Casual Relationships Minus Emotions How Do They Affect You?
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- čas přidán 16. 09. 2018
- Sadhguru answers a question on whether and how casual relationships without emotional involvement can affect us.
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Simple explanation:
If you keep going on casual sex, sexwithout any emotions, you will lost your ability to feel sex- that is pleasure! So later on in life, when you settle with the final person, you wont be able to feel love with your partner. LUST will kill you LOVE.
True ❤️😌
This is so true....keep spreading such comments....this generation needs to understand this where making a century sounds more cool than staying focused in life / being loyal to someone.
It also not about pleasure but being more sensible and discipline rather than a hedonist like animal.
@@smritisaha8534 loyal :-)
nice
@@radhika4378 splendidly correct 👍👍
These topics are not so easy to discuss in so simple and profound way....Only a great yogi can do....
Why is anybody asking questions about multiple partners .such quedtions should be specialist or expetienved in such field
@@naynasheth1004 why
because the specialist does not know the answer
It is so beautiful to see our youth getting close to the truth finally.
Really so proud feeling
"It's not the question of morality, it's the question of living sensibly."
Very beautiful you've explained the things that I've experienced myself and I hope more and more people start living sensibly as it's going to make our life mote joyful and happy.
He is talking more on evolutionary basis, and consequences long term, up to us what kind of race humans want to end up as.
I was noticing for so many days in all the video it is Not tye question of morality or it it is not about morality, i want to ask what is morality then?
In the video of adultery or extra marital Affair he said the same it is not about morality, how it can't be about morality ?? If a person don't feel happy he should break the Marriage instead of cheating.
I really don't like theory without examples and single result.
But i really like sadguru because the insights and opinion he give is really very good and meaningful
What is your case ? You Said you have experienced it, What you experienced, would you Like to share it?
The less the distortion, the lesser the drama or the physical confusion. It's not about abiding to senses rather than mixing up with societies morals. Excellently explained by Saadhguru.
Viswajith Vijayan can you please explain this video to me?
@@symphonimason8578shall I explain
That's why break - up take such a big toll on you .
Lots of memory 😂
U didnt get what he said or was it intentional?
@@KIIXI he is joking 😂😂
@@KIIXI he has a point
I have 'never' had a casual relationship.
I am happy to be on my own in between important significant people in my life.
I let 2 partners go by realising that we all have free will to make the best choices for ourselves in this one precious life. These choices lead us to our destiny.
On that basis I must have amazing Runanubandha 😉🌞🌞🌞😊
Such a logical insight to such intricate confusing human emotions.
Exactly 💯
@@ArchanaSingh-qf6vy .....
@@AnmolTheRationalist tu har jagah pahunch jaata h😂!
Our soul takes the memories of everything we come in contact with ❣️
Had never come across such complex things explained so beautifully...I love him❣️❣️
Omg, that salt thing is still followed in my home too, my mom used to blame me when I give salt container directly to her hand ,now I understood why she did that 😃
Salt container is OK but not salt. But to preserve knowledge down to generations, some customs becomes rules.
Yes still followed in my home...
I didn't understood this theory can you explain me ?
What is science behind this its sodium cloride right ? How dies that transfer memory?🤔
This is 100% true and can easily experienced by people doing meditation everyday.
Vipassana is meditation technique used by Buddha, which uses reverse process to remove memory from our system.
Every memory has a sensation, by experiencing sensation again and completing incomplitions with that memory, you will remove that memory from system. It may be from past birth or this birth.
Different paths and meditations use different techniques to remove memory to access the ultimate God particle inside us... which has been covered by 8 types of memory.
No Bish Bash Bosh for all of us anymore folks. Time to find that significant other permanently.
Thank you very much for asking such a wonderful question.👌👍
Most valuable knowledge youths can ever receive.
Every age, we never stop learning
This Youth and Truth program is a boon to the students.. I don't know how many of them take these answers to the heart but atleast if 1% of them truly implement this, this nation would be great!!!
The reason why I always felt not make such intimate relationship and follow what most of the people are doing today is now being understood.
Thanks to Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏 for making me and this society understand the reality ....♥
Throw a Planet of questions at him & what remains might be just a pebble,...
Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Nice articulation
🙏 Living sensibly🙏 Namaskaram Sadhguru! You throw light on every nook and cranny of any subject. We are blessed to have you as our GURU🙏
I'm so grateful that we have sadhguru to clarify all the complicated emotions 😘😘😘
Legend 🙏🙏
Aliza Shahi can you please explain this question to me?
