Hey Steve: Waiting Until Marriage || STEVE HARVEY
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- She’s saving herself for marriage, but thinks she may be hurting her chances by bringing it up right away.
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Still being a virgin in college at 22, I can genuinely say this was very reassuring 😌
Same here, about to be 24! Saving myself. People be so shocked lol, it's my decision though
@@melissalitus8879 Stay strong sis i waited untill 25 when i got married😊
@@nothingisimpossibleyes5396 thank you I will :) wow that's great you waited until marriage, that's my ideal plan
🤮🤮ain’t nobody lining up to hit that.
Besides the fact that I'm 21, we're in the same boat. This was very reassuring.
My husband and I both waited, and we've been married almost 38 years
Did you marry him when you were born bc your profile pic sure looks like a 25 year old?!
@@lisasmith8007 We were 20 when we got married. That picture is about 3 years old, but I don't look much different now. I will be turning 55 in April.
@@antonetteallen2194 that's amazing, stay blessed
@Antonette Allen Wow, amazing!
Amen. tjs for sharing your story. that gives me hope.
I was a virgin (and my husband as well) when I got married at 23. Best decision I've ever made. 8 years and 2 sons later, we still have that spark and respect each other very much.
Well done,much respect to you
Same story. 10 years strong. 2 beautiful children as well. It's possible.
Nice. People give marriage a bad rep because they don't get married to.the right one
How long did you both wait to bring that topic up while dating?
@@dudleysquibbles6366, it was the first conversation we had as a couple. We were best friends for a couple of years, and the first time he took me out, that was our conversation. We also discussed what we expect from each other and where we see ourselves in the future on the first date.
Aye shout out to all my virgins! We out here, we lit! ❤️❤️ i’m almost 22, in college, and a virgin. Waiting till marriage!
I married a virgin as a virgin.!! 12 years married still on honeymoon!!! Gods way is the best way!!!
Arnold De Wet You are blessed 😇
❤
Arnold De Wet Amen
Until u two divorce and then u will feel u can't live without her😂😂once u two die together will your marriage be a success 12 yrs in a lifetime to go
How are you still on honeymoon?
I am 32 . I am still a virgin and getting married this September 2019. The wait will be over soon but I glad I waited
Best gift for your husband
trendy vid if it’s true love why didn’t they get married? Answer me
SwishEnterTainment 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 right?
And remember that respect doesn't end once married. Both must have respect for the marriage and each other...by not cheating as well. But even if that happened, you still did it with no regrets.
@@englishmadeeasy6141 hunny what's wrong with being a gift?🌸
I was a 28 year old virgin bride...
Only dated my husband..
Now we are happily married for over 19 years..
That proves nothing there are swinger couples happily married.
@DavidAlvarez why are you hating on her? Leave her alone you're so pressed that she's happy let her be, if you don't like what she said keep it to yourself there's no reason to spread negativity
god bless u have a beautiful life
That’s impressive. Thank goodness there are still some clean and pure women out there.
@@Time4aKiss I mean as a virgin at 27 this comment is misogynistic as hell.
that's not a compliment sir.
25 and still waiting till marriage.. glad I saw this.. gave me hope ..and I'm confident on by beliefs now..
29 and still waiting. We got this
I’m 26 and also waiting. I’m glad I saw this too.
52 and still waiting. We got this
@@yagomiotto7164 ahhhh
I found a man that's waiting for marriage. Not for me, not because I asked him, but because he is trying to go by God's word. He was already on that path, and I only joined him because we're strolling in the same direction. Praise God, there are men who take honoring Him seriously...
Isn't it interesting. I've heard of many instances when the guy is waiting to be intimate as a sacrifice to God, they usually date a woman who isn't doing the same and vice versa.
@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect this is true because my boyfriend is waiting and I'm not, lol
Amen there are so people that will honor God plus you bring God blessings to the family doing it his way.The reason why it so many broken homes, unplanned pregnancy, & diseases.
Iam 😊..am waiting too
@@mounta1nflower lol what y mean u not so u cheating u have to if u not oding nothing u waiting as well lol
I waited until marriage and it was the BEST decision I could have ever made. It's a beautiful thing and like Steve said, dont lower your standards for anyone.
