Growing Up Korean American | My Struggles

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  • čas přidán 27. 06. 2018
  • In this video, I share my story growing up Korean American. I open up about my personal experiences and how I dealt with some of the hardest times in my life. I hope that some of you can take away something positive by watching this video and find it in yourself to embrace who you are!
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    Sophia
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Komentáře • 543

  • @imjennim
    @imjennim Před 6 lety +686

    I'm so happy you shared your story with everyone. Love you, Soso.

    • @sophiachang
      @sophiachang  Před 6 lety +17

      Thank you Jegg

    • @brucehur2051
      @brucehur2051 Před 6 lety +1

      too bad your all WHITE WASHED!

    • @kess7703
      @kess7703 Před 6 lety +1

      SHUT UR FACE:)

    • @kess7703
      @kess7703 Před 6 lety +3

      My comment was meant to reply Bruce Hur I don’t know why I can’t comment directly to him. I love Jenn and Sofia videos. There is no hate lady🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @rougedlips
      @rougedlips Před 6 lety +1

      Tiffany I was trying to reply to him as well! I’ll fix it lol

  • @amy_lee
    @amy_lee Před 6 lety +674

    This made me cry.

  • @IAmAshleyHailes
    @IAmAshleyHailes Před 6 lety +194

    I had to pause the video to comment...I’m sure you won’t even see my comment but I just wanted to say listening to you tell the story so far made me think back to those middle school and high school days at Prince George. It’s crazy because being black and going to school there I personally felt like a minority but it never even crossed my mind how you and Robin probably felt. There were literally no Asians at the school and it was such a small town. Idk if you remember this but it has always stuck with me for whatever reason...one day there was a group of us that went to the movies and your dad called you and of course he spoke to you in Korean and I ask you why do you respond in English and you said you hate speaking Korean in public or around other people and I was just so confused! I thought it was so cool you could speak another language like I wish it could, but I never thought about how different it was because it was not “normal”. Anywho I just basically wanted to say you are amazing and always have been since I met you I’m in 6th grade girl! 💞💞

  • @chickgonesquirrely
    @chickgonesquirrely Před 6 lety +139

    Wow you and Jenn and Weylie has such similar backgrounds with your parents running businesses in sketchy neighborhoods and connecting more with black friends and fighting with your parents. It’s really cool to see how strong and mature and successful you all are and how yalls backgrounds shapes y’all

  • @cainnerojudaslegion
    @cainnerojudaslegion Před 6 lety +117

    People are missing out on a lot of good food by being judgmental

  • @ninavanmunnen4235
    @ninavanmunnen4235 Před 6 lety +167

    I was adopted from Korea when I was 4 months old and now live in Melbourne, Australia with the most wonderful family I could ever ask for (I am now 21). I completely understand your struggles throughout your childhood and high school because I was the exact same. I despised my culture and hated the constant bullying. I can honestly say that discovering your channel at the start of 2010 saved me. I finally started to understand what it really meant to be Korean, and that it shouldn't be something I am ashamed of, and you're the reason I rock a winged liner every day too! My best friend Jess, who is Chinese, and I always talk about our friendship in regards to the friendships you have with Jenn and Weylie because we see so many similarities and the way you guys embrace your culture helped us so much over the years. Your story is beautiful and tragic and it means so much that you shared it. Thank you for everything you do, I know it's not always easy but you make magic happen on this channel. You are a huge part of why I am proud of my background, and I thank my lucky stars that I stumbled across your channel 8 years ago. Thank you for everything xo

    • @MS-yx6kq
      @MS-yx6kq Před 6 lety +2

      Nina Van Munnen girl you and me both!!! I was adopted 6 months old from Seoul and now live in Canada 🇨🇦. Totally went through and felt the same. And learned a lot of our Korean culture because of you tubers lol. So happy I can embrace my families culture and our Korean roots ☺️☺️☺️

    • @ninavanmunnen4235
      @ninavanmunnen4235 Před 6 lety +1

      Omg, how amazing! My brother was born in Seoul, and I was born in Incheon! CZcams saved me hahaha I grew up in a small country town so me and my brother were the culture and it was so hard to embrace and understand growing up, but I'm so proud to be Korean now. Definitely makes me feel special and unique, and I have loved learning about our culture too!

