10 Interesting Psychological Facts About Quiet People
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- Today we talk about 10 interesting psychological facts about quiet people. They are usually described as the silent type or the quiet one, but they can also be referred to as introverts. That said, a quiet person is often misunderstood and viewed as socially inept. But that's not necessarily true!
In fact, people who are quiet, introverted, and like to be alone tend to have a lot of unique characteristics and personality traits that make them great friends or even partners.
So, if you like interesting psychology facts and enjoy learning about human behavior, this video will help you understand silent people better, as well as how their personality affects their relationships with others and how they act in social situations.
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Keanu Reeves: "I hate it when people ask me: "Why are you so quiet?" Because I am. That's how I function. I don't ask others "Why do you talk so much?" It's rude."
1/3 off the world population starving may reach 2/3. Dump ocean water into dry rivers with ocean fish, have an ocean river, desal at farms, steam distiller a the kitchen sink, disinfected and salt free
Collect America's lawn mower clippings for more cattle, new jobs. Instead we export corn and beef and have a storage and import meat from other countries
Don't eat people, if it's time for cabalism as some are saying it's time for mass suicides, and don't eat them, no, you may not be a zombie. Stop eating people, plant cows eat chicken
They tried to make viruses to eliminate half the world, they are unsuccessful, 65 percent of the world would say thanks for a synthetic opioid euthanasia drink by the 10,000 gallon vat, I could have done agenda 21 better 8 years ago
If you won't be compassionate to the majority, nor will the the ruling minority to all. To them it is a matter of choice: Theirs
Soon your cities will be without water, unless you hire people for US currency which costs the same to print as unemployment without a future and pump desalinated water from the ocean into river systems
we're not being drawn to the sun,
There's two black holes on the surface, whatever was gravitationally drawn to the core went there, and the overall gravity of the sun increased but it got hotter but we're moving away and angry solar flares and CMEs are coming after us for leaving.
Heat pushes clouds causing flooding on other parts of this planet while coronal mass ejection and solar flares from magnetic connections from the sun to the earth are increasing. One day maybe it will arc weld this iron ball if we don't cross elliptical orbit line with the moon. Tell NASA about the moon and a year and a half later they make Moonfall. They should make a euthanasia for everyone who wants to go, or be stuck to endure the future even if you don't want to be here at all???
With the moon it'd be a tsunami one way and a volcano the other, the future of our relationship with the sun is a different issue
However,
65 percent of the planet would take a synthetic opioid drink by the 10,000 gallon vat and say thanks,
1/3 off the world is starving to death, 5 percent need bones they can't or don't want to get replaced, 5 percent need organs they can't or don't want to get replaced, 5 percent are terminally ill 5 percent chronic pain, 5-10 percent never wanted to be here anyway, and everyone else will have a peaceful way to go when they want. There's no good way to go, some are 18 and 0 and going through death and not actually dying is not fun, some attempts are violent to go through. Instead of making a euthanasia available to everyone who wants to go they kill .08 percent of the world population in two years. Everyone was the target. I would have helped the 65 percent go 8 yrs ago.
They're needs to be a peaceful easy way for everyone when they want to go. Guy saves 1M in state aid, paid 600k in social security, doesn't have to die every day, just gets to leave before suffering. The guy with the kids gets 800 k from Uncle Sam in life insurance he never signed up for and Uncle Sam keeps the other 800k. Free euthanasia. Cut inflation by more than half, more than doubled available resources. Have a job by a company which pays all the taxes and picks up grass clippings M-S to take it to fields now with cows on it, 4x your US cattle with lawn mower clippings from every years, save 2500 on property taxes and make sure your clippings are out in your neighborhood on Tuesdays
Pump desalinated water from ocean wave current into river systems ASAP. It costs the same to print unemployment and section 8 as it fits a job with a paycheck that won't even take your house away
Here's your check if you love your neighbors and don't want to leave your free housing, and here's your bigger check if you want to rent on the private market
More confusing paint all the taxes making useful cool jobs, your paper actually goes somewhere and a quarter turns back into a dollar
Dig out 10 ' of river bed and cast and set two 10' pipelines to being Atlantic ocean water to every house, use steam distiller for salt free disinfected water at the kitchen sink, dump waste water into sealed pipelines. It took a turn 2 years to dig out 10' of riverbed, everyone could be back to work working in every town and we'd be at with new infrastructure. Don't put salt in your water, have more salt for more roads in the winter.
Send salt water straight to homes, they'll use a distiller for their few gallons of driving and cooking water and they're off toilet to tap loop. Use electrolysis for energy from salt water. At the very least, feed rivers with desal water immediately to quickly overcome drought shortages, no problem
Make a grass and corn crop that grows in ocean water hybrid with say, oceanic grass root structures, best genetic corn crop growing in salt water in Texas and Arizona while you solar desalinate more oxygen and hydrogen into the air in a 24/7/365 grow season with ocean water and no weeds growing in salt water crops or lawns, fill your swimming pool with ocean water and water your lawn with salt water, don't put salt in your what salt water put it in the roads, use a small steam distiller made of glass and stainless to get disinfected and salt water free water for cooking and drinking, maybe an ocean let for your pool, were have to deal with ocean water rise, how about a Dolphin?
