The woman you never want to lose - Andrew Tate

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  • @user-ln9zo2ji4d
    @user-ln9zo2ji4d Před 14 dny +513

    BUT, the man NEEDS to be a man WORTH RESPECTING… FIRST.

    • @earthzone85
      @earthzone85 Před 11 dny +6

      Very true

    • @premdeb7699
      @premdeb7699 Před 11 dny +5

      So why she make him her boyfriend if he is not worthy of respect 😒

    • @Homeside301
      @Homeside301 Před 9 dny +14

      ​@@premdeb7699because apparently you're supposed to build a man up or give him a chance 😂😂😂

    • @cptbluemax1234
      @cptbluemax1234 Před 9 dny +1

      ​@yopawpaw7408 you just jump in at the finish line right? No work no nothing....great

    • @premdeb7699
      @premdeb7699 Před 9 dny

      @@Homeside301 It's applicable only for Simps & low value man dude but Not for the real Man who has no regret & extra time for that girl because he easily walk away from that girl and Change that girl if she was doesn't giving him what he wants like - Respect(according to Andrew) or Sex😂😂😂

  • @binnet6774
    @binnet6774 Před 13 dny +485

    i respected my ex husband with utmost respect, until he did not respected me in return. If you want to be respected, then learn to respect others as well.

    • @autotec7694
      @autotec7694  Před 13 dny +31

      thanks for sharing

    • @justinbaker6755
      @justinbaker6755 Před 9 dny +3

      Did he take care of and protect you? That is how we respect our mothers, sisters, lovers, wives, and daughters. If he loves you he will fight and kill/die for you.
      If he loves you he doesn't need your love. You give your love to him through showing respect.

    • @AgentEXyoutube
      @AgentEXyoutube Před 8 dny

      The irony. Tate treats women poorly and you sheep eat up his garbage. Sad but hilarious. LMAO

    • @Lex-nl1wp
      @Lex-nl1wp Před 8 dny +2

      How many cats you got now

    • @tsing190
      @tsing190 Před 7 dny +10

      Exactly. It goes both ways.

  • @NDP719
    @NDP719 Před 12 dny +315

    Whatever you give a woman, she will multiply it. Give her respect first and enjoy the return.

    • @santi7470
      @santi7470 Před 12 dny

      Amen.! Provide a woman food, She makes dinner. Provide sperm, she makes a baby. Give her a house she makes a home. Give her troubles, she can make pain. It's what a man gives- We multiple.

    • @Black-lq2pb
      @Black-lq2pb Před 11 dny

      Shut up. Men are more important.

    • @cptbluemax1234
      @cptbluemax1234 Před 9 dny +9

      Yeah a woman , a real woman.
      Good luck with that

    • @DionteRu
      @DionteRu Před 9 dny +6

      Fairy tales

    • @Anna57646
      @Anna57646 Před 8 dny +3

      This is GOLD!!!!!

  • @AnnetteLewis-xk6pl
    @AnnetteLewis-xk6pl Před 12 dny +149

    Respect is earned. You give respect you get respect. Deal

    • @soleil7259
      @soleil7259 Před 12 hodinami

      But there is a baseline for having respect for humans in general. You can't just be disrespectful to somebody you never met. You be respectful but the moment you see they receive it without giving it back, is the moment you can turn around and leave and a decent guy will agree with you on that. A butthurt guy will always defend the disrespect. Always look for the signs people give you. It is actually fairly easy to filter out the shitty ones unless they are very good actors, those exist too.

  • @AM-xe4iq
    @AM-xe4iq Před 12 dny +121

    Can we talk about what kind of man is actually respectable though?

    • @ikemohlamonyane5356
      @ikemohlamonyane5356 Před 9 dny +6

      Any man is worthy of respect at first encounter. Let me put it this way, always start by respecting, and through his actions he will let you know whether you should continue respecting them or not. Do not start by depriving them of respect and then expect them to "earn" it. Because there's nothing cool about being disrespected for no reason, but being respected for no reason is just basic human decency, and a man worthy of respect will respond well to that.

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 Před 6 dny +1

      ​@@ikemohlamonyane5356so even if they mean mug and let a door slam in your face, you respect them?