    • @mathiehales
      @mathiehales Před 6 lety +2

      Nina Van Munnen i am also a Korean adoptee living in Melbourne 🇦🇺🐨 but grew up in Adelaide. Small world!

    • @ninavanmunnen4235
      @ninavanmunnen4235 Před 6 lety +2

      Mathie, holy cow that's so awesome! What a small world, I only know one other Korean adoptee in Melbourne!

    • @MS-yx6kq
      @MS-yx6kq Před 6 lety +1

      Nina Van Munnen - yeah exactly I always say my parents made me pretty unique and I’m so so so blessed to have them. We could have been adopted anywhere and it could have been to a terrible family. So thank god for parents like us!!! Now I’m living in Toronto Canada which is very multicultural. But I’m the only Asian that doesn’t speak my native language and instead my first language was french because of my family lol. Because we were a smaller town most ethnic children, Asian and black were actually adopted as well so it was more common for me. Yet we still had he same struggles. ☺️ so proud to be adopted from Korea

  • @snowyung9516
    @snowyung9516 Před 6 lety +114

    I love the way you speak. You're so wise and open minded. I really hope your relationship with your parents now is warm and full of love and understanding. ❤

  • @usagimoon.x.o6256
    @usagimoon.x.o6256 Před 6 lety +204

    You're a beautiful Korean American😍 LOVE you Sophia!

    • @sophiachang
      @sophiachang  Před 6 lety +1

      Usagi Moon.X.O thank you 💕

    • @midnight-2021
      @midnight-2021 Před 5 lety

      @@sophiachang one thing the 2nd, 3rd plus generations shouldn't have to hear compared to 1st generation Asian Americans is that all Asians are short. At least from what I see as a white American male is that what is considered tall, average, and short in white and black people is equally the same with at least the east Asian 2nd plus generations. Southeast Asian Americans are shorter an average compared to whites, blacks and east Asians but probably in 2 decades they will have the same equal distribution of what is considered tall, average and short in the white, black and east Asian populations.

  • @feyi4life
    @feyi4life Před 6 lety +44

    I'm Nigerian American and this hit me hard. I love this. Thanks for sharing, Soph! We do not have to choose. We can be both because we ARE both

  • @jnc-rs6fk
    @jnc-rs6fk Před 6 lety +16

    I remember hearing a glimpse of your dad's incident in your video long time ago, but I'm so glad to hear the full story. I'm in tears right now. Love your story, Soph. ❤

  • @MorenaGyal
    @MorenaGyal Před 6 lety +95

    I love how open and honest you are. I know this must have been a hard video to make. Being a child of immigrant parents is tough, but I am so proud. Our parents went through so much hardships just so we could live the American dream. Love you Sophieee!

    • @sophiachang
      @sophiachang  Před 6 lety +2

      I appreciate this.. thank you so much!

  • @gloriasong103
    @gloriasong103 Před 6 lety +13

    First & foremost, I wanna applaud you for being able to share your deeply profound upbringing. It takes a lot of courage to open up about something so personal. I'm glad you were able to overcome the battles you had with not only your parents, but with yourself & that makes you that much more beautiful. From a fellow Korean American, 수고했어요!!!

  • @jasmineranay8241
    @jasmineranay8241 Před 6 lety +60

    I’m over here crying. Omg 😭😭😭 thank you for sharing your story! Love you Sophia ❤️❤️

    • @jasmineranay8241
      @jasmineranay8241 Před 6 lety

      bruce Hur honey you don’t know any of these people, that’s a horrible assumption, and no I’m not “WHITE WASHED” it’s called being AMERICAN. 🙄

  • @CiaoDella
    @CiaoDella Před 6 lety +66

    That story was heartbreaking at some parts. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I feel like most of 1st generation children have to deal with seeing their parents work so hard for them. Seeing their mom's and dad's doing the hardest jobs in order to provide their children with security and well-being. Grateful for these fighters & heros! Therefore, we should not take anything for granted and aspire for more to share the benefits of their hard labor with them in the future :)

