A urologist explains the difference between SHOWERS vs GROWERS!

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  • čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
  • #growervsshower #sexualhealth #menshealth
    Everybody knows the age-old debate between guys, "Growers vs Showers". And while there may be some personal merit to belonging to either of the two groups, is there an actual health factor as to how and why you would be in team Grower or team Shower? Be sure to watch until the end to learn if it might even affect your fertility or not!
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    0:00 Intro Card
    0:30 What's the difference between a "Grower" and a "Shower"?
    2:09 Has there been any scientific studies about this?
    3:12 Was there anything that determined being a grower vs a shower?
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Komentáře • 7K

  • @kez850
    @kez850 Před rokem +9101

    I’m a grower and one of my worst fears is getting in an accident and having my clothes cut off while not being at my full potential

  • @22trem
    @22trem Před 2 lety +12715

    Grower or shower, regardless.....need to find a blower.....

  • @dahoodie3158
    @dahoodie3158 Před rokem +938

    Being a grower is honestly a blessing we got all the room we need and don't matter what the girl thinks her mind will change when it's time🤣💯

    • @zi326
      @zi326 Před rokem +1

      A blessing to look like a little boy, yeah ok. It's alot more manlier to have a shower between your legs than a grower

    • @verymen104
      @verymen104 Před rokem +8

      true , true

    • @zhou_sei
      @zhou_sei Před 7 měsíci +24

      you can show a woman your penis without it being erect? that's amazing to me.

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 Před 5 měsíci

      Honestly, I love growers more. I like how I can FEEL it grow in my mouth. Definitely different feeling from a shower

    • @LKS-M9323
      @LKS-M9323 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Lol I tell em call me Mr. Fantastic 😂😂😂

  • @smashy_smasherton
    @smashy_smasherton Před 10 měsíci +1734

    I was having a surgery on my leg once in China (local anesthesia) and my Willy was hanging out in the freezing cold operating room. The doctors were discussing my surgery in Chinese, not knowing that I also speak Chinese. One of them commented on my chilly Willy, “They’re not that big.”
    I asked him in Chinese how big his was when it was cold. He was really embarrassed and apologized. The other one thought it was pretty funny.

    • @bauer_
      @bauer_ Před 9 měsíci +25

      funny

    • @wescald
      @wescald Před 9 měsíci +17

      Small guy huh

    • @everlastinglife5978
      @everlastinglife5978 Před 9 měsíci +57

      Sounds like a totally real and not made up story.

    • @smashy_smasherton
      @smashy_smasherton Před 9 měsíci +94

      @@everlastinglife5978 it’s real! Why would I garner attention to my chilly little Willy?

    • @rleriche5044
      @rleriche5044 Před 8 měsíci +24

      @@wescald weird response

  • @beyourownvibe6638
    @beyourownvibe6638 Před 2 lety +9042

    Growers assemble!! Stand united fellow brother's! ✊🏽

  • @Adam.P
    @Adam.P Před 2 lety +11360

    I'm definitely a grower since it doubles in size . From 1 inch to almost 2 inches.😮

  • @bohican77
    @bohican77 Před 2 měsíci +241

    No idea why this video popped up on my feed, but I applaud your ability to get through the video using strictly clinical terms and avoiding any euphemisms.

  • @HoodXFlocktv
    @HoodXFlocktv Před měsícem +70

    Being a grower has always been a blessing they giggle then soon as I insert this they face every time 😮🥴

    • @jakerojas4756
      @jakerojas4756 Před 27 dny +12

      Bro... it's literally a gift from Jah to be a grower

    • @HoodXFlocktv
      @HoodXFlocktv Před 20 dny

      @@jakerojas4756 facts

    • @XenoLvl
      @XenoLvl Před 13 dny

      @@jakerojas4756Jah?

  • @graymatters7584
    @graymatters7584 Před 2 lety +5289

    It’s like a retractable telescope: small and easy to carry around, but folds out when you need it. A miracle of evolution.

    • @fryloc359
      @fryloc359 Před 2 lety +95

      It's like halloween candy: fun size.

    • @fusion451
      @fusion451 Před 2 lety +31

      Meanwhile ur wife is dreaming about the Saturn 5

    • @graymatters7584
      @graymatters7584 Před 2 lety +132

      @@fusion451 Meanwhile I’m dreaming of Pershing missile t!ts and a narrow waist. We’re all a disappointment to somebody.

    • @jasonnorthcutt4008
      @jasonnorthcutt4008 Před 2 lety +50

      And it's definitely not the member you won't froze off or frostbitten. Being retractable could definitely be an asset of evolution.

    • @fryloc359
      @fryloc359 Před 2 lety +164

      @@jasonnorthcutt4008 If you think about being a caveman, running through the woods trying to catch some food, or escape from being food, you probably don't want your dong flopping around and hitting everything.

  • @roadrunner7441
    @roadrunner7441 Před rokem +3308

    I'm a grower and women are surprised once it's up I'm proud of myself 😂

    • @lboogie83
      @lboogie83 Před rokem +178

      I've experienced the same ish 😂😂😂😂. She said WHEW 🙄🙄🙄🙄😭😭😭😭

    • @ramielkady938
      @ramielkady938 Před rokem +184

      I hear you brother ... Even my wife the other day was like: baby you got bigger ... And I am like Naah ... It is just so cold these days honey ... That is what you have been served for the last 10 years sweetheart ... Lol ...