Emerald Collier I wish there were more women like you ❤️
How is your marriage?
Yea, they are this non virgin guy who was trying trick me into marrying him, I would marry a guy who does not hold the same values as I am and not waiting for marriage.
Imagine marrying a guy who had many women eww, they think they are cool and Chad, they only just a place for diessae,
@@hkjjuju2352 exactly my thoughts, imagine both boy and girl to be virgins and pure and then sharing that wholesome experience with themselves, no third person involved, just the two of them for a lifetime...
How do you really know that though? If you had some experience beforehand there is no shame in that!
My wife was the same way, she waited until we got married. I had no problem with it, I loved her company, she was my best friend, we kissed, were always super close, we knew we loved each other and it worked out perfectly. If he can't love you for you than it probably wasn't going to last too long anyway.
Loving a person for who they are has nothing to do with sex.
Yo wife was getting banged out she just waited to marry you for sex
@@Jambuc829 evidently it does these days. Some people unfortunately are loving sex more than the person for who they are
@@Jambuc829 it has everything because if he waits to have sex with the girl until marriage then he definitely loves her and is not after her body
But yeah this only applies when the girl is virgin because a non virgin girl doesn't have this right to do this or at least she should tell him about her past that she isnt a virgin and wants to make him wait till marriage and if he ok with that then good for you but it most likely will not work out
Only virgin girls can do this to find a soulmate because they waited patiently for thier life partner instead of going in flow with lust
@@sunjinwooisthebestprotagon3537 Lol what?! Anyone can do this and they successfully do. Many people find God later in life and decide it's better to wait and learn about their partner before getting to sex because of previous bad experiences.
Hey ladies if you fell short and had sex before, but is now waiting; God honors that. You’re not damaged goods. God loves you
Good advice. I'm almost 26 and waiting for marriage. Anyone else?
Me too!! There are some men who respect themselves and want to do things the right way... You will know one when you see it 😎😎
Same here! I'm 25 waiting for marriage as well. Best decision I've ever made for myself.
I’m 25 ! Still going strong ! 💪🏾
Almost 25 and waiting 🙏🏽
Almost 25 and waiting😊😊
""God is very fair"". That's one of the most truest and powerful statements ever made. God will not let this young lady down. In fact i proclaim that He will exceed her expectations in the man He's bringing her in Jesus' name.
True.i know He has mine
First time I see the man speaking fairly about a woman's sexuality... read his books I didn't agree with his 90days rule of someone else's property hell no!..I see it as giving men power and men like to possess what doesn't belong to him especially a woman's body he can make 1001excuses to penetrate a woman mind and body..I believe a woman must be 100percent ready mentally and physically and holds the power.... not under pressure of the language "men needs sex".men breathe sex.irritates me to my gut"..why not throw out your oxygens..women deal with their sexuality every month and every childbirth..its no joke for some people..people should learn to handle their bodies without having to frustrate the opposite sex or rather walk away peacefully and find their species or type....a woman's body is not man's world!!he needs to own up for his own..and people who hunt sex are not marriage materials..they are just sex materials..marriage is the last thing they wanna be bothered with..when a woman respects her body ..virgin or no virgin as long as she is putting a respect on that I don't wanna hear any further rant about men having dominance.....I hate when the public or the world start deliberating seriously over it why she shouldn't own it by making threats ..hello...nothing to loose to a total stranger..at least..am glad he mentioned born again Christians and respects their beliefs instead of the world system that are just messing around hoping they will put a ring on it after 90days. Or make it spicey to keep him around BS.even married couples after 100days of courtship can't cope..you don't hand out things to people less deserving of you or your standards and values..it is your responsibility to protect your sexuality.. Let people want what they want..you hold on to what you want...
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Why didn't GOD/JESUS HEAL MY SOUL?
That's bs. God is imaginary. Life is just life. It is not fair. It is just what it is and once you accept that you will feel love in your heart. If you fill yourself with the false narrative that an invisible man in the sky will make things right then prepared to be disappointed!
He said “ God won’t send you Mr.Right if you’re with Mr.Wrong.” 🗣🗣 that was deep. Especially when he said God will send you, your soulmate. Just focus on you and your personal growth!!! This was well needed 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I made a vow just like her.
