The Curse Of The Cool Girl || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 555

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • This week, J&J are finding the balance in a few debates, from ideal thermostat temps to awkward callouts. The first email asks if there’s a limit to how much an ex is brought up during a date. Jared and Jordana don’t initially agree and weigh both sides of the conversation. Next, in a segment sponsored by Netflix, they get a “Friends-To-Lovers” story submission that's out to motivate other listeners to make a move. The second advice email is looking for the line between going for what you want and seeing what the person you’re dating is willing to do. There could be truth to “If he wanted to, he would,” but doesn’t that go both ways? The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker” about being overly communicative, being put in an awkward situation pre-date, and disagreeing about the best sex you’ve ever had.
    00:00 Intro
    18:51 First Email
    38:33 Netflix's Friends To Lovers
    46:51 Second Email
    54:35 Red Flag or Deal Breaker?
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    U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram.
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Komentáře • 23

  • @AnastasiaHamurari
    @AnastasiaHamurari Před 24 dny +12

    Jared not admitting that his feelings were hurt is the exact reason why he needs therapy

  • @brunaisensee1355
    @brunaisensee1355 Před 25 dny +14

    I love Jordana’s therapy session on air in the intro. Love you on over sharing. I’m sure you know that but you are such a good interviewer/podcaster. Always a great flow, great comments, even your intonation 👌🏻 always on point.

  • @mfancyketchup6701
    @mfancyketchup6701 Před 25 dny +6

    "what are you, a bully?!" - you guys crack me up

  • @kaisersedhello
    @kaisersedhello Před 24 dny +5

    Jordana kills it this episode. So much fun

  • @anblzzz
    @anblzzz Před 24 dny +5

    Can I prescribe time away from Jared’s parents? The toxicity is getting so wilddd - team Jared

  • @chrristiinaaa
    @chrristiinaaa Před 25 dny +6

    It was the last video, or the one before that- but I was literally thinking Jared looks slimmer and more muscly. I should’ve commented lol. Don’t listen to your parents Jared you look great!!!!!

  • @lugg
    @lugg Před 24 dny +1

    Thanks for moving with us, Jordana!! 💙

  • @user-j927
    @user-j927 Před 23 dny +1

    I found Jared's Bridgerton and Scooby Doo/ cartoon voices so entertaining. 😂 But I also didn't mind the listener's advice of being friends first 😄

  • @itsmejgs3634
    @itsmejgs3634 Před 25 dny +3

    Jared was sassy! Love it!

  • @laurag7530
    @laurag7530 Před 25 dny +1

    Jordana''s "Isolate him" @38:28 got me 😅

  • @EricaSinner
    @EricaSinner Před 25 dny +4

    OZEMPIC??? You look great!

    • @brunaisensee1355
      @brunaisensee1355 Před 25 dny

      And It’s funny Jared is so self aware it’s hard to imagine his mom’s comments.

  • @ashleynicolegill5065
    @ashleynicolegill5065 Před 24 dny +1

    As a fellow Phoenix girly 78 is pretty normal. We are not all BILLIONAIRES!! You adjust and the piece of you that would care dies inside quickly. It's fine.

    • @peachykween13
      @peachykween13 Před 23 dny

      Truuu I also live in a desert and when you live somewhere very hot the ac runs more often and is often more efficient than the ones in places not built for it

  • @i-lon3185
    @i-lon3185 Před 22 dny

    28:30 Jordanna, pls ask Jared, how tf could he imagine himself NOT being annoyed by constantly hearing about his girl's ex? That is quite interesting 🤔

  • @esikazemese
    @esikazemese Před 23 dny

    Is there talking too much about the ex? Jared... DUHH :D Noone talks about their exes this much, finding reasons to insert them in any story.
    Love the Salt Lake city story :D Next time a guy asks me out I will say "no, please, I would like to be friends first, that is recommended!" :D :D :D

  • @ReporterLizAdeola
    @ReporterLizAdeola Před 23 dny

    That song is a bop!

  • @esthere4255
    @esthere4255 Před 23 dny

    I was just thinking that Jared looks like he's lost weight. Momma Freid is tripping!

  • @sailorvvvxo
    @sailorvvvxo Před 23 dny

    Parents will be parents. I’m sure they love him, they just want the best for him but don’t show it in a way people can get behind. Jared knows this… it’s not the things his mom says that make him single. She doesn’t realize it’s because he kinda wants to be single. He has commitment issues for fear of slowing the momentum of his success. He could easily find a girl if he focused on dating.. he’s just not focused on it and he knows this which is why I don’t think his mom’s comments affect him all that much.

  • @ellenko2684
    @ellenko2684 Před 25 dny

    Poor Jerod!

  • @SueD.-rx7jl
    @SueD.-rx7jl Před 24 dny

    Family therapy. That would make for lots of new material. For a sitcom.