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- You feel attracted to someone that is off limits....immediately, you cannot take steps in the material world, which pushes you to the inner realm. This is one of the best ways your guides could think to get you focused there....let's look further, together.
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This is good. I was entangled in a third-party situation unknowingly, again. When I came to realize it wasnât what I thought it was, it absolutely devastated me. The situation floored me and changed me forever. I never encountered such lies, betrayal, and deception-I thought this time, âThis is the real deal.â This time, I asked myself, âWhy am I unknowingly attracting these types of situations?â Iâm glad I stumbled upon your channel. Thank you for bringing clarity without judgment. I can see how these channeled messages will help me in my next-level healing. Thank you. đ
This man lied to me; I specifically asked him if he was involved elsewhere; not only is he married, he also has a mistress and turned out he was using me to make the mistress jealous. It was my lesson to learn but I really wish there was another way to teach me self love. I feel violated physically because the intimacy was based on a lie! I have no feelings for him, I just kick myself everyday for even encountering him
Rationalization and justification are strong feelings too. I know of a case within my family where infidelity occurred and although I'm usually very much opposed to going outside one's marriage to get one's needs met, life is complicated and every situation is different.
This guy in my family has a shrew of a wife. I have witnessed her wrath for years. She has rarely treated him well and puts him in the double bind situation of telling him she doesn't love him, yet saying she'll "take him to the cleaners" if he has an affair, and/or if he ever leaves their children will "hate him". (I've heard her say this a few times, as have other family members). This along with the added guilt he would feel leaving their 22 year old daughter who has developmental issues. The daughter will need care for the rest of her life, mind you.
Because of this, he feels he is unable to divorce her, yet he is absolutely miserable.
I really despise this antiquated idea that any 3rd party is "breaking up a family" - because often the family or the marriage was broken long before a 3rd party entered the picture; as in the example I gave within my family. As I wrote above, in theory I'm opposed to infidelity within a marriage. But knowing and loving a family member in a terrible marriage, if he DID decide to have an affair, I'd have a hard time judging him given his circumstance.
See...its not always some angelic innocent wife who is betrayed by some sex-addicted husband who is cheating. That's the stereotype but it's not always the case. Amongst my friends, acquaintances, or coworkers, I've honestly known more married women who were unfaithful than I've known men who were unfaithful.
But the main point I'd like to make is that an affair alone usually doesn't break up a strong bond. Often that bond was already broken (assuming it was ever really there to begin with) by the time someone decides to cheat. This idea that some evil 3rd party sways a husband or wife away from their happy family is probably the vast minority. If someone can come along and be a homewrecker, the home was probably on a very shaky foundation anyway. People always want to blame some 3rd party to deflect their own accountability and stay in denial. They don't want to look at themselves first.
We are all a collective, walking each other home
I have been thinking A LOT about this because it has brought up so many issues. It's forcing the recognition; it's forcing me to look at the patterns. My dad used to take me on day trips..... to the homes of his many mistresses. I played with the kids that lived there. My dad's mistresses' kids. Some kids were angry and mean; some kids were sweet. For years my mom knew my dad did this, and she didn't care at all. She just sent me along with him, like I was an afterthought. So, what feels comfortable to me? I pick partners that are emotional unavailable. I pick partners that don't care about what happens to me. So, I feel extremely jealous. I keep trying harder and harder to make them see me as a valuable person. But you know what? My parents STILL don't care about me. My entire adult life and they still don't see me as valuable. We're talking about YEARS of time, and they're still oblivious. I can't fight that fight anymore. I don't want to waste any more time chasing people that can't see me. Not even just my actions. These people can't see me, just standing in front of them.
This experience has been like turning on a light in a very very dark room. And it hurts. BUT it was painful ignoring those feelings too. It's been so much better crying it all out.
Sometimes we also need to have patience for other people as they make decisions about their lives. It is not all or nothing.