    • @makegeorgeorwellfictionaga9268
    • @deco_genji
      @deco_genji Před rokem +7

      ​@@lboogie83 dam🤣

    • @ramielkady938
      @ramielkady938 Před rokem +54

      @GSP UFC and stuff
      I know ... Your m.o.m was even more confused about my junk ... She rode it like a good girl though 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CryptoMiningChannel
    @CryptoMiningChannel Před 2 měsíci +61

    I just came here to read the comments and it made my day!

  • @kevinadams1249
    @kevinadams1249 Před rokem +249

    This was very helpful and nice to know I’m not alone in this area
    Being a grower in a locker room scenario really affected my self esteem more than I ever imagined when others commented and wish this was discussed more in education classes.
    Thank you
    Being a grower made me extremely self conscious growing up and even into my 40’s
    I know it’s psychological but even then it still concerns me, however I’ve often been told by partners that it’s decent size at around 7” and thicker than the average so the females have told me , so it’s something I just need to get my head around

    • @RustyDust101
      @RustyDust101 Před 8 měsíci +40

      Nope, you need to get your partner's head around it. 😂😂

    • @unknowmysteries5925
      @unknowmysteries5925 Před 8 měsíci +7

      The locker room is the weirdest part. Strange thing is. Mostly straight guys like to compare and sneak around to get a peak and then either shame you or who knows what. I remember being in a fight. In boxers because they were trying to peak. Granted back then it was pretty well you know… anyways, straight dudes acting big and macho looking at each other wants is the craziest thing.

    • @keirhardy3457
      @keirhardy3457 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@unknowmysteries5925What I find the weirdest about the shower vs grower thing is who cares about the size of a flaccid dick, surely it's only the erect size that matters since you don't have sex with a flaccid dick anyway? 😂

    • @ACommenterOnYouTube
      @ACommenterOnYouTube Před 7 měsíci +18

      My flacid length is anywhere from 1 inch to 4 inches, then grows to almost 6 inches.
      So yea i can understand what you mean.

    • @AmericanClass1776
      @AmericanClass1776 Před 7 měsíci +3

      A decent size is a nice way of saying it's small lol!

  • @thebigcrunchtheory1379
    @thebigcrunchtheory1379 Před 2 lety +4336

    Grower hardships are real. We can't enjoy the privilege of making them drool by wearing "grey sweatpant". But I do enjoy the surprise they have when they see the "salute". Lololololol.

    • @robertdevoy3119
      @robertdevoy3119 Před 2 lety +305

      Very true. Most women believe that in order to be big it has to start big. They often don't see the D for the first time until it is already erect and visually impressive.

    • @Groteskfull
      @Groteskfull Před 2 lety +49

      @The Gereral I must ask, is it really comfortable? From the pics I've seen on the internet, it doesn't seem like something I'd want to wear throughout the day... restricting blood circulation an' all.

    • @SMiLEY4370
      @SMiLEY4370 Před 2 lety +1

      @@robertdevoy3119 i

    • @dezotfn123
      @dezotfn123 Před 2 lety +49

      Well said, from one grower to another...

    • @starfox1340
      @starfox1340 Před 2 lety +12

      Use a hydro pump !

  • @ryanmarshall4204
    @ryanmarshall4204 Před 2 lety +3600

    "I'm a grower not a shower but when it's time to grow, I show"
    Frank Gallagher
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @MikeScott55
    @MikeScott55 Před 9 měsíci +48

    “I was in the pool! I was in the pool!” 😂. Damn this channel is just wildly fascinating. So glad I watched that Huberman discussion with you. Really enjoying the content. 😊

  • @MrJ_FC3
    @MrJ_FC3 Před 2 lety +2414

    Being a grower is awesome. The "how do you go from that to this!?" Along with the look on their face is a nice feeling.

    • @midwestkrazy83turner50
      @midwestkrazy83turner50 Před 2 lety +52

      💯

    • @eddylorenzo5033
      @eddylorenzo5033 Před 2 lety +110

      Lmfaooo reading all these comments has me rolling

    • @ericmorel6557
      @ericmorel6557 Před 2 lety +14

      FACTS!!!!!!!

    • @RichVegas777
      @RichVegas777 Před 2 lety +187

      Yeah hated being a grower when I was young, now I realize it has its benefits. Hard to sleep when it's hard. Plus carrying it around small and it getting big when needed is prob just more comfortable.

    • @goshko102
      @goshko102 Před 2 lety +47

      @@RichVegas777 God knows his job, mate :D

  • @chrisbenavides7696
    @chrisbenavides7696 Před 2 lety +1690

    This isn't even my final form!

    • @higiniomorales459
      @higiniomorales459 Před 2 lety +87

      Calm down Frieza, we all know you got a long tail.

    • @peaceonearth8693
      @peaceonearth8693 Před 2 lety +23

      Suddenly there is a whole nother story line for another Transformer movie.

    • @kindofabigdeal7284
      @kindofabigdeal7284 Před 2 lety +6

      Lol!!!!!

    • @orionburton3829
      @orionburton3829 Před 2 lety +3

      @@higiniomorales459 jajajajajaajjaaha

    • @WM-mu8ep
      @WM-mu8ep Před 2 lety +26

      Nice to know fellow dragon ball fans clicked on this 🤣🤣🤣

  • @roninmantis7584
    @roninmantis7584 Před 9 měsíci +19

    Interesting to know the study behind it. It's good to see factual videos from qualified individuals.

  • @raphaeldag168
    @raphaeldag168 Před rokem +15

    I love this lady!!! Thank you Doc for all the knowledge you keep posting up.

  • @sSOLDIERrr
    @sSOLDIERrr Před 2 lety +332

    I'm glad I'm a grower. I don't need to be swinging around all day, especially when I'm cold, running, swimming, dancing etc. It activates when I need it.

