Yes, I know. I talk a lot. IM NOT GONNA CHANGE 😭😭 Join the Discord!: discord.gg/2g1a Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:26 Announcements 01:27 Pop the Balloon 03:49 Hidden Agendas 06:13 Advice for People? 08:08 Schoolboy Q 09:43 Riyahs Music 10:46 Catch up Regrets 15:15 Accountability 16:34 LaJuan Speaks up 22:20 Riyah's Perspective 33:58 Mind Reading 37:17 Brick Wall 38:43 Outside Parties 53:49 LaJuan went LIVE 57:18 LaJuans Reasoning 01:01:40 Did Riyah Communicate? 01:04:29 Addressing LaJuan 01:08:57 Riyah went LIVE 01:19:21 THE SAME PERSON 01:20:22 Who Apologized? 01:26:44 Five Things You Did WRONG 01:37:30 Talking it Out 01:49:19 Closing Statements
You have to go thru obstacles to get to marriage tho it’s a free country and it’s common sense you gotta have 2 mature ppl first before anything pops off or gets discussed 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@brandensawyer2935 it seems like they had the same problems most young people that are dating have today.. sleeping together too soon and social media/other people interference. Same ole song and dance. Slow down, take time to get to know each other, and just have fun!
I disagree. Even though I think their relationship is sus they’re of a particular age where it’s time to put effort into making a relationship work. That being said there is a conversation to be had about dating someone with a disability you can’t see. No judgement. The fun stage comes after you put the work in, respectfully.
27:50 The thing about courting, I think some women think they just have to show up and receive all the gentlemanly things that men do for them. But what most men want is some form of recognition that you are interested. It doesn’t have to be you planning or paying for the next date, it could be writing a note, sending a small gift, or making a plate. The effort doesn’t have to match but the gesture has to be genuine. If you don’t show some kind of interest in us while we’re courting you, then we’ll feel that you are just there to receive and that’s a characteristic that most men try to avoid when dating women.
This is it!! You couldn’t have put it any better. In 2024, dating/courting women has turned into a man being demanded to go ALL out for women who have little to no interest in them. When a man speaks to a woman, asks her to meet up for a date, logic says that the woman is somewhat interested in that man!? Therefore, during the date, men want evidence of this. We don’t want princess treatment, we don’t won’t flowers, we don’t want doors opened or our chair pulled out. We simply want genuine interest showed, be engaged in conversation, ask us about ourselves. Show interest. Yet women are showing up to dates and literally asking men to audition for them - list our achievements, goals, career, salary and pay for the date, no questions asked. All we’re asking for is reciprocation and genuine interest in dating men.
Y’all need to workout a contract with Arlette and her people. Any match that wants to get right come on down to a counseling session with my good folks😂👍🏾
I wish LaQuan (sp) would assure Rhea that he wants her. She needs the reassurance from him. He's very guarded and it makes her feel insecure with the relationship. She drove to him first time, and flew to him second time. Then she said she wasn't gonna travel to him next, and his response was he'd visit ATL and he has family there. He should go to ATL for her. Even here, she wanted reassurance that he wanted to try again and he threw it back to her to answer first. I think they are a good match but he def has to work on some things. She needs to be more patient and find more hobbies so she's not so concerned about what he has going on.
These channel, this couple, and this conversation is a breath of fresh air to watch on social media. I don't know what I want more: This couple to work out or this channel to grow being as authentic as it currently is. Good luck to all y'all.
An immensely informative and educational interview and an authentic conversation about communication and styles, accountability, and genuinely getting to know each other in terms of dating. Saged marital advice was given from the couple. This broadcast gave the daters more clarity on what they need to work on. I hope they employ this advice to improve their communication styles.
If yall Start yall own Show even if it’s a Podcast I am Here For it 💯 Yall Said some stuff That Opened My Eyes Forreal , Now let’s wait For Tpindell reaction to this Vid Lol
Man this is one of my favorite interviews on CZcams frfr. I didn't even know about what was going on between them. I watched the catch-up and thought everything was gucci.
@@NytellemI don’t think they didn’t want to commit. I think they moved fast and hit a rough patch and had a misunderstanding of communication. I believe it’s clearly obvious they like each other but when you start getting to know each other you might have some icks. And when you get those icks, are you going to work through them properly or move on.
I’m super hyped that you guys are doing more interviews. I hope you become the next stop for the Pop the Balloon contestants. It sounds like you give great advice and every person dating needs some level of couple’s therapy.
I do understand what Lajuan is coming from with her not saying thank you and I’m a female. Men want to feel appreciated especially if it’s something small. It’s the little things. You should always show them you’re grateful.
