Mother Thinks Off-White Isn't Bridal Enough | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Elesia wants her mother to love her wedding dress as much as she does, but when their opinions differ on what colour the dress should be the appointment takes a sour turn.
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They could have just told her it was white and she wouldn't have known the difference.
Angrydonutface I think they wanted her to realize that the color isn’t that important. It backfired :-P
They are opening themselves to liability if they consciously lie to a client.
They can't openly lie to a client like that, they can be sued for lying, it's not worth it.
Angrydonutface what momma don’t know won’t hurt her lol
They could just not being it up, but lying Would not be correct.
When the mom said "she is just all I got" it hit me hard😟❤❤😍
Sally 😢😔😢
Me too.. im a mom so i get the feeling..😔😔
Ikr
Me to. I have one daughter.
My baby is my only. I just cried when the mom said she is all I got.
"I'm not ready to let her go. It's just hard for me. She's all I got...but I have to" I'm not crying you are
Mom doesn't realize that if she gives up one, she gets many more in return...#grandkids
I am not crying
Literally
I hate the phrase" I am not crying u r" the moms sweet but i hate that phrase so noooooo
Army 💜💜💜
**walks in wearing ivory dress without the mom knowing**
Mom: I LOVE IT, IT’S WHITE
The guy: it’s not white, it’s ivory
Mom: no
Lol 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂
🤣🤣
Ikr? She thought it was white and loved it...why would the title of a colour be such a big deal.
Blissed exactly. This girl is gorgeous. Obviously adopted....just saying.
I think she secretly likes white race.
I don't get it. Ivory, cream, off-white are all different shades of white as far as I'm concerned. And hardly anybody looks good in super bright pure white.
babablacksheepdog that’s what I just commented.. deeper skin tones always look best in an off white/ivory. Bright white washes the skin out
babablacksheepdog noooo cream can look very different. I have pale-ish skin and I cannot wear cream because it looks awful and my mum always told me that. But white looks nice on me
thats just what she wants
Im brown and I look like ghost in bright white
It wasn't about the colour. She didn't want to let her go.
Darker skin is complemented much better by ivory than pure white.... pure white often looks tacky and even blue sometimes.
Same goes for very fair skin.
Although darker skin still looks good in any of these colours to be honest.
Dark skin looks good in any colour the contrast of White is amazing against black skin. It's pale people that need to watch what colours they wear because it's very easy for them to look washed out
thehoneyeffect but they can wear what they think looks good on em
@@moridaredman857 no one is denying that
@@thehoneyeffect whats your opinion on pale red head with freckles, i was gonna go for a Champaign colour but i just don't know. Sorry for picking your brains, i just feel a stranger will be honest and i have zero sense of style.
I honestly think that off white, champagne, and ivory, gowns look better than pure white gowns
me too
Agreed; sometimes white looks blue in certain lightings
It looks like old material to me.
I think she is a single mom..and raised her child right.. fact that bride dint want her mom to shell out extra money just for the colour speaks volumes about her!..my heart just broke when mom said she is all I got!..what a strong woman...god bless your family!!
I thought the same thing about the daughter not wanting to make her mom pay more just for a white that's already a shade away from another white. I also thought the mom's dress for her daughter was perfect.
Too much emphasize on the mother. step back, let your daughter find herself in HER right dress.
If I were in the same position, I would say the same. I would not pay $1000 extra to buy a dress that theoretically is in a different shade of color but actually nobody can tell the difference.
Am I colour blind or do they all look the same colour
you'd notice it more if you put the dresses beside each other,there is a very slight difference between them. The pure whites shine more and also really part themselves from the rest of the body while cream kinda melts together with your skin.From what I've seen cream looks really weird with some skin colours though and pure white sometimes stands out a bit too much .personally I like ivory because it looks like white with a gentle shade on it.
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂
For me, it's both
My partner is red/green colour blind and he can tell the difference in colours but he thinks peanut butter is green not brown
But who fucking knows what green is to him 😂😂
@@frickbro I'm yellow/green colorblind (whatever that means). I'm a hockey goalkeeper so the ball looks the same colour as the pitch to me so I'm trying to work out where the invisible ball is and saving flying spheres of Astro turf. At least that's what it looks like to me.
If my mother EVER argues with me about off white and white, I'm going to explain to her the subtle difference between being inside and outside the church.
😂😂😂
I feel like mothers and daughters go thru this
Hahahahahha omg that was so funny
Katherine Lott
I don’t get the joke
Someone please explain ;)
Yass!! Haha. Sorry mom that you missed your chance, but now it is hers. And it is not every mom's dream to pick the dress. Not sure where she got that from. Hope she doesn't keep trying to pick everything after the marriage
Them: Ivory white, pure white, ghost white...
