What You Can Control

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  • If you’re in any kind of situation in your life where you feel you are limited in what you can control, you may not be as chained to your circumstances as you think. Fr. Mike offers encouragement, saying you can still make interior decisions and have an effect on your circumstances to some extent. You still have agency.
    Even though you may not be able to change everything you want, you can change your heart. Resentment and bitterness can prevent a great deal of needed change, so if they’re in your heart start by surrendering them to the Lord. This will give you internal freedom similar to what Jesus had when he was suffering on the Cross.
    Give your circumstances to the Lord and put them under his dominion. This may lead to more pain, but it’s better than staying bitter because if we remain in that bitterness our hearts will become numb and incapable of love.
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  • @daisyjuarez6138
    @daisyjuarez6138 Před 4 lety +173

    I am at a super tough spot right now, I would really appreciate someone to pray for me

  • @toffonanais489
    @toffonanais489 Před 4 lety +186

    I am soon entering the monastery.Please pray for me. Thank you very much.

    • @johnredding6598
      @johnredding6598 Před 4 lety +5

      Thank you and God bless you in your vocation. Your in my prayers

    • @serena7397
      @serena7397 Před 4 lety +3

      I pray for Religious Vocations. You are in my prayers. May God continue to Bless You. 🙏💙

    • @boem3021
      @boem3021 Před 4 lety +1

      God bless you!

    • @wiafewaandra5061
      @wiafewaandra5061 Před 4 lety +1

      May the Lord be your guide. May he lead you to find fulfilment I monastic life

    • @ykchim2642
      @ykchim2642 Před 4 lety

      How are you?

  • @matthewbrady9667
    @matthewbrady9667 Před 4 lety +222

    "Just because I can't do everything, doesn't mean I can't do anything" -Fr. Mike

  • @bobjamar9284
    @bobjamar9284 Před 2 lety +11

    I’m in a dark place right now. If someone could pray for me it would mean the world!

  • @jansonmur4362
    @jansonmur4362 Před 4 lety +125

    When you are in a bad way and you can't change your circumstances, dont let your circumstances change you.

    • @stuckmannen3876
      @stuckmannen3876 Před 4 lety +2

      janson mur ...for the worse ;)

    • @jansonmur4362
      @jansonmur4362 Před 4 lety +3

      @@stuckmannen3876 that's fair. I meant that and I can see it may not have come through as clear as I had thought

    • @izamalaca
      @izamalaca Před 4 lety +1

      I love your quote, I’m going to use it!😊🙏🏻😀

    • @bizarte24_
      @bizarte24_ Před 2 lety +1

      Easier said than done.

    • @bizarte24_
      @bizarte24_ Před 2 lety

      Tyvm. Feeling better now.

  • @deborah7292
    @deborah7292 Před 4 lety +122

    this was literally posted on the perfect day

    • @isaacv.6467
      @isaacv.6467 Před 4 lety +1

      deborah Say thattt

    • @goesgoodwithcoffee1029
      @goesgoodwithcoffee1029 Před 4 lety +5

      He has a nack for that. One of his graces

    • @lalaithan
      @lalaithan Před 4 lety +4

      I came on CZcams tonight needing to figure out what to do and this was right on top of suggestions.

    • @JDS279
      @JDS279 Před 4 lety +3

      We have a perfect God indeed..

  • @gloriaramirez4145
    @gloriaramirez4145 Před 2 měsíci +1

    GOD BLESS you Father Mike!

  • @ERIN10E
    @ERIN10E Před 4 lety +75

    Resisting bitterness in my heart is a perfect message for me to hear right now. Thanks, Fr. 💖

  • @ravigil1154
    @ravigil1154 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much Fr. Mike. God bless you too!!

  • @macmedic892
    @macmedic892 Před 4 lety +34

    “Hi, my name is Fr. Mike Schmitz…”
    And I’ve hit the 👍🏻 button.

  • @thomasbryant2486
    @thomasbryant2486 Před 4 lety +50

    What I prayed: Dear God Please Slow things down a bit so I can adjust
    What God apparently heard: FLOOR IT

    • @juanis8219
      @juanis8219 Před 4 lety +3

      Thomas Bryant LOL seriously. He probably just knows we can handle much more than we know and he’s not afraid to make us face things.

    • @juanis8219
      @juanis8219 Před 4 lety +1

      Pro Justice also true

    • @jefffresh1745
      @jefffresh1745 Před 4 lety +1

      You got it right pal. Good one and God Bless.

