WEIRD THINGS WE DID AFTER OUR BABIES DIED | Infant Loss
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
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None of the “weird” things seem weird to me. Grief looks different for everyone. Losing a child is so hard and doesn’t make sense, I understand completely. Thank you ladies for sharing🫶🏻🥹🌻💕
When my daughter passed away I kept her medicine in the fridge, I did not touch her cabinet with all her medicines, syringes and formula. I eventually threw them out when I was ready. The cabinet still has post its from her nurses and those I have not been able to get rid of. I had packed two bottles with water for her diaper bag that we took to the hospital the day she passed. I could not get myself to dump it or throw away the bottles. They stayed near my kitchen window for a few months. My mom kept telling my they were going to mold so I threw them away but at my own timing. I have kept all the clothes she wore. The outfit she had on the way to hospital that had gotten dirty from her gtube I kept without washing and is on her monkey from the ultrasound with her heartbeat. I could go on and on… thank you for sharing. It makes me feel not alone on my grieving journey. I think at the moment we can feel like we are the only mom going through a loss of a child. My daughter passed at 7 months from a genetic disorder.
None of what yall are doing is weird thank you for posting I lost my four month old baby girl to SIDS in June of this year and I still cannot come to terms with letting go of her things her diaper bag still has a wet swim diaper in it from the night before and it's just a small reminder that she was here ❤️ sending love and light to you all..
I lost my son when he was 19 years old. I did really risky things. One was shoplifting. I’m not a shop lifting type of gal. But I never got caught. My heart goes out to these women. Losing a child is like losing your soul. The pain does not get better. You just learn to live with it.
I am so glad to have found a channel like this. I lost my son Judah to trisomy 18 when he was 20 months old. CZcams has needed a channel like this for a long time! ❤
I think I've seen some of your grief stories on social media. And I am thankful that you posted them because it helped immensely. There was a time when I felt so alone, that no one understands the pain I feel, not even my husband (I don't think this now). And seeing other loss moms sharing their grief somehow gave me comfort.
So, thank you.
I’m so glad you ladies are normalizing these things. I’ve never had kids but I somehow understand everything you guys have done and I actually dont find it weird at all.
My little one was stillborn so I don’t have much but I have a blanket he was wrapped in when he was in hospital it has some blood on it but I’ll never wash it’s one of the only things I have that was in contact with him. I also kiss a picture of him and his urn all the time and hold it when im missing him. I completely understand doing these things no one can put themselves in your shoes and no one want to be there. ❤
So proud of all of you for speaking your truths and being so open about everything you all did after the losses of your perfect babies.
My Heart goes out to each of You, I have not lost a child, my Husband passed suddenly & I did some of the same actions you all did Grief is hard at any age for the living.. God Bless
These women is so inspiring in their strength. I know no one chooses this but they are surviving and that is everything❤ The part about pumping on the morning of the funeral undid me. Smelling the burp cloth doesn't sound remotely insane to me. I can easily see myslef doing the same thing. In fact, none of thos sounds insane, at all. I hate that anyone has this reality. Strength and love radiate from each of these mothers and their babies would be proud. It is so brave to share it and I thank them for sharing their beautiful babies with us. They matter and are not forgotten.
I feel you mamas. The day I took baby Luna to the ER i was cooking a mexican dish i love called “chiles rellenos”. It will be 2 years in december and i still cannot make myself make it or eat it again. It just feels wrong.
I don't ever want to imagine myself living without my kids. I have three (4yr old, 2 yr old, and 3m). You guys are such strong moms. I'm so sorry for your losses. Your beautiful little angel babies are super cute! Thank you guys for sharing. This was a video I didn't know I needed to watch. This makes me appreciate every single moment with my kids, even when they don't listen to me or when they fight.
There’s nothing weird about any of these things; you have to do whatever helps you cope. I suddenly lost my two month old son to septicaemia 28 years ago. I still have the last outfit he wore, unwashed. It hasn’t smelled like him for decades and has turned yellow but I don’t think I’ll ever part with it. There something about knowing some physical traces of him, however minuscule are in there that makes me feel he’s close. Someone else will have to throw it out after I’m gone.
So much love to all of you. 💕 Praying for strength and for you and all who can relate 🤍
None of these are weird
Only the judgemental people who have no clue and “cannot imagine”. Its all we have.
Nothing weird on how and What you all do to grieve …I had and lost 2 babies that I had funerals for
But all I hold is my memories as my husband at the time told me to move on, so I wept in silence.
After all this time I feel so guilty and it’s still hurts as I wasn’t allowed to grieve ,How I wanted or needed to .
Much love to you all xx
Well i had a baby but he did not die, i had to give him away because i am intellectually disabled. He winded up having the same thing that I did which was autism but thankfully he is with two adoptvie parents with money.
Noah is there. All them are there with us. They may not walk at our side physically but we carry them in our hearts. We always will have them where ever we go.
Thank you very much for sharing your grief so honestly. Now I understand so much.
None of these are weird at all! U all grieve in different ways....❤️
One thing I would love to hear about. Is how did you go home from the hospital. I felt I hit a wall. 15 steps from the car to the front door took me 5 hours to do. Just there was a mental barrier. Other then being tired and sore I was physically okay. But I could not put one step in front of the other to enter the house.
Crying right now. My heart goes out to you all.
I understand smelling the blowout outfit from the diaper bag. I kept smelling my sons used diapers for as long as I could.😢
It was and still is one of the ways I feel closest to him, I miss his smell every minute of every day
I new a family who lost a baby and the put the ashes in a teddy bear and the had car seat for the bear and if the went clothes shopping for there other kids the teddy bear got new clothes to it was a humble experience
Noah's mom did you get the idea to lay out his clothes from Judea and her sweet little Noah Lee?
Thank you for sharing
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Hannah take the zippy zip & stuff it with either other clothes you kept or with quilting mate.