How many times do I have to prove myself to God?? As a âperfectionistâ Iâve donât this shit 100 times to prove it to myself and God but when do I get a good job?!? I just wonder why doing the right thing yields little reward but making a mistake or learning a lesson yields an abundance of heartache and lessons. I might as well do what I want and just brace myself for a life of lessons. Iâll probably get the same crumbs of rewards Iâm getting now. I see why the world chooses evil
I asked for more involvement JUST to push this person away. It worked, and at first it was relief, but I do miss him as I genuinely care. But overall I am glad the pressure isn't there to play his games. He wanted to be 'friends' and stay in my life in an intense way. It affected me, as he was the only man in my life texting, calling, sending gifts. It lasted over four years. I still wish I knew if I mattered, but at the same time, it is better to be separated. We are no contact now.
You do matter. You don't need him to validate that fact. I know it doesn't help the pain. I feel it deeply and pray the pain will go away. Blessings to you.
OH MY GOD I AM SCREAMING!!!!! I was literally crying about this exact scenario today and have been working on healing and doing constant cord-cutting rituals and everything. I felt like he was my twin flame or something and it pisses me off that I feel so deeply connected to someone that is off-limits to me. It just feels like this connection exists to drive me crazy. I was thinking that this was all in my head and I was just making this up to add more drama and spice to my life but I legitimately cannot seem to cut this cord or stop thking about this dude. I have not even watched the video yet but the title and the description were enough to take me out.
I will wait for the person that I feel wants what I want in life đ
This is a true blessing I found your channel is right on point with my love life stinks right now
I find the wrong men who are married and or tried to entangle me in a third triangle relationship
This man was attractive and seductive and very intense that I never thought I would ever see he used me for a game of thrones and lied about his marriage
I had to release him to god and ask for love and forgiveness for my inner peace and forgiveness and by gone be bygone forever â€
Saddened me now Iâm letting god be my match maker please đ Iâm praying for my life right now â€
Exactly and I am speechless. Thanks for the message and insight đ.
I think thatâs the most beautiful title Iâve ever come across, thank you!
You are right sometimes to know our own higher self or soul purpose, we have to let go of the identity of being a twin flame too, Becasue say if we found we are a teinflame and got identified with it, but our twinflame isn't awakened or ready to be on that journey- then it can be a trouble zone; for us and them.
Also sometimes people can get false guidances on who their twin flame is; and then go down a rabbit hole of wrongful choices based on their egoic and illusions based guidances too.
Hence with any labels, understanding the real purpose of it or what the identity behind a label means and if we also lose that identity, what it means for our soul; will we lose our own self if we lose the label, etc. - all of this self awareness and deep reflection is important.
And yes being a twinflame can bring up a lot of soul searching questions for us, that can bring us closer to God.
And being in love with someone who isn't in love with us can do that too. All of which are awakening time points for us.
I was divinely guided to cross paths with my âTFâ (whatever that is) I didnât even know about TF at the time. It was a forced energetic draw. We were both married and I didnât seek it and once I felt the feelings I even told God I wouldnât cheat on my wife although I had endured years of emotional trauma from her and we had no intimacy for years at this point. However, although I never was physically intimate with my TF, we did hangout at the gym and talk and we did hang out in public a few times after the gym, and talk. Nothing inappropriate in my opinion. Still I was again forced into a dramatic horrendous situation with my wife following this time period.
Listening to this makes me wonder- what is the Karma? Karma for having a new friend that I shared likeness with?
I donât believe I ever had a choice. Iâve reflected upon all of it for a year now and I realize that my freewill was jeopardized by the universe because they were going to force this all upon me regardless of my freewill decisions.
I say all of this because anyone whoâs shared in this experience you are not to blame. Some shiiiiiitttteeee things are destined for whatever reason and you should not blame yourself for the universes forced scenarios in your life. I cannot stress although sometimes we may be accountable- sometimes we are not- when bad things happen to you - DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. Some things truly are divinely designed and you have no say so.
