Untold Truth In No Sex Before Marriage *PART 2* WHY DID MO PROPOSE TO MEL?

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  • Part 2 of a candid conversation on sex before marriage. The truth in what caused Mo to propose as well as how temptation tends to rise and the coping mechanisms used to face this. Also we give an update on Baby Cairo❤️
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Komentáře • 480

  • @tamikawilliams5688
    @tamikawilliams5688 Před 3 lety +152

    Cairo is soooo big and handsome. Congratulations to you both for being a positive example of love and marriage.

  • @joancrooks7053
    @joancrooks7053 Před 3 lety +198

    Loved when Mel prayed. Prayer is the key to all situations that we're bombarded with. Each decisions, and whatever situations, one should pray and seek God's direction

  • @only_the_strong_survive8001

    A family that prays together stays together🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ms.pattipatti4299
    @ms.pattipatti4299 Před 3 lety +58

    You should never build your relationship on sex. That should be the last thing, not the first thing about building a relationship with someone. Put God first and never stop praying. Change your mindset. I wish I had realized this all those years ago when I was trying to figure things out. You two are so blessed.

  • @brighteyesldy
    @brighteyesldy Před 3 lety +107

    Mel got her ministry going on!!! Keep it up sister in Christ

  • @maxibrown41
    @maxibrown41 Před 3 lety +37

    “making permanent decisions with temporary emotions.” For a Christian - that’s pretty much an accurate description of pre-marital sex.#Facts!🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @bellathebee9361
    @bellathebee9361 Před 3 lety +48

    Danmmm!!! She said permanent decision on temporary emotion. Deep very deep!

    • @chabee3666
      @chabee3666 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly like making life time choices for seasonal people

    • @kueen7538
      @kueen7538 Před 2 lety

      Yes! That resonated with me too!

  • @Dlovesyou1
    @Dlovesyou1 Před 3 lety +97

    I like that he was honest about the porn aspect of it

  • @angelataylor4948
    @angelataylor4948 Před 3 lety +47

    You two prove that God has your mate and they might not be the same ethnicity! Sometime we miss our spouse because we are looking for someone with the same color or race. I also love your handshake

  • @sweetsgourmet
    @sweetsgourmet Před 3 lety +33

    I love how in love Mo is with his wife and baby. And thank you Mel for that amazing prayer!

  • @niajai9746
    @niajai9746 Před 3 lety +59

    Of all the Christian couples I've watched or subscribed to on CZcams, I can't recall them ever praying on camera but I truly appreciated that prayer Mel. It's one thing to tell people to pray, it's another thing to actually pray for people and lead by example. You two are here for a purpose and it's no coincidence that I ran into yall's videos. Looking forward to more of yall's videos!! 💕💕 & side note: Cairo is too darn cute!

  • @ajclrj
    @ajclrj Před 3 lety +37

    It's the transparency and the honesty FOR ME MO!!!!! Man, God is good. I needed that! Thank you guys for sharing, really, thank you. To God be the glory.

  • @pearlwright1928
    @pearlwright1928 Před 3 lety +54

    Cairo is absolutely adorable! The love you have for each other was clearly the making of that miracle!

  • @ladyvap5
    @ladyvap5 Před 3 lety +80

    I’m proud that you were able to make this decision. I’ve told this to men and have to run away from them and they don’t seem to understand even if they are Christians. I prayed about this and the Lord helped me through

    • @horlainesmith9776
      @horlainesmith9776 Před 3 lety +3

      So true they can't wait first to married then sex after. I tell that marriage first before sex.