It's too hard to overcome your animalistic lust and wait for marriage, that's why I have huge respect to this girl and like minded; I hope I meet a girl like her in the future.
Same 21 in university still going strong in my virginity, 😌✊🏿 not wasting my time
Update (June 2020): I am now 22 graduating in a month! Applying for law school(pray for me) still going strong in my abstinence 💪🏿 who ever is reading this, you got this 🙏🏿
Update : I just graduated!🎓😭🙏🏿 Still a virgin waiting till marriage!
Update (March 2021) : Still waiting for any response from law schools, but very much still a virgin 😄🙏🏿 I know it's not always easy, but when you understand that God does this all for our good, you will thank Him🙌🏿
That's what's up!!! More power to you sister. I'm proud of you. Love from another sister from England
Same here
Stay strong and stick to your decision until marriage and you will know the true taste of love
Exactly! Sex just makes things more complicated. Keep minding your own business and trusting God!
I'm 17 and the same and I'm so shy and I've never really talked to guys.
We need more women like her!!!!!!!
I AM ONE OF THESE WOMEN...DEFINITELY WAITING!!!
Stacey Palmer I’m really happy for you, and I wish you all the best and I hope you find the right guy for you
and we want boys to do the same thing
And men too!!!
Men as well. We need to stop with the double standards.
She’s so precious and her Husband would be a lucky person
You know there’s something wrong with the world when being a Virgin is a bad thing, a thing to be ashamed of.
You know there's something wrong with the world when being a non virgin is a bad thing, a thing to be ashamed of.
This‼
@@iamsobeautifulomg that's just in india
@@iamsobeautifulomg I’m not a virgin and I am ashamed of it. I think of the men I’ve wasted my time with and ultimately wish I waited.
@@natalieh8023 so everything that didn't finalize in your life must be a waste of time for you then.
She will definitely find someone who gonna respect her decision. she just gotta stay persistent with it ✨
Absolutely!
My husband respected my decision to wait until, but sadly I ended up not waiting but he was fine with waiting, and he was a virgin anyway.
True...but it's really hard
@@dolly8081 ofc its hard. Great things don't come fast
Dang you FOINE
I am interested in being with someone that has beliefs and morals. If you don't stand for something! You will fall for anything!
Same and PREACH! 👏🔥❤️
@NzuriMoja Agreed!
@Independence In Mind waiting til marriage is a part of being moral. So the idea you can still have morals and have sex is a double negative. Youre either moral or your not.
And morals encompass all facets of life...honesty, sex, respect, work, family.
Beliefs and morals are guidelines. Not a goal.
@Independence In Mind not having sex till marriage is a moral and here's why : First for both women and men they give value to themselves by refusing to be an acess to many people . A woman is like a queen not everyone should be allowed to touch her except her king. and second and most importantly alot of women lately are single with a child , now imagine a child getting raised alone without the presence of a father and having the thought that he abandonned him and he s not loved by his own son, it will affect him mentally . Third and most importanly some wild ladies prefer to have fun to much than "normal" and in alot of cases i ve saw when she gets pregnant she doesnt know who s the father ..
I’m 29 and waiting! Best decision ever. I’m glad that there is a community of people out there on this same journey. Trusting God and his timing. I know the right man will appreciate and honor my decision!
God bless you as you abide
This young woman is gorgeous and props to Steve for pointing the audience back to the source..The Lord.
She's GORGEOUS!!!! Thanks Steve for the great advice!
She's Indian.
1:05 The 'only' goal for waiting an entire few dates before telling someone is to use them. Nobody's waiting until the third or fourth date to ask whats your religion, direction, what are you looking for, family, what does loyalty mean to you etc.
Steves female writing staff design responses like "sit back and wait for your soul mate to walk up to you." Dont even try. Its as cruel as teaching a 16 girl that doesn't know any better 'you're about to be courted by a prince and live happily ever after in castle without fundamental life experience' in this dating climate.
Jeffy Mathew she looked black
Sierra LaFaye she ugly
His advice is always on point!
What's all this thing that men can't wait? Girl stick to your values and beliefs don't change your decision you ain't ruining any chances. A man who can't wait is not worth waiting for.
You hit the nail right on the head.