  • @user-zn7fl6dh7w
    @user-zn7fl6dh7w Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! It is truly great that you had inspired others who had been in the same situation like yours. I hope this video and your channel will keep influencing positively those who feel insecure about who they are because of their ethnicity or heritage. I'm Korean born and raised in Korea, so I grew up surrounded by kids who have similar backgrounds with me. But your video made me think about kids in Korea who have different ethnic or cultural background and are struggling with it. As a person who wants to be a teacher in public schools, I believe I should try hard to make my students embrace diversity. I really wish the world to become a place where no one has to feel shitty about being different. Thanks again for this video:)

  • @meidaisy777
    @meidaisy777 Před 6 lety +30

    I forget exactly what grade i was in but one day in english class we were reading Chinese folktales and few kids were laughing and saying racist things to me.
    I regret not being able to say anything back then but im just thankful i got through those times and being happy where i am today! Im also a Korean American raised in virginia! Thanks for sharing your story Sophia!

  • @albaalba8366
    @albaalba8366 Před 6 lety +13

    You are so relatable and you have made me cry. I forget how much my mom and dad work for me and my older sister and my older brother. My mom and dad moved to the U.S. when they were maybe around their 20s, currently we live in Florida. Thank you for sharing your story😊💖

  • @brianaj6636
    @brianaj6636 Před 6 lety +16

    I think this why I feel like I can watch your videos. You are relatable. You’re not Bougie, stuck up, like you been around the block lol I knew you was a SISTA (raised around black people) i understand how your parents feel. People tend to generalize all black people from one experience or from an encounter. We all not the same! My step mom is Hmong they thought my dad & family (who is black) were TERRIBLE people based off what they heard/seen. But now that they know us, they run up and hug us, feed us, come to our family gatherings & we go theirs (weddings, graduations, celebrations) I mean I’m glad you embrace everyone! Because I do! The world will be such a better place with that message. Great video!!

  • @UsorThem07
    @UsorThem07 Před 6 lety +2

    This is so important. I'm so glad that I have something like youtube where I can learn about other cultures and see that things aren't as scary or different as the people that raised us makes us believe. I'm so sad there wasn't anything like this when I was younger, I wish my school talked about it more, I wish they taught kids more respect about anything that might be perceived as different. But I'm glad the generations growing up now has this. I'm glad it's discussed more. I'm glad that we're becoming better, so thank you so much for this

  • @user-bt7tp3sn5i
    @user-bt7tp3sn5i Před 6 lety +50

    Not Korean but I appreciate this video

  • @chermainetan1499
    @chermainetan1499 Před 6 lety +16

    I relate to this on so many levels! Your story is so inspiring and your parents are SO strong and brave to overcome all of that after moving to America. Bless your beautiful family. Always love your videos xxx

  • @maroyce
    @maroyce Před 6 lety +46

    I’m so sorry for your experience, the world has so much growing to do. My best friend in high school told me that he dad dislike black people because of one guy at his job. It’s crazy to think that one person can change his view of an entire race.

    • @TAG010
      @TAG010 Před 6 lety +3

      Yeah. It's super hurtful. I'm tired of people acting like black people just need to accept this.

    • @gloria9157
      @gloria9157 Před 5 lety

      @Carol That’s not a great example.

  • @chee317
    @chee317 Před 6 lety +1

    Watching your story about your dad really hit home for me. I hope you know how much impact you’ve made in my life over the last few years of being proud of who I am as a fellow Asian sister. Thank you for sharing your story 💕

  • @chawfunkatie
    @chawfunkatie Před 6 lety

    your story about your parents really brought me to tears. i grew up not understanding why i couldnt do certain things or why they didnt like the friends i had. now its gotten better since ive been in college theyre still traditional but all the pieces fit together much better. i dont feel alone anymore. youre such an inspiration

  • @dream2020as
    @dream2020as Před 6 lety +7

    As a fellow Asian American your experience resonated with so much of my life and my family; great video Sophia.

