Your Unapologetic Era | Don't Apologize for Being Great & Wanting More

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
  • Each stage of life is going to require a different energy from you. In certain stages You’re going to need an energy that is calmer patient and steady and in other stages you’re going to need that driven, determined, all gas no breaks energy. When you reach the stage where you decide you want to be great, you’re going to need unapologetic energy.
    Because to be great, you can’t be unsure. You can’t kind of want it. You can’t be concerned about who’s offended by your greatness or your desire for greatness. You can’t be concerned about who thinks you deserve it or who thinks you don’t deserve it. You have to be able to say I said what I said I want what I want and I’m going after its period. If that sounds like where you are in life right now. If the regular isn't cutting it anymore, if the level you’re at is no longer satisfactory to you, you may just be ready for your unapologetic era.
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Komentáře • 523

  • @TheFeminineUniverse
    @TheFeminineUniverse  Před 5 měsíci +143

    What have you done or what are you doing that you're unapologetically proud of? Go ahead and brag a little! 🥂💕
    EDIT: _Wow_ While I completely expected to hear about some awesome achievements; this is just above and beyond! I am SO proud of each and every one of you. I'm also even more convinced that we are building the right community here; women who are about growth, elevation and making things happen! I'm working to get the next few videos out to you, but I had to take a minute to recognize, applaud and salute you incredible women 💕

    • @biancahardison
      @biancahardison Před 5 měsíci +21

      I created my business last year for car rentals in Dallas on Turo. I'm now an all-star host. It is slowly growing, but still working on it and trying to grow our fleet. Thank you for all you do!

    • @Towanda-xq2xg
      @Towanda-xq2xg Před 5 měsíci +18

      I am becoming a Conscious Billionaire, investing my money wisely, using my money to make the world a better place, while enjoying the journey! Let's go! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @DanysDollHouse
      @DanysDollHouse Před 5 měsíci +23

      I’m learning Spanish, just got promoted at work, have been consistently working out 6+ months, stopped drinking and won’t drink again until July, stopped smoking in the mornings constant prayers all day reading the Bible in the morning just completed a fast and received sooo much instruction just soooo much progress I’m sooo grateful so proud and so happy this video came up today this was divinely coordinated for sure

    • @fulltang85
      @fulltang85 Před 5 měsíci +10

      I love your videos! They are so positive and motivating and I just wanted to say thank you!

    • @rbags934
      @rbags934 Před 5 měsíci +10

      Learning to drive ❤

  • @TheLeslieMichelle
    @TheLeslieMichelle Před 5 měsíci +617

    I'll be 11 years clean in my sobriety from alcohol on St. Patrick's Day this year. AND, I never relapsed, and I quit cold-turkey. For anyone struggling, you can beat it, just believe in yourself.

    • @etkaakova7390
      @etkaakova7390 Před 5 měsíci +15

      I'm so proud of you 🤎✨️🥹

    • @cherissewilliams8748
      @cherissewilliams8748 Před 5 měsíci +11

      Proud of you too! This is a huge accomplishment 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @TheLeslieMichelle
      @TheLeslieMichelle Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@cherissewilliams8748 Thank you so much!

    • @TheLeslieMichelle
      @TheLeslieMichelle Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@etkaakova7390 Thank you very much, I appreciate that. ☺️

    • @Lindamorena
      @Lindamorena Před 5 měsíci +4

      You did that hun ❤. Be proud of yourself.

  • @wileyann9449
    @wileyann9449 Před 5 měsíci +295

    I got a job with benefits and I’m living on my own 😊Starting over at 54

    • @taradavis5970
      @taradavis5970 Před 4 měsíci +7

      Congratulations on your reset!! You got this!!

    • @wileyann9449
      @wileyann9449 Před 4 měsíci

      @@taradavis5970 ❤️

    • @chelsaebriana
      @chelsaebriana Před 4 měsíci +6

      You got this! It'll be better than you can even imagine!!

    • @obengjemima6477
      @obengjemima6477 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Wow!You’ve done well

    • @rosep4890
      @rosep4890 Před 4 měsíci +1

      May God bless you 🙏

  • @Prettysurgtechbabe
    @Prettysurgtechbabe Před 5 měsíci +371

    At the age of 40, I went back to school to become a Surgical Technologist! I’ll be done in June of this year and I’m so excited! I started my clinical rotations about 3 weeks ago and it’s been great so far!

    • @yanis80
      @yanis80 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Congratulations! I know how you feel! I'm graduating in March at the tender age of 43🤗

    • @yanis80
      @yanis80 Před 5 měsíci +5

      Congratulations! I know how you feel! I'm graduating in March at the tender age of 43🤗

    • @BlackDollBabyxoxo
      @BlackDollBabyxoxo Před 5 měsíci +7

      That’s awesome. I’m 38 and I decided to go back to school so that I can take the exam to become a CPA.

