@@lauriekrebs4522 he was 62 and ripped. You can work out as much as you want and itll help but not cure your depression. Also joe Rogan said he did ju jitsu everyday
I started cooking because of Anthony Bourdain, in one of the old No Reservations episodes he came to Dublin and went to a seafood restaurant in a town called Howth, i told my dad about it and said it looked like a great place to eat, he said one of the guys he works with is friends with the owners son, so about a week later im at home bored and my dad came home and said basically ''you know that place you were telling me about?, i said ''yeah'', he goes ''you have an interview there tomorrow''. And i went along and that was that, i got the job in the restaurant i heard from through Anthony Bourdain, all the staff were saying how much money they had made since his visit from all of the American tourists coming over since his visit. I would even go to other places in Dublin that he visited; i got his cookbook Appetites, i watched almost all of his shows and i was watching them the day before he died. Here's to the great Anthony Bourdain.
Kitchen confidential is a masterpiece into the culinary underbelly . Hope you read it dude. No reservations and cooks tour also amazing reads and his fiction novel gone bamboo . Well worth it.he has more . Im still getting through them all. Enjoy
Was in Vietnam when i heard he died , went straight to that cafe in Ha noi where he chowed down Bun Cha with President Obama in 2016 had a Bowl of that and a Ha noi Bia for him. Legend. i still think and believe he was knocked off and made to look a suicide as he was gettiing more and more involved with the whole Harvey Weinstien Hollyweird hooha . Legend anyway. 🍜🍻
I almost lost my friend to suicide. Talking to him on the phone to stop him from trying again was one of the scariest moments in my life. He's a lot better now though thankfully.
I think Hunter filled his purpose here. The kind of world coming up is not very conducive to gonzo journalism. He lived hard and burned his candle long, left us with an amazing legacy, and he got what he needed. 67 is not young, and even though it's weird to say after a suicide that he picked a good time, I think he exited at exactly the time he intended and I get it
@@raptorreddelta3986 Bourdain and williams were over 60 as well. As much as id like to have had them around longer, 60+ isn't a bad run by any stretch, especially for people that took a lot of drugs.
@@RandomPlaceHolderName well we know for sure Robin found out that he had lewy body dementia which is a death sentence in which who you are gets literally eaten away
They were some of the greatest minds ever!! They were some of the real few!! May their souls rest forever, I think there’s more inner workings into their so called suicides
The sad part about meeting someone that has made you 'happier than anyone ever', is that they can have an equal and opposite effect on you. I know this too well. 61 is probably an even more horrible time to deal with loneliness and depression. RIP Anthony Bourdain, you gave so much to the world.
Anthony Bourdain was a arrogant leftist piece of shit, he bashed many Americans and he wanted to poison our President. Bourdain didn’t do shit for our world.
He made a joke that he would serve poison at a summit between Trump and Kim. Lighten up. He had fans all over the world and he shared other cultures with people in a respectful way. I don't agree with everything he's said or done but no one is perfect.
Addiction, depression, and suicide all have a high correlation with high IQs. No need to over think it. The world is an ugly place, ignorance is bliss and so is oblivion.
You know you gotta do this yet at the same time you're telling yourself you have to and at the same time you're saying you cant and at the exact same time you're saying it's a must and then at the back of your mind you say isnt it easier not to..... A conflicting series of thoughts , thoughts are bricks which build the wall in which you imprison yourself behind
I struggle day and night with anxiety and depression some days I dont know how I make it man is an inside batter and I feel so alone, I am one of those guys no one ever notice because Im so up beat but do not know how long I can keep this up man :) your comment made me not feel alone thank you..
@@MrCARLOSFINES what works for me is accepting the battle that you have in your head. Try to win one day at a time instead of “trying to be happy” . Not to sound corny but it’s the journey that’s gonna count for us afflicted people. Medication helps to a certain degree too. Hope it helps
people that don't suffer from depression don't get it at all. it gets tiring to listen to it all the time. all the people suffering with serious depression, and there are millions, are potential suicides. they just fight it. eventually you can lose the fight. it doesn't make you evil or a bad person or weak. fighting it your whole life takes more strength than anything else.
I think what people don't understand about it is how draining it is- it's sucking the life out of your brain and physical body every day. You start feeling like a numb zombie. Even more exhausting is having to 'pretend' with family and friends to 'keep up.' But, there is hope.
Bourdain felt accessible, intelligent, and wise in all the ways we wish we could. He openly discussed about battling his own demons in the same way Robin Williams did. He was more than his profession. He was an ambassador of humanity. Damn shame he couldn't slay his dragon this time. RIP to someone most of us grew up with and cherished.
Cody Vandal didn’t he agree with some guy on an episode that the only way to fix humanity is hoping that all races mix and whitey falls by the wayside? Also he probably made good pancakes.
Timmy R gotta admit, white people have done some fucked up shit over the past centuries... I rightfully disagree though. But I understand what he means.
Chester seemed super happy in the weeks leading up to his too. I hate to say it but he was likely looking forward to it. 💯% true and might be the norm when it's planned.
Anthony Bourdain is one of the rare examples of watching someone age and weather life in a way that's harsh but authentic, and the magnetism of that made him enmagtic. He had a hard focus only available in people struggling with the permanence of mental illness. But still we got to watch him open up and live in joy in his present and he managed it so well he is worthy of examination. some people lives are too short, but we were blessed to see the tail of his comet
I honestly think people who are usually deliriously happy are paradoxically more vulnerable to suicide, as it's such a big fall, but people who battle it every day grow that extra skin you need it keep going. RIP Anthony.
Lots of truth in that statement. Happy isn't something we should EXPECT to be. It's something to embrace and recognize as it comes along. It comes in so many forms and at times is shallow and superficial and can put you out of position when life decides to knock you down a peg.
It can also be a sign of mania in bipolar people. The fall from feeling on top of the world into a crushing depressive vortex is very, very rough, especially if you did stupid things while manic.
No, there were quite a few people from privileged and non-privileged backgrounds alike who committed suicide back then as well, and there are people with a strong will to live no matter the circumstances today. Judging suicidal people by comparing them with Anne Frank may make you feel superior, but it's not how mental illness and suicide work.