  • @ageewin298
    @ageewin298 Před 3 lety +56

    Marriage is so meaningful when that commitment is made with someone knowing that you both waited for each other even if you’re not virgins because it is a sacrifice between each other. It builds a SOLID foundation; spiritually and emotionally. It also shows that the relationship is not ONLY based on lust. Lust cannot keep a marriage and it’s best to keep ourselves from making unnecessary soul ties that can be extremely difficult to break. God bless you both and the cutie pie Cairo. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @michellemann6362
      @michellemann6362 Před 2 lety +1

      Amen... that's so true. Thank you for sharing this mess 🙏🌝

  • @ridenhowse
    @ridenhowse Před 3 lety +18

    ❤️❤️Being equally yoked in a marriage is a must...amen to Mel’s prayer🙏🏾❤️

  • @user-ci5eu6tn9u
    @user-ci5eu6tn9u Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you for that prayer. I am 74 and still awaiting for the person God has for me.

    • @YouTubeUzername
      @YouTubeUzername Před 3 lety +3

      WTF??? 😩

    • @user-ci5eu6tn9u
      @user-ci5eu6tn9u Před 3 lety +2

      @@CZcamsUzername why such vulgar response? Everyone who desire it wants love and companionship. Your response was not called foe.

    • @arletsamuel344
      @arletsamuel344 Před 3 lety

      @@user-ci5eu6tn9u
      Thanks Marilyn for your response. I am 57 and still prayen.
      I belief there is some on out there. Some time I felt so lonely but like Mel said It is possible.

    • @YouTubeUzername
      @YouTubeUzername Před 3 lety

      @@user-ci5eu6tn9u girl stfu, you don’t get to tell me how I should or shouldn’t respond to that outrageous asś comment. That shit is outrageous and anyone who says otherwise is simply in denial or just stupid. As Women we need to be honest with ourselves and set realistic expectations. Not everyone will end up happily married and the older we get the chances of us finding a mate decreases drastically. It’s simply not meant for everyone and if you are 74 and still single then chances are you are one of those people and that is OK.

    • @user-ci5eu6tn9u
      @user-ci5eu6tn9u Před 3 lety

      @@CZcamsUzername God's blessings to you.

  • @dreamingofluxury9444
    @dreamingofluxury9444 Před 3 lety +32

    Yes, being on the same page mentally and spiritually is IT! Me and my husband were on the same page. Prayer and patience is definitely key. As a Muslim we pray often throughout the day and being patient, during trying times, is a good deed.

  • @DJ-li6rt
    @DJ-li6rt Před 3 lety +22

    I love the twist of this video. Abstinence is an absolute challenge, i did not know this many years ago when i made that decision, but with God it's extremely possible. It is so important not to compromise your values folks. Wait on God, the wait is hard but its rewarding. Mel, you have Ministry with purpose, ask God to show you and He would. It entails engaging and encouraging women.
    Blessings.

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you for that 🙏🏽🤎

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před 3 lety +12

    That prayer was really sweet
    The Holy Spirit is doing His work in your lives. Continue to love God and walk in obedience to His Word.

  • @shantellhalcyondefreitas-a4299

    I really thank you all for this session, you all are a true example of what God wants for his people, i will be sharing this with my young adults at my church and keep up the good job with your parenting. I pray God will continue to keep you all in Jesus name. Love you guys

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you for your service to the youth! 🙌🏼

  • @danelllaa_899
    @danelllaa_899 Před 3 lety +24

    straight facts throughout the entire video. I believe that sex is important but the wait is sexy and so that's why i decided to abstain until marriage as well. Besides what's the worst that can happen you actually finding someone that wants you for you and not for that goal.

  • @Mandidzv
    @Mandidzv Před 3 lety +82

    Sex is sacred . People don’t understand sleeping around you are collecting deeper stuff from the people u sleeping with . Hi e who sleeps with a harlot becomes one. God is good

  • @denisetoby818
    @denisetoby818 Před 3 lety +30

    Mel& Mo .You 2 are truly a blessing...It's amazing when you stay under God's umbrella how he blesses u continuously when you stay obedient to the call upon your life

  • @denden8326
    @denden8326 Před 3 lety +34

    My favourite couple. Your words are so inspirational and motivational. Love from jamaica

  • @conniepositivevibe
    @conniepositivevibe Před 3 lety +22

    Thank you for that special, powerful prayer. I am kind of struggling with things within myself. Honestly I stop having sex. I'm abusing my temple that God gave me. I truly appreciate your inspiration and Cairo is adorable.