I like that they’re both mature and took accountability for their miscommunication, they can definitely work this out just need to have a sit down and check in they clearly care about each other or they wouldn’t be here. Y’all did an amazing job it’s great to hear unbiased advice hope yall keep doing these.
I’ve been married over 24 years….. what is this need for younger people to travel so much? I don’t get it. I mean, constant travel, ALL THE TIME. This need to be out on the scene constantly getting drinks, eating, or going somewhere exotic needs to be discussed. Being at home is not a bad thing. On one episode, this woman popped two men’s balloons because they didn’t have passports. She was down to the last two men, and there was literally no other reason besides they didn’t travel. So you’ll lose the opportunity to pick a whole man to date because a man doesn’t travel??? In his 20’s??
I dont get it also ... all this traveling is them following a trend...that instagram promotes that gives a illusion that their life is Popping and "Lit"
Instagram!!! Quite simply Instagram and social media. Ladies especially aren’t travelling to other countries to actually go and experience and learn about those countries, they are going to post pictures on the gram. Being at home is boring to women. “Being able to travel” appears to be character requirement for women these days. Watch Kendra Gs show and the amount of women that request that a man be able to travel. Don’t get me wrong, nothing wrong with a good holiday, a break once in a while. However, it shouldn’t be a make or break in finding a partner. As a man, I like holidays but my first priority is to make sure my money is straight so that I can afford to go on holiday anytime I want. Ladies seem to want to go on holiday by any means necessary - the money will figure itself out.
I Love the way you guys took a different approach to interviewing and you also got rid of being biased that is phenomenal growth and I am so here for it you guys are righteous and I believe that you will grow even further I Love it and congratulations you definitely deserve whatever success you receive. All Love from me to you.
I agree. You can be locked in and pursue a relationship. After all, the goal is to get yourself together to add & build with another perso. It just doesnt seem like they were on the same wavelength: business focus wise, fun frequency, money management. However, he was trying to accommodate a lifestyle he's not ready to live. Also, seems like he's trying to focus on his career and still be out there til the right one come
This was a great chop it out session to get both perspectives. I just wish the guy was fully present while others are talking. I recognize throughout discussions, people were repeating ideas over and it appears as if missing points and refuting statements .
Pastor/professor KiteZz and First Lady/professor itzjustalex might’ve just earned top 5 for me in CZcams university professors. This interview showed even more of their unbiased sound knowledge and advice. I really appreciate your efforts in giving due diligence to helping this couple and also us listeners who may also be going through similar things and also looking for love; find common ground in communication and get to a place of understanding. Please continue, be encouraged. WE NEED YALL… Much much love ✝️❤️
This is the video I needed! Like someone else mentioned this is tough love, eye opening, enlightening perspective from a married couple. Keep these coming I’m new here and I am loving you two and sharing your perspective of healthy relationships 💯
@kitezz I’m so proud of you! This interview was so awesome and heart felt! Lajuan and Ryah are still my favorite couple! I sincerely feel that both of them showing up for this interview shows that they both of them want to work this out.
I just have a different love language! I’ve learned that he needs to hear words of affirmation. I personally do not need that. To me, actions such as spending time with me, acts of service, and physical touch are enough. So that’s how I tend to show my love and appreciation, THROUGH ACTIONS. I don’t need to hear thank you, but I need to feel your presence and that’s enough for me. So again, its all about learning someone and understanding what they need to feel loved 💙
It just sounds like they’re not compatible, and it doesn’t sound like he is ready for a relationship. He admitted on the PtB show that the worst thing about dating him is that he gets locked in with his work, and it comes across as if he doesn’t care about his relationship. But that’s the thing….he doesn’t care about a relationship right now. He cares about his grind…perhaps he “hides” behind his grind. He went on the show possibly to hook up and/or promote his business, but he’s not here for a relationship. I peeped some things were off when on their catchup it seemed that she did all of the traveling to him…she was already working from his apartment…she adjusted to him not responding to her texts. He wants her when he wants her, and he doesn’t want her when he doesn’t. It’s waaaay too early in their relationship to have so many issues, and that’s because they’re not currently compatible. They need to take a break and figure out what THEY truly want. If that’s each other, they can and will make it work.