I loved Anthony Bourdain, he was so introspective and thoughtful. It felt like he understood things at a deeper level than your average person. He was moved deeply by experiences and people. He seemed very content and at peace on the last few shows. It was such a shock to hear about his suicide. Maybe there's something to be said about not being so deep, maybe there's virtue in being a bit shallow.
0:58 Anthony Bourdain was a wrinkled 62 year old man when he became obsessed with a woman 20 years younger. Like a mid-life crisis on steroids, he bought into the shallowness of it all, and actually believed that Asia Argento really loved him, lol. 😂
Anthony Bourdain made the best travel+food programs I've seen. He always found the exotic places and people, and had an open mind towards life, which he lived to the fullest. I also loved his sense of humour and knowledge about food. R I P Bourdain, you will be missed.
The reason bourdain was so loved was because it felt like he was the kind of person you could actually sit down and have a meal with, smoke a bowl with, & shoot the shit. Genuine ppl are rare nowadays. When we see one we know it immediately.
All my culinary friends always had a massive respect for Mr. Bourdain. I feel like this is a similar blow like when Robin Williams passed away and how comics felt from it. Amateur and profession.
Both statements are true. Then throw in that we have to put forward our best version of ourselves to others because we will be judged negatively if we are deemed weak or a potential inconvenience to others.
Exactly, humans are tethered to the mindset of who you think you should be, which is a constant tension wearing down the spirit; and when the tether breaks, in the complex human mind there are few options left.
Someone saying they've never been happier and then soon later learning about the inflicted death of that person is a theme I've learned in life... much love...
I rarely watch any of Anthony Bourdain's shows, but I thought highly of him. He seemed so real and at ease. His death shocked and saddened me a lot, just wish it were different.
A lot of people who die by suicide seem very happy in the days that lead up to it, which is why people are often taken so off guard. I think there’s a peace that comes when you make up your mind to do it, that you aren’t fighting it anymore. RIP Anthony, you are so missed
Tom, you handled this like a champion and a friend. It's not easy talking to a buddy who just lost a friend. Not much you can do but listen and talk, good job.
Anthony was a dude who I feel had that really rare ability to connect with everyone, even viewers from far off countries, on a personal level. In some ways, I almost feel as if he's my friend. My wife and I were just talking about him a while ago, and I just felt I lost someone who was very close to me. Such a damn fucking shame. RIP Anthony Bourdain, I hope you're rocking out, tapping people out, and cooking for people wherever you are. Such a damn fucking shame it had to end that way for someone so beloved. And P.S. I hope you weren't feeling lonely in your final hours, because a fuck ton of people love you, my man. RIP.
My best friend since high school committed suicide and it still affects me. We had a falling out towards the end of my college career and stopped speaking. He tried to make things right a few years later and sent me a friend request on Facebook, but I was still holding a grudge over what had happened and even after he apologized, I ended up deleting him shortly after. Months had passed and I saw that a mutual friend had posted something about him saying that he passed away. I felt horrible because I know if I had just let things go and forgiven him, maybe the outcome would be different. I know he needed someone since he had recently broken up with his girlfriend, but I held onto that grudge until it was too late. His death taught me to forgive those who ask for forgiveness and don't hold onto grudges, especially over trivial shit. I really wish I could've changed things.
In my unprofessional opinion, I think the majority of the depression these days comes from the way we've built our society. Everything is geared towards making people feel alone, because then you can make money off people seeking happiness, when they're only buying fleeting pleasure. Everyone I know feels alone, there's zero sense of community anymore, nobody talks in person, people only talk on social media, there's no community safety net. It's extremely sad, I have dreams of changing this but there's only so much you can do when you're broke :(
Damn I never realized how lucky I am to live in the city I do. People here are extremely social, if you go downtown on even a Tuesday its full of people walking around talking and laughing, you never see a smart phone either.
film79 I live in a city as well, though a university city and when you walk around everyone has their headphones in, nobody talks. And there's a big difference between socialization and feeling like you belong to a community, it's the latter that's more important for your mental health and feeling like you belong
Just caus u live in a society full of materialism amd other meaningless bullshit doesnt mean u have to abide by these rules, you have people who carea about ya no doubt, good people u know, music u love, shit u love doing, emerse urself in that shit, get a pet if u dont have one, trust me when i tell ya pal things can always be worse iv been there, gta be a positive thinking mofo these days, amd STOP WATCHING THE NEWS, its a tool 2 help fuk ya even more
I know how you feel man, this is what worked for me. Get a job in hospitality. You'll be talking to people all day, you develop bonds with the people you work with and the feeling of loneliness melts away. People talk in person all the time, but when you feel isolated it's hard to become a part of that. Also, spending less time on social media (I got rid of my smartphone) helps.
I was in shock to hear it. He was great man and live good life. He will be remember as good man. We the people that enjoy people like Anthony want them to be around until they are 100yrs old , they show what can be accomplish in life.
actually i think its one of the best types, he looks to the side effects of depression and looks for blame or answers there instead of looking at the source. which mimics the common perception of people. its almost as he sees depression as an option and not an affliction. that he brings up middle age suicide rates and mentions meds as if they where the cause over the idea society right now is pretty dystopian for many. with the social perception of success and how that can dictate how people will treat you. his view seemed very flat and shallow.
Glad this is being talked about, people like Joe need to realize that what works for you doesn't work for everybody. I used to be in shape, stopped working out because I wasn't getting anything out of it. I still hated my life and everybody in it. For victims of childhood trauma and recovering addicts life is always a battle, you put on a brave face and try to laugh, but no matter what you will never be OKAY again. RIP Anthony i'm sorry you hurt so much
You know, I've dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life and I've been knocked to the floor with it. Medication has helped though it did take some time. I think what people who do not have chronic, clinical depression do not understand is it a silent stalker. It hits whether or not your on medication, though I will add that medication makes you more resilient. But when it hits you feel guilty that you can't overcome it and then it begins to feed on all of your negative feelings until you arrive at the point where you are immobilized. I cannot know what Anthony was going through when he took his life and I surely wish he had shared his feelings with someone who could have intervened. But he was suffering so much he thought that dying was the only relief. This is my greatest fear and why I continue to take medication. I fear that one day I'll get to the point, that I will suffer so much pain that the only way to get relief is to take my own life. I am sorry for Anthony and his friends and loved ones. But maybe the take away is that depression is serious and not look at it like it's a personal failing, but a real medical condition. Robin Williams once said that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. When you're depressed it doesn't feel like a temporary problem.
