r/TrueOffMyChest: My boyfriend says I'm fat and wants to break up
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Original stories:
1. My boyfriend asked for a paternity test. As soon as the results show he's the father, I'm leaving him
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2. My bf admitted he’s no longer attracted to me because of my weight
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The boyfriend was wrong for trying to force his girlfriend to lose weight.
1. The girlfriend has a leg injury.
2. She should be able to choose if she wants to lose the weight.
3. The boyfriend threating to breakup with her and body shaming her.
I shed a tear at the 1st one. Like how heartbreaking. Hopefully everyone is okay and can move on from whatever happened.
The second one also felt kinda sad. Idk why. Sounds like they’re now trying to stich together their broken relationship. I hope it works out for them and with lots of time and effort they’ll hopefully get through it and work it out. I don’t like fat shaming people hell my dad, mom, sister and some of friends are f-BIG but I rather them big than fat but here near the end it sounded like the boyfriend regretted what he said and wanted to change that. As for op idk. On the 1 hand she probably is trying to lose 5k to keep her boyfriend but in the other she needs to decide what’s good for her and not what others think is good for her.
Mason shouldn't have been so concerned and thought that OP would cheat. Because she didn't, and he should know it. At least he realized he was indeed the real dad. But even if OP lost the trust in all this, I feel she took it too far with being hurt.
OP shouldn't have broken up with the fat shaming boyfriend. What he did was unacceptable. He should have find out a way for her to lose weight without threatening to break up with her.
He should have thought of that earlier.
@@newbienoah9461 Exactly.
WTF! No one should make someone loose weight if she doesn’t want. Plus we don’t what size she is. He’s a misogynist git if he wants to be like that.
That boyfriend wasn't right to force OP to lose weight. But fortunately she is going with doing it anyway, in her own way. Which he has accepted.
2nd story: boyfriend was in the wrong. If he was concerned for her health and well-being that’s one thing, but from the sounds of it, it doesn’t sound like that was the case at all. While the compromise sounds somewhat reasonable, OP still should’ve broken up with him when he fat-shamed her.
The boyfriendwas wrong for forcing on the weight loss plan, but I am partly happy they came to an agreement. I think its likely they'll break up.
I suspect that the observation is correct. The little sprog doesn't deserve this. He is unfortunate with this. The lady in question is probably upset. But the You Tube does have some ambiguity in it. The fellow should have ignored all of it. This is a sinking vessel situation. A no win scenario.
I prefer to be overweight than posh my body too hard
Actually. The best option is to try to take up swimming! That might put it - back into that. And swimming might help in working out better!
Good vid victor. Question will there be a s.o.s season five or no. Cus when Edward said sorry old boy I’m taped out did that mean the main stories are over or no. I just wanna know. Lol
I feel there will be a Season 5. Season 4 ended in 1964 and that scene took place in 2015. There's plenty of room to fit in more stories. But at the end of the day if victor wants to stop it, he can do so, it's his series afterall.
@@yournextdoorneighboursdog7800 Plus at the end of return, he ended it with his catchphrase ("those are stories for another day"), implying he intends to continue the series.
No fat shaming allowed
I was on the BF side in story 2 because I had been in a situation where a GF I was living with would not even consider getting healthy with me. I remembered how I continued to lose my attraction to her as she continued to gain weight and smoke too much to the point that she had a nagging smoker's cough. But, when I got to the point in the video when the BF was giving his GF crap over being 5 Kilos "over weight", which is about 11 pounds, I realized the BF is just a dickhead and she'd be better off without him.
Great Video Victor
Story 1: honestly, I don’t blame OP for feeling this way, but I also don’t blame the boyfriend either it sounds like he has trust issues and he’s a bit paranoid. let’s hope they can work it out.
Story 2: OP does sound in the right, the boyfriend on the other hand……not so much, now the way he reacts in the update makes me think that he’s bipolar.
Maybe the ultimatum itself was too extreme with threatening to break up if he had said something else for the ultimatum he would technically be in the right to try and help motivate her but with the ultimatum being to break up he's in the wrong
Ok, real quick. In that first update, did OP mention that they wanted to "get married" after they sorted things out? That would mean they had the kid _before_ even getting hitched. That sounds like a bad idea! I feel one should wait to have kids until the bond between them and their mate is official, and they've basically fully confirmed they want to be together. THAT'S when you consider having kids, at least in my opinion. If others want to give their ten cents on the matter, go right ahead. I'm all ears
"TrueOffMyChest"? Yet another new category for this channel.
Do more reddit videos with steam trains in New Zealand America and England
Regarding the first story, both are in the wrong 100%. I'm not going to put one side over the other. Despite the similarities in the child and OP's loyalty to him, podcasts and articles were enough to convince him they needed a paternity test. That said I can understand how media can manipulate us into thinking ridiculous things. I feel he should have talked with her about it first on what they should have done instead of him deciding to get a DNA test right away no questions asked. That said, if I were OP, of course I'd feel a little hurt at the lack of trust, but I'd of tried to understand the situation a bit more instead of letting my feelings get in the way and doing all of this lawyer stuff behind his back. Above all else, I certainly wouldn't let my feelings cause that child to grow up with split parents unless it was something much more serious. I don't know, I just feel like the situation did not warrant the split but she felt so deeply about it that the split happened anyway. My cousins are having to deal with something similar and it's a terrible thing that I wish on nobody. I almost want to say the OP was even more in the wrong than the boyfriend, but upon thinking about it, they're both equally just as untrusting of each other and insecure. From the initial doubts the boyfriend had, to how offended she was at the notion of any doubts despite the media he consumed, without trying to understand why or how he would have been manipulated, and being even more offended at his relief once the test came back despite him working so hard with her to resolve things. I don't know. It's a tricky situation. Best of luck to the both of them and I hope they can either resolve this and come back together, or find new better partners who will help take care of the kid.
What's an ultimatum
I'd have still gone through with ending it with the husband in the first story. A romantic relationship is built on love, understanding, and most importantly trust, betray that trust and expect consequences. I mean yes be sure the kid is yours, but there are better ways to go about this rather than flat-out demanding a DNA test. Some traits on a kid instantly tell you who the father is.
As for the second story, the fat shaming was uncalled for. I'm not fat, just bulky because I have a lot muscle mixed with some fat. I'd be leaving any woman or man who'd bully me about my weight.
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What Do You Think Of Season 5 Of Thomas
We need one
@@cuthbert_the_austerity yes but how
Season 5
Stories of sodor
1960 to 1969 I meant 1970
@@cuthbert_the_austerity ok
It's my favourite season