Loneliness
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- čas přidán 27. 12. 2022
- "Trilogy of Emotions"
*Movies:
• Blade Runner 2049
• The Place Beyond the Pines
• Fight Club
• Nightcrawler
• American Psycho
*Music: øneheart x reidenshi - snowfall
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I turned 21 last September, in the hospital. I spent a good 3 months in there. Lost an eye, and for three months I lost the ability to walk, eat or drink water due to an intestinal rupture. Before that I was struggling with the same meaninglessness in life. You can lose things that you don't even think you have. I'm not trying to preach but life can be a lot less miserable if you're grateful for having a strong body, food to eat and roof over your head. I hope you feel better, wherever you may be.
I hope you're alright and recovering well.
What happened?
From México i read your powerful words.
Hope you're recovering well brother
Rest easy mate, glad you're still here, what happened to bring you to hospital if I may ask?
literally me
except im not as charming, handsome, charismatic, and intelligent as any of them. just lonely.
@Zen2K4R Don't simply judge them by their looks, we don't know what's going on in their life.
+ bro
I’m all of these but intelligent lol
@@ToastedHeadcrab good for you
@@baseddepartment8721 sorry if I came off as rude
I am 28. Jobless for 4 years. Nothing to look forward to. Sometimes it feels like i cannot breathe. One day i hope i get out of this. One day
@itsmesuper 32 here, few months into my first actual job, i've been there as well, stay strong brother, you'll make it through
Same goes to me. 28 , without job. Still thinking about past time . Some day . We can get what we really want
Read the book Content inc my friends.
If it makes you guys feel better at 28 I was jobless and so depressed I was praying to die. I lived in my moms basement. Im 35 now with a decent job, bought a house last year and have friends and go to church now.
Its not over for yall yet. I still struggle alot but I am way better off than when I was 28.
You gotta take things 1 step at a time. Go to God for help. Start exercising. Take care of yourself the best you can. Get ANY job. It dont matter how crap it is. Start building your life 1 day at a time. Every journey begins with 1 step. Literally go outside and walk and get some fresh air.
Find a job,start going to the gym and your life will change ✊
loneliness is the beginning of a path, a path to eternal bliss.
AS THE HOURS PASS
Blade Runner 2049... a great movie
favorite
You guys should watch drive 2011, if you have not already.
@@RadiationVictim 👍
Why there isn't part 2
@@theevilwithintheory.medica1494 he dies in peace in the end for the good, i think its a good ending
I'm 22, Its been a year since many bad events happened to me. My dogs died and I had to bury them with my own hands. My girlfriend at the time dumped me which I later found out she also cheated on me with a minor and groomed them. My mom ended up getting colon cancer which added more depression in my life and to top it off I could not handle college due to pressure that I failed. But despite all that I still try to get up everyday while some days can be easier or harder you still have a reason to live which you should do your best to be happy and make yourself feel better
You got this shit bro
@@lukelsfpain7600 thanks bro I appreciate it
You need stoicism.
Sometimes it’s gotta to get dark so we can see the stars bro. You got this man, stay strong.
@@Littleloadedpart1 thank you brother I appreciate it
The more technological connectedness we've fed into this world, yet the more we starve in loneliness.
Agree with you!
Yesss so true
The rhythm of the scenes goes perfectly with that of the music, we can really feel all the hardship on a daily basis. The Doomers who die slowly ...
@Just Chill wtf
Sometimes the illusion is the happiest path.
😢
The red pill is worth it.
@@abhinavdino yes, we'll have to keep going. Even if we hate it. There is no better path.
@@thehauntedalt8682 we have to keep going.