I like what you guys are doing here ! But man, when all this is happening this early in a supposed to be relationship, that is all a red flag. I don’t appreciate that you guys and so many others want people to work out when we see the signs that it shouldn’t happen. They are on two different vibes, and to go live a completely bash Lajuan like she did was out of hand. She called him abusive, broke, talked about his body type calling him “hips”, she is not honest. She wants him to be honest about everything and be held accountable but she is straight acting like she don’t remember what she said. She was way worse than the little flirting about Miami Beach with Chyann. I was on both lives and Riyah definitely is trying to water down how she was. She called him a goofy, weird, screenshotting messages and reposting them? Like come on girl. Like you guys said, they are both too old for this. If she takes things too far , she needs to be single and mature on her own before trying to be in a relationship. From a married couple I know that is much older than you two, they can see that this isn’t a relationship that should be forced to work by people saying “it’s your story”. I mean within a month and all this drama? That’s a lot. And Lajuan doesn’t seem that interested in her to be real. She traveled to Nashville by plane once and drove 4 hours the next weekend to see him. She is too grown to be driving that far. She also don’t seem that interested in Lajuan. She likes the limelight and wants to have clout from the internet it’s not all on Lajuan. Them starting a CZcams channel together is WILD! With someone you barely know is ludacris. Just be real with a couple and don’t let them believe , “all this can change within a matter of time”. Yall not for each other and should leave it at that. Both great people but not for each other
This^^^^^. Lajuan needs to run and not look back. She has said multiple times that she “takes things too far”. And each time she said it, she did so with a smirk because, evidently, she thinks it’s cute. Even when she said the behavior is a growth area for her, she had the smirk. It appears as if she wants to “get in front of” her behavior so that when she does act inappropriately, she has an “excuse”. Toxic.
You might have a point. But what I want to say is forgiveness is divine and I think it really boils down to what they both have in their hearts and if they want to make it work
Wow didn’t know she said all this about him because I missed the lives and don’t follow either one. That was harsh. Calling him broke and talking about his body is insane and low. That wasn’t the Taylor Port she already had that in her mind. Smh. Also, who were the guys online with him?
The aspect of this interview that I appreciate the most, is the fact that Alex and KiteZz did not attempt to make a "viral moment." Instead there was sound advice given (with some funny jokes) by a successfully married couple. Much respect and I hope these two can figure it out, bc they were my favorite couple.
As I an African man, I am simply proud of you and your wife. This is so amazing. After this show I got my wife watching your channel. I'd like to collaborate with you in the effort of building the African community globally. Kindly let me know how we can advance discussions in this regard. You and your wife have totally changed my mentality about the African American community.
I think kitez and alex should really stay in contact with these two. They just need to hear the right voices in their ear to encourage them. Great initiative at the end kitez. Lajuans' whole demeanour changed. He seemed hopeful compare to the rest of the interview
@yeshuaislord-fl9sp,It was not the sex that ruined their relationship.It,was his lack of leadership that,ruined the relationship BEFORE the sex happen. I seen the catch-up interview with Arlette .This,men made several big mistakes with this woman.“First mistake he made was given this woman, too much of his time and attention from the beginning. Second mistake he made was letting this woman chill in,his house while he was at work.This,man does not have a strong vetting process for the women that come into his life.He gives his time,attention and resources freely with out the woman earning,it.Not,being negative just being observant in what I see and hear.
@@thecj30 I didn't say sex ruined relationship. He got what he wanted 15min of fame , 3wk of a pointless relationship, and ended up sleeping with her , sad but he knew what he was doing lesson learned
@@yeshuaislord-fl9sp I agree with you that sex didn’t ruin their relationship. I stand on what I said in my previous comment to you. This man has zero leadership skills. He has zero structure to give this woman.Why, if he did, he would’ve been honest from the beginning with what he wanted to do and lead accordingly. I don’t believe he was looking for 15 minutes of fame. I do believe this man does want to be in a relationship. The issue, just like all the men that have appeared on Pop the ballon catch up,shows I see they lack leadership skills.They give these woman too much Monogamist relationships energy without these women earning it from them,that’s a big mistake.
**This is for Lajuan: If you want a Woman that says THANK YOU naturally without needing to be told , hold out for that kind of woman.** When People show you who they are...believe them the first time! (my favorite poet Maya Angelou). There are women who are just naturally thoughtful and want to make sure you know they appreciate what you do by simply stating Thank you and also volunteering to do the little things that they see that you like or could help you. And yes, talk with Your friends to get Wisdom when you are dating...that's what real friends are for. They will know you better than a woman you just met. It's okay if what you both naturally want, just don't naturally coincide...be thankful you found this out earlier...so you both can have the door open to meet someone who is a better fit. DON'T FORCE IT....please!
These two need to have a break communicate better understand each other timing and work on timing and definitely understand it will not go to plan as always. For the lady she know her faults but need to know how to address them in the moment and don't build up the displeasure for him. Likewise him as well. What I'm seeing clash of egos and the stuff is small. Both want each other but scared for the commitment both seem to have good intent. But all of fear is there.
