People on Breakups
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- čas přidán 20. 09. 2023
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Andrew gets some anecdotes about breakups and the process of ending a relationship. What are some of your experiences/thoughts/advice?
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yo andrew! What kind of mic are you using in these videos? Do you like it?
hey man, i hope you are doing good
Did you and Carly break up?
A lot of the people in the video said it best. Time heals all wounds! For most break ups I think it's just a matter of distracting yourself until the pain passes.
I agree, but that should come after having confronted your feelings. You should take some time to grieve the relationship before you should start distracting yourself
Time may heal wounds, but it can never heal scars.
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time itself won't heal anything unless you're actively looking forward and trying to better yourself. if you're constantly thinking about your ex and reminiscing and hoping they come back, time isn't going to do anything.
@@abrielrobertsson4160 "time heals all wounds, but time can leave the nastiest scars"
Honestly I just miss having someone to cuddle every night. I miss having someone who’s name is always on my phone screen every time I pull it out of my pocket. Just having someone to put my love and trust into. It’s hard being single especially when literally everyone around you in your life are in long lasting committed relationships and I can never seem to find that. Time heals and the time will come though. Just gotta be patient and be true to myself.
We are all with you brother.
wow took the words out of my mouth
It sounds more like you miss being in a relationship and not a specific person, so I guess that’s a good thing
Gay
Exactly. I share your vision, buddy
“Time heals what reason cannot.” - Seneca
Break ups always hit me particularly hard. I usually go off the rails the first week after the break up lmao… totally lose my sh*t. Then just apathy for a few months. Time definitely heals all though. And hitting the gym, hanging out with good friends and concentrating on doing hobbies you love. OT4Y OT4Y!
Same man. I literally felt numb for months after my long relationship of 8 years ended. I did start working out a lot and that helped and just kept keeping myself busy but boy was i fucking numb. But time eventually healed me again.
@@photomorti8 years? Im sorry for you
@@dyplex9 Im still on that workout grind luckely , so the breakup can also give you a lot of motivation if you use that sadness for something good.
Cant say dating has been that great so far , been with a few girls for a few weeks but its so hard to find a real connection these days i feel like. Also dating apps in general suck for men lets be real haha but we keep trying ;)
Andrew, the world needs you now more than ever. Make more videos to get our minds off of everything else that's falling apart.
Andy&Andrew 💕
What’s falling apart?
Calm down drama queen.
11:12 me trying to relate to people in this video as a 22 year old virgin/person whos never dated anyone at all
Live your life like it counts
Like how genuine this is. Real people speaking their truth authentic contact seems rare great job Andrew
Like many of us here, I went through a terrible breakup not so long ago. Most people in this video said it best. Keep yourself busy and focus on things that are meaningful to you and that bring you joy. There were days when I thought the pain would never stop and that I'd never get over it, but it's not true. It gets easier with time. Just don't hide from the pain and your feelings. If you have to cry, do it, it's ok and it's healthy. Just try not to spend most of your time dwelling on the past and on what could have been. It wasn't meant to be and it's alright. Thanks for the video Andrew! Have a good day everyone!
Andrews ethos has a way of bringing out the authenticity and vulnerability of the people he speaks with.
This is so real Andrew. You are a great inspiration, thank you, keep it up
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No such thing as aliens, they're actually Demonic Entities. Look up "Lam" the demonic entity Crowley summoned through a satanic ritual, he drew it and it eerily looks exactly like what we know as a "grey".
Yes do it
No
They don't steal your heart they steal your whole body
yess lmao 😂
Please make them more frequent! This is the perfect content to watch while chilling on the couch!😁
Andrew. You can be funny on CZcams without a prank. CZcams needs your humor more than ever. Glad I was able to catch you live today. You're hilarious man - please bring back the funny.
Love the "draw me like one of your french girls" pose for you. Really compliments your vibe. 💯
Andrew of all the channels and videos on youtube i've seen, yours are the ones i look forward to the most. Please upload more often. Thanks!
concurred
So true 4:32 becoming friends with your ex right after is unhealthy. You def need time before you can. I just learn that recently for myself.
my boy Andrew these videos are a fucking JAM
its like chatting with but applied to the masses
and it gives that old nostalgia of you when you used to be a dirty dog on the campuses with the pranks
I think you got some fire here keep adding kindle boi
Next topic ideas : are you addicted to tiktok? asked to gen Z types
we millennials want to know how our youths are doing
"checking in with Gen Z"
The timing of this video is incredible as I’m just going through a situation myself that seems to be headed for a breakup. It was helpful to hear from people who feel like they got through it alright and are in a better place now. Reminded me I’m not alone.