@@eventhorizon88 yeah time really doesnt pause for anyone. I remember when my dad got cancer when i was 16 and for some reason it was like i thought all the tests and homework would just pause and let me greive but no i just had to keep going and keep it to myself. Life really doesnt stop for anyone
I'm about to be 21 and I'm 6 months in from my 4 year breakup and I've tried everything to change myself, quit weed, starting the gym, changed my mentality, found religion, saved money, became more outgoing and then this girl comes to be my co worker for the week since she's in town from college, very beautiful, we hit it off good and vibe well, had a night riding around and she kissed me, she ended up inviting me to go on a date for line dancing, never been and can't dance so I said yes, we end up going the end of the week before she leaves for college and I looked forward to it all week, we end up leaving early that morning and she picks up her friend and their bf for church, got bad vibes when she barely took any of it serious but oh well, we go back to her apartment and nap, she kisses me once more and we leave to go to the dance with her friend, turns out it's a nightclub with so much bs going on, I sit there all night watching her have fun trying not to ruin the moment, end up being there 6 hours and she barely bothers with me, calls guys she apparently knows over to dances, gets hit on every other minute etc, i felt more sidelined than I've felt in a long time and basically used. We head back to her apartment with her friend and they don't say one thing to me, while listening to their music and singing, I go in and just lay on the couch wanting to be home realizing she's a completey different person than I had thought I met and fell for, next morning no good morning nothing so she takes me home and I tell her be safe and go in knowing it's basically done with, she unadds me and tells her sister(my coworker) she can't hang around a buzzkill and I talk about my feelings too much. So it's eaten me up this past day, but in all it's a life lesson to realize I don't want a woman at all like that and I was stupid to immediately think she was something special for me. She's special, but not for me.
Anyways, loneliness walks with me quite a bit, I try not to think about it constantly and look to the future but it's always the littlest things that knocks us down on our feet the most. Best thing I can do is just focus on me, workout and save, I have the Marines in a few months and that's going to be a big deciding factor for my life moving forward. So I can only hope.
Anyways, just wanted to vent here with others who are on this path of life, weird how random videos like these help me cope the most with my emotions. I pray for you all to get through this, life's a scary cycle but we can't let it keep us going forever, got to find a way out and through to become more than the norm.
Stay strong Kings.
Mate, i've been there a lot in my teens. You know what I wish I would have done? Leave. You shouldn't have stayed there for this long. Hours in a club you obviously dislike, and then 6 hours at their place? Leave people like this. It is not good for you, neither for them appearantly. You shouldn't give up on woman, but give up on going out with people like this, and sticking around. The moment you feel like it is not your scene, just leave. Who gives a crap about them, it is your time.
@@PawelSlab thanks man a lot, and trust me I wanted to, she was my ride and I was in a city far away from my hometown so i had to deal with it. By the end of the night around 2am she was with a few guys goofing around and asked me if I wanted Waffle House, I said that's fine, bc in my head it's better than this place, but I used the bathroom before we headed out and I came out and her, her friend and those guys she was talking to were gone and I asked the bouncer if a group had just came out and he said yes, I had her keys on me so I knew she couldn't have left but I walked to the car and it was just her and her friend in it and I said did you forget about me or something lol, and she said oh we thought you came to the car but they didn't bother to check once they realized I wasn't out there. Nonetheless we didn't speak another word for the rest of the night and morning after, she took me home and I've just realized it was a learning lesson for what I want in life out of a woman and what I enjoy in life. She unadded me and all so it's been out of sight out of mind since. I don't put it on all women, there's definitely a lot of women like that though. But I want a woman who shares my morals and values in life.
@@planetofkai she was never meant for you. glad you getting over it quickly bro
@@PawelSlab that's the greatest advice because I had similar experiences too and in the end I learnt what you just said. So yes just leave lol
@@planetofkai you’ll find it man, or maybe not. What matters is that you feel good alone, in a life you want where you are comfortable to invite someone you are willing to share it with, and not use as a foundation
Not wanted by anybody. Not loved. 31 years old. I shoul've amounted to something already. Instead there is nothing. Life is a lie.
as JP once said.. loneliness is a path to insanity..
but why bother right..? when we're treated like a one in a million in these times
Dude it has always been that way. Society treat their people as indispensable. It is the people that surround us, the people we love, that make us feel special. Just go to go out and find them. Now a days people want to experience life through their phone. They want to experience the emotional bonding of physical touch through a screen.