She should start looking for a man who wants to wait till marriage too or it will be very hard for her
i believe a man can wait.. sex is only one part of a healthy relationship.. now that being said.. if the man isn't a virgin and the woman is there could be a problem... because a healthy sex life is also, like i said a part of a relationship.... i have mix emotions on this subject... but im open for discussion on it.
that's right!
@@ericangiolillo3488 at the end of the day, we're human. I believe in enjoying the moment. People get too stressed about the future, getting married...... If you can't have fun and you dont enjoy each other's company, what's the point?
I’m 30 and don’t regret my choice to wait until marriage.
Are you a Christian and where you from ?
I'm 18 and whenever I told guys I was waiting for marriage, they all went like "Oh yeah righttt" and later on when the realized I was serious, they all gave the same reaction like she said. So I was embarrassed to admit that because I felt like I had a problem or I was being "old-fashioned", but now my boyfriend knows about it and he supports me fully. So to all you girls and guys out there, you just have to wait for the right person and stop wasting time fooling around cause they aren't worth it
This world is getting destroyed . Nvm
Thank God there are still traditional women like you left out there and congrats for finding a guy who respects your decision
Ain't nothing wrong with that.. I'd rather have a woman who respects herself and is happy with herself instead of her sleeping with every man thinking thats what's going to make them to stay
Preach !!!!!!!!!
what if you have sex to feel connected, to feel close to someone, to Express love or to satisfy a basic human need. as a woman?
@@anacuskova8563 its your right to do it but not everyone is going to respect that
@@anacuskova8563 I'm sorry, but if that's what it takes to firm a connection you're pretty shallow. My hubby and I have been married almost 35 years and to be honest we have not had sex in a while. I have been chronically sick for a year and sex would be painful.
We kiss, cuddle, hold hands, snuggle, and spend lots of time together. He still makes my heart race, but at least for now that's what we do. No loss of connection. In fact, we're closer more than ever. He's my hero, my best friend, and I live him with everything I am.
@@etf42 why isnt respectable though, to be intimate with the man you love ?
You can never be disappointed waiting on The Creator of mankind. He knows the young lady’s right match. She will be found by the one in The Most High’s perfect timing. She doesn’t have to do anything but have faith.
Yahuah Is My Everything amen
AMEN!
Gotta do more than just have faith. Its a LOT of old and older women that's been sitting back for 8.. 10.. 15+ years having faith and waiting on God.
T G T G It honestly depends on your heart’s disposition. I cannot speak for other women who have been waiting for a long time and there’s still no sign of them finding love. But what I can say is that if you take The Most High seriously, you spend time with Him in all sincerity, you are working on yourself, you have a genuine, natural desire to get married one day and *you are being led by the Holy Spirit* , then you are guaranteed to meet your soulmate.
@@eugeniyah8078 Well THAT I agree with👍. I didnt agree with all u need is Faith'
*I'm 33 and a virgin. I don't find anything wrong in it, I'll wait until marriage. I'm happy with my decision and l don't feel the need to hide it nor do l regret my decision. People judge and sometimes do ask me if I'm sexless but l don't give a damn. I'll stick to my believes and traditions.* ☺️
This is still extremely common in India.. 😊 🙏
Woow I like that. Are you in love at the moment?
Yeah screw that I’m not living a sexless life and I’m not waiting until marriage to marry a woman.
Why wait enjoy yourself with one person who love you.
It wouldn't be surprising to me to find out that some women who are more experience than pornstars will be here telling lies.
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I also waited until marriage, cant be more thankful I did! 3 years married now, beautiful daughter, a baby on the way, and my man always on fire! And what a man God send my way! Thanks Lord Jesus! Just happy ever since
It's your body, it's your time, if he waits with you, he's the one. Simple as that
Yeah I’ll wait for her and get some on the side because it’s not cheating since she’s not willing to have sex with me. I’m not buying a car before test driving it
Shayla Dawkins I mean what ever “man” waited for that was doing it with someone else
denny osifo wtf that’s not how relationships work
@denny osifo you mean marriage?