    • @alfredohernandez3120
      @alfredohernandez3120 Před 2 lety +58

      Kind of like a lightsaber

    • @TheRealistBritishIndian
      @TheRealistBritishIndian Před 2 lety +39

      Lightsaber!!! Comes out when needed!!! A quality weapon for a civilised age…

    • @nicholashaas4526
      @nicholashaas4526 Před 2 lety

      Joseph likes to be a shower?? Haha wtf

    • @direwolf7491
      @direwolf7491 Před 2 lety +2

      Lucky you

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 Před 2 lety

      I'm a grower but I've always wanted to be a grower. I've always wanted to drag my penis across the fitness center shower floor with a big grin on my face.

  • @IPlayOneOnT.V.
    @IPlayOneOnT.V. Před 2 lety +732

    "I was in the pool! I was in the pool!" - George Costanza

    • @Frodohotep
      @Frodohotep Před 2 lety +37

      George: “Do you think she knows about shrinkage?”
      Jerry: “I dunno, sure, everyone knows about shrinkage. Don’t worry about it.”
      Elaine: “Shrinkage? What are you talking about?”
      George: explains.
      Elaine: “Really? That happens? Honestly, I don’t know how you guys walk around with those things.”

    • @cutup1
      @cutup1 Před 2 lety

      😆😆😆

    • @benspangler9550
      @benspangler9550 Před 2 lety +16

      It shrinks?
      Like a freightened turtle!!!
      Lmao

    • @ldchappell1
      @ldchappell1 Před 2 lety +6

      Significant shrinkage.

    • @simpleman2004
      @simpleman2004 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Frodohotep I loved that show,

  • @deeznuts8624
    @deeznuts8624 Před rokem +5

    I grow from less than 1 inch to 5.5 inch. I'm constantly afraid of someone pulling down my pants in the school 💀

  • @AllHandlesRTaken
    @AllHandlesRTaken Před rokem +657

    She smiled through the whole video.

    • @LSGBOOGIE
      @LSGBOOGIE Před rokem +39

      😂😂😂😂

    • @bosefuss100
      @bosefuss100 Před rokem

      She may be a blower.

    • @Brandon-br7tc
      @Brandon-br7tc Před rokem +42

      They can barely hold their inner laugh.

    • @srico7313
      @srico7313 Před rokem

      She's had both in both 🥪😋😋 🌭🍔🌭🍔🍑

    • @peacecrewproducts
      @peacecrewproducts Před rokem

      That's because she is a blower LOL 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @marcustherealius7884
    @marcustherealius7884 Před rokem +302

    A girl I used to date used to call me transformer. Didn’t really know how to take this back then😂

    • @letsgobrawndo7899
      @letsgobrawndo7899 Před rokem +71

      🎵 “Transformers….growers in disguise…” 🎵

    • @FlavurbyK
      @FlavurbyK Před rokem

      I’m unicron in the cooch

    • @afriend9428
      @afriend9428 Před rokem +29

      *One will rise and one will fall* 😆

    • @609mandingowarrior6
      @609mandingowarrior6 Před rokem

      Bruhhh I'm dead ctfu 🤣🤣 I used to date a Asian (Korean) cougar and she called me super scary monster when I transformed to super saiyan God mode lmao 💀💀💀🍆🍆🍆🤷🏿‍♂️😏😏😎

    • @marvelousmrjohn
      @marvelousmrjohn Před rokem +4

      That would've been an automatic "leave."

  • @Frank_and_outright
    @Frank_and_outright Před 2 měsíci +3

    Happy to see you and listen to your speech ❤

  • @ultraspectrum9504
    @ultraspectrum9504 Před rokem +1

    Big salute to Dr Malik, she is funny at the same time very intelligent and an excellent presenter - definitely rare people knows shower and grower

  • @markkirk2129
    @markkirk2129 Před 2 lety +280

    An honest urologist that actually talking fully about male or female issues instead of leaving you in the dark.

  • @david894
    @david894 Před 2 lety +2350

    Thank you for this video. I am a grower. When erect I'm average length, about 6 inches. But flaccid it's very small, about 2 inches. So in the locker room I always felt self-conscious about it. I've gotten used to it so it doesn't matter now, but seeing that most guys were not as small as me flaccid did make me feel uncomfortable when I was young. I would even show my girlfriends how much it would grow from flacid to fully erect and they would be surprised. Oh well. Just adding to the conversation. Thanks for the video doctor, very interesting info.

    • @shivmirani748
      @shivmirani748 Před 2 lety +204

      Ngl I’m the same way

    • @FriarJoe66
      @FriarJoe66 Před 2 lety +250

      This is why I always stay erect in the locker room, now nobody will think I’m small

    • @RyuuseiBlizzard
      @RyuuseiBlizzard Před 2 lety +100

      @@FriarJoe66 🤨🤨

    • @marcoleon6962
      @marcoleon6962 Před 2 lety +267

      Especially when its cold, it could get way smaller

    • @shanemc5136
      @shanemc5136 Před 2 lety +24

      @@FriarJoe66 that's not good.

  • @Hewhomustnotbenamed-rz7kc
    @Hewhomustnotbenamed-rz7kc Před 7 měsíci +21

    I have no idea how i got here.

  • @nomnomnooma
    @nomnomnooma Před 10 měsíci +2

    I have no idea why this was in my feed and who sent this to me but subscribed after looking through her channel lol 😊

  • @joshuaforester
    @joshuaforester Před 9 měsíci +9

    Useful video. Lots of boys, teens, men need to hear this.