search embrace masculinity and reject modernity on youtube
It's all about beauty brother
All things are related into that:
Relationships when all women look for the handsome man to mate with
Job where tall handsome guys are always listened
Music where most singers attract their sheeps by appearance
Family where they know which product is inferior and which one is the best
Business/Selling/Marketing all trying to sell and appeal the masses with Beauty to make more money
It's all designed this way and if u're here where u are today , treated like that , it's all based on appearance
@@tedishijaku8096 appearance plays too big of a part in the current world i agree with that. But far from all of it. I think you are too blackpilled. Also you can actually do something about it atleast a bit if your facial structure (with mewing and good posture) and fix body with working out. But yes good genetics and healthy upbrining will sadly beat even the most hard working people when it comes to attractiveness
JP is also an defender of zionism, like MrCherry said, it has always been this way. Nothing changes, just your perspective getting manipulated by your surroundings.
I feel this on a whole other level, I've never felt so damn alone ever in my life, no friends, no lover, no relatives, but for some reason I thrive in it. Im learning so much about what life is truly about.
no you don't zlawg
@@eikhvitnov7159 you are not a fucking cactus, you are the all singing all dancing crap in the world
🖤
as long as you are good with yourself , you can never be lonely.
@Just Chill i love being lonely sometimes and just sit to think with myself. But i cannot truly relate cause ive never been really lonely im blessed with good people around me. So i kind of understand what you are saying.
Better to be lonely than surrounded by plastics.. 😔
Damn. No having no friends kinda makes me want to end it all, but I’m still trying to get through this pain
Its funny.. You feel like you dont exist.. Every day feels like a dream... And your the only one who is lonely...while others aren't...
Get your power in loneliness my dudes, loneliness is liberating, and you can either get out of it loving and respecting yourself or hating yourself and others. There is power on both paths, but virtue only on first
Very deep words!
Not everyone has that mental capacity to do it themselves they fall in deeper
I recently started using my loneliness and anger to fuel my workouts
When I feel angry or something I stop myself and start burning that energy by working out
People just gotta find what vents better for them
So true brother ‼️‼️
Very stoic. Well said, King.
Or you can...shut up(I am not trying to be rude, I just don't know how to say it other way) and take in your next breath without thinking of other stuff and go on with the same life or different (it depends on you)... And then, slowly but eventually you'll reach the end...
I was married for nearly 20 years before it ended. After that, I was alone for the next 11 years. It gets lonely sometimes, but it doesn't compare to the loneliness I felt during the last 5 years of my marriage. Being married and feeling alone is infinitely worse.
I'am 23 and realised that spreading emotions won't work for long time. If you feel like nothing happening in your life then don't worry just do the basic stuf in my case I eat, sleep, study, do my basic works, take care of granny and repeat. That's it.. but inner me I feel lonely empty and cold but I know this is not gonna last for much time.. change has to come. Just keep doing what you doing rn..
We’re too young for having such boring and difficult live. I don’t even know if it’ll change
Good times are to come, wish we all the best..
Find you a good woman, life partner.
I've become increasingly paranoid of others and yet simultaneously crave true human connection. It's a vicious cycle
Me...?
In all seriousness, past and unresolved trauma will do that to a man. I've become in this cycle that I don't trust anyone. I crave human connection and true intimacy, but you're loved for the value you provide and nothing else. The moment I find someone who cares for me as a friend, I turn them away because they're subjectively toxic to me. What a cruel joke life can be at times
I know Ryan Gosling can't be lonely in life like this today, because he's an A list actor and he's in a relationship. But to portray that kind of loneliness on screen and have it be this believable and relatable, he must have went through hell when he was younger. He has to be tapping into something real. And judging by his bio on wikipedia think there is some truth to that.
And if there's truth to that then there's a way out. He found it, others can too.
I'm here because I really like this song. But I'm discovering there are a lot of lonely young men in these comment sections. My bros, loneliness hurts but it'll make you strong. As you grow older, the loneliness becomes a shield and a strength. Be strong, or not, but endure and it will get better.