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 Před 6 dny +1

      ​@@ikemohlamonyane5356 women are not disrespecting random men in these streets, if anything women are guarded around random men.

    • @ikemohlamonyane5356
      @ikemohlamonyane5356 Před 6 dny +1

      @@ladybird491 Actually they do, women disrespect random men in the streets all the time. Women even disrespect men who are even trying to be nice to them. You really trying to come up with a lot of excuses to avoid respecting men.

    • @babysam3768
      @babysam3768 Před 5 dny +1

      “women even disrespect men who are trying to be nice to them” Lol that’s a funny way of saying rejecting a man’s advances which usually results in them getting butthurt and aggressive

  • @othellologos8225
    @othellologos8225 Před 16 dny +322

    Love or hate him, the guy knows how to explain his points. Sometime I think he states what most men don't even know to say.

    • @auroraleielsalama261
      @auroraleielsalama261 Před 13 dny +4

      Exactly, 💯

    • @tsuffara8087
      @tsuffara8087 Před 12 dny +1

      Agree

    • @spikey0245
      @spikey0245 Před 6 dny +1

      Except when he talked about how useless worms are.

    • @Jackielocks
      @Jackielocks Před 4 dny +1

      This “man” is a HT. How is his opinion about women of value to anyone?

    • @othellologos8225
      @othellologos8225 Před 3 dny +1

      @@Jackielocks I'm more interested in his opinion about men. That has value. Women can figure themselves out.

  • @jennifermonson3209
    @jennifermonson3209 Před 7 dny +16

    I just broke up with my boyfriend because I had respect for him, but he didn't respect me in return. It works both ways.

  • @Yupyupyup32
    @Yupyupyup32 Před 13 dny +18

    Respect? Screwing multiple women isn’t respect

  • @kaypandey7221
    @kaypandey7221 Před 6 dny +5

    The most unrespectable man is Andrew Tate!!

  • @tomdrummy4984
    @tomdrummy4984 Před 8 dny +20

    True…..I agree. Except that a person commands respect, not DEMANDS it

  • @Shalinisrinath
    @Shalinisrinath Před 8 dny +4

    Respect goes both ways. A real respectful woman will not even deal with a guy who’s devaluing her or making her feel like she’s one of the options.
    A real self assured, kind, happy man will not make a woman question her worth or ask her to “get in line” with other woman.

    • @autotec7694
      @autotec7694  Před 8 dny +2

      exactly Shalini. thanks for your opinion. self respect should be utmost priority for peace mind

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess Před 9 dny +20

    I'm not going to respect a man who doesn't respect me. Let that sink in.

    • @rhysenfyneix7864
      @rhysenfyneix7864 Před 6 dny

      Define respect.

    • @alysham.2013
      @alysham.2013 Před 4 hodinami

      @@rhysenfyneix7864Can you stop being a literal pain in people’s 4sses. Use google, a dictionary, or Meta AI if you need the definition of respect. Not sure what you’re trying to prove by asking everyone the same question

  • @Phriffo
    @Phriffo Před 15 dny +98

    This is why men like video games so much. It is an emulation of our real world desires.

    • @Equilibrium_Rewind
      @Equilibrium_Rewind Před 13 dny +9

      Real men don't play video games.

    • @cuspofbeauty1402
      @cuspofbeauty1402 Před 13 dny

      Pathetic. You describe a little boy and put ‘men’ as the preface. Delusion should be recognized as a medical illness so you people can receive the help you need

    • @Phriffo
      @Phriffo Před 12 dny +13

      @@Equilibrium_Rewind shut up

    • @Equilibrium_Rewind
      @Equilibrium_Rewind Před 12 dny +5

      @@Phriffo Dogs that bark are harmless... Keep barking puppy.

    • @Phriffo
      @Phriffo Před 12 dny +12

      @@Equilibrium_Rewind No thing such as "real men don't play video games" you can't define a real man by a hobby. A man could still be a real man and like video games.
      You don't know what you are writing.

  • @itamari1144
    @itamari1144 Před 7 dny +2

    Give everyone the respect that they deserve and adjust accordingly.

  • @MizrahiChick
    @MizrahiChick Před 11 dny +16

    It's mutual and has to be.