    • @farrahforever0210
      @farrahforever0210 Před 5 měsíci +2

      You go girl 🎉

    • @luckyjasss8466
      @luckyjasss8466 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Congratulations dear!!!

  • @annebrower3241
    @annebrower3241 Před 5 měsíci +207

    I married a kind, high-value man. I let him take me to Europe for our honeymoon. And I’m allowing him to support me financially while I build my business. It has taken me many years to reach a point where I would allow anyone to take care of me. Learning how to graciously receive has been a game changer.

    • @symmonep9591
      @symmonep9591 Před 5 měsíci +15

      That is beautiful!!!🙌🏾Congratulations to you both!!!✨🥳

    • @annebrower3241
      @annebrower3241 Před 5 měsíci

      @@symmonep9591 Thank you! 💕

    • @jovo4676
      @jovo4676 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Good for you girl 🤗

    • @TheWolfeDen
      @TheWolfeDen Před 4 měsíci +5

      Relatable 💓

    • @natashachisenga9524
      @natashachisenga9524 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Am proud of you how did you manage to be In receiving era it's what am been struggling 😢

  • @pamelaatukunda2122
    @pamelaatukunda2122 Před 5 měsíci +84

    Things I am proud of
    1. I started taking much better care of my body
    2. Became more focused on growing my career
    3. Became more intentional about how I dress because it impacts how people view me
    4. Started budgeting and saving
    5. Left a bad relationship
    6. Became a more intentional mother
    7. Stopped focusing solely on my negative traits and started acknowledging the positive ones as well

  • @crazycatlady312
    @crazycatlady312 Před 5 měsíci +283

    This is the year I become a business owner. I claim it in the name of the Lord 🙌🏾👏🏾. I been doing my research being consistent and removing any distractions.

  • @mindshiftmami
    @mindshiftmami Před 5 měsíci +288

    I am proud that I lost over 20 pounds, quit my full time job and started my podcast and CZcams channel focused on shifting your mindset. My 2024 word is discipline and I am absolutely in my unapologetic era. Thank you Feminine Universe, you are such a gem and so helpful to those of us who don’t have many people around us physically with the same growth mindset ❤

    • @lenaolichwer8534
      @lenaolichwer8534 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Congratulations! I just subscribed to you, your style and thumbnails are ✨ immaculate ✨

    • @mindshiftmami
      @mindshiftmami Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@lenaolichwer8534 thank you so much! I really appreciate you 🥰🥰

    • @tiffniejackson7399
      @tiffniejackson7399 Před 5 měsíci +3

      I just subscribed too!! Looking forward to your content!! Congratulations!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @mindshiftmami
      @mindshiftmami Před 5 měsíci

      @@tiffniejackson7399 you ladies are amazing! Thank you so much 🥹🥰😘

    • @djai2968
      @djai2968 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Congrats to you and wishing you all the best. I just subbed too 😊. Call it happy coincidence or destiny but I’m also grateful for finding this space TFU has created. The energy from the comments is always uplifting. A refreshing change to the spite/degrading that’s sadly almost become the norm.
      Step into your greatness sis x

  • @mandisandlovu5515
    @mandisandlovu5515 Před 5 měsíci +202

    I take myself on solo dates and turn them into weekend staycations. I just come from a weekend where I booked myself into a riverside airbnb, got dressed up and watched a theater musical on Saturday and found a nice corner at a quiet coffee shop and had a cake and coffee this morning after check out and read a few pages from this month's bookclub read. Also... it's Sunday 5pm in South Africa and I'm currently doing my weekly meal prep 😊 And you've helped me ALOT, in becoming this girl Im becoming and I love her. She reads, meal preps, is serious about dental care, now has a signiture scent, wears pressed clothes, values her relationships, journals, has a hobby and is still working on becoming the very best version of herself... all thanks to you...❤ And hearing your voice is such a perfect start to my week... thank you so much for the information you share here. I really appreciate it❤

    • @lisasmith8202
      @lisasmith8202 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Love this!!!!

    • @eseo.9208
      @eseo.9208 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I would love to join a book club. I'm trying to hit a goal of a book a month and my tutor advised its practical to join a book club. Any recommendations?

    • @ndalomchunu5234
      @ndalomchunu5234 Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@eseo.9208 I love this, I would also love to be part of a book club. I'm in JHB 😊

    • @katrinabrown3561
      @katrinabrown3561 Před 5 měsíci +3

      That sounds blissful ❤

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 Před 5 měsíci +1

      U go girl 👏 💖

  • @QBreezey
    @QBreezey Před 5 měsíci +70

    I became a mom at age 39 to a beautiful daughter. Also, at age 14, i took it upon myself to study and learn Spanish on my own and I mastered it fluently by practicing with native speakers, reading books and watching programs.

