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  • @PhilosophyTube
    @PhilosophyTube  Před rokem +1268

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    • @el1751
      @el1751 Před rokem +1

      fuckin knew this was about the play, hope the tickets dont run out immediately;-;

    • @melusine826
      @melusine826 Před rokem +1

      Omg omg.... I'm staying longer in UK now - I might be able to go!!! Woot!!!!

    • @merchantarthurn
      @merchantarthurn Před rokem +8

      Oo my boyfriend's coming over from the States during this window, snagging two tickets for the both of us

    • @quintwolf7185
      @quintwolf7185 Před rokem +1

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    • @Dark_Ronius
      @Dark_Ronius Před rokem +2

      Tickets booked right away 😁

  • @anonymousbosch9265
    @anonymousbosch9265 Před rokem +4774

    When my daughter was a teenager she said she didn’t asked to be born and she was just cruising through the aether like a fish and got snagged and dragged into this world and now had to go to school. I told her she was right and that it’s not her fault but it is her responsibility to minimize her suffering and maximize her meaning in this endeavor of life. She said “whatever Dad”

    • @elevationsickness8462
      @elevationsickness8462 Před rokem +312

      That's a good dad right there

    • @anonymousbosch9265
      @anonymousbosch9265 Před rokem +385

      @@elevationsickness8462 she turned out ok which is always a question when a dad raises a daughter on their own

    • @i_liek_bois
      @i_liek_bois Před rokem +69

      You tried, that's what matters

    • @jayjohnson5016
      @jayjohnson5016 Před rokem +91

      frankly thats pretty sad of you to respond that way...because you had to fulfill a sexual urge or earn a legacy, your child has to suffer because of it? if i were you id just never tell my kid i loved them because you dont...

    • @anonymousbosch9265
      @anonymousbosch9265 Před rokem +224

      @@jayjohnson5016 interesting take

  • @badger6882
    @badger6882 Před rokem +3383

    If I had a dollar for every trans woman that became a bigtime philosophy youtuber, I'd have about two dollars, but it's cool that it happened twice

    • @stellaw3682
      @stellaw3682 Před rokem +194

      To make it three: Do you know Mia Mulder?

    • @maxmilian1243
      @maxmilian1243 Před rokem +37

      @@asz4928 you'd be broke

    • @maxmilian1243
      @maxmilian1243 Před rokem +94

      @@asz4928 well yes, I you'd be rich cause you'd be educated. education is gold.

    • @anorakquest4004
      @anorakquest4004 Před rokem +29

      @@maxmilian1243 nah honestly I liked Abigail’s older content, she jumps to a lot of conclusions in her newer videos which sucks but I still love her videos so i watch, just a loss in quality

    • @vxicepickxv
      @vxicepickxv Před rokem +46

      @@stellaw3682 Mia is technically a historian first.

  • @rugrugrugrug
    @rugrugrugrug Před rokem +2149

    I love how the hook of this essay is essentially “yes but *why* can’t you have shit in detroit”

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

      Hurry☝️ You just got yourself something from me, Send me a message above to claim your prize, ✅🎉.
      ..

    • @lawrencebishton9071
      @lawrencebishton9071 Před rokem +11

      I know

    • @NotTooStraight
      @NotTooStraight Před rokem +19

      Damn that’s fucking great 😂

    • @Stephanie-we5ep
      @Stephanie-we5ep Před rokem

      I heard Detroit and assumed that the water crisis was going to be part of this... I haven't finished this, but in my heart of hearts I believe Detroit's water crisis is behind the late great philosophers.

    • @phoenixzappa7366
      @phoenixzappa7366 Před rokem +8

      You're going to lose your life in Detroit. Rock City

  • @aydnofastro-action1788
    @aydnofastro-action1788 Před rokem +1452

    I'm beginning to conclude that all philosophy consists of each philosopher calling BS on all other philosophers. And in the end they are all correct.

    • @mark4asp
      @mark4asp Před rokem +66

      No. And in the end they are all wrong, in some detail.

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem +1

      Hurry☝️ You just got yourself something from me, Send me a message above to claim your prize, ✅🎉.
      ...

    • @fredwood1490
      @fredwood1490 Před rokem +52

      Philosophy, like religion, depends very much on what you need it to be.

    • @soun.slayerTTV
      @soun.slayerTTV Před rokem +25

      @fredwood1490 One could argue religion itself is a philosophy.

    • @camelopardalis84
      @camelopardalis84 Před rokem +10

      Someone has watched both "Don't Hug Me I'm Scared" and dived into theories about it and read all the interviews with the makers.

  • @dateris
    @dateris Před rokem +3836

    "As a demon I live forever, but as a lawyer I charge by the hour." Love it.

    • @epistte
      @epistte Před rokem +80

      Is that incense, no its weed, I swear............. LOL. Even funnier for a former Catholic alter boy,..........now girl.

    • @MrWatchowtnow
      @MrWatchowtnow Před rokem +1

      Whoa , the dum dum cult watched a movie

    • @kirklarson4536
      @kirklarson4536 Před rokem +16

      "...we'll be here 'til Armageddon."
      So you're saying we don't have much time?

    • @1allstarman
      @1allstarman Před rokem +1

      Sadly the truth is missing from that statement , I wonder why she did not want to go to websters definition of gender ?

    • @michaeljensen4650
      @michaeljensen4650 Před rokem +7

      "Step on me Daddy!" 😂

  • @moonyollie6977
    @moonyollie6977 Před rokem +380

    I didn't think I could guffaw louder after the words: "allowing Catholics in women's toilets" but then "Is that incense? No, it's weed, I swear-"
    I think I sprained something

    • @elisecode2212
      @elisecode2212 Před rokem +25

      what got me was 'beelzebub, beelzebub, and jones'. abigail is hilarious.

    • @toastghost9145
      @toastghost9145 Před rokem +5

      @@elisecode2212 She's seriously one of the most quotable people on the planet.

  • @quoki
    @quoki Před 6 měsíci +207

    as an indigenous girl, i found it weird to sit in a US Gov class and be taught about how life before settlement was barbaric and cruel, and that the only way to move forward was with the social contract. it felt isolating to think about how my culture and my people were not barbaric and cruel, they had survived for hundreds of years, and it was uncomfortable for me to hear my white male teacher connect it to the colonizers. i love this video, it put into words what i always felt about the social contract without knowing that theories like this existed because it was only presented to me during class that the social contract is the right way.

    • @theaizere
      @theaizere Před 4 měsíci +16

      There was so much erasure as well. I am from a previosuly nomadic culture as well and people knew how to harmonise with nature back then. It's beautiful and I you have opportunities to keep ties with your culture!

    • @RyderSpearmann
      @RyderSpearmann Před 3 měsíci

      You first mistake is in believing you are an “indigenous girl”. No such thing. Your ancestors stole the land… in as much as “stealing land” has any meaning to begin with.
      You are just a product of history, same as everyone else. You are no more indigenous as me.

    • @markplimsoll
      @markplimsoll Před 3 měsíci +5

      Your indigenous ancestors invented technologies to live on these continents since 13,000 or maybe even 15,000 years ago. Seen the tracks in White Sands National Monument? 😮

    • @charlespark490
      @charlespark490 Před 2 měsíci

      I've come to the conclusion that Government Charity has only one goal; to force the oppressed to admit to their oppressors that they are inferior. It's not enough to lie to them, they want you to make them believe it. Perhaps the only freedom the oppressed will ever know, is to make them believe it, make sure we don't believe it, and use the lie against the system of oppression.

  • @nicholasvellone3668
    @nicholasvellone3668 Před rokem +822

    Every time I watch one of her videos I feel like I need to take notes, they're always so informational, structured, precise and nuanced, this is like therapy

    • @YochevedDesigns
      @YochevedDesigns Před rokem +31

      I always feel like I'm in the most amazing college course EVER, and she's my favorite professor.

    • @catrein4687
      @catrein4687 Před rokem +12

      right!! especially when you feel like everybody around you care only about small talks and some down to earth stuff, which is okay of course, but you physically crave TO THINK a little

    • @catrein4687
      @catrein4687 Před rokem +17

      @April Showers yeah, clearly *you* think about it too much. Sadly, without any passable logical conclusions, but keep going, I believe in you

    • @AD-ox4ng
      @AD-ox4ng Před rokem +14

      @April Showers it would be great if you would think a bit and realise that it doesn't matter at all whether it's a man or a woman when we're delivered great content. You could just not watch it

    • @sydssolanumsamsys
      @sydssolanumsamsys Před rokem +8

      ​@April Showers you make me sad

  • @bjarkisteinnpetursson9736
    @bjarkisteinnpetursson9736 Před rokem +2143

    I remember reading in some union booklet that labor was “selling your time”. I was horrified by this definition, not because I thought it was wrong, but because it felt so violating. Is my time - my life - something I can just sell to a company? Is it really not worth more than they were willing to pay me? And it occurred to me that at that time, I and most people in the world had nothing to sell but our time. Yet merely surviving, not to mention living a fulfilling life, costs a lot of money. Now tell me any of this is voluntary.

    • @humanistwriting5477
      @humanistwriting5477 Před rokem +130

      As a child, my grandfather made sure to read the histories of Piracy and the West India Trade Company, with details about how profiteering and merchant trade worked. It was an important lesson in his mind.
      And similarly I was horrified when I learned that the privateers buisness models both of the profiteers and the WTC never died, it moved to land and called itself capitalism.
      The labor was always just the mark being stolen from, and profit was always just the yields that the buisness owner person never worked for.
      I have yet to find a reason to call capitalism anything but a Kleptocracy. There is risk to theft, as there is risks to wall street and neither are so dissimilar as to not be identical inside.

    • @TexasFriedCriminal
      @TexasFriedCriminal Před rokem +92

      Yes, that is precisely what it means. All the machines, buildings, places that rich people own and all their toys and pretty things and pointless baubles are the crystalized life-time of other people.

    • @adrianflo6481
      @adrianflo6481 Před rokem +25

      Neurologically speaking it doesnt cost anything but heat. voluntarily? never unless you want to starve. Money? no definitely not. We can argue whether our ancestors lived fulfilling lives or if they only stressed about the impending death but seeing as we are almost identical neurologically id say that there is no reason they wouldnt have been able to. So as long as you want to survive you have to keep the system of life we call a biological entity from collapsing into equilibrium.
      Having a job tends to be the easiest and safest way. But thats culture, not biology.

    • @adrianflo6481
      @adrianflo6481 Před rokem +9

      @@humanistwriting5477 I would love to hear an actual good argument for anarchy. Capitalism best argument is that humanity have never found a good solution to economy but capitalism is by far the better one out of the other, which would be feudalism, monarchy and communisms, which bases their beliefs in owning humans.
      anarchy is definitely not in our genes, and we havent found a single multicelled organism where the different cells work sollely for their own benefit.
      So please enlighten me. Im not a fan of capitalisms and i live in Sweden which is communisms disguised and socialism which isnt much better except i have shorter time to the doctor but i dont get any fun drugs when im there.

    • @humanistwriting5477
      @humanistwriting5477 Před rokem +32

      @@adrianflo6481 you want the argument for anarchy, answer these questions on a peice of paper; what excatly do you think Anarchy is? What excatly do you think communism is? What excatly do you think capitalism is?
      Got it written down? Good now throw that peice of paper away, it's wrong. Your notions are wrong, that is a granted.
      communism is any economic order that is a free market and provides for the needs of the many from the means of the few, that's a quote from Karl Marx.
      Anarchy, is a social order methodology that does not utilize any born or elected hiarchies, kind of like everyone lived under when they did not have warlords ruling them, fpr all of history, im including the United States congress as a body of warlords here. Bear in mind countries are a modern invention, based on medieval misunderstandings on ancient Roman and Greek texts, and in addition the United States is actually the closest to Anarchy that I am personally aware of. This is because the United States constitution was based on the confederacy of the five nations (oft called the Iroquois Confederacy from a mis-translation), an anarchist "nation" of tribes. Nation in quotes as we cannot
      So wait a second here. If tribes naturally form anarchist republic confederations, then it seems natural. Doesn't it?
      Now here is the other thing. A correction for the biggest assumption you are certainly making.
      There has been no evidence for direct barter and trade in any time period, even before money was invented. People just took track of what you contributed.
      Okay; so communism is where people keep track of your contributions and everyone is given equal credit for equal contribution, and everyone is allowed to consume thier needs, but if you have means you are allowed to consume more.
      And your probably thought that was capitalism, I am betting? It's not.
      And anarchy can be described as a democratic republic where all elected officials are *servant* held to the electorate not just by losing thier job but actually held accountable to the electorate. So. The promise and intent of the US constitution, but actual communism because you cannot have a free market without everyone's base needs being met freely. Otherwise all work is coerced to some degree by threat of starvation or freezing to death.
      Now. Does any of this sound terrible strange to you? It probably sounds like your friend group doesn't it?
      There is your argument. Obviously there are some major changes in anarchy, such as rights everyone observes for everyone else instead of laws, but by and large, the good that we have seen has all came from the process of switching to anarchism, and that change is called socialism.