Make more indoor fish farms, clean fish into a flash freezer, people eat fish, kid makes 90 k a year running fishing equipment not $9 an hour people eat well
People could be cremated visible to the public and the smoke can be required in a gallon of water and the ashes and cement combined and people can be made into a concrete cast or flower pot. Otherwise, if they get cremated, without a filter, or dissolved in alkyld they go down a drain?
And they had that place giving fake ashes and selling bodies
Maybe you could make a wireless Tesla bridge (like when you touch a Tesla ball and the current comes towards you, though you are in the millivolts) to draw CMEs from to sub to say, Mars, maybe you'll stop the earth from frying
A synthetic like fentanyl would be a good way for everyone to go who wants to go, instead they ban that and their next viruses will be upon them
that, is something everyone needs to hear
We're the same
So true
Exactly
I'm a quiet person and I agree with all the points mentioned. Not all people around me can accept me with the way I am. Some instantly judging me for being boring, no fun, even weird. Well, to me, those 'some people' are toxic.
Same
I'm the same quiet chilled out person and would say most of this video is accurate
Yeah I feel like people need to learn when to leave ME alone rather than expecting me to want to do whatever they're into.
They don't understand what I enjoy, and somehow they judge me for that?
@@DodgeThatAttack that's how ppl think in society
It is your choice on what you like doing, the hobbies, the type of work, music, fashion, just live & learn
@@DodgeThatAttack same
I'm a quiet person and I can identify with all the 10 facts, but fact 11. Never confuse a quiet person with a coward. Push us too far and we will quietly analyse the situation and then go all out, very quickly and very coldly to end the conflict. It's what we are.
Very true... I'll add that we take people as they are and remember what they've done. In whatever kind of relationship, be it love to employment, there is a line. Yes, very loyal to those on the positive side of that line and very few complaints given. But, it's a cold, hard line. We know where that line is, when that person proves they are not worth the effort of being around. Cross that and everything changes.
Forgiveness is not part of the equation. Actions taken are pre-planned with all the negative consequences already taken into account. Restoring the old balance is highly unlikely. That's what happens when someone thinks things through. That's what quiet people do.
AMEN! the main difference is that we think consequentially about it and would rather get away from a bad situation after considering what there is to lose rather than engaging a conflict that isn't worth the effort in the long run. We think things through first. If we decide that it's worth it, woe betide the MF who crosses that line. Also ... we are not mean. but _fair,_ so if it seems we are too harsh on someone trust that they earned it.
Fact
"Still waters run deep"
Yup, I'm extremely quiet and keep to myself. I don't like loud people always wanting all the attention. If someone pushes me over the line, I am a different person.
Being quiet is golden. It’s about being observant. Being observant means you are learning. Taking stock of what’s going on and making decisions in your head about who you need to spend their energy with and who you need to avoid. You can’t learn what you need to by being loud
Amen 🙏🏻❣️
Very true , I agree
Very true. One can learn a lot by keeping one's mouth shut and ears open, and pretending to not pay attention to others gossiping. Eavesdroppers hear very informative and interesting things. 😁
Exactly!
Wise words 👍
My father was a quiet man, He used to recite this rhyme he learned as a child: A wise of owl sat in an oak, the more he saw the less he spoke, the less he spoke the more he heard, why can't we be more like that wise old bird? I'm quiet too. :) There is a saying: empty barrels make the most noise.
@Superior Cats I think it was more of a reaction to my older sister who never stopped talking. She could talk for England. What's more she hasn't changed. :)
@Superior Cats seems like that’s more your problem.
Love the empty barrel analogy. Spot on.
My dad had this philosophy too.
Still waters run deep
Family interactions formed me into a quiet,introspective individual. I am embarrassed by loud,offensive behavior. I can feel alone in a room full of people.
“ I am embarrassed by loud,offensive behavior” … Amen! Me, too. Someone once said of me “you are the type that walks into a crowded room and heads to the nearest empty corner”. That person was right.
Me too.
Me too
@@SMaamri78 a
@@SMaamri78 I tend to go to the furthest corner so I can observe what the crowd is doing.
I love being a quiet person, I get asked all the time why am I so quiet? Because I'm a listener, an observer, a thinker. It's easy to talk alot.
I'm quiet till I get to know you. If I become a friend then I talk about any and everything. To everyone else I'm reserved. Helps weed out the the people not worth talking to. Which was my go to in High School. Why don't you talk to me . If I didn't like them it was easy. Cause You have nothing I want to talk about. Short buy sweet. People can't fathom you might not find them interesting.
Next time ask them "why are they so loud? "
@@architadritabasu8249Right 😂😂🙌
We introverts can understand others while others can’t understand us at all. And it’s kinda sad to be honest.
It's because we understand each others silence. ☺
Understanding takes communication
Wow you openly said my situation life. Very true you said.
It's true, because people like us require and demand time and space to understand us, and most people don't have the patience to give that to us.