  • @batrob1939
    @batrob1939 Před rokem +485

    I'm definitely a grower. Another great tidbit information thank you Dr. Malik

    • @batrob1939
      @batrob1939 Před rokem +4

      @GSP UFC and stuff Hey don't be asking another man that question?
      And 2nd of all of I'm a straight man, I'm not a homosexual if you are that's your choice.
      Only females should be asking that type of question to me. It makes me uneasy and uncomfortable when another man asks questions like that. Understood?? Good day sir!

    • @slakeNsurge
      @slakeNsurge Před rokem +11

      @@batrob1939it was a joke, my dude. 👍

    • @taijonayrow7419
      @taijonayrow7419 Před rokem

      Lmao

    • @slashroar
      @slashroar Před 10 měsíci

      @@batrob1939 I don't think it was a question

    • @hamishanderson6738
      @hamishanderson6738 Před 9 měsíci

      Grower & shower here!😉

  • @andykedziora2898
    @andykedziora2898 Před 2 lety +38

    Being a grower show's your partner they are turning you on when you start to grow. Happy growing everyone.

  • @damont5487
    @damont5487 Před 18 dny +1

    i’m a grower but I remember having fun seeing women’s reactions when it grows

  • @dahlizz99
    @dahlizz99 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Mine more than doubles.. which sucks because when I die or ever get seriously injured I'll show less than half of my real potential

  • @rolling_heavy
    @rolling_heavy Před 2 lety +784

    I enjoy being a grower. Nice and out of the way when not in use, and always a pleasant surprise when the situation arises...total sleeper weiner.

    • @Lukomeyan
      @Lukomeyan Před 2 lety +35

      I don't enjoy it. Sometimes going to pee can be a real pain because of the (lack of) length. I'm even forced to sit and pee some times.

    • @djdj2231
      @djdj2231 Před 2 lety +1

      😬🥴 lol

    • @charlesselrachski34
      @charlesselrachski34 Před 2 lety +3

      I don't understand , I need her to check and tell me.

    • @Chadblake1
      @Chadblake1 Před 2 lety +11

      @@Lukomeyan haha! Seriously?

    • @Lukomeyan
      @Lukomeyan Před 2 lety +12

      @@Chadblake1 Yes, I'm a grower so he's big enough when he needs to be, but otherwise it's actually a problem. Even washing him is a problem as I'm uncut.

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 Před 2 lety +322

    Kudos to Dr Malik for normalizing these topics and for so comfortably providing this type of medical information. Great channel.

    • @danko5866
      @danko5866 Před rokem

      True, I believe the taboo will be eradicated completely by next generation

  • @bradsanders6954
    @bradsanders6954 Před rokem +2

    "I was in the pool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!". Poor George.

  • @cesarmeza5331
    @cesarmeza5331 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Their reaction when they see the transformation for the first is priceless, I had an ex call mine a "transformer"

  • @bigwangmark
    @bigwangmark Před rokem +90

    I think a lot of men feel embarrassed when they are a grower vs a shower and I know I was but as I got older I realized many showers really did not have big ones when erect vs growers that where bigger and thicker when erect. So if you are a grower be happy knowing you are more than likely to be bigger than the showers that like to show off.

    • @RM.....
      @RM..... Před rokem +8

      Everyday life is much easier being a grower.

    • @jerrydamouse4127
      @jerrydamouse4127 Před rokem +4

      It's actually opposite for myself. Call it the underdog complex. I'm expecting to be underestimated.

    • @zi326
      @zi326 Před rokem

      @@RM..... Except public shower I imagine🤣. Must be pretty embarrasing being an adult but looking like a little child between your legs lol

    • @Black111149
      @Black111149 Před 8 měsíci

      Being a shower is not bad although a grower sounds like it would be kool for a woman to see that growth. Lol

  • @itsdave8720
    @itsdave8720 Před 2 lety +235

    Being a grower is just more practical

    • @TheEchoJester
      @TheEchoJester Před 2 lety +17

      Glad I'm not the only one who's thought this, can't beat convenience

    • @chain804
      @chain804 Před 2 lety +5

      Fr

    • @bme7491
      @bme7491 Před 2 lety +13

      Yep, nothing worse than sitting down on your penis.

    • @TidusL2
      @TidusL2 Před 2 lety +8

      @@bme7491 nigga wtf lmao

    • @iGame3D
      @iGame3D Před 2 lety +4

      There's so much room for activties.

  • @havocmwf
    @havocmwf Před 9 měsíci +41

    I grew up terribly self consious about my penis size when flacid. This was mainly an issue if showering in male showers and some could be quite mean with their comments (early school years). I never had an issue around the ladies as I was erect and it was above average length. I never knew there was such a thing as a shower/grower distinction until my late fifties! Suffice to say I never had any complaints from the ladies and have two kids to prove all was well :)

    • @buysncharge
      @buysncharge Před 9 měsíci +5

      Should have called em out for looking

    • @ACommenterOnYouTube
      @ACommenterOnYouTube Před 7 měsíci

      I had a co-worker one day say, i may not be well endowed but it was long enough to make 2 kids ...
      I say the same thing, my penis may be only 5.5 inches long or 6 inches when she teases me before sex, but those 5.5 inches was long enough to make her pregnant 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @wildmappingbug9594
    @wildmappingbug9594 Před rokem +28

    I am into fascinating medical stuff. I hope you can also discuss some not so common illness within our genitals like penis clog, fractures etc. Thanks and More power to the channel.

  • @Wizhk
    @Wizhk Před 2 lety +194

    Grower here. If I ever thought about becoming a nudist, it is this fact that kept me from being one. I didn't want to walk around all the showers looking like Papa Smurf only to become blatantly obvious around the pretty ladies. Who's with me?