  • @LaToyaReads
    @LaToyaReads Před 6 lety +7

    This was amazing. I love listening to your story. I am truly thankful every single day that my self and my family were born and raised in LA. because I don't know anything but culture and diversity. I know people in other places are not as blessed. My best friend since 6th grade is Asian, we are 25/26 now. My boyfriend is white and I am black. I am just surrounded by different things and its a blessing my parents were born and raised here because they are so open minded because of the culture. I went away to school in a different state for a little and it was a freaking culture shock because there was no diversity of people or foods and i was so use to everything right at my door.

  • @astridwib7340
    @astridwib7340 Před 6 lety +3

    Your story make me realize that every people is going through a certain problem and that we should always be optimistic and never give up in seeing this life..

  • @pretzelsfan
    @pretzelsfan Před 6 lety +12

    as an asian american in born & raised throughout diff ethnic enclaves in california, i def take my culture for granted. hearing stories of asian americans who were marginalized as minorities is so insightful. it's a reminder that we must deconstruct the myth of the model minority and really highlight the struggles/lived experiences of immigrants/diasporans. it would be a shame if we glossed over our own struggles because lord knows our stories aren't shared publicly very often. that said, thank you for being a part of the new generation of asian american creators who are contributing to a larger and more nuanced discourse around the asian/asian american experience. thank you for being so vulnerable

  • @muaxcel
    @muaxcel Před 6 lety +12

    we love a korean-american sista!!!! much love to you sophia, I've been watching you since you first moved to L.A. and started your channel and you've just gotten even more amazing throughout the years. btw I was making kimchi fried rice in my kitchen while watching this and you made me crave kimchi jjigae LOL😩

  • @CL-CCL
    @CL-CCL Před 6 lety +5

    I 100% relate with you, I am Chinese born in another country. My parents have also worked tough jobs, most of their life in a bar/ restaurant. My dad was beaten up on the date I was born so my mom was delivering me alone while he was in the hospital having a surgery for his broken nose. They have been through so many robberies, even after they have changed to running a convenience store. I have witnessed an assault while helping my parents store, the most traumatizing experience ever and painful as I saw how they have attacked my dad even though he wasn’t stopping them from taking anything, they beat him up. I don’t understand why would they beat an older man. I relate with you and the moment u were telling your story, girl! I started crying nonstop because I know how that feels. To see your loved ones in danger or a possibility of losing them is painful. I never felt accepted where I was born, I don’t have much childhood memories but I do remember people throwing rocks at me just because they hated I was Asian as a kid and called me names and telling me horrible things. I never felt like I belonged there, now that I have moved countries I feel different and a sense of belonging where I am now. Also, I remember that some neighbours have burnt our clothes when I was young.

  • @naeher98
    @naeher98 Před 6 lety

    I’m crying. Thank you for sharing your story. Love you, Sophia! ❣️

  • @dianaf2274
    @dianaf2274 Před 6 lety

    I cried ; ;
    been following you around for years, I clearly know how overthink your mind is. you can be all stressed just by getting yourself on your bed.
    seeing you be all fine now, I couldn't be happier. pls always be happy, sophie, you deserve it. happiness looks good on you! ♡

  • @hianglmrie
    @hianglmrie Před 6 lety +5

    inspiring af ❤️❤️❤️ work queen!!!! you’re such a strong person

  • @noemichaw
    @noemichaw Před 6 lety +1

    This made me cry. I really appreciate how you shared about your experience as a minority; hope you can do more "sit down" and sharing-type videos in the future too.

  • @kong7535
    @kong7535 Před 6 lety +1

    Omg! You’re story made me bawl! I can relate to part of your childhood, growing up Asian, in a small town, having no friends in school...life was rough. And I always thought you were chinese. Thanks for sharing your beautiful story. One last thing, your parents are so amazing.