@Just Chill Projection much? Don't tell me how I feel. I have good relationships with my friends and family. But there are times when I am alone but I don't feel lonely because I've grown and have learned to be alone without being lonely. Trust trying to help the young men out there to be strong and be okay to be by themselves. Rushing into relationships, be it romantic or not, with the wrong people simply because you are "lonely" is a much worse option. People will only pay you attention and be more receptive around you when they know you are strong and not needy.
So true bro ‼️ im glad u posted this comment 🙏 NO PLAN B
Only family. No one will love you more than your parents.
You Forgot Travis Bickle ,from Taxi driver (1976) . He was God's lonely man .
1976.
“Being alone for awhile is dangerous. It's addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people anymore.” -Tom Hardy
bullshit
Being alone and being lonely are two different things
"Literally me"
Keep it up buddy great job you are inspiring a generation
prob the best thing on earth is this, im watching this for an hour now
Piece of absolute art!
amazing sound!
What a constant and so sharp pain😢
Some times I feel lonely it's so insane
U are not alone g 🙏🙏
Hard past, hard present and i think a hard future. That's my life. Even a Therapy, pills or a great girlfriend i love with the bottom of my heart can't change it. Something is terrible wrong with me and i hope so much, that one day i am able to figure out, what it is. There are days i am not even able to take a shower or make some food. But i still try to fight against my depression and i hope that one day, i will just be happy.
That’s how I feel right now man I actually feel bad for this guy I am always a lonely person😞
I would just like to thank the survivors and people that have triumph over the struggle and pain
You’ve done an amazing job with each and every one of yourselves, and I also would like to say thank you. I feel slightly better for all of your input guys
Great edit bravo
just wanted you by my side
Just in my fucking life
I am not lonely. Even though, I have no one in my life, like literally 0. Just sometimes I get this feeling... Feeling of emptiness, like something is missing. I though I really need to get close to people, friends, girl. But no I can't stand them, can't be with a girl more than a week. Welp, maybe I just haven't met the right people yet. It's just this empty feeling...
I really relate to what you are and it's nothing to be worried about we are strong stay positive
We got this lads, we will find a way through
Yess ✊✊ no plan b
For you I was a chapter, for me you were the whole book
beautiful
Most Sigmas are just sad, thats becoss they respect everyone
Blade runner 2049 is so sad because in the end…he didn’t achieve anything, change anything.
He let a father meet his daughter, you don’t have to be the biggest change in the world to make a difference.
The whole concept of the movie is that the hero doesn’t matter, however he still made a difference in saving deckerd. Tells people that even tho they don’t matter (which none of us do in the big scheme of things) we can still make a difference
he died a human, that's the main thing
It's not what how others view your importance, it's how you view your own importance. He's just as human as everyone else, and his actions only changed his life. But he was considered a machine, incapable of being human or following his own path, but in the end he did just that.
It's part of the larger theme of general demoralization.
You think it's a coincidence every other movie is like this now? You think it's a coincidence they're revisioining Tolkien's works with the explicit mindset of raping the original works to fit "the narrative"? Or that entire generation's childhood heroes are brought back as bitter and demoralized incels like in the Star Wars series? Not to mention gutting one of the longest running movie franchises - James Bond - of its soul? It's all done on purpose.
watching this at 6 am haven’t slept yet and don’t think i will
Dude that intro was epic, Joi whispering into his ear gave me the chills
its okay to be alone takecare of yourself be grateful to life.
to the person reading this : i hope happiness stick with you always and may you attract people that are good for your soul
thanks budd i hope it helps ......
As guys the worst thing is u cant talk to anyone about it , it’s a silent pain we endure.. stay strong , we will win in the end 💪🏻
literally me...
In order to die empty you need to live fully, even tho you may have everything going on in your life, that feeling you're feeling is not emptiness, it's fullness. An unspent life. Live fully and you may find yourself alone at night smiling just because you're glad to be alive.