I know someone who went under anesthesia, they were sick and depressed afterwards. They're fine now though, it shows how complicated some things like that are though. Antibiotics can actually cause depression too! our gut health is super important. I went on not one but three courses of antibiotics, they made me feel super weird and anxious until I started looking into how to heal the gut and taking strong probiotics. They say just one course CAN cause depression... but three? Anyways. Walking, running, weight lifting, exercise, adaptogens, etc all can help so much
He gave me the courage 3 years ago to start jiu jitsu. He changed my life without ever meeting him. We were all so proud of him when he received his blue belt and won the NY Open. RIP Mr. Bourdain. You are missed.
I like that some people here are sharing their stories of people they love, lost to the darkness that can so unaccountably and with no sound or fury devour a life. You get used to them being gone, but you never get over them being gone.
Anthony B. has said on a interview , when his daughter was born 11 yrs ago, he felt now there's a reason to live. So, he must have been thinking about this for years.
I'll never forget the day my chef handed me a copy of "Kitchen Confidential" and said, "You need to read this...he's telling the world our secrets!" RIP Mr Bourdain
It isn't strange at all, people will never take their life at their lowest point, they don't have the motivation to do it. When they are recovering is the most dangerous period.
Nathan Higgins That's absolutely true...it was one of the first (and most surprising) facts I learned about suicide at university years ago (as a psych major)...
Depressed people who regain their energy before they regain the ability to not feel horrible are at very high risk. The biggest months for suicide are April, May, and June for much the same reason - people get energized in the spring, which makes them more willing to carry out their suicidal plans. It's also a big part of why people getting on antidepressants have an elevated suicide risk for their first month or so.
So sorry for your loss Joe. I had a friend commit suicide and the pain was horrendous. I've been a Bourdain fan for years, read his books, articles, etc. He was so much more than a celebrity chef or a guy with a travel show. I heard someone describe him as a cultural ambassador. We need more people like him in the world. Peace and love brother.
He clocked out at his most high. It's like when a fighter retires at the top of there game. He never wanted to feel low again. A friend of mine suicide back in February and he had a great job, nice cars and a beautiful girlfriend, RIP Mike and RIP Anthony Bourdain.
Sometimes the most dangerous time for people is when they're coming OUT of depression. A lot of them may have decided to take their own life during the depression but the thing about depression is that it makes you not want to do anything at all. Then when the depression lifts a little bit and they finally have enough energy and/or motivation to do stuff that's when they decide to proactively take control and end things. A lot of people are described as peaceful and happy right before they and their lives because they finally come to terms with it and they finally feel like they have enough motivation and control to do whatever they want to do.
Thanks for talking about post surgery depression . I had a major spine surgery 2 years ago . I am so thankful to walk again of course but I have to say I have been struggling with my emotional health ever since. Life is tough and I really think some people feel pain more. Try to be kind to each other and yourself .
Lost my father to suicide when I was 5. I feel really bad for the kids. Of Anthony and Kate. Until you actually understand depression you feel like you were not enough for someone to want to stay. Just like their kids, I was the only child and a girl. I had trust issues with males, if my dad wouldn’t stay for me then why would anyone else want me. It took me until I was about 23 to understand him having experience some depression myself. RIP
Bibi Love. I also went thru a few major depressions that were awful, and I have a kid. Trust me, when you are in a full scale depression, your own mind is just hammering you non stop with negative feelings and you literally think your loved ones will be so much better off without you. That's the mental hijacking of depression. It is merciless, destroys your judgment and has no connection at all to the depressed person not loving their kids (at all). Your dad was ill from a type of Stage 4 mental cancer, let's say, and it became terminal. Sorry for your loss, but please understand, he literally thought he was doing the right thing at the moment.
I never do the comment thing but I've been cooking for 15 years and this guy is by far the biggest influence on me as far as culinary arts... he is a great chef, writer, TV host, phosphor etc..... sad he went out like that but I will miss him very much and the world should as well. Love you chef RIP!!!!
Anyone else here after watching unknown origins on Netflix? It recently came to the UK and I had never heard of this Mr bourdain, got to season 4 then googled him and found out he took his life. So sad, one of the best programs I have ever seen and the guy seems like an absolute legend. RIP dude, travel well.
For those that love GREAT food....Smiling through the Tears.... remembering (CHEF) ANTHONY BOURDINE a noble BRAVE righteous man who made the world smile with his raw/straight up personality, chef Bourdine allowed many of us EXPLORED with him GLOBAL cultures and delicious LOOKING food . A TRAGIC loss R.I.P 🙏... The only credible show on CNN. A WRITER who did not leave a note !
Omg I can't believe it. Anthony Bourdain had such a global impact. Even here in Germany we watched his show. I enjoyed watching his show so much. He was a great guy. Thanks for everything! RIP Anthony Bourdain
Its true my uncle had open heart surgery and went through depression after. He would just start crying at random times. But passed away from cancer 2 years later. Love you my uncle. ❤
I liked Tony and his shows he was a nice guy and down to earth with a good sense of humor .Some one I would like to drink a beer with I will miss him. R.I.P.
The basics on how to achieve happiness in life: 1. HEALTH: exercise 3-5 times a week + strict and proper nutrition with one cheat day/meal a week 2. WEALTH: try to be content in your work life and save way more than you spend...if this means living below your means, then so be it. (this is the hardest one by far and the one most people struggle with) 3. RELATIONSHIPS: Spend more time with the all the people in your life (family and friends) You must achieve a balance of all the above - it you focus too much on one thing (like spending too much time at work for example) then other things get ignored and will lead to un-happiness. Best of luck!
It was his girlfriend, the vicious backstabbing black widow Asia Argento. He had attached his sense of worth and happiness to her. When he discovered she was screwing around with some younger guy (the two were photographed at the Cannes film festival looking like high school kids in love for the first time) it probably devastated Anthony. Lesson men: Don't ever make any woman your world, whether it's a lover, girlfriend, wife, anything. Treat them well, protect them, honor them. But understand they are there to compliment your life not become your life.