    • @timopper5488
      @timopper5488 Před 3 lety +3

      Flooring it forces you to make quick decisions, thereby causing you to drop the things that you knew weren’t working, but didn’t have the nerve to drop them before.

    • @sksk-bd7yv
      @sksk-bd7yv Před 3 lety

      Oh, yes indeed I know that feeling! Please grant me one whole day of calm, please God.
      God: Today is a good day for a mental eartquake.

  • @cj7girl280
    @cj7girl280 Před 3 lety +3

    Today's gospel was about not worrying about clothes, food and other earthly things as these are what the pagans worry about... But instead, put your eyes and heart on heaven and heavenly treasures....
    It's a great reminder that one day, this earth and it's worries won't matter anymore ... And that we must keep our eyes on the goal. Keep our eyes the the prize... Heaven

  • @peace8281
    @peace8281 Před 2 lety +18

    This video is a God send right now. I feel so lost, anxious and don’t know how to get myself out of the situation I have created due to my choices. I regret so many decisions I have made. I’m praying Jesus helps me not to become discouraged or bitter and gives me faith and strength to continue and show me the way back to Him. I do have faith God never abandons and loves us unconditionally. Thank you father Mike. God bless you always.

  • @ThomasBarsh
    @ThomasBarsh Před měsícem

    Another great homily, Fr. Mark! 🙏🙏

  • @johnchukwudum673
    @johnchukwudum673 Před 4 lety +15

    I love your video father mike.
    I know you won't see this comment, but your videos drive me forward, and I feel you're talking to me personally.
    God bless you

  • @marymoser3396
    @marymoser3396 Před 4 lety +38

    Thank you for this video, Fr. Mike! That comment about resisting coldness and bitterness, even at the risk of experiencing more pain, hit me hard (no pun intended!). Thank you for your message of encouragement, as always.

  • @katkat2340
    @katkat2340 Před 4 lety +38

    Last 2 years were a tear down disaster affecting every area of my life . It’s almost surreal, but when I came out I see there was no one thing I cold do but go through. The only thing now is I refuse to ever get that sad and discouraged . Do t take things so hard that you actually discourage your own heart. I offer it up now , life gets rough . We all have things no one can change. Hold tight and return to yourself and with God you will.come though.

  • @MotherMaggie
    @MotherMaggie Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you Father Mike. This morning I woke up worried and fretting over my financial situation. Your lesson helped me place my concerns in their proper place, under the guidance of God.

  • @franciscojuan7339
    @franciscojuan7339 Před 4 lety +6

    We are not alone Ladies and Gents we have our Lord and each other. For that I am grateful; pray for me and I will for you!

  • @janetandrews1306
    @janetandrews1306 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you Father Mike.

  • @sgc603
    @sgc603 Před 4 lety +5

    Look at the two thieves crucified with Jesus. One was bitter and unforgiving while the other was not, and asked for forgiveness.

  • @giovannipagliari1537
    @giovannipagliari1537 Před 4 lety +14

    Don’t let your circumstances determine your reality. Thanks for another great video Father Mike and God bless you!

  • @spotlight201
    @spotlight201 Před 4 lety +9

    I don’t how it’s always possible for Fr. Mike to come out with videos that speaks to my heart when I need it most 🤭

  • @tomasmurcu
    @tomasmurcu Před 4 lety +9

    Father Mike I think you are the most positive, serious, and honest voice on Catholicism out there. You were an integral part in bringing me back to the faith. A reversion may feel like less of a victory than a conversion, but you've helped guide me onto the path of salvation
    Thank you

  • @deanne3428
    @deanne3428 Před 4 lety +35

    Needed to hear this soo badly . Thanks fr. Mike

  • @ServantofELOHIM
    @ServantofELOHIM Před 3 lety +1

    GOD BLESS YOU FATHER MIKE!!!?

  • @Funny-vv3in
    @Funny-vv3in Před rokem +1

    Amen

  • @leahbonareri8747
    @leahbonareri8747 Před rokem +1

    I am hurting so so much 💔...God please take away the pain and give me hope

  • @sherryslr
    @sherryslr Před 4 lety +7

    Thank you, Fr Mike. I begin chemotherapy on Tuesday. I was starting to develop some anxiety, and I was looking for some spiritual comfort. You provided that. Again, thank you.

  • @cjambrosiodmd
    @cjambrosiodmd Před 4 lety +10

    It is normal for a human being to feel bitter or resentment. But it is not good to dwell on it.
    On the onset of resentment, is the moment you have to breath deeply and get yourself together. Remember to have a good amount of inhales and exhales and remove those bad thoughts from your mind. Peace!

