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A Brief Guide To Life - Jordan Peterson | Depression & Success (LIFE CHANGING)
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Peterson just laid out a portion of how I went back to school at 26 and became a surgeon. I was a homeless addict at the beginning of my transformation.
Zxyw 0987 Congratulations!😊
Congrats on the success. As someone early in recovery, hearing successes like that give me hope and keep motivation up
Omg i am soo happy for you please can you share your story
JESUS!!! Well done. Can you tell me how long it took you to go from nothing to college. Because im 43 and alcoholic, Ice addict and struggle with basic mathematics and just want to go to university. How do i do that if i am unemployable too.
@gherrrie Thanks, i do crucify myself when i don't keep up with everyone else.
It shocks me that people want to ban this mans books, ban his talks, ban his videos. Shocking that people cant swallow their own bs and understand this man helps people.
Stew F He has many enemies. That is very sad.
That’s how you know he’s good.. he’s asks and answers the hard questions and most people prefer denial and therefore they can deny responsibility and stay biter
I know its really sad :(
I've not heard anything about banning him or his material. That's not going to happen and that's what people do when they have no rebuttal. These same people who want to ban him are the ones who blame everyone for everything wrong in their life and can't stand to hear TRUTH. Those people are emotionally immature and need to GROW the hell UP!!
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Im just tired man, im just really tired.
Do you need someone to speak to? I have time for you
God bless bro, sending prayers 🙏❤️
Allways I just keep fighting.
Was just feeling this same way, gotta get up and keep it moving though, you gotta think, you owe it to yourself just to do the right thing, when we think something is bringing us down is when we gotta get up and do something about it, always be on the move the tired will turn into strength.
Your not the only one.
Jordan is a gift to humanity, why media targets him is beyond me. He truly cares
Unfortunately because he speaks the truth and people don’t like being confronted :)
For today's media the golden rule is this... If they say it's good for you it bad and if they say it's bad it's actually good.
He cares. That's why
Because he is a threat to their power and control. Because he shows people how to think for THEMSELVES
The media is out to control and deceive us, because the rich owners want slaves and subjects. They want to rule over us.
The Father I never had.
I am sorry you had that happen and glad you found a teacher.😁
@@MorroQuitYourJob why sorry?
You father wasn't your choice, the father you are or will be is your choice. Choose well and over time be healed.
Choice doesn't just happen but rather it's a deliberative action resulting in...what? Aim well, my friend.
@@Gnnesh Because it's sad not to have a father.
I never had a person in my life to really give me life advice. It sucks, but these videos are like catch up. Keep going and growing gang
Amen brother, I had people in my life to give my life advice, but we never ever talked about feelings. We were struggling enough that the last damn thing anyone wanted to hear about was feelings lol. Never too late though, is it!
Il give you some advice always look for more always better yourself. The more you have the more you can share. It’s worked for me. Life is hard but if it was easy it wouldn’t be worth doing.
Fuck yeah
Me too. My mom and dad were so self-involved that they never care to give us any kind of guidance. If we stepped out of line, my mom just slapped us around and told us to get back in line. She never explained to us that our Behavior might be detrimental to our own well-being. That would have taken time away from her being so self-involved. That's why I listen to these videos, for guidance!
Growing up in poverty, just surviving was the motive. We are the generational change 🤟🏾
I almost ended it this whole week.
I’m trying. Being a veteran is hard and dealing with a lot more is tougher
Whoever you are, I hope you're still here and fighting. ❤
I understand my self I'm a USMC vet and it's so hard to keep going sometimes.
Remember to ride the wave out it will get better. We are strong and valuable to the world. Each of us brings a unique perspective
🙏🤍🙏
The realization of how you were tricked into being used, abused and tossed away?
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Jordan Peterson is a blessing to humanity. I am in my 30s and did not seek out mentorship growing up or talk to my friend or family about life or my struggles. The shame of regret from countless missed opportunities has kept me stuck in one place for most of my life and seeing everyone around me getting married, having kids, and buying a house cause severe depression in my life. Procrastination and fear of failure has gotten me fired. Somehow I am hopeful that my life will turn around and listening to Jordan every day gives me hope that as long as I can change my mindset, I can change my life. Currently trying to talk to a psychologist because I am notorious for trying to do EVERYTHING by myself and getting overwhelmed, I do not know how to ask for help. You are probably wondering why I am telling you my life story is because as long as there is life, there is HOPE. As much as it seems impossible right now, your life matters and you can change your life no matter how hard it may seem.
I feel exactly like you do. Thank you for sharing.
@@donovanwilliams5424 Thank you bro. I found talking to people and having people to keep you accountable helps
I feel that hope you get better🙏
@@matyousimsaiah825 Thank you sir
We are here for a reason, or reasons, and good ones at that. Every one of us. God bless you, fellow traveler. One day at a time. Daily bread.
Dr Jordan Peterson is one the most authentic, empathetic and extremely intelligent people of our time. He has saved my life. I am so grateful his talks. God Bless You.🙏 Thank you for answering the questions I grew up asking, and either got no answer or the wrong one. Thank you for your generosity of spirit!🙏
YES!
Very well said!!
I'm sure you are a good person but so were so many supporters of Hitler. Please, don't be a groupie. Think for yourself. This is not a bad man at all; but he's not Jesus and he's not the Dalai Llama. Get over it.
Hi Sharad :)
evelyn baron Apparently, SHARAD BUGWANDEEN's life and lot improved after she paid attention to Professor Peterson's lectures. What's wrong with that? Sharad is apparently not an ingrate and has publicly expressed her appreciation for life saving ideas she heard through Peterson. Does that make her akin to a Hitler supporter? What are you so resentful of? Why are you so mad at Jordan Peterson and to those who express their thanks? Remember, this isn't about Jordan B. Peterson. It's about the message that we are responsible for our lives, that we must live it with purpose and truth, and that doing so gives us meaning and integrity which leads to goodness, and to the improvement of our lot in life mentally, spiritually, and, yes, materially in this corporal world. This is really about a life saving way of thinking and dealing with life and others, and not so much about Jordan P. Seeing the many lives that have been improved because of paradigms, ideas and thoughts he's shared speaks volumes. One may or may not believe in Peterson but believe in those ideas, for in the end, it's about you, it's about me, it's about us and everybody making ourselves better from the inside out, and improving our relationships with those around us as best we can, and in the end making this world a little better to live in. That's what those ideas are about. I thank Sharad and others like her who strive to better themselves continually. It redounds to the good of all. //
@@evelynbaron2004 ...Donald Trump isn't Jesus or the Dalai Lama either but his followers are blind to his faults. So don't tell anyone to "get over it."