I wouldn't jump the gun on that shit unless you actually knew what was going on in his private life. sounds more like you have a personal vendetta against women.
Benjamin Franklin u ain’t lying. hate Asia. Rose McGowan said they had an open relationship cause she was getting so much online backlash. I don’t believe that for a second. She cheated. He was obsessed with her and couldn’t hang. End of the sad story. Dude u have a child. F that biche.
Grew up watching and Anthony. He is one of Main reasons I am fascinated with and love both food and traveling. I could tell, even from a young age that there was a weird struggle. I hope he is actually fully happy and at ease now
@@mts7274 celebrities are only humans. I do credit his shows for opening my eyes to foods of different cultures but I don’t idolize him or any other celebrity. Even from a young age I saw a darkness or sickness in his reality. Regardless, I hope he is in peace.
You can be enthusiastic for life and still have severe depression at times. I’m certain there wasn’t a constant dark cloud following him along every moment of his extraordinary life.
I've suffered from depression most of my life. I definitely knew something was different about me when I was 12. I'm 40 years old now. Working out and anti-depressants don't work for me. I've just kinda learned to deal with it over time. Its has definitely cost me a lot in my life.
@@wandarah I used to be deep into the occult/Satanism before I became a Christian. Evil is real lol Do your research and you will see she considers herself to be a satanic witch
I had an 11 hour back surgery. I was so depressed by the second week. I told my family member who is a nurse and they explained that it was anesthesia.
I agree with him on how from an early age to start exercising, and having a healthy relationship, a good job, and a good up bringing is what could prevent depression. Everyone is different with depression. Some people have it serious or not to serious.
With the suicidal thoughts in respects too anti anxiety meds it's not that they give you suicidal thoughts it's that they alleviate the fear of doing it and they give you the energy back that you lost and that means you have a higher chance of acting on existing thoughts
Exercise saved my life from depression. It's way underrated.
Jay 88 Hi, any advice
Anthony Bourdain was active in Ju-Jitsu.
@@RecoilCDS obviously not active enough.
Chances are your depression wasn't above moderate level in severity.
@@lauriekrebs4522 he was 62 and ripped. You can work out as much as you want and itll help but not cure your depression. Also joe Rogan said he did ju jitsu everyday
I started cooking because of Anthony Bourdain, in one of the old No Reservations episodes he came to Dublin and went to a seafood restaurant in a town called Howth, i told my dad about it and said it looked like a great place to eat, he said one of the guys he works with is friends with the owners son, so about a week later im at home bored and my dad came home and said basically ''you know that place you were telling me about?, i said ''yeah'', he goes ''you have an interview there tomorrow''. And i went along and that was that, i got the job in the restaurant i heard from through Anthony Bourdain, all the staff were saying how much money they had made since his visit from all of the American tourists coming over since his visit. I would even go to other places in Dublin that he visited; i got his cookbook Appetites, i watched almost all of his shows and i was watching them the day before he died. Here's to the great Anthony Bourdain.
Cheers brother! Hope you are still doing well!
Kitchen confidential is a masterpiece into the culinary underbelly . Hope you read it dude. No reservations and cooks tour also amazing reads and his fiction novel gone bamboo . Well worth it.he has more . Im still getting through them all. Enjoy
Was in Vietnam when i heard he died , went straight to that cafe in Ha noi where he chowed down Bun Cha with President Obama in 2016 had a Bowl of that and a Ha noi Bia for him. Legend. i still think and believe he was knocked off and made to look a suicide as he was gettiing more and more involved with the whole Harvey Weinstien Hollyweird hooha . Legend anyway. 🍜🍻
That is a great story! Hope you're doing good, what should I eat while in Howth?
@@ianthornton4566 Seafood, its a fishing village, always has been
I almost lost my friend to suicide. Talking to him on the phone to stop him from trying again was one of the scariest moments in my life. He's a lot better now though thankfully.
Gabriel G. U did good
Let me guess... over a woman??
🙏💪
How lucky you both were to reach out to each other at that moment. Incredible. Thank you for sharing.
@@timothybarend882 what the fuck is wrong with you
R.I.P. Anthony Bourdain, Robin Williams and Hunter S. Thompson. Brilliant minds gone before their time.
I think Hunter filled his purpose here. The kind of world coming up is not very conducive to gonzo journalism. He lived hard and burned his candle long, left us with an amazing legacy, and he got what he needed. 67 is not young, and even though it's weird to say after a suicide that he picked a good time, I think he exited at exactly the time he intended and I get it
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@@raptorreddelta3986 Bourdain and williams were over 60 as well. As much as id like to have had them around longer, 60+ isn't a bad run by any stretch, especially for people that took a lot of drugs.
@@RandomPlaceHolderName well we know for sure Robin found out that he had lewy body dementia which is a death sentence in which who you are gets literally eaten away
They were some of the greatest minds ever!! They were some of the real few!! May their souls rest forever, I think there’s more inner workings into their so called suicides
Never let someone make You happy because they can take that away.
-Patrice O'Neal
Damn that hit me hard reading that...we’ve lost so many greats recently...Rest In Power Patrice
Wise words. So difficult to live by, but so true.
Ray Her Man ain’t that the truth!
Ray Her
god damn. i miss Patrice
Ray Her wow
The sad part about meeting someone that has made you 'happier than anyone ever', is that they can have an equal and opposite effect on you. I know this too well. 61 is probably an even more horrible time to deal with loneliness and depression. RIP Anthony Bourdain, you gave so much to the world.
Anthony Bourdain was a arrogant leftist piece of shit, he bashed many Americans and he wanted to poison our President. Bourdain didn’t do shit for our world.
He made a joke that he would serve poison at a summit between Trump and Kim. Lighten up. He had fans all over the world and he shared other cultures with people in a respectful way. I don't agree with everything he's said or done but no one is perfect.
Joe H he didn't say that... He said "I've never been happier"
He made one hell of a burger....that redeems him for all the shit he said about Trump
Nate one, If Bourdain respected his family he wouldn’t have committed suicide.