  • @jennsun1834
    @jennsun1834 Před 6 lety +3

    Your story is so touching. In many ways, I can relate, whereas the story of your parents and their gas station, I relate a little bit less. My family and I are so lucky that we never had to go through what your mom and dad had to go through, constantly putting themselves in a dangerous position to support their family. It speaks to the self sacrificing nature of our parents, that they’re willing to endure so much to provide. I feel like that’s how they express their love, along with food. Always making sure our basic needs are met. But in terms of our childhood, I feel you. My relationship with my parents was also rough, with a lot of our conflicts ending in corporal punishment. Growing up in the Deep South was not easy, and the stories of being teased and humiliated by white children has really embittered me and shaped me into who I am. When you spend most of your life hating yourself, it begins to define you. It’s only since leaving the south that I’ve really learned to embrace my culture, my identity, and accept myself. Thanks so much for sharing. Voices like yours give us hope and a narrative that we can actually relate to.

  • @Josephinejahel
    @Josephinejahel Před 6 lety

    so inspirational. Love how honest you are with your fans. It really has meaning.

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Před 6 lety +5

    I love being Korean American. ❤ I used to hate it but as I've gotten older it's truly a beautiful thing. I've learned to not only love it, but embrace it. Thank you for sharing your struggle and experience xx

  • @GoodLuckNabs
    @GoodLuckNabs Před 6 lety +20

    You've come a long way💜

  • @SofiCarol26
    @SofiCarol26 Před 6 lety

    Such an inspirational video! Coming from a Hispanic family, several things relate as a minority. Thank you so much, truly, for sharing your unique story with us all. I know you have made an impact to many. Love you Sophia, continue living life to the fullest! Thankful to have been watching you for so long!

  • @kayleebaby101101
    @kayleebaby101101 Před 6 lety +7

    Thank you so much Sophia for sharing your struggles with us, this literally made me cry. I️ love you girl ❤️

  • @jessieee_p
    @jessieee_p Před 6 lety +7

    You are seriously the most beautiful person, inside and out, and your pride in your culture inspires me so much. Your integrity, work ethic, creativity... all of it. Thank you for making this video Sophia, as a bi-racial young woman with two immigrant parents, I needed to hear the encouragement and experiences you shared.

  • @connieb5153
    @connieb5153 Před 5 lety

    So proud of your transparency and your ability to articulate and reflect--inspirational! I know exactly what you went through in your youth with family, peers. and ignorant people. I love being Korean American too! You rock girl!

  • @khoubrowne9017
    @khoubrowne9017 Před 6 lety

    This was beautiful. Thanks for opening up and being so personal. Made me cry when you talked about your parents. Once I moved away, it made me actually appreciate my parents and cherish them even more as well. ❤️

  • @helenyinfongchau8795
    @helenyinfongchau8795 Před 6 lety +1

    I cried. Sophia, you're so inspiring!! Love you!

  • @jordanknox8508
    @jordanknox8508 Před 6 lety

    This is such an inspiring story, you are so strong, I cried!! "Nothing is special about being one dimensional" that is so true!!!! The message is just so impactful! I love you Sophie!!!!

  • @alliebens4263
    @alliebens4263 Před 6 lety

    Thanks for being so real and honest. It’s really refreshing to see. And we can all tell when someone is being real real versus fake “real”. Thanks for opening up and it does make us feel closer to you!

  • @mochie2119
    @mochie2119 Před 5 lety

    I literally cried with you Sophia, love this! I too am a proud Korean woman! Keep up the inspiring work love!

  • @estherhaeineom
    @estherhaeineom Před 6 lety +1

    This was everything. First of all, my parents own a gas station 40 minutes away from Petersburg, Virginia and so I worry about them all the time. Everything you said was so real and heartwarming. Thank you for your courage in sharing this!

  • @tessayang1
    @tessayang1 Před 6 lety

    Sophia, thank you for this video. This hit me HARD in sooo many ways. I grew up in Finland and until this day there aren't a lot of asians here. I was so embarrassed about my heritage growing up and until this day I sometimes feel ashamed of being different than all my friends. I was embarrassed about speaking chinese in public, or eat traditional chinese food and how I looked like. I was trying so hard to be like everyone else and didn't embrace that I was different. My parents also had a small store when I was growing up and it got robbed four times.
    Your story made me cry so hard, I don't think I have related to anyone so much my entire life. I truly want to thank you for sharing your story and making me feel like I wasn't alone and that there is a community that I belong in.