God bless you
She is a beautiful black queen
srt hellcat I knew there were going to be someone that would get triggered with your comment 😂🤦🏾♀️
@@blackmermaid1 lol yeah i wasnt goin to comment.but people need to realize not all women are hoes she came out on natioal tv and admitted to being a virgin and holding on to have sex till marriage that isnt easy to do in 2019. So she obviously is a girl worth it for someone looking for serious relationship..and im 27 and im also very serious and its hard for me to find a girl with some self respect . So i think she would be a keeper 👍
She is half Indian half black
Well I don't know why you would minimize calling her a queen by including her color?! Why can't she just be a queen?
What a disgusting thing to say.
@@KyleHurd im not black if your wondering, im european and i said black queen because she is a black queen..if u see a nice yellow lamborghini what are you gonna tell people you seen a nice car or a yellow lamborghini? Thank you
She’s absolutely beautiful. God will bless her with a man that will wait on her.
God allows for men to have a wife and several sex slaves. Prove me wrong.
Oh my gosh!! That almost made me cry, Steve is such a gem!! I pray this beautiful girl with high standards will soon meet her Mr. Right!
I waited too and my guy waited several years until we finally got married and I don’t regret it one bit. Like Steve said, God will take care of you!
Guys are very impatient these days. Dont lower your standards girl
Will M that’s boys that aren’t ready. Real men are
men have always been impatient. It’s women who are coming down to the same level lately lmao
Y'all crazy
Yeah but y'all want men to act like husbands before marriage....AKA Provide,Pay for this and that🤦🏽♂️
@@anthonybutler2001 I've also noticed this: when a woman doesn't want sex in a relationship (or wants to wait), everyone thinks that's okay. But when a guy doesn't want it (or wants to wait), that's a red-flag and the woman shouldn't be in a relationship with him, because suddenly relationships are all about sex. The double-standards, man.
My.wife made me waiting for a long time...we would travel stay in hotels and nothing happens...But I did enjoy just being with her everywhere. I sometimes planned weekends away with her without thinking of sex because I knew it was off the table but we had such a good time both were in college at the time. Now we are married for 31yrs with 4 children and I dont see any sign of us going different ways...
How was the dex after you got married? assuming it was good becuase it has been 31 yrs lool
@@chukaokonkwo8642 still good, no complaints...children are now grown ups...more time for ourselves.
We just need to watch our old photo albums and we are at it!
We can talk all night when off work...so many old stories to share.
wow this is so beautiful and inspiring. love that for you two
Love this so much! You have a beautiful wife!!
Coming from a man, I love love this comment
I’m watching this after Roe v. Wade was overturned and this message is very crucial for such a time as this! Saving sex for marriage saves lives, reduces unwanted pregnancy, eliminates STD’s, and most importantly honors GOD! 💯🙌🏾
To be honest someone just revealed his feeling to me yesterday. And I talked to him upfront that Im waiting till marriage for sex. And he said "we can't move forward if we have to respect your principle". Well, I decided to walk away.
Truthfully, at the first time I was sad because I lost somebody that really my type, but then I realized that I have to respect myself more and won't lower my standards for somebody els who even not truly love me yet.
I don't have hope for nowadays society to be honest, but after I watched this. It gives me a little hope 🙏🏻 I will wait for Mr.Right
Absolutely good news that you chose to wait -- as Steve said, please never lower your standards for someone who doesn't deserve you.
Your friends aren't really your friends if they telling you this.
Ruth Baker
Couldn't agree more.
Exactly! If something if good for you and makes you feel safe and secure, why would they ever judge that. Crazy.
Exactlyyy !!!!
They are being honest, her waiting to sleep with someone does cut her chances down. If they were telling her to sleep with the men then they wouldn't be friends. She should say something pretty quick though because guys should have the chance to turn her down if they don't want to wait. She is taking advantage of them otherwise.
Shutup u know her friends personally?
That was really good advice! Wait on the Lord
Exactly 👍
Natasha Jarvis and He will give you the desires of your heart!
His desires. If it's not the will of God for you to get married then you still have to do the purpose he ordained for your life.
Niecy Harvey Psalms 37:4
I must admit I have mixed views on Steve but this one hit deep, he's so right on this one. My hubby and I dated 3 yrs before we got married and only seeing each other maybe once a week (he's a farmer) I didn't want to repeat the same mistake I did once before. It was exhausting but totally worth it! The only thing is I was the huntress, he was too UNconfident in himself but I've built that up in him now, he's the greatest man I know! I will cherish him forever!💜
My husband and I waited and it was the best decision we made. ❤ it's hard but worth it.