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11. Quiet people aren't necessarily sociopathic or mentally unstable to the point of being a danger to other people. Being quiet doesn't necessarily mean they're plotting to do ill.
@@JaneChristensen. I enjoy my own company, especially when I am feeling a bit depressed
I would like to read & write poems
Instead of going out playing with noisy kids who were just annoying me
I'n quiet, i don't like being too energetic, i just like being in my head. I like remaining in the shadows. I don't like attention. I'm very quality person. When you're my friend, you better mean it.
Maybe they are
Those scenarios are usually setups--red flags. "He was always such a nice and quiet boy."
@@JaneChristensen. In my case sometimes I'm just thinking and I don't want to just act out of feeling. I just like to apply logic to a lot of things. I think about why people act like they do and what that means about who they are and if I want to be around them.
I'm a quiet person, I'm introverted , & I agree with most of this list. Stay safe & be blessed, everyone. Peace out.💜🌍
Well spoken , as a quite person these the things we love to see
Me too ❤️
Agreed, too many assume quiet people are the next unabombers, Dahmer, or any other dangerous person and if you're a male over 6', people's fears increase.
@@seanb6478 Hah! Too right, my friend! Peace out!🌍🌌
I don't do small talk very well. I tend to be quiet and people think I am aloof but I am not.
Being quiet is golden. It’s about being observant. Being observant means you are learning. Taking stock of what’s going on and making decisions in their heads about who they need to spend their energy with and who they need to avoid.
It frustrates me that being shy or quiet has been seen as a bad thing, or that there is something wrong with you if you're not constantly engaging everyone in conversation. I'm naturally reserved around people I'm not completely comfortable with, but I also have a really soft voice - so on the ocassions I do want to contribute to a conversation, people usually just talk over the top of me and I end up feeling that it's pointless to make the effort. Believe me, I'm thinking all the time and there are many things I would share in the right circumstances.
Correct,the truth is we the quiet type were kinder and most emphatethic twrads other people.
Nothing wrong there. A good quote (of which i can't remember who said it) goes, roughly, that a dumb person speaks because they want to say something while a smart person speaks because they have something to say. Most of what i hear people talk about is like meandering through a piece of writing that has no contextual value throughout most of what's written. The mind can then easily pick out anything mentioned that's of value or importance and that's when a quiet person knows when and how to interject.
I relate to you a lot... I did learn a bit of self confidence will naturally amplify a soft voice... and those who want to hear will hear. It can be frustrating being continually talked over, though.
Story of my life 😢
There's nothing wrong with being a quiet, introverted person. I would much rather read a nice book by a sunny window than go out to a loud party. I relish the peace and quiet and prefer to be on my own most of the time. I'm also very observant and pay attention to the little things. I wish I had people who understood me, rather than judge me.
Doesnt matter what they say of think.... I never say goodbye either im just out haha!!
Even when you are understood they will judge and some might try to change you
I understand I too am a quiet person but only to people I don't know
You mean that do not care much for dancing in a 120 dB sound looking like a possessed monkey?
I understand you and feel you because I'm just the same.
We are the eyes and ears of the earth. The extroverts are the mouths. 😄
Good one!
Absolutely
You for got the brains 🧠
So true!
The incessant mouth 😭😭😭
I have always been a quiet person. It's not that I am shy, rather that I am a person who doesn't talk unless I have something to say. Sometimes the persons who get on my nerves the most are those who don't know when to be quiet; you know, those loud, rambunctious, obnoxious persons who never shut up.
Yep that is me I don't talk unless I have something to say
As a quiet person, this is so accurate
As a quiet person, I find this is so accurate.
As a quiet person, this is overgeneralized.
If anyone finds this information to be surprising or "accurate," you're either not very smart or you're pretty young.
@@vlogsbyalejandro As a quiet person, you think this is overgeneralised.
@@maxb9315 As a quiet person, you are correct in thinking that.
People over analyze this
I have been a quiet introspective person for 74 years and because of that, have been a magnet for other people's projections. My late husband said that I radiate no clear boundaries and no definable character (until I express myself.) As a result, others attribute to me wildly different characteristics which are simply not consistent with my true nature. I cope with all that misunderstanding by living alone in the woods, writing books, and playing my baby grand. While others wage WW3 in their own minds about me, I live a simple and fulfilling life.
You're not doubt a beautiful soul.
Thank you for sharing.
@@justsayin991 Aww... On this drizzling grey morning, your comment is most appreciated. Thank you.
there are millions of us out here...wondering and wandering
Better alone in the woods than the jungle called society 😁.
i know how you feel i am quite too nobody understands me and i would like to live in woods to i like nature
Being a quiet person has gained me a reputation for being "intimidating" and "mean". And that's just fine- it means I'm left alone.
I've been down that path during my life when i was in school, I've had people question me how I never feared or felt intimidated by bullies?
My reply, the answer is simple, action speak louder than words.
Example: Bullies are loud and obnoxious, they want you to feel intimidated by using threats, where a quiet person has no interest but may seem intimidating unintentionally because what's in that person's mind is a mystery to others.
A person that is quiet can seem to be more of a threat than their loud counterpart because they could strike without warning. It's easy to make threats. However just because someone threatens you doesn't always mean they're dangerous.