  • @joancrooks7053
    @joancrooks7053 Před 3 lety +48

    I'm here and loving your vlog. Love to see Mo's paternal skills. Baby Cairo looked so relaxed and comfortable.
    Thanks for being so candid and being on the same mindset

    • @hopemothibi5163
      @hopemothibi5163 Před 3 lety +3

      God keeps blessing you guys. Aargh Cairo is cute 😍🇿🇦

  • @devinimnottellin
    @devinimnottellin Před 3 lety +18

    It was the prayer for me! Thank you guys for your transparency. Thank you for praying when you were lead to. It was fully valuable to me.

  • @JosephButso
    @JosephButso Před 3 lety +21

    Thank yall both for y'alls transparency. Especially you Mr. Mo. As a male waiting for marriage I can totally relate to using porn and masturbation as a way to fight off the waiting. For u to go there and be honest about the journey is much commended. And Mrs. Mel! For u to step out and pray 4 those who are yet to be married, I just want to wish u nd ur family many blessings! In Jesus Name. Once again, thnk u both!

  • @pearlwright1928
    @pearlwright1928 Před 3 lety +26

    I think what you are saying makes a great deal of sense. Clearly you are not coming from a moral judgment. Actually it is quite the opposite. You may be opening up an option that some may not have even considered. I especially believe that sex is so much more meaningful when you are truly making love with someone! Bless your beautiful family!

  • @kaijaful
    @kaijaful Před 2 lety +4

    The prayer brought me to tears! I pray your matrimony is blessed infinitely, protected, & secured through Christ. You both are absolutely beautiful souls! Many blessings to all three of you & your extended family! 💕✨

  • @nancylove8360
    @nancylove8360 Před 3 lety +20

    Mel and Mo you two are such an inspiration. Thank you and Cairo is soooo cute!

  • @regale1995
    @regale1995 Před 3 lety +33

    Cairo is so handsome

  • @yogiwithjacque
    @yogiwithjacque Před 2 lety +4

    “Lord, take this emotion out of me. Help me understand what you have for me is bigger than what I’m feeling right now” WHEWH! I had to write that down

  • @CreshaNicole_DNP
    @CreshaNicole_DNP Před 3 lety +16

    I just looove this page!! It’s so valuable for young families.

  • @tiffanyfflood5485
    @tiffanyfflood5485 Před 3 lety +6

    The pray made me love you all even more. I love the transparency and open communications. You guys have a super friendship, and marriage.

  • @deborahblackshear3325
    @deborahblackshear3325 Před 3 lety +11

    This is beautiful. I love this talk. Great conversations. Prayer is key. He is beautiful.

  • @glorialouiise
    @glorialouiise Před 3 lety +8

    People should practice abstinence more often.🙏🏾

  • @t.c.3762
    @t.c.3762 Před 3 lety +12

    U guys have one of the best channels on CZcams. I really like how inspirational, and honest y'all are.
    Thanks for sharing your life stories with us.
    Much Love & Many Blessings to U Mel, Mo, & Cairo❣️

  • @princessresonna4192
    @princessresonna4192 Před 2 lety +2

    I appreciate Mo's perspective on how difficult it is for a man to practice celibacy. Sadly, there isn't enough discussions on the Christian man perspective about celibacy. Great videos! You both gave me something to think about. You have a new subscriber.

  • @YouTubeUzername
    @YouTubeUzername Před 3 lety +151

    Her hair is ALWAYS laid.

  • @istyleliz
    @istyleliz Před 3 lety +3

    Wow i don't know why god has brought this beautiful married couple in my path. I definitely been watching all your videos. Marriage is hard work I do believe I need to go back to my roots 🙏🏾 and pray like my Nana used to say pray and don't worry. The lord hears your prayers.
    Great video

  • @heidirougier4113
    @heidirougier4113 Před 3 lety +10

    That’s why I don’t believe in long engagements....