Andrew I don’t know if you’re going through a breakup right now or have recently, but always remember we love you and got your back. I’ve followed your content for many years, and even though we’ve never met, you feel like a close friend. Wishing you peace and all the best for the future.
@@Ourcompetelevelthanks man, much love
I love how genuine all of these people are, hope you keep doing these types of videos. Think I probably started watching your prank videos 10 years ago and I think it''s awesome how you've evolved (your content) over the years.
Time is the move for sure. Focusing on personal hobbies, making plans with close friends, talking it out with someone else, journaling, and hitting the gym are all definitely the right answer. Staying friends after a breakup is fine, but only if both parties are mature about it/the breakup was mature and both don't try to overstep the new boundary. If the breakup was unhealthy, traumatic, or cheating was involved then heck no. Give it a month or two after the seperation to heal and I think a good friendship can form for sure. You already both know and care so much about each other so why not 🤷🏼♂
I found this channel through my ex. He ghosted me after 3 years. I’ve literally just been working out for 2-3 hours everyday and making new friends. I spent so much time on him that when he left it opened up a lot of time I didn’t realize I had.
Nice to see you back! heard in a recent Sam Harris podcast that essentially sleep takes away the bad associations with certain memories
Love this type of content Andrew, please keep it up!
good work! I love your videos. I'm a long time fan of your videos.
I can feel the vibe is back Andrew. Lezgo.
literally broke up w my girl two days before u posted this bro this helped so much fr thank u sir, been watching u since like fucking 2013 and i’m glad to see ur still funny af
Nice one Andrew, thanks!
These are really mature young people. Great tips
i feel u bro. Its not like u NEED a girl but it can just feel like somethin is missing in your life sometimes 😅💯❤💯
*Appreciate Andrew's all time lathergic attitude* 😊😊
Broke up a good 5-1/2 months ago. Every time I start feeling good, it goes back to thinking and wishing. 😢 Good thing I keep reminding myself one day I probably will not even care about her much anymore and have different problems
Common W from Andrew 🔥 love ya bro
My last ex was toxic and abusive and has taken me years to get over. It is harder to heal when they are uncooperative and dismissive.
Great choice of topic!!
Everything is so authentic i love it :)
Breakups sometimes feel like it's the end of the world, but like most said, focus on you, distract yourself, hang out with friends, take a hobby, sometimes it will take days to heal, sometimes more, but you will heal eventually, dont let the sadness consume you
Good stuff!
Hey Andrew, believe it or not, I've been following along with your videos ever since you were on prank series. cuz, I couple times canceled subscribing to CZcams channels or what.
The thing is, I'd love to place a recommendation for you. now that you're buying some helps from therapy and that's great to give me a relief.
Swimming, When I was paralyzing and extremely self deprived after struggles with job shopping and or challenges through the entire year with no success, helped refueling my qualities and now it's one major element to keep me alive.
The more intensive training and drills you go through, the more you'd experience drowning and which eventually comes back to your mind what it feels like to be alive. (Psychopathic..?)
Anyway, plz give it a whirl and want you to know you aint lost your edges at all.
Hope to see you fetch your smile once again tho.
This couldn't have dropped on a better time for me.
each person smiles when first asked, and then gets serious as they reflect
Afterthought. Powerful tool
I think in the future hearing your thoughts on the subject before and after the interviews would be interesting. just to see if the interviews offer any new perspective
Little baby steps is the only way. Start working out, going to gym or meeting friends is good too. But only time will allow your heart to heal, so basically no matter what you do, you will get there. Just keep yourself busy.
Love you Andrew
I don’t even think you have to keep busy. Slowing down, enjoying things again. Take yourself out on a date.
The whole focusing on yourself is a cop out answer
Needed this Andrew. Love you brother. 0T4Y 0T4Y!!
6:51 Careful, Andrew!
I just sae you on Arako Tv youtube channel and had to go here 😃 So happy to see you Andrew ❤❤❤
"If someone can walk away from you, let them walk."
LAHWF, I have been watching since the pranks in the old days. I love the new style content. I know its more niche, but if you ever feel like making a "People on Chiropractors" I think it would be interesting because its a pretty divided profession. I'm obviously biased but I think it would be great.