I mean Sadgurus answer
@@symphonimason8578 i also don't get it ,
I also wanna find ans
@@symphonimason8578 he is saying whatever we touch ,smell or see is stored in our mind as memory
If we make physical relationship without emotions ( casual relationship) it'll make lots of memories Bcz he / she will too much closer by us than all other people, and if we create lots of memories we can't be peacefully live ,
We can enjoy that pleasure ( by physical relationship) but we can't be truly happy
@@symphonimason8578 what do you think...
many people make relationship by saying lie & having no genuinely love/ emotions with each other
they engage with each other just Bcz they attract/like each other,they enjoy each other company & they want to experience such a divine pleasure ( se x ) ...
should they prefer casual relationship as a friend/
commit with each other?
or what's your perspective towards casual relationship?
thanks to remember to us the MEMORY BODY ~ ...Karma memory,... MEMORY of computer too ~ thanks to tecnology
My teacher!
Thank You!🙏
Sadguru i bow down to your intteligence
What a logical and responsible way of answer, bow down to u sadhguru.
7:10 sexual supernova... sounds like a great name for a band xD
🤣🤣
😂😂
He has the wisdom that goes beyond the physical. We never get taught about these things that relates to conscious choices, how to deal with our emotions, etc. Such an important topic to talk about especially for the young. We get damaged easily relating to emotions which we fall in the trap where we get confused with reality. We don't know if we should look at a situation logically or emotionally which we lose control of ourselves and our inner world gets shaky and unstable. So we have to decide what we want out of life consciously and get a clear vision.
Intellect at its best... no words to say. Such a logical response to such an sensitive question.
Very simply and beautifully explained one of the most complex confusion in our young generation.Superb 👌
Wow such a profound answer, jaya jaya jaya gurudev
Koti Namaskaram Sadhguru!
The Body actually has its own Memory.....I didn't realise it up until now. Romantics will really have a very difficult time trying to listen to Kyabje on these matters. 😶
If there's a marriage they must bond by emotion. If the husband or wife doesn't understand or feel each other's emotions then there's no proper marital relationship..m
What a Profound understanding of such a complex issue of life which most youngsters go through.😍😍😊
as a teenager, i do feel lost abt many things but istg sadguruji always has smth to say that helps me, thanks again guruji
Blessed to have such guru's in India.
I want to thank this girl who asked such a sensible question
Very well explained... It's not question of morality but living sensibly
Perfect sadhguru ji.
Love, Respect and honor,
Harkirat singh
This man , has immense amount of *wisdom*
This was a needed lesson.
2.06 her smile 😍😍😍
Wonderfully explained
Love the way you explain to the present generation. Morality is definitely not the grounds which would satisfy the present generation. And honestly the way you tell that folding hands is better than a hug -is definitely a eye opener and makes us more proud of our Indian system n culture.
What is morality then ?
He said in another video extramarrital Affair is not about morality or it is not about right or Wrong .
How it Can't be right or wrong and how it is not about morality, it is clearly immoral to have extramarrital Affair.
In this video also he said live sensibly But didn't answer anything clearly. I mean if i ask one night stand is right or wrong or it is moral or immoral then what will be his answer ?
Best moment of this video :D
2:02 The way she laughed 😍
Beautiful!!! ❤️
Sexual supernova 😇🤣😂
But what makes sense is that it’s not question of morality but living sensibly.
Awesome 👏🏻 explanation
Om namha Shiva
Jai Shree Sadhguru
You are awesome
You rock
Amazing that we have got a wise man
Emotional security : one spouse
This man is a revolutionary.... no doubt about that
exactly. now I am going through depression,anxiety,panic attacks. It would be great, If I listened to his at 16years. now I became the sexual super nova and its became hard to turn back.
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Hard but never impossible
Really is it hard..cuz i already suffer from depression n anxiety. I just entered this casual thing. Pls if this is true,tell me. I m ready to step back
Trust me it’s possible…..i’m in a spiritual path right after going through all that. First you need to come off medications if you are taking any by following a very good diet- anti histamine and anti inflammatory diet ( this is must to bring back right kind of energy into your body) and by making good lifestyle changes. It took me an year of dedication to do all this. Then you can start with yoga and meditations
@@akankshawarudkar4482 Thats probably one of the reasons why soo many people live with mental illnesses in the West, despite having a high quality of life, comparatively less pressures in life, mental health is down the drain in the West! They also find it difficult to build a stable family as a result
About salt same thing in maharashtra also.
these things are found in all of india
@@abhaysinghchauhan5579
Nice
Our duty is to keep it alive
Why dont they take salt ? What’s wrong with that ?