  • @icalotdonthide2646
    @icalotdonthide2646 Před 6 dny +6

    I respect manners and kindness. Not everyone has both.

  • @Anna57646
    @Anna57646 Před 8 dny +11

    He needs to be worthy of that respect though.

  • @bigsister9354
    @bigsister9354 Před 7 dny +4

    You can respect your partner as much as you want, but if you don't respect yourself, you're going to lose. Either yourself or your partner or both.

  • @DA-qs4kq
    @DA-qs4kq Před 12 dny +8

    No to human trafficking

  • @24goodbuddy
    @24goodbuddy Před 10 dny +8

    A man that sacrifices his family, and relationship with his children to gain respect from others will lose the respect from wife, and children. Respect is earned. It is of more value to have respect from your children who will be there for you when you're old. Children who value your words, wisdom, time, and forever cherish your memory. The people who carry your DNA into the future. Timeless. What you value is where you invest your time. A man that neglects his family to gain respect in the office is short sighted. He loses respect from all. Actually not deserving of respect.

  • @soufimostafavikashani8557

    I know numerous men who leave their woman eventhough she makes him feel respected in any possible way....and vice versa, honorable men who stay with their women even when she's not perfect...

  • @josifmaracine5526
    @josifmaracine5526 Před 2 dny +2

    Men want honor and respect.
    Women want faithfulness and loyalty.

  • @333LG
    @333LG Před 9 dny +6

    In order to be respected and shown respect you must first be a respectable person. Man or woman it doesn't matter. You get what you put in; you reap what you sow etc

  • @gwynnielsen5081
    @gwynnielsen5081 Před 3 dny +4

    Respect is a given, and it goes both ways.

  • @samiasafer450
    @samiasafer450 Před 18 dny +78

    Very important a woman respect her husband and wife has to support him mentally and physically and emotionally and give him more respect

    • @autotec7694
      @autotec7694  Před 18 dny +5

      👍

    • @rukshanaali4958
      @rukshanaali4958 Před 17 dny +17

      Is he giving it back to you?

    • @Xtine72
      @Xtine72 Před 14 dny +16

      @@rukshanaali4958yesss!!!! That’s the missing piece of most men’s puzzles. This is a very good point Tate makes but the way Tate has shown disrespect to women in general shows he’s not very respectable. You gotta give to get. I hope he’s changed and publicly apologizes for his past behaviour THEN real women can respect him

    • @chillappreciator885
      @chillappreciator885 Před 14 dny +5

      ​@@Xtine72give me at least 1 example where Tate disrespected a woman

    • @Tweakkkkkk
      @Tweakkkkkk Před 14 dny +2

      ​@@Xtine72give an instance where tate disrespected any woman. I'll wait

  • @mstbates75
    @mstbates75 Před 10 dny +31

    He makes it seem like it’s a woman’s place to give men purpose and security. We all have to find this for ourselves. It’s not up to anyone else. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @rhysenfyneix7864
      @rhysenfyneix7864 Před 6 dny +1

      Where did you get this conclusion from? He says quite explicitly that men look for status. Status is dependent on productivity which is an indication of purposeful activity... He's just saying that the primary trait that matters in a woman is her capacity to respect her man.

    • @stilllkissi4027
      @stilllkissi4027 Před 4 dny

      He specifically used the words respect, he never said purpose or security. Even if you’ve found these things in yourself, you won’t be content with a disrespectful partner, it IS still up to your partner to respect you.

    • @rhysenfyneix7864
      @rhysenfyneix7864 Před 4 dny

      @@stilllkissi4027 who is that reply for?

    • @stilllkissi4027
      @stilllkissi4027 Před 4 dny

      @@rhysenfyneix7864 OP

  • @annabellesalvi530
    @annabellesalvi530 Před 6 hodinami +2

    If a man seek respect it has to start by himself being loyal.

  • @RafaelRodrigues-wi4rr
    @RafaelRodrigues-wi4rr Před 21 dnem +27

    I love being a sigma! I don't care about what anyone thinks of me. I don't want to feel respected, and I don't need status . All I want is to live my life my own way.