  • @gabriellegoodwin4422
    @gabriellegoodwin4422 Před rokem +3498

    “We’re not at the table because we’re on the menu” wow that’s a horrifying but totally true concept. Thanks Abigail! Finally a perfect way to describe how sexism is more complicated than men hating women, and that it’s so deeply rooted into our culture that we can’t just say it’s gone and wipe our hands of patriarchy.

    • @HorstEwald
      @HorstEwald Před rokem +102

      I haven't watched the video yet and don't know what it's about. So when reading your comment I thought the quote related to capitalism. Which is fitting as well, I think.

    • @gabriellegoodwin4422
      @gabriellegoodwin4422 Před rokem +124

      It’s fitting with really any form of systemic oppression lol it just hit me the hardest with the reference to patriarchy.

    • @ameliecarre4783
      @ameliecarre4783 Před rokem +84

      Sounds a bit like "if it's free then you're the product", right ?

    • @jirivegner3711
      @jirivegner3711 Před rokem +6

      It is also one of the idea behind EU

    • @jonesjermaine4387
      @jonesjermaine4387 Před rokem +3

      That's why I'm gonna find me a girl like Bailey Jay, Annabelle Lane, or Ashley George won't have to deal with this lol

  • @KatrinaTapio
    @KatrinaTapio Před rokem +149

    I love how much fun you're having with all the costumes. It's weird looking back at your older videos, how you're holding back a lot of your personality. I love that you came out as yourself, your videos feel so much less restrained and more real this way. We're all better off for it!

    • @elilovesmetal
      @elilovesmetal Před 6 měsíci +6

      Plus Trixie is am absolute smoke show

  • @clseairsppt
    @clseairsppt Před rokem +355

    The part on women got me as I just heard a commercial on the radio by focus on the family about women needing to put out to their husbands because it’s Gods gift to do so. It was kind of a sick commercial.

    • @nomadicam
      @nomadicam Před rokem +47

      My own dear mom donates to them monthly... And yet she divorced my dad in part because she didn't feel like putting out all the time 🤷‍♀️😂

    • @clseairsppt
      @clseairsppt Před rokem +17

      @@nomadicam well, ok then lol I was really shocked at the commercial. I’ve never heard something like it before.

    • @nomadicam
      @nomadicam Před rokem

      @@clseairsppt real common among the trad wife/ultra conservative crowd. SOOOO glad I escaped!

    • @lizzykayOT7
      @lizzykayOT7 Před rokem +45

      "focus on the Family" is so fucking toxic.

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

      Hurry☝️ You just got yourself something from me, Send me a message above to claim your prize, ✅🎉.
      ...

  • @TheOtakuDude326
    @TheOtakuDude326 Před rokem +5024

    I was so worried about not being able to see the play because I live in the US, but to know it's going to be recorded? Thank you so much! I will absolutely be signing up to watch.

    • @kathryngeeslin9509
      @kathryngeeslin9509 Před rokem +52

      Been thinking about Curiosity Stream and Nebula; you pushed me into actually signing up. Love your work. Love from USA.

    • @Troggie42
      @Troggie42 Před rokem +37

      There really is some cool stuff on there, after seeing the things there, I'd be ok with more than $15/year for it but hey, as long as it's that cheap, go go go go go lmao

    • @julesjoy6499
      @julesjoy6499 Před rokem +24

      Same here but from Australia, excited to see the recording

    • @laurient
      @laurient Před rokem +24

      Same here but from Canada! Will be signing up 😄

    • @andrew23456able
      @andrew23456able Před rokem +4

      ditto

  • @cloudfrost8403
    @cloudfrost8403 Před rokem +468

    I think Franz Kafka's 'The Trial' should be mandatory reading for all public servants, not just police and legislators but also doctors, social workers, and people put there ostensibly to help. I think often about the time my brother got COVID. He called the NHS hotline to report it and they said, get a PCR test. He said "I don't have a car so I can't get to the testing site, so I'm just going to self-isolate for two weeks." They said, "No, you have to get a PCR test. Get a (£60 round-trip) taxi". So he called every single taxi company in the area, and obviously none would take him, but the person on the other end of the phone seemed to only know one thing (which wasn't even accurate): he was required to get a PCR test. It didn't matter to them that this was physically impossible. So they booked him in for one, and he never showed up.

    • @0CryingAngel0
      @0CryingAngel0 Před rokem +40

      In Romania, during the emergency state of things, you could call an ambulance and the public health system always had PCR tests available for those who had no other choice but to wait for the public health system to come at their door (a lot of people were in this situation and the waiting time was either a few hours, or two-three days - depending on demand or on where you lived) but I think it was required for such a plan B system to exist. Are you sure, compared to us, in a "first world country" you did not have such a thing? I kind of doubt it, but then again, I don't live there, so

    • @WhatIsSanity
      @WhatIsSanity Před rokem +5

      My government did the same thing. I was just lucky enough not to get COVID.

    • @Callimo
      @Callimo Před rokem +35

      This is why I was so glad my local government not only set up mobile vans that give on site rapid covid tests, but the federal government also delivered free tests to every household, as well. Sure the US dropped the fricking ball on Covid, but some states actually did a lot better with testing and tracing.

    • @Achrononmaster
      @Achrononmaster Před rokem +35

      Also Kafka's _The Castle_ freaky stuff, when "I am just following the rules" leads to madness. Kafka anticipated neo-liberal tecnocracy rules-based order.

    • @MrDestroyercraft
      @MrDestroyercraft Před rokem +14

      @@0CryingAngel0 you would be so surprised. There's no public health folks to come to our door, and while you could possibly call an ambulance for that purpose an ambulance ride is prohibitively expensive here

  • @Kfroguar
    @Kfroguar Před 5 měsíci +21

    I work in public services in a majority Black and Latino city and MY GOD the Detroit story hits home. So many of the services that are meant to help have a crapton of arbitrary barriers put in place just to minimize the number of cases that actually get processed. Seeing how these services are designed from the inside is a radicalizing experience.

    • @poulhenne
      @poulhenne Před 2 měsíci +2

      The evolution of redlining is very creative. They try really hard to hide the fact that they only want to help a certain type of people (which is mostly the ones with most money)

  • @oscarholloway-downing472
    @oscarholloway-downing472 Před 9 měsíci +23

    "We live - it has been said - in a society. How did that happen?", possibly one of my favourite quotes of this decade. Thank you

  • @Sara-sn5gd
    @Sara-sn5gd Před rokem +1562

    Is it just me, or is Abigail just getting more and more upbeat and energetic in her videos lately? Like it just feels like there is this fountain of energy running underneath each video. It's fantastic!

    • @jospinner1183
      @jospinner1183 Před rokem +138

      I noticed that too! I wonder whether it's because of her excitement over her play being produced. She seemed almost to be bursting out of her skin when she discussed the play at the end. So joyful!

    • @DBCooper01
      @DBCooper01 Před rokem +126

      Probably getting more and more comfortable being herself I'd imagine

    • @darkshadowrule2952
      @darkshadowrule2952 Před rokem +76

      I haven't watched in a while, and maybe its just because she's not doing a character in this one, but she seems so much more comfortable in her own skin than the last I saw her

    • @saturationstation1446
      @saturationstation1446 Před rokem +5

      coke? lol

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable Před rokem +22

      Glad she seems happy, I hope she is off camera

  • @xymaryai8283
    @xymaryai8283 Před rokem +703

    this reminds me of the active shooter case that police said they had no duty to manage. sure, they didn't break any laws, but they did fundamentally break the social contract of "murder is illegal but your right to live is protected"
    if society doesn't provide protection from those breaching the contract, no wonder people feel scared and empty.

    • @redwitch95
      @redwitch95 Před rokem +97

      Not to mention the social contract of "the police will protect you from violence", although I'm aware that's under a lot of strain in the US anyway

    • @maxwellmills4825
      @maxwellmills4825 Před rokem +21

      @@redwitch95 the police will protect who from violence? And what is violence?

    • @davidegaruti2582
      @davidegaruti2582 Před rokem +19

      Yeah , when rules are breached in your disadvantage it really sucks ,
      It just feels unfair ,
      And kinda makes you want to break those rules since , is everyone else following those ? Maybe i tought differently ?
      But at the same time it's hard to do since , you're just being like the pepolebthat hurt you

    • @josephineparsons78
      @josephineparsons78 Před rokem +27

      @@maxwellmills4825 not allot but it seems to be agreed that at the very least the police are supposed to use violence to stop like an act of greater more damaging violence

    • @bosstowndynamics5488
      @bosstowndynamics5488 Před rokem +15

      @@maxwellmills4825 That needs to be well defined to defend police as an institution but not to criticise them via social construct theory, because the criticism already specifies a threat and expected protection (active shooter, police should stop the shooter).

  • @AlyssitGoods
    @AlyssitGoods Před rokem +81

    The absolute glow in your entire being when you were talking about The Prince is absolutely infectious. I couldn’t help but smile myself seeing that level of happiness.

  • @shivanshiasthana
    @shivanshiasthana Před rokem +74

    Super proud upon realizing I have reviewed every single source Abigail cited for my master's thesis 4 years ago. :) Specially works of Pateman and Mills!. Brilliant work as always, lady!

    • @GentlemanOfFate
      @GentlemanOfFate Před rokem +1

      Wow, that's really interesting! I understand it's been awhile since you've posted, but still, could you please share your thesis? I've grown attracted to this topic lately so much that any mindful discussion is very welcome

  • @river8783
    @river8783 Před rokem +2658

    I remember reading data that, in cis straight marriages, when wives become seriously ill, their husbands are much more likely to want a divorce than if the roles are reversed. Because then the wife is a burden that isn't serving the husband or his interests. Really reinforces the idea not only is there a menu, but there are social consequences of becoming an unappealing menu item.

    • @saoirsecdoherty
      @saoirsecdoherty Před rokem +333

      So much for "In sickness and in health"...

    • @doggo6517
      @doggo6517 Před rokem +83

      Marriage is ouroboros - the same thing happens if a husband loses his job or his wife starts making more than him.

    • @xw591
      @xw591 Před rokem +228

      @@doggo6517 the sexual contract isn't a two-way thing. The consequences for women not being on the menu is far greater than the diner not being at the table

    • @TheEwqua
      @TheEwqua Před rokem +4

      Also, I read the statistics somewhere that men are the most likely to cheat when the woman is pregnant. Because she isn't on the table, or she is but she might not be as desirable because of the pregnancy. Imagine carrying someone's baby, the immense strain your body and mind go through, and all he thinks about is wetting his dick to the point he breaks the marriage vows. As a cis straight woman that's really scary to think about. Plus, after that, there's the horrifying practice of the "husband stitch" (ie. when stitching up the vagina after birth, the doctor, after consulting the husband, makes an extra stitch to make the opening tighter, and yes it is still done today) where they violate your bodily autonomy and possibly cause you lots of discomfort and pain, all for the man's sexual pleasure. It's like the hierarchy is men, men's dicks, then women. It's infuriating to think this is happening in fucking 2022.