Aw man…when @KiteZz was giving closing remarks and telling them that “tomorrow is not promised”, I just KNEW he was about to spit the Gospel of Jesus Christ to these souls who need it! I enjoy this channel and am glad to know you guys are professing Christians. My only feedback would be that if we platform ourselves as such, that we would be bold to use our platforms to spread the Gospel message. The guests did much to promote their businesses at the end…you guys could have done much to promote Christ at the end as well. That would have been so bomb to see! 🎉 Maybe on the next one…looking forward to the next upload!
I agree that he could have told the young lady ahead of time that he was going to put out a Social Media statement, and I agree the statement should have been very generic. For example: "She is a lovely woman but we've decided to no longer date." Now while it is good to be courteous and thoughtful by letting the female know in advance, he doesn't need her permission, and unfortunately Social Media followers can just be crazy NO MATTER what you say. LOL, these people will draw their own conclusions! P.S. I see they have agreed to date again but I pray if it doesn't work out...THEY WILL NOT COME ON THIS ONLINE bashing each other. The Social Media announcement can simply state: We've both decided to no longer date. I hope the best for him/her. Then keep it moving...get counseling OFF LINE if needed but please MATURITY.
Love this!! I am rooting for them. So much potential ❤. Great advice. I been married for 8 years and the 1st year is the hardest cause your so about self tell you learn that has to move to US
Yes, I know. I talk a lot. IM NOT GONNA CHANGE 😭😭
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:26 Announcements
01:27 Pop the Balloon
03:49 Hidden Agendas
06:13 Advice for People?
08:08 Schoolboy Q
09:43 Riyahs Music
10:46 Catch up Regrets
15:15 Accountability
16:34 LaJuan Speaks up
22:20 Riyah's Perspective
33:58 Mind Reading
37:17 Brick Wall
38:43 Outside Parties
53:49 LaJuan went LIVE
57:18 LaJuans Reasoning
01:01:40 Did Riyah Communicate?
01:04:29 Addressing LaJuan
01:08:57 Riyah went LIVE
01:19:21 THE SAME PERSON
01:20:22 Who Apologized?
01:26:44 Five Things You Did WRONG
01:37:30 Talking it Out
01:49:19 Closing Statements
GODLY WISDOM!! Y’all did that! AMAZING INTERVIEW
You didn’t talk too much; some things just need to be said. 👊🏾
Loved every part of it. It’s very interesting to see your view on the situation. Ima keep watching
Respect your Wife & let her speak and ask her questions 😬
Glad to hear actual MARRIED PEOPLE giving advice and not jaded single people telling you what a man and woman should and should not do
Facts 💯
That's what I like about them
You have to go thru obstacles to get to marriage tho it’s a free country and it’s common sense you gotta have 2 mature ppl first before anything pops off or gets discussed 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Married Ppl don't always give good advice...
Wow I learned somethings I'm gonna work on my marriage with my husband for our 2 kids pray for us
This is too deep for a couple that just met a month ago.. you would think they been together for years. This stage in their relationship should be FUN
But a learning experience for many that may be single and lonely because they're missing the mark
@@brandensawyer2935 it seems like they had the same problems most young people that are dating have today.. sleeping together too soon and social media/other people interference. Same ole song and dance.
Slow down, take time to get to know each other, and just have fun!
I feel like they needed to hear this if not for this relationship but for future relationships.
I disagree. Even though I think their relationship is sus they’re of a particular age where it’s time to put effort into making a relationship work. That being said there is a conversation to be had about dating someone with a disability you can’t see. No judgement. The fun stage comes after you put the work in, respectfully.
@@opulence_prime that sounds miserable
27:50 The thing about courting, I think some women think they just have to show up and receive all the gentlemanly things that men do for them.
But what most men want is some form of recognition that you are interested. It doesn’t have to be you planning or paying for the next date, it could be writing a note, sending a small gift, or making a plate. The effort doesn’t have to match but the gesture has to be genuine.
If you don’t show some kind of interest in us while we’re courting you, then we’ll feel that you are just there to receive and that’s a characteristic that most men try to avoid when dating women.
Most accurate comment On the internet
This is it!! You couldn’t have put it any better.
In 2024, dating/courting women has turned into a man being demanded to go ALL out for women who have little to no interest in them.
When a man speaks to a woman, asks her to meet up for a date, logic says that the woman is somewhat interested in that man!? Therefore, during the date, men want evidence of this. We don’t want princess treatment, we don’t won’t flowers, we don’t want doors opened or our chair pulled out. We simply want genuine interest showed, be engaged in conversation, ask us about ourselves. Show interest.
Yet women are showing up to dates and literally asking men to audition for them - list our achievements, goals, career, salary and pay for the date, no questions asked.
