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“Didn’t Kurtis Conner already talk about this” yah his vid wasn’t demonetized for a week before finally being manually reviewed by CZcams so he could post it :)
Im so glad they finally let you post this! I personally havent heard about this topic so im super excited to watch the rest of this video :)
Yours also has more social commentary! They are different vids people need to calm down
very happy that you were able to upload
:3
Yum 💎
All these channels have the same subjects for videos, they're still very different videos tho! Love all of them :D
Respect to the woman who warned her partner that if he did that shit at their wedding she would divorce him. He did and she did.
Couldn’t she just have refused to consummate the marriage and get an annulment?
@@anacarlos According to the news story in the Independent, she said "I got married just before Christmas and am hoping to be divorced or annulled by the end of January." so it could be either one. I just said divorced because the news story said divorced.
@@anacarlos Not sure what century you're living in, but the marriage is finalized by paperwork, not by genital contact.
@@mnschoen In modern times you can still have a marriage annulment if the marriage was never consummated.
@@mnschoen And annulment cancels the paperwork as if it never happened. Otherwise you just.. wouldn't be married.
Many places still have a consummation clause, and its really left there so that if there IS a dispute after signing the papers that results in the couple not sleeping together you can point to it and go "They did XYZ, made me so distraught we didn't even have sex on the honeymoon" and boom. No longer married.
Still has to be processed as an annulment though.
the worst part of those videos of the grooms basically attacking the brides with cake is that everyone is laughing. can you imagine being assaulted by your partner and your entire family laughs at you?
And the bride will assume this is normal since no one was concerned
Yeah the normalisation of it is so fuckin disgusting.... I would jump at the groom if I saw that happening in front of me
I absolutely get your point and I’m sure you’re right about the brides feelings! But I must say it’s quite a natural reaction to try and ease the tension or react to a suprising situation by laughing and it’s kind of contagious in a social situation. One stupid person laughs cos they actually think it’s funny, rest don’t know how to react so the safest thing to do is to copy the loudest person. In some situations people may think it was a planned thing that the bride is on board with, like ”this is so crazy it must have been cleared beforehand, it’s must be just a show” until the bride seems clearly upset. It also seems often the reaction goes from ”HAHAHAA!!! WOO! 🤣🤣” to turning into ”Whooaaahh! Ehhh! 😅😅” as the situation escalates.
If I saw that nah if that was cake on the floor since it's already wasted I would fr be chucking it at his face and booing
For real, ask Chris Rock. Imagine being assaulted by someone and they give that same person an award and a standing ovation. Boys will be boys Am eye right?
I don’t get the man stereotype “I hate my wife” trope. My man literally tells me he just sits around and waits for me to be home. He’s obsessed with me and I love him.
The societal pressure is large and mist peopel go through the motions in life.
Thats so sweet
You married a dog 💀
This trope screams irresponsibility to me. They made this choice to marry her, they make the choice to stay everyday, they can't be mad at anyone else but themselves
@@goldenfiberwheat238 funny because I told him when we first started “he was cute in a scruffy dog type of way”- he never let it go lmao
The worst thing about grooms destroying wedding cakes is that they take forever to make and will probably be the single most expensive single item of food you are ever going to pay for
And the cake is the beautiful center piece to a elegant party , the expensive, carefully crafted focal point to grace memories in photos forever: your perfect day…. Until
Oh, NoooooOOO!!!
👨👩👦👦🧖♀️🎂 🤺👀👩👩👦👦
Not to mention the guests were probably hoping they’d get to eat some of it.
Just get a cardboard cutout if you’re going to piss around and destroy it like a toddler
a lot of the time they have supports in too, like wooden or plastic rods to make it stand up straight. and in extreme cases, there will also be like acrylic sheets to support the weight of the cake.
Oh and did I mention that dowels are often placed into said cakes to provide structural support?
Every time I see a video of a wedding cake getting ruined, a little slice of my heart dies.
the prettier it is the worse i feel. ugh, i dont get why people would want to ruin such good-looking and probably good-tasting food.
As a cake designer and baker my soul crumbles alongside that cake 😢 so many hours, sometimes days, worth of work destroyed. Not to mention the cost to all parties, the research, communication with the bride and anxiety to make it just right. Please don’t do this!
Same. Especially cuz *I* coulda eaten it 🙄
Fr!!
@@SC3NEWH0ReXDsame... 😂
Nothing like publicly breaking your wife's consent a whole 45 minutes into your marriage
Because starting an early divorce is fun!
Not only that, but doing it in front of her family and friends...right after you said a bunch of vows that would suggest you would love, honor and cherish her...😬
😭
@@NerobyrneThe bar is in hell. If you have a job and take "no" for an answer then you're already doing better than many.
@@alphamail8974the bar is in hell, and yet they still find a way to trip on it
what makes me sad too is that the brides who are kind of pissed will absolutely never hear the end of how they're "uptight".
You can unintentionally violate someone's boundaries but you can't unintentionally LAUGH at someone's boundaries. Never trust someone who does this.
you are absolutely correct. first they pick a fight with their new wife and then claim it's her fault for being upset. ugh.
When my aunt and uncle got married, he wrote "help me" on the bottom of his shoe so everyone would see it when they walked away from the altar together. He thought it was a good joke, brags about it to the guys in our family sometimes. She stopped loving him right then and there. She held that resentment toward him ever since.
Are they still married despite this ?
@@anshikasingh9312i wanna know to
AWW MAN I THOUGHT IT WOULDA BEEN A HAPPY ENDING
yes @@anshikasingh9312
sorry dude @@caramel_cares
Men act like they’re not typically the ones proposing. Like do not ask me to marry you and then attack me at our wedding or pretend you’re being held hostage . I will go to jail.
imagine being like I can’t wait to humiliate my wife and ruin my own wedding
@@tracksuitrob5348 unfortunately, some people just see marriage is getting a little personal toy to play with instead of a person to love and respect
Have you seen the "shut up ring" videos? That opened my eyes as to why this horrible things happen in weddings
@bUrRiEdaLiVe6 🤨 no I haven't
What happened 👀
@@bUrRiEdaLiVe6spill the horrors
The way the women back into corners or put their hands up as their new husband towers over them and uses full force is a look into EXACTLY what happens when they have an argument at home.
Sadly yes :(
100%.
this is how emotionally stunted children act, they HAVE to win and overpower their baby sibling because they dared to insult them
Yeah some of these videos are TERRIFYING. The guys backing their wives into a corner and shoving her to the floor, or physically grappling with her, ignoring the word ‘no’, making her bleed- it’s straight up abuse!! You’re scaring and hurting your partner, there’s no other way to call that.
@@LilyLewis771glad we’re finally calling it what it is!