  • @DarkIncognito
    @DarkIncognito Před 5 měsíci +136

    This year I’ve started journaling again, something I haven’t done since I was a teenager, I am about to be 42. I stopped journaling because a family member read my journal and joked about its content, I really think I was traumatized by the incident. I started writing recently and I felt such mixed emotions but I am so proud to be confronting this seemingly insignificant insecurity.

    • @annebrower3241
      @annebrower3241 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Journaling has carried me through many tough and lonely times. I tell people that I don’t know how I feel about something until I write it down. Journaling has a wonderful way of relaxing my mind enough to let my real thoughts and emotions surface. I’m so glad you rediscovered it 💕

    • @natashachisenga9524
      @natashachisenga9524 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Your journal shouldn't make sense to anyone but to you coz it's you who feels those emotions.. dont be traumatized just keep writing those emotions on a paper

  • @Juleyah1
    @Juleyah1 Před 5 měsíci +78

    I walked away from a toxic relationship and learned how to accept good things in my life without feeling like i don’t deserve them

    • @shyzForever
      @shyzForever Před 4 měsíci +3

      Yes Girl! Self love is the best

  • @ms.payton1458
    @ms.payton1458 Před 5 měsíci +102

    I am unapologetic about focusing on my school work to earn my bachelor's degree, sticking to my workouts, and reinventing certain parts of my life before I turn 40 next year! 👩🏽‍🏫🎉

    • @shyzForever
      @shyzForever Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yes keep to the books , I been in college and now it’s hard to balance things but you are divine and can achieve all things 🤍

    • @ms.payton1458
      @ms.payton1458 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@shyzForever Aww, thank you so much! Your message just made my day! It's been a little rough trying to balance things out, but things are coming along slowly but surely. Thank you again love 🤗❤

  • @YouLOVELeLe
    @YouLOVELeLe Před 5 měsíci +67

    3 months no drinking and my skin is starting to clear. It could also be because I feel less lazy and less depressed now that I am sober, so I actually try to care for my skin, but I’m excited, ladies! 🎉

  • @cindyschwartz6916
    @cindyschwartz6916 Před 5 měsíci +104

    This year I started my business And im embracing my feminine energy by taking time everyday to put on makeup and chose my outfits!! ❤❤❤

  • @TheLadyCheriNoir
    @TheLadyCheriNoir Před 5 měsíci +83

    I am unapologetic about my Growth Mindset, Re-Inventing myself to become my best self, & being extremely Introspective.

  • @RoseGoldenJen
    @RoseGoldenJen Před 5 měsíci +98

    God has completely turned my life around. He has been changing me from the inside out for the better. He took me from low-self esteem, abuse from myself as well as others, and living a sinful life to a life full of peace, His love and constant help, and has taught me how to take care and love myself again. He's given me goals to accomplish when I had none and has blessed me to do the things that I never could imagine I would do. I will brag about my God and all of the great things that He is and that He has done for me. And I do not doubt that He has used this channel to speak to me, as well as His other daughters... Unapologetically living a NEW life in CHRIST! With God, ALL things are possible.🎉🎉🎉

  • @elevatedflavor1
    @elevatedflavor1 Před 5 měsíci +10

    I walked away from a bad relationship after ten years. Very proud of myself ❤

  • @reshanajonezipporahmahalath
    @reshanajonezipporahmahalath Před 5 měsíci +66

    Thank you GOD for turning my life around in JESUS Name Amen 🤲🏽 😇 🤍 🕊

  • @maddyharvey7414
    @maddyharvey7414 Před 5 měsíci +78

    This may sound small or ordinary to some people, but at 24 I decided to stop pursuing an arts degree, despite that being my talent and area I’ve existed in since I was young. Yet, I have had a dream since I was young of being a biologist. I looked up to great scientists and researchers, but I thought I couldn’t do it because my math skills aren’t at the top of my skills list. But I’m very good at biology, at the experiments and the knowledge required. So I did it, I started pursuing a bachelor’s in science. And now I’m two years in, and even though I feel fear all the time when I have to do math, I now know that this is my path.

    • @natashachisenga9524
      @natashachisenga9524 Před 5 měsíci +5

      You are Great

    • @taradavis5970
      @taradavis5970 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Kudos to you to take that leap!! Don’t allow fear to hold you back. You are Great and can accomplish anything you set your mind to!