My son was my purpose. He was the center of my world and my reason for living and thriving. He died suddenly and unexpectedly at age 13 from seizure complications in his sleep. We found him in the morning in bed, gone, and I tried CPR and mouth-to/mouth to bring him back. He had already been dead for hours. My hero and my best friend. He was so special and loving, I was under his spell. I really don’t know how to be happy and live life anymore. My desire for thriving is gone. I wanted to protect him forever. I even promised him that. It didn’t happen.
My prayers go out to you and your family.
That is heartbreaking to hear. It will take time and lots of courage to accept such a terrible thing. You will never heal from that but you might find a way to contain that sadness in a a virtual small box in your heart and just take it out sometimes.
I am truly gutted for you.. I am profoundly sorry for your loss.. :( I hope you'll find another purpose..
Losing someone is never easy and I too have lost someone close to me, but think about this, would our loved ones want us not living life for them! You need to live life for your son! Remember in ways that would make him smile! This is not easy. I have epilepsy, and I have to make myself enjoy everyday! You must also, bless you and give you strength
I'm so sorry for your loss.
If you feel like ending your pain by ending yourself, remember this.
You are a bright light in this world to someone. You don't want to take someone else's light away from them. You have a purpose in life. Maybe it's to help others in the same mental hell that you are in. You must work through it to live the life that you deserve. Be the light you can be! The world is a much better place with you in it!
That's how I think of some of my friends who, sadly, have passed away. They were a light for me but I feel as though I'm nothing to anyone, especially at my age. I'm not enough.
Beautiful
Beautifully said!
We all matter!
Thank you ❤
But what if you're not
When you see this content for the 10th time you notice he isn’t just talking, he’s pleading 🥺 **
shit, you are right...
Alex Lomac yeah, phew 🥺 he’s spent decades doing this for his family, his students, his clients, and us.
Nailed it
... wow... I watched this the 4th time. And came across this comment.
Thx for the comment 😔
Mr MockingMing °°°°. . You’re welcome, I’ve started talking his advice to speak my mind. It’s reaffirming to know you appreciated it.
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Watching him gave me a new perspective. The world became this interaction between generations.
It gets me choked up to see how people say these speeches saved their lives. I want to eventually make a difference just like he does.
@SkillzSquar3D: Same here
Same
I guess we dont get to hear the ones it couldn't save. Im not sure I can be saved.
@@someonesomeone25 hey keep your head up don’t let anyone or anything keep you from being saved. Stay strong and you are deserving of the best things life has to offer and your life is valued.
@@skillzsquar3dgaming thank you. But at what point is it more rational to admit defeat than to keep enduring pain in pursuit of the futile? And I ask honestly: how long should someone in a bad place try everything to make it better before realising they have lost?
I am painfully lonely, stuck in a loveless marriage, intensely hate myself, have toxic shame, i just don’t enjoy anything.
You are not alone.. I wish I could say it gets better but I can't even tell myself that.
I have a job, and am going to school. No relationship. I feel burnt out, can't really seem to find any reason to be motivated in the least. I used to be a 16 year meth weed and cigarette addict but have been sober from all for almost a year, I can't afford a therapist.... really kinda lost as to what move to make next
@@shawnamarshall3268you’re already doing it, keep pushing forward, find a hobby or passion to fill that void your feeling.. recently went through a pretty rough breakup, she was my only friend in all honesty.
I found myself lost for weeks, couldn’t find motivation in anything, lost interests in everything I enjoyed.
You just gotta keep looking for something that’s gonna make you wanna stay/keep fighting.
Set goals to achieve, write them down, even if it’s just in your notes on your phone.
Congratulations on overcoming addiction, it’s not an easy thing to do!
I’ll leave a quote for you, “it’s okay to get lost every once in a while, sometimes getting lost is how we find ourselves.”
keep searching brother you’ll find it.
@@shawnamarshall3268you can’t afford a therapist? You can press in to CZcams podcasts. Work on you. Read about whatever you’re feeling. Workout. Eat better. Work on your sleep. Set small goals. Reach them and set more goals. Be intentional with your daily habits. Take some vitamins. Meditate. Do yoga. You can walk out of the other side of this stronger. Find utility in the suffering and walk into it.
Free & effective
Boost vitamin.D3 levels with sunshine exposure.
Walk or do rumning or biking or any outside activity
Just get yourself outdoors into nature & relax try noticing the details like the breeze the shapes the colors the aromas the feel- go barefoot in grass or sand at a park or go walk on a hiking trail.
Eat a great majority of organic vegetable greens & whole fruits & hydrate well between 2 meals per day (finish eating by 4pm) Don't snack (unless fresh juicing)
If you have problems going to sleep at nigjt add 3 mg (never more than 5mg - can do by drops) of Melatonin 30min brfore bedtime until your body cycle resets.
Think on & note onto paper 1-3+ things you are thankful about each mornng.
Do 3D hands-on art or for example preparing vegetables for eating, washing dishes, folding clothes, painting a picture, forming clay, etc.
Listen only to classical music every day.
Help another person or animal in some small way. Cuddle a pet at a shelter for example.
Read the book of Psalms KJV.
Make yourself smile or lsugh - it changes the brain.
Get off the blue screens unless for homework.
Sleep in a dark room with fresh air by 8pm or 9pm nightly, window open for fresh air.
Work or volunteer work in a garden & get your hands into the soil digging & planting & just playing in the mud.
You are valued, loved & uniquely designed even though your feelings may be running away on a tangent from you regarding that. Know it.
Feed your frontal lobes between your temples making right decisions & actions over feeding the brain's animalistic lusts for ways of self.
Look up & read "Depression the Way Out" by Dr. Neal Nedley. Read the other reccommended books to help change your thinking like "S.O.S. for.." & bk "Telling yourself the Truth" try reading or listening to "The Desire of Ages" about the life of Christ..best one ever written beside the biblical books John wrote.etc.. Know you have a purpose, a hope & a mission. Take each day one at a time.
Write for 5 or 10 minutes anything without letting the ink pen off the paper..an experience perhaps, then move on forward & upward & kbow you are wonderfully made, a miracle in itself!
Repeat doing this list daily. Add reading
1 Corinthians chapter 13 aloud.
Sing a positive happy simple song no matter your ability. Choose to take this time for yourself to rebuild & reroute your thoughts. You can overcome..
There's a shared bond between all of us here. We all came here under some kind of negative circumstances occurring in our lives at the moment, whether that's really small or incomparably large. In that same way, we're all here for each other. Probably this comment will be buried under many others, but if someone stumbles upon it and wants to chat in this thread about anything at all, please do so.