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Do you think you’d bring back the chatting withs now that the pandemic has settled down?
Are you and Karly still together brother LAHWF?
That’s what I was wondering, usually his video topics are about current events 😬 Andrew you’re the goat
Andrew, let us know if you are still alcohol-free next time. Wishing you peace and healing.
Couldn't have found a better sponsor I hope they paid in therapy not money. We all need it
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Bro bring back chatting withs PLEASE , it doesnt even have to be alot. Ive seen alot of comments with a good amount of likes saying the same thing. Listen to your fans bro, we want to see you winning
Pretty chill one
Time heals. distraction helps.
get rid of those photos... the small trinkets you aquired. those thing's are hard to get rid of . but it helps a great deal .
i am in extreme pain, makes me want to literally conclude everything and everything that could be.
When I was in that much pain I just went into it as much as I could. When it hurt, I didn't look away and I cried a lot if I needed to, I let the pain speak. If you do that consistently, if you don't run away from the pain, it will pass, and sooner than you thought possible.
All the love to you, friend
2:37
I thought Andrew was going to stop the lawnmower guy and ask him if he had ever been dumped before, too
Man ur the best
Nice Andrew
i been a loyal viewer for 10 years !
love u andrew
Dude at 5 to 6 minutes in is an absolute legend
this ones a good one
3:59 2 years of being single ain’t “a minute” I’ve been single for 19 years bruv you got it easy
Hey Andrew I would highly suggest you to collab with Brad from Discover Connection. I think you guys will relate and get along well. Much love and best luck ❤
Andrew. You’re my CZcamsr. I got into your channel when you interviews that “FABSTRONAUT” those 1 on 1 interviews and CZcams videos in gereral WERE PEAK. You did it first.
I'd have loved to check out Benton's music, he's got a cool speaking voice
Under what circumstances is it okay for ex’s to be friends and not be friends?
That guy cutting grass was the best part
I'm trying to break up with my hand but it's taking forever
Yea I think I might be skipping crucial stages. Just broke up 3 months ago and I still love her.
I am kinda starting a new relationship but something is not right.
I basically feel like am forcing myself to say sweet words to her, kinda like a replacement.
Never would I thought feelings would last so long.
just tell her you haven't got over an ex yet. Communication and clarity man, be honest with you new gal. She will understand and will comfort you, until you can make a beautiful couple, but take one step at the time.
good content
Sick shirt bruv
You look good man
I feel like remaining friends is like being demoted from CEO of a campany to manager or something ya know what I'm sayin. I'd rather take my severance package and find a different company to work for or start my own my own business with the experience I gained from that CEO job.
That hair - full lahwf
love the random Nof4p conversations😂
yup
Andrew was really trying to get that quote dialed😭
I hope you didn't just have a breakup Andrew!
I’m friends with my ex, it didn’t work at first cause we both had feelings still (me more so) and i’d get jealous and catch feels but we lived separately and had that space and time so now we are good as friends. I wouldn’t date her again bc i’ve gotten to the point to know that we aren’t a match and she craves toxic in a relationship lmao.
ask people what they think of people that dont have social media , i am curious
We need more TALKING WITHS. The Conspiracy Theorist lives rent free in my cerebellum.
I feel like if you know in the future you are prbly gonna move to another country/city and u know it, then you should communicate that early in the relationship how the partner feels about that. For me it is a pointless relationship if im together with her and i know she will leave and i can’t go with her. You should clear that early and ask partner how he she feels about it.
More videos please..
The boys will always be there
Good ass video right here thanks
Hella appreciate the first girl being so blunt with friends to lovers and not lovers to friends. I feel like that gets shit on a lot if you think that way these days.
Bah.. givin me flashbacks to stalking my ex's social media & coping w hydrocodone back in '08. Never again. Shit's bleak. Still have dreams abt it to this day. >_>
Andrew, can you repeat this video but with older people? Say in there mid twenties or 30s? I appreciate the insight from the ppl in this video, but id love to hear some thoughts from people a bit more mature. tysm
Man said arms chest and legs. NO BACK 😂
i am in pain
where is the awkwardness
They say if you can be friends with your ex, you either never loved each other or you still do.
You should do a gym series. Get ripped, show body progress. I think it will be good for your mental.
💯👏🏻