  • @andrewmcguckian4061
    @andrewmcguckian4061 Před 4 lety +10

    I have got so much out of these videos, Fr. Mike god bless you and thank you for your wise and comforting words. My life nose dived over last winter, I suffered badly mentally, physically, emotionally and socially and felt alone coming close to suicide twice. I asked for Gods help, I spent some of my last money on an audio bible and listen to it when ever I feel down. It took a while for me to get clarity but i know I am never alone, never have been. I know from very recent events God and Jesus have supported me and been with me in a very real way, an almost physical presence. God bless you all

    • @jaqueliner52
      @jaqueliner52 Před 4 lety +2

      Never lose hope,never give up no matter how hard life is,one day god will wipe away all the suffering we had endured on earth and in the after life we will have eternal happiness in heaven with god forever and ever.

    • @andrewmcguckian4061
      @andrewmcguckian4061 Před 4 lety +1

      Thanks, I'm trying to find a way forward, repent my past sins or mistakes and ask that I find the strength to be a better man every day

    • @jaqueliner52
      @jaqueliner52 Před 4 lety +1

      @@andrewmcguckian4061 as long as you never give up and never lose hope in life,god sees your efforts and your struggles,god loves you and angels of god are there with you protecting you and also writing everything that you do even if you cannot see it physically with your eyes but spiritually you are never alone,god is always watching what you do and knows what is really inside your heart,May god bless you and give you more grace & strength to endure the suffering you feel and go through in this world,i feel pain too,all of us human beings have our own struggles & efforts,happiness and sorrows.

    • @andrewmcguckian4061
      @andrewmcguckian4061 Před 4 lety +1

      jaqueliner thank you for your kind words, and may God bless you for caring. I have found people try to make you feel guilty or stupid for believing in Jesus these days and it saddens me that people try to shame me for accepting God and take advantage when you try to be a good Christian. I forgive them and trust in Jesus to offer his love to them, I really appreciate your blessings

  • @carolhensen8005
    @carolhensen8005 Před měsícem

    I did something,regret doesn’t cover the damage……I’m praying,attitude adjustment, I’m praying for healing, I can’t change what happened, I will live with this forever and never forget that I was so wrong…….im not that person anymore but I will always remember that day,and keep the person I hurt in prayer….Thank you Father Mike…..?

  • @julienielsen3746
    @julienielsen3746 Před 4 lety +20

    God can change my circumstances. I cast all my cares upon You, for You care for me.

  • @winaaugustine6936
    @winaaugustine6936 Před 3 lety +1

    Oh My God. I need this now. Thankyou father. God bless 😂

  • @Destassan
    @Destassan Před 4 měsíci +1

    "As a survivor of four German concentration camps I can tell you that surely, man is subject to conditions. Man is not at all free from conditions. But man is always free to take a stand to whatsoever conditions he might be confronted with." - Viktor Frankl

  • @tatedeschamps8578
    @tatedeschamps8578 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you Father Mike for the wise words. Your videos help me so much. I'm a Canadian Army Veteran with mental health and chronic pain running though out my whole body. I have been retired now for 4 years and just a few months ago I accepted my injuries and now I can start to heal with the love of Jesus. God Bless!

  • @tnoi
    @tnoi Před 4 lety +6

    God bless you Fr Mike. Very timely to me now.

  • @saraabdallah5886
    @saraabdallah5886 Před 4 lety +5

    Life is difficult. My trust has been broken so many times that I'm not sure if I dare to trust. I have sooo much resentment in my heart and I hate it. "O Jesus, I abandon myself to you. Jesus, you take over."

    • @jefffresh1745
      @jefffresh1745 Před 4 lety +1

      It is difficult to trust man. But, with Jesus we are safe.

    • @saraabdallah5886
      @saraabdallah5886 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jefffresh1745 thank you, please keep me in your prayers.

    • @jefffresh1745
      @jefffresh1745 Před 4 lety +1

      @@saraabdallah5886 Jesus' very own are with you. In my prayers.

    • @saraabdallah5886
      @saraabdallah5886 Před 4 lety

      @@jefffresh1745 thanks a lot!!

    • @bizarte24_
      @bizarte24_ Před 2 lety

      Too much freedom isn't good for you.

  • @elenaferguson7916
    @elenaferguson7916 Před 4 lety +21

    I needed this today. Thank you so much for sharing the truth with us!!

  • @bex3198
    @bex3198 Před 4 lety +9

    Thank you father I needed to hear that , thank you .