    • @JNASTY567
      @JNASTY567 Před 18 dny +5

      Damn I think very similarly but wouldn't it be better to have a mix of both? Alpha aspects like respect and other things and still live your own way💯🤷‍♂️ idk sounds good i agree tho

    • @fungunsun1
      @fungunsun1 Před 15 dny +6

      Yeah freedom is better than respect. Its the ultimate respect to one self. But respect will gain you freedom in many ways as long as you dont enslave yourself (aka dont become a ceo just to work 12 hour days, eat your cake too)

    • @yonnaagape9484
      @yonnaagape9484 Před 12 dny

      IM A SIGMA AS WELL, but female.
      I would like a husband, not a traditional one.
      Non-traditional doesn’t mean to be a fat man whore.

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 Před 6 dny

      AMEN! I do not care. Not caring if you get respect is a new ascension level. Monks do not care if you don't respect them with words so why are people caring.

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 Před 6 dny

      ​@@fungunsun1plenty of people are still free without respect. Hemingway was wealthy and confident and didn't care if anyone respected him, and neither did Charles bukowski and they both made history. Period

  • @user-cg3od1tq8e
    @user-cg3od1tq8e Před 22 dny +20

    yes,personality matters in women too

  • @greedo1228
    @greedo1228 Před 15 dny +51

    People in the comments tryna twist his words...SMH🙄
    He didn't say "women don't need respect", he's just saying "respect is especially important to men"🤷

    • @Yupyupyup32
      @Yupyupyup32 Před 13 dny

      If women needed it why does he screw multiple women and never commit but expects them to!

    • @cuspofbeauty1402
      @cuspofbeauty1402 Před 13 dny +8

      So respect is more important than the woman’s needs. Never did he mention a balance of the women’s needs. Erasing the woman. Narcissistic but also organized homosexuality.

    • @gigelbecali8072
      @gigelbecali8072 Před 12 dny +2

      The Pimp has spoken...
      🤡🤡🤡🤡

    • @TA-bo5bc
      @TA-bo5bc Před 12 dny +1

      @@cuspofbeauty1402lol, did you hear the question?

    • @TheBoon14
      @TheBoon14 Před 12 dny

      @@cuspofbeauty1402you are so spiteful and mentally ill it’s bizarre.

  • @ibnhassan9546
    @ibnhassan9546 Před 10 hodinami +1

    My man spoke nothing but facts

  • @adebilikis1935
    @adebilikis1935 Před 12 dny +7

    I hope you end it with the importance of reciprocacy, every human desire to feel respected , a disrespectful man can be intuitively respected so the relationship has to end

  • @isra1326
    @isra1326 Před 10 dny +9

    Real men arent craving to be respected. They dont condition their happiness from other people. It's like a dog being happy when their master gives them food but sad when it gets none. Real men dont rely on others to give them "food" like that.

    • @stilllkissi4027
      @stilllkissi4027 Před 4 dny

      Respect is earned through merit, it’s not given for free. If someone deserves it there’s nothing wrong with wanting what they are owed, to not want it would be like that same dog being happy after not being fed instead of sad. How would that make him a real man, that would make him tolerant and without boundaries or standards. Soft.

  • @keeperofthekeys888
    @keeperofthekeys888 Před 13 hodinami +1

    I tried my very hardest to allow the man I love to feel like he was my world, my rock, my safe place. God knows I tried❤

  • @dvo84
    @dvo84 Před 11 dny +6

    Beautifully articulated ❤…and it goes without saying that he first must be a man who demonstrates through his character that he is one worthy of this respect 💎👑. Namaste all

  • @teshunhao5131
    @teshunhao5131 Před 18 dny +73

    Everyone needs respect, not only men

    • @Fair_enough1
      @Fair_enough1 Před 17 dny +6

      I agree w u thats why i understand totally what andrew means . Yet there are also many women and men who dont respect
      Themselves especislly in these days

    • @iloveprophetjesus4168
      @iloveprophetjesus4168 Před 16 dny +9

      Women need love men need respect

    • @daysoffleadtooffdays1814
      @daysoffleadtooffdays1814 Před 16 dny +4

      Wasn’t the question damn

    • @saloma1979
      @saloma1979 Před 15 dny

      ​@@iloveprophetjesus4168 women need to feel wanted, main reason why they cheat. They need constant validation that they are still wanted by their husband. Love is calm, desire is what ignites us