Someone needs to check up on Ryan gosling man
I know you're not suppose to idolize others but it's really hard with Luke Glanton. Favorite character and my favorite movie. Made a big ass painting of this character... good times 2016
It’s not gonna be easy and it may seem like forever but it will get better just keep your head up and work on yourself; read, workout, get a hobby/pick up a skill, I know it’s scary and it may hurt but put yourself out there I’m rooting for you
thanks, I needed this. It's hard lately
thank you for the kind message, i needed this🥲
Yeah, keep grinding, it's all be great when you hit 60, trust me brah
I never realised how sad and lonely I was until just the other week when I found some old photos. They were from a brief moment in my life when I was actually happy and was enjoying myself. My seven year old daughter comes into the room and sees the photos and says, "Daddy, you actually look happy." From that moment on I have reflected on the last 30 years of my life and realised I have not had a moment where I felt genuinely happy.
Ive been this for like months after two of my dogs died and a close friend of mine which i met .. online took her own life , miss them so badly...i used to promised her that i let her listen to my voice while singing...
😢 im sorry to hear this man
I´m going turn 21 in may. I can't deny that supposedly that I have good things, like a mother or my brothers. I live in Spain, I'm in university and well living in order. But I don't know why, I feel empty, I feel alone in the nights, I really don't have fun..... I don't know the reason, but I have a twin that is the same like me but he is the other face of the coin, he have friends, he is popular between girls, and he is loved. I'm not jealous, I'm happy for him, but in the bottom of my heart I feel alone and expensable. I think that no one has really been in love with me or who loves me, I have always felt it. I stay almost all the time alone. I really want to change my heart and feel complete
U have the power to change your life bro 🙏
Really Sad
Loneliness hits different when u want that one person to come back who made u feel wanted but u know they are never going to.
zooning out looking at this
so real
A Man's never lonely, as long as he has his principles
Cope
The only ones that can see past this hell are the ones that keep moving forward - eren Yeager
Literally me
literally me
They literally me fr
I know, I know what you feel...
It is time to accept some of us will not have their dreams fulfilled. Keep the broken dreams hidden so we can cherish the moments we had chasing them. It is time to become real men who accept the reality and are able to be a support for the people who accepted us. It is time to disappear into darkness. We had our minutes of fame. Now we need to become a monsters so the people who we love can have theirs too.
sorry what? I'm not giving up on my dreams. No way, don't let darkness surround you life is magic, you just have to open your eyes
@@dinamita2870 As a man in this society it is inevitable to stand firmly on the ground and accepting the reality.
I have not given up on my dreams. But as a man I have realized that with my educational background and social status I will not be able to fully reach for my dreams and after reaching it, the financial benefits will not be enough to cover my cost of living and lives and the dreams of people who are important to me. Eventually I would be made to work myself until I get old without improving anyone's situation. Therefore I have made a decision that no matter how hard it is I will learn how to increase my financial and social status regardless if I like it or not and then provide to people who have stood next to me. After that loneliness have become as a part of my life, but regardless, for past two years I was able to build up two small businesses, develop communication skills, and learned to write and speak in English language. My dreams do not matter anymore, but seeing someone who is dear to me have their dream fulfilled is my top priority. My eyes are now opened.
@@dinamita2870 Pardon me but regarding the nickname and the photo, I am assuming and it is highly probable that you might be a young woman. To clarify, women play a different and much more important role in society and there is nothing wrong if you have your dreams and still chasing them. Assuming by this some man is or has fulfilled his duty very well.
@@croacc8648 well, if that's your life purpose, then it's perfectly fine. I just don't find meaning of life if loneliness and darkness consumes me. I want to provide for others too but I also want to acomplish atleast some of my dreams. I don't think it has to be black or white. Maybe when I get older I'll think differently but as for now that I'm still 17 I can't see myself not pursuing my dreams in the future.
@@croacc8648 what do you mean by " some man has fulfilled his duty very well". Can you give me examples please, I just find this interesting hahah
I have everything in life.. a great job.. good health.. roof over my head.. although my girlfriend situation is pretty messed up but I have accepted it and stop expecting anything from her.. still I feel like somethings eating me from inside.. I wanna start working out again as it helps me .. but everyday when I am alone.. it just doesn't feel right.. I hope guys here can understand me.. I hope I will be happy one day..