My mom told me the cake smashing thing was a hard no for her wedding, she never liked the trend and definitely didn’t want to do it herself. My dad agreed. Amazing how easy it is when a couple respects each other
Did your mother marry recently, or is this trend much older than I thought? It might also be a "different part of the world" -type of thing, but the only tradition while cutting the cake here that I've heard of, is the wife and husband competing which one of them is the first to stomp the ground with their foot while finishing the cut, to playfully "decide" which one is the leader in the marriage I guess 😅 Still a kind of an old fashioned thing, but at least it's not ruining a cake that cost a pretty penny before anyone got to eat it 🤷♂
@@elieli2893 it’s a lot older than you thought, I think my parents got married in the 80s or 90s
Traditionally, the bride and groom are suppose to feed each other a piece of cake to symbolize nurturing each other throughout their lives. Hubby and I fed each other the cake with no drama.
I know a couple who would be all about the cake battle. I don't know if they're planning to marry (the main reason they might is for simplifying international travel), but I wouldn't be at all surprised if they did something like getting a sacrificial cake and a second reception outfit for the both of them. They're hilarious, I can imagine couples like them pulling it off.
My wife and I got married in 1997. Some people practiced caking then. We didn't do it. The cake was pretty expensive, and we were both raised in households of modest means. The idea that someone would waste food like that was inconceivable to us.
I went to one wedding where they didn't shove cake into each other's faces, the groom got a little frosting on the bride's nose and and carefully wiped it off with a napkin then kissed her on the nose. It was so cute
Yeah, this is acceptable I do this at birthdays that way it is just a funny little tradition. This instance is adorable but what is not okay is forcing a cake onto your brides face and literally ruining your spouse’s special day
I had to skip over the clip of the groom cornering the bride and physically assaulting her. That is a crime. That is what I lived through, minus the cake, in my last relationship. Which has taken years to heal past. This behavior in a relationship IS ab*se, and it is disgusting that society (and in this case the wedding reception) will act like there is nothing wrong with it.
I am so sorry you had to experience that. I truly hope that you’re doing much better now. ❤
@@kayhaven4710 Thank you so much for your kind words💜 I have thankfully been out of that situation and healing for many years, but unfortunately it will probably continue to affect me for many years to come. That is one of the many reasons it is so heartbreaking to see how normalized ab*se is because ab*se can fundamentally change someone's life and can be something they need to cope with for years or even the rest of their life.
@@TinyGhosty I dated an alcoholic for four years who was abusive in every possible way except for physical. I too struggle at times wondering if I deserved it or if things could have gotten better. But things do get better!!!
@@kayhaven4710 I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you are also in a better place now doing better and healing. The victim blaming narratives are so easily internalized and I know how you feel. It was never your fault, it was a choice for your ex to treat you the way that they did. They could have gotten help to avoid treating you the way they did and they chose to hurt you instead. That is their problem and burden not yours. But like I said I completely understand internalized victim blaming. It was difficult for me to even open up to other people about the ab*se because "he didn't hit me" altho it was still physical assault and is illegal. I was encouraged by my surroundings to minimize what was happening and I started to believe it was not "that bad" even though it was. It is horrifying how many people are willing to excuse or diminish many forms of ab*se and I am sorry that has affected you as well. I wish you healing and so much happiness in your future💜
@kayhaven4710 There's a book called "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft that I would highly suggest reading if you haven't already, and are still wondering if maybe you shouldn't have given up on your relationship. If you read it, I think you'll realize that there was nothing you could have done to fix him or prevent his abuse.
If you were abused by a female partner, I think much of the book would still be very relatable.
the fact that those cakes often have wooden or thick boba straws as support makes the fact that he THREW IT at her just that much more dangerous and awful
People are trash and don't think at all do they?
As a boba enjoyer......ouch
I saw a comment in another video about this topic where they went to a wedding and the bride got hurt because of this exact reason and spent the rest of the night in the hospital while the groom went back to PARTYING! Some people aren’t worth of marriage that’s for sure
@@Moonkin444Yikes..
@@Moonkin444Please tell us that other video if you remember it because I have to read that story 😮
Went to my cousins wedding. The groom was told repeatedly by multiple people to not shove her face in the cake, she was actually down w a light hearted cake fight and at first they were just lightly smearing frosting on each others faces. Her husband finally decided to literally grab her hair and shove my cousins head as hard into her cake as possible. The reason multiple people told him no? It was a tiered cake. After an emergency room visit we were told one of the wooden dowel in the cake had missed her eye by centimeters.
How quick was the divorce? 🤦♀️
How long was he in jail??
How quick is he getting beat up?
Hope the bastard went to jail
The tradition of feeding each other cake is supposed to symbolize how you will take care of each other during the marriage. You literally promise to take care of each other in the vows. These men who smash cakes in their brides faces are basically showing how they will NOT take care of them, and they will in fact treat them like trash.
Yeah, my parents did the gentle cake feeding from what I can guess by the pictures
My friend and his bride WANTED a cake smash, so they asked me to make a cake SPECIFICALLY for that, as a little fun thing. They talked about it, they agreed on it, and BOTH consented to it. It was cute, there was an outfit change for both parties and both got covered in soft yellow cake and whipped cream. That is how it SHOULD be!!!
That’s the only time when it’s acceptable, I’m also glad they told you to make the cake for smashing because sometimes cakes can have rods and other hard things to keep them in place.
@rosesandmilk Yeah, they said they just want it to be as gentle as possible so it wouldn't hurt either of them. I didn't think about rods but more the edible sugar crystals, glitters, and small candies that were on their non-smashable wedding cake.
Consent is key
How was the wedding?
@JoshuaAndres Fantastic!!! The reception lasted longer than the ceremony, but I think that was by design? I got to help my friend marry his dream girl and met some old friends from school.
There was some couples therapist that said nonconsensual cake-smashing is the BIGGEST indicator of a future failed marriage, from their experience.
As it turns out, deliberately making your wife cry in public on what’s supposed to be the happiest day of your lives is kind of a red flag.
Who would've thought!
Never would've expected that 🤔
Bruh. I would cry if my husband would did that but he would later. I mean I wouldn’t marry him. But it doesn’t look nice
some wedding photographer with a big experience named several signs on the wedding day which shows that pair will end up divorsing, cake thing was Number 1, If I remember correctly.
That’s incredibly interesting, I think the frosting nose boop is really cute, but the whole cake smashing thing is not for me
me the entire video: divorce his ass, DIVORCE; JAILLL
Fr
Just like… watching men violently fight to violate their wife’s one simple request of ‘no god please stop’ is insanely triggering for very obvious reasons
Do men like this ever realize that they're completely allowed to just... not get married? Like buddy you asked her to marry you. You could've simply not done that.
They will be like “Ugh my life is over, the ol’ ball and chain right?” when tHEY ASKED THE WOMAN TO MARRY THEM
@@KingOfGaymes there used to be a cake topper at Walmart that was a bride dragging the groom (toward the alter, presumably) with him leaving claw marks I the faux frosting, and even as a kid I didn't understand why it was supposed to be funny. If you don't 100% want to marry me, I don't want to marry you. Plain and simple.