    • @zkcrisyee
      @zkcrisyee Před rokem +172

      I find the ideas in “the sexual contract” fascinating and thought provoking, but as Abigail said, there are plenty of flaws that have not yet been addressed. Yes, women are disproportionately affected in pervasive sociological and psychological patterns that delve deeper than the tip of the iceberg “social contract” we see openly talked about. However, to state that every single situation is the result of “women being on the menu” and “diners exploiting women” and insisting it is a rigid, unchangeable fact of life and society… is not only fatalistic, but also really reductionist and dogmatic. In a sense, as Abigail said, it is hypocritical to denounce the social order and social contract for its exclusion of deeper and more complex issues regarding women’s condition in society at large and in their personal lives, as well overly generalizing and, in and of itself, erecting an incredibly narrow minded and dogmatic system which “cases” women as victims of every possible scenario and social situations they are placed into.
      It excludes lesbians relationships as a possibility, hence the ideas behind the sexual contract are extremely heteronormative. In that case, who would be the “menu” and who would be the “diner”? Also, if a woman is the one sexualizing (thus necessarily objectifying to some degree) her partner who happens to be a woman, is it still patriarchal and degrading for the woman being sexualized in the relationship? Don’t all relationships need some degree of sexuality and/or intimacy to function properly?
      Also, on the topic of men as your comment said: can’t there be heterosexual men who do engage in sexualizing their partner from time to time, in their private life, with their consent, and practice intimacy with their female partner… yet they can understand the notions of respecting the integrity, individuality and freedom of their partner in their everyday public and private social life outside of moments of intimacy in the relationship? There are plenty of problems in society right now and education making that boys are not raised properly to understand respect and boundaries regarding women, but trying to perpetuate the myth that “all men will turn into oppressive and degrading, violent individuals who will enslave and disrespect women” is… not helping women, nor the feminist cause. Those kind of fatalistic arguments are based on depressive/like thinking, pessimism and flat out biological determinism, which is ironic considering that type of “delineation of gender roles in society according to some proponents of a false biological determinism” is EXACTLY what the sexual contract is trying to dismantle and counter, since it would just oppress women further in society.
      And gay men exist, with their whole lot of issues as well, feminine guys tend to be abused and discriminated against just as much as women in certain gay communities and inner circles. Even Oscar Wilde talked about it centuries ago. The notions of femininity and the attacks on it many members of society are programmed to manifest towards it in an unconscious manner… can go beyond being exclusive to a particular gender, in certain cases.
      A more open-minded and far reaching elaboration on the “Sexual Contract” could have the potential of being a groundbreaking study on the feminine condition in modern societies, as well as sociological and psychological phenomena that lead some groups of people to systematically devalue individuals which exhibit femininity. Also it could touch on lesbian erasure in media, gay men and femininity being oftentimes ostracized in the LGBTQ community, how young girls are programmed to be subservient and oftentimes self/harming in unhealthy behavioural patterns from their youngest age, and the problem does not only lie on the education of just boys/young men (which is incredibly important as well, not denying that). Restricting the idea of the defintion of a women to “victimhood” or “infantilism” is extremely harmful in itself for girls and women, since it causes epistemological changes in thinking which can lead to acting out those said “programs” or archetypes which aren’t always healthy. Empowering young girls and women, and at the same thing better teaching young boys/men about the importance of respect, consent and integrity of women in society AND at home in their private lives… both of those are key to making the world a better place for girls and women in general.

  • @SSj5Bob
    @SSj5Bob Před rokem +825

    This feels like a bit of a return to a slightly older style but with updated flare and production value that I have to say I'm a big fan of. Enjoyed this one, always looking forward to whatever comes next.

    • @PhilosophyTube
      @PhilosophyTube  Před rokem +426

      Good, that's exactly what I was going for!

    • @jospinner1183
      @jospinner1183 Před rokem +17

      @@PhilosophyTube I loved the inclusion of Anansi for the reading of the piece on the Detroit water shutoffs. I love their voice so, so much!

    • @SebastianLopez-nh1rr
      @SebastianLopez-nh1rr Před rokem +1

      Agree! Very exciting

    • @leorevolt9865
      @leorevolt9865 Před rokem +14

      I'd love a return to old subjects like this one. Marx and private property revisited would be great.

    • @jonesjermaine4387
      @jonesjermaine4387 Před rokem +3

      Agreed, I've been reading Tropic of Cancer except I like to pretend the character Van Norden is like a Bailey Jay, mite write my own book think I'll call it "Beyond the Valley of Penises"

  • @KenKitchen
    @KenKitchen Před rokem +195

    I was interested in the topic so I watched. You did an exceptional job, so I subscribed. I loved how you blended artistry and information. I hope you'll continue your work here.

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

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  • @IvoryDragonfly
    @IvoryDragonfly Před rokem +21

    People have no idea where my husband and I fall in terms of social equity. I’m a culinary professional. When I became a stay at home husband after our marriage, I was treated very strangely. When alone, I have the privileges of a man, but when we’re together in expectant heterosexual company, I am clearly relegated to the “successful persons spouse” role and not much more. In those situations my words carry no weight, and people feel they have the right to ignore me.
    Unfortunately for them, I have a vengeful streak, and fortunately for me, husband will gladly say “you had this coming,” to those who would appeal to him what I did after the fact. When THAT happens it suddenly becomes a 50/50 toss up between being the “crazy spouse” and “scary big man with sudden authority.” I never know what to expect next.

  • @worstcyberpunkdystopia2188
    @worstcyberpunkdystopia2188 Před rokem +342

    The highest praise I can think of for this show in particular is that I feel like I learned something, and don't come away from it feeling completely dumpster'd by the world.

    • @captainiceberg8637
      @captainiceberg8637 Před rokem

      She's a fed. Relieved UK government funding to pish their narrative

  • @andyt7295
    @andyt7295 Před rokem +1305

    Today's political climate is being shaped by the almost universal feeling of social contracts being broken: on the conservative side of the spectrum, it's more about making them "work again" while on the progressive side the fight seems to be more focused on challenging, re-writing and in some cases abolishing them.
    You can see this in action when it comes to the rise of the Manosphere: most men in those circles don't challenge the requirements patriarchy imposes on them (being the provider, possibly fighting in wars, etc.), they just feel that nowadays they aren't getting their "natural" reward (i.e. a submissive tradwife) anymore.
    On the contrary, men in progressive spaces are trying to reform and/or deconstruct their traditional role altogether.
    On a totally unrelated note, congrats Abigail, I'm sure this new project of yours is going to be great!

    • @mistressofstones
      @mistressofstones Před rokem +193

      I have studied the manosphere and it is rather shocking that the contract with men (in the eyes of conservative men) is that their payment to defend the state is basically the opportunity to abuse a woman. They may not chose to abuse a woman perhaps, but they want to feel they have the opportunity should they choose to do so. They justify it basically by saying that it is "natural" that women should give them subordination and that it is best for us actually for us to be subordinate, and women are too dumb and broken by feminism to understand it and they should fight the system to fix the current status quo. And when I contemplate the situation I realise that asking men to be prepared to die for the state is a huge imposition (obviously) and their desire for the state to give something in return is pretty normal. We must remove that imposition from men as a class and apply it across people fairly. I now realise why from the 1970s feminism has fought this and why the establishment has fought including women in combat, there is a resistance to change this social contract.

    • @andyt7295
      @andyt7295 Před rokem +155

      @@mistressofstones You're 100% right, and I cannot understand how so many men can see working to death or dying in a trench as totally fine as long as they get to "receive" another human being they can enslave, just like they are enslaved by the State or by their employer.

    • @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
      @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos Před rokem +13

      What an excellent observation...

    • @DianaAmericaRivero
      @DianaAmericaRivero Před rokem +2

      "Broken social contract" is a sentiment shared on the left as well. Like how the left-of-center party keeps telling us to "go out and vote!" while they do absolutely nothing to make sure our votes mean something. Or, "no deprivation of life, liberty, or property without due process...unless you're a woman/afab person of reproductive age or trans. Then the State can absolutely tell you what to do with your body."

    • @andyt7295
      @andyt7295 Před rokem +60

      @@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos I think many people see this, in many different ways: another example is capitalism, with most right-wingers thinking it can be "fixed" by undoing globalization, whereas leftists reject it altogether.

  • @throughcolouredglasses9300

    I am just discovering this channel now and am blown away how seamless you manage to connect all the islands and isolated chunks of knowledge I have gathered and forgotten over the course of my education. I have been really interested in sociology, particularly capitalism, patriarchy and queer themes recently in university. I have never found access to history though, as memorization never came to me naturally, and i notice this deficit a lot these days in my literature degree. I am thorougly blown away by how effortless you make the connections between history, philosophy and sociology / cultural studies seem here. This even reactivated some long forgotten memories of when i took 9th and 10th grade philosophy classes (a decade ago!) and had to learn about all these french social contract guys while questioning every week why I was even doing this to myself. Well TURNS OUT now i finally understand the payoff!
    Thank you so much. I am in awe of your work, and hope one day I will get to write papers as eloquently as you do your videos.

  • @sviatoslaviigorevich7360
    @sviatoslaviigorevich7360 Před rokem +68

    I love everything about this video. As a lifelong Michigander, it's good to see that even people across the pond can realize the situation with the major cities in this state. Flint isn't much better, and don't even get me started on the environmental disasters. I mean the Kalamazoo river has been the site of major disasters and we even managed to catch Lake Erie on fire a few decades ago.

    • @guestuser1052
      @guestuser1052 Před rokem +2

      lake michigan as well if i'm not mistaken

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

      Hurry☝️ You just got yourself something from me, Send me a message above to claim your prize, ✅🎉.
      ...

    • @marcog.verbruggen674
      @marcog.verbruggen674 Před rokem +3

      I'm sorry, I know this is a months old comment with a serious point on a serious topic
      But you have a river called Kalamazoo? I'm fucking crying here xD

    • @mollusckscramp4124
      @mollusckscramp4124 Před rokem +1

      @@marcog.verbruggen674 Yeah it sounds like something out of The Jungle Book, which to think something that magical has been the site of consistent ecological disaster is somehow even more upsetting to hear about

    • @noorzanayasmin7806
      @noorzanayasmin7806 Před 6 měsíci

      Yes, I migrated to Detroit and it hits close to home to me. Detroit is fucked thousand ways. Then I heard what happened in Flint and I was shocked. And then Kalamazoo and other places with Lead, disgusting

  • @IntervencionesGringas
    @IntervencionesGringas Před rokem +1099

    If you watch with the captions you can get Abi's interpretations of the music choices, it really adds an extra level of enjoyment

    • @JonMaier
      @JonMaier Před rokem +74

      I was quite enjoying "Music like - boop bop bop boop" lol

    • @twinny_mi
      @twinny_mi Před rokem +53

      I love the captions, I don't know about you, but even though they're more for people who are hard-of-hearing I find it easier to pay attention when I'm hearing and reading the words and I get more out of it. Which also includes moments like that lol

    • @Breezefox
      @Breezefox Před rokem +17

      There's always post-video commentary in the captions as well; if, for whatever reason, I'm watching the video without them, I'll turn them on for the credits. I'd recommend that at minimum, especially for people who really dislike captions.

    • @mattbox87
      @mattbox87 Před rokem +16

      @@twinny_mi IKR I love captions. Sometimes I've got the kettle on the boil, or a bunch of whatever stir-frying, and when lovely folks like Abigail take the time to put in worthy captions it steals my heart.

    • @7RicolmE7
      @7RicolmE7 Před rokem +3

      Fred que haces aqui?!

  • @Poutnicek
    @Poutnicek Před rokem +152

    Carole Pateman, writing her book in 1988: "Ya'll be re-shaping the natural state theory to excuse whatever BS you were already thinking"
    Abigail, texting back via bloody pentagram with a glitter gel pen: "No, u" ♥

    • @abigailhancher2999
      @abigailhancher2999 Před rokem +20

      When I got to the part of the video where she reveals that Pateman says transphobic stuff in her book, I literally said out loud, "A second wave feminist is transphobic--shocker!"

    • @epistte
      @epistte Před rokem +1

      A philosopher's retirement is.......drinking hemlock. Bravo. I took a course in human sexuality in 1988 and was still in the closet. I wouldn't start my transition for another 3 years, but I was still supportive of trans rights, even if I wasn't ready to publically admit that I was trans myself.,

  • @vshcvsh98
    @vshcvsh98 Před rokem +37

    Oh my goodness, Abigail!! I have been a long time viewer now, proud to say I was one of your first hundred thousand subscribers. ❤🎉 I must say, it has been really cool to see your trans journey. I haven’t seen your channel for many months now, the change is huge, you look immaculate. You somehow managed to become even more beautiful! I really appreciate your vulnerability in all of this, it really has taught me a lot about the trans community! I’m so glad to see that you’re still shining friend and i'm super proud of you! I cant believe you wrote a play this is so cool! I cannot wait to watch it!🥰

    • @PhilosophyTube
      @PhilosophyTube  Před rokem +8

      Omg thank you so much for sticking around all this time!