I’ve hit a new low, one I thought I was clear of. I changed my life ten years ago, every day was better than the prior. Then an old behavior manifested and turned its ugly head, then the next day became worse than the prior. In the process I bring others down into my misery, effecting those I love most. Struggling with unforgiveness towards myself. It’s a vicious circle. Trying to return to my former state. These intrusive thoughts won’t leave me at bay. One stressor re-fired my old neuropathways shutting down the current improved ones. I’ve become the old me, the person I dislike. I have good days but the bad outweighs the good. I’ve been gripped by fear and anxiety, living in my Limbic brain is hell. I feel no safety or security, in the abyss and chaos of my own mind. Found a therapist that actually thought I no longer needed her, and told me to contact when I felt I needed. Strange how I can be perceived as fine to an outsider.
It's weird how you can be haunted by years of problems and depression, yet you can listen to ONE man speak for 30 minutes and your perspective of the world is already different, you have the motivation to change for the better, and you finally feel like you can have some sort of control over your life. I actually don't feel so lost anymore, I see the light at the end of the tunnel that used to be pitch black, all because of this man. I'm glad Jordan Peterson exists and does what he does, thank you.
Timing has a lot to do with it.
@@HellcatMad tru
Oh dear, totally agree with you, I'm 65 and l just lern lots of life good changing habits from this AMAZING MAN.‼️
SOMEHOW WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING TO HELP HIM, HE MUST CONTINUE HERE IN CZcams AND WRITEING HIS BOOKS.🌹
Keep listening is the key. Keep putting little things into action.
It’s been over a year (feels like much longer) and I can still say applying the principles in this video along with A LOT of work and patience has made my life a lot better overall. I honestly forgot I even commented on this video. Lot of ups and downs but it’s all about the work put in and also focusing on the good things in the moment. Still grateful for this man
Chapter 1 (00:30): Identify the Problem
Chapter 2 (03:55): Find Meaning
Chapter 3 (07:45): Stop Procrastinating
Chapter 4 (10:54): Become Productive
Chapter 5 (17:38): Negotiate with Yourself
Chapter 6 (21:46): Be Good to Yourself.
Chapter 7 (23:55): Be Free From The Past
Thank you
Thank you very much
This is a helpful index.
Thanks
Not all heroes wear capes
I am a 42 year old man and I began watching Jordan Peterson's content about a year ago when he appeared on Joe Rogan. I have learned more about myself and my issues in the last year than I have ever known in my life. I have also interacted with some of the kindest and supportive people that were just like I was. I am so glad and grateful I found Jordans content as well as the kind people that are benefitting from this content like I am. Thank you Jordan and thank you to all of you kind people for being supportive and cordial to each other.
That's awesome! I'm 41 and had been stagnant in life for a couple of years and then finally hit rock-bottom a few months ago. Thanks to content like this, I have a newfound motivation to rebuild myself into the successful man I was meant to be. Keep up the progress, bud. 💪
Agreed, im 44 almost and feel like i robbed myself and so many others of a far superior me. But better late than never. Now is good, and since the past nor the future can exist in the present. This is the moment to become the best we can be right now.
@@JackBQuick79 Agreed. If we don't act now and change our lives for the better, the regret we'll feel in 10-15 years will be unbearable. 💪 Keep kicking butt, bud.
@@JackBQuick79 I am with you 100%. I am still having those days when I struggle with my demons but I am getting my mind and body back from my dark side. I am learning so much about addiction and I am also learning about people like you who have never met me and know nothing about me, however you are willing to send strength, kindness and respect for the situation I am in. To Jack B, and Luis R, I am so grateful to you both. You both didn't have to do anything to help me but you selflessly shared with me and I felt like I wasn't alone anymore. That means the world to me! THANK YOU BOTH SO MUCH!!
@@LuisRamirez-ln3cjI am with you 100%. I am still having those days when I struggle with my demons but I am getting my mind and body back from my dark side. I am learning so much about addiction and I am also learning about people like you who have never met me and know nothing about me, however you are willing to send strength, kindness and respect for the situation I am in. To Jack B, and Luis R, I am so grateful to you both. You both didn't have to do anything to help me but you selflessly shared with me and I felt like I wasn't alone anymore. That means the world to me! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
I found this in a very dark place today ❤ I just felt like giving up… I wouldn’t because of my son but I can’t breath with how hard life is… money, loneliness, exhaustion, illness and no matter what I do and the changes I make life doesn’t seem to change. I have an online social media business and I can’t face it because I can’t hold myself today at the time which results in me not being able to make money so it puts more pressure on. I just want to wake up happy and light just once ❤❤
I know I might be much younger than you and might not know enough about life . But if you want anyone to talk to or vent out to , I'll be more than glad to help you . Just remember , you are not alone and you are really strong .
You gotta be cidding ME. A young ATTRACTIVE WOMAN. Try being BLACK and unattractive😮
I feel the exact same.
I really hope you find your peace Casey I really do! have hope! You'll get there you will.
Casey, I definitely can relate to your feelings! I think a lot of people feel like you do in this VERY dark, difficult world we live in. Money, lonliness, exhaustion, and living WITH all of that IS a killer. It is SO tough. I have to remind myself to DO more things that bring me happiness, like nature. I find myself attracted to nature, and the beautiful calm peaceful feelings that nature, and bodies of water, and the sun brings to me. Animals too. Babies, anything and anyone that has purity IS the best. SO I love being around children. I hope you can find more of what you love and do THAT more! Prayer IS a lifesaver for me. God is there and HE will answer you, in some way, I promise. He will show you He's there and you wont be able to explain it, but you will see HIm and HIs hands in your life if you SEEK HIM. All my love, my dear. Thank you for sharing. It is helpful to hear I'm not alone in the depravity of my situation! hugs Annette
"If your 30 - 35 and you spend most of your time thinking about your past it's like your soul is trapped back there"
It's like he just opened the door and looked at me.....I felt that.
me too
me to
Look for his talk about how to make peace with the past. It's golden
I wish my 33 year old partner knew this six weeks ago. RIP princess ❤️
Me 3.
Damn!......
"The person who has a why can bear any how" woaw
@The Whitest Male what boggles me is how does a close minded person like yourself even end up watching a video like this.
@The Whitest Male based
I have no why
💗
@@someonesomeone25 look for one. Find one. It's not just important, it's essential. Don't look for the perfect why, find a why you care about, go after it, you'll find more about yourself and correct your path and goal along the way. But start moving.
Great advice.
I have tried and have this to say...