Same, felt like a compliment sometimes haha
Me too. I don’t mind.
I was a quiet person in school, and a lot of kids thought I was "stuck-up", which I wasn't, just reserved and quiet. Interesting, the same kids that called me "stuck-up", never bothered to simply say, "Hello, Good morning" etc. But a lot of kids had no reservations about asking to borrow some paper, pencils, or copy my homework. I often wondered just who the real stuck-up people were.
I was recently called intimidating, I was astounded, never thought of myself as that. In high school I was seen as haughty but I was just reserved and not shallow. I however am not quiet when I feel or see injustice.
It's better to be silent and thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. Great quote, whoever said it.
It’s from the bible.
Abraham Lincoln may have said it, but he may have been quoting the Bible The closest thing I could find in researching this maxim comes from the Book of Proverbs in the Holy Bible and is attributed to Solomon, the wisest of Old Testament kings. It reads, "Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace; when he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive." (Proverbs 17:28).
Solomon. Proverbs.
There's a time and place to be silent and to speak out.
I am a very quiet person, and every fact describes me. I love the way I am.
My 11 year old is a quiet person and this video was so accurate! (Thank you to Brainy Dose for taking the time to create this video:)
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I am quiet, highly sensitive, introvert and extremely reserved. And proud of it!
Same
yesss
Love that
in short, you’re a cat(if u know what i mean)
@@iJasdeep wat
Introversion is so misunderstood. Hopefully our culture is getting closer to being more inclusive with different personality types.
It's a judgement call. Most of the extroverts that I encounter are methamphetamine users. I'm very slow to warm up to anyone exhibiting signs of meth usage.
Hello, Where are you from
Can you define a quiet person? Are you a biologist?
Sky with Diamonds Where are you from?
doubtful. I'm in management and my peers and higher ups all mistaken introversion for social anxiety. They believe introversion is a disease that needs cured. They think "more office parties" to make them not so shy and then when that employee doesn't show up.....they're considered a defective person.
My dad is quiet but once he talks, you would really listen to him coz he’s full of wisdom.
He’s just observant and rather talk to older people than his peers coz he learns more about life with older people making him wise.
As a quiet person: i simply do not care what others think of me. I just do my thing.
Same me to
A friend of mine once commented "you don't talk much but when you do it's worth listening to" yes, I am also a quiet person.
I view things from angles others don't, I see things others miss.
I've been told that many times throughout my life.
How you made a friend being quiet and all cause idk the trick.
Me ,quite but dangerous.
@@paulcerny2992 they'll never know what hit em.
Sister often kept her eye on me in social situations where i just hung out on the edge and listened. When i got a smile on my face and started to speak she would say loudly "stop" as what was coming was going to upset someone.
Very on point video. I hate being judged because I’m quiet. People act as if something is wrong with me and they try to force me to talk. I’ve been a quiet person all of my life. It’s not going to change. The more you push…the more quiet I become.
At Rozzie r: I can relate with you. I hate being judged as well. Since I am usually quiet. Both as human and person.
I’m with you on that.
I can relate with you. I get judged by my coworkers because I am quiet.
@@noemisolano4748 I am usually non judgemental. So I always my business to myself. On top of it, I rather continue embracing the silence. Rather than being judged by my members or anyone. I used to become this extroverted person. Quite a bit throughout. From the past. Nevertheless I shall keep on being this introverted person. As I have became. I no longer do not consider myself a extroverted human. No nowadays I classify myself as a introverted human. Got tired of everyone judging me. By my appearance, orientation, nationality, beliefs etc. Additional I view myself as educated, wise, smart, resilient and quick witted. As an human these are the traits I inherited. Charisma, character, humor, shyness, empathy and passion. As an person these are the traits I inherited. Leadership, discipline, honesty, generosity, loyalty and equality. Overall I admire those astounding traits. I have lots of characteristics. It is part of my second nature. Noemi Solano we both can to each other. I am on same boat with you.
I had a friend/co-worker tell me that I was boring because I was sitting and chilling by myself. He wanted me to keep him company. I never moved from the spot. 😂
I am a quiet person. God created me this way and I love the way I am ❤️.Great video 👍🙂
Really ?.Dube
God did not create you. Your parents had sex and 9 months later you were born.
As a quiet person as well I am disgusted that you would cite an imaginary being as having anything to do with you or your reality
Really!!!????
No Really?
Much respect
But grow up
@@geoffr4018 Thank you for agreeing... Really.
@@geoffr4018 how do you know god is imaginary? you have no proof
I'm also told that I'm very quiet and very soft spoken. My quiet demeanor in school was mistaken for being stuck up. I just like to stick to myself and I don't like gossip. All of these things are very true. I don't always have something to say but don't mistake quiet people as people who can be walked all over. I will blow a fuse and maybe start yelling at someone who has done something to my family, and I am not afraid to physically throw down if that's what it comes to, but after that I'm back to my quiet self and I don't dwell on things.
I’m quiet and this video describes me perfectly.
Someone once said, “Still waters run deep.”