  • @3tealeaf
    @3tealeaf Před 6 lety +7

    I'm Korean Canadian and my parents also had a store growing up. Them getting hurt during a robbery was always my biggest fear. I'm so sorry that happened to your family.

  • @joycehuang9105
    @joycehuang9105 Před 6 lety

    This video really hit close to home for me, thank you so much for sharing your story. I used to feel the same way about being Chinese American, but seeing positive, beautiful, and inspiring Asian role models like you have helped me tremendously in accepting and appreciating myself and my heritage. Thank you.

  • @emc323
    @emc323 Před 6 lety

    Thank you for sharing your story, Sophia. I'm 26 years old and born and raised in the Midwest. Not a whole lot of Asians were amongst my peers. It only wasn't until recently over the past year that I began coming to terms with my own struggles and truly owning the confidence of being an Asian American. I commend you for how far you've come and grown...it's truly such a powerful thing to love yourself and to be happy with who you are.
    I always comment on your content and tell you how much I love ya because I really feel like we'd be friends in real life haha. You're my favorite CZcamsr and watching this video makes me love you even more because I feeeeel you girl.
    Thank you for being our voice and for being a great role model.

  • @leeleeg4169
    @leeleeg4169 Před 6 lety

    Thank you for sharing your story. I seriously started crying when you mentioned your friend’s vm. Then you started tearing up which made me cry even more. So happy to hear he made it thru.❤️

  • @susanshir5500
    @susanshir5500 Před 6 lety +5

    Absolutely adored this, and you!

  • @theonlycma
    @theonlycma Před 6 lety

    My parents are like that too... so many times something serious has happened, people have died, my sister had a stroke this year and they didn’t say anything until 3 weeks later when I was at home with them. I understand that they love me so much and just don’t want me to be sad, but it’s hard not to be trusted and relied on in those situations. Thank you so much for sharing your story Sophia. You have quickly become one of my absolute favorite CZcamsrs in a year, I always look forward to your videos. ❤️

  • @christinenguyen9437
    @christinenguyen9437 Před 6 lety

    thank you so much for opening up about your life and telling us this. I relate to this video so much. I’m so proud of you and your family for every obstacle you made it through. sending love & blessings your way ❤️

  • @b17music27
    @b17music27 Před 6 lety

    This was so refreshing! Love you Sophia!

  • @karissalaya
    @karissalaya Před 6 lety +2

    Im balling 😭 Your story is beautiful and I can relate so much. Here's to us!

  • @hottcutie17
    @hottcutie17 Před 6 lety

    Such a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing something so private!

  • @basiaandrzejewska5512
    @basiaandrzejewska5512 Před 6 lety +1

    i'm literally balling my eyes out and your story is so relatable

  • @AnnaOh
    @AnnaOh Před 6 lety

    Your heart shines through SO MUCH in this video. My childhood as a Korean-American was so isolating as well, but I can relate to and touch on every experience you shared. Thanks for sharing such an important part of your life :)

  • @wanderkpop
    @wanderkpop Před 6 lety +15

    My parents are also the same whenever something happens, they don’t tell us because they didn’t want us to worry. Love hearing your story. I started crying when you talked about your dad’s incident.

  • @ks_youtube
    @ks_youtube Před 6 lety

    not gonna lie, I cried hearing about your story with your dad getting hurt - I'm so sorry that your family had to go through that in the past, sending alot of love to you and your family Sophia ♡
    I love watching your videos, thank you for sharing your experiences! I'm Chinese but born and raised in Australia and I can really relate to some of the same struggles that you talked about!!

  • @danni_kim
    @danni_kim Před 6 lety +3

    Sophia thank you so much for sharing this with us ❤️ its honestly so amazing to hear your story and as an Australian Born Korean some of the emotions you expressed I empathise with so much :) your parents are absolute troopers !!!