  • @kimberlyashford2748
    @kimberlyashford2748 Před 5 měsíci +57

    I’m making better food choices, and exercising. I’m losing weight and it feels so good. I’ve also been working on my tone and how I communicate with people and I can see a difference in how people are reacting to me. I am a work in progress and a masterpiece at the same time. Thank you Feminine universe. Cheers to you 🎉❤❤😊

  • @andreaviola8675
    @andreaviola8675 Před 5 měsíci +23

    I have completely changed my life thanks to TFU. I went from a wall flower to center stage (actually it turned out to be more of a "who the hell do you think you are" type of vibe but I am good with it). The hobby I am taking up this year is I am going to start beauty school and learn to do skin and nails. The goal for this year is to name my price, move in silence and leisurely hustle my way into something new. I will tell you TFU family I had to make a hard decision last week. I broke up with my bf. While I love him I want to be married and he was talking about moving in. No thank you-I am not that woman so I let him go. The breakup was hard but regret and settling would be harder. Maybe that is what I am proud of.

  • @TashyBabeCave
    @TashyBabeCave Před 5 měsíci +64

    I went to my first photo shoot to make my modeling comp cards. I was so nervous but I am so happy that I pushed past the fear and did it anyway🎉

    • @moon230686
      @moon230686 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Go girls! This fear was only a blockage to your success. I remembered I had the same fear when I did my photos shoot 5 years ago, and I will do it this year again!!

    • @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh
      @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh Před 5 měsíci +1

      Congratulations!!! That’s so exciting!! Be great and don’t compromise your values!

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 Před 5 měsíci +52

    This is my year with God, I claim it. ❤️

  • @NontokozoCele2008
    @NontokozoCele2008 Před 5 měsíci +38

    this year i have started studying consistantly and for my first maths test i got 50%, which to me is amazing, coz usually on my first test i would get around 20-30%🥰🥰🥰

  • @cherissewilliams8748
    @cherissewilliams8748 Před 5 měsíci +43

    Thank you for everything! You deserve all the flowers💐

  • @beacunningham
    @beacunningham Před 5 měsíci +56

    I got a good job that pays very well, I went on vacation to the ocean and ate some really good food, I take time for self care and started to work on my looks, started working out and eating healthier. Your videos inspire me so much to become the high value woman and the best me I can be. Thank you so much!❤

  • @jasminebrooks7239
    @jasminebrooks7239 Před 5 měsíci +20

    I just started grad school on 1/16 and celebrated my 34th birthday on 1/23. I feel so blessed 🎉

  • @lilbit_653
    @lilbit_653 Před 5 měsíci +43

    I’m finally being unapologetic me. I love focusing on myself after a long time of neglect 🥰

  • @omnixoxox
    @omnixoxox Před 5 měsíci +6

    I’ve left a toxic work environment and started a new career in tech! Left my toxic ex and met my fiance a month later! God is good! Let’s get it ladies ❤🎉

  • @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh
    @REBEKAHJOHNSON-lh6xh Před 5 měsíci +32

    So I aligned myself with a great man who is now essentially my big brother, he taught me most of what I know. Because I aligned myself with him, I am now free from an eight year toxic narc friendship that nearly killed me emotionally and spiritually. I am now applying to go back to school again for a masters in a field I never expected due to the encouragement of my big brother! I’m super excited and I can’t wait to see what God will do with it!

  • @yourentrepreneurjourney9136
    @yourentrepreneurjourney9136 Před 5 měsíci +40

    Thank you for your channel. I am allowing myself to learn and practice the soft life at age 66.❤🛐

  • @Site3special
    @Site3special Před 5 měsíci +11

    Not letting anyone shame me for being a good wife ,a mum who’s children rises and called blessed .

  • @Ang_Nicole
    @Ang_Nicole Před 5 měsíci +60

    Darling, would you please consider making a video on leaving behind the “victim mentality”? I feel like that would be so helpful. Love your channel ❤

  • @Akuajoy
    @Akuajoy Před 5 měsíci +16

    I’m so proud of the new me. A year ago I started a business which enabled me financially to get a degree. Now I am more disciplined. I workout, practice gratitude, cook my meals, drink my water and even take supplements for the first time in my entire life. I also play your videos every morning while I get ready for work that way I’m constantly reminded of who I am and what’s best for me. Thank you so much sis. You have no idea how your videos have impacted my life❤️

  • @KM-M1
    @KM-M1 Před 5 měsíci +17

    For the longest of times, I've poured onto others, ended up neglecting myself and dreams. But last year, I said No more! I went back to school in my late 30s, and did my Post Graduate Diploma and ended up passing with Distinctions! I'm proud of myself and the choices that I am making for myself, coz onwards from here, it's to the Top! It's Possible, with God on my side, who can be against me!