1. Cry and feel it...let it all out
2. Write everything about it...just let it out and express
..good or bad.
3. Throw that away and burn it.
4. Pray on it and ask for help and strength to carry on
5.The next day, tell yourself that it is a new day with many possibilities.
6. Make an agreement that you will do you absolut best to reaolve the issue...and then pray to God for help in getting through it.
7. Be patient for the outcome to appear, manifest, become reality.
8. Imagine when you have resolved the issue...how is life then
9. Plan what you could do if it doesnt work out? Write it out and come up with a real list.
10. Plan to achieve as much happiness as possible and realize that it won't be easy...but it will be best for you.
11. Don't be afraid...find courage within
I would write everything on paper good and bad except I don't actually know what to say right now...
My parents were my purpose, my Dad was my hero, now they’re gone..
Make them proud, mate
Be a big brother or big sister to a child that is in need. There are many and I guarantee you will have a purpose.
What if, then, your purpose now is to honor their memory and honor your SELF by being the best possible version of you? I know it's exhausting but I promise hou are worth the effort. ❤
I hope you are doing ok.
I lost my brother & my Dad to suicide and it still crushed my will to go on.
For some reason I'm still alive and perhaps it's to tell you PLEASE don't give up.
If you have people that love you it makes all the difference in the world.
Mine are dead too but they sucked
I'm a heroin addict and today I'm laying in bed in withdrawal and depression. I just lost my job due to a conviction for violence in 2018 that I failed to declare. I'm in a bad place right now. I wish I could stay in bed and come off drugs, but I know ill get up and somehow find a way to score. It's been 5 years since I was clean! I know what I need to do but it's just so hard. I need help. I'm ex forces and used to be so proactive. The drugs have turned me into someone I don't recognise. I need my courage back.
If you knew how many people you’re hurting and these are people who love you, maybe you might find your courage in your heart to clean up for them?
Go to a meeting bro
I'm curious how you're doing now. Have you found a solution?
Ignore the other commenters as they clearly lack intelligence, empathy, understanding, and experience with this issue. If logic, shame, and guilt were solutions, no one would be an addict lol. It's easy to give judgment and useless advice, but doing something that actually makes a difference is a different story that requires empathy and patience.
It takes courage to post a private, shameful matter publicly. Most keep their struggles private to keep their reputation in tact. I've learned you can't have a clean public image and overcome struggle. There's honor is speaking your truth.
You have my respect and compassion, dude.
@triciacooper9317 did you think before writing that or is your arrogance that blinding?
Im unsure of the intentions of your comment, so ill restrain myself but people really need to pull their heads out of their asses. Shame and pain are what keeps people trapped in addiction. If this person is desperate enough to post their problem for the world to see, don't you think if they had "loved ones" in their life they would've gone to them first?
I’ve fought addiction for over a decade. What Peterson recommends works….. find what you are most resisting that you would attempt to do and attempt to do that. As you begin to feel progress towards a worthy goal you begin to start experiencing the good emotions that will help fuel you towards sobriety.
Hang in there brother… don’t be afraid to ask for help.
"If you betray someone you tilt the world a little more towards evil than good..."
"Someone will remember that"
"The cycle of hatred is perpetuated"
"Dark side/Renegade points gained"
And many other references apply to this
so deep, yet so true
Reminds me of the game Catherine
@Shitstorm Seems you relish in it.
There should be a club for people who have been betrayed, we could protect each other, its easier to protect others than yourself because we need the distance to oersieve do in this for others - hey let's all save the world, its time ....
It takes an immense amount of courage to be this man. Thanks Jordan I look up to you.
I love this man!! He is the family member I wish I would ve been able to have picked to be family!!!
Why he is just shouting off his mouth as far as I can see, a man with autism and key words and getting attention cause he is human and enjoys that.
How are we lucky enough to have this amazing man tell us such wisdom in our lifetimes? I wonder on a daily basis. Thanks Jordan.
"Dont avoid little problems that you know are there, or they'll grow up to be big problems" Yup..
Jordan Peterson is a gift to the world. Such a voice of reason in these crazy times.
Whoever reading this, God never sends you into a situation alone, God goes before you, He stands beside you, He walks behind you. Whatever situation you have right now be confident. God is with you. Ameen
I'm scared because this days life just seems to filled with hurdles and to top it all this pain is self inflicted I need help 🙏
I needed to hear this. My sister died of cancer, and I have social anxiety due to child trauma. I tried for so long hoping I could make the social anxiety go away. My sister died when she was 22 and I realised how vulnerable life is and that the anxiety wasn’t going anywhere no matter what I did. I just gave up on myself and quit trying. And then I got scared to start again because as stupid as this logic is, what if I start again and then I die before I was able to even get to where I wanted to go. I’m not scared of dying, I’m scared getting hold of something that means something to me only to lose it.
You're not alone. You can do anything and I only know this because I am also a fallible human. Just take it a day at a time. One inch, one action. You'll get there Samantha.
You said you aren't sacred of dying, that's great❣️ Are you more sacred of never trying or sacred of trying and failing? Even if the result is failure, you put effort, time in one instance & nothing in the other?
I’m sorry you lost your sister. I ask the universe to comfort you
Samantha. I'm the same. I lost my mom to cancer late 2020 and have never been the same person. It is extremely hard when you give up everything for someone and they still leave you. It's undescribable. It hurts. But that doesn't mean we should hurt ourselves. We didn't fail. God has a different plan than We do. It's that simple. Pick yourself up and don't blame yourself. You did all you could. They would want us to be happy and do the best we can
I have little patience for people who take this man out of context and try and demonize him and his message when all he is doing is trying to lift people up out of darkness.
I agree , he is lifting me to find the solutions to actually change
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The people who are trying to demonize him are the representative bottoms of every hierarchy and they just want to silence Peterson for pointing out such truth that they can’t handle.
I actually pity them, because i know most of them don't possess the intellectual capability to process exactly what he's saying. They'll never evolve from their rainbow hair, gauged-ear, basement life. It must be devastatingly sad to live such a menial existence, hating on one's behalf. 😔 But to each their own. The road to hell is Paved with "good intentions." They'll learn that shit soon enough if life doesn't just boot them right in the ass the day the stars align and the universe is tired of their crap.