Addiction, depression, and suicide all have a high correlation with high IQs. No need to over think it. The world is an ugly place, ignorance is bliss and so is oblivion.
Very well said my dude
I agree very much. But why is the world like that? I don’t understand.
sad but true.
Well said man......
Dont talk shit about the clintons, otherwise you'll die from suicide next
Anxiety is like having all your thoughts fighting each other inside your head 24/7
Thoughts and Fears
You know you gotta do this yet at the same time you're telling yourself you have to and at the same time you're saying you cant and at the exact same time you're saying it's a must and then at the back of your mind you say isnt it easier not to.....
A conflicting series of thoughts , thoughts are bricks which build the wall in which you imprison yourself behind
I struggle day and night with anxiety and depression some days I dont know how I make it man is an inside batter and I feel so alone, I am one of those guys no one ever notice because Im so up beat but do not know how long I can keep this up man :) your comment made me not feel alone thank you..
@@MrCARLOSFINES what works for me is accepting the battle that you have in your head.
Try to win one day at a time instead of “trying to be happy” . Not to sound corny but it’s the journey that’s gonna count for us afflicted people. Medication helps to a certain degree too. Hope it helps
@@MrCARLOSFINES you are not alone
people that don't suffer from depression don't get it at all. it gets tiring to listen to it all the time. all the people suffering with serious depression, and there are millions, are potential suicides. they just fight it. eventually you can lose the fight. it doesn't make you evil or a bad person or weak. fighting it your whole life takes more strength than anything else.
Joe Rogan could of helped his suicidal mate, Anthony. But instead told the 'pussy' to 'man up'.
Lord Achillies what!?? How do you know this?
fuck man. you deserve many more likes.
I think what people don't understand about it is how draining it is- it's sucking the life out of your brain and physical body every day. You start feeling like a numb zombie. Even more exhausting is having to 'pretend' with family and friends to 'keep up.'
But, there is hope.
@@henrythehilux3963 I doubt he said that
Bourdain felt accessible, intelligent, and wise in all the ways we wish we could. He openly discussed about battling his own demons in the same way Robin Williams did. He was more than his profession. He was an ambassador of humanity. Damn shame he couldn't slay his dragon this time. RIP to someone most of us grew up with and cherished.
WarlordRising Well said.
dude anthony was actually a total piece of shit are you kidding
Cody Vandal how so ?
Cody Vandal didn’t he agree with some guy on an episode that the only way to fix humanity is hoping that all races mix and whitey falls by the wayside? Also he probably made good pancakes.
Timmy R gotta admit, white people have done some fucked up shit over the past centuries... I rightfully disagree though. But I understand what he means.
I miss Anthony so much. Hope everyone is ok in 2021.
I really was shaken up by Anthony’s suicide. I really loved his shows and I’m still not over it. RIP Tony.
Right? I never thought it was possible to miss someone that I never actually met before, yet here we are
Right before suicide, there is a trend where the victim proclaims he is extremely happy, almost as if at peace with his decision to kill themselves.
yeah... i heard that too
happy you didn't, next time, take a run :)
It’s more a sense of calmness, like they’ve come to terms with the fact that they’re gonna go through with it.
I haven't experienced it yet.
Chester seemed super happy in the weeks leading up to his too. I hate to say it but he was likely looking forward to it. 💯% true and might be the norm when it's planned.
this was the only time i actually got pissed bout a celeb dying. he was a great guy
I’m glad he mentioned “post surgery “ depression. It is very real. It can take along period to overcome even with medication.
Anthony Bourdain is one of the rare examples of watching someone age and weather life in a way that's harsh but authentic, and the magnetism of that made him enmagtic. He had a hard focus only available in people struggling with the permanence of mental illness. But still we got to watch him open up and live in joy in his present and he managed it so well he is worthy of examination. some people lives are too short, but we were blessed to see the tail of his comet
I honestly think people who are usually deliriously happy are paradoxically more vulnerable to suicide, as it's such a big fall, but people who battle it every day grow that extra skin you need it keep going. RIP Anthony.
As someone with first hand experience I think you're right.
Lots of truth in that statement. Happy isn't something we should EXPECT to be. It's something to embrace and recognize as it comes along. It comes in so many forms and at times is shallow and superficial and can put you out of position when life decides to knock you down a peg.
It can also be a sign of mania in bipolar people. The fall from feeling on top of the world into a crushing depressive vortex is very, very rough, especially if you did stupid things while manic.
No, there were quite a few people from privileged and non-privileged backgrounds alike who committed suicide back then as well, and there are people with a strong will to live no matter the circumstances today. Judging suicidal people by comparing them with Anne Frank may make you feel superior, but it's not how mental illness and suicide work.
I loved Anthony Bourdain, he was so introspective and thoughtful. It felt like he understood things at a deeper level than your average person. He was moved deeply by experiences and people. He seemed very content and at peace on the last few shows. It was such a shock to hear about his suicide. Maybe there's something to be said about not being so deep, maybe there's virtue in being a bit shallow.
0:58 Anthony Bourdain was a wrinkled 62 year old man when he became obsessed with a woman 20 years younger. Like a mid-life crisis on steroids, he bought into the shallowness of it all, and actually believed that Asia Argento really loved him, lol. 😂
Anthony Bourdain made the best travel+food programs I've seen. He always found the exotic places and people, and had an open mind towards life, which he lived to the fullest. I also loved his sense of humour and knowledge about food.
R I P Bourdain, you will be missed.
The reason bourdain was so loved was because it felt like he was the kind of person you could actually sit down and have a meal with, smoke a bowl with, & shoot the shit. Genuine ppl are rare nowadays. When we see one we know it immediately.
All my culinary friends always had a massive respect for Mr. Bourdain. I feel like this is a similar blow like when Robin Williams passed away and how comics felt from it. Amateur and profession.
D Benz Let's be honest, you have no friends.
You say that with such conviction :-) have a nice day
Well bourdain never stole other chefs recipes so I don’t think it’s that similar
Did Robin Williams say he would poison Trump?
Did Robin Williams eat human flesh?
Nobody really knows anybody.