  • @Pgschool37
    @Pgschool37 Před 3 lety +14

    Abstinence for me is a way of life. Not really noticeable unless I start comparing myself to others that don't choose to do it.

  • @cherylprice6885
    @cherylprice6885 Před 3 lety +4

    Was awesome topic keep on letting god use you and your husband a lot of young ladies and men need that words. I love you and your beautiful family🥰

  • @deidramcalpin6339
    @deidramcalpin6339 Před 3 lety +2

    Your candor is redemptive, as was the act
    of actually praying on line. Thanks for sharing.
    Be Blessed

  • @shalomcentral8117
    @shalomcentral8117 Před 3 lety +8

    "Some people will reside I'm your past more then you do" A WORDDD

  • @angelslovelybraiders2366
    @angelslovelybraiders2366 Před 3 lety +6

    Thanks so much for the prayers🙏🏾❤️ I touch and agree in Jesus Matchless Name🙏🏾

  • @AuthetiQLOVEAcademy-1
    @AuthetiQLOVEAcademy-1 Před 3 lety +7

    I pray that part 1 & part 1 goes viral. Mo you are awesome!!! Don't let the good one get away💜 (from an old lady ~ Apostle April)

  • @kaylacuff1918
    @kaylacuff1918 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for praying for us; we appreciate it! Love you all! ❤️🙏

  • @ashleighdeane8044
    @ashleighdeane8044 Před 3 lety +8

    Beautiful family. Thanks for sharing and being open. Praying that God continues to bless you guys, higher heights.🙏🏿❤

  • @anisiasimpson2924
    @anisiasimpson2924 Před 3 lety +5

    I appreciate y’all transparency. Definitely encouraging knowing there are other people/ couples that waited. Love the handshake!! Patiently waiting on my person.

  • @kefiki2049
    @kefiki2049 Před 2 lety +1

    Prayer still working a year later !! felt the Holy Spirit cover me. So warm. Loved this message so encouraging and full of wisdom. ❤ thank you for your obedience and vulnerability bc it is still helping many years later.

  • @chebyhocutt9055
    @chebyhocutt9055 Před 3 lety +2

    That’s right….you know better you do better!! Look what amazing love you found by trusting and believing that God had something better for you!Cairo baby slow down you are growing so fast ❤️❤️😘!
    Lord continue to order Mel& Mo’s steps and thoughts that they may continue to honor your word!

  • @Acceptheavenshelp
    @Acceptheavenshelp Před 3 lety +7

    May God keep blessing your precious family and bless you with more babies !!

  • @jackiejackie2565
    @jackiejackie2565 Před 3 lety +4

    That's so great you both have that understanding of what you want and you didn't compromise proud of you cous and for being so truthful 👍🙏

  • @Taureea
    @Taureea Před 3 lety +5

    God is no respecters of persons. What He did for one He can do for another!. That prayer? Whooaa FIRE! Thank you for sharing your testimony guys! God surely does honour obedience!. God bless you three!:)

  • @tinamatsimella5806
    @tinamatsimella5806 Před 3 lety +2

    Ah, what a blessing to see a modern couple in the Lord. When you two pray together, it melts my heart. I pray for a man who knows God and in turn he will know me. God bless. I really enjoy your videos 🧡

  • @flowersbuds69
    @flowersbuds69 Před 3 lety +8

    God bless you both I'm so very proud of you, May the lord continue to bless you and your family. I've seen a lot in my 52 years, so I know when God has shown favor on a family.🙌🙏

  • @dorethabrown-simpson3632
    @dorethabrown-simpson3632 Před 2 lety +1

    Blessings from Queens, NY to you and your family. My late husband and I followed the same path when we met in 1995 which strengthened the bonds in our marriage for more than 22 years. Holiness still works!