I agree. It’s written in my dating profile. 😂
I am that person that procrastinating, fearful, negative miserable made and continues to make mistakes. That girl that was afraid to ask questions if I don't understand so others don't think I'm stupid. Now I'm 46 recovering alcoholic been sober 8 yrs . I am starting to grow however I always seem to self sabotage even without the alcohol. I never feel I'm good enough whether it's relationships or career. It's a shitty feeling . However just stumbled on this and I'm sitting here crying realizing how much potential I have . I need to step up my game. My past is a rocky dirty windy cold road . Moral of my story is I am capable and I'm better then I think I am eventually my rocky road will be a smooth road way . Thank you ! Much needed
Hey just wanted to say I had a few 50+ yr old people graduate with me for my bachelors and masters of nursing classes. We’re going to be “x” age no matter what, might as well do something with your time that works towards a goal. You can 😊
I pray you are what we all are
Good Enough
We have similar story. It’s not easy to crawl out of ourselves. You not alone!
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I feel the same way. I was abused my whole childhood. I do t know how to be ok. I don’t know how to trust myself or love myself.
Shari D. Lamas thank you, I'm 54, I lost my daddi last year, his nickname was rocky, so your comment resonated with me very much, I needed to hear your comment. Alcohol is wiping me out. Life is wiping me out. I feel God has put Jordan in my life right now to stop me wiping myself out. Thank you.❤
I reached this point of giving up, because. . . .
I've lived the life of the super motivated, hard working, and empathy for everyone. Always helping other's, and I exhausted myself being selfless. Always getting knocked down, and always getting back up faster than anyone I've ever known.
I was once the person everyone turned to, and I could handle it.
In my 30s I lost everything, and no one was able to help me get back up this time. Nor did anyone seem to bother trying.
I lost all sight of anything worth working hard towards anymore,because I realized ultimately I am alone.... And with no one for me to take care of, or try live for... Apparently living for myself isn't enough for me.
I am depressed, and have been for a very long time now. I'm 41 and I want to at least try again.
So I guess something small is better than nothing at all now.
Don’t be so hard on yourself chief! Your not alone. God bless
Don’t be so hard on yourself chief! Your not alone. God bless
It could have been me that wrote this. I know what you mean by no one being there to help you. I thought that too. After years of watching me die inside and people trying to help me, tell me to leave him, blah, blah, blah, they couldn't take seeing it happen any more and that's why they turned their back. Also, I didn't ask them for help. If I had they would have but I was to hurt inside to ask. It could be those people are there for you and you just don't see it. Get back to being the person you used to be or be the person you can be. Do it for you. Push yourself. Make yourself. Talk to yourself, out loud. Tell yourself you are better than the hell you are putting yourself through. You need to believe you are a shining light and you need to shine it bright. This world is a better place with you in it. Believe that. It's true!
You are a valuable person that people are taking for granted! Please find someone to listen and help (even if you have to hire them). It’s an exhausting path alone. I’m glad to hear this video was helpful though but seriously there is no shame in getting a helping hand in a professional if people arent coming through for you. Love & prayers from TN...
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Gave up alcohol 7 years ago thinking that was the answer to all my problems, I'm 50 soon and still struggle with mental health issues, I've hit that invisible wall so many time's in life that I know one day I will break through, stay strong everybody and never give up you're worth more than that
Congratulations on your sobriety! 🎉
Go in a room. Imagine everything you have is lost. Get deep into that state for 5-10 minutes.
Now look at your surroundings and feel the Gratitude overwhelm you.
Beautiful. Thank you =)
Does that "everything" include my life? Cause I would be more grateful if it was the case
That's awesome....thank you.
Sharp S Thankyou
I have two parts of my personality that are rotten to the core, rage, and ungratefulness,
This exercise is especially hard for me, I’m always looking for more, my head is always toward future, because I’m terrified of present, the worst thing that can happen is that I have a stroke as I write this, and that’s it... I die like a damn nobody, that feeling of lost, losing something you never had, something you might have had, blinds you, and you don’t want to look what’s around you as of right now, and it aches, it aches a lot,
So... one thing I can say,
Be grateful that you’re not ungrateful like me, it messes your life up man, especially with family
When he said it's like your soul is trapped back there.. yeah I felt that shit
I had sleep insomnia for a month and couldn’t sleep naturally for so long without the use of pills and drugs , I’ve been in this state of mind locked deep down with thoughts of the past and worries of the future today finally at 3:03 just before sunrise on a call with my gf I was able to tell her that I’m free and I had tears of joy knowing that I freed myself mentally from this foggy mist that just wouldn’t rise and I came out of it better , I pushed and just pushed I didn’t have the support of others I just chose to break my routine and skipped sleep and skipped the pills and tonight I sleep freely and naturally knowing I have freed myself . Thank you everyone for sharing your difficulties through it , debt alcoholic parents rape abuse unemployment , I rose above it mentally and so can any of you , now I just take my time and take small steps or even leaps because I am now free
I love this man. I at 33 years old am in the gradual process of dealing with my trauma, changing my habits, truly addressing the things I need to change and being more fulfilled and changing my way of being a people pleaser and putting myself last. I do desperately want to deal with myself and I need to. It's no life living like this and he is just brilliant. I can't even put into words how much his realistic and brutally honest view of life is helping me.
Jordan I am really struggling just now,lost my girlfriend to suicide, lost my job due to the virus, but it's your vids that keep me going. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I hope things have gotten better for u
I am sincerely sorry about your girlfriend 💗 Many people are suffering because of this plandemic. Praying for you 🙏
Sorry to hear that Ian. RIP your gf. How are you doing now? I am also in kind of a similar situation..don't have a gf but i did lose my phd due to the pandemic..5 years of phd work gone down the drain. But i have decided to do another phd now. Feel better now. You will too one day. Be and spend some time with people who care about you
Thinking of you, Ian. Saying a prayer for you this morning 🙏
❤️ I’m sorry for your loss of your girlfriend, I hear you’ve really gone through much suffering. I wish you all the very best ❤️
“People who have no order in their life tend to be easily overwhelmed”. 👏👏💯💯
That is because order means compartments, and when you compartmentalize your life you only worry about one thing at a time
Sort of I guess. I personally find myself helping others to a point to where their problems become mine. I cant get away from that for some reason. I help and help and help, and now my life isn’t worth shitt anymore. I love helping others and seeing how that help affects their lives. It’s almost like a transference of their problems. It’s weird. Now my life is so overwhelming and hard to even function anymore. I’m not complaining of helping people at all.
Idk, I’m rambling. I personally have had bad luck, no luck, no optimism, more depressed, and nothing seems to change except to get more depressed. I do love helping and I will continue to do so I guess. Even tho my personal life sucks and really not worth living tbth. Idk, I seem stuck
@@dblr8959 The whole miracle has already taken place. Meaning is relative.
@@dblr8959 Why not try to apply the act of helping others to yourself first? You're worth just as much effort as other people are. Maybe you'll realise you can get meaning from helping yourself just as you've been helping others.