  • @ashleynavarro6079
    @ashleynavarro6079 Před 6 lety

    You’re always gonna be my favorite CZcamsr!!! So pure ❤️ much love soph

  • @samc1731
    @samc1731 Před 6 lety

    This is my first comment on CZcams, ever. I never imagined that someone could have the same life/experiences as me. I've always watched your videos and enjoyed them, but this is the first time I've truly connected. Thank you so much for sharing this. I grew up in west Tennessee, and my brother and I were the only asians in our school and we rejected our culture for a very long time. I lost my Korean in the process, and now I also sound like a "little kid" haha. But today, in my mid 20s, I feel like the most badass Korean American and I can't imagine any other life for myself. And today, I'm so grateful that I grew up the way that I did because it made me who I am. Thank you for reflecting back to me what I know now, but maybe needed to hear from another person.

  • @ninjacat90
    @ninjacat90 Před 6 lety

    This video and your warm comments at the end are so inspiring. It's good to hear and see that you've overcome those emotions you used to feel! Thanks for sharing your story!! ❤️

  • @dlstod.00
    @dlstod.00 Před 6 lety

    Korean-American myself and I couldn’t relate anymore😭💖 You’re story speaks for many and I’m am so happy of how far you came in life!

  • @karenl2551
    @karenl2551 Před 6 lety

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your courage and honesty in sharing your story. I can't give out the details of my life but your story is just what I needed to hear as I struggle to love and accept myself. So, thank you for shining that ray of hope for me.

  • @aorellana628
    @aorellana628 Před 6 lety

    Girl this video was so honest and real! I laughed and cried with you, thank you for sharing!

  • @eggandsweetpotato
    @eggandsweetpotato Před 5 lety

    Hands down the best vid about this topic

  • @Tnn41100
    @Tnn41100 Před 6 lety +4

    One of the best videos I’ve ever watched.... you’re amazing ❤️

  • @ndawon1
    @ndawon1 Před 5 lety

    This spoke to me on a visceral level. Being different is so hard, but so worth it.

  • @taz7562
    @taz7562 Před 6 lety +2

    I just balled my eyes out thank you for opening upto us must’ve taken a lot of strength sending you lots of love 💕

  • @katchup
    @katchup Před 2 lety

    What a nice story Sophia! THanks for sharing your own story!

  • @ninayang9097
    @ninayang9097 Před 5 lety

    I cried. Thank you for sharing Sophia

  • @jazmin6727
    @jazmin6727 Před 6 lety

    im so happy you opened up to all of us about this! i never knew you went through half of these things and im happy you were able to become more confident. also just a side note you havent done a haul in so long and it would be cool if you made another soon as i have always looked up to your style

  • @cocorenee2808
    @cocorenee2808 Před 6 lety

    Thank you sharing your story. It made me sad but I appreciate you being so open with us. I want to travel the world and learn from a variety of cultures as well. I was lucky enough to live and work in Korea for a year. I was following you long before I did but I learned so much about not only the Korean culture but American culture too oddly enough. I fell in love with Korean food and honestly I would love to go back. A lot of the Koreans I met were so loving and open towards us. I felt like I was a part of a whole new family.
    I'm so sorry about what happened to your dad! It's so hard having to endure such trials when you're making an honest living to take care of your family. Its disheartening knowing that people who do such fowl things paint all of us in a bad light when we are not all crooks,criminals or bad people.

  • @kueimakol6185
    @kueimakol6185 Před 6 lety

    Love how open and honest you are 💕 could relate so much!

  • @arcadeeeee26
    @arcadeeeee26 Před 6 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing and being so honest, this made me cry. (also, i have pancake face too and used to be soo insecure about it, but hearing you talk about it helps me realize i'm not alone. And you are amazing for coming out so strong and confident throughout everything and you are beautiful!)

  • @gvue83
    @gvue83 Před 6 lety

    Absolutely love you Sophia!!!

  • @hazelc8560
    @hazelc8560 Před 6 lety +1

    Your story made me cry. You are strong and confident. And beautiful. We support you❤️ and. I admire your parents. The sacrifices they made for you are amazing

  • @ViNguyen-oh8qe
    @ViNguyen-oh8qe Před 3 lety

    I didn’t get a chance to watch this video at the time you made this. But I’m SO GLAD that I found this again. After watching Jenn’s and Weylie’s I thought your story would be somewhat similar to theirs. But, your story HIT. Having described the story of your childhood and your parents being the “successful immigrant” - I resonate with your story SO much. This meant so much to me, thank you Sophia!!!. X

  • @Thetoofacedlover
    @Thetoofacedlover Před 6 lety +1

    I love this! It's so beautiful that you opened up this way.