    • @greedo1228
      @greedo1228 Před 15 dny +4

      He didn't say "women don't need respect", he's just saying "respect is especially important to men"🙄
      Don't get why you feel the need to go out of your way to twist the message of this video....🤷

  • @aleah4610
    @aleah4610 Před 16 dny +24

    "the kind of man a woman never wants to lose"

  • @chassidylindsey4792
    @chassidylindsey4792 Před 7 hodinami +1

    Amen!! Respect is earned!! This is absolutely true!!! Thank you for sharing this message with us!! God Bless you!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖💖💜💜💜💜💜💗💗💗💗💙💙💙💙💙👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏

  • @briannacollins1442
    @briannacollins1442 Před 9 dny +5

    Stop giving this man a platform 😂

  • @roflolmaomgf
    @roflolmaomgf Před 16 dny +26

    It's true, however, respect is to be earned. It's hard to respect someone who doesn't possess the qualities necessary for respect. So it is upon us men to strive hard, across different domains, to be that man that earns his respect, rather than tyrannically demanding it with fear based on internal insecurities.

    • @saloma1979
      @saloma1979 Před 15 dny +3

      Most men i've seen beign disrespected by their wives are weak ones. The way they treat them in the public, you get to ask yourself how he's been treated behind their 4 walls. Those who demand it, do not get respect from their wives, but fear. Learn how to see the difference

    • @Xtine72
      @Xtine72 Před 14 dny +2

      Well said 🙏🏼

  • @Equilibrium_Rewind
    @Equilibrium_Rewind Před 13 dny +4

    This guy is still stuck in a "system" of feelings.

  • @Susan-fg3nv
    @Susan-fg3nv Před dnem +1

    He has to want you is the key.

  • @S.Shugars
    @S.Shugars Před 13 dny +11

    I’m a women myself I never thought he was a bad guy in any way I love Andrew Tate real men and women will like hom❤

    • @AB-jl1un
      @AB-jl1un Před 8 dny +2

      You are completely uninformed regarding what he is accused of and will stand trial for in Romania. After that, he will be extradited to Great Britain to face further charges.

  • @user-li4py6cy9h
    @user-li4py6cy9h Před 7 dny +2

    if he deserves respect he will get respect.

  • @ISosaaaa
    @ISosaaaa Před 11 dny +10

    He’s right but we can’t control losing a woman. He may not want to lose her but most of the time she will walk away to find new happiness

    • @jenster29
      @jenster29 Před 9 dny +4

      She'll only do that if she can't find it with then man she's with.
      Men want respect but dont wan't to give it to their woman

    • @cptbluemax1234
      @cptbluemax1234 Před 9 dny

      ​@@jenster29bs

    • @bigsister9354
      @bigsister9354 Před 7 dny

      Yep, you can’t control other people. Sad, right?

  • @grammarhammer3817
    @grammarhammer3817 Před 14 dny +10

    Then to attract and retain such a woman, the man must show respect & honor & loyalty & self sacrifice to her

    • @kennwan9917
      @kennwan9917 Před 13 dny +1

      We always hear what men need to do. All women have heard over the years to "keep their man" are makeup, surgery and weight loss. Inflicted by industries and themselves, because ask any woman, they do makeup for themselves. Let's just have the conversation be about how women can be better to and for men for once. This is the first time I've ever heard anyone, in all my 28 years on the planet, talk about how women could treat men better.

  • @jessicamarieporter5391
    @jessicamarieporter5391 Před 4 dny +1

    Only the modern world man needs the status to feel respected...

  • @KathrynJ
    @KathrynJ Před 2 dny +2

    Men want to be respected, women want to be desired

  • @m.o.s.h.1836
    @m.o.s.h.1836 Před 2 dny +1

    high value women wants also to be respected by men.

  • @amanasija1077
    @amanasija1077 Před 13 dny +4

    His way of explaining his point with daily life examples is just so Impressive.