  • @215February
    @215February Před 3 lety +3

    Mel and Mo Cairo is growing up quick and he is a little man we thank you for letting us see him today luv Sharon❤️

  • @fajon2
    @fajon2 Před 3 lety +2

    Amen and Amen. Thank you so much for being unashamedly transparent in your beautiful walk with the lord. That prayer was so on point

  • @iriswhite1220
    @iriswhite1220 Před 3 lety +6

    You guys are so amazing and inspiring. I'm so glad I came across your channel. Congrats on your beautiful addition to your family. Prayer is huge in everything we do, All things are possible through God. It's hard at times but it's not Impossible. Take care and I'll keep watching. Love the Honesty you both have.

  • @gabbyhunter3353
    @gabbyhunter3353 Před 3 lety +4

    I don't ever comment on any CZcams videos but I needed this thank you

  • @LadyBC305
    @LadyBC305 Před 3 lety +2

    I just discovered y'all last night, and I'm really grooving on y'all content. I'm going to go back to watch all of your videos. But I definitely want to say thank you for your transparency and encouragement about abstinence. It's beautiful to fellow young adults who believe in Christ and are unashamed to discuss this topic. May God continue to bless your beautiful family and thank you so much for your service ❤😊

  • @keciaanderson6317
    @keciaanderson6317 Před 3 lety +2

    That was very loving of your Mother in law to send you flowers on your first Mother's day.

  • @brendab2214
    @brendab2214 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you. I have a daughter coming out of college .Praying for u guys to continue this message that transit all the way to htown

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 Před 3 lety +3

    You can pray Mel. Amen. Keep the volgs coming and baby Ciaro is so cute.

  • @215February
    @215February Před 3 lety +4

    Mel l really want to thank you for that prayer today May god continue to bless you and Mo and Cairo luv y’all 🌹❤️Sharon

  • @Vannie52
    @Vannie52 Před 3 lety +2

    This is my first time seeing you two and your such a blessing. Thank you for being transparent to and for other’s, so they can see and know that this is possible.

  • @tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238

    ✊🏾❤️❤️❤️✊🏾great to see a married love message. Had to unsubscribe to a upcoming popular YT channel because his message women and men should both sleep around while looking for the right one. That’s when I knew I had to disconnect from the messenger glad to hear your channel and don’t mind my daughter listening to your testimony. Great work I’m about on 3 plus year celibate and am good. Life long if need be it is what it is. A family that prays together stays together. Ase

  • @annieouseley2955
    @annieouseley2955 Před 3 lety +3

    Mel and Mo zi just love u both, a great example for other young people u are both on the right part.🥰

  • @imblessed7855
    @imblessed7855 Před 3 lety +5

    WOW!
    That little fella is so handsome, he looks like his dad👍👍👍

  • @Honeyluvssteph
    @Honeyluvssteph Před 3 lety +10

    Thank you for the prayer!

  • @EmmeIsNotHere
    @EmmeIsNotHere Před 3 lety +2

    Such a beautiful family. Loving your energy. Sending positive vibrations your way and wishing you many blessings to come. 🤍

  • @taetwy4026
    @taetwy4026 Před 3 lety +8

    Amen, Amen and Amen! Thank you for your prayers Kang family they are truly appreciated! Also thank you for showing love and appreciation to your subscribers (aka fans, family, brothers and sisters in Christ!) Your family is loved and appreciated as well especially for your openness, honesty and example of Godly principals and values in action without any moral judgement of others!!! You rock! May God continue to bless you all with overflowing blessings that you may continue to pour into others in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! Amen!...

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  Před 3 lety

      Amen! Thank you for covering our family🙏🏼

  • @hmblf687
    @hmblf687 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for that prayer 🙏. It was powerful and I receive it.

  • @ekdaufin1485
    @ekdaufin1485 Před měsícem

    Love how Mo says bless you when Cairo sneezes! 😂❤

  • @yvonneulaiwi8403
    @yvonneulaiwi8403 Před 3 lety +3

    Encouraged to hear your story and blessed with your prayer.