  • @JenStStjarna
    @JenStStjarna Před rokem +14

    I love you! It hurts my heart to think of any woman or person trying to make you feel you aren’t “woman enough.” It happens to all of us. Women can be mean to each other. You are AMAZING and AUTHENTIC.

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

      Hurry☝️ You just got yourself something from me, Send me a message above to claim your prize, ✅🎉
      ...

  • @chcknpie04
    @chcknpie04 Před rokem +740

    The first couple chapters of David Graber‘s “the Dawn of everything” addresses the origins of social contract theory and takes a critical look at the idea of “the state of nature.“ A TLDR, at least for that chapter, is that history is much more nuanced and doesn’t make for a good straightforward narrative. Every group of our Paleolithic and Neolithic ancestors experimented endlessly with different forms of social construction and politics. It doesn’t conform to either Rousseau‘s idea of the noble savage and the corrosive effect of society, or Hobbes’ primitive state of man.

    • @toosolidcuuj
      @toosolidcuuj Před rokem +24

      I just started reading that same book and was thinking the same thing

    • @pondcurtis9725
      @pondcurtis9725 Před rokem +22

      I'm about a quarter into this book and love it so far. I highly recommend his "Toward an Anthropological Theory of Value: The False Coin of out Own Dreams"

    • @BadAstra
      @BadAstra Před rokem +62

      Almost like philosophers just making stuff up without archeological evidence should be taken as figurative rather than literal.

    • @kkounal974
      @kkounal974 Před rokem +15

      From what i have seen it's not the best of Graber's, because a lot of other anthropologists seem to disagree with it a lot. That being said though, it's true that people really do think that their circumstances are a lot more "natural" and therefore implied to be unchangeable, than they actually are.

    • @brenden9952
      @brenden9952 Před rokem +51

      @@BadAstra Rousseau and Hobbes had such a profound impact on political thought in their times though that it basically cemented their thought experiments as interpretations of actual human nature. That was not their intentions; but for those who wish to utilize their arguments to say something ~about human nature specifically~ to justify certain kinds of political systems, they form useful pillars to lean on for those "arguments".
      In other words, those who like authoritarian systems of control find Hobbes and Rousseau (and Locke) useful thinkers to justify their authoritarian rule. "We must use the boot to keep you in line! Do you want to live like savages in a violent state of nature instead?"
      What a shame.

  • @8draco8
    @8draco8 Před rokem +496

    Am I the only one that's excited not only about the content of upcoming video but probably even more about the outfits we will see?

    • @tom-0ton408
      @tom-0ton408 Před rokem +16

      She always amazes me with the outfits and makeup each new episode.

    • @overhauledunderpaid6469
      @overhauledunderpaid6469 Před rokem

      Kinda sus why you creepin on her like that?

    • @federicobonacorso138
      @federicobonacorso138 Před rokem

      She has been turning it

    • @8draco8
      @8draco8 Před rokem +18

      @@overhauledunderpaid6469 not creepin, her outfits and makeups are absolutely stunning. I just appreciate the effort since let's face it she could just record a podcast and it would contain the same amount of information. The visual aspect is a cherry on top of great content

    • @cosmicwakes6443
      @cosmicwakes6443 Před rokem

      @@overhauledunderpaid6469 What a stupid thing to say.

  • @aeternumiudexem
    @aeternumiudexem Před rokem +28

    Im taking a required government class right now and the lessons are just obsessed with the social contract! This video really helped to open my eyes to the fact that the social contract isn't really all that big and flashy- if that makes any sense.

  • @thegoddessdianaxoxo
    @thegoddessdianaxoxo Před 11 měsíci +6

    I absolutely adore how every one of your videos is like a scholarly research paper, where the citations appear at the top of the screen and it is all done in a fun, memorable and sexy way. Keep up the phenomenal work!

  • @xarvh
    @xarvh Před rokem +397

    For what is worth, I used to be in the "pick-up artist" community and to harass women pretty much in the way you describe.
    Part of me didn't see that what I was doing was wrong.
    Part of me didn't *want* to see it.
    Part of me just decided not to care.
    Then, thanks to some very patient people, I started to understand how privilege works, and everything broke down.
    I realized I had to change. A lot.
    Thank you for the videos Abigail, you made me appreciate philosophy.
    I'll be looking forward to see your show on Nebula.
    EDIT: ehm... I appreciate the positive comments, I get where they come from, but I feel like people are thanking me for stopping to behave like an asshole, and it's making me a bit uneasy.
    The only thing I wanted to bring with my comment, is that people and the culture that makes us can change, it's worth pushing in that direction and all your efforts are far from in vain, even if at the beginning you can't see that.

    • @jospinner1183
      @jospinner1183 Před rokem +20

      Bless you for being able to escape the PUA cult. It can be really challenging for so many people!

    • @jonesjermaine4387
      @jonesjermaine4387 Před rokem

      I feel ya bro, I had a transgender coworker we worked at a Tacobell and he/she would jizz in the sourcream called it "jizzzam" I suggested they call it "cumshot"

    • @Maialeen
      @Maialeen Před rokem +28

      Stop thanking and blessing men for the bare minimum of human decency, for fcks sake

    • @Frosted_Moontips
      @Frosted_Moontips Před rokem +11

      @@Maialeen On one hand I'd agree with ya, on the other hand you obviously don't understand that every person is different and some ppl might struggle more with certain issues...

    • @xarvh
      @xarvh Před rokem +9

      ​@@Maialeen Yes.
      Urgh. I'm adding this to my comment. Thank you for pushing me.

  • @YukiteruAmano92
    @YukiteruAmano92 Před rokem +200

    Trixie Mephistopheles is my new favourite addition to the Philosophy Tube Pantheon! I really hope we see her again!

  • @NexusSpacey
    @NexusSpacey Před rokem +6

    Watched through a LOT of the channel recently and i have to say that out of all of the thumbnails THIS is the best one.
    Also love your videos they've somehow kept me sane while stuck at home due to Illness the past 8 weeks and counting

  • @loorthedarkelf8353
    @loorthedarkelf8353 Před rokem +38

    Back again after the release of The Prince. Congratulations to AWARD WINNING ACTRESS AND WRITER Abigail Thorne!!! It has been AMAZING watching your work over the last 4/5 years, and HOLY BALLZ ITS BEEN A FUCKIN RIDE! And as I've oft been told, a broadly led life is the true catalyst of the creative soul. Experience and empathy channeled back out of the mind anf projected into reality for others to see, hear, feel, empathize, and know there's another PERSON outsider of them.
    That's art.
    I can't believe I got to see it all happen. Thank you for sharing your work with us over all this time.

  • @alexissandren1884
    @alexissandren1884 Před rokem +140

    As a Swedish comic-writer put it about leaving the social contract:
    "But I live in a hut in the forest and survives on crows and pine cones!"
    "The state doesn't care. You're content with your existens, and therefore you can be taxed."

    • @orsolyafekete7485
      @orsolyafekete7485 Před rokem +81

      That's so good! I get so pissed when people go like "If you don't like how society works, go live in the woods" Babe, I would like nothing more than gather a bunch of friends and start a commune, but even if we managed to come together in a way that we have all the necessary skills among us that we could be self-sufficient, wanna bet how long would it take for a bunch of cops to show up and dismantle the whole thing?

    • @aight_bhai
      @aight_bhai Před rokem +5

      a link to the original comic would be wonderful!!

    • @sharonoddlyenough
      @sharonoddlyenough Před rokem +4

      Could you post the name of the comic-writer? Jag gillar svensk comedier.

    • @Maynard0504
      @Maynard0504 Před rokem

      ​@@orsolyafekete7485 the cops dont have to show up your commune will fail. there are dozens of documentaries about such communes created by hippies. there are zero left today.
      what you forget is that skills are secondary to resources. if you dont have penicilin your friend with a medical degree might as well be a plumber.

    • @alexissandren1884
      @alexissandren1884 Před rokem

      @@aight_bhai tried to find it but the writers has been going on for decades and there are no online database. :(

  • @ShackledFreely
    @ShackledFreely Před rokem +425

    I've lived near Detroit my entire life and people have been fighting for the most basic human rights and fair treatment as long as I can remember. I'm very glad you covered it, would have been interesting to talk about how after the homes were stolen, they were sold to wealthy white folks for pennies on the dollar (There were full homes you could buy for $1000 and up in historic districts) and large swaths of the city were massively gentrified. Instead of helping her citizens who needed help, they tried to rinse the city with dirty money to "bring life back to the city". You could probably do an entire series on Detroit and the things that have been done to her people...Anyway, loved the show and looking forward to the play! Congrats, Abigail! And BREAK A LEG!!!!!

    • @Elonyx.studios
      @Elonyx.studios Před rokem +14

      Fucking christ why isnt there more attention to this IN GENERAL??

    • @CraftyVegan
      @CraftyVegan Před rokem +4

      Hey! I lived in Keego Harbor for quite some time… and yeah… I’m well aware of the situation… to this day I will actively shame those predatory property buyers when they call and get me as a wrong number. I don’t yell too hard, because the ones calling are just doing so to pay bills, but I definitely don’t shy away from letting them know the consequences of their actions when they succeed in making a deal for the corporations they work for to buy these peoples’ houses, including making it nearly impossible for themselves to have access to buying their own home someday.

    • @somexp12
      @somexp12 Před rokem

      Yes, justice requires that Detroit public services be funded by outsiders who have nothing to do with Detroit.
      Sheesh, if you think an 82% black city is catering to white investors, I don't know what to tell you. The city is just looking for money because the residents don't produce enough to satisfy their own needs. They can either try to start new industries or they can attempt to attract a tax base that'll support the rest of the city. What Detroit can't do is "help her citizens" simply by force of will. If they could do that, that 82% would've made sure they did.

    • @hiwelcometochillis2579
      @hiwelcometochillis2579 Před rokem

      My cousins used to live in Detroit and the whole neighborhood started selling after the pandemic and drug influence of fentanyl
      All neighbors sold their homes at higher price they buy it (that's good for them) but it's crazy people are saying is because someone stole their houses or higher the prices because of skin color...
      When all neighbors were black and they raised the price themselves

    • @hiwelcometochillis2579
      @hiwelcometochillis2579 Před rokem

      And is good black neighborhoods raise their prices because that way they ended up richer, in Europe they fix property prices and people don't buy homes and thats bad because they depends on politicians and politics ( if they rise rent)
      Sadly left politics need people to rent... That way they control votes in Europe, in America it's different because property are from people, in Europe property is technically owned by European union system and royals, America is more freedom of ownership

  • @lydiasteinebendiksen4269

    I love how the dictionary is now a recurring character. Refusing to follow the normal rules of essay writing is amazing, keep it up!

  • @Rinah
    @Rinah Před rokem +13

    Hi Abigail!
    I just discovered your channel and I think I`m in love! I`m 22 years old and recently I started reading classical literature, taking interst in politics, but I have never imagined that philosophy would stole my heart! Your knowledge, way of speaking, confidence, and even sassiness in your jokes- I love all of it! You inspire me to read more and expand my knowledge.
    Thank you so much!
    Btw congratulations on your show! I hope it was amazing experience and a dream come true :D

  • @blablablair1
    @blablablair1 Před rokem +202

    "If you don't have a seat at the table, then you're what's on the menu." Brilliant analogy, and chillingly correct. Loved the video as always

    • @LisaBeergutHolst
      @LisaBeergutHolst Před rokem +3

      I guess the last option is to make the act of eating a fatal one lmao

    • @dutchdykefinger
      @dutchdykefinger Před rokem +3

      the fact that that is deemed brilliant, says a lot about the zero sum mentality of people here lol

    • @LisaBeergutHolst
      @LisaBeergutHolst Před rokem

      @@dutchdykefinger OK bootlicker

    • @vys_seel
      @vys_seel Před rokem +22

      @@dutchdykefinger the fact that a provocative statement provoking someone/s to think in a way they had not before causes you to judge a whole viewership says more about you than those who are allowing themselves to be challenged. Your statement gives off the odor of having already found a higher intellectual field to stand in when in reality you have hit an intellectual ceiling by scoffing at others journeys.

    • @cockycookie1
      @cockycookie1 Před rokem +1

      Or you're standing next to it, starving?