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This man is a genius.
Jordan Peterson is honestly the most inspirational person on the planet today
It took me years, I was having cripeling depression.I couldn't move, I couldn't go out of my room.Reality feelt like a dream, and nothing maked any sense.Words couldn't come out of my mouth it was weird, like going insane.I couldn't express, and I remember listening to mr Peterson over and over again everyday and it gets me close to understanding more of my situation , and also gived to me a lot of hope that I my get better , even a little.It was realy hard to keep consistence when the world seemed unreal.But after years and years of repeating, I can see myself finaly going out of that hole and having a couple, and working on what I love.You are a life saviour Jordan Peterson.I hope you get well soon
I suffered from severe depression due to family bereavement for 5yrs which had the same similar effect on me as you described above.
Which was well described.
I used to describe as being stuck inside a pitch dark room with no light, windows or doors inside my head.
I struggled to string thoughts together or hold down a conversation when before i was very confident and knowledgeable.
I struggled to remember everything.
Always felt anxious and nervous.
When the depression broke i went through another 5yrs of literally relearning everything and rebuilding myself identity and character.
God Bless you.
I had the same, i felt like if i was living in a dream. I felt disconnected of my body and the world and had alot of obsessive compulsive thinking, panic attacks and Anxiety, always the worry of going “crazy/mental” But i got Out of it and i live now as if nothing happend. How? I went out of my way and got my self up by working out, setting goals and achieve them No matter how i felt and tought. The panic attacks stopped when i didnt care anymore if i had one or not, i said to myself “even if i die or go crazy so be it”.
Our body can manipulate us big time, our toughts can deceive us alot as Soon as you realise it you are not doomed and you can easily get out just like you got in this situation you will heal brother. I hope i gave you a bit of hope because i know as no other what you are going trough. There is not only hope but there is also a way out, the way out is you. Take care you will overcome this
@@a-gappelmint9755 I’ve been going through the same thing lately and your comment almost brought me to tears. Knowing that there are people like me out there and people have overcome the obstacles I’m facing is a game changer. I felt alone for so long like I was drowning and feeling like there was nobody who would understand me absolutely crushed me. So thank you for sharing this I really needed it
@@gagecook7506 it gives me goosebumps that i could help even just a little with sharing my experience. Hang In there brother you will overcome it. If i just could help anywhere just let me know man i mean it
@@a-gappelmint9755 thanks so much man my mindset even over these past 2 days have improved drastically
This quarantine...I really wish Jordan was around to speak about this. Laid off from work, bills are looming next month...falling back into the bottle seems so tempting because no one knows what to do about all this.
And to think, a couple months back, I dreaded going to my 9-5. How good it was then...sucked...but better than being stuck in limbo
great insight! stay strong
You know what he would say to you Bucko! Don't let him down.
I can relate big time, the things I worried about before seem so trivial now. Stay strong you can get through this!!!
Gratitude is a good place to get to in order not to be obsessed by your conditions. Your bills are looming, other people's bills are already overdue and swamping them. Be grateful. Self-pity is so destructive.
DR Dan Thank you for the perspective and I am deeply sorry for your father and your current health. I hope what you wrote reaches others as well.
As for father/son relationships, mine has deteriorated but its always been bad way before any of this. I hope others can reinitiate and use these times to become closer with their family while you still can.
No matter how many times I hear it, it never ceases to hit home the same way every time.
I don’t know how to free my soul from my past, I’m 38 and have been so upset about my life since I was very young.
When you are brutally honest with yourself anything is possible.
Every day i struggle with thoughts of whether i should end it all. I will set a date but something keeps me from going through with it every time.
Enormous grief after my Mom & Dog passed away has kept me beaten down. I used to treat it through vigorous exercise and that helped. I have also been on meds for years. Hiking & being in the outdoors also helps me feel better.
For several years, the only time the depression has gone away is when i have encounters with dangerous situations, Snakes, Alligators storms etc. Those are the only times i have felt alive. That & exreme exercise.
Right now I am recovering from knee surgery & unable to exercise. The recovery is going well but i can't do any walking for exercise or even pedal a bike.
I do my PT stretches watch videos like this and they help me make it though another day.
Hoping for the best for anyone whose feeling hopeless or suffers through the hell of depression.
Thanks for the videos.
For me it's when I'm doing something that makes me feel alive.
Like riding my motorcycle.
Totally true! I had no goals, tasks or visions. Suffered in the past with depression and anxiety. Recently got diagnosed with ADHD a few months ago, and i have borderline personality disorder on top of all that.
I have wasted more time than I have actually lived. I will not wast time, effort, tears, and suicidal thoughts anymore! I just woke up and let go and got my calendar out and started just a few weeks ago. I am 90% better. I canceled my new therapist appointment I would be needing it where I am headed. One day at a time folks. You fall down get up, your negative thoughts creep in push them out or recognize them and deal with them and let them go. Wake up! Let go of those who damage you, even family. All this is down with discipline and not motivation. Listen to Jordan he will save your life. You fall down get up. Keep moving. Best wishes. 👌
Really appreciate your transparency and the sense of hope that comes from your having actually applied his wisdom.. I'm on that same journey and maybe we should make a Facebook page for people who are actually growing up with all those same diagnosis as adults finally growing up and out of it
Wish I could get that mind set .
Iv adhd bipolar2. Autoamune panic attacks mist of it brought on buy my ex malignasnt narcissist husband still in therapy years on . I got to get my mine sorted wasted so many years of my life abuse that does no leave affects mind body soal stay strong never ever people please is good advice
It's a killer .
One of the most brilliant minds of our era. This man is one Hell of a Human Being. Speaks straight truth with intention and stays dedicated to the purpose to improve the world. Imagine he was your College Professor…becuase HE WAS. Maybe the best.
Man, you nailed it when you added "life changing" to the title of this video. The amount of value in Jordan's advice here can't be understated. Thank you for putting this together. It's something that everyone should watch daily.
Overstated*
Exactly the same thing was said by both men and women about Oprah Winfrey and before that the guy who wrote the book how to win friends and influence people. I get really nervous around groupies -- think for yourself.
Truer words have never been spoken!
I have no clue how I have stumbled upon this video... at just at the right time.
Those thirty minutes have changed one of the most important decisions in my life.
I haven't even realised how broken I was and how to fix myself. And I just saw a solution. A hard solution. But... a right solution nonetheless.
thank you
I found him the exact same way...by accident..on a very important day and time..
You have a purpose.. whoever you are I love you. Find it in you to love yourself.