I love this comment! 💖
me too 💯✌🏼
Hehehe okay, vester vester
I was born 2 months premature spent timme alone
I heard that a lot when young.
One quiet person I once met basically said "You don't have to deal with as much of other people's crap if you keep to yourself." - Kinda makes sense actually.
Bingo
What if you're a quiet person and lack social skills? I wasn't being myself for most of my life, acting like someone else just to fit in. Now I accept my true nature but I can't seem to find a natural way of socializing. Sometimes I get exited, but it soon feels like too much and I just want to be alone. Then I start to feel lonely and try to open up more, but it somehow feels like betraying myself as it doesn't feel natural at all. It's like a vicious circel.
bro...
Social anxiety can be the answer. I’d consult with your physician and they can refer you to someone who can really help you end the cycle?
Facing the same issue and its really depressing at times
Yeah, I totally get it. It's like social anxiety but in reverse. You don't have anxiety about socializing, you just have trouble coming up with ideas and finding a reason to start socializing. My parents sent me to a social skills class last year and it helped a lot. I definitely got better at hanging with people and still being a quiet person.
I’m the same way glad I’m not the only one
Being quiet is the most greatest quality in a person
And no one is telling us to shut up!
Incredible person who is reading this. Want to let you know that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Blessings upon blessings come to you daily. Everything you need it’s on its way to you! Be ready to receive! You are healthy. You are strong. You are capable. True wealth is coming for you. You are blessed beyond measure. You are loved so much by many. Receive this TRUTH! Bless you always with everything great you deserve. You are greatness! ~❤️Nat
you too
Thnks 💯😎
Thanks for your reply and positivity.
Thank you Nat💞I’m in agreement with you in the name of God and may you be blessed abundantly🤗
Thank you! All the blessings right back @you 🤗😊
I've had so many people instantly assume that either something is wrong with me, or that I'm upset, or that I'm plotting something, just because I'm being quiet and minding my own business. But I've always been like this and still proud to be a quiet person 🙌
“Don't talk unless you can improve the silence." --Jorge Luis Borges
I can’t stand people that are too chatty. People that talk just to fill the void. People that are excessively talkative are usually very narcissistic & self involved , so who wants to be around them anyway.? 🥱
@@sunnydaze2359 "The thoughtless are rarely wordless." --Unkkkk...n
@@sunnydaze2359 I personally don't mind being around loud or chatty people but I draw the line at the triple p's (personality projecting people) as more often than not they tend to be the narcissists
I’ve had kids in school think I’m a snob. No, I was just a quiet person, but not so much now.
Number 10 is so true. Sometimes people freak out when you can repeat past conversations or remember what someone wore or did.
Makes things difficult sometimes too, speaking from experience. Amazing when things are good, absolutely detrimental when things are bad or you lose your safety net.
When you can vividly recall every little detail, down to what you had for breakfast on a given day, it makes it hard to get stuck in a bad loop when things get crummy and you go back wondering where things went wrong, were you lied to this whole time, were you always a fuck up, and just generally living in the past.
I’m only quiet until I truly feel comfortable around someone. It takes forever for me to open up.
I am quiet and never get bored, but people who are actually bored want to steal my valuable quiet time by gaslighting my mind as ' you are bored so let's hang out.' I love to focus on reading and also love to meet meaningful people, not someone who is just bored all the time.
Agreed. Bored people sucked the life out of me in the past. First they'd say they're bored. Then they'll say you're boring. And then when I finally tell them that I'm not responsible for their own feelings of boredom and advice them to go find someone who's not boring, then, and only then, would I get my precious precious personal alone time.
A wise person told me “Boredom is manifested.” So now whenever I’m bored it makes me realize I am probably manifesting that boredom
My dad told me "you can only be bored if you're boring". I'm never bored.
Their minds are empty and they burden you to fix it. Its that simple.
People who are bored all the time are looking for someone to entertain them because they are boring people.
I am a quiet person. INFJ personality type. Quiet in the sense that I generally dont start a conversation but if I find the other person interesting, I can talk for hours. I usually dont like small talk. I want to know them. I am definitively not shy. I just like being alone more than I am with people. I love nature and animals. I generally find people facinating but I am selective with who I want to interact with.
You sound like one of my friends.
INFJ is the rarest personality type. I know three of them and they are three of the best people I have ever met. My best friend is INFJ and people think he's a social butterfly extrovert because he's so good with people, but he actually is an introvert and hates crowds.
@@Madman6505 I have only met one INFJ actually. That I know of. She is one of my best friends :) It feels weird to meet them though. It is like standing in the front of a mirror.
I’m an INFJ too and I relate a lot to you. I long for deep connections with people and small talk isn’t enough to connect with them. Moreover I think it’s boring and useless. I love nature and animals so much, probably more than humans. But I still find humans enthralling and I’m curious about their nature. I never talk randomly to a person I come to them because they seem to interest me.
@@Bella-ir4hs as an INFP I've found that if done right, tolerating a little small talk can be a springboard to finding something more profound and interesting about a person. Plus it can help you seem friendlier... introverts are notorious for seeming closed off or even somewhat cold due to their selective and introspective nature. They aren't cold at all, they just seek meaningful connections and conversations, rather than senseless social fluff.