Me: *WHITE IS WHITE*
i get confused with colors like white is white they makin me feel like im colourblind 😭🖐
Actually no trust me in the right lighting you can see a big difference and when you have a wedding the lighting is everything in artificial light some dresses looks amazing but in natural light it look so ugly .
She's such a grateful child. Mom's done a great job raising her.
There's really something in the veil😂 this channel should be "I SAID YES TO THE VEIL"😂
sanny wad-ingan you don’t understand until you put it on! It completes the vision
Honestly it turns a dress into a wedding dress. It completes the whole vision, it suddenly becomes real.
Veils are overrated imo. I wore a little tiara 😉
if the show was german they could call it "sieg heil to the veil" 😂😂😂
Lmmfao
Girl you’re willing to pay $1700 extra to get it in white? Chillllddd. Lol
Book Bag Ikr!!! Lol!!!
Particularly when the light ivory is essentially white in everything but name.
😂🤣
Give that to the young couple as a present to start off saving for their first house. Don't was almost $2,000 on a dress!!!!
Not thinking properly.
When her mom said ”she is all I got” I started crying because it made me think about me and my mom. I’m the only child my mom has but not to my dad
same! 🥺
My Mom died when I was 3 1/2 years old. When I married in 2001, my heart was thinking about Her. 😇😭
For those wondering, these shades of white are determined by undertone. "Pure white" doesn't have a detectable undertone. Ivory has a slight yellow undertone, and because this particular pride has a darker complexion with what looks like an orange/pink undertone, the ivory gowns are hard to discern from white gowns.
Why is it ALWAYS a debate over the color...brides out there, it's ok to wear what color makes you feel best!
Gwyneth Murphy forealll like in India they wear red and all sorts of colors a white dress was meant to be a symbol of purity and virginity so... basically has no meaning today lolz I wanna wear green lmfao
In India brides can wear any colour
But sometimes you also want your family to love it otherwise you won't be fully happy and satisfied
My dress was emerald green. When an aunt of the (catholic) groom asked me why I hadn't chosen a traditional white I told her I was traditional. I had lost my right on white years ago.
No one asked anything anymore.
I just don't care what others think. I loved my dress, no matter what others think. Not even my mother.
I respect the love she has for her mom. The acknowledgment and respect she gave for her mom has done was beautiful. So let people do them.
Monte and Lori are not just wedding dress finders.. They are therapist and emotional helpers!!
Have you seen Jo and Al from curvy brides? They are the most supportive.
gifted people. love their story lines.
Well, wedding dresses are something you wear in a very specific occasion, and organizing and living a wedding is very stressful, especially if there are some problems that have yet to be resolved. And Clothes and how we look in them can have a very strong impact, so it's no surprise that these consultants need to be emotionally supportive
Mom never married, all she did was raise this kid. She really is all she got. I've never known a mom, having her as a mother is really a blessing. Congratulations and love from across the globe.
This was my math teacher for 6th grade she doesn’t play y’all 😭😭‼️
The mum it daughter?
The mom or the daughter?
The mom. The daughter is an NFL cheerleader.
I knew she was a teacher. I could just tell! 😂
Apparently the brightest of whites can photograph blue-ish so.. 🤷🏻♀️😂
Yeah, there is a point where bright white looks bluish
Depends on her skin tone as well
It can also pick up the undertones around it and can read incorrectly without someone doing a color balance on pictures.
Deviancy Behavir she’s lucky she can wear pretty much any color. I’m pale AF and I have no idea what colors look good on me
Mark wien
"she's just all I got "
Bro that hit different 😔✊
True😥
I cried😭
No_one _likes_you I know 🥺
Mom doesn't realize that if she invests in one, she gets many more in return...#grandkids
@@YT4Me57 Aww❤️
When the mom said, "she's all I got", it broke me.
She's just projecting off her daughter because she never got an experience to wear white on her wedding day.
Wear not where (joking)
Bridal enough? A woman who is getting married to someone she loves in a dress she loves...that alone makes a bride. People are way too caught up in the non important parts.
Jamie Anderson the mother is just having a hard time letting her only daughter go.
@@popolin8614 I totally get that. A mothers love for their child is like no other but dont be selfish
@@popolin8614 has a hard time letting her go but says insta yes when they ask if she wants to pay for a dress a bunch more if it's white. I dunno.. it did seem like it was a lot about the colour for some reason. I don't know what her moms deal was that she wanted to make a 100% sure it's white but I agree with Jamie on this one. While the dress is a part of a wedding,the wedding and what it stands for is all about the 2 getting married and wanting to celebrate that they're not going to be parted by anything other than death anymore.