  • @ilikemaline
    @ilikemaline Před rokem +660

    I have been sexually harassed since I was about 13 years old (by boys my age and grown men who tended to be very touchy) and now in my 30s I have finally seen the situation more objectively and how it has affected me so deeply. I never even thought about speaking against it because it happened all the time, for as long as I could remember. Men just came up to me and started commenting on my looks no matter what I was doing or where I was. When I was a child no adult ever spoke up against it and other women tend to get jealous so nobody really stands up for you, people just laugh at your anger and protests. It took me a long time to learn that I am/was still trying to please the male gaze, that I do not need to please men and that that does not define me, my worth or me as a woman and human being. It's been a hell of a ride.
    Great video Abigail, I love your work.

    • @fify1988
      @fify1988 Před rokem +18

      I admire your strength ❤️ I am working on the same path, and it's difficult.

    • @mmaxine1331
      @mmaxine1331 Před rokem

      about a week ago here in China, a girl was molested in a public resteraunt and she resisted, then the man along with other 8 man started beating and kicking and stump her and her friends, they were then dragged onto the street and continue to be beaten and head being smashed by beer bottles continued for more than 8 minutes i uploaded the video on my channel the it was taken down for being to violent and gory, all chinese media are state owned so its been hushed out, claiming they only had some broken teeth, but in reality they're likely dead, won't even survived that nigh, because we saw how brutally they were attacked on surveillance camera, this is quite common here in China, I was beaten by parents and teachers when i was small and it was encourged by our society, and molested by old man on buses on my way back home from school.the abuse targetting woman is so common here in China, and that's what made me a feminist

    • @ReverendDr.Thomas
      @ReverendDr.Thomas Před rokem +1

      Do you think those men would have approached you if you had been residing in a country in which dharma was practised (assuming you understand what is "DHARMA")?

    • @Nopenopenope6969
      @Nopenopenope6969 Před rokem +71

      @@ReverendDr.Thomas There are predators in every single corner of the world.

    • @maschaorsomething
      @maschaorsomething Před rokem +50

      @@ReverendDr.Thomas Of course. There is not one place in the world that is free from this. Not even religious institutes or institutes for children.

  • @BobFromFukataney
    @BobFromFukataney Před rokem +2

    your genuine excitement at the end was so god damn wholesome! Great video as always

  • @av3stube480
    @av3stube480 Před rokem +5

    The sheer joy in Abigail's voice when she's describing the play she wrote is so cute. Love that in you!
    Good luck!
    In your future ventures, I guess.

  • @WAMTAT
    @WAMTAT Před rokem +59

    "Is that incense?"
    "No its weed, I swear!"
    Absolutely lost it. Great video.

  • @glosstial
    @glosstial Před rokem +199

    love love LOVE the fact that you used Detroit as an example for social contract. I love my home city, and I would go to bat for everybody in it. I watched the housing crisis affect everybody in my Latino community directly, and how the water crisis affected the Black community. Social contract is a really interesting theory that somehow makes me feel more radicalized in this political climate.

    • @leam1978
      @leam1978 Před rokem +5

      it's one of the few examples of videos on the platform that isn't straight up poverty tourism or reactionary propaganda. much of my family is still back there and i'm glad for these videos encouraging solidarity

  • @jemma5610
    @jemma5610 Před rokem +44

    I have to say I am a little bit in love with you! I've recently discovered your content and binged most of the channel. I am so interested in philospophy and really should have gone into it acedemically. I did performing arts in uni but my final project was a performative presentation on Marlene Dietrich, feminism and sexuality through the lense of my own self. Your videos remind me so much of that, performative presentations on philiosphy. You are so smart, funny and stunningly beautiful. I never leave youtube comments but had to get that out. Much love.

  • @GiddyThis
    @GiddyThis Před rokem

    Had to hit the bell because videos werent showing in my feed. Glad I came back to look up what you've been sharing. 👍👍

    • @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives
      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

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  • @TheGerkuman
    @TheGerkuman Před rokem +367

    This was really good! And congrats on the big announcement!
    Fun Footnote: The reason they could get away with putting William of Orange on the throne is that his wife, Mary, was the protestant daughter of James II that Abigail mentioned. Parliament asked her to come over and be Queen, and her only wish was that William would be co-monarch with her. This means that William and Mary were the only joint-monarchs in English history, which is pretty interesting.

    • @stevenredpath9332
      @stevenredpath9332 Před rokem +12

      A polite political fiction that doesn’t make up for the fact that a Dutch army occupied London for years. The Dutch are certainly aware that they invaded here.

  • @kixiqu
    @kixiqu Před rokem +256

    my mom's parents raised her as such a liberal that she thought as a child that when she turned 18 she'd be signing a copy of the social contract

    • @youtubeuniversity3638
      @youtubeuniversity3638 Před rokem +29

      So *literally* and *actually* agreeing to the terms and conditions of existence.

    • @globalist1990
      @globalist1990 Před rokem +3

      It’s funny that many tribes used to have rituals into “social adulthood”.

    • @mgntstr
      @mgntstr Před rokem

      @@globalist1990 It's not funny it's very serious rite of passage, predominantly it consists of the task of providing food for the tribe.
      A boy becomes a man when he can provide food for a family to grow. Is a very common trope in the indigenous tribes isolated from western modernity.

    • @globalist1990
      @globalist1990 Před rokem

      @@mgntstr i bet it has been a thing to most societies. You just need to go back in time a bit. From my perspective, there’s nothing serious about it, it’s funny.

    • @mgntstr
      @mgntstr Před rokem

      @@globalist1990 No need to time travel, tribes still live like this in 2022 they starve and die if no new hunters are raised.

  • @marcusviniciuscristo3551

    The subtitles when music comes on are sooooo good!

  • @coocoointhebrains
    @coocoointhebrains Před 2 měsíci

    this is my first video of this channel and i loved everything about it, there's research behind every statement everything is extremely well explained and it's well categorized to understand the whole concept, thank youuuu philosophy tube, will definitely watch more of your channel

  • @divisionisfakenews197
    @divisionisfakenews197 Před rokem +369

    This is really interesting because the "hike the property taxes and seize everyone's stuff" thing nearly happened up in Penfield about a month ago. Similar story: Town of Penfield sends out property adjusters to reassess everyone's property taxes, people's taxes doubled. However, the residents were able to put a stop to it. There are some important differences though: Penfield is mostly white, relatively wealthy, and it's a pretty small town where everyone knows everyone. I think that the residents being white made them more sympathetic and they managed to hijack multiple town council meetings to demand change. It should be noted that the local news media is mostly based in the City of Rochester, which is home to a higher percentage of black and Hispanic people than Penfield is. The media sold it as "look at the rampaging town government going after innocent homeowners", which didn't seem to be as much the case in the initial coverage of the Detroit, where the media seemed to blame the black homeowners for their own misfortune.

    • @kobasaking
      @kobasaking Před rokem +7

      I’m super curious how race plays into this. The mayor and majority of Detroit city council were Black in 2009.

    • @feifeicuttie
      @feifeicuttie Před rokem +5

      @@kobasaking The only color some people see is green.

    • @divisionisfakenews197
      @divisionisfakenews197 Před rokem +12

      @@kobasaking This is kind of long, so strap in. Back in 1968, there was a major race riot in City of Rochester which prompted a lot of white flight out of the city center into the surrounding satellite towns. Many of the wealthier white people (a lot of whom are former Kodak/Xerox employees and retired RIT/UofR faculty) moved to Penfield. Since 1968, the area has gentrified and is considered one of the nicest places to live in Monroe county. Many of the poorer residents of color (mostly Black and Puerto Rican) had to live in the city because the rents are lower there and it's seen as a less nice place to live. There is a reason why City of Rochester and Monroe county are seen as one of the most segregated places in the US. Fast forward to now. To give you some idea of how the City of Rochester is doing: former Mayor Lovely Warren was arrested on felony campaign finance violations, her husband is likely going to prison for selling cocaine out of their home, the interim mayor almost couldn't get sworn in because he caught covid, and the police department have decided they hate the new mayor and are painting the city as a dangerous hellscape [it really isn't]. Also, the SEC is investigating the city council because of some alleged financial shenanigans. And while this is bad, the media has definitely jumped on the "Rochester City is unimaginably dangerous" line. Penfield being majority white and wealthy and not having all of this turmoil were painted as these innocent little dears that didn't deserve it, especially contrasted with the city, where the local media is based.

    • @jordanm2936
      @jordanm2936 Před rokem +4

      Oh wow. I live in that area and didn’t even know this happened. Gotta read up on that for sure. This town is definitely mainly white, my high school was about 90%, and during the trump era we had a mock election and he won which is ..... unfortunate to say the least and incredibly telling to say the truth

    • @brankocollin
      @brankocollin Před rokem

      "Similar story" - no, it is really not. Don't forget that we are capable of using Google Maps and Wikipedia and what have you, and are perfectly capable of figuring out what Penfield is in this equation.
      Edit: er, namely what you described in your second comment.

  • @mothvamp2931
    @mothvamp2931 Před rokem +375

    I really appreciate that you mentioned your own epistemological blocks, as I found myself frustrated by them while watching the video- namely, when you refer to how men as a group are unaware of the sexual contract/misogyny, while trans men like myself - especially those of us who don't pass - are all too aware of it, as we have to live through it *every goddamn day* just like any other non-cis-man out there. Everyone always forgets and being invisible like that really wears one down. Other than that, another fantastic video, thanks!

    • @muldersimp2052
      @muldersimp2052 Před rokem +21

      This^^^

    • @PhilosophyTube
      @PhilosophyTube  Před rokem +199

      This is a super good point, thank you for bringing it up!

    • @tomfoolery6957
      @tomfoolery6957 Před rokem +4

      too true.

    • @jospinner1183
      @jospinner1183 Před rokem

      I've heard from several trans men that they became even _more_ aware of societal misogyny once they transition. ("Passing") trans men suddenly get treated like men, in that they're listened to, respected, and treated as a reasoning adult. As a cis woman, this aspect of transition fascinates me.
      Out of curiosity, have you experience that kind of cessation of sexist treatment? I don't know how you present in public, so I don't know if it's a familiar story.
      (I know there's a similar phenomenon for a lot of trans women, in that they're suddenly faced with a type of sexism that may have gone previously unnoticed. I always imagine that the first time a trans woman gets cat-called, or aggressively hit on, it's probably a pretty strange mix of reactions. Like, there's got to be some validation there, in that she's being treated in exactly the same way cis women are. On the other hand, it's a scary and uncomfortable feeling to be objectified in that way for the first (or hundredth) time.)

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 Před rokem +6

      Interesting... as women we do fight the desire to be seen, while simultaneously being invisible to predators.

  • @kagitsune
    @kagitsune Před rokem +1

    The way I got so excited when you said that your play was on Nebula. I was never interested in signing up for that service until now. Thank you, Abigail!

  • @dorienmiddendorp
    @dorienmiddendorp Před rokem +1

    I am 3:58 minutes in watching my first video of Philosophy Tube and already a fan! It popped up in my recommended list and I'm very excited to discover your channel!!

  • @nathan3827
    @nathan3827 Před rokem +215

    The story about Detroit also definitely isn't a unique case.
    In the Netherlands, our previous cabinet fell as a result of hundreds of parents being incorrectly registered as fraudsters. Basically, if your yearly income is less than a certain amount you can get an allowance from the government to pay for your children their needs. However, a lot of parents were unfairly registered as lying about their yearly income AND it was discovered that the ministry of taxes used racial background as an indicator of "increased fraudster risk". The ministry, of course, claim this wasn't done on purpose. Interestingly enough, our prime minister was convicted of racial discrimination in 2007 for doing something quite similar, back when he was state secretary.
    These parents got in debt, lost their houses and sometimes even their children to child "protection" as a result of these systems wrongly accusing them of fraud. They also still haven't gotten their reparations because the current cabinet, which actually is pretty much the same with the seats shuffled around a little, claim it takes a long time to figure out how much the government owes to whom. Time those parents, of course, didn't get, back when they had to pay back all of their allowance along with a fine all those years back.
    I really enjoyed the video, it might be one of my favourites actually! If I knew for sure that I could afford the trip to London I would have definitely come to see you live, but I guess I will just have to get curiosity stream. Just know that, after hearing about it for years and not getting on, you made something that made me get curiosity stream immediately! (any idea when I will be able to see the show on there?)

