Is it Love or a Trauma Bond?

[@flagrlmissy777]

Have been unknowingly in a trauma bond. On my way out. Thank you for this video. ❤ this will help change my life.

[@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach]

Melissa, sometimes we don't know what we are dealing with until we've had the experience with it. I get it. I'm proud of you for doing what you need to do for yourself. You're now on to better and bigger things!

[@praneshprasanna1320]

Just got out of a trauma bond. She even said that she loved me but flipped completely after a couple of months.

[@lauriekirn1472]

Possibly a pwBPD. That's how they roll in relationships.

[@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach]

Sounds like you gained instead of lost by ending that relationship. Good riddance!

[@CarlGynning]

Thankyou Sasha for this helpfull video ❤

[@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach]

Thanks Carl!

[@CarlGynning]

@@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach You’re welcome❤️

[@johnrainsman6650]

Sorry for going off topic, but you're the type of woman I can speak to about pride and life. l'm 27, still live at home, having _never_ moved out. I have never had a girlfriend or a date, and I don't even have a driver's license. I have both a learning disability and ASD, and sometimes I say unfiltered things or act weird in social moments. I assume my ASD makes me "less normal." I don't have too many friends now that I've graduated from college and most of my friends have left town. My coworkers all seem to fit in; I usually stand out. I often feel like a misfit at work. They don't seem to want to include me in on the fun. I guess I can be weird and annoying socially. I wonder if they're better off without me. What's funny is they say you should always be yourself, but that's a fallacy, isn't it? I graduated high school at TWENTY, having been kept back in preschool (speech delay) and homeschooled. I even graduated at a small charter school instead of the superior public high school my younger sister is at. I'm jealous of her; she's stronger than I would've been...and about to be a senior when I was a sophomore her age. I seem slow and helpless and do better with a guide than by myself (my boss basically said that to my face).A disabled man who doesn't match standards, yes, but a failure too?

[@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach]

Nobody has anything perfect in their lives and sometimes we have certain things that we have to work on more than others. It just is what it is. You can improve any part of your life is you apply yourself.

[@johnrainsman6650]

@@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach you know, if you weren’t a life coach and I were twice as literal, I would’ve thought the worst in your words “apply yourself”. Remember, I said I had a speech delay and homeschooling and l have a learning disability

[@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach]

@@johnrainsman6650 I get what you are telling me. So you don't have certain things down. That doesn't mean that you can't still apply yourself at others.
I've known people that were highly socially awkward who completely changed that situation around.
The worst thing that we can do is believe that we can't in some way improve our lives. I don't want you to get stuck in that abysmal pit. Even with imperfections, you have something to offer this world.

[@Alloniya]

I understand trauma bond now. Now I don’t allow it to happen to me again. If someone play cold or hot and cold is a stop sign to me even in friend relationships.

[@SashaCarrionMindsetCoach]

Good for you Alloniya! You deserve better!