I agree 100%!
Exactly.
Finally! A bride that doesn't want to go over budget just to get what she wants and is respectful of her mother's wallet/choices. Great job mom raising your daughter right!
I get the whole not going over budget thing, but at the end of the day it's HER wedding, not her mother's. If she doesn't want to wear white that's her decision. That doesn't mean she's disrespectful and wasn't raised right🤦🏾♀️
Imaoo what a ignorant comment
@@android17lover this
nothing wrong with taking the opinions of others into consideration, but its so ridiculous that even the one the mom loved when she found out it was ivory not white, and also its the CHILD'S wedding not the MOTHERS wedding....
@@android17lover a lot of these responders have under lying mom issues, acting like its the mothers day. Her wedding is the one day IT IS all about the daughter.
Lovely daughter. Dont worry mama, you will gain a son in law and hopefully wonderful grandchildren. You'll have alot of things. And your daughter adores you. Dont worry. So many good things will come back to you.
Thank you Brenda for your wise words!
Beautiful words and so true.
The mother did a great job. Teaching her little girl the importance of discipline by giving her the opportunity to do musical instruments and sports is really good for children and teenagers.
The mother of the bride lovers her so much. But it's time for the bride to live her own life!
Kk dragon yo i see u on every episode in the comment section
Know them well, do you ?
I was told by a bridal consultant that finding white samples in store is near impossible bc it's just not that popular anymore. I get the symbolic significance of white, but what matters most is that the bride feels beautiful and bridal and that's not always in a color. She's a beautiful bride with a beautiful heart! All the best to her!
Not everyone looks great in white me, for instance, I am so fair complexion that it would make me look washed out to wear a white gown
Ivory white colors compliments dark skin
April Dannette Gosa I don’t understand this comment. I always wear white because compared to white I look tan when I’m actually pale as fuck. I just can’t wear dark colors without looking like a corpse. But I see this comment a lot so there must be some truth to it, it might be a difference in undertones maybe?
It's my understanding that white was worn to show the bride was still a virgin. In this day and age, that's a hoot!
@@breebree218 must be undertones. I have blonde hair and pale skin; and if I wear white, I look like I just got over some serious illness. My wedding gown was a soft white- not quite ivory, but not bright white. Much better. 😊
This was probably the most wholesome clip I’ve ever seen from this show. Who’s crying with me
Mama needs to feel proud that she raised such a beautiful and thoughtful young lady. I am glad she approved of her daughter's pick.
His eyebrows got me like😳
He looks like overton from living single on hulu
he sorta looked like Carlton from the fresh prince of bel air on steroids
I literally scrolled through like 100's of comments to find one on his eyebrows
rujula davesar bruh sameee 🤣
@@anyawebber3903 whatchu mean? Carlton was SWOLE af
She looks beautiful. And both dresses looked amazing on her
They really did.
She would look good in anything she's naturally gorgeous
Indeed.
I love that mom. What a true loving, caring mom.
When the mom said “she’s all I got” I almost cried and idk y, I’m not a crier omg
The mother-daughter relationship makes me want to cry! 💜
It's annoying to be honest. Too clingy and the mom lords over every aspect of her daughter's life. That's not healthy. I have a very close relationship with my daughter and I respect her decisions in life; I don't push my way in and make them for her.
@@hilaryc3203 THEY LOVE EACH OTHER. THATS OBVIOUS, AND THATS WHAT COUNTS. THEY MAY NOT BE DOING IT YOUR WAY, BUT THE DAUGHTER IS VERY OBVIOUSLY HAPPY
@@summerdawn6777 Shut the fuck up. You're stalking and being an asshole.
Hilary C the only thing annoying is how anyone can find anything bad to say about this episode. Obviously the daughter loved her mom and her relationship with her mom. And in the end the mom let the daughter have the dress she wanted. People don’t understand the concept of family anymore. The mom wasn’t doing anything wrong. If you want to be different that’s on you, but there was nothing unhealthy about this. People just like to invent issues where there are none.
@@holyghostfire238 Says the enabler. You don't raise strong, self reliant women by dominating your children. You support, you have their back, but you let them make their own decisions without impressing YOUR needs upon them.
Dont tell the mother its "Ivory"...
She couldn't even tell with the1st dress.