@@Izzy-cp8ytikr, also in the current years as we seen rn, its usually the dudes who want to get married lol so its like weird, but also y shld marriage be something painful for another person even as an unfunny joke. I feel so bad for these brides oh my god esp the one where shes bleeding and he fucking went feral.
But...but they want a servant.
@@espeon871 the fact that the one guy drew blood was honestly disturbing. Aside from the clear disregard for her wishes and boundaries for a second, how can you intentionally hurt the person you claim to love? I accidentally bonked an ex in the shoulder when I was tickled as I have a very well known strong reaction to being tickled, and I *still* felt bad even though we both knew it was an accident due to a known involuntary reaction. I can't imagine intentionally doing something like this that caused real damage/injury. If I were that bride, I'd be calling the whole thing off right there and walking out. If your new spouse will disrespect you that badly in front of everyone on such a big day, what will they do behind closed doors?
There was actually a study that looked at how many couples ended up divorced and the correlation to the cake cutting ceremony at their wedding. If a man did not respect his wife's wishes in that moment, it is a very goood indication they will end up divorced later on.
Thankfully, my anti-social husband and I eloped.
thats really funny bc i commented on kurtis' video that if the person i was marrying tried that on me it'd be an immediate divorce so i def believe it
Wedding planners will tell you, it’s always the cake smashers who get divorced.
Genuinely thought about this and decided if my husband did that, I wouldn't go home with him, and I'd get an annulment.
It wouldn't have been about the cake. It would've been the fact that doing that would have revealed him to be someone totally different than I thought he was, and yeah no I'm not marrying a jerk stranger.
Of course, he didn't, because I did in fact know him, and I'm currently happily carrying his second baby 😂 but yeah. Can't be doing that ish, my dudes.
I can't even imagine the thought of shoving cake in my face crossing my partners mind. He'd look at this and think it's just a shitty thing to do. We talk about eloping too, the marriage is about us, not other people. A wedding is nice but screw this.
Now I’m curious as to how my parents’ wedding went because oh boy
The "no kids" rule, is totally worth it. In my family the weedings and special events often get ruined because the kids scream at the sentimental speechs or videos, they get super bored and get in the way of the servers, food, camera, couple, etc, especially with irresponsible parents
I knew a bride who insisted that her 6 month old niece be a bridesmaid. She was carried up the aisle by one of the attendants. The baby cried non stop during the ceremony and totally ruined it as no one could hear the wedding vows. Terrible idea, as there was no.contingency plan for this
I remember attending 2 weddings as a kid, and even though between them they had a 'kid's room' with movies on the TV and sweets, and a bouncy castle outside, I was SO BORED most of the time and I hated my dress because it was so uncomfortable. And looking back now, who wants to be the adult supervising the kids room or the bouncy castle at a wedding? Not me, I'd be drunk.
@@batll0 The "kids room" idea is nice but it is not for all children. Also It can entertain you for a while, but weddings are super long so I was bored too
My wedding was a backyard wedding with a short and sweet ceremony. A lot of my family members (including my sister) had kids, so they were welcome. We gave them all coloring sheets with crayons, and they each got a disposable camera with a list of fun things to take pictures of, kind of like a scavenger hunt. Definitely not for everyone, but the kids had a good time and our wedding was very enjoyable.
My cousin’s wedding was interrupted by a baby screaming through half the vows. I was bored too, I was like 9 of course I was, but you didn’t see me screaming
At the only wedding i've been to in person, the bride dabbed a bit of icing on the groom's forehead, and he ever so carefully and gently took a smidge of icing and booped it onto her nose. It was the *cutest thing* to see the bride beaming at him as he slowly reached over, making sure that the only place icing got was her nose.
AWW THATS SO CUTE😭💖
Let’s remember tall cakes have to have dowels in them for support. So throwing entire cakes at people could take an eye out or worse. No wonder that bride bled when the cake was smashed into her head.
Exactly. He literally could have killed her by doing that. It’s so dangerous to do
she bled because her husband was still HOLDING THE CAKE CUTTER while smashing cake into her face which is EVEN WORSE IMO. like not everyone knows cakes have dowels in them BUT EVERYONE KNOWS NOT TO SHOVE AT SOMEONE WITH A SHARP CUTTY THING IN HAND????
@@BonnieBuggieyikes- ew
Just wanna say, love the pfp
oh my god your avatar had me cackling.
Literally just texted my husband (he’s hanging out on the other side of the house) “Thank you for not smashing cake into my face on our wedding day.” Man says “The thought never occurred to me. You looked so happy next to me. Is that something people do?” And just. Bless this man.
He's a real keeper. The world needs more people like him ❤️
Ugh where you find this man? I want one😒
Keep him, sis!!! It's hell out here!!!
Wow the bare minimum congrats
@@octobergirl5525one that does the bare minimum?? I swear y’all set the bar in hell
On my relatives wedding, the groom smudged chocolate cake all over her face, hair and her dress. No one laughed (except he himself 💀) Apparently, it was her mom's wedding dress who passed away before she got married.
YOURE KIDDING OMG 😭
PLEASE TELL ME SHE GOT A DIVORCE?!?
Nah they're still together but I bet she still holds a grudge against him
@@Sunny-209 I bet she does
It’s not even the „smearing cake in her face against her wishes“. It’s how brutal the grooms are. Slapping the bride really hard in the face, grabbing their neck to force her head to the cake, tackling them to the ground…
The whole point of the "feeding each other the cake" is to prove to each other that they can trust you.
To literally force it on your new wife just because you think it will be funny is a really big red flag
Why does everyone just say wife when talking about it like the husbands are never on the receiving end?
@HexManiac-nf1yg In the video that we’re watching, all but one of the men in these couples are the ones taking the cake smash too far, and the one that wasn’t the groom was what looked to be a groomsman. If not violently smashing cake into their newlywed bride’s face, grooms in this video can be seen joking about how much they wish they weren’t getting married and how much they hate their wives, or just behaving in a way that you would expect a bored child to behave at their wedding rather than one of the key participants. I don’t know exactly what sort of shenanigans from the bride you’ve seen at weddings, but based on most people’s experiences and the examples from this video, the groom is the one at fault.
Wait... really?
@@HexManiac-nf1ygthis video is literally about brides
@@HexManiac-nf1ygare you blind or stupid???
I remember reading a reddit post where she got an annulment after the cake smashing bs happened at her wedding and so many people were like "that's such a terrible reason to end a relationship"
And I am reminded why standards have been allowed to stoop so low.
The people who think its a "terrible reason" don't get that it's not about the cake, it's about respect. If he can't respect even the simplest boundary like "don't smash cake in my face," he doesn't respect her, and she will spend the rest of her life being bullied.
@@jennfoley Exactly! They were all like "you need to work on the relationship instead of giving up that easily" but you can't fix someone disrespecting you like that. Either they do or they don't. And ime asking someone to respect you has the opposite effect
Marriage is about being with someone who will make you happy. No relationship is easy, but if your relationship, from friendship to dating to marriage, is 90% work, it’s not worth it. Love yourself by yourself or find someone better. If someone is only hurting you and making you work for them they’re not worth it.