  • @cherylprice6885
    @cherylprice6885 Před 3 lety +4

    I love it yes keep on mel let the Holy spirit lead you and use you on this platform. That

  • @llou648
    @llou648 Před 3 lety +4

    You're humble and great family which i like,please stay together no matter what

  • @CreshaNicole_DNP
    @CreshaNicole_DNP Před 3 lety +3

    🗣 Mel’s prayer!!!!!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @nicolemcmurray3548
    @nicolemcmurray3548 Před 3 lety +9

    Cai Cai is beautiful. You are all beautiful. New subscriber here from the Ca/Central Valley/Yay Area.

  • @JacxNKay_
    @JacxNKay_ Před 3 lety +7

    That prayer though 🥺🤧

  • @aubainmc
    @aubainmc Před 2 lety +1

    Your testimony is amazing. And your skin & makeup……flawless sister 😉

  • @mobe494
    @mobe494 Před rokem

    Such a blessed couple raising a godly family! So grateful that I was led to this channel. 🤗 Pray was BANGING chcia! 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  Před rokem

      Thank you so much & welcome to the channel!

  • @patriciahendrickson4952
    @patriciahendrickson4952 Před 3 lety +1

    WOW!!!. I thank God for a saved couple that tells the truth, and allows God to move in their lives. It encourages my soul and God allowed me to see this after I got out of my prayer closet and worship. I'm sending your info to my daughters, granddaughter and 2 grandsons . I'm going to speak with my Pastor about you. His Bless and keep you and your beautiful son. 🔥🙏

  • @motherantioch-pomona1610
    @motherantioch-pomona1610 Před 3 lety +1

    You two are a blessing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😭😭 THANK YOU FOR THE AWESOME PRAYER! Brought tears 😭 #Waiting4myKing 💙

  • @Patericee
    @Patericee Před 3 lety

    You are correct when it comes to sharing that connection with the person you love. I found my Love at 22 yrs of age and we have been going strong for 16 yrs now. Keep your bond and strength in each other and our heavenly father and please show us more of Cairo.....cutie patootie

  • @lettscott5549
    @lettscott5549 Před 3 lety +2

    Yes praying a lot and being determined that you are committed to build yourself🙂

  • @rcme0000
    @rcme0000 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow I’m taken aback from that beautiful prayer.

  • @shannonangel3980
    @shannonangel3980 Před 3 lety +1

    He is a big boy! Healthy baby. Thanks for the honest video.

  • @talitaallam9379
    @talitaallam9379 Před 3 lety +1

    i am loving this channel....im a virgin and i have told myself i will be until marriage and at times i get lonely honestly especially when i see friends in happy and sexually active relationships plus im in college so i feel like this channel was sent to me for a reason and so i appreciate you both.

  • @valeriewatson6674
    @valeriewatson6674 Před 3 lety

    Yes , prayer is the answer to keep you in your mind and body . Thank you for walking in truth

  • @denisemccoy6683
    @denisemccoy6683 Před 3 lety

    I really enjoy your show, its refreshing to see young adults married and not afraid to speak and pray in public. Beautiful family

  • @JoMarie07Augustine
    @JoMarie07Augustine Před 3 lety

    This is my journey right now, with a lot of prayer. Thank you guys for this. That prayer was confirmation of God's direction for me.

  • @msshawn4048
    @msshawn4048 Před 3 lety +2

    That prayer! 🙌🙏 Beautiful couple/family. Blessings....

  • @samonem7926
    @samonem7926 Před rokem

    Message was right on time in my walk with Christ! Loved it, thank you guys for sharing & being examples & being real! 🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @InsightfulGIFT
    @InsightfulGIFT Před měsícem

    Thank you for that prayer 🙏🏽 I know it was a blessing to many ❤

  • @alysha11226
    @alysha11226 Před 3 lety +1

    Who else bowed their head in prayer?