Bless her mom's heart. She's obviously strong lady with soft heart when it comes to her baby girl and she just wants the best for her. She did do a good job with her daughter, she seems to be well brought up, nice, lovely girl. Wishing them all the best. Life is not easy for single parent and this lady had to put tough front in order to make sure both her and her child will be all right. Well done. Stay safe and be happy.
Such an amazing mother and daughter relationship, I love how she respects her mother♥️
Mom: "I want her in a white dress!"
Daughter: *shows up in red*
Wouldn't that be something?
Sweetest episode till date no spoil child or no controlling parent or siblings no drama just pure sweetness between a mom n her daughter i love this episode
I think the mom really want a white gown because she didn’t want to let go of her only princess. She knows milk white dresses are very hard to find.
"She's just all I got" my heart 😭
The bride is so BEAUTIFUL!!
The dress coulor does not matter it's about how the bride feels!
When her mom said ‘’she all she got ‘’, that hit hard bro 💔💛
What an absolutely amazing mum....as a single parent brought her up to be amazing and educated and respectful (love how she didn't want to spend extra) and also the mum is able to let her go and do her thing too. Love her
Gosh the bride is gorgeous
Broke my heart 5:54 - 6:02 " She's all I got" 😭😭😭
Me too. My Mom was sick at my wedding, died shortly after. I have a daughter now too!❤️
I got a little teary-eyed watching this episode. I have 3 daughters and it is tough to see them as young women and having to let them go, but at the same time I was excited for them to start that new chapter in their lives. This bride looked beautiful in her pick and her mom is wonderful.
why did i start crying when she got the veil on. it’s 4:30am and I’m sobbing
3:55 aww ❤️ she’s willing to go over bugget for her daughter
she's willing to go over budget to make the dress be white, and not have her daughter's wishes on being off white.
Mercy No she is willing to fo over budget for a dress she likes her daughter knows what color she wants it is Mom that wants different
More like she's willing to go over budget to get her way
Her mom is very supportive of her I love that.
Agree!
I'm Canadian but I would have loved to grown up in the south. There's something so romantic about the culture. Southern Mom's are adorable.
Aww mama! I’ve been In Your shoes. ❤️❤️. It Was just me and her. Guess what? The best is yet to come now it’s me and two grandsons and a granddaughter! Life will get fuller than you ever imagined!
I love how she confidently said, "I'm saying yes to the dress."
@2:31 I like the way were consultant says "MOM"?? 😆
Where consultant
That sweet mama moment
"She's all I got" hit my heart HARD ❤️❤️
That Mama is the definition of love. Her daughters joy is her joy.
her is actually really lovely ...she just loves her ..when she said "she is all i got " i teared up😢💕💕
She hasn’t lost her daughter just gained a son now
the mamma is so funny nd jolly minded. ❤
When mom picks the groom, you can never go wrong! And this mom deserves to approve of the dress, unlike most moms!
As a person that draws
The ivory and a normal white are VERY SIMILAR the mom didn’t know it was ivory until told. I’m sure no one would notice
My point is, white and the light ivory ARE VERY SIMILAR SO IT REALLY DOSENT MATTER
When it comes to photos and skin color it can be quite different. Pure white would come off blue in photographs
For my wedding, I would definitely want to wear a royal purple or emerald green dress. I like exciting colors, especially since it's (hopefully) a one-time occasion. I don't see myself wearing a white dress.
If you wear your dress with confidence people will love it.
My dress was designed just for me, nobody with me. I paid for it myself. Even my shoes where in exactly the same color.
My mother and grandmother saw my dress on the day I got married. They were a bit wide eyed when it came out of the bag. As soon as I wore it they loved it. My mother did my hair with a ribbon from the same fabric of me dress. She was very happy to do that for me. My grandmother painted my nails with her nailpolish. That's the way they contributed to my wedding.
You do you Cindy. Whatever color you want.
Sounds beautiful 😍
Holy Guacamole that women Rose Thomas was my 6 grade math teacher!
kelp shake woooooooooow lol
Another person in the comments said the same thing - are you in the same class?😂
@@katm2538 probably not I dont recognize her, heck she's been teaching for years she was even even my mom's math teacher. And let me tell u, u either fear the women or u love her, there's no in between
kelp shake haha ok😆
But can we just talk about beautiful she is? She is so stunning 😆
The best duo -mom and bride and their love. Esp when mamma said 'she's all I got'. I'm raised by a single mother too and this hit me hard.