All we’re asking for is reciprocation and genuine interest in dating men.
The word you are looking for is RECIPROCITY!!!!!!
Y’all need to workout a contract with Arlette and her people. Any match that wants to get right come on down to a counseling session with my good folks😂👍🏾
👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿Yess!!!
I agree 💯
Why do that when they can just profit all the money themselves by doing what they’re doing.
Great idea
Man this ain’t an interview this some good ol fashion TOUGH LOVE!! I love it!!
I am glad yall both HAD THEM TOGETHER ON HERE instead of it being one sided, thanks
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Alot of these pop the balloon situations be so simple and they could never get pass that
I wish LaQuan (sp) would assure Rhea that he wants her. She needs the reassurance from him.
He's very guarded and it makes her feel insecure with the relationship. She drove to him first time, and flew to him second time. Then she said she wasn't gonna travel to him next, and his response was he'd visit ATL and he has family there.
He should go to ATL for her.
Even here, she wanted reassurance that he wanted to try again and he threw it back to her to answer first.
I think they are a good match but he def has to work on some things.
She needs to be more patient and find more hobbies so she's not so concerned about what he has going on.
They should be there and this is evidence. They should just chuck the deuces on this one and don't waste anymore of each other time
Take time to listen to comprehend rather than listen to respond. The ones who are watching, please take notes.
Beautiful interview. 👏🏽🖤
These channel, this couple, and this conversation is a breath of fresh air to watch on social media. I don't know what I want more: This couple to work out or this channel to grow being as authentic as it currently is. Good luck to all y'all.
An immensely informative and educational interview and an authentic conversation about communication and styles, accountability, and genuinely getting to know each other in terms of dating. Saged marital advice was given from the couple. This broadcast gave the daters more clarity on what they need to work on. I hope they employ this advice to improve their communication styles.
Alex and KiteZz, you are doing a phenomenal job! Reconciling people is a biblical ministry. May God wisdom be with you!
If yall Start yall own Show even if it’s a Podcast I am Here For it 💯 Yall Said some stuff That Opened My Eyes Forreal , Now let’s wait For Tpindell reaction to this Vid Lol
Man this is one of my favorite interviews on CZcams frfr. I didn't even know about what was going on between them. I watched the catch-up and thought everything was gucci.
Yup, but in this modern day dating…OF COURSE NOT! No one today is wiling to commit.
@@NytellemI don’t think they didn’t want to commit. I think they moved fast and hit a rough patch and had a misunderstanding of communication. I believe it’s clearly obvious they like each other but when you start getting to know each other you might have some icks. And when you get those icks, are you going to work through them properly or move on.
Keep your business between u and your mate not the world
I’m super hyped that you guys are doing more interviews.
I hope you become the next stop for the Pop the Balloon contestants. It sounds like you give great advice and every person dating needs some level of couple’s therapy.
Basically, a bunch of young stuff. The reason i don't miss the 20s. Things are unnecessarily complicated
I do understand what Lajuan is coming from with her not saying thank you and I’m a female. Men want to feel appreciated especially if it’s something small. It’s the little things. You should always show them you’re grateful.
I honestly think you guys gave this couple of breath of fresh air and a sense of a new beginning your channel is very special.
Arlette is the get to meet and mingle type of show
KiteZz is the therapy the get right and open up more show
I like that they’re both mature and took accountability for their miscommunication, they can definitely work this out just need to have a sit down and check in they clearly care about each other or they wouldn’t be here. Y’all did an amazing job it’s great to hear unbiased advice hope yall keep doing these.
Y'all are natural when it comes to interviewing people keep up the awesome work God Bless.
I’ve been married over 24 years….. what is this need for younger people to travel so much? I don’t get it. I mean, constant travel, ALL THE TIME. This need to be out on the scene constantly getting drinks, eating, or going somewhere exotic needs to be discussed. Being at home is not a bad thing.
On one episode, this woman popped two men’s balloons because they didn’t have passports. She was down to the last two men, and there was literally no other reason besides they didn’t travel. So you’ll lose the opportunity to pick a whole man to date because a man doesn’t travel??? In his 20’s??
I dont get it also ... all this traveling is them following a trend...that instagram promotes that gives a illusion that their life is Popping and "Lit"
Instagram!!!
Quite simply Instagram and social media. Ladies especially aren’t travelling to other countries to actually go and experience and learn about those countries, they are going to post pictures on the gram.
Being at home is boring to women. “Being able to travel” appears to be character requirement for women these days. Watch Kendra Gs show and the amount of women that request that a man be able to travel.
Don’t get me wrong, nothing wrong with a good holiday, a break once in a while. However, it shouldn’t be a make or break in finding a partner.