A lot of people have judged me as being quiet. That's only a small part of my personality. I can also be very outgoing and friendly. It all depends on who I'm around and who I'm talking with. I'm much more complex than only being quiet. Most of the qualities mentioned in the video fit me very closely, yet others are way off the mark.
I been burned by the extraverted who thrive on lies and games played victim when they are wicked falsehood of people..watch your back with people..trust pets..being lied to since I can remember as a young child has caused me to suffer horrible things..what happens in the dark will come out to the light no one can mock Jeh God and be blessed..
Me too
We see things around us that other people don't see. The awareness that we have is on a different level compared to other people who likes to talk.
The world needs more quiet people.
True
*In narrator voice:* “Said the corrupt politician.”
Nah then we ve all be about the same and thats boring
People always assume I am stuck up when they first meet me, once I get to know someone I can become quite talkative. I still enjoy time to myself though, and time to think.
I'm also an introvert but enjoy interacting with others but not too much cos its draining 💕
It's very shocking how accurate this is. I've always been the silent type.
The problem with being quiet or introverted is that most of society see it as a flaw. Most quiet people will probably go through life being accused of being boring, depressed or unhappy, having no confidence, being shy, uninteresting and many more negative traits. People will often become upset or annoyed with them because they don't give the responses people want or expect. Quiet people tend to be pretty flat when it comes to repsonses which means they might not be jumping for joy when something great happens or screaming and shouting about it but that also means they are not going to become outwardly massively upset or angry when something goes wrong or not to plan.
Basically if you're quiet or introverted people will always think that something is wrong with you.
I'm being accused of trouble by a narcissist Jezebel.
Unlike Jesus ( Mat.27:12), I'm dumb
Exactly
Yeah i can definitely 100% relate. People always asked me why i never talked and even my stepfather asked me why i was so quiet, i hate when people jduge you for being quiet and minding your own business
There is actually a book called "Quiet" that is very interesting and reflects what this video talks about. Definitely worth a read.
I’ve read it and it’s very good
@@tinas7720 I didn't
Thank you for sharing
I'll go get it tomorrow it's always nice to learn more about certain aspects of ourselves
@@kelvinvees2926 yup
People often ask me why I'm so quiet. I simply say that I'm a type B personality and it comes with the territory. They generally accept that answer and leave me alone.
When quiet people speak, it's a good idea to listen.
Yeah, in school I was always treated like the "strange one" because I was quiet and sometimes wanted to be alone sitting somewhere, maybe under a tree, but I see myself in a lot of these points in the video and for sure I LOVE to talk, joke and do stuff with the persons to which I connected.
“With the persons to which I connected.”
^^^
This right here.
I'm right there with you. ❤
"It's the quiet ones you got to watch. This sounds like a very dangerous assumption. I'll bet you anything that while you're watching a quiet one, a noisy one will kill you!" - George Carlin RIP
My mother used to say that as if it was someone to be afraid of. I knew that she was referring to me. She couldn't have been more wrong!
In my experience the people that talk the most have the least to say.
Empty vessels....you mean?
I can take an eight hour drive with no music or radio blaring in the car and be perfectly happy. There’s plenty of things rattling around in my head to keep me occupied
There is nothing wrong with being quiet
I am intelligent introvert
yeah i am quite person and i support you
You look weirdo for other people
No, you lose social and communication skills by being quiet all time.
At some instances you should be quiet too. But, people always ignore a quiet person and they lose friends.
@@petricularbell4475 no, u are not losing communication skills at all.. and if you dont wanna hangout with quiet people, i dont care
I ask my quiet teen daughter what she wants for her birthday.
She said, I have everything I need. I just want peace and quiet.
Ty for this video. I was worried about her until i saw this video and comments.
I'm a quiet person, but I'm not shy. When I meet a group of people for the first time, I'm quiet and because I'm studying who they are and their personality. I do pay attention to details, and I remember something happened 20 years ago
Quiet people have a high risk of being bullied. People usually manipulates a quiet person. Quiet people are often also viewed as unimportant. Quiet people also have a high risk of being ignored. These are some of the drawbacks of being a quiet person😞
Being ignored can be an asset, particuarly when you are walking down a dark alley.
i’ve been quiet ever since but never really got bullied. i think i was respected even more especially when i start to speak. i guess you really just have to try and act normal and don’t be weird so they wouldn’t bother you. dress nicely and have proper posture and you’ll be good
I used to beat up bullies. Ppl often mistake quietness with weakness. I'm a nice person, but can be vengeful if a mofo think they gonna violate me.
I'm also a quiet person don't worry friend... There is always a good also there is a bad so think them as a bad and forgot them be happy with songs hear it and enjoy the happiness feel alone... And alone is a only thing is infinity....🙂💜 For everything it's becomes alone.... Atlast so we're the alone lovers so don't be sad... Friend☺️💜
@@vvinters. it's because we're are with different people's so it's done things like this I think u r lucky my friend enjoy ur life that's nice the way u were express 🥰💜 u r such a good speaker I think...🙂💜
There are people who speak when they have something to say, but they are outnumbered by people who speak because they have to say something.