    • @davidwadsworth8982
      @davidwadsworth8982 Před 2 lety +5

      Hooah!

    • @israeljuarez1800
      @israeljuarez1800 Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah same here... It sucks lol

    • @francom6230
      @francom6230 Před 2 lety +8

      As a long, long time nudist,, your "boner" is a really stupid thing to worry about bro... smh

    • @bige2012
      @bige2012 Před 2 lety +7

      @@francom6230 uhm, it’s not boner being worried about here- it’s the limp willie genius, as ya can’t walk around w/ full woody 24/7 to show whats really there.

    • @imgoodaswell9558
      @imgoodaswell9558 Před 2 lety +5

      @@bige2012 let him know! It’s our second belly button we are worried about. Lol

  • @johnherman3261
    @johnherman3261 Před 2 lety +93

    Rena; What a great informational channel. I’ve worked with urologist for twenty eight years and none of them explains urological Issues as well as you. Hoping for future success with your Chanel and career.

  • @iamlegend5190
    @iamlegend5190 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I always thought going from 3 to 9 was embarrassing. I hated pool days. I used to try to chubb up a lil before exiting pool if any girls was around!

  • @babiboib7
    @babiboib7 Před rokem

    I concur, thank you Dr. Malik 🙏

  • @MoodKill3000
    @MoodKill3000 Před 23 dny +3

    Funniest thing my wife asked me about this was “how does this work?” “It makes no sense, how does it get much bigger after?”
    Yea she had no idea she just complimented the hell out of me at that very moment when she asked while we were dating 🤣

  • @nedugenas2659
    @nedugenas2659 Před 2 lety +265

    In all honesty, this video was incredibly fun and educational and the comment section is absolute gold! I would really love to see more studies done on this stuff and maybe a video on girth in the future👍🏽

  • @gaufrid1956
    @gaufrid1956 Před rokem +488

    Even at age 65, I'm still a grower. There is a big difference between the length and width of my penis between flaccid and erect. I'm also happy that I often wake up with an erection because I understand that this means good cardiovascular health, important at my age. Thanks Doc for your video!

    • @staytight6340
      @staytight6340 Před rokem

      What, you wake up fully erect?
      That's crazy,must be uncomfortable

    • @gaufrid1956
      @gaufrid1956 Před rokem +10

      @isitsafe Ha ha ha nah not always! But it is good to know that it still works! The joke here in Mindanao Cebuano is that it's a "banakon" ("king cobra") if erect and "itoy" ("puppy") if not. Tagalog speakers use the slang term "ibon" ("birdie"). Quite funny! There's even a 1997 comedy song called "Don't Touch My Birdie"!

    • @sameethfarhaan5214
      @sameethfarhaan5214 Před rokem +36

      Bro u really talk like a 65 year old guy

    • @nav4688
      @nav4688 Před rokem +1

      how long is it when erect sir Geoffrey? has there been a reduction in size at your age?

    • @gaufrid1956
      @gaufrid1956 Před rokem +3

      @@nav4688 About 16 cm. No reduction in size.

  • @ScottKHardy
    @ScottKHardy Před 7 měsíci +1

    I was really hoping Dr Rena would reveal what I've wanted to know for years; the scientic, or medical, term for shower and grower...

  • @Jereciah137
    @Jereciah137 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I am a grower, 4 in or less, but am always happy about the wows I get when it is fully up at 8 in😁

  • @markb4459
    @markb4459 Před 2 lety +47

    "I was in the pool" - George Costanza

  • @fabulousrobert6607
    @fabulousrobert6607 Před rokem +83

    For me personally, I’m a grower.
    I’ve noticed that when I lose all my weight and get my 8 pack abs, It’s true, eating healthy and weight control gives you a lot of benefits to knowing how you hang. In hot, or hot humid weather is better for a natural hang compared to winter where you don’t. It’s like, hey! where did my friend go? 🤔

    • @fabulousrobert6607
      @fabulousrobert6607 Před rokem +2

      @Wayne Jorgensen
      Exactly. I’m sure you already know there is plenty of benefits to be fit and trim.
      You look and feel so much better, and you have more energy to do more things.
      I love women, and it definitely helps in that department. Good luck guy! 😃👍🏼

    • @freshdaddy69
      @freshdaddy69 Před rokem

      😂😂😂 same

  • @xalynkx
    @xalynkx Před 6 měsíci

    I'm a grower👍🏽... kinda sad that i lost 1 of my testes 😩, i haven't been reaching the lengths i could reach📈 but i'm still reaching lengths that puts me as average, for that i am grateful 🙆‍♂️

  • @YNR_LordMal
    @YNR_LordMal Před 27 dny +1

    I'm a grower😎 it's a blessing to go from 2 inches to 7 and a half

  • @melvinlovejones9722
    @melvinlovejones9722 Před 2 lety +108

    I've been fascinated by this subject for years, but ultimately came to an understanding that it all about taking care of oneself. As long as it works, you're good! It's all about creativity with the right person.

  • @HakunaMatata-os1og
    @HakunaMatata-os1og Před rokem +32

    I was a grower when young. Once I hit my late 40's and put on too much weight, and developed hypertension and kidney issues, it changed to shower. Such is life.

    • @HakunaMatata-os1og
      @HakunaMatata-os1og Před rokem +18

      I have since lost some of the weight, managed my hypertension successfully with meds, but the kidneys remain a problem. Still a shower now, and probably will be for life, what remains of it. At least I'm happily married, and have been for decades, and have a bunch of adult children that are starting to have kids of their own. Circle of life. Happy trails.