As a man, I like holidays but my first priority is to make sure my money is straight so that I can afford to go on holiday anytime I want. Ladies seem to want to go on holiday by any means necessary - the money will figure itself out.
Life short. Gotta see the world while we’re here
Maybe she was never taught to say thank you. She seems immature for her age.
How old is she?
Man I love this!!! They need to hear this. Bro ain’t talking to much he talking right and exact!
Kitezz I really like how you handle this interview like a true G along with your wife. Keep progressing!💪🏿💯
They made the catch up with arlette look good things. Changed fast
Baby Kitezz Be PREACHING!!!! Omg!!! You were made for this podcast! It’s like a therapy session for me too 😂
@4:50 the Pie guy on the show is an opportunist
Y’all doing your thing. It’s cool to see your channel coming up.
I Love the way you guys took a different approach to interviewing and you also got rid of being biased that is phenomenal growth and I am so here for it you guys are righteous and I believe that you will grow even further I Love it and congratulations you definitely deserve whatever success you receive. All Love from me to you.
Seems like he introduced her to a vibe he couldn’t maintain..
This was a very good live Alex and kitezz I sure did learn alot I will continue to support u and your wife much blessings
He's trying to let her down easy. What I got from this and the catch up video is that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with her.
I agree. You can be locked in and pursue a relationship. After all, the goal is to get yourself together to add & build with another perso. It just doesnt seem like they were on the same wavelength: business focus wise, fun frequency, money management. However, he was trying to accommodate a lifestyle he's not ready to live. Also, seems like he's trying to focus on his career and still be out there til the right one come
This was a great chop it out session to get both perspectives. I just wish the guy was fully present while others are talking. I recognize throughout discussions, people were repeating ideas over and it appears as if missing points and refuting statements .
Pastor/professor KiteZz and First Lady/professor itzjustalex might’ve just earned top 5 for me in CZcams university professors. This interview showed even more of their unbiased sound knowledge and advice. I really appreciate your efforts in giving due diligence to helping this couple and also us listeners who may also be going through similar things and also looking for love; find common ground in communication and get to a place of understanding. Please continue, be encouraged. WE NEED YALL… Much much love ✝️❤️
I was pleasantly surprised seeing this on my feed
Great interview I enjoyed the conversation 👍🏽
Awesome interview! Great job KiteZz and JustAlex🎉🎉
This is the video I needed! Like someone else mentioned this is tough love, eye opening, enlightening perspective from a married couple. Keep these coming I’m new here and I am loving you two and sharing your perspective of healthy relationships 💯
Kitez & Alex - This Was Y'all BEST Work Yet! Y'all Did An AMAZING JOB! I Loved This! This Right Here Is Definitely Y'all LANE
This was soo positive!!! Good job guys 😊
Man really rooting for these two
Enjoyed the entire time. 🎉🎉🎉 great work
@kitezz I’m so proud of you! This interview was so awesome and heart felt! Lajuan and Ryah are still my favorite couple! I sincerely feel that both of them showing up for this interview shows that they both of them want to work this out.
Love this ❤ we need more ppl like yall help ppl out with relationship problems... I really look to yall opinions about dating and relationship....
Yall doin the damn thing!!!! Yassss!!!
Riyadh is naturally beautiful, she’s really a good catch Labuan don’t miss her
Yall make great counselors, might have save the relationship I like how when he was apologizing u said what else that's not it 😂 that was good advice
Yo I just subscribed last week and y’all been making moves ‼️‼️
I agree much blessings to him and his wife Alex ❤️
Can someone PLEASE explain why someone needs to have a conversation about saying “Thank you” 2 weeks into dating?
Why did we jump over the fact that, she don't say "Thank you" or "I appreciate that"?
I just have a different love language!
I’ve learned that he needs to hear words of affirmation. I personally do not need that. To me, actions such as spending time with me, acts of service, and physical touch are enough. So that’s how I tend to show my love and appreciation, THROUGH ACTIONS.
I don’t need to hear thank you, but I need to feel your presence and that’s enough for me. So again, its all about learning someone and understanding what they need to feel loved 💙
Gratitude 💕 goes a long way. A lot of the things they did were childish.
This was good. Really good. I teach a Singleness class. This is good. I haven't finished the video yet, I think their relationship is salvageable.