I get it, her mom takes pride in the fact that she has raised a wonderful daughter and had a hand in so many of her daughters triumphs along the way but weddings are the time where you allow your child to enter into a new chapter of their life where they can choose the things surrounding it to send them off with an ideal start of their own vision. Tradition has it that parents pay from the brides side, and while yes you don’t want a bridezilla on your hands, you want them to have control of a day that sets off the rest of their life.
Beautifully said.
I have so much respect for that mom!! You raised a beautiful young lady.
Black wedding dress not bridal enough: I see where you are coming from
Red wedding dress not being bridal enough: I see where you are going with this
Off-white wedding dress not being bridal enough: IT IS THE SAME THING
She looks stunning in all of them. Beautiful bride!
As a mom my main concern is my daughter being happy and loving the dress she is in. The color of the dress does not dictate the purity of the bride her face and tears when she got jacked up was beautiful
Her mum shoulda said
"It's not white, but it's right" she looked stunning
so nice to see mom and the love for her only child, don't worry mom you'll make a great grandma
The whitest of whites doesnt really look good.. especially on photos. Off white, Ivory, light nude and champagne gowns look really beautiful and elegant and on the wedding day itself, people wont really be able to tell it isn’t the whitest white.
Love this mother and daughter though ❤️ glad she got the dress she really wanted. It is stunning
What a lovely daughter. She didn't want her mom to go over budget and she's just very caring towards her
Love her mom. She wants the best. She knows when her daughter is happy 😊
Beautiful young woman who was so fortunate to have such a momma. Now that is one strong, smart and sassy lady who loves her child above anything and anyone. You haven't lost her mom.
The veil and jewelry makes all the difference! It makes the moment extra real for the bride ❤️
All the whites look so lovely in contrast to her skin. She is just gorgeous, her pick was perfect I liked mom’s too but hers was classy and more her.
I really admire the mom for raising a well rounded daughter. Her daughter respects her and her feelings. Great job mom!
Boy, to have a dedicated loving mom like that I’d have given anything.
Wonderful people. And that made me tear up,,, that dress is beautiful on her - and I wish her every happiness!
milk white...thats my mom😯..always dreaming about how my wedding dress should be like☹
The bride has a good head on her shoulders. Great job, mom!
Agree!😊
This is the first and only clip I've cried in 😭😭
Love the Mum, she was so honest when she said she wasn't ready to let her go. I know exactly how she feels.
The second dress the lace and fit is amazing. The bride looked stunning!
It's nice to see a mother and daughter have such a sweet relationship on this show. That's rare sadly.
I love the mother and daughter relashionship you can tell that have a beautiful bond
She looks STUNNING in that dress. Like an angel! 😍
I would like to wear a wedding dress in off-white, cream/beige.
That’s a great mother!!! She did a great job raising such an accomplished and beautiful daughter. But, let the daughter pick what’s good for her
Looked stunning on her and absolutely chore is her Mother’s love 💕
This mom is actually a delight to have. She’s worried about losing her only child, so I understand why she’s trying to make one last decision for her daughter before her daughter goes off on her own.
"I'll do anything for her", except let her choose her own dress and I'll lord over every aspect of her life. SMH. I've run into moms like that before and they step over boundaries in their kid's marriages, parenting. Some husbands even walked out. Good luck.
It's called being over protective of your INNOCENT child the bride mom and grooms mothers are friends... And what parent doesn't butt into a marriage you sound so negative. Plus look at her she came out good for someone lording over her.
@@veeli626 She's a grown woman, not a child. A lot of parents do not butt into a marriage. She's a very nice girl, but she's living in constant worry over upsetting mom. That shadow hung over the whole episode.
My daughter got the wedding dress SHE wanted, I never butted into their marriage because that is her business. You have to let adult children be adults and stand by to catch them when they fall, or guide them when they come to you.
I'm not negative at all, but I respect young people enough to let them learn how to be adults and learning how to be adults is allowing them to make their own mistakes. Overprotection is not healthy; being a helicopter parent is not healthy. Maybe if parents let their kids make mistakes sometimes, we'd have stronger adults.
@hilary c what are you talking about? She shelled out her own money for a dress in a color she hated to make her daughter happy.
@@shalombereshiyth And she put her daughter through all of that nonsense before she did it. Buying a wedding gown should be a special outing for a mom and daughter; a memory to cherish. This was anything but.
@@shalombereshiyth She didn't do it because she genuinely wanted to though, and she tried really hard to get her way about something that should be the brides choice and the brides choice only. The only issue is that it didn't work out like she thought it would and she eventually conceded and did what she should have done in the first place.
What a lovely mother and daughter 💕
I have to say Alicia is a really good person for not letting her mom go over budget!!
When her mom said she’s all I got tears came to my eyes