    • @deykno87
      @deykno87 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Get your health right... Live for those grand kids it's still reversible... discipline yourself and commit... You got this💪🏾💪🏾

  • @casa5104
    @casa5104 Před 7 měsíci

    Amazing information and awareness and knowledge

  • @briankgarland
    @briankgarland Před 7 měsíci

    Happy to report I'm a grower, and by much more than the average grower in this study. But not nearly as much now that I am no longer a youngster.

  • @23ograin53
    @23ograin53 Před 2 lety +62

    Grower here. Sometimes I feel like Doc Brown when he shows Marty the Delorean for the first time . . . . . . "watch this."

  • @christophermzdenek
    @christophermzdenek Před 2 lety +677

    As a grower, with a very significant difference, I've put quite a bit of thought in this. After all, thought experiment is the first step in a hypothosis. I've spoken to a few male friends about it, and while the sample size is only about a dozen, I have found some commonalities. The guys I asked that had genetic heratige to warm climates (Mediterranean, African, Iberian, Persian) tended to be "shower"s. Guys who called back to mostly cold climates (Russian, Scandanavian, Polish, Northern North American Natives) were universally "grower"s. The first thought I have is that natural selection may have played a part (sperm heat death vs. frostbite) and secondly, I realized just how diverse the group of geeks is that I hang out with. Small sample size, under hearsay protacols, but, maybe food for thought. Needless to say, I fall into the north climate group.

    • @BryanTorok
      @BryanTorok Před 2 lety +62

      That all makes great sense. In cold weather and especially cold water things tend to shrink back up inside.

    • @juniortim33
      @juniortim33 Před 2 lety +67

      I have a genetic heritage to a warm climate and I’m definitely a grower

    • @watupevery1471
      @watupevery1471 Před 2 lety +69

      I'm BLACK , guess I would fall in the african heritage category and i'm NOT a shower. Still a cool statistic nonetheless and its great u have a nice diverse group of friends.

    • @dennisgoff4723
      @dennisgoff4723 Před 2 lety +11

      Hey Chris it’s nice to have a survey-type mind. And a cooperative group of geeks!! LoL

    • @Semiotichazey
      @Semiotichazey Před 2 lety +3

      Interesting...

  • @BeefaloBart
    @BeefaloBart Před 9 měsíci

    At 55, and a grower, is using a vac pump to increase size worth the efforts? Did get one compliment on thickness but that woman had not experienced me prior to using the pump. Short term usages seem to appear larger but not sure if there will be good long term effects. (yes I did watch the video here on this topic)

  • @vinnieboombatzmd3508
    @vinnieboombatzmd3508 Před 7 měsíci +1

    "I was in the pool!!!!" ~ George Costanza

  • @KiLLED5639
    @KiLLED5639 Před 2 lety +17

    I used to always wonder about this without knowing how to verbalize it. Thank you ma'am.

  • @milosan259
    @milosan259 Před rokem +294

    I'm definitely a grower but I grow to a little over 5.5in, almost 6in on a good day lol. So I grow to a little bit more than average.

    • @marvilearning5547
      @marvilearning5547 Před rokem +99

      bro 💀

    • @milosan259
      @milosan259 Před rokem +63

      @@marvilearning5547 just keeping it real lmao.

    • @nah6492
      @nah6492 Před rokem +15

      Aye cuz

    • @kcassidy90
      @kcassidy90 Před rokem +7

      So small though

    • @milosan259
      @milosan259 Před rokem +153

      @@kcassidy90 never made the claim I was big. Sorry to disappoint you. You must love the big ones.

  • @johncafiero9636
    @johncafiero9636 Před rokem

    Thank you for all your knowledge

  • @knight838_
    @knight838_ Před měsícem +1

    Being a grower has benefits, like being able to wear athletic shorts and not have a worry as long as mini me doesn't decide it's time to awaken.

  • @edweber6136
    @edweber6136 Před 2 lety +181

    Well, I'm glad to know I'm still a "grower" even though I'm 67 years old! Also, I watched your video on having to stop the urge to urinate at night and how to stop it with my Kegel muscles. It works!! Thank you!! I love listening to your knowledge and advice with your wonderful "bedside manner!!"

    • @Schaufelor
      @Schaufelor Před 2 lety +4

      When she talked about age affecting your ability to grow i got a little worried. What is your experience? I don´t mean the ability to grow at all, but the erect size. thx

    • @klouisville8760
      @klouisville8760 Před 2 lety +3

      I thought guys that age could not maintain an erection

    • @TheYamahog12
      @TheYamahog12 Před 2 lety +4

      @@klouisville8760 A lot of that depends on the degree of attraction to your partner. Being married and faithful to the same woman for 30 years can become a little mundane. It’s just natural.

    • @mikebuchanan3532
      @mikebuchanan3532 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Schaufelor I lost some size when I developed Peyronies disease. It doesn’t get as hard as a skillet handle anymore, but the little blue pill handles that.

    • @TheWonderwiess
      @TheWonderwiess Před 2 lety +1

      @@TheYamahog12 weird how the brain works.. when we get older and we see a young woman in her 20s mid 30s.. in some of us, the brain triggers a response of pleasing her will let to seem more masculine etc etc

  • @AC-cg4be
    @AC-cg4be Před 2 lety +178

    These vids are awesome! There's a lot of BS about the whole pelvic area floating around and it's nice to have an actual doctor explain the stuff that's going on down there.