This is so valid. It's super disrespectful and some of these are closer to an assault than "just a prank". All of these are a horrible beginning to a marriage and just shows he doesn't respect her at all, or care about their wedding and possibly don't listen when told "no", which are all concerning traits. 100% support everyone who want to break up after that.
The problem is that you’re using a Reddit post as a baseline for humanity. Guarantee you 99% of what is posted on Reddit is a lie, overblown, or a bunch of losers venting about their pathetic life. 😂
Ruining the cake is doubly bad when you realize a lot of people plan to save some/all of the cake to be able to freeze it and have it for an anniversary.
Well luckily these people won’t have an anniversary
A lot of wedding cakes have dowels in them, you could literally blind someone by shoving a whole cake into their face
I always think about that when I see the videos too. I'm sure someone has gotten hurt before that way...
“A world of hetero horror” really sums it up for me, just because you’re shoving cake at someone doesn’t mean you’re not shoving them, it’s still assault
Like I understand some frosting on the nose, but shoving an entire piece of cake
yeah, it was a nightmare from start to finish.
Lmao I mean I wouldn't mind having my face shoved in cake
Hell imma RKO the best man into it
Buuut if he or she doesn't want it then please don't
I shoulda said that before the edit I apologize
It was heartbreaking. Some of these women were literally toppled to the floor and could have twisted an ankle or bumped their head, hurt their neck, etc. They're in heels, cumbersome dresses and veils that cut off peripheral vision, and it's like, of course they are. They didn't sign up to brawl on their wedding day, but here they are doing just that. The one guy who threw the cake. You gotta figure that thing is heavier than it looks and the head/face is the most vulnerable part of the body. Why do that to someone you love? Even football players get helmets. Smh.
As someone who recently got married to the sweetest, and most respectful man, I cannot imagine what these poor women were feeling. The fact that these men felt the nerve to embarrass their NEW WIFE on THEIR WEDDING DAY is absolutely astonishing to me. I truly believe a majority of men cannot control the slightest bit of rage they have pent up from their childhood.
As a man who releases anger into the void of video games, I can confirm.
@@johnnycripplestar5167you deal with that with therapist, otherwise you are putting others in risk.
ok kanaya maryam
Aaw, hope things go well for you and your hisband! And I agree, that has to be the WORST for the bride
not just embarrass but some of them straight up assaulted their wives
I've literally only seen one cake to the face thing that didn't seem weird to me, and it was because the bride and groom had both decided to have a cupcake fight. Like, full on got cupcakes for the wedding just so they could attack eachother with two of them, then leave the rest for everyone to eat.
My parents both cut the cake, my mom could see in his eyes what he was thinking and they both smoshed the cake into each others face at the same time.
The important thing is that my dad looked at his new wife, read her body language and only moved when she did. It made a memorable funny moment for both of them because it was mutual and consentual and my dad DIDNT proceed to throw the entire cake at her. *shocker*
Funky said that so many of these men don't view their spouses as life partners, and it really made me grateful to my dad. Even when they've had rocky spots in their marriage, he's never treated my mom as anything less than an equal. The man was born in the '50s, there is no excuse for modern dudes acting like this.
That is truly the bare minimum, you shouldn’t be grateful for that
@@pgaktit is. but that doesnt mean they cant still be grateful, considering a lot of kids get stuck with parents who hate each other.
@@pgakt People are very capable of being immature in marriages, hence the 40/50 % divorce rate. So actually sticking through isn't the bare minimum.
Meanwhile my dad immediately left as soon as I was born lmao (no marriage)
@@pgaktshe’s grateful by the fact that her dad isn’t an asshole compared to other people, as much as it is the bare minimum.
As a counselor, grooms not respecting their bride's wishes/boundaries when it comes to cake smash, it is 100% a red flag!
What about when brides do it? Is that just #SmashingThePatriarchy
@@inframatic Nope; a violation of boundaries is a major red flag, regardless of gender.
Thank you!!!!
@@inframatic 🤡
@@inframatic except its grooms who pick up they wives and throw them in the cake not other way around
As someone whos worked at weddings, PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. Make it known to your staff that they can eat as well. I have starved myself not realizing i was allowed to take food
Um...no? Did they not pay you to be there to do your job? They paid to feed their guests, not the people they ALREADY PAID to work. If they want to leave leftovers to staff instead of taking them home, that's generous. But if the staff I was paying to work were eating the food I paid for while I was paying their wages while they were supposed to be serving my guests, I'd be pissed.
@@mnschoenWhich is why actually generous people a) let them eat, and b) let them know they can eat.
@@mnschoenentitled Karen spotted!
@@mnschoenHoly shit. Are you evil? Do you also believe that people who work food service jobs shouldn’t be allowed to eat on the job? Do you believe that employees don’t deserve breaks? I’ve never seen someone so completely devoid of human empathy
@@mnschoen They're human beings who are there earlier than the guests and wedding couple to set up, have to be there the entire time the party is going on, and have to stay afterward to clean up. Let them eat some of the food. I wouldn't even call it generous, I'd call it basic human decency.
I used to work in the wedding industry and we had one wedding where both of the newlyweds' dads broke so many things including knocking a 3-foot hole into the bathroom wall because they were wrestling. No apology, not even an acknowledgement that they broke stuff. It was so frustrating and honestly disgusting for 50+ year old men to be acting that way
They were wrestling in the bathroom? Why?
@@naranara1690 Bc they were blackout drunk unfortunately
I do feel for these women because it just shows their husbands don’t care about their boundaries and I know the humiliation only gets worse. Kudos to that one bride though that sought out an annulment (or divorce, one of them) immediately after her husband shoved cake in her face when she explicitly asked him not to.
Which one?
@@user-fy4uv9wb7ocommenting to be notified when your question's answered lol
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It was the brief news article shown in the video.
Its like he didn't notice how much of a major red flag it is to disobey your partners wishes when they specifically ask you not to do something. If he was so willing to do that imagine what the marriage would have been like if it lasted
@@sarahbarabe4990ikr!
I attended my cousin’s wedding this year and watched the groom like a HAWK for cake shenanigans. There were none. Because he values, respects, and deeply likes her as a person.
Me too when I went to my older cousin's wedding in august.
I am surprised that this is so often happening. It didn’t even cross my mind during my wedding year ago.
When my childhood best friend got married, I'm glad I didn't even consider the possibility. Her now husband has always been so gentle and in love with her that he probably would rather have died than ruin the happiest day of his life. (Seriously, there were so many happy tears on both sides and they held hands the entire day basically)
Last wedding I went to I don't even think the bride and groom cut the cake, there was cake, but I didn't see either of them go near it.
Very obvious these men weren’t taught to be gentle when they were younger… just praised when they showed ‘power’
17:25 I would add a small addendum that, it is okay to wear white to a wedding if, AND ONLY IF, both the bride and groom tell you that it's okay.