Soulfulosophy we barely even know ourselves
Both statements are true. Then throw in that we have to put forward our best version of ourselves to others because we will be judged negatively if we are deemed weak or a potential inconvenience to others.
Soulfulosophy Rules of Attraction
It's weird how true this is. #Facts
Exactly, humans are tethered to the mindset of who you think you should be, which is a constant tension wearing down the spirit; and when the tether breaks, in the complex human mind there are few options left.
Someone saying they've never been happier and then soon later learning about the inflicted death of that person is a theme I've learned in life... much love...
I rarely watch any of Anthony Bourdain's shows, but I thought highly of him. He seemed so real and at ease. His death shocked and saddened me a lot, just wish it were different.
Same man, if you ever have the chance to read "Kitchen Confidential," you should
A lot of people who die by suicide seem very happy in the days that lead up to it, which is why people are often taken so off guard.
I think there’s a peace that comes when you make up your mind to do it, that you aren’t fighting it anymore.
RIP Anthony, you are so missed
Tom, you handled this like a champion and a friend. It's not easy talking to a buddy who just lost a friend. Not much you can do but listen and talk, good job.
The sad thing about it is you could be standing next to someone that is completely broken and not even know it.
Anthony was a dude who I feel had that really rare ability to connect with everyone, even viewers from far off countries, on a personal level. In some ways, I almost feel as if he's my friend. My wife and I were just talking about him a while ago, and I just felt I lost someone who was very close to me. Such a damn fucking shame. RIP Anthony Bourdain, I hope you're rocking out, tapping people out, and cooking for people wherever you are. Such a damn fucking shame it had to end that way for someone so beloved. And P.S. I hope you weren't feeling lonely in your final hours, because a fuck ton of people love you, my man. RIP.
AB was one of the few people on tv that make it feel like you're actually sitting there with them on the show.
Def be missed 😣
"My friend Maynard from Tool"
XXthekingofyouXX lowkey flex
Joe " 10000 Days" Rogan
My best friend since high school committed suicide and it still affects me. We had a falling out towards the end of my college career and stopped speaking. He tried to make things right a few years later and sent me a friend request on Facebook, but I was still holding a grudge over what had happened and even after he apologized, I ended up deleting him shortly after. Months had passed and I saw that a mutual friend had posted something about him saying that he passed away. I felt horrible because I know if I had just let things go and forgiven him, maybe the outcome would be different. I know he needed someone since he had recently broken up with his girlfriend, but I held onto that grudge until it was too late. His death taught me to forgive those who ask for forgiveness and don't hold onto grudges, especially over trivial shit. I really wish I could've changed things.
Anthony was the rare American who understood Europeans
In my unprofessional opinion, I think the majority of the depression these days comes from the way we've built our society. Everything is geared towards making people feel alone, because then you can make money off people seeking happiness, when they're only buying fleeting pleasure. Everyone I know feels alone, there's zero sense of community anymore, nobody talks in person, people only talk on social media, there's no community safety net. It's extremely sad, I have dreams of changing this but there's only so much you can do when you're broke :(
VT can you name one country that isn’t like that doesn’t have more immediate problems
Damn I never realized how lucky I am to live in the city I do. People here are extremely social, if you go downtown on even a Tuesday its full of people walking around talking and laughing, you never see a smart phone either.
film79 I live in a city as well, though a university city and when you walk around everyone has their headphones in, nobody talks. And there's a big difference between socialization and feeling like you belong to a community, it's the latter that's more important for your mental health and feeling like you belong
Just caus u live in a society full of materialism amd other meaningless bullshit doesnt mean u have to abide by these rules, you have people who carea about ya no doubt, good people u know, music u love, shit u love doing, emerse urself in that shit, get a pet if u dont have one, trust me when i tell ya pal things can always be worse iv been there, gta be a positive thinking mofo these days, amd STOP WATCHING THE NEWS, its a tool 2 help fuk ya even more
I know how you feel man, this is what worked for me. Get a job in hospitality. You'll be talking to people all day, you develop bonds with the people you work with and the feeling of loneliness melts away. People talk in person all the time, but when you feel isolated it's hard to become a part of that. Also, spending less time on social media (I got rid of my smartphone) helps.
I was in shock to hear it. He was great man and live good life. He will be remember as good man. We the people that enjoy people like Anthony want them to be around until they are 100yrs old , they show what can be accomplish in life.
this is the wrong guy to have this conversation with, Joe...
yes
god I thought I was the only one. dudes vibe is so off for this conversation , sounds like a cartoon voice character
so true ...
actually i think its one of the best types, he looks to the side effects of depression and looks for blame or answers there instead of looking at the source. which mimics the common perception of people. its almost as he sees depression as an option and not an affliction. that he brings up middle age suicide rates and mentions meds as if they where the cause over the idea society right now is pretty dystopian for many. with the social perception of success and how that can dictate how people will treat you. his view seemed very flat and shallow.
erp herp yea, he’s a noob
God bless his soul. I really liked him
RIP Anthony Bourdain. Huge fan. Loved your honesty and joy for life. Sad you won't be around anymore. Peace !
MMA THAILAND same for me pal great guy spoke his mind and he ate absolutely anything respect RIP Anthony
He laid his armor down in the final round. Just goes to show you never know what someone is going thru. ♥️Tony
*through
@@Noname2004kurdish get a life
Burn It Down go fuck urself u lil pussy
Glad this is being talked about, people like Joe need to realize that what works for you doesn't work for everybody. I used to be in shape, stopped working out because I wasn't getting anything out of it. I still hated my life and everybody in it. For victims of childhood trauma and recovering addicts life is always a battle, you put on a brave face and try to laugh, but no matter what you will never be OKAY again. RIP Anthony i'm sorry you hurt so much
My condolences to Joe. Thanks for sharing. I know the pain of losing a dear friend. I am a fan of Mr Burdain and I just can't believe it.
Man hes just one of those people its hard to picture them actually going through with the act, i dont know why
Maybe because he had an easy laugh and an enviable life.