Thank you. đđœ your message is coming straight from the Divine!
There was a woman that came between my (ex) husband and me which caused our marriage to crumble to the ground. He came back to me asking for a second chance but I canât. We are in so much pain but trust is lost. Itâs difficult as it is to make a marriage work but itâs more so when thereâs another person in the mix. So, for that woman that was the catalyst for all of our pain and misery right nowâŠ.what can I say? I hope sheâs happy for ruining our lives. Just sayinâ
Temptation is everywhere. We all have to fight it from time to time. Did she bind his hands, whip out his d**k, and have her way with him? Was there nothing he could do, like run like hell perhaps? It take two to tango. It is not always entirely the other woman's fault. She could have been strung along, flirted with and manipulated. Either way, he was not powerless in the situation.
Same in my situation I'd never do that to anyone know how it feels to be on the other end of it.
@@rachaelmcdougall798 ikr, I will never allow myself to be that low, and the karma that comes with it plus the guilt thatâll surely eat you upâŠ
@@untamedheart6820 what do you mean I was the one married to the man who cheated with a third party why would I have guilt or karma they both would
@@rachaelmcdougall798 Iâm not saying itâs you dear, Iâm stating the karma & guilt that comes to those who goes and break marriages
I JUST prayed this exact thing yesterday . Thanks for the message
Thank you lovely Jessâ€đđđ
If he is married he never told me , nothing has ever happened in the 3d but talk. Yes he may feel it is off limits because of our age difference but not reaching out has become easier but I do feel very strongly about him. It has elevated me and I know myself so well now.
He told me it was over and that's the only reason I even got involved.
This was great I just wish the Karmics were able to embrace growth, healing and self improvement đ
Thank You for the reading †This is what I am going through, I really need some one who is not married, I'm mostly attracted to married which I am not not comfortable with â€â€đ
Interesting video Jess. đ
I think I'm addicted to someone who is emotionally un available
This message helped to draw me closer to the end. It really helped to put words and understanding to a vicious cycle. Thank you so much.
Most of the messages in those quick readings donât apply to me personally,- I still continued to wach them because first of all.. I really love the way you read Jess and all those deep insights about life, karma, morals and inner strength.
When a video from you poppes up I feel like a little child that is excited about the new episode of one piece that comes out every Friday morning (European time) hihi of course I will watch it! đżđ
Now the second thing is- It kinda feels like those readings are a peak in the lives of those around me..
It makes me understand those peopleâs actions and intentions more and the result of that is that I walk away from those readings with a lot more âšcompassionâš for them.
Itâs crazy- Like an hour ago I walked around the house having an imaginary prep talk with a friend of mine about their situation- a while after, I go to my phone and this video popped up on my feed.. I klick on in and realize after seconds of listening that THIS IS THE EXACT MESSAGE/PREP TALK I WAS GIVING MY FRIEND đ± just in other words. You summed it up so well and explained an even deeper layer of whatâs going on.
So for those that do not resonate with every single reading on this channel- please donât be so quick to judge.. maybe there are still messages or insights that could be beneficial for you. And if it really really doesnât fit at all- just klick off bish đ
So, would you be ok to have your personal life treated like you are the main character of the Truman show?