I actually heard a story once where, because she'd heard that her future MiL and SiL were planning on wearing white to her wedding, she changed the theme of the wedding without telling them (with her fiance's permission, just to clarify that there was communication between the two), encouraging all of her married friends to wear their own wedding dresses to her wedding, and she wore a dark purple dress to get married in.
And when I say she didn't tell them about the theme change, she sent them a different invitation than what everyone else got, and their invitations specifically said not to wear white, knowing that they would.
I don’t understand how hitting your wife in public world obviously be an outrage but simply lobbing a giant dense cake at her head is totally hilarious.
Or tackling her to the ground while holding a huge knife, and cutting her arm in the process (which happened in one of the videos briefly shown)
Not only just a giant, dense cake, but a giant dense cake with things like sticks and skewers sticking up through them in order to hold them up. It's as though these grooms are actively forgetting when they attack their brides with cake that said cakes are being held up by sharp objects that, if unlucky, could do extreme, serious harm to those who are not careful handling them, so therefor, uncaringly and in some instances, furiously smashing it into the faces of their women in the best case scenario will result in injuries that'll need a length hospital trip, and at worse cause extreme permanent damage
@@Rachel-og8jy time stamp?
@@jeanettelori1439 around 5:10
its a little hard to hear but you can hear the person helping her after say "i dont know but you're bleeding somewhere" and you can see that the groom has a giant knife in his hand when he shoves the cake at her
@@jeanettelori1439 around 5:10
its a little hard to hear but you can hear the person helping her after say "i dont know but you're bleeding somewhere" and you can see that the groom has a giant knife in his hand when he shoves the cake at her
I was the MOH for my best friend. She and her husband were both super excited and particular about what they wanted the wedding to look and be like. The cake was something they both were excited about as they got it from a well-known baker and spent a lot of time designing and making decisions on it. The groomsmen were a**holes and decided to "prank" them by destroying the cake and covering the new couple in it. It goes without saying that both were super upset, their dream cake was destroyed and there was no dessert for the guests besides the cookies and little things one puts out. On top of that their outfits and hair were completely messed up, and though they celebrated their love, it had quickly not become the wedding they dreamed of. After the wedding I decided to double the invoice and send it to the grooms party. They at first were upset but eventually paid the $5,000. I sent it to my friends while they were on their honeymoon as a little gift. When the next groomsman got married, there was not a prank in sight.
Don't mess with the wedding cake mates :)
Great way to handle that!! That poor couple :(
Jaysus now that is scumbaggery at its finest
Now that's a MOH 👏👏👏
The way I wouldive picked a taser up from my pocket slowly seeing the groomsman doing that "prank"
You put the Honor in Maid of Honor🫡
1:25 actually saved me thank you funky
After watching this I texted my bf saying "When we get married if you smash a cake in my face, I'm divorcing you". His response was "Why would I do that? I wouldn't want to ruin your makeup." look at the common sense people!! How do other men not understand that??
Some of these grooms are not only toxic, but abusive, as you said. It’s a simple boundary. I told my husband to gently feed me cake because I was paying a lot for my makeup and he respected that instantly and it resulted in a sweet photo, not him physically overpowering me and humiliating me like these grooms. But he let me smash cake in his beard and took it like a champ. These guys need to grow up
Did he want the cake shoved into his beard after he gently fed you cake? I was thinking how sweet of your post until I got to the end where despite you asking him not to do it to you, you did it to him.
Why? What is the point of even doing it? What a weird way to start a marriage with violence and disrespect from either or both parties. You said he let you, but that doesn't seem like he asked you to do it that way.
I understand you paid a lot for makeup, but didn't he spend quite a bit of time grooming his beard? If it is a thick beard he likely won't be able to get all the cake and frosting out of it until he can take a shower.
It isn't just you, I find the whole shoving cake into your partners face on your wedding day no less to be questionable behavior at best. Just all the money on the outfits, grooming on both sides, and then let's act like toddlers or kids having a food fight at lunch by smashing the cake into each other's faces.
That's a sweet story only if you checked that he was okay with having cake smeared in his beard.....
@@cosmicmuffin322I mean op probably did since consent and all that.
@@marikka9347well she said he let her so he was probably ok with it
@@SH4RK-SUPR3M4CY"He let me" and "He wanted to" are two very different things. I know some people are okay with it, but seems a little imbalanced to me without explicit and enthusiastic consent.
I can't imagine hating someone enough to wear a wedding dress to their wedding and actually going to their wedding. If you hate them that much, don't go.
It's a different kind of hate. It's pettiness. They wanna make the person they despise angry or miserable. It's yucky!
Fun fact but if someone wears white to a wedding not only can the bridesmaid ruin the dress they can tackle them 😍
@@mavethedave7123White at all??
@DeathnoteBB full white. A white shirt or white on a pattern is fine of course; the disrespect is when it looks like the guest is trying to dress like the bride
@@mavethedave7123that’s assault js kick the person out
I got married in my USCG uniform. The jacket was very expensive and hard to keep clean. My wife caked my face and got it on my lapels. I was so mad. Then I tried to return the favor and she got very mad and said no. I respected that boundary. The only “to be fair” I can give is that I didn’t explicitly say I didn’t want to, if I had been wearing something else I wouldn’t have even minded.
On another note, my brand new father in law told me “no returns so don’t keep the receipt” and her aunt whispered to me “Say goodbye to freedom”. I was so pissed.
I’m sorry that happened
these wedding videos genuinely make me so sad
Both myself and my husband are bi and had what was basically a straight passing wedding but we didn't follow a lot of traditions and the majority of my family thought it refreshing and beautiful that we were doing our own thing.
That’s amazing, wishing you two the best 💜
Congratulations on your wedding!
Congrats!! That sounds amazing :D
That’s awesome, congratulations!!
Yippeee!!!!!
My mom told my dad that if he shoved cake in her face the wedding would be called off and they would not be married. He respected that, everyone had a great time, and the biggest joke at the wedding was the best man dressing in drag and pretending to be an ex girlfriend, which my mom thought was hilarious once she realized what was happening. They're still going strong 23 years later.
That’s adorable! But the real question is- did the best man rock the drag
Btw I love your profile pic. It’s nice seeing a fellow Fander.
I didn’t know cake-face-shoving was even a thing until recently. Has it been going on for decades?! It is so barbaric. The men who do this are Neanderthals!
I would have loved to see that, just the best man coming out in drag and yelling “HOW COULD YOU?!” That would be funny as hell and harmless if the bride and groom were okay with it.
A cute thing that we (bridesmaids) did my sisters wedding (with her permission) was when we all went down the isle, we handed the groom tissues as we all passed him and whispered "you're gunna need this" before we took our spots. Turns out we ALL needed them that day.
To avoid this: featuring ✨what i would do✨
1. I would make sure every single person attending my wedding knows how much everything costs.
2. Only my kids attending. Exceptions can be discussed.
3. Tell my fiance that if he smashes the cake in my face, he is immediately getting divorced and can go home *alone* with the wedding ring and the engagement ring. 😄
The way you can combine humor with a very thought-provoking commentary is fucking amazing. I really did not expect to learn about the origins of bouquet throwing before watching this video.