You know, I've dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life and I've been knocked to the floor with it. Medication has helped though it did take some time. I think what people who do not have chronic, clinical depression do not understand is it a silent stalker. It hits whether or not your on medication, though I will add that medication makes you more resilient. But when it hits you feel guilty that you can't overcome it and then it begins to feed on all of your negative feelings until you arrive at the point where you are immobilized. I cannot know what Anthony was going through when he took his life and I surely wish he had shared his feelings with someone who could have intervened. But he was suffering so much he thought that dying was the only relief. This is my greatest fear and why I continue to take medication. I fear that one day I'll get to the point, that I will suffer so much pain that the only way to get relief is to take my own life. I am sorry for Anthony and his friends and loved ones. But maybe the take away is that depression is serious and not look at it like it's a personal failing, but a real medical condition. Robin Williams once said that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. When you're depressed it doesn't feel like a temporary problem.
I’m still not over Chester, 😢 broke my heart
"oh man that is so terrible *grin*"
I know someone who went under anesthesia, they were sick and depressed afterwards.
They're fine now though, it shows how complicated some things like that are though. Antibiotics can actually cause depression too! our gut health is super important.
I went on not one but three courses of antibiotics, they made me feel super weird and anxious until I started looking into how to heal the gut and taking strong probiotics. They say just one course CAN cause depression... but three?
Anyways. Walking, running, weight lifting, exercise, adaptogens, etc all can help so much
He gave me the courage 3 years ago to start jiu jitsu. He changed my life without ever meeting him. We were all so proud of him when he received his blue belt and won the NY Open. RIP Mr. Bourdain. You are missed.
I like that some people here are sharing their stories of people they love, lost to the darkness that can so unaccountably and with no sound or fury devour a life. You get used to them being gone, but you never get over them being gone.
Anthony B. has said on a interview , when his daughter was born 11 yrs ago, he felt now there's a reason to live. So, he must have been thinking about this for years.
Dam Joe the circle of people you have been around just keeps amazing me. Great vlog, Anthony was a cool dude. He will be missed by some many.
I love Bourdain. I remember that morning when I woke up and heard. I still remember it and squirm uncomfortably.
Thank you Joe!
Anthony, you are missed SO much!! :( .......It's incredible how he always felt like "my pal" !?!
He lived his life and decided to close the chapter. Miss you legend
I'll never forget the day my chef handed me a copy of "Kitchen Confidential" and said, "You need to read this...he's telling the world our secrets!"
RIP Mr Bourdain
It isn't strange at all, people will never take their life at their lowest point, they don't have the motivation to do it. When they are recovering is the most dangerous period.
Nathan Higgins That's absolutely true...it was one of the first (and most surprising) facts I learned about suicide at university years ago (as a psych major)...
Nathan Higgins it's weird man. But I agree..
Depressed people who regain their energy before they regain the ability to not feel horrible are at very high risk. The biggest months for suicide are April, May, and June for much the same reason - people get energized in the spring, which makes them more willing to carry out their suicidal plans. It's also a big part of why people getting on antidepressants have an elevated suicide risk for their first month or so.
My life got better because of Anthony Bourdain. Really loved to watch his show and hear him speak, we lost a real one with him
I still can’t believe he is gone. Be nice because you never know what’s going on in someone’s life.
So sorry for your loss Joe. I had a friend commit suicide and the pain was horrendous. I've been a Bourdain fan for years, read his books, articles, etc. He was so much more than a celebrity chef or a guy with a travel show. I heard someone describe him as a cultural ambassador. We need more people like him in the world. Peace and love brother.
He clocked out at his most high. It's like when a fighter retires at the top of there game. He never wanted to feel low again. A friend of mine suicide back in February and he had a great job, nice cars and a beautiful girlfriend, RIP Mike and RIP Anthony Bourdain.
Sometimes the most dangerous time for people is when they're coming OUT of depression. A lot of them may have decided to take their own life during the depression but the thing about depression is that it makes you not want to do anything at all. Then when the depression lifts a little bit and they finally have enough energy and/or motivation to do stuff that's when they decide to proactively take control and end things. A lot of people are described as peaceful and happy right before they and their lives because they finally come to terms with it and they finally feel like they have enough motivation and control to do whatever they want to do.
Thanks for talking about post surgery depression . I had a major spine surgery 2 years ago . I am so thankful to walk again of course but I have to say I have been struggling with my emotional health ever since. Life is tough and I really think some people feel pain more. Try to be kind to each other and yourself .
When someone oversells how happy they are? They aren't.
Lost my father to suicide when I was 5. I feel really bad for the kids. Of Anthony and Kate. Until you actually understand depression you feel like you were not enough for someone to want to stay. Just like their kids, I was the only child and a girl. I had trust issues with males, if my dad wouldn’t stay for me then why would anyone else want me. It took me until I was about 23 to understand him having experience some depression myself. RIP
Bibi Love. I also went thru a few major depressions that were awful, and I have a kid. Trust me, when you are in a full scale depression, your own mind is just hammering you non stop with negative feelings and you literally think your loved ones will be so much better off without you. That's the mental hijacking of depression. It is merciless, destroys your judgment and has no connection at all to the depressed person not loving their kids (at all). Your dad was ill from a type of Stage 4 mental cancer, let's say, and it became terminal. Sorry for your loss, but please understand, he literally thought he was doing the right thing at the moment.
I had to stopped my moms first attempt when I was 11 I couldn't stop her laster attemp
I never do the comment thing but I've been cooking for 15 years and this guy is by far the biggest influence on me as far as culinary arts... he is a great chef, writer, TV host, phosphor etc..... sad he went out like that but I will miss him very much and the world should as well. Love you chef RIP!!!!
Anyone else here after watching unknown origins on Netflix? It recently came to the UK and I had never heard of this Mr bourdain, got to season 4 then googled him and found out he took his life. So sad, one of the best programs I have ever seen and the guy seems like an absolute legend. RIP dude, travel well.
For those that love GREAT food....Smiling through the Tears.... remembering (CHEF) ANTHONY BOURDINE a noble BRAVE righteous man who made the world smile with his raw/straight up personality, chef Bourdine allowed many of us EXPLORED with him GLOBAL cultures and delicious LOOKING food . A TRAGIC loss R.I.P 🙏... The only credible show on CNN.
A WRITER who did not leave a note !