  • @paulinemontgomery971
    @paulinemontgomery971 Před 5 měsíci +12

    I started taking better care of ME in ALL areas that I can control! 😊I’m learning to love me more because I’m worth it!! Let’s go ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @jennykamara_
    @jennykamara_ Před 5 měsíci +35

    I am proud I applied to, and got accepted to university at 27 years old! I believe it’s never too late to get everything you want in life :) and I’m so happy to be a part of this community!

    • @mwiritu
      @mwiritu Před 5 měsíci +3

      You’ve got this!

    • @jilliannlove5871
      @jilliannlove5871 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Congratulations!❤ And exactly.

    • @jennykamara_
      @jennykamara_ Před 4 měsíci

      @@jilliannlove5871 Thank you 💕

    • @jennykamara_
      @jennykamara_ Před 4 měsíci

      @@mwiritu Thanks 💗💗

    • @SJ-ff2du
      @SJ-ff2du Před 4 měsíci +3

      Congrats girlie! I surprisingly just got into my dream doctoral program at 35 years old 😮. You got this girl!❤

  • @chrissysam7949
    @chrissysam7949 Před 5 měsíci +37

    I loved this video! I am definitely in my unapologetic error. I recently became a certified self confidence life coach & started my own Mary Kay business. I am on full speed ahead & am not stopping anytime soon! ❤

  • @soundbiteswithBlessie
    @soundbiteswithBlessie Před 5 měsíci +12

    I am so proud that I took the step to leave the job, which was stressing me out. It was the family business, and there was a lot of resistance, but I didn't have a life there. I felt stunted. Now, I have my own business, which is still small, but I have a lot of liberty to learn and grow and push my limits. I also have my own place, I no longer live under someone else's roof. Oh, the joyous liberty 😌

  • @FeralFeminine
    @FeralFeminine Před 5 měsíci +10

    I received a big raise at my company because I have been going above and beyond and willing to push my comfort zones with a diverse portfolio of projects. It’s really rewarding to have the work pay off!

  • @cherissewilliams8748
    @cherissewilliams8748 Před 5 měsíci +24

    I'm most proud of getting unstuck. Things were good but not great. I realized it was internal and re-framing my mindset has made all the difference. I'm just so much more intentional. Your channel has been a big part of that!! I've lost the 10lbs since your fitness video. I dress better and feel confident instead of awkward when people compliment me. I plan and write things down so much more. I make sure I smell amazing. My resting b---ch face has come a long way. I've put a lot of effort into being softer and kinder. So many people in my life say they see a difference in me, at work, at home and socially❤❤❤ I'm so excited for 2024!

    • @Keeev1513
      @Keeev1513 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I love this for you!! What great accomplishments 🎉😊

    • @natashachisenga9524
      @natashachisenga9524 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Am happy for you my darling

    • @cherissewilliams8748
      @cherissewilliams8748 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @Keeev1513 @natashachisenga9524 Thank you ladies! I want to get a little more friendly in the comments with this community. One area I still need a lot of work on is being a little more social😆

  • @zalbilly7159
    @zalbilly7159 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I have started to take care of myself...
    I started doing exercises...
    I started living an intentional life...

  • @mzb353
    @mzb353 Před 5 měsíci +8

    "It is going to be very hard for people who are starving to watch you feast!" You 👏🏽better 👏🏽say👏🏽 that👏🏽!!

  • @jessicawhittaker5878
    @jessicawhittaker5878 Před 5 měsíci +15

    I landed a nice corporate job after years of doing shift work (12s, nights, lots of OT). All of this seemed so far away 3-5 years ago after having my third back surgery which fused my L5-S1 lumbar spine at the age of 23. I will be 28 in April and I feel like a whole different person because my mindset shifted which allowed everything else to follow! Thank you for the words of motivation! I love your content 💖

  • @tms2225
    @tms2225 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I am resigning from a job that I loved but was draining. I’m finally putting myself first instead of my students so that I can serve others from a place of wholeness in the future. This is a very difficult decision but I am so proud of myself for making it. Shout out to all the ladies taking care of themselves. We got this!

  • @CaliBay88
    @CaliBay88 Před 5 měsíci +18

    I am proud I have learned to set boundaries and say no without feeling bad. This was very hard for me to do in the past. I honestly feel like a weight and added stressors have been lifted and released.

  • @Heyitsvickkk
    @Heyitsvickkk Před 5 měsíci +9

    Stopped being a people pleaser… but I’m still being kind 💕

  • @yanis80
    @yanis80 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Just found this channel and already binging on it. Love it! I am finally graduating in March after 20 years of on and off trying to get a degree! All by myself, no financial support from anyone and with two dogs. Working and studying like is going out of style!