    • @Rhyskendall8
      @Rhyskendall8 Před 2 lety +3

      I've never heard of a pelvic area floating around, but I'm glad to hear it's BS. I was worried about my bollocks floating off

  • @user-uf5vj6zk7m
    @user-uf5vj6zk7m Před 2 měsíci

    Very educative Thank-you

  • @jimtownsend7899
    @jimtownsend7899 Před 2 lety +35

    I always tell people I leave the big one at home, and I just bring the "travel size" one when I go out. It's enough to get a grip for urination, and it fits better in my trousers.

    • @michaelchavis2650
      @michaelchavis2650 Před 2 lety +1

      Best thing I read all day. My go to is " it's little but it's cute..."

  • @brutusbuk
    @brutusbuk Před 2 lety +24

    Dr. Malik, I love how you don't shy away from any "icky" subject! I especially like how you discuss everyday, normal topics that a lot of people don't discuss in polite conversation!!!

    • @nileshghadge5016
      @nileshghadge5016 Před 2 lety +1

      That's literally her job 🤦🏻‍♂️🙄

    • @brutusbuk
      @brutusbuk Před 2 lety

      @@nileshghadge5016 It is in her professional practice, but I am applauding her for putting it all out there on social media. That's a whole different arena and I am simply recognizing how she handles it with grace, professionalism, and accessibility. Not sure where your derision arises from, but it's not important.

  • @adavies1752
    @adavies1752 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I'm a grower
    Very fit and active for 55
    Would go out of my way not to expose myself Infront of others
    Especially males
    Got asked to join in a full moon ceremony not knowing what to expect
    Everyone totally naked average gathering 13 males 13 female
    I'm naked every month as a celebration of life and time and the love of earth no embarrassment at all I've gone past caring when there so much love around you❤
    Love to all the growers and the showers

  • @danielankers-lg9vu
    @danielankers-lg9vu Před 10 měsíci

    Whichever you are...just remember to be a mind blower

  • @Doogz101
    @Doogz101 Před 2 lety +81

    Just came across this video and I’m glad I did. I am a grower (didn’t even know about that term) and I’ve always felt insecure about my flaccid length.

  • @treyivey5431
    @treyivey5431 Před 2 lety +81

    I can grow from 2” to 7”. Had a girl pick at me one time. She seen me soft.. that grin she had vanished after the grower showed up! True story

    • @BackFireZz
      @BackFireZz Před 2 lety +8

      Bullshit buddy lol

    • @antnfs
      @antnfs Před 2 lety +15

      @@BackFireZz not necessarily, I’m the same measurements before and after. No anecdotes though.

    • @bryanmurillo6557
      @bryanmurillo6557 Před 2 lety +2

      @@antnfs yup 👆🏽

    • @billbored8277
      @billbored8277 Před 2 lety +5

      @@BackFireZz Its not bullshit, I'm about the same. Its the classic 'grower' situation.

    • @lachlanrusin987
      @lachlanrusin987 Před 2 lety +2

      Still think it was rude of your mum to do that

  • @solomngrundy
    @solomngrundy Před měsícem +1

    Girl, I'm at base form, wait till you see the FINAL BOSS!!!!!!

  • @maevaasare
    @maevaasare Před měsícem +2

    I totally read the title wrong...I was sitting here wondering what a urologist had to say about showers! Like are baths better or...😅 And I was wondering what the grower part was about! 😂

  • @CurtisAST
    @CurtisAST Před 2 lety +135

    When I was a young man, I was definitely a grower at many awkward social moments.

    • @mikeserrano3813
      @mikeserrano3813 Před 2 lety +10

      Curtis..I miss those days and nights..oh how such pleasure is wasted on youth..lol

    • @robertanderson420
      @robertanderson420 Před 2 lety +6

      Same here, I still remember having to use my math book while going to the chalk board

    • @ronlawrence342
      @ronlawrence342 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes !! I was on a church bus back in the 1970’s and this girl kept wallering all over me . The bus driver wanted me to go to the door and invite the kids to church . Talk about embarrassing . There was no way I was going to those peoples house with that ax handle in my britches and in bite them to church . Ugh ! That was rough!

    • @ronlawrence342
      @ronlawrence342 Před 2 lety +6

      Thanks Dr. for your kind and warm delivery of these awkward questions . I don’t know if I’m weird or what , but I can shrivel to almost an inch when real cold or stressed ( I’m normally 3” or 4”). and then when aroused get to a little over 7” . I’ve measured this a lot so no mistake . That’s growing almost 7 times my maximum shrinky dink .

    • @ldchappell1
      @ldchappell1 Před 2 lety +5

      For some reason that always seemed to happen when I was in class.

  • @A_Hylian_Not_An_Elf
    @A_Hylian_Not_An_Elf Před 7 měsíci

    I for sure am a grower. I would never change in front of everyone else in the men’s locker room, because I was worried they would make fun of me.

  • @joedarling5175
    @joedarling5175 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Listen gentlemen...you're perfect the way you are. Don't be ashamed of the body you were born in.

  • @frankpalermo9307
    @frankpalermo9307 Před 2 lety +12

    Love your channel. Well done on covering topics men are afraid to ask.

  • @finnl6887
    @finnl6887 Před rokem +189

    Just to add to the discussion as well, I would be curious to see a study done about how happiness affects erections, because for me personally, when I'm depressed, my erections are a full quarter smaller than when I'm happy, all other factors being the same. It would open up a lot of questions about the relationship between happiness and body positivity and vice versa, that's for sure

    • @grendal113
      @grendal113 Před rokem +4

      I found nicotine patches cause Ed.

    • @Prometheus7272
      @Prometheus7272 Před rokem +29

      Higher testosterone may be the cause of your better mood and erection. Cortisol the stress hormone suppresses testosterone.