  • @itsjocex33
    @itsjocex33 Před 6 lety

    inspiring. love you Sophie! i'm even more happy to see how well your family gets along now that i know about you guys' past.

  • @studiomimin8r
    @studiomimin8r Před 6 lety

    Beautifully done as always Sophia. I'm Vietnamese but definitely grew up with the same relationship with my parents. Thanks for sharing! xx

  • @kellypham3256
    @kellypham3256 Před 6 lety

    I love Sophie's message about being Asian American.

  • @kristinaalger1044
    @kristinaalger1044 Před 6 lety

    Thanks for sharing and offering such words of wisdom! You rep the Korean American community so so well!

  • @sueyeoh6821
    @sueyeoh6821 Před 6 lety

    Thanks so much Sophia for sharing with us the story of your childhood and the struggles you faced growing up as Korean American. I have come to learn more about you and appreciate your openness , sincerity, genuineness and humility. I am humbled to know a person like you. Keep it up! Stay blessed always! Xx

  • @chlgusdk
    @chlgusdk Před 6 lety +3

    My parents and I moved to Canada from Seoul when I was 7 (I’m now 21). I remember my first day of school, my classmates asked me where I was from & no one knew what “Korea” was. So I said I’m from Asia, which I pronounced the Korean way Ah-See-Ah and got made fun of, but I didn’t even know what was wrong.
    I’ve started to really embrace being Korean only in the last few years, and I think it’s mainly thanks to Korean culture being more accepted by the public (kpop, kdrama, kfood, kbeauty). CZcamsrs like you, Stephanie, Jenn, Claire, Jen, Amy, etc. have such a big influence on how outside cultures perceive Korea and it’s definitely making a positive mark on how many Korean-Americans/Canadians/others perceive their own culture. I’m hellaa proud to be Korean!!

  • @krystalb3283
    @krystalb3283 Před 2 lety

    truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story. You can totally write a book about it.

  • @DeliaX
    @DeliaX Před 6 lety

    ugh girl. so real. got me tearing up! my parents also continue to sacrifice all they've got for my brother and I. forever grateful for them

  • @NhuHuynh-ho4fe
    @NhuHuynh-ho4fe Před 5 lety

    im sorry about all those things you had to deal with growing up but im glad your dad is okay now!! not korean but can relate to many things you've felt. Thanks for sharing, and i hope noone ever feels alone on these matters!

  • @kabo_lee
    @kabo_lee Před 6 lety

    Really want to give you a hug right now. You are so such an inspiring woman Sophia

  • @janeyang9062
    @janeyang9062 Před 6 lety

    Thank you Sophia for sharing. Im also a 1st generational Asian American. Your stories are so similar to mine. I am so blessed to have such sacrificial parents. Plus, Im proud to be the best of both worlds.

  • @jenn_lee__
    @jenn_lee__ Před 6 lety +2

    I really connected with all of what you were saying except about your father (which I am so sorry that happened)... I really had the same embarrassment as a kid living a primarily white town but now I moved to Queens in NY which had a lot of asians... Girl I finally learned to love being Korean American as well. GIRL ROCK ON AND BE PROUD!!!! I love you and I have been watching you since the day you started and I am so proud of how much you evolved!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @talkingtoalison
    @talkingtoalison Před 6 lety

    Thank you for sharing! You’re beautiful, Sophia ❤️

  • @mimiluyen
    @mimiluyen Před 6 lety

    i loved this video so much soph, thank you for opening up more to us. i cried a lot watching this but it just made me appreciate being an Asian American even more! i love and admire u

  • @hannahkim_x101
    @hannahkim_x101 Před 6 lety

    Sophia. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I've been following you for awhile now. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences growing up as a Korean American. Watching this made me think of my experience as a Korean American. Thank you for being so bold and courageous woman. You truly are a great inspiration for not only for many girls and woman out there. Thank you for being you! Love you so much ❤️