  • @natnat_o3
    @natnat_o3 Před 12 dny +3

    THIS IS TRUE AND A MAN TO BE WORTHY OF RESPECT REMEMBER THAT

  • @Professional_marble_eater

    All of that is true but I think also a woman who stands with her man and respects him in-front of other will make the man want to ensure that other people respect her. A man will never let his woman that he loves be disrespected because he know he would hate it if she did that to him

  • @susannefitzpatrick9955
    @susannefitzpatrick9955 Před 11 dny +3

    Andrew: I have done all of these things you mention yet have been abandoned by my ex-husband (and long-term partner the day after my dad died!) yet my female friends treat their husbands like sh*t, start blazing rows IN PUBLIC (ie in the middle of a crowded pub or shopping centre), call them “f-ing useless” in front of their mates/work colleagues (no word of a lie) and otherwise belittle, disrespect and humiliate them - yet they’ve ALL been married 30+ years! Not one of the husbands has left them - explain that to me.

    • @jilllawton8556
      @jilllawton8556 Před 10 dny

      I can’t explain that, but you are a nice person and would never disrespect any like that. These other people, it might look good on the surface but it’s not is it? I’m 77 seen it all, been treated badly. But have had really good times too. I know people who have been married years and have never been happy. Life is not a drudge, the trees bud every year and the flowers come back. For you, it happens for you. ❤❤

  • @cynthiagomes2979
    @cynthiagomes2979 Před 2 dny +2

    Respect is earned. Give and take. It goes both ways. I'm pouring, you taking and not refilling won't work.

  • @user-pl8jk4yg9k
    @user-pl8jk4yg9k Před 11 dny +2

    I love the way this man thinks

  • @dominiquewilson1726
    @dominiquewilson1726 Před 2 dny +1

    Video was so deep it seemed longer than 1.5 minutes lol

  • @aramisy.cajigas744
    @aramisy.cajigas744 Před 17 dny +7

    I don't agree with everything he says every time, but I totally agree in this.

    • @SA-x7_
      @SA-x7_ Před 17 dny +1

      Do you even agree with everything YOU’VE ever said your entire life? Does anyone? What a bizarre comment.

    • @aramisy.cajigas744
      @aramisy.cajigas744 Před 16 dny +2

      @@SA-x7_ I do also agree with what you've said. Jah bless!

    • @Mistyfaery
      @Mistyfaery Před 13 dny

      ​@@SA-x7_ Do you always get uppity and twist someone's words when it's perfectly clear what they meant? What a bizarre comment. 😘

  • @gosukrul
    @gosukrul Před 10 dny +3

    so you will end up dependant on that woman, giving you all what you think you want... can't be a real solution obviously
    learn to give all you think you want to YOURSELF

  • @leachen5750
    @leachen5750 Před 13 hodinami +1

    Goes both ways

  • @shawnstephens6795
    @shawnstephens6795 Před dnem +2

    The bible says...men love your wives...and women RESPECT your husbands. That is your job as a man...is too be respectable...and the bible teaches you how to do that.

  • @shantelbivings7583
    @shantelbivings7583 Před 3 dny +1

    Be mindful - when you hear a man speak like this, understand he's seeking external validation, which means he lacks confidence in himself and his abilities.

  • @user-mn3ol5du9nm
    @user-mn3ol5du9nm Před 3 dny +1

    GOES BEFORE WAYS! MY SUBJECT LAST NIGHT! THANK YOU FOR LISTENING!!
    GOD BLESS!🎉

  • @justjoey6939
    @justjoey6939 Před 8 dny +4

    Ladies you respect yourself first. If you have non, you willtake anyones shit. Love God then yourself. No man is your god. Not everyone Tom, Dick and Andrew deserves your time and affection. I pray Lord leads to a respectable, worthy Man.

  • @rasmuslinnemann6722
    @rasmuslinnemann6722 Před 13 dny +4

    This was so well said.

    • @cuspofbeauty1402
      @cuspofbeauty1402 Před 13 dny +1

      His statement was imbalanced. Never did he mention the feminine principle. Wtf

  • @marsamarsa7769
    @marsamarsa7769 Před dnem +2

    Respect has to be gained!

  • @BeardlessYouth
    @BeardlessYouth Před 14 dny +31

    Modern women: But what if I have degrees?