    • @BadAstra
      @BadAstra Před rokem +22

      That story is horrifying (but not surprising, unfortunately)

    • @sharpasrazorslj
      @sharpasrazorslj Před rokem +34

      The fact that the VVD lost absolutely nothing in the elections just 3 months later and then on top of it we got Rutte-IV is just downright depressing and it drives me absolutely insane. I truly feel for all these families especially the ones that were separated from their children.

    • @Ikbeneengeit
      @Ikbeneengeit Před rokem

      @@sharpasrazorslj many people benefit from systems of oppression. And we're so dependent on it that it's difficult to change.

    • @katherinemorelle7115
      @katherinemorelle7115 Před rokem +10

      Sounds very similar to the Robodebt bullshit in Australia, by our conservative party.

    • @ApequH
      @ApequH Před rokem +1

      Meanwhile they can pay back rich people who paid too much in no time. And as Moon said, they lost absolutely nothing. They fell only to be reelected

  • @zoekaplan2559
    @zoekaplan2559 Před rokem +163

    My thoughts haven't quite coalesced yet, but while watching this video, I keep thinking about your witchcraft video from a million years ago; the idea that calling something supernatural means assuming that certain things are natural. It strikes me that deciding what stuff goes into the "state of nature" and what stuff goes into "society" is a very similar philosophical project as deciding what is and isn't "supernatural". It's like these ideas and philosophers are in communication or something lol

    • @cryoshakespeare4465
      @cryoshakespeare4465 Před rokem +19

      The universe is just one continuous thing and we make up all the categories. Some give us predictive and cognitive power, it's handy to be able to reference the idea of a chair for example, but of course minds are also incentivised to be lazy, and so we draw our categories and find ideas like a five-legged chair outlandish. All this argument about the "true nature of X" is just semantics, and distracts from the complex but very real project of improving the system as whole, as best as we can subjectively define such a goal anyway.

    • @hbwilder4586
      @hbwilder4586 Před rokem +5

      @@cryoshakespeare4465 Beautifully put, you really live up to your username!

    • @cryoshakespeare4465
      @cryoshakespeare4465 Před rokem +4

      @@hbwilder4586 I'm back, and this time with a vengeance! (but thank you

    • @TiffyVella1
      @TiffyVella1 Před rokem +1

      Still coalescing too.
      Dividing the universe into these two states had a far reaching affect not only on laws and whose interests they protect, but historically where those laws came into play. For much of western history, laws about theft of property and violence existed out in the World but they ceased to exist in the interior space of the Home. The Home was legally some odd other-realm, a parallel universe that existed to meet the needs of the man who owned it. We used to say "a home is a man's castle" because while outside the home, he had to obey the social contracts with other men, but inside he held the keys and was literally the master. The effects of this are still felt today. Police in Australia used to ignore screaming if it came from inside a home, because that was the man's private business. Police are still slow to act on domestic violence issues, and I do wonder about those old beliefs still being a part of our culture.
      Another thought brought to my mind is about how often in the past women who didn't toe the line were described as "unnatural" (although I know you were talking about "supernatural"). Unnatural women could be women who harmed their children- ie "unnatural mothers". I have memories of women who had sex outside of marriage or who harmed their husbands being called "unnatural" in literature, but cannot pinpoint any exact references at this hour of the evening. It seems odd to me, as I cannot recall any men being called this, and I wonder if it is linked to women being classified under the "nature" state. Perhaps that is why we have historically been accused of being emotional creatures, behaving only how our "nature" prescribes us to be. (Of course we all know what utter shit this is; men and women are both emotional and rational and both have biology that sometimes eggs us on)
      Also, thankyou Abigail once again for such a thought-provoking and educational essay. Well done, and best of luck with your new endeavour.

    • @marissakelly9915
      @marissakelly9915 Před rokem +1

      @@TiffyVella1 Oh that is interesting. I recently listened to a, unfortunately modern day, conversation about -how a man’s goal is to conquer nature, and a woman’s goal is to conquer man-. This didn’t make any sense to me because why wouldn’t women want to conquer nature, since nature affects women too? But like you said, if women are viewed as a part of nature themselves while men are not, it makes sense why there isn’t historical literature that describe a man as “unnatural” because men aren’t seen ‘of nature.’ Ah the level of conceitedness always gets me. Not something I’ve thought too much about before but you made clearer for me. Thanks for sharing.

  • @agnetha2541
    @agnetha2541 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Dear Abigail, thank you so much or your great videos! It´s always a pleasure to watch. The first one I watched was recommended by our professors at university... 👍Best regards from Germany 💜

  • @yoitsjonmac188
    @yoitsjonmac188 Před 5 měsíci

    Love how you manage to keep the joke's premium even while deep in philosophical discussion. A joy to watch, thanks.

  • @Zzzsleepzzz
    @Zzzsleepzzz Před rokem +358

    I love you! I am living in a backwards small town and I’ve been bullied and nearly thrown in a jail cell but I knew my human rights were being violated. I recently lost my job for sticking up for myself. I wish I could meet you! You are amazing!!

    • @sagestrings869
      @sagestrings869 Před rokem +13

      The only choice we are ever given in life, is conformity or freedom.

    • @kristenmorreale307
      @kristenmorreale307 Před rokem +2

      Most towns are filled with them! I’m with you!

    • @aranavenger
      @aranavenger Před rokem +1

      Stay strong, you are not alone.

    • @TitusAzzurro
      @TitusAzzurro Před rokem

      Seeing how women account for only 3% of the prison population, it's unlikely.

    • @curtiswong7280
      @curtiswong7280 Před rokem +3

      @@TitusAzzurro Jails and prisons aren't really the same thing in some countries.

  • @fify1988
    @fify1988 Před rokem +501

    Recently I've been having a hard time differentiating my woman identity from how I've been victimized by men. It has been incredibly healing to realize that sexual harassment is something that happens to women, *but does not make them* .
    It is difficult, especially for women, to not align their perspectives of themselves with how they are perceived by men and society. We have learned that our appearances often dictate how society interacts with us to a much more severe degree, and, as happens with abusive relationships, we adjust ourselves for our own personal safety. That is not womanhood, that is living as a woman in a predatory patriarchal society, but it is not *womanhood* .
    It assumes that our identity as a woman can be *taken or given* whether men feel comfortable encroaching our space and mentalities, not something we discover and decide for ourselves.
    TLDR: women can exist in a society where men dont harass them. (And men can exist in a society where they don't need a lady to "prove" their value as a man)

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Před rokem +26

      Wait, this comment gave me a lot to think about. 😐 Thanks for the insight.

    • @Emily-gx6dd
      @Emily-gx6dd Před rokem +11

      Thank you for posting this. I’ve been reading some stuff by Audre Lorde and it made me chew on similar thoughts, but your comment is new to me and gives me more to chew on.

    • @jayncoclassic
      @jayncoclassic Před rokem +2

      but why tie anything to the identity of being a women. im more interested in addressing issues.

    • @darkshadowrule2952
      @darkshadowrule2952 Před rokem +36

      I really think this is a trap a lot of people fall into, and it honestly makes the space of speaking about gender based violence and harrassment more hostile to non women. Like I've seen a lot of protests and movements throughout my life that make womanhood synonymous with being a victim of men entitled by the patriarchy, and it, in a way, makes it a dysphoric experience for me as a genderqueer individual to express my experience with what have so often been called "women's issues" because theres a sort of implicit agreement that you are a woman if you experience those issues in many spaces. It feels wrong to call myself an ally to those experiences because they're my experience, but then it goes back to "admitting" I'm a woman because of what other people have done to me. Reframing patriarchal abuse away from being defining of womanhood could go a long way to help AFAB and more ambiguous people have a place to share our trauma and experiences

    • @lucyandecember2843
      @lucyandecember2843 Před rokem +1

      o.o

  • @cwez11
    @cwez11 Před 8 měsíci

    Wow, big CONGRATS! on getting your work produced. How exciting!

  • @TheMafii
    @TheMafii Před 11 měsíci +5

    One I love to throw in when it comes to "biological sex" is Schizophyllum commune - a fungal colony with two mating type genes, one with 64 variants, and the other with over 300 types. Even conservatively speaking, that's 23,000 "genders".

  • @LaTransfilosa
    @LaTransfilosa Před rokem +313

    I really like this video; right now in the city of Buenos Aires, the education ministry has prohibited the use of gender neutral language. That resolution literally ignores the fact that we’ve had gender identity legislation for the past ten years! And, more recently, the executive power has ruled last year a decree that recognized the access of non binary people to a national document of identification. So, all the discussion you brought reminded me of the obscures times we are living en Buenos Aires.

    • @mookinbabysealfurmittens
      @mookinbabysealfurmittens Před rokem +12

      D:
      I'm sorry, but I can't think of any other way to express my disappointed and shocked [yet not surprised] reaction! Thank you for sharing this. I'm so behind the times with what's going on in ARG since leaving. (Do you have any suggestions for good sources? As you know, information there is... stifled... by the powers that be. And I don't know how much trust to put into _La Nación_ and the like. Please excuse my English, but seems other languages aren't often allowed. [It's complicated.])
      Muchísimas gracias.

    • @LuisHansenNH
      @LuisHansenNH Před rokem +6

      es el despotismo y la arbitrariedad que regresan con toda su fuerza a América Latina.

    • @nekoeko500
      @nekoeko500 Před rokem +2

      Abigail or anyone really needs to look into the philosophy of narional capitals' inhabitants.

    • @npc-lowlife6940
      @npc-lowlife6940 Před rokem +2

      those theories should be reserved for higher levels of education. children cannot think critically and therefore should not be taught controversial stuff like crt and sometimes, the bible

    • @LoneDestiny6
      @LoneDestiny6 Před rokem +4

      One thing to note is that this prohibition is exclusively in the Buenos Aires province (that or just the CABA, the central region of the capital)
      Other provinces like Santa Fe, defended the free use of gender neutral modifications to the language. A sad thing to see ppl being petty for minimal changes to address many ppl or non binary ppl but it is met with resistance none the less.

  • @BadAstra
    @BadAstra Před rokem +221

    I was holding out on Curiosity Stream/Nebula (no idea why, thinking about it), but once I heard "Professional Recording of Abigail's Play" I signed up! I'm also excited to see the PhilosophyTube documentary.
    Fantastic video, as usual. I think the evolution of marriage in the past 50 years is WILD, since my (lesbian) marriage was about joint taxes, health insurance, hospital visitation/medical decisions, joint ownership and inheritance...even my cis friends who married opposite-gender spouses didn't really notice a substantial life change afterwards, since cohabitation and sexual exclusivity aren't reserved for (or required as part of) marriage now.
    I loved the running theme in this video of "if you're not at the table, you're on the menu" because it drives home the point that choosing to opt-out of society really isn't an option for most people. Even if I decided to go survivalist and live up in the mountains somewhere, I'd still have to follow local hunting/fishing/camping/waste/permit regulations, and I could get kicked out at any time for any reason if officials decided I know longer had the right to be there.

    • @rocktheusa
      @rocktheusa Před rokem +5

      i can totally relate. i always think "yeah i should get that". but now tab is opened, account created and bill is payed. i can't wait.

    • @lyndonwesthaven6623
      @lyndonwesthaven6623 Před rokem +19

      I very much want to see those rights continue to disengage from the nuclear family as a model so that it's easier for individuals to distribute these legal benefits to the person or people around them as they choose, whether or not it's a spouse (unsurprising attitude from an ace/aro)

    • @ziwuri
      @ziwuri Před rokem +9

      @@lyndonwesthaven6623 Very much agreed. The idea of "fill out some papers with another person and you get legal benefits" is very old-fashioned. (from an ace and questioning gray aro)

    • @beckstheimpatient4135
      @beckstheimpatient4135 Před rokem +1

      I signed up a couple of months ago because I realised I watch a lot of youtubers that have content there and, by subscribing, I can support them all in one go!

    • @BadAstra
      @BadAstra Před rokem

      @@beckstheimpatient4135 I noticed that, too! Excited to watch on there!

  • @delvindoodles2182
    @delvindoodles2182 Před 7 měsíci

    Seeing you speak on your play was great, you can see your genuine excitement. This is an old video but still keep on being you.