*As a faithful man being 25 abstinent waiting till marriage, anyone else?*
_I tell her straight up when that subject comes in the conversation, she doesn’t approve? I keep it moving._
Excellent! Good for you. The right one is coming one day.
TheLiving TestimonyChannel Amen
I wish people who thought like this had a place to meet up so we can avoid the others who won’t accept us waiting
jill mont Exactly me too
Will M marriage is a covenant between the couple and God. Your comment is ridiculous
This is so good. I waited until my wedding day at age 34. Completely worth it. My husband totally respected my desire to wait. Doesn't seem like it, but great men are out there!
I’m 34 & single, ready for marriage & waiting until marriage. This is encouraging. Thanks!
Pit School 🥰🥰
This gives me hope. I cry a lot thinking why do people not understand. I chose to be a virgin to honor god and respect myself. I hope I find a virgin husband. I’m 27. I want the special moment together.
@@amanwithoutlimits Thanks so much...I am proud
45 still waiting. Waiting does not always work. You got lucky.
My sister is almost 34 and waiting until marriage. I’m so proud of her ❤️😊
I'm in the same boat, 28 years old and waiting until marriage. It's so hard to date and find the one! This was spot on from her and steve!
“You can never say the wrong thing to the right person.”
Wow. Nice
I agree
I kept thinking about this comment from I heard it.
THIS 👏🏾
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We all need a uncle like Steve.
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Lol and a cousin like Devon Franklin
@Ann Vo Yesss
"Cause we hunters, that's what we do." I *wish* that I could say that about the majority of men nowadays, but the number of men who are apathetic about putting effort into finding the woman for them is steadily rising. Ladies, don't sit back and *expect* your "soulmate" to come to you. That's what creates lonely, bitter women sometimes. Instead, put yourselves in situations to *meet* your future man by being active in communities that you treasure. Like-minded people tend to gravitate towards each other, so get out there and *live,* and I guarantee that you'll meet someone that'll put some serious thought into committing to you. If it was easy to meet your soulmate, then everyone would be happy in love! Best of luck, ladies!
I'm gonna show this to my future daughter to motivate her and let her know that there are women out there who respect themselves and maintain their standards! I admire this woman
God is speaking through Steve
Lol
Yessss he doin the Lord's work right here.😊
😊
@Arcadecharm Maybe God is speaking through you like right now.
mona lisa you right
Waiting weeds out the wrong people and helps move the wrong ones out of the way quicker. Sex clouds our better judgement. The Wait by Devon Franklin and Meagan Goode is a really good book.
Read the book and it really put things into perspective for me with regards to my Wait
Yes I have that book. I also recommend "You Are A Prize to Be Won" by Wendy Griffith.
The Bible is man made all the rules in the Bible are designed to control women’s sexuality NOT men’s. A man can have a wife and several concubines (sex slaves) the concubines only use is for sex she would be there to get pregnant if the wife couldn’t have kids or to take care of the husband if the wife was sick or just for straight up pleasure. No where in the Bible does it say a man has to be with one and only one woman it just says he can only marry one woman. And it also says not to fantasize about a woman who belongs to another man. That’s it.
very true
I lost my virginity on my wedding night at 27 years old. We conceived our daughter at the same time. Best decision I ever made.
in a perfect, truthful world, this is how people are should live..
My soul mate ran up to me Haha literally. He saw me in the distance at a Dodgers game. He had been in line for over 30 minutes to get his food and he got out of line and ran across the stadium to catch up to me and ask me my name. ❤ 5 yrs later we have 2 kids and are happily married. Never stop waiting.
That reminds me of fever pitch. How cute!! 😭
Omggg Why do I wanna cry rn!!!😭😭😭
They met over a Dodger Dog! 🌭😃
❤️❤️❤️
Great advice I'm 27 waiting till marriage as well and in college focus on my career continuing my relationship with God trust that he has that person for me .
I pray this every night for God to continue to work on me and my future husband as well and when it is time to meet I pray that I know it is from God.