  • @quillfairy
    @quillfairy Před 5 měsíci +10

    I finally walked away from a toxic relationship that has been holding me back for years. I’ve started exercising, and am eating more mindfully. Am focusing on education, and giving more energy to my creativity. Thank you for the inspiration! 🥳

  • @naominjenga6029
    @naominjenga6029 Před 5 měsíci +8

    I have finally been able to walk out of a toxic relationship. Am loving myself more, more self aware of what I want,who I am, how I want to be treated and what I value. Am so grateful for this platform. God bless you all

  • @TheeCheleMarie
    @TheeCheleMarie Před 5 měsíci +29

    This video came right on time!! This is where I’m at in my life right now. You nailed it again! Thank you, Feminine Universe!! 🥰💕🥂✨
    I’m proud of finding my voice and finally learning to be selfish for me. Doing what’s best for me and not caring about what others think. I’m also working on getting my certification in Cybersecurity and saving for a house. I love it here! ❤

  • @benitaomolewa
    @benitaomolewa Před 5 měsíci +15

    The video, the comments, the positivity- everything just makes me really happy. 😊😌❤

  • @teresai1877
    @teresai1877 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I'd like to share that I'm eating healthier and going to a dance class/gym regularly (after like 15 years of just focusing mainly on work).

  • @fulltang85
    @fulltang85 Před 5 měsíci +31

    I'm starting to reflect more on myself, not accept other people's crumbs, and putting in the work to move where I want to be!

  • @chelsaebriana
    @chelsaebriana Před 5 měsíci +4

    This channel has been an absolute gem. I spent 2021-2022 STRESSED OUT. I made a choice to return home April of 2023, and I'm so grateful. I work remotely, my mental health has never been better, my relationship is thriving, and I'm pouring everything that I have into my CZcams channel. I'm determined to upgrade myself as a woman...ENTIRELY. Just genuinely wanted to say thank you. This channel forced me to think about my femininity in every aspect. Forever grateful for the shift occurring in my life 🖤

  • @Prmami787
    @Prmami787 Před 5 měsíci +8

    5 years ago I felt very nervous and excited to join a big organization that would pay me to be their face in the artistic and entertainment way. I failed the first time I tried. It took me a year to prepare and go for it again. I have grown so much personally and professionally and I thank the Most High and now I am shifting to the I am the business mindset preparing for the next chapter. I love your channel. Thank you ❤

  • @Annette196146
    @Annette196146 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Been on a 3 year journey almost at 100 # weight loss. I am 62. I have learned so much about myself. Not only am I proud of the weight loss but the way I stayed focus through all challenges and struggles I just and will continue to persevere 🎉🎉

  • @mz6829
    @mz6829 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I'm practicing intermittent fasting and earning 10% more each year. I'm taking supplements daily and setting more boundaries at work. Im trying to delegate, speak up more and be a better communicator. I try to be more honest, humble, and a team player. I try to volunteer at least twice a week and being alright with declining events for church without feeling guilty. I attempt to follow Jesus and pray daily. I try to go to bed and rise earlier. I try to worry less about finances and more about being righteous with God. I try to read more and practice affirmations.
    Thank you for a great video as always. 🙏

  • @user-dm5ob2ok3r
    @user-dm5ob2ok3r Před 5 měsíci +4

    Am now in my unapologetic Era 🎉🎉 congratulations to me🎉🎉 I have just started a new journey ❤

  • @amandagarcia9022
    @amandagarcia9022 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Girl, I don’t know where you learned this - this wisdom- but this is 🔥.
    Thank you so much!!!

  • @steaksandlocs2374
    @steaksandlocs2374 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Thanks for the excellent advice!!
    I am tired of hiding my accomplishments diminishing my successes and feeling guilty for my progress!!
    I am an amazing mother absolutely love being a mom, an awesome wife!! And an incredible nurse! I have built a life from nothing, I mean zero dollars and am now living my absolute greatest life!!
    Thanks to you I released toxic relationships by setting some insane boundaries. I AM IN MY UNAPOLOGETIC ERA!! I give very little thought to what others think about me I am confident in what I know who I am and where I am going!! I am open to learning new things and new ways to improve my life!

  • @guadeloupe61
    @guadeloupe61 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Hi my name is Sabine and I live in Toronto, Canada. I finally made the decision to embrace my gift of baking and I created an instagram page to showcase my pastries. I want to be who I am authentically. Thank you for your content. Sabine.❤

  • @queenamour7496
    @queenamour7496 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I am becoming more disciplined and self aware. I feel like im actually starting to accept on letting go

  • @thebookofdiana6352
    @thebookofdiana6352 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I started grad school and I’m loving it! I’m learning new things, meeting new people, making friends, getting good grades on top of working full time. I know which path that I want to be on and determined to make it there. I’m also learning how to balance my work load with my social duties to my family, friends and boyfriend and making sure I spend quality time with each! So I’m proud that I’ve been able to find that balance, between having fun, being happy, building connections while also getting work done! ✅

  • @SimplySherice
    @SimplySherice Před 5 měsíci +4

    I finally became more selfish with regard to investing in myself. I set boundaries so that I can pray, rest, do skincare, cook, and other things that are helping me morph into the woman I want to be without feeling guilty for doing so.