I am quiet person and introvert and I am very proud of that, we add depth to the situation.
This is me. People do not ‘get’ me. It can be frustrating.
There's times when I'm quite because I simply don't have much to say, and then there's other times I'm quite because I'm in a negative way about my personal problems....other times I'm quite the opposite and somehow have abundances of wit and humor 🤷♂️
That is totally my personality as well! I only say something if I feel like I have something of substance to add to the discussion. Otherwise, I love to people watch, and get a feel for that person by their interactions with others.
“ tis best to remain silent and be thought a fool than open your mouth and remove all doubt” thing is these days too many people talk, but not enough listen
Exactly so true amen 🙏
Agreed. We're unpredictable as 🌪 and we're like submarines in life 😶😶🌫️.
@@mistylover7398 exactly 😈
@@jeremystevens6640 silent but deadly 🚽🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻
@@mistylover7398 SBD LOL 😂🤣😈
I'm not necessarily quiet but I love my own company so much. I love being alone.
I can agree with most of the video. I am a quiet person & somewhat shy. I don’t like to interact with loud, boisterous people. People make assumptions about me & my personality without even talking to me. I’ve heard people comment that I’m mean. I would rather be by myself than be around gossipers who make assumptions & spread lies about people they don’t even know.
Quiet people like being around other quiet people because they’re confident enough to stand silence.
One thing I always hated was when people say - " He's always so quiet " " or are you shy " ? I'm always quiet because it's who I am! I grew up this way and I'm not shy 🤷 it's just I have trust issues and dislike people but quiet people are an. ❤️🔥💯 Always get along with them!.
Being shy and quiet is a superpower.
Yep, not everyone is capable of it!
People make it seem like being quiet is a negative thing, it's not
Being quiet and a bit introverted I find people always assume I'm a meek and mild character, the times that someone has said (with surprise) "I never thought you would do something like that" or "you don't seem the type to ride a Motorbike".
I once jumped down the stairs at school and I fell (lol) my friend told the teacher "MISS SHE JUMPED DOWN THE STAIRS!!" and my teacher was like: I never thought I would hear you did something like that
Unpredictable as 🌪
Hahahaha thats same as me
I hate when a loud aggressive type will look at me and say”watch out for the quiet types”... I’m quiet and value my solitude:)
The loud people act like it’s a crime for us to be quiet:(
Silent but deadly
That's because they're ignorance and foolishness run as deep as our peaceful intellect. We intimidate them without even trying.
@@tomfitzpatrick737 ya 😎 keep that going.
Some quiet ppl can be very romantic, calm and successful in life,just the narcissist minds that are cruel to make their egos bigger 💩
Am really quiet and nice but if someone messes with me then I turn out like a raging pitbull. Loud people hate quiet people as they can't intimidate them and don't know what your intentions are it's the best way to be
I'm quiet on the outside but I'm incredibly loud and talkative in my own head, I'm not comfortable with saying my thoughts out loud unless I am with close friends. Someone I don't know very well will ask me a question and I'll give them a short quiet answer but in my head I'm thinking of an essay on it, especially if I like what they asked XD but unless I know them very well I just won't want to say it out loud.
This also happens if someones rude to me, on the outside I'll take it quietly and try and ignore them, on the inside I'm cursing them and being pretty rude back and a part of me is just thinking, if you knew what I'm thinking right now you wouldn't have that push over nice girl impression of me XD
It also really sucks when we lose friends.
Yeah:/
Yep…
I'm a quiet person and, honestly, most of the "socially inept" people I've met are actually quite loud.
So my family in a nutshell?😂
havent watched the full video yet! but a fact i know is: quiet people have an unspoken respect and acknowledgement for other quiet people they may come across.
That respect is known by the nod we share
I’m quiet too and I have a soft voice. Sometimes I say nothing, because my voice will be unnoticed in the company. Being quiet is sometimes a punishment. I've been told many times at school that you won't get a job if you're so quiet. Well, that is not true.
Reminds me of work. The quiet observant ones are great at their jobs. The loud obnoxious ones... Not so much
I'm content being quiet but being around someone who is bothered by it makes me anxious. I can feel their energy and can tell they are uncomfortable or even hate me. That's why at work I prefer to work alone
Sed life we have.
100% agree with this information. Sometimes we get to feel uncomfortable when outsiders tend to sabotage our quiet/listening time by demanding and claiming our opinions when surrounded by a group. They need to comprehend a bit more that not every situation requires our interest in order to talk.
That is true it's annoying when people think you agree with them when you didn't speak
Introverts Rock!.....they are quiet both they notice everything and are very interesting...and being mellow is a superpower!
I've always been a quiet person, I agree to literally all of these 10 facts
I'm a quiet person and I still have friends I completely agree with this
I'm a quiet person and still think I have friends...such delusions lol
What are friends I never had any 😢😭
I use to dislike it so much when people would ask me, "why are you so quiet"? Or use that as a why to describe me. While I'm actually the kind of person that has a lot to say and actually enjoy conversing with those whom actually take the time to reach out. I agree with the majority of the vid. I see myself attracted to other quiet people a lot of times because I know what it's like and I know that there will be good conversations ahead.