So until then I'll keep on praying, studying the word and walk in his purpose for my life.
Pat R are you me? Except I’m 28! Keep going! And praying 🙏🏾
@@domnikrita90 difference am 18. And both of you guys are like me
@@domnikrita90That is amazing keep on moving forward remember we are set apart for a reason trust that.🙏🏽👏🏽💗
@@shadaewitter4710 Beautiful walk into each and every season with Thanks our journey is not for nothing he has plan for us and it is beyond your most beautiful dream.👏🏽🙏🏽💖
@@patr9117 Amen! We just have to be patient because at the end of the day. We won't regret it
This comment section has definitely made my night! It pays to wait.
My husband and I waited until we were married and it was worth it.
You think it wouldn’t have worked if you didn’t wait? That would mean that your entire relationship only works because the government married you before you had sex? That’s the most silliest thing I’ve ever heard.
What he said at the end about not blocking your blessing was so spot on! Let the bad guys go
Yes exactly!!! We gotta let the bad toxic ones go so that the right one can come in.
It has always been known that women are the gate keepers to sex and men are the gate keepers to marriage, commitment. I'm glad that there are women who wait. But once married, waiting is over, or at least it should be for the marriage to stay strong and healthy. I'm glad you're planning for a strong marriage now!!
If he isn’t willing to wait for marriage with you then he isn’t the one for you. I a hundred percent believe in the advice Steve gave. God will send you your perfect match when you least expect it, but it’s all in HIS timing.
God allows men to have sex slaves and wives 😂
It’s honestly so reassuring to know that there are a bunch of people in the same boat as you
I loved how Steve handled and answered her question.
I know where she coming from because I am 28 and I am still waiting for marriage to have sex and guys found out I was serious they break up with me and I am extremely find with that because they knew they are not worth me and they are just not serious as I am . So girl as Steve says the right guy is coming. I am still waiting and I am sure god will bring him soon 💖
Exactly girl 💯 The Creator rewards patience and faithfulness.
You got it, sis!
I’m 37. Did that a looooong time. Good luck.
It's worth it! I avoided so many no-good, lousy men by making this decision. I hope it helps you all the same. Also, just an aside: God doesn't "bring" you anyone. You have to get out there and find what you want. God "brings" us things by giving us free will and the ability to create change.
انه الاسلام الحمد لله أختي
It’s nice to know I’m not the only one saving myself for marriage in this generation haha
i am a man 35 wating for marraige
Some say its hard to wait, as a man, i've come to realise that if you be deliberate at it, it is easy and sweet to wait. Just turned 26, single and pure by God's grace. To any young person out there, put in all you can to wait, you will be glad you waited.
Preach Steve!
Truest commentary I’ve ever heard this man make.
Still waiting for marriage❤️ I love this so much!
me too
Hello freind i am call yannick 28 i wish to learn from you
Eboni Armstrong You look so cute,how old are you?
Hi
She’s a smart woman, i hope the best for her ♥️.
I've watched this video so many times! God bless you, Steve!! That's absolutely true!
Grateful to these ladies who wait. You will truly be blessed. Good for you for sticking to your principles! Saving yourself a lot of heartache. “Forbidden fruit creates many jams”. Blessings to you all!
I personally didn’t want too wait until marriage, but stand for what you believe in sis! Don’t let anyone change your mind.
Intriguing Blk Beauty I didn’t either before I met my husband. And lemme tell you there is such a peace in being able to give your entire self to someone who is committed to you for life. It made me upset that I ever gave that up before marriage, yet and still I appreciate the lessons learned from the experience.
Thanks for being honest
@@DelishaPowell beauty isn’t attached to a skin tone.
@@DelishaPowell I relate to every word ❤️
I'm 24 and have been waiting for marriage. Just found out 2 weeks ago that the guy who I thought was waiting with me had been cheating on me for almost 2 years smh. This gives me hope tho, glad to know that there are others out there doing the same thing.
Sorry to hear. There are better guys out there!!!
Sorry
@Marco Static thanks, and queens girl
@@fromspace7 thanks, I agree. There are really amazing guys out there, they are in high demand. Not really meeting many that I'm interested in tho.