  • @Dgsspeaks
    @Dgsspeaks Před 8 měsíci +1

    I’m struggling with anger so bad. I have 0 patience and quick to anger. I need God now more than ever.

  • @robinabraham5698
    @robinabraham5698 Před rokem

    Thank you so much father. I needed to know this.

  • @justinitsthatguyme010
    @justinitsthatguyme010 Před 4 lety +14

    At this point, it is actually creepy how Fr. Mike seems to know exactly what I'm dealing with each week.

  • @kevinmwandau635
    @kevinmwandau635 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Fr. Mike

  • @Lou-ev1hk
    @Lou-ev1hk Před 4 lety +4

    Thanks Fr. Mike, the sun kept shining on you :-)

  • @kiana653
    @kiana653 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you Father! Such truth said with such love

  • @MariaMaria-dk5no
    @MariaMaria-dk5no Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Father🙏🏼

  • @judalinerangel5788
    @judalinerangel5788 Před 4 lety +1

    Truely !! it really worth it for Jesus .

  • @leonanthony6879
    @leonanthony6879 Před 4 lety +22

    Thank you so much Fr. Mike..
    I feel like this video and Message was for me from God through you..
    Because of my current situation..
    Thank you so much for sharing this.. 😊

  • @johnhealy4647
    @johnhealy4647 Před 4 lety +5

    I believe, help my unbelief...

  • @btsjk7902
    @btsjk7902 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much

  • @jarimos
    @jarimos Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks a lot. THIS METHOD WORK NOT ONLY WITH THE HEART, BUT WITH ALL PARTS OF THE BODY. FOCUS WHERE THERE IS PAIN AND MAKE THAT ZONE HAPPY LIKE YOUR HEART. Thanks a lot and lot of LOVE for you. Your help is so BIG. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @patricktongson5363
    @patricktongson5363 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Fr. Mike. You always makes sense.

  • @mikeeasley6670
    @mikeeasley6670 Před rokem

    Wow. This is exactly what I was needing to hear.

  • @californiamom4913
    @californiamom4913 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you father Mike for making these videos they really help me

  • @debbie4503
    @debbie4503 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you. I really needed this now.

  • @HeyyyEverybody
    @HeyyyEverybody Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you 💜🕊

  • @LucasDanielSantoro
    @LucasDanielSantoro Před měsícem

    Lord, I offer you my emotional instability. Save it.

  • @ThomasJakobMusic
    @ThomasJakobMusic Před 4 lety

    He's SO real. Thanks so much.

  • @DeadNetCord
    @DeadNetCord Před 4 lety

    Thank you father Mike

  • @johnmurray5231
    @johnmurray5231 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Father! That is the video I needed

  • @sksk-bd7yv
    @sksk-bd7yv Před 3 lety

    Thank you.

  • @johnsmit5999
    @johnsmit5999 Před 4 lety +3

    This reminds me how the disciples praised God from a prison cell(Acts 16). Talk about not being able to control your circumstances. I need to get to that point in my own life, to praise Him in the worst of times.

  • @reginasmith3149
    @reginasmith3149 Před 4 lety +3

    Amen! Please cleanse me of bitterness.

  • @roarrman
    @roarrman Před 4 lety +1

    Yes! I love this. We are not helpless

  • @serena7397
    @serena7397 Před 4 lety +5

    Oh Fr. Mike! You were talking to me! I am stuck and overwhelmed. I don't know what the next step is going to be. I have done so many awesome things in my life. I have met so many good people along the way. I'm finding it difficult to accept where my life is right now. And I'm angery and scared. Not living fully at this stage of my life is not easy. Thank you. I need to prevent this turning into bitterness. God Bless You Fr. Mike. 🙏

  • @bielsabas4407
    @bielsabas4407 Před 4 lety

    How come fr mike is so relatable. Thanks fr!

  • @cynthiahiatt7442
    @cynthiahiatt7442 Před 4 lety +14

    God just spoke to me through you. Thank you, you have no idea how much I needed that.

  • @JesusisLord12
    @JesusisLord12 Před 4 lety

    Thank you Fr. Thank You Lord Jesus.

  • @Oskartothemax
    @Oskartothemax Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful.

  • @markthomas4083
    @markthomas4083 Před 4 lety

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. Give my bitterness to God.

  • @rachelmoore5079
    @rachelmoore5079 Před 3 lety

    So much love for this man 💖🧚‍♀️

  • @lenilove3284
    @lenilove3284 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful!!!!!!