Quiet people are curious, independent and highly self-motivated! YES!!!
One of the worst things is people putting the spotlight on me and asking "Why are you being so quiet?" or "Why aren't you talking?"... because I'm uncomfortable around you and now I'm even more uncomfortable
I have never once thought of quiet people as inferior to loud people. In fact, the loud one’s seem to have less self control and make rash decisions.
This is probably the most Accurate description of Quiet People I've seen. Myself being One. I was just waiting for the Mention of the Old Adage:
Never Underestimate a Quiet Person.
Over My Decades, there's been the Unfortunate Ones that Couldn't/Wouldn't take Heed of that Simple, Powerful Truth.
I am 71 and have been shy my whole life although many would say that I am not. I dislike going to parties and standing around making small talk is horrible. I like being around people of my choice and family get togethers and that's it
Ur introvert
As a quiet person it is all true for a lot of people. Only thing that is inaccurate for me is the emotionally stable as I suffer from depression and anxieties.
THANK YOU DUDE! "They aren't necessarily shy". This point is so true.
I wish more extroverts knew this fact that yes, many quiet people are shy and are scared to speak, HOWEVER some of us simply choose not to speak because we don't have tolerance for drama and fake people. Furthermore in this modern day, we're rammed up the ar** for sharing our own opinion and hence some of us choose to keep our mouths shut to avoid causing a scene with others. My point is, quiet people CAN BE nervous, shy and socially awkward, however there are those quiet people who are diplomatic, don't want to get into fights and are overall just trying to live a balanced life with no trouble.
I'll shut up now before you all ram ME up the ar**😉
100% true, thank you, it is so refreshing when somebody gets it.
Kinda sussy
100% true man, for us introverts, we want to live our lives in the slow lane and enjoy life.
Where was this video when I was growing up, getting people constantly asking me “why are you so quiet?” 😭 so much of this video applies to me.
Idk if this video answers that quwstion you just need yo tell them people that's the way i am and will be...
All of you are awesome !! It feels great knowing that there is an entire community of us quiet folks out there . We are often mis understood & usually have the least amount of drama in our lives
That the deal I cannot deal with drama and love the silence I'm not shy at all I just love the silence
I am a quiet person but like this video says I am not shy despite being that way. I just like being at home in my own solitude reading books and educating myself on various subjects. :)
I agree with that. I am a quiet individual and yet an introvert, my friends think of me as boring and unliving. Some of them wished I was different, but I understood why. A girl I liked told me the same thing, I replied " I won't change to somebody's appreciation." I liked her but she did not admire my personality. That's why I rejected her, she was toxic.
A quiet person is usually the best person to listen to.
As a quiet person this is very true. Many mostly think that i am shy and hate talking with others but it's the other way round especially when i am with someone i feel comfortable with.
I am every one of these qualities. Was a wallflower in high school. Im very loyal. Im extremely patient. Im oberservant. Rarely bored. Enjoy my own aloneness....not meaning im lonely. Dont interrupt people. As i get older, im better about speaking up for myself. Thus is spot on. And i am very friendly. I just dont like pushing myself on people. If you like me thats fine. If not, idc! Im not nosey. And i dont share my problems or others!
Being emotionally stable is something for people who haven't had traumatic experiences. When a quiet person has ptsd, for example, things tend to replay, and get over analyzed. Often negative thoughts spiral, or a negative narrative gets laid over everything. Just get locked in your head that tortures you.
Yes I’m very loyal to very few people nope not angry or depressed just wise . Yes I’m very independent I enjoy not relying on other people and yes I’m sensitive. Yes I have a lot of self awareness. Yes I love to grow . I’m very honest
Request from another introvert. Let me join the club.
I've been a quieter person my entire life. In western society, being quiet has a negative connotation. I'll never understand why. Due to this, being quiet has been a major insecurity of mine. It's something I constantly deal with daily... Feeling overlooked, being a home body, enjoying intimate encounters with 1-2 people opposed to large crowds, etc. Being loud and talkative doesn't come naturally, especially around people I don't know well. It's just the way I was born/wired. However, if I'm with a group of close friends who I feel a strong connection with, I can talk for hours... It all depends on the situation but being quieter is who I am. Always have been and probably always will be. I just wish society would be more accepting/appreciative of quieter people/introverts.
Yeah, and being quiet has especially negative connotations if you’re a guy.
I'm a super quiet person and I prefer being around quiet people and places. I cannot stand the sound of a crying baby so I never had one which is regretful. I've always gotten dogs who rarely bark. Chose a spouse who wasn't loud. I am strongly introverted. But I love fiercely if someone shows me kindness and compassion. It's true, I am also too sensitive and it's a burden because I feel deeply for even strangers who've been harmed. In fact all 10 facts are spot on. I'd like to say it's good to be in this group, but it's not all the time, sometimes it's lonely because most do not understand us, many abandon us saying "we choose to be this way as an excuses".
I'm a quite person and I love being on my own.