  • @lookin_ahh
    @lookin_ahh Před 18 dny +4

    Very well said

  • @gt9057
    @gt9057 Před 12 dny +2

    Im neutral when it comes to Andrew Tate but he’s not wrong here! 😊
    My ex lost respect of himself being unemployed and depressed he hated himself he said he is a “failure” so he left me and our little one, at that time can only do what I can as a partner to reassure him to feel worthy and help him out of the blackhole (suggested therapy) but its all up to him.
    Glad Now he is back on his feet working fulltime again and training people he feels respected there, we still keep in contact on friendly terms as co-parent and I wish him well finding his self worth again. Sometimes you have to let someone go on journey to find their own self too! 🕊️

  • @sarahharrison5157
    @sarahharrison5157 Před 23 hodinami +1

    I totally get this ... and some 😊 Support & respect ❤

  • @stacysmith7387
    @stacysmith7387 Před 12 dny +2

    This does not need to be one size fits all. Figure out what works in your relationship, and the effort should be reciprocal and balanced. no woman needs to be brainwashed into thinking that men cannot evolve. Everything is choice . We can always change the rules in the world we live in needs to have both parties, thriving, and healthy. We need to move towards the omega not the alpha… strive for the masterpiece not the first draft.
    Master your self before you demand anything from anyone . Ask for help but don’t force.

  • @esperanzayin6419
    @esperanzayin6419 Před 17 dny +2

    Kavod - heavy respect is pretty heavy responsibility ,respect begins with each person. If we feel proud of ourselves ,what we achieve and how we behave it is self respect

  • @ivettesolano5991
    @ivettesolano5991 Před 15 dny +4

    But, has he ever had a woman like that?

  • @thetruther954
    @thetruther954 Před 7 dny +1

    Yes Andrew, and it’s the differences in life that make it all worth while. You talk about a life time. That’s kind of what it’s been. Because some men will tell you life and women are not built on differences, on the inside we are all the same. Well, yes, inside we all are human. We can all partake in that. There is joy and comfort to be found when one of us is hurting. But as a man, there are differences between us. So respect is critical for us to keep on going.

  • @natrambo3589
    @natrambo3589 Před 3 dny +1

    Real talk

  • @emitofficial2371
    @emitofficial2371 Před 2 dny +2

    The respect thing is a 2-way street, it has to be given to be received, it s not by default and probably the men who Dont get the respect they want is because they Dont give the respect to their partners in the first place!

  • @kattell5183
    @kattell5183 Před 6 dny +1

    why are respect and status so vital for men?

  • @jordansmith8348
    @jordansmith8348 Před 12 dny +2

    Truth.

  • @normiewoo787
    @normiewoo787 Před 10 dny +3

    ...the camgirl who works for your company. Right, Tate?

  • @twiston43
    @twiston43 Před 12 dny +2

    If we have reached a stage where we have to explain that to women, then we are in a bad spot...

  • @cuspofbeauty1402
    @cuspofbeauty1402 Před 13 dny +6

    So essentially, the woman’s life needs to be centered around the man feeling respected. Nothing else matters. While he dedicates himself to work and status… not those he loves and who loves him… she needs to make her priority, him, feeling respected. Got it

    • @elyssabarajas3554
      @elyssabarajas3554 Před 12 dny +1

      The theory would be that he'd devote himself to you because that is where he is most respected

    • @Yellow-Rose
      @Yellow-Rose Před 12 dny +1

      No, he would dedicate himself to work and status if he can't get it at home.

    • @miraiedits
      @miraiedits Před 7 dny +1

      He doesn't care about love at all. Women are delusional because they expect the Disney fairytale with someone who loves her. She doesn't understand that while she spends her life in delusion, respecting and caring for this man in hopes of getting his love; in reality he keeps her around as an ego boost. Tate here confirms it; the most important thing is respect. Note; respect. Not love. It's best not to waste one's time - stay single and dedicate your time on those who also want and appreciate love, so other women mainly. Communities. Animals. Nature.