  • @nilo70
    @nilo70 Před rokem

    Cheers from your newest subscriber from California ! I am very intrigued by this channel and I’ll eventually watch all of them !

  • @SeanAthiestson
    @SeanAthiestson Před rokem +366

    Great analysis Abigail! I grew up in Chicago, with a lot of friend/family connections to the Detroit area. It's always been depressing when trying to discuss what was going on there with the older men in that community. Vulture Capitalists have no empathy for the communities you describe as 'having no rights under the social contract'. Appreciate* your in depth conversation tying back this recent history into the deeper writings underpinning the founding of the US.
    Good luck with the Prince!

    • @Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper
      @Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper Před rokem +1

      Hi im Connor your personal assistant

    • @BadAstra
      @BadAstra Před rokem +17

      I currently live in Chicago and couldn't agree with this more. Also I'm going to use the term "Vulture Capitalist" more because it 100% describes the landlord corporations.

    • @jemolk8945
      @jemolk8945 Před rokem +8

      @@BadAstra That term is one of the very few things we have to thank Rick Perry for. It's just such a good phrase, and captures so much with so little.

    • @hiwelcometochillis2579
      @hiwelcometochillis2579 Před rokem

      My cousin was from that type of neighbors they're talking and the pandemic and drug influence fentanyl and crack push all the neighborhood to sell their property
      Good thing is they sold for more than they buy it... And is weird they're saying the properties were stole? When they sold them for more and they put the prices not third parties
      And is god because in the past those properties didn't have value but now it has and is good they can be sold for more because they end up richer than before, they don't loose the invest money in the property

  • @AngeloLunch
    @AngeloLunch Před rokem +685

    Abigail: When a British monarch dies, that’s when the English are at their most dangerous.
    Me, Welsh, looking at news about the 96 year-old Queen’s health: 👁 👄 👁

    • @Sheridan2LT
      @Sheridan2LT Před rokem +25

      Welsh character unlocked 🔓

    • @ReverendDr.Thomas
      @ReverendDr.Thomas Před rokem +5

      To which "QUEEN" are you referring, considering there has not been a monarch on earth for at least a couple of centuries now?

    • @JhericFury
      @JhericFury Před rokem +18

      Have you seen English news lately? We are definitely on a knife edge

    • @Capybarrrraaaa
      @Capybarrrraaaa Před rokem +16

      @@ReverendDr.Thomas What?

    • @ReverendDr.Thomas
      @ReverendDr.Thomas Před rokem +3

      @@Capybarrrraaaa
      🐟 21. THE MONARCHY:
      A KING (“kṣatriyaḥ”, in Sanskrit) is a man who has a divine mandate, via his counsellor (i.e. his spiritual preceptor), to govern an area of land (and sea) and the population within its borders. He should be the head of the military, and courageously lead his army into battle if necessary (as opposed to cowardly scampering into a bomb shelter under the Pentagon building, as Presidents of the United States of America are apt to do). A king should be a natural leader among men, and be willing to sacrifice his life to protect his subjects. A good monarch will take heed of astute advice from his spiritual guide (ideally, the wisest prophet in his kingdom), as well as his ministers, in order to build a just society.
      A LEGITIMATE monarch will endorse holy and righteous edicts, such as absolute freedom of speech*, homeschooling of children, free markets, and private ownership of all goods and services (even such infrastructure as roads, water and sewerage systems, health care, and education). He will enforce taxation of the profits of businessmen alone (and not of any other class of society), provide material support to members of the Holy Priesthood if necessary, establish a monetary system using (or at least backed by) precious metals, and avoid interfering with the private matters of his citizens (unlike evil governments, which meddle in such things as sex, marriage, and discipline within workplaces and families).
      There are only two kinds of persons who would POSSIBLY object to the institution of monarchy:
      By far the greatest number of objectors are those who have very little idea of what constitutes a LEGITIMATE monarchy, as defined above. The usual arguments are either “I don’t want to be ruled by a tyrannical, despotic dictator” or “I don’t believe monarchy should be hereditary”. Obviously, neither of these arguments is applicable when the institution of monarchy is properly understood. Any man can call himself “King”, but if he lacks saintly (or at least noble) qualities and doesn't have the best interests of his people at heart, he is naught but a fascistic dictator.
      Just as a priest is, by definition, a holy man, so too should a monarch be a righteous, wise king (“rāja-ṛṣi”, in Sanskrit). After all, a king’s primary duty is the protection of his nation (“kṣatriyaḥ”, in Sanskrit), so how could a person fulfil his duty of care if he was evil and uncaring? Just as a family must be protected by its head (the father), every nation requires a good patriarch. Unless a man has the natural proclivities to do so, he ought NOT follow his father’s occupation. Therefore, a prince isn't necessarily qualified to assume his father’s role upon the demise of his sire.
      The only “valid” objection to monarchy could possibly be from those miscreants who wish to destroy society via an ILLEGITIMATE system of government (see Chapter 22) or those who are simply too stupid to understand how monarchy is the most beneficial form of governance.
      Any form of governance OTHER than monarchy must be, by definition, controlled by either workers or by businessmen (or rarely by priests or spiritual leaders), and therefore is intrinsically evil, since they are unqualified to rule a nation. If there is no aspiring monarch extant within a nation, then the best alternative is a priest (a prophet, to be more precise), but only until a monarch arises and retakes power.
      Although WAR is unfortunate, it is sometimes necessary to defend oneself from aggressors. In certain circumstances, it is legitimate for a ruler or aspiring ruler to overtake another (evil and corrupt) ruler and usurp his sovereignty. Unfortunately, in the modern era, it is nigh impossible for an aspiring king to seize power, since he will be easily defeated by sheer military might, as opposed to the state of affairs in ancient times, where two opposing monarchs would fight in hand-to-hand combat (or possibly lead their respective armies into a battle for the kingdom).
      Being a soldier is a legitimate and necessary occupation in this wicked and perilous world, mainly for the defence of a local population or nation, but unfortunately, not all soldiers serve a good master. Not all world leaders are righteous in all their ways. In fact, you who are reading this Scripture, are almost definitely being oppressed by a corrupt, tyrannical regime. The reason why you may not realize this fact is due to either abject ignorance, or because, just like your illegitimate government, you have little desire for society to be organized according to holy and righteous principles (“dharma”, in Sanskrit). Just as a newborn child has absolutely no conception of what is most beneficial to its welfare, the vast majority of citizens have very little idea of what benefits society most. Hence the decadent state of contemporary culture.
      Whenever there is a CONFLICT in this world, whether that be a conflict between two persons, or a conflict between two groups of persons (such as political wars), it is absolutely certain that one side is more righteous than the other. Both sides can not be equally right, because equality is non-existent in this phenomenal sphere. Equality exclusively exists in abstract concepts such as mathematics, and arguably on the sub-atomic level. Unfortunately, it requires an above-average intellect to be able to comprehend such truthful concepts.
      “Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that.”
      George Carlin,
      American Comedian and Actor.
      1937-2008.
      “I believe in political equality. But there are two opposite reasons for being a democrat. You may think all men so good that they deserve a share in the government of the commonwealth, and so wise that the commonwealth needs their advice. That is, in my opinion, the false, romantic doctrine of democracy. ...
      That I believe to be the true ground of democracy. I do not believe that God created an egalitarian world. I believe the authority of parent over child, husband over wife, learned over simple, to have been as much a part of the original plan as the authority of man over beast. I believe that if we had not fallen...patriarchal monarchy would be the sole lawful government.”
      Clive Staples “C.S.” Lewis, English Author,
      “The Weight of Glory”.
      *Freedom of speech does not negate the CONSEQUENCES of one's speech. For example, if a child berates his father, obviously, he or she ought to be punished for that sinful deed. A genuine king will permit his subjects to criticize his actions in a constructive manner, as long as they refrain from deliberate insults, which is a criminal offence (see Chapter 12). Of course, the best advisor to any monarch is his spiritual master, as defined in Chapter 19 (ideally, the most holy and wise member of the Holy Priesthood within the kingdom), so the need for him to require advice from anyone other than his guru would be scarce, at least in regards to matters of morality, which is the secure foundation of society.

  • @karangupta4615
    @karangupta4615 Před rokem

    I have been listening to philosophy tube videos all day and just realised the incredible production value, I am going to continue listening to the audio tho XD

  • @djstraylight
    @djstraylight Před 10 měsíci

    I'm glad I found your channel. I'm a year late but enjoying your content.

  • @fslayer1290
    @fslayer1290 Před rokem +211

    Thank you for such an informative video. I’m an African American woman that studies and collects our presence in American pop culture from the 80s to the present day. I frequently find myself questioning and studying the origins of racism and bigotry toward us African Americans and I have found it a rarity to find the discussion of the American social contract paired with the fact that we are seen as being sub-human, which is really not human at all. This vid has given me so much more to research and think upon. Thank you.
    Congratulations on your play being on stage!!! I’m so happy for you 😁

  • @ksdtsubfil6840
    @ksdtsubfil6840 Před rokem +138

    12:49 "When a British Monarch dies, that's when the English at at their most dangerous! Because suddenly anything is possible!"
    OH MY GOODNESS

    • @victoriab8186
      @victoriab8186 Před rokem +10

      and now, we are having massive crackdowns on peaceful protest and freedom of speech, because everyone's got to support the monarchy and dissent is not allowed.

  • @markusgarvey
    @markusgarvey Před rokem

    Good luck Abigail! Can't wait to see the screenplay.

  • @thicc_vic
    @thicc_vic Před rokem

    I love your use of music in your videos, it can be incredibly suttle but so good.
    Good your videos is so good

  • @toast5263
    @toast5263 Před rokem +429

    hey abby, I can't quite articulate what is different format-wise about this video, but all i know is that i really enjoy the way this topic and video is structured and explained. i always really enjoy the videos you make, and I hope you have fun making them always. :)

    • @Telltale.
      @Telltale. Před rokem +24

      I have to agree. I really enjoyed this - I can’t quite put my finger on why or what was different, but this was a very satisfying video. Thanks!

    • @GBR6000
      @GBR6000 Před rokem +10

      @Thaal she

    • @trampoline11x
      @trampoline11x Před rokem +5

      For me it feels more grounded, I reckon because of the topic being so widely experienced and at times questioned or pondered, even if only in passing.
      I think this is a topic that anyone can pick up and imeadietly recognize as a part of their life regardless of their position in _society™_

  • @Miraiana
    @Miraiana Před rokem +709

    The middle part (about gender dynamics and marriage) was extremely interesting to me, because last week, I got married.
    My husband and I chose to get married for practical purposes, we just went to the government office and were like "yeah, so, we want to get married."
    No wedding bs and all that stuff, we just took out our witnesses and closest family for dinner and were done.
    What struck me the most was during the process where the, err I forgot what you call them, the person who marries you, asked us whose surname we'll take. And here in my country, women either choose the husband's name or keep their maiden surname plus the husband's surname. However, when the lady asked us, she said - "the wife can take the husband's name, the husband can take the wife's name, both spouses can keep their maiden surnames plus the other partner's surname".
    I knew of instances where a man would "marry into" the wife's family, taking her surname (usually if the wife's family had more power or wealth), but I never knew there was an option to, basically, exchange surnames lol. (I take yours, you take mine). 😂
    I wanted to take my husbands surname coz I honestly don't like the sound of my maiden surname... Just for that.
    Also, I liked how they specified how both spouses are equal in marriage, both legaly and "socially".
    I don't know when they established these regulations, but my country has had a fair gender dynamic since I can remember.
    But knowing that these outdated social and gender norms still exist in many countries is beyond me.
    Great video, as always. 👏✨

    • @valardohaeris333
      @valardohaeris333 Před rokem +37

      That's phenomenal! Which country is this?

    • @DMC4EVERUCCI
      @DMC4EVERUCCI Před rokem +7

      !! also interested to know 👀

    • @N3ONLUV
      @N3ONLUV Před rokem +21

      @@valardohaeris333 I also want to know which country, and it'd be so cute if instead it was the norm to just swap names like socks lmaooo - cuz ur literally part of the other family now, right? And it goes both ways!