    • @phonkyfeel1
      @phonkyfeel1 Před rokem

      Do you regularly measure your penis? Enough to assert statistical analyses correlated with emotional influence?!

    • @Dante199006
      @Dante199006 Před rokem +18

      Lack of sleep also seems to effect it too.

    • @plack_benis382
      @plack_benis382 Před rokem +13

      Ive had this issue recently, im not sure if its a mental thing but thats my best guess. Because im young, and in good shape. But my head to head connection if you will has been a bit shaky recently. I can get hard no problem, but not fully. Even during sex, and during sex i lose even more erection if im in control. Hopefully its just a mental thing ill get past, because its affecting my sex life and drive atm

  • @Motorcycle_Man
    @Motorcycle_Man Před rokem +2

    Grower here! I just hope I never accidentally reveal myself, if so I'll have to say "I promise there's more , I'm a grower!)

  • @comradewarners
    @comradewarners Před 10 dny

    I’m a grower and I remember going to the sauna with my friends in Korea, and my shower friend was so confused. He felt bad for me 😂

  • @goochfitness26
    @goochfitness26 Před 2 lety +22

    This video is very useful. I already know that being a grower ain’t a issue at all but her videos are always insightful. She got a sub from me💯💯😂

  • @racerx4evr
    @racerx4evr Před 2 lety +36

    I dived into this section just to try and find some comments from Seinfeld, and I wasn’t disappointed. Lol. Awesome channel Rena, keep up the good work.

  • @kiltr4p851
    @kiltr4p851 Před 10 dny

    This was a hilariously insightful video😂

  • @anthonybyrge8074
    @anthonybyrge8074 Před 8 měsíci

    Yea ive always been grower not a shower. As a teen i was embarrassed untill i became active and i had a reputation from going from bruce banner to hulk smash or wreck it Ralp. Now im 39 like the dr said i have weight blood pressure and diabetes, but im still able to be very active and still go super saiyan with my grower.

  • @observer7555
    @observer7555 Před rokem +129

    Some of us are neither.
    Some of us stay small regardless of being flaccid or erect. 😒

    • @NikeRunner210
      @NikeRunner210 Před rokem +14

      😂

    • @rightnearthebeach
      @rightnearthebeach Před rokem +8

      😂😂😂

    • @fionahoughton241
      @fionahoughton241 Před rokem +9

      It's what you do with it that counts. And Yoda says "Size matters not!" 🤗

    • @aaronperry5138
      @aaronperry5138 Před rokem +15

      Yes I've heard of this third category. Not a 'grower' or a 'shower', but a 'nowhere'.
      In all seriousness though, there's no need to stress about it, cause the vast majority of a woman's pleasure nerves are just barely inside along the top. I've found that most of them experience pain from too deep of penetration, and can actually prefer just the first inch or two as it specifically stimulates that area. You've been given all you need, just don't go for huge women, and focus on your process.

    • @darkfire8008
      @darkfire8008 Před rokem +10

      I would qualify that as a shower since you have to show her where it's at. XD

  • @JM1993951
    @JM1993951 Před 2 lety +33

    I remember there being an article about this in my sister’s Cosmo magazine. I was probably 8 or 9 when I read it, so, as a grower, it probably helped me subconsciously growing up.

  • @_The_Worst_
    @_The_Worst_ Před rokem +2

    These are heIIa interesting facts...🤘🏼💯✔️

  • @Gooody3shoes
    @Gooody3shoes Před 27 dny

    I'M BOTH! I'M IN GREAT SHAPE I DON'T DRINK OR SMOKE! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @user-nh4tm6hh4j
    @user-nh4tm6hh4j Před 2 lety +21

    Rena, you're the best. You did into those questions that are floating around out there but can be hard to discuss.

  • @freebird7328
    @freebird7328 Před 2 lety +32

    I am a grower, I got teased as a young man but I just said have you seen how a horse grows well that is me. lol

  • @RoninCatholic
    @RoninCatholic Před 2 měsíci +1

    Absolute grower. I'm talking like more than 200% increase in length, 400% increase in cold weather.

  • @invaderjoshua6280
    @invaderjoshua6280 Před 3 měsíci

    I’m a grower and love it. Compact when I don’t need it, large when I do. Convenient! lol.

  • @noturaveragehermit6958
    @noturaveragehermit6958 Před rokem +4

    I think I tripped on this video just in time and thank you for this. I never thought in a million years a woman would talk about this with a straight face so on that much respect!. I mean dam I remember going to a hospital when I was barely in my twenties almost knocked out and hearing a doctor say poor guy was not blessed while putting a catheter in me then hearing the nurse laugh. When I woke up my brain was a little under stress. Now in my late 40's I am going into surgery for my knee and after watching this I think you have rested my soul a little bit. I remember when I was young as well and already had what appeared to be ed.But a nurse filled me in and said it was mental probably for many reasons.I believe she was right considering all the hoops dudes gotta jump through these days over time it does take a toll on ones mental state. Especially when I have to hear women say what is that? my ex was as big a red bull can limp and thats not really a turn on!. So these days I just stopped dating,sex,pretty much all of it.I was raised in a family that believed in marriage and love for me at age 46 I have seen none of that and it just got old. When I look back though I do remember a few girls nicknaming me turtle and say dam you always surprise me but I was pretty young then.Anyways thanks for resting the old mind a little.

  • @boomersD9CAT
    @boomersD9CAT Před 2 lety +62

    I’ve never heard those terms used before, but as they say “your never too old to learn”…Good information that makes sense 😎👍