@Joi Powell which is so messed up and defeats the purpose. Then you get married and guess what the cheating will not stop. I never thought about making a guy get tested before I marry him but I think that is very important to do and will keep it in mind. Thanks ☺
I needed to watch this video again, I’m so glad I came across it. It hits different now.
Well said girl, appreciate your attitude & you are following the right path .👍.
Yea me too I'm Christian and a virgin. I'm close to turning 20, and still strong in faith. I will only have an intimate relationship, until the day I finally get married. There's still hope in this world: I hope I can find a woman like her one day.
Jeo Freestyle are you a boy ??? weird every boy i knew is sexually active
so refreshing to hear this from a male perspective, as a female who is 21 and literally the same as you, its nice to hear that :)
@@Momo11191 Not every boys are the same thing ... Its just hard to find unique guys, but trust me they exist.
Me too. I'm 18 saving my self until marriage
Keep on this path. Blessings come in abundance when you wait.
Respect to this Queen and all of the Queens in the comments that are waiting. You are worth the wait! Don't let anyone make you feel bad about self-preservation.
Signed,
A 41 Year Old that wishes she had waited.
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Her eyes sparkles. Beautiful lady.
Thank you Uncle Steve always know what to say . 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️
You go girl! I hope more girls like her.. save yourself for the right guy.. the one that appreciate you.. the one that wait for you.. the one that you can trust.. the one that protect you.. I wait until I married too.. no regret..
الحمد لله💐 الحمد لله 💐
Girl. You ain’t alone 🙋🏾♀️
respect for you young lady, wish you the best ..
Best message ever!!!! What an amazing girl! Stay true to who you are. My husband and I waited until I wedding night and we are still in love 25 years later. He respected me then and still does this day. He is my soul mate!
We don't have to hunt!!! Praise GOD!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌
She shouldn't abandon her beliefs. Its a beautiful thing. Its only gonna work with who she wants to marry. She can go on a date and tell a guy this. At that point he is gonna put marriage on the table within a few months or leave. She isn't gonna have a 5 year relationship with a man waiting in "hopes" that she may marry him
Amen! 🔥🔥 I know I can find me a man who will put marriage on the table!
I love how Steve is so caring towards people
Some of the best advice I've heard on ask Steve.
some men wait too
I''ve been saving myself for the right woman, for quite sometimes.
people out there for you.
You will get a beautiful young lady, have a blessed marriage and family!
lyricisible May god bless you with a good woman
God bless you on your journey and praying you meet the right woman in due season!
Beautiful!
Bad news for you: women do not find inexperienced men attractive. If the ones in the comments weren't dishonest, they would tell you that. They can't help seeing you as a loser that no woman wants, whether that be true or not.
I'm waiting until marriage as well
Amen! You would be a great pastor!!
Yeeee so proud of you girl. Great stand
Steve, you’re so right! It was when I had the courage to leave the man I knew was wasting my time that the man of my dreams walked into my life. He literally found me, pursued me like a real man and right from our first date, he showed me what a real man is. One who loves, protects and provides. He asked me to be his wife after 6 months and our love has been growing beautifully since our first date 3 years ago 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thanks for sharing your story, very encouraging. I finally had the courage also to leave a very bad abusive relationship and now im patiently waiting for the right Godly man to show up in my life. God is good and i know he will bring the right man in my life, one who will now respect me amd cherish me for the queen that i now know that i am. God bless you ❤✌
Lord I tap into this grace !
Hi
Thank you for sharing beautiful love story!
I'm a guy and I never bring up sex. The ladies always do and then I tell them I am waiting till marriage. They usually share my values so its never a big deal.
Keep holding on to your values young lady. You're doing the right thing.
Being a virgin means nothing
@@hughjanus2781 to you.
Respect bro!
You've got a Pure Heart, Sir.
Keep That UP!!!
The best on Steve Harvey show I have ever watched. I respect you as a Christian Mr Steve and for the lady,she has a believer's fruits to show.
The sermon I need in my life right now! "Don't lower your standard or change your beliefs for somebody else". Thank you, uncle Steve!
She is so beautiful.
Was not expecting this. I'm so happy cause I needed that reassurance.
Steve Harvey preaching! 🔥🔥 go on preacher!