@@greggshopes4090don’t know ya brotha. But bright days always come & the darkness never last. Love you my man. ❤️
The universe wants you here. These hard times serve as a reminder that you need to be strong to handle the greatest things life will give you. Life isnt over till you say it is, in whatever time you have left, its your duty to make the absolute most of it 💙🌊🙏
@@greggshopes4090 not by accident, my friend. Not, by, accident. 💙🙏
My woman of 26 years has been struggling with loosing her mother. The past few years have been really tough on her. I pray she make through these very hard times. 🙏
God I needed to hear this and I’m taking notes. It’s all so simple yet so very difficult to put into practice. “Be good to yourself” and “be free from the past” are the ones I’ll always struggle with. So much of this resonated with me and I appreciate it being put up for everyone to benefit from.
Same. And I struggle with the past as well. Sometimes it gets so bad. This weight. This sadness. This loneliness. I’m just glad I found this video too. Wanted to say I agree and I’m also grateful this video is accessible to us all for free.
There is no one as wise as a man who listens to a wise person.
Hope really something positive ignites to all of us
Old sick misogynist Nazi bastard Peterson kissing the Orbanus for 50 million HUF:
"my message to Hungarians:
Do not rebel against your great Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian race"
You guys are great, so good to not be alone!
I wish I had known about Jordan Peterson when I was in my early 20s.
Its never too late!
No sense in lamenting. You know the message now; you have heard the lessons. At what ever age you are currently, it's as valuable as ever. You can help to give to others the very thing that you wish you had. Imagine the improvement we can help achieve by simply passing this onto the younger generations. Perhaps we were failed in some ways as a generation but we can do better. We can give better.
To the human reading this I don’t know who you are but I truly believe your different from the others looking for a solution rather then just putting on a mask an suffering like the rest of the rats in this world keep your head up and don’t think your weird cause of this! YOUR DIFFERENT not weird
wouldn't go as far as to call scared people rats but thank you
Don't try to be someone, you're wasting the person you are.
The only person you should ever compare yourself to is who you were yesterday. Never try to be someone else, because you aren't and couldn't be, So never compare yourself to someone else. Everyone is a unique individual.
@@JohnFisher-tg2sg I'm 63 now, but I still remember a poster my 8th grade teacher had up in our English class.. it said, "Be something No One else in the world can be ~ Yourself"! It always struck me as so profound, even then.☺️
Thank you for this video. It came through for me when I thought all life was lost but I'm here in the hospital doing what I must because God saw something in me that I couldn't. May God continue to bless you so that you can help others. I cannot thank you enough.
Jordan Peterson is the most inspiring speaker of our entire generation or era right now....God Bless this man and his family...
Thank you guys for making these. I’ve been struggling and they help my life. I really mean that. Thank you and thank God for Dr.Peterson.
Hagen Gilbert keep going buddy
Hope you the best of luck, from one struggling lobster to another
I am in a dark place, probably the darkest place I have ever been. I know and love Jordan Peterson, but this video hit me in ways I cannot explain. Even though I believe my troubles are unique, I feel he understands the human condition at such a high level that it felt like he understood the challenges I was facing and in a high level explained how I could get over them. He has this amazing ability to convey complex issues into such a simple way that you feel kind of dumb for not seeing what he makes so obvious. I am not suicidal, but there are many ways to give up without taking your own life. Ways that if left unchecked could cause a fate worse than death. The last 3 of the 7 really resonated with me. I will be better. I can be better. I have again listened to Jordan and will be taking his advice. Thank you for this.
Reach down deep inside yourself and find your Fire. Everyone has it, it’s determination, get up and DO something NOW. Then think of the next thing and DO it. Your brain will release dopamine because you achieved something, and it’s addictive over time. Procrastination is a killer.
This guy is spot on. Keep moving regardless how hard life gets. “Valleys will teach you lessons mountain tops never will”
Quote: "Inspiration only catches you when you're working."
And this is the 1st time you've heard that? Been around since Plato. It pisses me off that people are so bereft of knowledge and I blame it on the internet. Just get a stack of books --- any kind. Autodidacts -- people who are self-taught, one of whom in the public eye is Russell Brand because that's where he wants to be -- warrant our admiration. Say you get a good education and do your job and never learn a single thing after that --- what's the point?
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So you care...
Thanks,
@@evelynbaron2004 Hope that whatever was bothering you at the time when you wrote that comment, is not there anymore.
All the best my man.
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I believe this to be true
It's incredible to me that whenever I feel absolutely hopeless and wonder why I even bother to keep living, I can listen to this man and be rejuvenated with goals and dreams.
I am addicted to watching every video of Dr. Peterson. I wish I had a father like Dr. Peterson. I was born in Canada as well as my father. We moved to America when I was 3. I am 62 and I thought all Canadian men were evil. But, not anymore. Thank you sir. Trying to heal......
This video is the only thing that kept me alive tonight.
I can't believe some people can manage to look away during his lectures. I'd be glued, taking notes with a big grin on my face hahaha. Hopefully one day
The last two chapters might just save my life.
God Bless Jordan Peterson.
This man has helped millions of people. Helps us reset our compass.
"Bad employee, worse boss" spot on
Today is the day I really miss this guy. He needs to come back. I pray he gets through his health battles.
Looks like your prayers were answered a year later :)
I am 31 , always been single ,Indian , only10th passed after failing 3 times 9th and 3 times 10 grade , nightmare job..In Loan..And all I need is Jordon B Peterson.
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Good luck ... believe JBP ... you have it in you to find meaning and happiness. YOU MATTER! Take the first baby steps...
sucks to be you
JBP is an amazing man, a valuable tool indeed.
But all you need is Jesus, listen to him talk about him, the Lord will change your life - if it wasn't for him, I would probably be dead.
Not preaching at you, just telling you what happened with me.
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Congratulations you have heard never to inner voice and decided to listen and follow others, time to wake up. I had similar situation with 25 .
One good thing for you friend. As a male your sex value can go till 45 while for female it ends with 30 so you got plenty of time to fix everything up than to live like a zombie like your suroundings.
It could be worse.
Wow, I really enjoyed watching these ads with occasional clips of Jordan Peterson between them.
"You're someone you have to negotiate with"
Thanks for re-uploading this fellas! I listen to it most days and when I couldn't find it I kicked myself for not downloading it 😂 Probably the best JP video. Keep up the good work.
I apologies for it going down for so long. Glad you like it.
I've listened to this probly a hundred times, just about every day. Changed my life. Thank you.