    • @valardohaeris333
      @valardohaeris333 Před rokem +5

      @@N3ONLUV Ikr! The sock idea is too cute

    • @garfreeek
      @garfreeek Před rokem +23

      I'm guessing the Netherlands, or a Scandinavian country! 😂

  • @jasminehuynh941
    @jasminehuynh941 Před rokem +24

    This is exactly the kind of content I've been yearning for in CZcams. An educational, pertinent, authentic and meaningful channel and content; on top of that I value the humor and very much the specific resources listed. I studied a bit on the social contract and I do very much appreciate that the philosophy content is very thorough, accurate, and clearly cited. Best channel I've come across. I think I get bored pretty easily but you kept my attention the whole way through with this video and I never heard of The Sexual Contract in my studies, but I did remember when reading Locke and Rousseau and Hume and, well, the rest of the eminent ancient and modern philosophers I did rid, that they all lacked an accurate understanding of the state of being woman. And what you elaborated about Pateman's ideas about how women are on the menu has been, unfortunately, all too accurate in my experience. It was a truth about reality and society that I gradually had to learn and one almost feels helpless as a female, at times, to be able to do anything about it or alter that fact about society. There is a lot about the consequences of the sexual contract operating in real life to be combatted, for lack of a better word. That Pateman wrote about it and you've discussed it so well here already helps legitimize my experience, for which when I've tried to voice about it in the past, especially in front of male acquaintances, would be disregarded as me simply sounding like "a crazy feminist". Some of the consequences of the Sexual Contract I'm talking about is how it is so "normal" to regularly have a hand placed on the small of your back when a male acquaintance passes by, or to be called sweetheart by a man while being lectured to or to try to have an intellectual conversation just to have it repeatedly flipped to a sexual conversation by one's male conversant or how when one says "no" as a woman it apparently is incomprehensible or how one voices why something can't be done about something to be responded to "well, there's no such thing as magic" or to be regularly flirted with by males in superior positions whether they be bosses or teachers, etc, and if you don't flirt back and don't flirt back you are shunned by them and from any opportunities of moving up, etc. ad infinitum.

    • @hiwelcometochillis2579
      @hiwelcometochillis2579 Před rokem

      They're good videos but don't believe all because comes from the perspective of 1 type of person there is 16 according to psychology...

    • @noah8236
      @noah8236 Před rokem

      .

  • @spektrograf
    @spektrograf Před 2 měsíci

    Really well written and presented! Love the mix of storytelling, history, with footholds in origins of some of these ideas-and fun! 🤩

  • @TheMrFabian1
    @TheMrFabian1 Před rokem +292

    I got really heated up on this topic during philosophy class. I am a little late to the party, but I am so looking forward to see what you have to say on this topic, when I am free to rewatch the whole video.

  • @0hate9
    @0hate9 Před rokem +505

    I was surprised to notice you didn't mention children anywhere here. as a group that are usually used as the archetype for groups that are excluded, and frequently what groups (women, racial minorities, native inhabitants, autistics) are compared to in order to justify their subjugation.

    • @clumsydad7158
      @clumsydad7158 Před rokem +118

      my father sometimes recalls an old expression that children 'should be seen and not heard'. i detest it and it harkens to the exclusionary sentiment you're referencing

    • @flask223
      @flask223 Před rokem +9

      I think it's irrelevant to the subject. This is mostly about sexism

    • @indfnt5590
      @indfnt5590 Před rokem +77

      I get what you mean. Children exist in most societies as nearly property, expendable.

    • @359339
      @359339 Před rokem +43

      Completely agree. The arbitrary and exploitative ways that society determines if someone has the right to self-determination or not exposes so much about a culture, and is most visible through children and youth. Where I live, you can sell your labour long before you can vote. Dependency is a social construct with some of the blurriest lines out there. And Patriarchy is based on the Father having control and dominion over his 'dependants,' which yeah, includes women and people with disabilities and on a broader scale the colonized.

    • @hcxpl1
      @hcxpl1 Před rokem +23

      I guess it circles back to what she said about thinking about the Sexual Contract before engaging with the Racial one. As a fairly young person who is still in college and very much having to process my childhood, it is always very clear to me how they are used to justify any authority for any "higher class". But in the end it's that, "they" try to always have people below those that could revolt so that they can take out their frustration on their "subordinates" rather than their masters: be it employees, women, people of color, children, disabled people, animals, the "third world", poor people, the homeless, the "weak" or basically any other category they can conjure up that can make people feel powerful, as even if the children get the short end of the stick on both parents' fronts, it is not unusual that they in turn start to pick up on other children (be it for being dumb, nerdy, poor, 'gay', fat or whatever excuse they come up for bullying) or even animals; and I guess when they can't find anyone or anything "below" them on this ladder they finally start to take it out on themselves. I guess it goes without saying that this near-infinite regression is not only regressive and highly prejudicial to all involved, it also takes away from finding actual solutions to the problems people take out on others.

  • @DavoY2K
    @DavoY2K Před rokem +1

    I just discovered you! Refreshing intellectual delivery. Awesome. Beautiful. Subscribed. Thank you.

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      @Dm.my.telgrm..Abigailgives Před rokem

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  • @madlove2918
    @madlove2918 Před 5 měsíci

    So good ! So chewy ! I'm so glad you exsist , and how your way with words fully moves me. .. also, i adore you ! And thank you for being you ❤️

  • @JohnDRuddyMannyMan
    @JohnDRuddyMannyMan Před rokem +751

    This is one of your best videos yet. Very informative

    • @flowerchild8450
      @flowerchild8450 Před rokem +6

      One of my favourite history channels showing up in Abigail’s comment section, pog

    • @radicalrazel9156
      @radicalrazel9156 Před rokem +4

      @@flowerchild8450 I was just nerding out to my bf about this when he pointed at your comment and laughed at me, pog

    • @jonesjermaine4387
      @jonesjermaine4387 Před rokem

      I feel ya bro, I had a transgender coworker they worked at a Tacobell and he/she would jizz in the sourcream called it "jizzzam" I suggested they call it "cumshot"

  • @yuridhjeeyn9034
    @yuridhjeeyn9034 Před rokem +53

    “We’re not at the table because we’re on the menu”
    This gave me Tzimisce Vibes,
    which makes it even creepier
    -> "you aren't at the table, because you are the table and the chairs and the paper the contract is written on"

    • @lucyandecember2843
      @lucyandecember2843 Před rokem

      o.o

    • @saraa.4295
      @saraa.4295 Před rokem

      Is Hobbes a ventrue or Toreador?

    • @clumsydad7158
      @clumsydad7158 Před rokem

      to the victor go the spoils ... the feast ,,, the competitive and consumptive nature of our societal models ... unequal and unsustainable

  • @andyb1653
    @andyb1653 Před rokem +1

    How am I only discovering this channel in March of 2023?!
    This lady kicks ass, I'm gonna have to watch all her archived stuff!

  • @wonderwildly24
    @wonderwildly24 Před rokem +1

    i just discovered your channel and i must say, abigail, BRAVO! I loveee the way you present such complex topics so concisely, how accessible this all this, and how witty and creative you are! From one queer artist to another: i'm so glad to hear about your play!!! I can't wait to check it out! :)
    Much love x

  • @BritneyCoates
    @BritneyCoates Před rokem +1275

    Watching this video crystallized in my mind something that I've experienced being the owner of a rescue dog with pretty severe trauma. The idea that men feel entitled to women's attention, time, and bodies as part of the sexual contract is very much analogous to the idea that (some, not all) people feel entitled to my dog's attention because she's a dog. For context I live in Canada where dogs in general have amazing lives and it's normal and acceptable for strangers to approach your dog and ask you questions about them. Most of the time this is fine (especially if your dog is super friendly).
    BUT.
    There have been TOO MANY TIMES where I've encountered grown-ass adults who *insist* that my dog sniffs their hand or allows them to pet her. Even when I tell them: "My dog is a rescue... She doesn't trust anyone but her Moms so don't take it personally..." these people just completely ignore my words and my dog's body language (shying away, avoiding being approached, hiding behind my legs) and continue to make kissy noises, bending over and reaching their hands out to her, while repeating "Oh don't worry, I'm a dog person. Dogs love me."
    It's honestly exhausting to have to protect my dog from these people who hear "rescue dog with trauma" and don't care. Their desire to pet my dog is *not* more important than her desire not to be touched by a stranger. You're not entitled to her attention, affection, and fur!
    Also: huge fan, Abigail. Love your work

    • @doggodoggo3000
      @doggodoggo3000 Před rokem +48

      dogs have it rough af in canada. your laws are very out of date and fail to protect them. the most excessive and insane acts of animal cruelty i have ever seen were in canada. The whistler sled dog massacre happened in canada. The RCMP shot indigenous sled dogs almost to extinction in the 50s and 60s. Canada has a very very rough history with dogs and its still rough af.

    • @InfiniteAnvil
      @InfiniteAnvil Před rokem +96

      That's very interesting. Have you noticed a difference in the genders of those who do this?
      A few years ago I encountered the idea that if a man hates cats, and especially if he hates cats but loves dogs, that's a red flag. The idea was that if a man hates cats but loves dogs, it's likely that he feels entitled to having all interactions on his own terms, and is unhappy with being forced to take "no" for an answer.
      I wonder if these self-proclaimed "dog people" who apparently can't read or don't care about your dog's boundaries consider themselves Dog People for the same reason.

    • @regs3941
      @regs3941 Před rokem +65

      @@InfiniteAnvil I've heard of that theory too, but with the addition, that cats are regularly seen as a female animal (not referring to the actual sex of the individuum, but the energy/spirit). So, if they dislike cats for just being cats, it's because of it having a female spirit or even 'worse' being rejected by a creature with female spirit.

    • @Ariel_is_a_dreamer
      @Ariel_is_a_dreamer Před rokem +73

      I think that's why sexist men often hate cats. Cats have boundaries, they have places they don't like you to touch. They hiss and scratch if you do. And they don't love you immeditely, it takes time to gain their trust. Plus, cats were never domesticated like dogs, they're still wild therefore independent. Reminds you of something?

    • @LiamLynchPhotographer
      @LiamLynchPhotographer Před rokem +5

      @@Ariel_is_a_dreamer May not have been what you are going for, but one reading could be sexist men emulate cats, and vice versa.
      Seriosuly... read it again.

  • @bluedotdinosaur
    @bluedotdinosaur Před rokem +42

    A problem with any form of social contract theory has always been this: due to the way human beings tend to behave, any social contracts seem to inevitably end up working this way in the real world:
    There are in-groups whom the law protects, but does not bind.
    And out-groups whom the law binds, but does not protect.
    Social contracts are maintained amongst people within an in-group. However, those people tend to use purposeful twisting on the same contract to exploit those who exist outside their group.
    We tend to call this "corruption" - as in a corrupt politician bending or breaking rules in order to benefit themselves. Ultimately however, it seems to come down to in-and-out group dynamics. An unfortunately human issue that has always been with us.

    • @steverempel8584
      @steverempel8584 Před rokem +6

      Yeah, this is absolutely true. Corruption is about how much the in-groups are gaming the system they built to benefit themselves. I believe this corruption always exists to some degree, and human nature makes that impossible to avoid, but the amount of corruption is different for different groups. No group will ever be perfectly corrupt, they will always seek to improve lives of others to some degree, and no group will be free of corruption, and will always use the system to their benefit.

  • @pablocl3186
    @pablocl3186 Před rokem

    your videos are really interesting so it's like an inner battle in my brain with the theme of the video and great narration against british accent

  • @Rachaelshaw7
    @Rachaelshaw7 Před měsícem

    I have great respect for the amount of effort you put into your videos including the props and costumes I am astounded by the cost

  • @entysing6780
    @entysing6780 Před rokem +25

    "Why are you having your religious services in Latin? SPEAK ENGLISH. Like Jesus did."
    Abigail, your a comedic genius whether you know it or not.
    This whole video is amazing and insightful. Thanks for doing what you do friend 🙂 🙏🙏

  • @1234bobfox
    @1234bobfox Před rokem +103

    Ah, glad to hear The Prince will be on Nebula. Flying across the sea to see the play is a bit out of budget ... But streaming is pretty affordable haha

    • @mrclueuin
      @mrclueuin Před rokem

      I was just thinking that! (Right after I was trying to process in my head how I was going to get a job, reserve tickets, get a new Passport, and fly to London, England! 😫😉)

  • @dennisshaw5454
    @dennisshaw5454 Před rokem +1

    Excellent content you and your team are creating. Your humor is on par with your intelligence "pure gold". Transhuman and this video so far are the only video's I have watched and of course I must subscribe.