I must insert history lesson jumpscares whenever possible muhahaha
@@funkyfrogbaitngl.... if you did a long video just rambling about history I'd watch it.
@@funkyfrogbaitYou’d probably teach me more about history than my history teacher
That is horrifying. Layered cakes have dowels in them to support the cake!
@@funkyfrogbaitnoice
the fact that one of the traditional lines in a women's vows is "to love, cherish and obey", but for men it is "to love and to cherish", says everything you need to know about wedding culture and how much it needs to change before it can be deemed equal.
princess diana refused to have that "obey" in her vows if i recall
@@rebeccagibbs4128oof still didn't end up well for her but glad she did that
Ok? If you don't want to say that then don't 💀
@@lunawilder8739they was just pointing out that's how it been for ages very out dated. But you right people shouldn't say it no more.
@@toxiczombiewolf5692except that's not the standard it's only for evangelical religions
“I’m going to hurt and embarrass the person whom I call the love of my life in front of of all her most cherished people, destroying not only the cake we went to tastings for and put effort in choosing, but also her makeup and hair and dress, ruining expensive, careful, artistic beauty on a day she hopes to look back on with fondness when she is no longer youthful and beautiful. Recreating the dress ripping scene from Cinderella in a desperate attempt to gain validation from others through laughter (even if nervous laughter) is exactly the selfish vibe I wanted on what should be one of our happiest days.”
15:49 Groom appears to have grown up with that for years and is heard telling his mother to leave. I've grown up in a familiar situation (not a wedding, just anywhere in public) and that embarrassment and freezing was a very common experience, even as I became a teen. I couldn't even stand up to my own mother due to her destroying my backbone and because I would be in for a verbal assault at home, I wouldn't be surprised if the groom went through that as a child, too.
That one clip where the bride did the tiniest bit of icing on the grooms face and the groom absolutely destroyed her (in the worst way possible) gave me the same vibes as when you do a dot on your friends paper and they grab a marker to absolutely scribble and DESTROY yours-
I've met a lot of guys who believe that they are entitled to 'self defence' but then exaggerate the amount of force needed. Like if a woman gives them a back handed slap, they corner her into a wall and beat her to a pulp. When the fight was technically over after the one slap and you legally cannot use force unless you are cornered or being chased. It's some sort of messed up honour thing, that they are more untouchable than you and that you need to be punished for slighting them.
@@demo2823 Mhm, thats exactly what that is. I feel that more men have a toxic masculinity trait with the "self defence" then there are not too.
My step dad did something similar when i was a child
I asked if I could draw a VERY small dot on his shirt ,,, he said yes, and when I did, he went apeshit and angrily scribbled on my entire shirt like a maniac
That was not funny,,, I thought he actually meant his yes :/
@@p0p525 dude wtf?? You were a CHILD who asked a question to an adult you TRUSTED, what did he expect when he said yes??
@@foxowaranimation397
Legit. I frankly haven't a single clue what he expected me to do when he accepted.
Especially since I was very happily asking him. Heck, I even asked if he was sure of it, and he said yes.
Even to this day, as an adult, I question why he did that.
I felt sorry for the groom whose mother screamed at the bride. I can see someone freezing up if they grew up with someone like that. :(
Yeah I would be mortified if my Mom did this. I'd probably even freeze for a split second till I realized she was actually serious.
He echoed his wife's statement. He told his mother she can leave.
no dude , you meant " in the most squeamish and "no balls " way " he tried to say something @@Bottomsupyours
The mother is definitely still abusive. I don't blame him for freezing up out of fear and shock
Time stamp?
as a kid who was brought to wedding and was an absolute terror, don't bring kids to wedding. At 6 my sister and I tried to swim in a chocolate fountain, at 10 I stole all the goldfish table toppers😂
6:30 i did not have a wedding; i signed some papers and then went to eat at my favorite restaurant afterwards. i did want a wedding, it just wasn't in the cards at the time - but i can tell you right now that if my husband had done this shit (which he would've NEVER) i would have literally said "oh ok, bye, the wedding is over and it's being annulled."
like fr this behavior is insane.
I went to a relative's wedding a while back and the groom did the cake in face thing, resulting in the bride rushing off in tears to be consoled by her bridesmaids as the groom stood in front of everyone awkwardly. They're now divorced.
Good for her.
Guaranteed he goes online to tell everyone he “gave her everything” and women just plot for decades to marry good men just so they can divorce them for no reason in their late 30’s with kids.
I can’t believe I have to say this, but you are a horrible person. The bride is clearly in the wrong here, and you are awful for seeing it any other way.
@@mollygrace3068😂😂 enjoy your cats lady. The fat acceptance movement claims another one 🤣🤣🤣
@@brandonscott9747cats are polite and respectful creatures who offer entertainment and affection. Please explain, in detail, what’s wrong with the idea of finding love and companionship with animals? It’s not an either or scenario btw. You can have cats and a bf/husband at the same time. You can also be fat and do all of those things. I don’t understand what cats or fat acceptance has to do with any part of this discussion?
My wedding was at the Ohio Renaissance festival. In costume. The actual wedding was like 15 minutes. Had a reception, then like an intermission where kids and adults could run around the festival to shop play games whatever, then came back and we watched jousting. 10/10. Fun day. Only cost 7k. No garter toss, no bouquet toss, out with those horrible traditions. When I told my now husband to not shove cake in my face he literally went "why would I? I love you"
Best wedding ever ❤
yes, our cake was $1200 in 2010. There was NO WAY my hubby would disrespect me AND waste expensive cake ;)
Just more evidence that ren fairs are where the cool people hang out.
Only in ohio!?
He’s a keeper- 🤧
I feel moments like that are a sign of things to come. Divorce, DV or both down the road. Its a significant lack of boundaries and respect.
I find it so funny that people feel like they need to win the "cake fight". At my brother's wedding, they cut the cake, smeared a little frosting on each other's noses, and moved on. People are just crazy
I'm really glad to see behavior like this being called out. I've always been "sensitive" and self conscious, and if my future wife humiliated me in front of our friends and family, I wouldn't feel like I could trust her.
I felt that "sensitive" in brackets in my soul. Just remember sweet pea, sensitivity is a gift in a harsh world. And let's face it, if you are to wed, it should be with someone who cherishes that sensitivity more than anything 😊
@@JuniperDennthis is so sweet for a CZcams comment omg 😭
@@spaceiscool7791right? bro got me crying rn
@@JuniperDennbro we're sensitive why are you out here making us cry
@@JuniperDennThis is so sweet
I told my husband before we got married I would not participate in cake smashing, bouquet toss or the creepy ass garter removal and he respected my wishes. We are still married almost 7 years later. Consent is so important.
THE GARTER THING IS SO CREEPY. IT'S SO COMMON WHERE I LIVE.