Riyah is a solid woman. Salute to lajuan. I hope they work it out
I'm subscribing to your channel because of this video... I like this ❤
Man this is big for real. Keep letting the lord use you. You have a gift and it’s for the world. You’ve definitely tapped into something special
Nah 31:18 KiteZz broke the 4th wall with his facial expression lmaooo
LOL! had a Jim Halpert moment
This look like it’s going to be good. Can’t wait to watch. I didn’t see their episode of pop the ballon 👍🏾
It just sounds like they’re not compatible, and it doesn’t sound like he is ready for a relationship. He admitted on the PtB show that the worst thing about dating him is that he gets locked in with his work, and it comes across as if he doesn’t care about his relationship. But that’s the thing….he doesn’t care about a relationship right now. He cares about his grind…perhaps he “hides” behind his grind. He went on the show possibly to hook up and/or promote his business, but he’s not here for a relationship. I peeped some things were off when on their catchup it seemed that she did all of the traveling to him…she was already working from his apartment…she adjusted to him not responding to her texts. He wants her when he wants her, and he doesn’t want her when he doesn’t. It’s waaaay too early in their relationship to have so many issues, and that’s because they’re not currently compatible. They need to take a break and figure out what THEY truly want. If that’s each other, they can and will make it work.
This was good💕.
i like Riyah dont sense no 304 energy they need to stop worrying about the bag n live in the present
The apology brought tears to my eyes. 3 weeks ago. I wonder where they are now. This is beautiful.
I really hope they give it another chance and just work on the small issue
Good to know some people still care about folks out here and believe in love. Keep up the great work, guys. That was a good one😊
I don't like when ppl are rude and especially when you don't say thank you. Definitely disqualified
I agree...Kindness and manners are NON-NEGOTIABLES.
Man I just finished taking a serious exam(Step) and watching guys as I studied. Thank yall man
This channel gonna blow!!!!
That's crazy she ain't say thank you, I look at lil shi like that. I'm leaning a lil more towards his side frfr
And forgive each other!
I like what you guys are doing here ! But man, when all this is happening this early in a supposed to be relationship, that is all a red flag. I don’t appreciate that you guys and so many others want people to work out when we see the signs that it shouldn’t happen. They are on two different vibes, and to go live a completely bash Lajuan like she did was out of hand. She called him abusive, broke, talked about his body type calling him “hips”, she is not honest. She wants him to be honest about everything and be held accountable but she is straight acting like she don’t remember what she said. She was way worse than the little flirting about Miami Beach with Chyann. I was on both lives and Riyah definitely is trying to water down how she was. She called him a goofy, weird, screenshotting messages and reposting them? Like come on girl. Like you guys said, they are both too old for this. If she takes things too far , she needs to be single and mature on her own before trying to be in a relationship. From a married couple I know that is much older than you two, they can see that this isn’t a relationship that should be forced to work by people saying “it’s your story”. I mean within a month and all this drama? That’s a lot. And Lajuan doesn’t seem that interested in her to be real. She traveled to Nashville by plane once and drove 4 hours the next weekend to see him. She is too grown to be driving that far. She also don’t seem that interested in Lajuan. She likes the limelight and wants to have clout from the internet it’s not all on Lajuan. Them starting a CZcams channel together is WILD! With someone you barely know is ludacris. Just be real with a couple and don’t let them believe , “all this can change within a matter of time”. Yall not for each other and should leave it at that. Both great people but not for each other
This^^^^^. Lajuan needs to run and not look back. She has said multiple times that she “takes things too far”. And each time she said it, she did so with a smirk because, evidently, she thinks it’s cute. Even when she said the behavior is a growth area for her, she had the smirk. It appears as if she wants to “get in front of” her behavior so that when she does act inappropriately, she has an “excuse”. Toxic.
You might have a point. But what I want to say is forgiveness is divine and I think it really boils down to what they both have in their hearts and if they want to make it work
I don't think it's ever too soon to see if you can work out disagreements with somebody
Wow didn’t know she said all this about him because I missed the lives and don’t follow either one. That was harsh. Calling him broke and talking about his body is insane and low. That wasn’t the Taylor Port she already had that in her mind. Smh. Also, who were the guys online with him?
The aspect of this interview that I appreciate the most, is the fact that Alex and KiteZz did not attempt to make a "viral moment." Instead there was sound advice given (with some funny jokes) by a successfully married couple. Much respect and I hope these two can figure it out, bc they were my favorite couple.
Yall schooling them both like they’re children…and they are. Lmao
Glad i caught this before i went to bed glad you gave them good advice and more interviews please we love it
Shout-out to the host he is a amazing teacher and I love how he holds them accountable. It's genuine ❤❤❤
I appreciate the feedback 😀😀
God bless these two I hope they make it
Communication within the beginning/relationships is a lost art.
Bro is too nice! If you’re seeing red flags 2 weeks into dating you don’t owe anyone a conversation. Just move on
Facts
As I an African man, I am simply proud of you and your wife. This is so amazing. After this show I got my wife watching your channel. I'd like to collaborate with you in the effort of building the African community globally. Kindly let me know how we can advance discussions in this regard. You and your wife have totally changed my mentality about the African American community.