Omg I can't believe it. Anthony Bourdain had such a global impact. Even here in Germany we watched his show. I enjoyed watching his show so much. He was a great guy. Thanks for everything! RIP Anthony Bourdain
Its true my uncle had open heart surgery and went through depression after. He would just start crying at random times. But passed away from cancer 2 years later. Love you my uncle. ❤
I liked Tony and his shows he was a nice guy and down to earth with a good sense of humor .Some one I would like to drink a beer with I will miss him. R.I.P.
The basics on how to achieve happiness in life:
1. HEALTH: exercise 3-5 times a week + strict and proper nutrition with one cheat day/meal a week
2. WEALTH: try to be content in your work life and save way more than you spend...if this means living below your means, then so be it. (this is the hardest one by far and the one most people struggle with)
3. RELATIONSHIPS: Spend more time with the all the people in your life (family and friends)
You must achieve a balance of all the above - it you focus too much on one thing (like spending too much time at work for example) then other things get ignored and will lead to un-happiness.
Best of luck!
cpinto23 easier said than done...hell of a job to combine all of those successfully!
fuck off
it'd be awesome if there were links to the the full episode in the description. ✌️
Jake Downs I think it's currently live
It's on now. Guest is Tom papa
These clips come out before the full episode wraps up
Jake Downs, It'd be awesome to find out who the other idiot with glasses and the exaggerated sighs is.
2021, remembering him right now.
This Just tears me up.. RIP Anthony
It's nice to see Joe reminiscent over Anthony, regardless of his bitter end.
It was his girlfriend, the vicious backstabbing black widow Asia Argento. He had attached his sense of worth and happiness to her. When he discovered she was screwing around with some younger guy (the two were photographed at the Cannes film festival looking like high school kids in love for the first time) it probably devastated Anthony. Lesson men: Don't ever make any woman your world, whether it's a lover, girlfriend, wife, anything. Treat them well, protect them, honor them. But understand they are there to compliment your life not become your life.
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I wouldn't jump the gun on that shit unless you actually knew what was going on in his private life. sounds more like you have a personal vendetta against women.
Benjamin Franklin u ain’t lying. hate Asia. Rose McGowan said they had an open relationship cause she was getting so much online backlash. I don’t believe that for a second. She cheated. He was obsessed with her and couldn’t hang. End of the sad story. Dude u have a child. F that biche.
+Jennifer Hughes
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eh i disagree with you, just don’t make a bitch your life
Grew up watching and Anthony. He is one of Main reasons I am fascinated with and love both food and traveling. I could tell, even from a young age that there was a weird struggle. I hope he is actually fully happy and at ease now
Celebrities aren't who you think they are. Never look up to them. Never adore them.
@@mts7274 celebrities are only humans. I do credit his shows for opening my eyes to foods of different cultures but I don’t idolize him or any other celebrity. Even from a young age I saw a darkness or sickness in his reality. Regardless, I hope he is in peace.
You can be enthusiastic for life and still have severe depression at times. I’m certain there wasn’t a constant dark cloud following him along every moment of his extraordinary life.
Joe ‘I got a text from my friend Maynard, singer of Tool’ Rogan.
"food is a fascinating thing to me." -J.R. 2018
Food is a thing to me- J.R. 2025
@@totallynotalpharius2283 LOL
I've suffered from depression most of my life. I definitely knew something was different about me when I was 12. I'm 40 years old now. Working out and anti-depressants don't work for me. I've just kinda learned to deal with it over time. Its has definitely cost me a lot in my life.
Sorry about the loss of your friend Joe, Anthony seemed to be like a great guy it's very sad.
Bourdain is one that makes me wonder when it comes to "celebrity sacrifices."
His girlfriend at the time is a Satanist as well
@@northw3st78 How does it feel being fucking insane
@@wandarah I used to be deep into the occult/Satanism before I became a Christian. Evil is real lol Do your research and you will see she considers herself to be a satanic witch
I’ve just started his Netflix series, 12 season!!! The guy was incredible, such a shame.
Man I seriously dig your self depricating ass and how you add clarity to real life shit. Rock on my Brotha/Oss
These gentlemen said it best. Well said. True men. Muscle through life. As he would want you to.
I had an 11 hour back surgery. I was so depressed by the second week. I told my family member who is a nurse and they explained that it was anesthesia.
Capronice same here
Me too
Capronice
Same here. I was a completely different person in the weeks that followed my neck surgery. First time I ever had anxiety attacks.
Capronice how's your back now? Back surgery is some scary shit I hope I never have to do it.
My 💖 is heavy
Anthony educated so many people about food and culture...He was great person and his literature was impeccable
RIP Tony. Great storyteller.
Must he exclaim "geez!" And "wow!" After every godamn syllable while Joe is talking?
My husband suffered short term paranoia after open heart surgery as well as depression.
ffup77 I suffered from post nutt syndrome
1990sodapop after you failed to satisfy as per usual ?
Not a travel show, not a food show - It was Anthony Bourdain bringing us the world.
Exercise may work but tell that to someone so depressed you cant get up outa bed let alone the house when you have no positive energy
Anyone think maybe Bourdaine's girl cheated on him, he found out, and it broke his heart beyond repair?
I lost a friend to suicide after his girl left him. He was mid-40s. She was mid-20s. Older guys fall deep. RIP Anthony.
Im 38 and my ex is 29. She's got a new man. I was hurt but not to the point of suicide. Fuck outta here
Remember, Theres another bus every 15 minutes.
Bluu_ Ice Hey man, some people fall really hard. There’s levels to love lol.
2 people I would love to have a glass of wine with. Joe n Tony
I agree with him on how from an early age to start exercising, and having a healthy relationship, a good job, and a good up bringing is what could prevent depression. Everyone is different with depression. Some people have it serious or not to serious.
I hate to do this but... Joe "I have my own theory about that" Rogan.
I was legitimately sad when I heard about this. He was one cool-ass dude.
With the suicidal thoughts in respects too anti anxiety meds it's not that they give you suicidal thoughts it's that they alleviate the fear of doing it and they give you the energy back that you lost and that means you have a higher chance of acting on existing thoughts
I miss this man, I wish I had the pleasure of knowing him personally before he died.