  • @lola.cruz916
    @lola.cruz916 Před 8 dny +3

    Genuine question : how is a woman supposed to make a man feel respected by his peers? 🤔

    • @autotec7694
      @autotec7694  Před 8 dny

      probably many factors relate to it. depending on communication style

    • @miraiedits
      @miraiedits Před 7 dny +2

      By being a trophy wife probably lol And by babying him so he can go out there and feel like a big boy who can do things cause mommy back home told him he could.

  • @syguzman5739
    @syguzman5739 Před 12 dny +1

    Thank you! Excellent answer! ❤

  • @maiwandshinwari8766
    @maiwandshinwari8766 Před 18 dny +2

    He is master in this section, for sure

  • @stellareeber2753
    @stellareeber2753 Před 5 dny +1

    Such men are slaves to the opinions of others. I pity him.

  • @sarahharrison5157
    @sarahharrison5157 Před 18 hodinami +1

    Have to add to my previous comment tho ....
    The man does have the responsibility to keep his ego in check ... home is not the office ... there is a big difference & I've seen men fall at this hurdle ...
    Sorry but true 😊

  • @antoniocastillo5382
    @antoniocastillo5382 Před 17 dny +1

    Thats true 🎉

  • @alfredovindiola6364
    @alfredovindiola6364 Před 10 dny +3

    Men who are looking for respect, have lack of respect.
    Tell me what you wish for and I will tell you what you lack of.

  • @Victoriousandbrave
    @Victoriousandbrave Před 9 hodinami +1

    Seeking the approval of man is a dead end, and in vain. The only approval we need that of the Most High God, like Jesus, he was approved, and he didn’t need man to become Lord Of Lords.

  • @aramisy.cajigas744
    @aramisy.cajigas744 Před 17 dny +4

    It's even biblical.

    • @mellamobrittney
      @mellamobrittney Před 12 dny

      The bible is one of the newest religious texts. While I think it contains insightful information, I'd be interested in what the oldest religious texts say about men and women-and our parallels/relation to one another.

    • @aramisy.cajigas744
      @aramisy.cajigas744 Před 12 dny

      @@mellamobrittney Good!

  • @alanacassar3724
    @alanacassar3724 Před 16 dny +1

    This is hard question to answer because what ppl respect is unique to an individual and usually comes down to values in the end i can respect a person for serten quiltys but if values dont fully align there can still be a clash values run deeper then anything else are more based on internal rather then exsternal at less to me charcter is far more valuable in a world that constantly challenges it with exsternal temptation and illusions but a person who values there internal more is not easily fooled and understand that u will constantly be tested by the exsternal

  • @elviosalgado4478
    @elviosalgado4478 Před 14 dny +1

    Facts.

  • @Black-lq2pb
    @Black-lq2pb Před 11 dny +1

    So true

  • @katerinathatcher7004
    @katerinathatcher7004 Před 7 dny +1

    Well, I think he's alright. Full stop.

  • @yeetmeister3055
    @yeetmeister3055 Před 3 dny +2

    Why are people arguing for one side or the other in terms of gender? Respect goes both ways, idfc if youre a man or a woman if you dont respect your partner dont expect then to respect you back, nor expect them to want to stay with you or be in your company PERIOD. Shitty people are not defined nor barred by gender, anyone can he shitty, youre not shitty because you're a man or a woman. You're a shitty person because you ARE a shitty person regardless of your classification and need to work on it.
    We all need to do our part, its not 50/50 its 100% and 100%.

  • @LJarding
    @LJarding Před 13 dny +1

    Exactly

  • @ltvsk3
    @ltvsk3 Před 6 dny +1

    I asked my husband if he feels I respect him and he said, "Sometimes." So, how do you determine what is respect and what isn't? I mean, all along I thought I was respecting my husband, but obviously I am doing something wrong if he feels respected only sometimes.😩

  • @dr.sarah.zaldivar
    @dr.sarah.zaldivar Před 16 dny +21

    A pimp preaching about respect 😅😅😅

  • @donttouchmyhair2555
    @donttouchmyhair2555 Před 11 dny +1

    💯

  • @user-gg6eh7mq9z
    @user-gg6eh7mq9z Před 2 dny +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @FBA-Renaissance
    @FBA-Renaissance Před 14 dny +1

    FACTS!!!! 😎