(I was looking for it too, lol)
This video changed my perspective on some things so thank you
Jordan Peterson has inspired me to the point in riding to a different town with a friend, and show up to the job I want to work at for myself with a toolbox, and the dress code required for the job, at the clock in time, and ask the manager if he is hiring in person. I may not have the job experience, but I am and will put everything on the line for this job. I can't and won't let fear keep me from my goals, and realized a lot later actions with good intentions speak far better than words. Thanks Jordan Peterson for giving me the advice I needed to turn my life around.
I am without electricity and hitting that point of life has taught me even if you lose a job, lose access to utilities, and struggle to pay your bills, taking action to make your situation better one step at a time, and meaningful time, may change your course in life. Turn that struggle into fuel for a better goal to make a change in your life. It's your story, make it something worth your time.
i wish i had your mindset brother
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As a struggling man thank you Jordan
One of the greatest men on earth. We need these people, they're so important to force awareness, create deep thought and action. He's simple brilliant.
Completely agree
Think about your self. Your brilliant too sir. Your smart too.
@@rogerfournier3284 bro I eat beans on toast every damn morning
Crazy how powerful a youtube video can be. I felt so much resentment towards my small business and my employees. I was living in stress and it destroyed my relationship with my girlfriend. My girlfriend ended it after almost 2 years and I had a choice. Be even more resentful of my business and blame it for ruining my relationship then fall into a deep depression OR face the scary fact that I didnt give any aspect of my life my full time and effort. I cleaned deep my room, my car, my bathroom. I set a schedule to clean it every sunday. I started waking up at 9am every day and putting in a full 10 hrs of work 50 hrs a week, and I feel more grateful and at peace than I have felt in 7 years of running my business. It sucks I wasted 29 years of my life, but I probably wouldnt have taken it as seriously when I was younger anyways.
And there it is, "it sucks I wasted 29 years of my life, but probably wouldn't have taken it seriously when I was younger" this is the key to things understand what can you do with it now than to dwell over in and why it now is the best time to do it regardless of "what ifs", congrats man, best of luck, and success for that matter
mysteryman2024 being a business owner is not as glamorous as you think. Sure you have stable finances but the stress is very hard to handle and not taking that stress home to your loved ones is easier said than done.
Only seeing this because my best friend took his life this week
I've been confused after cancer. Listen alot to J.P. I just had a tarot reading yesterday and he just reinerated what I had heard. Wow.
Thank you for creating this video, please never take it down.
Ive over come a lot in my life and because of bad choices I made when I was younger I put myself in situations where I was repeatedly traumatized. So I played the part of a victim for a while. I changed my way of thinking and am no longer a victim. I had to come to terms with the fact that it was my choices that put me in a situation and around people that victimized me but once I realized this I was finally able to let go and move forward and it was so freeing! That being said I struggle with not isolating and hiding from the world. I'm getting better as far as I can now go shopping and be around large groups of people for a period of time which it's taken 8 years to get here but I feel like I'm kinda stuck as far as taking the next step which is actually interacting socially and intimately with someone. My family is worried about me isolating so much but I'm content there's no chaos or drama in my life it's quiet and simple but I know I need to keep moving forward to have a truly fulfilling and happy life and not just content the problem is I don't know how, ugh. So I'm going to try to do what he recommends I think that may help me finally start moving forward again.
I understand the isolating part, your safe. The answer is …. Take that first step and don’t look back. You are deserving of a more meaningful life.Get on the field and play the game, stop being a spectator in life. Life is to be lived :) hugs xx
Would you be a sigma female? Look into that a little.....
Great to hear that you are moving forward in your life. Knowing that there is another glass ceiling approaching is key to SHATTER IT! It's all in the mind. I am currently at beginning stages of lifting myself out of a rut, and it is most definitely a mindset...... Now that you know, knowing is half the battle
@@MikhaelYacobMalechNisan5742 my bad. ill delete it
@@MikhaelYacobMalechNisan5742 Why would you put bark on a tree when it grows it, as its 'skin'? lol, jk. Yes indeed i barked up the wrong tree
@@MikhaelYacobMalechNisan5742 thats cute, trying to put someone down thats trying to lift someone up.
This guy is a true gift to humanity ❤
I connot understand why people demonize this man. He is truly one of the greatest.
Wow the last part really helped me with what’s going on in my life right now.
If you think about your past its like your soul is trapped into it. You have to break free!
The fact that so many people have written here “nobody ever gave me advice, or nobody taught me” makes me realize how crappy most of our upbringings were. As a parent of two under 5, I can say parenthood is difficult. But it is the hardest and most important job. Modeling behavior is the strongest teacher. My husband gets so angry when our daughter won’t apologize for hitting her brother. Neither will he for his mean behavior. I’m trying to better myself for me AND my kids. Hope to create an environment of positive growth for our kids. JP has said some things I agree with and some I don’t… but overall, I appreciate his desire and efforts to help us achieve inner awareness and awareness. Good on him! Thanks JP.
He makes it sound so simple
Man.. this man is AMAZING. Incredible speech.
I don't even feel embarrassed anymore by saying that I cried during this. This is the 4th video I'm watching of my saviour/hero. This man has changed my life and I'm going to find a way to contact him and truly thank him.
This man has saved so many lives, how dare the media push this man down.
This man is brilliant, and such a good soul.❤️
I have a wonderful father, and I still admire this man to the upmost. Long live JP!
Listening to this on the edge of ending all the pain. I truly appreciate this man like I actually know him.
You're going through the "dark night of the soul" brother. You're only going thru it because you are one of the chosen ones. Means you're a warrior these are just tests along the way but it gets better to where you're happy for no apparent reason. Hang in there brother, you will be more then glad you did. You are closer and closer to pure happiness and love. I promise bro, I went through the same...
@@southernguru1455 I genuinely appreciate your kind words! Things have actually gotten a lot better, and I can see the light coming at the end of the tunnel! 🙌🏾
It ain’t easy living in this day and age off depression anxiety sadness ect
You got this Champs now is not the time to give up you have come so far and done an amazing job. No one knows your inner struggles and that’s what makes you so strong because they only see or feel the surface pain not that deep innner pain.
Love yourself be kind and your biggest supporter should be yourself
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The only thing keeping me from taking my own life are my two beautiful kids. Been unemployed for almost 3 years and not affording to take care of my kids for so long has got me hopeless. Everyday hurts.
Bring your family to God . Jesus into your Life. You will Heal . ❤️🙏
I have been there too, it took me 2-3 years to slowly get me up & going.
Try to get a part time even if all the money goes to pay childcare. It will help you think with more clarity. Look for every form of help you can get.
One baby step at a time. One day your babies will call you the hero they look up to