We can find these things all over india
Thanks for uploading! Sadhguru - RESPECTS!
Amazing.. He is a living legend.
You have explained this topic in beautiful way!
Excellent answer
Controversial issue made so easy and factual to understand...!!!👏👏👏👏
A complicated question very nicely answered by sadhguruji....
Long live Sadguru in our hearts minds and bodies
So very true.
Thank you Sadguru ji!!!!!!
I would like to strongly convey this is Natural mechanics it's needed according to running age because physical emotion relate to emotional pleasure.
Sadhguru 🙏you changed my perception about life..thank you so much for bringing enlightenment in this life
other than sadhguru who can give such befitting answers in this life time?
Wat an answer 😇...Simply adorable🙏
Very true Sadhguru it's best to be at a distance till u can commit to one person for life..so beautifully explained.
Sadhguru always enlighten me.
Excellent teaching sadguru
17 set 2018 from Italy ~
Thank you sadguruji
🙏🏻wow O’m stunned! What darkness slipped in the back door as a friendly choice. It’s a black hole and gives u one of your own.🙏🏻
Namaskaram Sadguru.plz come to odisha.
He is a very great man.
Thank you Sadhguru for talking about Runanu bantha
Wow...just amazing...
I bow down to u.
Namaste
ArkansasGamer
True .
Just say namaste ...it's meaning is same
A person like sadhguru occurs in ages..
Thankyou
Thank you for this video.
7:13
I come here for this line!
Brilliant explanation!!🙏🕉
Always namaskaram🙏🙏
hmmm, the presupposition of body memory is very interesting. However, I would form a different conclusion (except if one seeks to become a yogi possibly) - I would say it is not unreasonable to feed the body with memory. But it is important that what physically happens is aligned with emotions and spirit. If someone is basically meaningless to you, you haven't connected in any deeper way, or they have harmful energies - don't sleep with them. Going from Sadhgurus logic and combining it with my personal opinions, that would mean that a rift or dissonance is created and your body is confused then: being physically close to someone doesn't mean anymore that one is mentally and emotionally close to someone, even if the body wants that. And I do think closeness can be there in a short encounter, but not when you get to know each other in a club, hook up drunk and leave before breakfast to not see that person ever again.
So, thanks, Sadhguru, you gave me a new insight!
He’s saying that your body remembers everything you allow it to interact with physically even more so than your memory built up in your mind. This is why you’ll experience touch from a new partner that jolts memory from a previous distant physical encounter that will create a rift in your stable relationship now. Nothing is ever forgotten even if you say you don’t remember it, parts of you never forget and this is why being proactive with interactions is best.
Either way, best of luck to you through life’s journey and undiscovered adventures.
@@KPITGangsta What is your opinion for one night stand and casual relationship ?
According to sadhguru or you but plzz tell answer in simply and conclusively
Seems like you're not that interested in spiritual pursuits
@@naraendrareddy273 i don't need to take his every word at face value I guess
Great answer.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 namaskaram Sadhguru
2:01 to 2:05
one would love to see again n again on loop..
Thank you!
Love his logic!
Namaste Sadhguruji
ನಮಸ್ಕಾರ ಸದ್ಗುರು 🙏😎
Excellent reply guruji
Sadhguru is the Best 💝💝
Yes sir it is not a question of morality, but it is a question of living sensibly but only a few people can able to live like this those who have mastered over their life energies like sadgurus sir and others gd ngt sir
Excellent👌🏾
Thank you.
Real relationship is real casual person lived casual.Namaskaram Sadhguru
Thank you🇮🇳
Thanku so much!!! I was looking for this question as well :)
satish kumar that body remembers!! And makes us more complex person...So keep it simple. Don’t go with flow..choose consciously, decide sensibly!We just say that these relationships are casual but internally it makes memory then create it with Only one person:)
That was just beautiful!
🙏🏻Ha. I’m glad I’m fine with the depth and richness from being all in. And glad I didn’t fill my head n living with this vacant question. Your heads or tails🙏🏻
Now that's a unique perspective