🙏🙏🙏

  • @BreakFreeAddiction
    @BreakFreeAddiction Před 6 lety +20

    well, when a habit becomes addiction, thats when this doesnt work. I love this example by the way and your videos have soo much value. Thanks for sharing.

    • @DTTaTa
      @DTTaTa Před 6 lety +5

      BreakFree Addiction it does work, just takes more patience ;)

    • @baberuthny3
      @baberuthny3 Před 6 lety +4

      Yes it does, just need to accept the addiction, observe it, let it go, be, and repeat.

    • @martfildes9675
      @martfildes9675 Před 5 lety +3

      You have eyes, but you did not watch dear. Try again and again and again.

    • @kramraliuga5589
      @kramraliuga5589 Před 5 lety +2

      I recovered from 7 years of drug addiction. Now I’m trying to break the habit of smoking cigarettes, I have 4 left, after that I will try and quit. I might fail, but I’ll try again, until I stop. So as I did with drugs.

    • @homoerectussemenallyretent6638
      @homoerectussemenallyretent6638 Před 5 lety +1

      Thnx

  • @vaibhavjain3234
    @vaibhavjain3234 Před 6 lety +1

    That example 👌

  • @marceloferreira9811
    @marceloferreira9811 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @harpreet_singh_kahlon
    @harpreet_singh_kahlon Před 6 lety +2

    wow mind blowing

  • @wandanevada4287
    @wandanevada4287 Před 6 lety +1

    Factual .Let us beware of catching new bad habits which can imprison us and get rid of old unhealthy habits .Thx.

  • @kiransinghmar
    @kiransinghmar Před 5 lety +2

    Amazing explanation

  • @chenepan
    @chenepan Před 6 lety +1

    Thank'u!

  • @pieterduivenvoorden3866
    @pieterduivenvoorden3866 Před 6 lety +8

    Thank you for teaching...Namo,Namo.Namo

  • @djcelcatalan7614
    @djcelcatalan7614 Před 6 lety

    Thats a good example teacher

  • @sarmisthahalder1669
    @sarmisthahalder1669 Před 6 lety +1

    Thanku sir and please bless us to improve our thoughts