I think kitez and alex should really stay in contact with these two. They just need to hear the right voices in their ear to encourage them. Great initiative at the end kitez. Lajuans' whole demeanour changed. He seemed hopeful compare to the rest of the interview
Single people keep single people single wow thanks Alex 😍
Great advice and I think if they use it they could go far with one another.
This was a good video. I enjoyed it very much.
You shouldn't have slept😔 with him so fast now. Look at you 🤔
@yeshuaislord-fl9sp,It was not the sex that ruined their relationship.It,was his lack of leadership that,ruined the relationship BEFORE the sex happen. I seen the catch-up interview with Arlette .This,men made several big mistakes with this woman.“First mistake he made was given this woman, too much of his time and attention from the beginning. Second mistake he made was letting this woman chill in,his house while he was at work.This,man does not have a strong vetting process for the women that come into his life.He gives his time,attention and resources freely with out the woman earning,it.Not,being negative just being observant in what I see and hear.
@@thecj30 I didn't say sex ruined relationship. He got what he wanted 15min of fame , 3wk of a pointless relationship, and ended up sleeping with her , sad but he knew what he was doing
lesson learned
@@yeshuaislord-fl9sp I agree with you that sex didn’t ruin their relationship. I stand on what I said in my previous comment to you. This man has zero leadership skills. He has zero structure to give this woman.Why, if he did, he would’ve been honest from the beginning with what he wanted to do and lead accordingly. I don’t believe he was looking for 15 minutes of fame. I do believe this man does want to be in a relationship. The issue, just like all the men that have appeared on Pop the ballon catch up,shows I see they lack leadership skills.They give these woman too much Monogamist relationships energy without these women earning it from them,that’s a big mistake.
He looks absolutely nothing like schoolboy Q 😂... but keep doing yall thing. I'm loving it
You gotta go look at his catch up episode to see the reference 😂
**This is for Lajuan: If you want a Woman that says THANK YOU naturally without needing to be told , hold out for that kind of woman.** When People show you who they are...believe them the first time! (my favorite poet Maya Angelou). There are women who are just naturally thoughtful and want to make sure you know they appreciate what you do by simply stating Thank you and also volunteering to do the little things that they see that you like or could help you. And yes, talk with Your friends to get Wisdom when you are dating...that's what real friends are for. They will know you better than a woman you just met. It's okay if what you both naturally want, just don't naturally coincide...be thankful you found this out earlier...so you both can have the door open to meet someone who is a better fit. DON'T FORCE IT....please!
These two need to have a break communicate better understand each other timing and work on timing and definitely understand it will not go to plan as always. For the lady she know her faults but need to know how to address them in the moment and don't build up the displeasure for him. Likewise him as well. What I'm seeing clash of egos and the stuff is small. Both want each other but scared for the commitment both seem to have good intent. But all of fear is there.
4 minutes in I know I’m going to love this 😂
Get your snacks 😂😂
Wishing the best for this couple.
She was a red flag from the pop baloon show
Aw man…when @KiteZz was giving closing remarks and telling them that “tomorrow is not promised”, I just KNEW he was about to spit the Gospel of Jesus Christ to these souls who need it! I enjoy this channel and am glad to know you guys are professing Christians. My only feedback would be that if we platform ourselves as such, that we would be bold to use our platforms to spread the Gospel message. The guests did much to promote their businesses at the end…you guys could have done much to promote Christ at the end as well. That would have been so bomb to see! 🎉 Maybe on the next one…looking forward to the next upload!
I agree that he could have told the young lady ahead of time that he was going to put out a Social Media statement, and I agree the statement should have been very generic. For example: "She is a lovely woman but we've decided to no longer date." Now while it is good to be courteous and thoughtful by letting the female know in advance, he doesn't need her permission, and unfortunately Social Media followers can just be crazy NO MATTER what you say. LOL, these people will draw their own conclusions! P.S. I see they have agreed to date again but I pray if it doesn't work out...THEY WILL NOT COME ON THIS ONLINE bashing each other. The Social Media announcement can simply state: We've both decided to no longer date. I hope the best for him/her. Then keep it moving...get counseling OFF LINE if needed but please MATURITY.
Kites don't miss!!
Giving what the people want!
We do it for yall 😁😁
Love this!! I am rooting for them. So much potential ❤. Great advice. I been married for 8 years and the 1st year is the hardest cause your so about self tell you learn that has to move to US
I got really excited for this match. Now I’m surprised.
They can both flirt with whomever they want they are both single. Maybe just not on live in public 😅
This is GOLD ✨