I’ve never heard of a garter removal at a wedding, what is a garter removal? (Sorry if I sound stupid 😅)
@@cheeseandquackers8342 Also referred to as a "garter toss", it's similar to the bouquet toss where instead of the eligible ladies try to catch flowers so they'll be the next to get married, the bride wears a small cloth/lace band around her leg (usually her thigh) and the groom goes under her skirt to 'fish' the garter out, then flings it towards the eligible bachelors for them to catch, and see who among the men will get married next.
Never understood the appeal of it, it's just an excuse to be crass and embarrass the bride.
@@SilverGlows That sounds… a little gross. The idea of a man sticking his hands in a woman’s dress to fish out a garter sounds nasty. Also, aren’t garters the things that hold up a stocking to prevent it from falling and showing bare skin? It just sounds really uncomfortable to have someone basically kind of undressing you or taking something that’s meant to help cover up off🤨
@@cheeseandquackers8342 1000% agree. My sister did it at her wedding and I just couldn't help but feel terrible for her. I am ADAMANT that there will be no garter toss at my wedding, despite some initial (half-joking) insistence from my partner and best friend.
this screams "matrimonial abuse" and it scares me how common it is seen as
like if you literally throw your lover to the floor because of a "cake cutting and fighting tradition", what are you able of doing once you are in the intimacy of home?
Man, these videos actually hurt to watch. I’ve been in an abusive relationship before and I feel like it’s a pretty bad sign how much I’m reminded of that period of my life when I see grooms behave like this. Like some of the wives seem genuinely afraid, maybe I’m reading into things but I know what it’s like to be with someone who doesn’t listen when you say no, and even in relatively minor instances like these, no one deserves that.
hope youre doing better
At my Uncle's wedding, him and my aunt smeared a little bit of cake on each other's lips and kissed
Was it gross? As a person who hates sharing spit and food, yes.
Was it way cuter and waaaaaaaay better than these guys? Incredibly so.
It also sounds like it consensual.
See that’s how you do it
Wait, your uncle married your aunt...?
@@xen0biait’s like, say, the uncle was apart of the family, and the aunt is an aunt by law- they aren’t blood related
@@ninthee7113 I figured as such, but I wouldn't have phrased it like that. But I'm also not a native english speaker so there's that.
About the groom freezing at the mothers screaming. There was some kind of a comment the bride made after the fact that the husband was actually having either an anxiety or a panic attack and froze up out of fear, not because he wasn't willing to stand up to her.
I feel so bad because that would genuinely be my reaction too. I don't handle conflict very well due to personal experience, and while I'd love to think I'd be able to push that aside and defend my partner, a part of me knows I'd probably freeze up and not know what to do or say. I'd try to make it up to them afterwards and would absolutely kick myself for not having the nerves to fight back... I hope everything worked out okay in the end.
^^^^That^^^^
I recognized that reaction INSTANTLY
I think I also heard him manage to say to his mother “you can leave”. That’s awful that they had to experience that.
15:30 - time stamp
My mother would be the type to scream like that and while i wouldnt freeze, i can totally understand why someone would. Its the most special day in your life and your mother just stands up to embarrass you and your significant other? Thats genuinely awful
Yeah, I can imagine that the mother might already be a frightening figure in his life. That's a difficult thing to overcome. There's a difference between being a 'mamma's boy' and being genuinely terrified. I somehow learned not to clam up when someone yells at me through sheer pent-up frustration and anger. But that took *years*, man.
My father gave me advance warning that he wanted to play the military sendoff trumpets at my wedding, and staright up said he wouldnt do it if I asked him not to. I gave him the ok, he did it, and he, my brother, and my groom immediately looked at me to make sure I was still ok. The look of relief on his face when he saw me laughing along with everyone made me cry harder than i already was because he and my husband had been so concerned that I'd be upset. I'm so lucky to have not just one but 3 compassionate men in my life, i wish i could download their personalities into some of these men. If you're planning on getting married, please dont settle ❤
"The frozen chicken you left in the freezer for your mom, you're welcome"
thanks because I actually forgot
It’s even more upsetting that the entire guests at the wedding are just laughing at the cake being shoved in the bride’s face. This is a massive red flag
100%
As much as I agree that people shouldn’t be laughing at this I have to admit I think I would be in so much shock all I would be able to do is a nervous laughter type of thing. But for the laughs that seem genuinely excited and entertained yeah that’s whack.
I mean, what are they supposed to do?
I guarantee a good number of those people are laughing nervously and uncomfortably, and don't want to be seeing what they are seeing. They are witnessing an assault that came out of literally nowhere. Everything is happy. Beautiful wedding, beautiful bride and groom, happy celebration, yay cake! and suddenly an assault is happening in seconds. No time to really process and react.
i imagine that they would be under the assumption that the bride was in on the joke. its hard to conceptualize that someone you assumedly know well enough to be invited to their wedding would do something that audacious
At my friend's wedding, her and her husband did the little dollop of icing on each other's noses. It was cute, easy to clean up with a napkin, and made for some adorable pictures. But, most importantly, it was consenual and discussed before hand as being ok!
That's what I want to do, it's not a smash, it's a little boop
FOR REAL
thats so cute😭💗
I thought this was what the tradition was supposed to be 😂
HOW IT SHOULD BE‼️
The "help me" guy is so absurd, like YOU asked her, you weren't forced. Even as a joke its just ridiculous.
Lol so I had to plan my wedding in four months so I was half crazed with stress. My mom had stage 4 cancer. My pregnant sister-in-law was getting contractions during the wedding. I had a double ear infection and sinus infection on my wedding day. There could have been people at my wedding wearing full-on wedding dresses and I guarantee I wouldn't have noticed it. Much less anyone wearing white.
The disturbing amount of force used by these men! Not just doing it without her consent, but just how brutal they get! That’s immediately get a divorce energy!
i'm upset at how many of them immediately go for side-of-the-head hits. it's so insanely aggressive it's like they were waiting for the chance to hit them? they're not even trying to smear it on their face, they're trying to hit them.
My person and I discussed what we did and did not want to do during our wedding proceedings and we stuck to it.
Ps: I really like your blouse.
The whole “help me I’m trapped in marriage” thing I see a lot in weddings and marriages is so shocking to me. I know nothing about love, but if I ever have a partner I will always make sure they know how lucky I am to be with them and how special they are to me.
It is also very hypocritical given that historically it was women who were literally trapped in marriage because they couldn't have their own bank account or own property. And even today women are more likely to stay in unhappy marriage because they'd basically be homeless if they left.
@@LeoDBW Exactly this. I have an aunt who’s practically brainwashed to stay with her husband and the misogyny is unreal whenever I step in their house, her husband complains about being stuck in a marriage with her all the time at family gatherings yet threatens her is she does say anything about leaving him. Unfortunately it’s more common then not
Yeah me and my partner have agreed he will ask when the time is right (likely a few years) and it will just be an excuse to have a spooky themed party 😂
@@imanijohnson1340 that sounds so perfect, i wish you both the best 🫶
666th like :D i agree
My husband and I both agreed before our wedding that we wouldnt do the cake smashing because it made us both uncomfortable. It just looked so disrespectful. I wish more couples could go into a marriage with that gentle and respectful mindset.