  • @cat.nova74
    @cat.nova74 Před 4 lety

    I needed this message!

  • @samantarizzi248
    @samantarizzi248 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m not even religious but these videos are calming my nervous soul. Thank you, Father!

  • @clarawong6864
    @clarawong6864 Před 3 lety

    God bless you. All the angels are with you.

  • @karensmith5526
    @karensmith5526 Před 3 lety

    God bless you and your ministry.

  • @ryko1246
    @ryko1246 Před 4 lety +19

    You always seem to post what I need when I need it!😁

  • @lindakearley9662
    @lindakearley9662 Před 2 lety

    Just reading this now ...thank you Father Mike ...I love your videos and your talks . So inspirational

  • @jennyaldrich7456
    @jennyaldrich7456 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for this video.

  • @santi7616
    @santi7616 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks so much Fr.Mike

  • @RidesInforests
    @RidesInforests Před rokem

    Thank you Father. Truly amazing advice as always.

  • @katrinaybarra3316
    @katrinaybarra3316 Před 4 lety

    This video is everything right now! I’m going to watch it everyday. 🙌🏼❤️✝️

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks Fr.

  • @j.1924
    @j.1924 Před 3 lety

    Very helpful. Pray for me.

  • @lupegladu604
    @lupegladu604 Před 4 lety

    Thank you again. I so needed to hear this. I have been feeling out of control of a family matter and have been praying so much.

  • @gkcollard2
    @gkcollard2 Před 3 lety

    So needed today 1 year later. God always pops these videos up as I need them!

  • @joannlenz1602
    @joannlenz1602 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you I needed to hear this. God Bless you! My prayers are with you🙏🏻🥰

  • @MikeyG04
    @MikeyG04 Před 4 lety

    This is something we all need especially with everything happening in our world today

  • @tradslnd9872
    @tradslnd9872 Před rokem

    Love this video. Guard your heart above all else. Better to have a wound-able heart than a stiff heart that wounds

  • @davidh5639
    @davidh5639 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Father Mike. My mind is slowing down. :)

  • @strobyemtp
    @strobyemtp Před 3 lety +1

    It’s so incredible how many times I’ve encountered one of your videos that were so perfectly timed in my life. Thank you Father Mike!

  • @jessicablesses6091
    @jessicablesses6091 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Father Mike, God is working everything for our good.

  • @lauraredmond50
    @lauraredmond50 Před 4 lety +1

    Holds True! Thank you!!!!

  • @exnihilo8933
    @exnihilo8933 Před 4 lety +5

    I really like this. I like to think we have at least some aspect of free will in even the worst situations. Interiorly especially. It seems in our modern/postmodern setting people are always looking to externals without realizing that freedom begins (and ends) within. External things are good and useful and ought to be utilized, but we must recognize also the strength we have within and augment that most of all. We need to find that rock within us which can carry us through the tough times when external comforts are lacking.

    • @jefffresh1745
      @jefffresh1745 Před 4 lety +1

      Your comment reminds of the third Joyful mystery (The Nativity) detachment from things of this world. All we need is Christ.

  • @shirleymarie5070
    @shirleymarie5070 Před 3 lety

    Thank you 🙏 father mike I need this holy advice right now !!!!!!!!! It’s very hard but I’m trying ✝️

  • @millier9658
    @millier9658 Před 3 lety

    Thank you. Needed that.

  • @shreyanshah4544
    @shreyanshah4544 Před 4 lety +9

    Hey. I really need someone to pray for me. It all started out with a few terrible thoughts that I got about God. Those thoughts weren't me though. Then it soon escalated into more and more thoughts and now I can't stop having these bad thoughts. My mind is going crazy and out of control and I cannot stop these thoughts. I've been praying every single time I get these thoughts and some reason I still get them. I really need someone to pray for me so I can stop getting these terrible thoughts.

    • @jonatikaWwe
      @jonatikaWwe Před 4 lety +2

      I will, hang in there!

    • @jefffresh1745
      @jefffresh1745 Před 4 lety +1

      You are simply in a spiritual warfare as all of God's chosen are. You are protected by our Lord, kept under the Holy Mother's mantle and our prayers. Those thoughts are not yours but of the serpent which Mary holds under her heel. You will be fine.

  • @Itongski2011
    @Itongski2011 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you, Fr. Mike! God bless you.

  • @helenrosario6857
    @helenrosario6857 Před 2 lety +1

    Fr Mike I’m both bitter and resentful. Today I know what I must do. Thank you