Start working out bro ‼️‼️ things will fall in place
Videos like this make me wanna smoke a cigarette in slow motion.
This music is suicidal
I'm turning 18 on 22nd jan but still feeling alone in this teen age i faced a lot of probs in this age
Loneliness has made me stronger . I have come to embrace it and enjoy it . The only negative about being lonely for a long amount of time is you tend to not want to be social at all . Nowadays people Suck anyway !!!
Loneliness:((
I'm not going to be an advocate of the "literarily me" people on the internet, that line of thinking is unoriginal and bad.
What I will say though, is the emotions portrayed by these characters... they're relatable. I feel like I can relate to how they feel, especially the frustration and helplessness of it all.
Excellent edit bro.
Keep at it my fellow lonely brothers and sisters. We will see another dawn. Then another, and then another!
That’s all we can do. Live to see another day.
That's a great line.
Grandiose
I thought my life was miserable but reading all these comments make me realize to be grateful to every little thing and moment around you..
I still feel empty everyday, sometimes you just really can't fill that hole inside you're soul friends nor family make it better girlfriends don't either I try talking to people especially family and whenever I tell them a problem I have they just look at me not of pity not of love just like they don't care and then they just turn it into a lesson and what's truly ironic. I find myself telling people online more than I have told anyone in my life because I know I truly know we wouldn't ever meet.
Loneliness is everywhere and us men face them more than anyone else.....l just turned 22, still have no job yet, no gf, no close friend not even a close family member.....feels like lm a burden in fact lm my mom cleared it very well.... which is you know very uneasy when you don't even have ur parents by your side
Real
I fell bad knowing I am going to end up like this.
"Oh! you don't even smile"
Well what's there to smile in life 🚬😤
I was often left alone during socializing moments, I saw my best friend to get with the girl who I always wanted, I saw my friends say that I'm a loser in front of girls just to make an impression, in class I was the one who said anything always made people laugh even when he said something serious, in my group I was always the one who never got get with anybody, who had shitty clothes, horrible hair and was ugly. I was the one who helped everyone, but no one helped me. From this I understood that in the end the solitude which, as much as it hurts, saves us from the bastardy of people
There are big differences between feeling lonely and being alone.
When the person for whom you left everyone leaves you and there is no one with you at last
wow
Dark minds of the truly lonely
Even paradise is a prison when you can’t leave
❤
I don't know what to write, but my days are very bad. I hope they will be good in the coming days😞✨
I hope so , evrething he will be go nothing stay the same 🤍
REAL
Subbed. Get to 1k already bro
Thank u)
Idk if anyone will care but i always cone back to this music for peace but sometimes i feel sad listening to it couple of months i broke up wiv my emotionally abusive ex and later realising she was a narcissist ive been in so much pain but for some reason ive realised a lot i dont need anyone im fine if im alone, no drama, no hassle from anyone just me getting to live my life and live in my own world
I'm about to turn 18 in less than a month. I don't want to see my family, I just want to spend time with my friends and have fun chilling outside. I just had a fight with mom. She says I'm ungrateful for all the things she does, and maybe she's right about that, but I just feel empty. I haven't had a good birthday since I turned 11 yo. It's all false faces, false reactions to make my parents "happy" because I lived one year more. And those kind of fights makes me want to stop everything. I don't want to push it anymore, I don't want more fights where she says I'm ungrateful and she's always the bad guy. I just wanna rest and forget everything. I don't want to live like this anymore. Been having these bad thoughts since 2020, and are getting worse ;(
Stay strong man ✊✊
So sad
Solitude vivifies, isolation kills.
Couldn't say it better 🤟
27 and I was absolutely convinced my fate was to face this life alone but then our eyes met and I always knew I would know her when I saw her…
they are literally me
Some people have meanings in their life that why they dont feel lonely when u lost everything then u feel lonely if u know what i mean if u cant achieve ur dreams ur alone
True ✊ No plan b
I'm one of those people realized what's a dream and fantasy
I'm 16 years old but i'm fighting thing that a man would give up for it I think that I need help but I don't how to tell my family or my friends. Be grateful for what you have
Yeah man