  • @makishacox6100
    @makishacox6100 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I am learning to be kinder to myself!
    Yes 🙌, it’s all about me .
    I did get a new job thank the lord , it’s definitely a new amazing position!

  • @Faithafahaene
    @Faithafahaene Před 5 měsíci +3

    Last year, I left my comfort zone, put in effort into building my CZcams channel and explored places the little way I could. This year, I want more! I know what I want and I’m going to get it by Gods grace.

  • @Yashica_ChocolateButterfly
    @Yashica_ChocolateButterfly Před 5 měsíci +15

    This video is tap dancing on me 💃 Yeeeessssssssszzzzzzaaaaa to everything that was stated in this video! Thanks for sharing ❤👑 I’m walking into my Destiny unapologetically!!!! Ignoring all the negativity and embracing the positivity.

  • @Naomily
    @Naomily Před 5 měsíci +13

    Thank you for emphasizing no more bare minimum. I needed that reminder. How can I expect a wonderful life while coming from a minimum mindset - expecting minimal quality, putting in minimal efforts...

  • @LoveBeautyFun7
    @LoveBeautyFun7 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I’m walking more in the joy of the Lord, have become more unbothered with negativity from others, lost a little weight over the past week and took more time for my appearance in the mornings. And kept lip gloss on throughout the days.

  • @Auramassagewellness
    @Auramassagewellness Před 5 měsíci +5

    I recently opened my massage and Wellness studio. I have seen huge amounts of growth in the last few months and look forward to what 2024 will bring.

  • @Product_snob
    @Product_snob Před 4 měsíci +4

    Congratulations to ALL in the comments God bless your new level

  • @margaretnyawira640
    @margaretnyawira640 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I am grateful to be part of this community❤. This year is my year to go beyond my self-imposed limits! Turning around every limiting belief to greatness!

  • @Thblssd3
    @Thblssd3 Před 5 měsíci +4

    After going to church and hearing the Word, this video spoke the whole truth! ❤
    I'm celebrating my God-given gifts that propel me professionally and being in a healthy and loving marriage ❤

  • @tessieahaiwe
    @tessieahaiwe Před 5 měsíci +9

    Finally started putting my business 1st above every other tging in my life and for once I'm excited for what's to come.

  • @connectwithboke
    @connectwithboke Před 5 měsíci +4

    Been doing inner healing while learning on how to build my brand , I trust God with my all, and I pray for more grace to be consistency with my projects, let’s go ladies, thanks

  • @darkskinantviv5721
    @darkskinantviv5721 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I love this !!! It nearly brought tears to my eyes because I've committed to putting myself first and disengaging friends, ppl, environments and THINKING patters that no longer serve me..

  • @taradavis5970
    @taradavis5970 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I turned 55 last week and am stepping into this new chapter of life Unapologetically! I am proud of my weight loss thus far, consistency with workouts and mindful eating. I am proud of finally letting go of a toxic relationship that was going nowhere. I am proud of loving myself more and more each day. I have gifted myself 3 fantastic trips this year; one will be a solo trip. Looking forward to concentrating on my business and taking myself on solo dates this year. Cheers to creating the wonderful life I deserve!

  • @Keeev1513
    @Keeev1513 Před 5 měsíci +15

    I knew you would come through for the first video of the year! Excellent content as always 🎉 This is definitely the reminder I needed to be unapologetic about being a full time homemaker ❤ No more shrinking when asked “What I do.” 😊

  • @pishtash88
    @pishtash88 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I just want to take a moment to acknowledge the amount of time, patience, and attention to detail you put into making videos for us. Your effort is appreciated.

  • @LTA78
    @LTA78 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I was a homeless high school drop out, college drop out, single unwed mother. At 47 I'm now a college grad, homeowner with a daughter who have her master's from USC this year. Never count yourself out!!!

  • @natashachisenga9524
    @natashachisenga9524 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Just watching this video had given me confidence that have be lacking in my life

  • @ddeshonddimples
    @ddeshonddimples Před 5 měsíci +3

    Im a single mom and my son is going to college this year. Im also planning to move to Houston for a fresh new start. Im so excited for my next chapter!!

  • @razitatebug7067
    @razitatebug7067 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Happy to have you back mum
    Don't forget the raise your value video
    We are waiting❤❤❤❤❤

  • @oparacassandra7960
    @oparacassandra7960 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I've started wanting more for myself and knowing that I deserve the good things in life without feeling bad about it.