Thanks- that was really helpfulđđđ
I needed to hear this so much. đ
I love your owl đŠđ€
I am a Gemini Sun and Moon. Thank you! đ
Thanks Jess đ
This message is exactly what is happening to me.I'm married for 19 yes n have kids but our family friend and have feelings for each other but he is not married, he divorced his wife a year ago but we have strong feelings for each other and i contacted him about this issue but he responded @ first now he doesn't respond to my text.I do dream about him almost every month and i didn't have feelings for him until i had a dream about him and i noticed his behavior was strange towards me but now i know why but now i don't want to be intimate with my husband it's been 12 months now.I want to be with our family friend.I'm in an unhappy marriage and i was never happy in my marriage i prayed about it but my feelings for him get stronger everyday especially when i try to ignore them and pray about this situation and we've never kissed or touch each other but when i see him my blood just boils and i don't feel anything from my husband anymore this is driving me mad and i've never cheated on my husbandđą
Iâm so sorry you are going through this. I am not judging, only trying to offer support. Is your husband willing to work within him, and therefore with you to fight for your marriage? Please do not feel I am attacking you, but perhaps you can ask your friend to remove themselves from the situation and let you and your husband work through things. If you have decided that you will reconcile and work in making one another happy and being in communication and in good union, this is wonderful. If after you have decided that neither of you is happy or cares enough to reignite the flame, then take proper steps so that there is less pain in the transition. I am praying for you to be enlightened in this situation. I pray that you receive the wisdom, courage, strength, insight, and peace to find clarity and comfort for within your spirit and within your home. I love you!
@@marianocente7011 Thank you so much my dearest for your response, it means a lot to me because I can't talk to anyone about my situation. You are not judging me ,my husband doesn't talk he is a very quite person and doesn't want to resolve issue and his mom told Mr before we got married that his son is a very difficult person when his mom ask him about how is he and trying to find out if he is fine,he will just say yes i'm fine and doesn't want to deal with problems that was a red flag but I chose to ignore it.He grew up in an abusive home.My mom and father in law fight a lot in front of the kids even to date they are old but they still swear @ each other even if there is an event in my family they will fight in front of a lot of strangers.I tried to help him to heal and took him for counseling to pastors and therapist but he doesn't change he is full of anger and very violent.He use to beat me with things like knives, spate that we use in the garden. One day i called one of the police who is my friend's husband to come and threaten him and say i'm taking to the cells that's when he stopped till today became he is scared of going to jail
I apologise to bother you with long messages is just that i'm tired of this marriage.My husband is not making anything easy for me and even financially he is selfish doesn't contributes that much for me and the kids I do almost everything but ever since I stopped being intimate with him he gives me money and he is trying to be better but i'm not willing to be intimate with him anymore i've done a lot of things for him hoping that he will change but he will change only for 2 months then goes back to his old habits but now I don't hate him anymore like I use to.He is like my room mate and he says i have changed i don't shout @ him and i don't talk to him i ignore him as if he doesn't exist and he said do i still love him and I said yes but knowing very well that i don't feel anything for him anymore. He has lost wait and he looks terrible and you can see that this whole situation is tearing him apart but i choose to love,take care of my mental state and put myself 1st and take care of my kids to be honest i'm tired. I don't want drama anymore even if i choose to leave him i will be with my family friend because he doesn't have kids of his own and i know him and his family but if he doesn't want I'd rather be single and happy persue my purpose and dreams. I want peace this marriage doesn't give me peace and now i feel better than before because i don't carry my husband's energy anymore we sleep in the same bed but i take warm water bottles and put them in between us and face to the other side
No, I haven't, because I've never been attracted to any married individuals.
That's why he had to lie and cover up his past đ
I don't care about any of this any longer.
I have already moved on.
Thanks!
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Hi Jess, Pratik here from Srilanka. Have been following you since last 4 months. I am happily married to the love of my life. This message does not resonate with me. But I found your recent videos kind of condescending in a way. You have a beautiful marriage with your husband (saw his glimpse in the recent pick a card). Maybe it is easier for you to judge others because you have a good relationship. You are kind of co dependent on your husband in a very sweet way. I have seen you panicking and calling out to him if someone sends a sus message in your pick a card live chats. Everyone has karma to deal with- married or a 3rd party with married. Let us not be judgmental here and deal with everyone with compassion.
When did she judge her audience? She gets messages that may or may not apply to her audience.
Her husband is a moderator of the live
I have a huge problem with the ethics of all of it. Huge problem. They can spy on me all they want. I don't give two sh*ts, but there is definitely something f*ked up about all this.