You speak with such clarity, your points are perfect, you’re witty and funny, I swear you’re a genius
I saw once a video of a girl at her 16th birthday party, she looked so happy and beautiful, (that dress hair and makeup and party didn't come off cheap) and her friends decided to smash a cake into her face. They laughed as she cried and left in distress and they kept asking why she was upset and crying. Now you see, this day was supposed to be about her, and about the woman she would become, but her "friends" decided to make it about themselves. I believe if anyone thinks this is funny they need to think it over, because that doesn't sound like a joke, it sounds like an issue.
69th like. But also, those friends suck ass.
@@fellow-genya-enjoyer agreed
Mhm, it's not a joke, it's malicious humiliation
I saw one where a brother I think smashed a young girls face into her cake before she even got to blow out the candles and it went just as horrible lay as you’d think as she apparently went blind since ya know she got a face full of still lit candles
That was at a quinceañera
If my husband threw a cake at me I would divorce him right there. I don’t care how much the wedding cost, that kinda disrespect is too crazy
This day that may be a cake ,in other it can be another thing. Just one red flag is enough for to call it quits
Some people actually have filed for divorce over this, I'm glad they took action
Well if you could get an anullment so you don't have to pay all those divorce fees
This is so hard to watch, especially the woman who bled all over her dress after being attacked. What a damn horror show.
My mom has said for YEARS how disrespectful it is to shove cake in someone’s face. We used to watch wedding shows on tv together all the time and you’d see it and you could so often see the bride was upset but trying to keep composure, either for the sake of the guests or being filmed. You just know this stemmed from a few couples consensually and mutually agreeing to it because it was in both their humour to do something silly like that but it caught on and now every mean spirited partner sees this as the perfect “prank” to pull on the person they just publicly said they’d respect and cherish.
Yesss. Planned, agreed upon, silly flirty reasonably balanced food fight? Adorable. Hilarious. Surprise (or worse, specifically requested not to happen) attack carried out despite protest and resistance? Horrible. Humiliating. Just a whole disaster.
I just got married earlier in the month and my husband is incredible. He planned the whole wedding and took so many months of planning to make it as sentimental as possible. Our cake cutting was super gentle and affectionate. We jokingly did the “here comes the airplane” thing and held hands the whole day. I could never imagine him doing to me what these “men” do to their brides.
this is so cuteeee
AWWWW congrats!
Babe, so happy for you. Hold onto each other tight and don’t ever let go
Thats amazing. My fiance cant seem to help me plan very much at all.
@@OatCakes101it’s rare for me to “meet” soon-to-be-wed couples, so if you don’t mind me asking, doesn’t he look forward to the marriage?
I actually can't watch these all the way through, it's like watching the beginning of a DV situation. My mind immediately jumps to months later behind closed doors when she's trapped with him. RUN LADIES! A boundary pusher? A troll? Someone who likes getting a rise out of you? RUNNNNNNN
The pressure to be perfect and the pressure of parent’s expectations and the money that gets sunk into a wedding is one of the reason me and the hubs eloped and only had a small amount of friends and family attend our little make shift wedding on a bridge. We did have them over for some burgers afterwards and even a little cake…in which we both put a dollop of icing on each others nose and that was it. And it was the best day of my life ❤
Before our wedding a year ago, I told my now husband not to smash cake in my face. He is an adult, so he didn’t. Apparently, I should also have explained the serving cake to each other tradition, because he just ate his bite unknowingly and then felt very bad about it. Looking back, it’s hilarious. I’d like to offer this up as an alternative low-stakes non-messy cake prank.
That's so funny he did that actually lol
Mine did that too with the groom's cake! (He didn't know we were extending the feeding each other thing for both cakes) This led to one of my favorite pictures from the wedding where he's happily eating cake and I'm looking into the camera like it's The Office.
That's adorable!
I mean… yeah if you want someone to do a tradition you gotta explain said tradition first 😂
I’m not even a guy and I would have eaten the cake myself too
@@DeathnoteBBI'm a guy but I would've as well. I take cake very seriously - leave my poor husband very confused as to why I immediately started eating the slice instead of feeding it to him like usual.
Ugh, so the “cake in the face” story from my Dad’s second marriage: They were supposed to feed each other a bit of cake, but instead his bride shoved the piece of cake between her cleavage in her very low cut, tight dress. He ate the piece of cake out of her cleavage. This is not something I, his 13yr old child, wanted or needed to see, let alone the rest of his family and friends. It haunts me to this day.
eww.
Eww!
omg absolutely not
Omg eww noooo 😭
EWWWW WHY ARE STRAIGHT PEOPLE LIKE THIS
Neither of my parents wanted cake in their face, so they both just fed a smidge to each other lol. Whenever I get married, I'll either do that, or just eat a slice like a normal person
My wedding was perfect. I invited 20 close family/friends. We wedded at a park and went for Indian food buffet after. My best friend made me my wedding cake. It cost me less than $3000. My husband is so sweet and loving and RESPECTFUL.
My dad “I wasn’t gonna ruin my wedding by ruining my beautiful wife’s face. She was stunning. Your mother was perfect and I didn’t want to ruin it for her. If your man (or anyone I want to be with now that I’m out) shoves food in your face on your wedding, DIVORCE THEM”
Your dad sounds awesome
SLAY
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13:56 fun wedding fact- a main job of the bridesmaids is literally to carry a wine glass with them so if anyone else is wearing white they can spill it on them😂
Yeah that was my job at my besties wedding, although the whole bridal party was a tight knit group by the day of the wedding so I think anyone showing up in white may have found themselves the target of 4 suddenly very clumsy bridesmaids lol. Luckily but also sadly, no one made the mistake of wearing white and our red wine spilling services were not required.
When I was about 8, my cousin got married and one of my jobs at the wedding was to carry around a cup of red grape juice and 'spill it' on anyone other than my cousin who showed up wearing a white dress. That group ended up including my cousin's new sister-in-law, her new mother-in-law, and a family friend of my cousin's new husband. It was very fun (for me, at least) and because I was 8 and it was an 'accident', they couldn't even get mad at me for it without looking like even bigger a-holes.
Sounds like a European-American thing...African Americans will ask the unwanted guest who do they think they are as they are being escorted out by at least 4 family members ready to whoop @$$ if need be, lol 😆
You really are sons9fbitches, dicks. How can you destroy someone's clothes, it's not gonna wash and now somebody wasted money on dress because of your stupitidy. Brides are no virgins to wear white, so shut up with ,,only bride should wear white!". Idiots.
On behalf of good men everywhere, I promise we are not all like this. We, too, resent these examples for giving us a bad look as well as how they act.
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Bakery’s have started putting warnings on the box and cake because of this shit and when people shove another person’s face into the cake? people are getting seriously hurt due to wood dowels, straws, decorations… even a cardboard cake board can hurt you!!