  • @babycakez05
    @babycakez05 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I absolutely love this channel! You have helped me so much on this journey to truly becoming more feminine.
    Ironically enough, earlier this afternoon, I had a moment where someone may have felt I was putting them down because I was sharing what’s a red flag to me. This woman and her partner had tackled about $50k of debt together. While that’s super commendable, I felt having that much debt going into a rship is a huge red flag. It screams undisciplined. I have worked extremely hard to eliminate debt in my life and I can’t tolerate someone who’s careless with spending. I felt the energy shift when we were talking and apologized if I offended her. Then, I see this wonderful video. Thank you 😊

    • @ginsweet6042
      @ginsweet6042 Před 5 měsíci

      Good for you sis! Remember everyone is on a different journey although our paths cross, so no judgment ever, strive to uplift and inspire not condemn: in our interactions with others we're sometimes the observer holding space for someone, at times a student or even the (strategic, emotionally intelligent) teacher. Godspeed!🌹

  • @eminaemi7854
    @eminaemi7854 Před 4 měsíci +2

    After ending my 10 year relationship (he is a wonderfulperson but i was not happy with him anymore)....I did for the first time something JUST for me...eventhough my family was questening it. I went for tree month to Peru, worked as a volunteer and enjoyed MY own company😍 I learnd to do what makes me happy, to Listen to my innerhalb voice. I am still learning but i started to hear my voice and it needed to be alone. ❤

  • @soundbiteswithBlessie
    @soundbiteswithBlessie Před 5 měsíci +3

    Step into your greatness does not negate the bad days, but it compels you to do what you are afraid of nonetheless. I love this.
    I used to always check myself, and this thirst for perfection stagnated me. Thank you so much mama.

  • @ButterflyT23
    @ButterflyT23 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I'm proud and grateful for my opportunity as a Clinical Research Specialist after a two year fight! The learning journey is just beginning 🙏🏾✨️❤.

  • @esthercazeau6464
    @esthercazeau6464 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Thank you for this first video. This year I unapologetically commit to be fully present and focus. I deleted some social media to avoid distractions and so far I feel so much better.

  • @lenaolichwer8534
    @lenaolichwer8534 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I have the introspection, I have the right company of girls who support me and the desire to inspire people the way that other great people - for example Michael Jackson - inspired me. I just need to be more consistent with my writing, my exercise and many other stuff! I'm getting there! ✨🏆✨

  • @ego2118
    @ego2118 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I am becoming. I am reinventing myself. I am now a wife of a CEO, a VP, my husband purchase my dream car and blended family. Pushing to become unapologetic my great self in front of people and taking back everything the enemy has taking from me!

  • @DUCKYRICHY
    @DUCKYRICHY Před 5 měsíci +1

    Learned to put boundaries, and learning to respect those boundaries without being angry or upset.

  • @kimberlywhitehead8612
    @kimberlywhitehead8612 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Received an amazing opportunity due to the excellent reputation I curated and worked hard for in my industry. Blessed and aligned with my greatness! Thank you for the lovely video!

  • @latrenicahuckie
    @latrenicahuckie Před 5 měsíci +4

    I made a promise to myself in January 2023 that I wouldn’t be working in retail during holiday season and the new year 2024. It came true. I have been in a much calm work environment since October 2023. I’m so grateful and thankful to God for helping me bring my manifestation to life. Also, I started working with a life coach this year. She’s helping me create actionable steps to getting my goals met that I have had for years but would always fall short of completing. We got this ladies. This year all our dreams and goals will become our reality.❤🎉

  • @leanertina129
    @leanertina129 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This is the year I became a life coach and business owner and uplevelled my life xx💜

  • @donna-deantelfer-smith2093
    @donna-deantelfer-smith2093 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I have been consistently taking care of me, by working out, eating more mindfully, and sticking to a skincare routine . I have stuck to a morning routine where I read, meditate, and practice journalling. I'm proud of myself because I never thought I would get to this place. Thanks for always inspiring

  • @Toronto_Steppers
    @Toronto_Steppers Před 5 měsíci +5

    Who pressed the like button before even watching the video? ❤

  • @charityakua2983
    @charityakua2983 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Seriously this channel has really been of great help to me. God bless you so much for this channel. In 2022, I wanted to quit my architectural programme in the university, I was really down on myself and didn't know what to do. I had this feeling that I could do something better with my life, then I came across a video about "where I could be in six months". That was when I subscribed to this channel, as at this moment, I didn't quite my architectural programme and due to her other advice on how to plan, my studies is okay now and I picked up photography as a hobby as at the time she talked of "taking up a hobby" . Sincerely I am making a few cash with the photography though in the university still studying architecture. It's quite lengthy but this channel has been a blessing to me. God will continue to announce you🙏🏿